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  • @ryanm7654
    @ryanm7654 9 років тому +178

    It's so interesting how many others commented how they relate to it. One of my friends in my major sang this at a recital, and it was a little less "glamourous" and more intimate. I was fighting tears the whole time. The lyrics are very honest and touching, so it's good to know I'm not the only one feeling like it was written for me.

  • @BrittanyNicole393
    @BrittanyNicole393 8 років тому +197

    Singing this for class...now gotta just focus on not crying while singing this. Literally story of my life.

    • @torlor316
      @torlor316 7 років тому +1

      What background music did you use?

    • @torlor316
      @torlor316 7 років тому

      To clarify, Im asking if you found an instrumental

    • @bekkahall1926
      @bekkahall1926 7 років тому +3

      When I did this for an audition I bought the sheet music and had a pianist

    • @bookworm38886
      @bookworm38886 7 років тому +4

      where did you get the sheet music? I am trying to get it for my audition tomorrow.

    • @hannahgenders2199
      @hannahgenders2199 7 років тому

      Brittany Vadnais .

  • @danielaselvera8319
    @danielaselvera8319 9 років тому +59

    It hurts so much how can I relate to every single one of the words in this song, it feels like I wrote it, and I just love it.

  • @cerridwenjoyce
    @cerridwenjoyce 10 років тому +87

    the part about wearing your heart on your sleeve and people just leaving anyways that really hits home

  • @taylor8814
    @taylor8814 9 років тому +257

    I auditioned with this and the auditors said it gave them goosebumps

  • @reigangoodspeed6193
    @reigangoodspeed6193 8 років тому +277

    comment if you can relate to this song in any way

  • @angelicamiller2049
    @angelicamiller2049 6 років тому +38

    from… read more »
    SAFER LYRICS
    [Casey]
    I know that I have issues
    I face them, I swear
    Think I overcome them
    Then turn - they're still there
    Wish that I was different
    I'd like to let go
    But when I try to change
    There's my past, saying no
    Maybe it's all 'cause of dad
    His new kids, his new wife
    Or why not just blame mom
    Who's been nuts my whole life...
    When you've felt so alone since
    The moment of birth
    And you've struggled to find
    Your own true sense of worth
    When it seems there is no one
    Across this whole earth
    To depend upon, you carry on
    Just like you always do
    'Cause it's safer to rely on you
    Oh, it's safer to rely on you
    Seen a million movies
    All selling true love
    Fantasies I'm not sure
    That I'm worthy of
    Caution to the wind
    My heart's been on display
    Still the end result is
    It's not gone my way
    So when I date some new guy
    Who's a deadbeat or jerk
    At least I'm not so crushed
    When it all doesn't work...
    When you once, unafraid
    Wore your heart on your sleeve
    And the ones that you loved
    Chose to just turn and leave
    Every day it gets harder to
    Somehow believe
    You will survive, so you strive
    Just to keep up your guard
    'Cause it's safer to hold every card
    Oh, it's safer to hold every card
    I feel out of control
    I feel safe on the ground
    I go building up walls
    Yet I wish to be found
    A true contradiction to which I am bound
    As I keep on spinning around and around
    And I look at the people
    Who've worked it all out
    And I wonder why I'm still
    A bundle of doubt and sometimes
    I wanna just stand up and shout:
    "Just commit and deal with it
    Before your life flies by...
    Don't let your life fly by!"
    But is it safer?
    Maybe it's safer
    If I don't try

    • @ks3492
      @ks3492 4 роки тому +3

      Why...

  • @larkin2205
    @larkin2205 7 років тому +22

    I don't think I've ever related to something as much as I relate to this.. This song is just so beautiful, I'll probably be listening to it on repeat non-stop.

  • @missjordanmette8780
    @missjordanmette8780 6 років тому +17

    i have to sing this for a project for class and I havent been able to sing through without crying halfway through... its such a real and raw song

  • @crowdpleasa4495
    @crowdpleasa4495 9 років тому +86

    Geez I've listened to this on repeat for an hour at least.

  • @rambowchickX
    @rambowchickX 9 років тому +22

    I burst out singing in history wile listing to this.... Im in love 😍

  • @kailey3065
    @kailey3065 9 років тому +19

    truly amazing how much I can relate to every line.

  • @artedarmariano3138
    @artedarmariano3138 6 років тому +4

    A worthy song to be shared for whom ever when ever. Beautiful!

  • @rebaevans4725
    @rebaevans4725 9 років тому +33

    I think this song just explained my life.

  • @dazu681
    @dazu681 5 років тому +10

    "It's safer to hold every card" I love these lyrics

  • @onemidnightgone
    @onemidnightgone 7 років тому +6

    Just bought SMTA vol 6 for mezzos and came here because I'd never heard this song before. Holy hell, does this song hit close to home. I'm gonna give this one a go.

  • @Zenithanderson
    @Zenithanderson 5 років тому +22

    "And I look at the people who worked it all out and I wonder why I'm such a bundle of doubt and sometimes I wanna just stand up and shout JUST COMMIT AND DEAL WITH IT "

  • @rachelstevenson5504
    @rachelstevenson5504 9 років тому +31

    This describes my life one hundred percent...... And now I'm crying

  • @hugepotterhead9088
    @hugepotterhead9088 5 років тому +67

    I’m singing this in a competition today 🤞
    Wish me luck!!
    Edit: I came first with a mark of 87!

    • @lolamatos2610
      @lolamatos2610 4 роки тому

      which comp??

    • @sofiacovelli1320
      @sofiacovelli1320 4 роки тому

      @@lolamatos2610 it was the Kiwanis Festival and n Niagara Falls. Lol I just saw my own comment after a year because I remembered this song and came back to listen to it ahaha

    • @lolamatos2610
      @lolamatos2610 4 роки тому

      @@sofiacovelli1320 are you part of international thespian society?? ITS

    • @perryfaulk07
      @perryfaulk07 3 роки тому

      Congrats! And I’m a huge potterhead too! And btw which cut do u recommend I use bc for my school audition I can only use 30 seconds of the song

  • @swimming5sosfamerchef993
    @swimming5sosfamerchef993 9 років тому +33

    The reason why this song is truly amazing is because so many people can relate

  • @dovey751
    @dovey751 6 років тому +11

    I’ve been searching for an audition song for literally months and I finally found a good one that is actually in my range (Alto)

    • @get_jinxed.
      @get_jinxed. 5 років тому +5

      Its_Jay_Jay this song is more of a mezzo or high alto, so be careful with it.

    • @alexslide333
      @alexslide333 Рік тому +1

      Damn Im a soprano and this was perfect for me 😭

  • @skylarlankford3229
    @skylarlankford3229 8 років тому +98

    I would love to sing this for my next audition but guess who's an alto? Me +! whoopdy-doo

    • @jesikasmith8352
      @jesikasmith8352 8 років тому +24

      +Skylar Lankford with proper support an alto can definitely sing this! There are some high-ish belt notes, but it mostly lives in a very alto-friendly place

    • @skylarlankford3229
      @skylarlankford3229 8 років тому

      Jesika Smith If I belt loud enough I can hit the notes but in general I have a really low voice that hits most tenor notes

    • @sophiewhite9068
      @sophiewhite9068 8 років тому +4

      Just sing it an octave lower

    • @bethanybarnes5836
      @bethanybarnes5836 8 років тому +8

      your not the only Alto singer who wants to sing this! I am the same I can hit the notes if I belt it. just go into the song with confidence and you'll do amazing! x

    • @kendallm.5173
      @kendallm.5173 7 років тому +1

      Best of Sophie yeah transposing it should do! maybe just two or three steps lower

  • @awesomealla360
    @awesomealla360 11 років тому +2

    I've Been looking for this everywhere! Thanks

  • @sydclem
    @sydclem 5 років тому +2

    god i love this song & krysta so much AAAH

  • @ondrahribeiro-wolf6198
    @ondrahribeiro-wolf6198 2 роки тому +6

    My vocal teachers picked solo projects for the class to work on and I git this in. I feel called out cause damn this is relatable

  • @grobanite223
    @grobanite223 10 років тому +14

    I love this song! Thanks for the lyrics (and for using proper grammar - so rare these days)!

  • @twentynekilljys8610
    @twentynekilljys8610 7 років тому +92

    Would this work for a Veronica Sawyer (from Heathers) audition?

  • @EmilyBateTho
    @EmilyBateTho 10 років тому +45

    Sounds like Lea Michele as Rachel Berry in loads of parts of this song!! love it

  • @vittley1826
    @vittley1826 6 років тому +2

    Thank you soo much 😭

  • @lucciola9647
    @lucciola9647 Рік тому

    the first time i listened to this song i was actually crying. and this barely ever happens to me when listening to music- many cause me to have tears in my eyes, but not many make me really cry like this one- it’s so beautiful and relatable as someone whose life is very similar to this

  • @Abigailseville24
    @Abigailseville24 10 років тому +30

    Anyone know where I could find a karaoke/instrumental version?

  • @wisdom6073
    @wisdom6073 3 роки тому +5

    Planning on auditioning with this for Addams. Wish me luck.

  • @natashaweatherspoon3558
    @natashaweatherspoon3558 11 років тому

    I thought that just this afternoon. This made my day :D

  • @lunahex
    @lunahex 4 роки тому +3

    oh god... this hit something in me

  • @coryzlife
    @coryzlife 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm singing this starting at 2:04 for an Alex Brightman masterclass, he's my total idol so wish me luck!

  • @alicianelson1252
    @alicianelson1252 6 років тому +4

    After my mom died I had trouble opening myself up to other people and drove them away then I realized I was lonely. Really it's better to lose someone knowing you had time with them then not have time with them at all.

  • @eveningstar8757
    @eveningstar8757 7 місяців тому

    “I go building up walls, yet I wish to be found/A true contradiction to which I am bound” literal truth
    I never wanted to be a problem to others and never told anyone when I was upset but I expected them to notice

  • @nothingxx3632
    @nothingxx3632 5 років тому +5

    this is such a good song I’m so sad it’s underrated

  • @junritchiecaparidaspear6903
    @junritchiecaparidaspear6903 9 років тому +4

    very amazing👍👍👍

  • @Sophiya340
    @Sophiya340 7 років тому +7

    Its definitely much, much safer if I don't try. Less painful and disappointing -- need to get that wall way back up where it was before I think.

  • @ms.monshaydontplay896
    @ms.monshaydontplay896 8 років тому +3

    I so love this song💜💜💜

  • @howlongleft
    @howlongleft 11 років тому +2

    This is the first song I've EVER been able to relate so...

  • @hugepotterhead9088
    @hugepotterhead9088 6 років тому +5

    Such an underrated song

  • @AbbySparks10
    @AbbySparks10 9 років тому +11

    This is the story of my life :(

  • @theresebickford
    @theresebickford 11 років тому +3

    Great job on your video! Could you please make a karaoke version?
    Thank you!

  • @laramie8052
    @laramie8052 5 років тому +22

    good audition song for “The Addams Family” ?

  • @kinnunencorp2146
    @kinnunencorp2146 4 роки тому +3

    I use this song at singing lessons.

  • @ameliedekegel7504
    @ameliedekegel7504 3 роки тому +2

    going to audition w this song for wednesday from the addams family :))

  • @rominahughes7289
    @rominahughes7289 4 роки тому +2

    Who wrote this and what is the musical about would really appreciate any answers 👍🏻

    • @shiningserenity4785
      @shiningserenity4785 4 роки тому +1

      Not sure if you're still wondering. I don't know who wrote it but the musical is about... well, a first date. Basically stereotypical nice but confused guy and bad girl with a really sad past. Lots of fun songs. Hope this helped~

  • @wendyluong3699
    @wendyluong3699 3 роки тому

    Mmm. Bootiful 🤩.

  • @lillianc2506
    @lillianc2506 7 років тому +8

    is this a good soprano audition song?

    • @aniomi4096
      @aniomi4096 5 років тому +1

      @Sofia I'd think it could be too low for a standard soprano, not that it won't be possible but it won't sound as good. I'd personally think it's more of a mezzo/ high alto song

    • @get_jinxed.
      @get_jinxed. 5 років тому

      Aniomi yeah. I’m using this song to audition at my school and I’m a mezzo.

    • @howverydeadly23
      @howverydeadly23 3 роки тому

      Nope. Wouldn’t show off your soprano range well. It’s best for Altos/Mezzo-Sopranos

  • @lifeoflouka2290
    @lifeoflouka2290 6 років тому +4

    the lyrics WOW

  • @caitlynwade9462
    @caitlynwade9462 8 років тому +9

    If I were to use this song for an audition would you consider it an uptempo or a ballad?

    • @sydnibringhurst4546
      @sydnibringhurst4546 7 років тому +1

      Depends on the type of show you're auditioning for. If the show has more uptempo or ballad, I would let that determine which you decide :) Best of luck!!

    • @ks3492
      @ks3492 4 роки тому +1

      Sydni Bringhurst Hes asking if the SONG is uptempo or ballet...

  • @Beeadora
    @Beeadora 11 років тому

    Thank u. :)

  • @2011jennacat
    @2011jennacat 8 років тому +1

    this is my life in a song.

  • @musicalshows3138
    @musicalshows3138 6 років тому +3

    Does someone have the sheet music for this? 😍

  • @kierstinkoopman2575
    @kierstinkoopman2575  11 років тому

    No problem! I'm making the rest of the album too

  • @MPL233019
    @MPL233019 6 років тому +6

    that I have issues
    I face them, I swear.
    Think I overcome them
    Then turn - they're still there.
    Wish that I was different
    I'd like to let go.
    But when I try to change
    There's my past, saying no.
    Maybe it's all 'cause of dad,
    His new kids, his new wife
    Or why not just blame mom
    Who's been nuts my whole life...
    When you've felt so alone since
    The moment of brith
    And you're struggled to find
    Your own true sense of worth
    When it seems there is no one
    Across this whole earth
    To depend upon, you carry on
    Just like you always do
    'Cause it's safer to rely on you.
    Oh, it's safer to rely on you.
    Seen a million movies
    All selling true love.
    Fantasies I'm not sure
    That I'm worthy of.
    Caution to the wind
    My heart's been on display.
    Still the end result is
    It's not gone my way.
    So when I date some new guy
    Who's a deadbeat or jerk
    At least I'm not so crushed
    When it all doesn't work...
    When you once, unafraid,
    Wore your heart on your sleeve
    And the ones that you loved
    Chose to just turn and leave
    Every day it gets harder to
    Somehow believe
    You will survive, so you strive
    Just to keep up your guard
    'Cause it's safer to hold every card.
    Oh, it's safer to hold every card.
    I feel out of control
    I feel safe on the ground.
    I go building up walls
    Yet I wish to be found.
    A true contradiction to which I am bound
    As I keep on spinning around and around...
    And I look at the people
    Who've worked it all out
    And I wonder why I'm still
    A bundle of doubt and sometimes
    I wanna just stand up and shout...
    "Just commit and deal with it
    Before your life flies by...
    Don't let your life fly by ..."
    But is it safer?
    Maybe it's safer
    If I don't try

  • @krdowns01
    @krdowns01 10 років тому +4

    Sounds like the lead singer from evanseance

  • @NadiaStracciolini
    @NadiaStracciolini 8 років тому

    all in my feels.

  • @Mafuyu24542
    @Mafuyu24542 4 роки тому +1

    Who here still listens in 2020?

  • @katelynviszoki3832
    @katelynviszoki3832 5 років тому +5

    Omg lea Michelle would sing this so well

  • @kierstinkoopman2575
    @kierstinkoopman2575  11 років тому

    It does!!

  • @AmazingUnicorn15
    @AmazingUnicorn15 11 років тому

    Yayyy!!!!

  • @RoyalPancake_
    @RoyalPancake_ Рік тому

    This reminds me, of words fail

  • @Livlatte
    @Livlatte 2 роки тому

    I’m auditioning for first date at my school soon! Using this comment section to make a wish for luck 🤞

  • @orcinusvox5107
    @orcinusvox5107 2 роки тому

    yes

  • @nicolereyes4412
    @nicolereyes4412 10 років тому

    this is literally me (in some ways) but it's so relatable T.T

  • @elenabelacastre7789
    @elenabelacastre7789 5 років тому

    V WHY DID U PUT FIRST AUDITION???? WAS IT, OR WAS IT NOT???, I DONT KNOW U, THATS WHY IM ASKING?

  • @JesLaurensLife
    @JesLaurensLife 7 років тому +6

    I know that I have issues
    I face them, I swear.
    Think I overcome them
    Then turn - they're still there.
    Wish that I was different
    I'd like to let go.
    But when I try to change
    There's my past, saying no.
    Maybe it's all 'cause of dad,
    His new kids, his new wife
    Or why not just blame mom
    Who's been nuts my whole life...
    When you've felt so alone since
    The moment of brith
    And you're struggled to find
    Your own true sense of worth
    When it seems there is no one
    Across this whole earth
    To depend upon, you carry on
    Just like you always do
    'Cause it's safer to rely on you.
    Oh, it's safer to rely on you.
    Seen a million movies
    All selling true love.
    Fantasies I'm not sure
    That I'm worthy of.
    Caution to the wind
    My heart's been on display.
    Still the end result is
    It's not gone my way.
    So when I date some new guy
    Who's a deadbeat or jerk
    At least I'm not so crushed
    When it all doesn't work...
    When you once, unafraid,
    Wore your heart on your sleeve
    And the ones that you loved
    Chose to just turn and leave
    Every day it gets harder to
    Somehow believe
    You will survive, so you strive
    Just to keep up your guard
    'Cause it's safer to hold every card.
    Oh, it's safer to hold every card.
    I feel out of control
    I feel safe on the ground.
    I go building up walls
    Yet I wish to be found.
    A true contradiction to which I am bound
    As I keep on spinning around and around...
    And I look at the people
    Who've worked it all out
    And I wonder why I'm still
    A bundle of doubt and sometimes
    I wanna just stand up and shout...
    "Just commit and deal with it
    Before your life flies by...
    Don't let your life fly by ..."
    But is it safer?
    Maybe it's safer
    If I don't try

  • @kirbylee1487
    @kirbylee1487 4 роки тому

    Why does this relate to my crumby relationship with my father

  • @maddierenee2847
    @maddierenee2847 10 місяців тому

    1:32 - for my audition cut teehee

  • @jkrfan7
    @jkrfan7 2 роки тому

    this song is pretty much Abby from ER

  • @ayoatlas3546
    @ayoatlas3546 6 років тому

    0:00-1:04

  • @ashleighelizabethmurray3893
    @ashleighelizabethmurray3893 8 років тому +2

    Is this an overdone audition song?

    • @sydney589
      @sydney589 8 років тому +2

      shattered beautyx It's because you can show that you can show emotion and it's a great song to showcase you singing talents

    • @oliviasalmond4273
      @oliviasalmond4273 7 років тому +1

      YES, everybody sings it the same

  • @theatreamy1326
    @theatreamy1326 5 років тому

    Is this available in German?

  • @brianwaldron6263
    @brianwaldron6263 7 років тому

    ❤️

  • @annekavandervelde8198
    @annekavandervelde8198 2 роки тому

    1:09 don’t mind me i just got an audition

  • @krishapxtel
    @krishapxtel 2 роки тому

    0:05

  • @margaretalthaus8632
    @margaretalthaus8632 6 років тому +1

    yeet

  • @audreyrice2791
    @audreyrice2791 4 роки тому

    2:17

  • @SayWhatTaylor
    @SayWhatTaylor 11 років тому

    Sounds so much like something Natalie Goodman would sing.

  • @zariacanizares9943
    @zariacanizares9943 Рік тому

    if anyone is here auditioning for jacks production heathers march 2023, hii

  • @madisonbrown6160
    @madisonbrown6160 2 роки тому

    For me: 2:04

  • @SaferWafer
    @SaferWafer 3 роки тому

    Hello i have daddy issues and am named Safer 😍☝

  • @wesjohnson266
    @wesjohnson266 3 роки тому

    Jesus loves you 👏🏰👏🏰

  • @madeleineboutwell3535
    @madeleineboutwell3535 4 роки тому

    H

  • @youshallsufferthewrathofth6307
    @youshallsufferthewrathofth6307 9 місяців тому

    2:04