How to spot a liar - Pamela Meyer

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  • Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
  • On any given day we're lied to from 10 to 200 times, and the clues to detect those lie can be subtle and counter-intuitive. Pamela Meyer, author of Liespotting, shows the manners and "hotspots" used by those trained to recognize deception -- and she argues honesty is a value worth preserving.
    Talk by Pamela Meyer.

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  • @MAGNETO-i1i
    @MAGNETO-i1i 9 років тому +96

    7:24 - you're all welcome

  • @Shay45
    @Shay45 4 роки тому +40

    These type of videos make social awkward people look like constant liars

    • @elizabethblackwell6242
      @elizabethblackwell6242 4 роки тому +5

      That's because what she's advocating is total nonsense. It's not validated woowoo.

  • @StrangerHappened
    @StrangerHappened 7 років тому +17

    I would prefer to not be in situations where I have to lie. That necessity is humiliating me.

  • @wolfRAMM
    @wolfRAMM 11 років тому +12

    18 minutes of worming into confidence with the goal of self-advertisement. I spotted you

  • @felixdogan6776
    @felixdogan6776 Рік тому +3

    Imagine everyone watches this video and now we have more complex ways of lying *it would be like a bacteria gaining resistance to antibiotics, chaos in other words*

  • @KathBorup
    @KathBorup 3 роки тому +3

    I don't agree with the idea that only innocent people will cooperate in order to help people 'get to the truth'. A lot of criminals (who were later found to be guilty) cooperate in investigations and answer questions even though they are trying cover up what they did.
    Saying something like 'hey it might be someone in payroll that forged those checks' does not necessarily indicate honestly. Liars often shift the blame on others!
    The problem with these examples is that there is hindsight bias here. Studying people we know were lying is not much of science.

  • @SeanWMODonnell
    @SeanWMODonnell 3 роки тому +10

    Every characteristic of Bill "Eugenics King" Gates....smiling while talking about death....

    • @madouc5754
      @madouc5754 2 роки тому

      What are you talking about?

  • @Mines-in9rg
    @Mines-in9rg 2 роки тому +1

    Like, the person i’m Looking at now Listening to someone tell them this in her earpiece.

  • @nickydaviesnsdpharms3084
    @nickydaviesnsdpharms3084 4 місяці тому

    Henry Oberlander can be found on Google, on Wikipedia although it is 10 years later lol

  • @WoundedPride
    @WoundedPride 9 місяців тому

    How lie can undermine democracy, if lie is "cooperative act"?

  • @padswaggle
    @padswaggle Рік тому +1

    😉🤨😏 these are all the other asymmetrical facial expressions that I guess you haven't noticed. Funny that there is no contempt emoticon. Maybe that's why people confuse smirking face with contempt. A smirk may be a sense of superiority but it's not as bad as contempt.

  • @AnyaArisohn
    @AnyaArisohn 10 років тому

    Awesome

  • @joekusnierz6258
    @joekusnierz6258 2 роки тому

    Just because you have lied
    Does not make you a liar..
    why do people..?
    Many lie as vanity like...
    Who you know.. ✔
    what you got... ✔
    Where you've have been.. ✔
    but
    There are lies of want & need that has a big difference between the 2
    Along
    With the one of exaggeration witch is both a lie & truth..
    Now how can you spot that..?
    because
    Not everybody lies the same way & is subject to change with mood & if there's consequence....
    By
    comparing you behaviors to what there doing
    Go with what you know...
    & pay attention to
    variations in tone of voice & mannerisms
    Then
    you will start to hear & see acts in human behavior
    because
    there are only so many ways One can act in any given situation with emotions affecting the out come....

  • @eviljoker303
    @eviljoker303 Рік тому

    Do one on family murderer Chris Watts .

  • @Chocolate_milk493
    @Chocolate_milk493 3 роки тому +13

    2 words 1 name BILL GATES

  • @scitto7707
    @scitto7707 5 років тому +1

    This taste... Is the taste of a liar!

  • @tovwilliams294
    @tovwilliams294 14 днів тому

    that last sentence is a lie

  • @elizabethwinsor-strumpetqueen
    @elizabethwinsor-strumpetqueen 3 роки тому +3

    ITS EASY ! - all humans lie .....even if we don't think we do ...

  • @TheThunderStrikes
    @TheThunderStrikes Рік тому

    Lol Coco

  • @amircikakramov3675
    @amircikakramov3675 2 місяці тому

    You should learn how to speak properly! You ain't speaking for only the United States. Part of your speeches are completely not understandable without subtitles for people who are learning English. Then why are you in TED then?

  • @billybob7145
    @billybob7145 10 років тому +5

    Pseudoscience! Oh wait... I think I spotted one, her name is Pamela Meyer.

    • @dyschromotopia
      @dyschromotopia 4 роки тому +2

      is it claimed to be a science? lies are difficult to tell & every lie is a contrived narrative to hide a truth, therefore a lie will always have a tell which of course, is only indicative, not conclusive.

    • @billybob7145
      @billybob7145 4 роки тому +1

      @@dyschromotopia I agree there can be cues and clues inadvertently projected by people who at some level feel they are communicating something they don't believe themselves. There are also those who can't distinguish between their personal objectives and objective reality. We all carry personal bias which influences what we perceive as truth or a lie. The concepts of truth and dishonesty are mental constructs which are frequently manipulated. Also. an individuals projected sense of confidence or insecurity can easily be misinterpreted. Thanks!

    • @elizabethblackwell6242
      @elizabethblackwell6242 2 роки тому +1

      I love the way she mentions "research" and yet fails to cite any credible references.