I believe the young lao guy put something in ur drink that u didnt see. Why would he take u to a room to rest?? And u acknowledge he was very sober…so sounds like he was lying to u that he didnt do anything to u. I believe those Lao friend are jealous of ur marriage and they probably didnt like how ur husband treated their wives. Therefore, this was the result. They set u and ur husband up to ruin u both because ur ex husband kept digging their wives. Sadly, u were the one who had to take the consequences. In the end, at least u raise a very handsome and smart boy who treats u with love…different from the rest of ur other kids. Neeg zoo cas yeej tau zoo in the end. Appreciate all that happened to u…neeg zoo will always be rewarded with more love and peace. Thank you for sharing. A lesson is don’t trust anyone especially lawv tsis yog hmong. Even hmong, u cannot even trust. Be smart next time.
Sometimes, other people are so quick to judge what is right and wrong. Shaming others is the beginning of depression, suicidal, and divorce. 😢 Thank you for sharing your story. Drunk/drug rape is a real thing. Please be aware of taking open drinks from people you may or may not know.
Thank you for sharing your story. Although your marriage is over because of what happened. Thank you for not terminating your pregnancy. Life is precious and a child is innocent. Because you are a good persom. You are blessed with a beautiful son.
The thing is that they found her naked with the Laotian man. 2nd, she got pregnant from that Laotian man. She is automatically violated culture norm and legally lost this case.
Tus niam tsev, koj ruam zog lawm. Maybe you're at fault, yog yus tsis tau ua, tsis txhaum then you won't submitted to his demands. If you're innocent, then how come you don't report rape?
Sister, it doesn't matter bc he was looking for an excuse to divorce you. You're screwed if you don't go with him to those parties, you're screwed if you go. It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't kind of thing. Koj tsis mus los nws hais tias koj npab nauj tsis haib, koj mus los nws hais tias koj liam deev hluas. Ntxov mus ntxov zoo. Let karma take care of his loser @$$.
Xav sib deev kuj hais qhov tseeb kiag es koj hais npaum li neeg ntiaj teb tsis tau qaug cawv dua li yog tuag mas thiaj tias tsis nco qab tom ntej tom qab li paub kawg koj txhob txwm tab meeg deev xwb koj niag txiv ua tsis txiv kiag
Lady its your fault. You need to grow up and take responsibility for your actions. The very fact that you drank so much that you didnt even remember anything showed how irresponsible you are for your actions. Your husband may be to blame for exposing you to these gatherings but you're the one that cant control your own behavior.
Vuag txoj dab neeg no mas tsis pom qab yuav BLAMED leej twg li nawb. Tab sis yus yog poj niam hmoob ces yus yeej yog tus txhaum xwb cov txiv coj li no ces ntxov nrsuj los ntxov zoo os
Txiv neej thiab pojniam ces thaum pw ua ke qaug cawv thiab npias lawm ces yeej kawg mag ua xwb. Li no los, kuv yog ib tug txiv neej koj yog tus txiv dev liam tshaj you are Americanized for nothing shiaj... Koj cob koj tus pojniam mus rau qhov tsis zoo xwb ne es tseem muaj cai liam yus tus pojniam tias liam, tseem koj yog tus txiv tsev es ib tug pojniam muab koj ua koj caij ces koj yeej kawg ua xwb thiab mas. Koj tus txiv dev txhaum 100% na, tseem kuv los kuv yeej paub tias tim kuv vim kuv coj kuv pojniam mus rau lawv ua ne. Txiv dev liam ces yog koj xwb os nawb. Peb txiv neej ces nqaij txog tes ces kawg noj xwb, tus tub hluas Nplog ntawv yeej muab tshuaj ua kom koj tsaug zog xwb li no koj thiaj tsis hnov ne.
Yog lawm tsis tha nug li os ib tug txiv neej thiab poj niam pws ua ke tsis ua dab tsis mas ntshe dev thiaj ntseeg xwb ho qhov qaug cawv lawm koj tsis paub dab tsi li hai npaum neeg tsis tau qaug cawv hlo es koj ib leeg thiaj txawj qaug xwb yom
Your husband didnt "literally" qhia koj ua and to sleep with someone. Qhov ntawm kom koj ua koj xwb os. Your husband may enjoy the parties and entertainment with cov nplog but thats his enjoyment in life and he is willing to take u along with. It was only a matter of time before u met and find an attractive nplog(which u admit) that you were willing to go alone with him. You were "aware" and concious of what u were doing . Sure, he might have spike ur drink or whatever but let me ask u this. If he's an older guy and is not attractive, would you have gone with him? Exactly. This is your doing yourself however your husband is partially at fault for taking u there. Nonetheless whats done is done. If i were u, getting drugged and raped that result in pregnancy, i would go after the guy. Idk why u didnt. Unless u slept with him willingly and refused to admit. Smh.. idk. But good luck.
Cas koj ho tsi foob tus nplog tias nws quab yuam koj thaum koj qaug cawv no mal yog koj ncaj ncees tiag nal, txawm 3 xyoo rau 10 xyoo koj tseem foob tau kawg yog koj qaug cawv tiag es nws quab yuam koj tiag, koj kuj ua child support rau tus nplog them nws tus nqi qau thiab yog muaj tiag li ntawd nal vim koj tsi tso cai rau nplog ua koj es koj mag quab yuam xwb. Koj tsi muaj peev xwm foob tus nplog vim nws quab yuam koj no ces koj yeej txaus siab nrog nplog muaj kev zoo siab xwb, muaj cai nyob tsi lig muaj cai foob tau kawg vim nws quab yuam koj xwb. Koj tus txiv tsi tau qhia koj ua li ntawd os poj hmoob aw!! yog koj tus txiv qhia koj ua mas nws yeej ua2 nplog muaj me nyuam thiab mas thiaj tim nws qhia koj thiab coj koj mus ua sib pauv os nawb es yog koj ua rau koj xwb tsi muaj neeg ua rau koj.
Oyo liam sib phim li os..koj nco ntsoov tias txiv hmoob mas lawv zoo ua xwb tabsis yog koj ua phim li nws ces koj yog tus mag nrauj mag cem 100% xwb nawb..cov txiv dev hmoob no mas lim hiam heev os..
You should’ve report it to the daddy son and open investigation on the medicine given to you that night. Your man was naive and egocentric with too much pride. Let him go. He was probably in the planning of all this so he could have an excuse to leave.
Tsis tim koj niag txiv 100% tim koj 50% koj twb paub twb pom tias koj niag txiv mus nrog nplog es nws mus ua li cas es koj tseem pheej nrog koj niag txiv mus xawj mawm thiab naw mus thiab mus ces tau me nyuam puag xwb
nej ua li niag tsov tom txiv dev liam no hais ces twb tsis yog ntsib quav dais ov mog, ua ntau ces ntsib quav hmoob pom dab xwb ov mog hmoob nco nroov tseg cim tseg ov mog,
Koj twb rua muag plias mus ua lavoos tag ces nrog nplog mus hau tshuaj ne. Tus txiv Liam yog tus pojniam tsis liam mas thaum tsim los koj yeej hu tas luaj mus kuaj Dr. Seb puas yog lawv muab tshuaj koj hau lawv mam nrog koj pw
You’re in denial. Based on your story, you knew damn well you slept with that Laos guy. You tried to blame it on the alcohol and the meds they gave you. If you said you didn’t remember sleeping with him then why not file a Police report? What if it’s a date rape drugs he gave you?
Tsis yog accident. Yog txhob txwm vim thaum xub thawj koj twb hais tias koj tsis nyiam cov nplog thaub laus tab sis koj nyiam tus tub hluas nplog no es koj thiaj mus coj nws los nrog koj ua las voos ces thaum kawg thiaj tau lub I luv luv you ne
Sister, sounded like you were drugged. Yeej muaj ib cov tshuaj es meska hais tias ua rau yus tus kheej tsis nco qab na. The date rape drug. Ua cas koj tsis coj mus rau tus nplog na? He might have done it on purpose and not an accident.
I don’t believe she told her whole story. She was jealous about her husband and purposely did it. She did say that the Laotian guy was young and a good looking so she asked him to dance. This kinds of action tells a lots about her story. She must like him and wanted to sleep with him and pretended she was drunk and did not remember anything. People are not stupid to believe this.. I think she knew what was going on and did it to retaliate her husband because he danced and talked with younger Lao women. The husband is a foolish
You and your husband deserve each other, the brightest of the brightest
Both are at fault. His excuse is to get rid of her. Her excuse is to cheat on him…lol…!
I believe the young lao guy put something in ur drink that u didnt see. Why would he take u to a room to rest?? And u acknowledge he was very sober…so sounds like he was lying to u that he didnt do anything to u. I believe those Lao friend are jealous of ur marriage and they probably didnt like how ur husband treated their wives. Therefore, this was the result. They set u and ur husband up to ruin u both because ur ex husband kept digging their wives. Sadly, u were the one who had to take the consequences. In the end, at least u raise a very handsome and smart boy who treats u with love…different from the rest of ur other kids. Neeg zoo cas yeej tau zoo in the end. Appreciate all that happened to u…neeg zoo will always be rewarded with more love and peace. Thank you for sharing. A lesson is don’t trust anyone especially lawv tsis yog hmong. Even hmong, u cannot even trust. Be smart next time.
Sometimes, other people are so quick to judge what is right and wrong. Shaming others is the beginning of depression, suicidal, and divorce. 😢 Thank you for sharing your story. Drunk/drug rape is a real thing. Please be aware of taking open drinks from people you may or may not know.
Thank you for sharing your story. Although your marriage is over because of what happened. Thank you for not terminating your pregnancy. Life is precious and a child is innocent. Because you are a good persom. You are blessed with a beautiful son.
Some people won’t believe this but there are people out there who black out when they are drunk. Maybe this is a blessing in disguise 😂
Koj cov neej tsa tsis khov vim koj tus txiv coj koj mus ua liam sim tag, tiag2 koj cov neej tsa yuav tsum muab koj tus txiv nplua nyiaj kho koj thiaj yog
Love it!!!!! Alcohol is to blame. Nice young Lao guy, I would to. Should have called the Lao dad.
The thing is that they found her naked with the Laotian man. 2nd, she got pregnant from that Laotian man. She is automatically violated culture norm and legally lost this case.
If y’all never blacked out from alcohol y’all don’t know.. you really don’t remember anything
He doesn’t deserve you. A child is a blessing. Be happy
I have a hard time believing u that you're that innocent.
Tim koj tsis coj tus thiab ne. If you weren't trying to make your husband jealous, this never would've happened.
Congratulations on the baby! Kids are innocent
You should let the real father know about the kid. Even if you dont want anything ti do with him, you kid needs a father
Bahaha u knew what u did.. and he knew what he did.. blaming it on the alcohol bahah
Oh that young Laos guy remembers alright, bet he got a video too.
Sheesh. Smh. Even teenage girls know better than to let guys put anything in their drinks.
Tus niam tsev, koj ruam zog lawm. Maybe you're at fault, yog yus tsis tau ua, tsis txhaum then you won't submitted to his demands. If you're innocent, then how come you don't report rape?
Good job. Muab nws lub tshuaj nws xav2 noj coj los noj kiag rau nws ntsia kom nws paub tab kiag
One night stand do happen, and it does cause pregnancy! This is why it's good to stay sober during parties and don't drink anything people give you.
What an embarrassing story for both...your husband f up but you did as well. Own up to it.
Sister, it doesn't matter bc he was looking for an excuse to divorce you. You're screwed if you don't go with him to those parties, you're screwed if you go. It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't kind of thing. Koj tsis mus los nws hais tias koj npab nauj tsis haib, koj mus los nws hais tias koj liam deev hluas. Ntxov mus ntxov zoo. Let karma take care of his loser @$$.
Nrog koj tu siab niam hluas, koj raug sawv daws ua phem rau koj 😢😢
Niam tsev Koj dag xwb , txawm qhaug npaum cas los yeej hnov kawg
He did say dance but don’t go into the dark spot. She took it to the dark spot lol.
Tseem yuav raug npaum cas los yeej tsawm nco qab. Tsis tau muaj ib zog es kuv raug es tsis nco qab li as....
Nplog noj ntses es lawv thiaj tsis rog😂😂😂
Yep
Koj tswv yim tsawg zog lawm os, me ntxhais aw!
Two wrongs don’t make it right SMH
Xav sib deev kuj hais qhov tseeb kiag es koj hais npaum li neeg ntiaj teb tsis tau qaug cawv dua li yog tuag mas thiaj tias tsis nco qab tom ntej tom qab li paub kawg koj txhob txwm tab meeg deev xwb koj niag txiv ua tsis txiv kiag
Lady its your fault. You need to grow up and take responsibility for your actions. The very fact that you drank so much that you didnt even remember anything showed how irresponsible you are for your actions. Your husband may be to blame for exposing you to these gatherings but you're the one that cant control your own behavior.
Vuag txoj dab neeg no mas tsis pom qab yuav BLAMED leej twg li nawb. Tab sis yus yog poj niam hmoob ces yus yeej yog tus txhaum xwb cov txiv coj li no ces ntxov nrsuj los ntxov zoo os
Cov neeg liam li koj tus txiv dev no ntxov nrauj ntxov dim. Nws yeej liam hauv lub siab.
Cas koj tseem tsi ntiab nws tawm nawb. Txiv dev liam ntaw tsim nyog tawm hauv lub tsev mus ho.
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉zoo kawg koj twb tau nplog tug nruag kub log lawm. kav tswj zoo siab hlub2 koj tug me tub kom yuav yog tug hlub koj os mos. tej me nyuam tsw muaj kev txhaum .tau noob nplog thiaj tsw liam li koj niag txiv 😂😂😂😂
Let's hear from the husband side.
Txiv neej thiab pojniam ces thaum pw ua ke qaug cawv thiab npias lawm ces yeej kawg mag ua xwb. Li no los, kuv yog ib tug txiv neej koj yog tus txiv dev liam tshaj you are Americanized for nothing shiaj... Koj cob koj tus pojniam mus rau qhov tsis zoo xwb ne es tseem muaj cai liam yus tus pojniam tias liam, tseem koj yog tus txiv tsev es ib tug pojniam muab koj ua koj caij ces koj yeej kawg ua xwb thiab mas. Koj tus txiv dev txhaum 100% na, tseem kuv los kuv yeej paub tias tim kuv vim kuv coj kuv pojniam mus rau lawv ua ne. Txiv dev liam ces yog koj xwb os nawb. Peb txiv neej ces nqaij txog tes ces kawg noj xwb, tus tub hluas Nplog ntawv yeej muab tshuaj ua kom koj tsaug zog xwb li no koj thiaj tsis hnov ne.
Yog lawm tsis tha nug li os ib tug txiv neej thiab poj niam pws ua ke tsis ua dab tsis mas ntshe dev thiaj ntseeg xwb ho qhov qaug cawv lawm koj tsis paub dab tsi li hai npaum neeg tsis tau qaug cawv hlo es koj ib leeg thiaj txawj qaug xwb yom
Nws tsis tu yus lo txhob tus siab yus twb Tau deev tus tub hlua nplog ib hmo ua nwg pov khawv nkau lawm ces ua siab ntev nawb
Hmhmhm zoo tswv yim kawg!!!! Siv lub tswv qaug xwb thiaj tau ntau, hehehehe😂😂😂😂😂
Your husband didnt "literally" qhia koj ua and to sleep with someone. Qhov ntawm kom koj ua koj xwb os. Your husband may enjoy the parties and entertainment with cov nplog but thats his enjoyment in life and he is willing to take u along with. It was only a matter of time before u met and find an attractive nplog(which u admit) that you were willing to go alone with him. You were "aware" and concious of what u were doing . Sure, he might have spike ur drink or whatever but let me ask u this. If he's an older guy and is not attractive, would you have gone with him? Exactly. This is your doing yourself however your husband is partially at fault for taking u there. Nonetheless whats done is done.
If i were u, getting drugged and raped that result in pregnancy, i would go after the guy. Idk why u didnt. Unless u slept with him willingly and refused to admit. Smh.. idk. But good luck.
Koj sim nug koj niam seb koj niam pua ntseeg koj xwb maj lwm tus mas ho tias yog cov sab nrauv vim koj tsis hais qhov tseeb naj
Puas yog ib hmo xwb tiag ma!
Koj cov neej TSA Tau muab koj Tus txiv plua hais Tias nws saib tsis Tau koj neej TSA nws thiaj coj koj mus rau laos ua dev ua npua
Nice try lady, good excuse but I don’t think anyone buy it.Hehehe 😅
Yog koj tsim txiaj tiag rau koj tus txiv, koj tsis lam mus rub tus tub hluas Lao mus nrog koj dance ua kev lom zem. Koj yeej liam txaus nkaus tib yam li koj tus txiv thiab.
Koj kav tsij ua kom koj tus txiv sia tu kiag los mad, yog nws siab loj2 li koj tus txiv nas
Oh yo MAG!!!!! Ua tag!!!! Li lawm os!!! 😂😂😂😂 tsis ua cas tau ntau xwb!!!!😂😂😂😂
Poj niam hmoob tsis ua li nplog tabsis mas poj niam hmoob mekas ma ib txhia mus kiag zaum 1 xwb twb mus deev kiag lawm.
Cas koj ho tsi foob tus nplog tias nws quab yuam koj thaum koj qaug cawv no mal yog koj ncaj ncees tiag nal, txawm 3 xyoo rau 10 xyoo koj tseem foob tau kawg yog koj qaug cawv tiag es nws quab yuam koj tiag, koj kuj ua child support rau tus nplog them nws tus nqi qau thiab yog muaj tiag li ntawd nal vim koj tsi tso cai rau nplog ua koj es koj mag quab yuam xwb. Koj tsi muaj peev xwm foob tus nplog vim nws quab yuam koj no ces koj yeej txaus siab nrog nplog muaj kev zoo siab xwb, muaj cai nyob tsi lig muaj cai foob tau kawg vim nws quab yuam koj xwb. Koj tus txiv tsi tau qhia koj ua li ntawd os poj hmoob aw!! yog koj tus txiv qhia koj ua mas nws yeej ua2 nplog muaj me nyuam thiab mas thiaj tim nws qhia koj thiab coj koj mus ua sib pauv os nawb es yog koj ua rau koj xwb tsi muaj neeg ua rau koj.
the husband had a weird way going about this situation. He is so fucked up in the mind to think that he was not part of the problem.
Should have gone to the ER and do a SANE.
U might’ve gotten drug, sorry this happened to u. But good for u for taking care of your son regardless, be thankful for ur blessings.
The min. you in bed with another man regardless if you remember or not your marriage is over.
Oyo liam sib phim li os..koj nco ntsoov tias txiv hmoob mas lawv zoo ua xwb tabsis yog koj ua phim li nws ces koj yog tus mag nrauj mag cem 100% xwb nawb..cov txiv dev hmoob no mas lim hiam heev os..
You should’ve report it to the daddy son and open investigation on the medicine given to you that night. Your man was naive and egocentric with too much pride. Let him go. He was probably in the planning of all this so he could have an excuse to leave.
Hahaha ok
Tsis tim koj niag txiv 100% tim koj 50% koj twb paub twb pom tias koj niag txiv mus nrog nplog es nws mus ua li cas es koj tseem pheej nrog koj niag txiv mus xawj mawm thiab naw mus thiab mus ces tau me nyuam puag xwb
1st..very good
nej ua li niag tsov tom txiv dev liam no hais ces twb tsis yog ntsib quav dais ov mog,
ua ntau ces ntsib quav hmoob pom dab xwb ov mog hmoob nco nroov tseg cim tseg ov mog,
Koj twb rua muag plias mus ua lavoos tag ces nrog nplog mus hau tshuaj ne. Tus txiv Liam yog tus pojniam tsis liam mas thaum tsim los koj yeej hu tas luaj mus kuaj Dr. Seb puas yog lawv muab tshuaj koj hau lawv mam nrog koj pw
Li cas los koj twb Kas nplais thaub nplog lawm mas.
Cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj li yog kuv mas ntshe kuv tseem yuav foob nws tsis yuav nws xwb os..
Wow 😂
Seems like you blame everything on everyone but yourself
never believe lao, you are bad and your husband too
Why not report to police as you claimed. Something is fishy in your story.
I believe you were drugged but it’s not your fault. But I see where your husband is coming from. It’s hard for a guy to live with
Txhob liam rau txoj hmoo os hmoob.
Ha ha... Nplog tus xam khoos mas txawv Hmoob. Nplog mas ua si kom lom zem hos Hmoob mas ua tiag tiag. Koj niag txiv mas nyuam qhuav ntxim
You’re in denial. Based on your story, you knew damn well you slept with that Laos guy. You tried to blame it on the alcohol and the meds they gave you. If you said you didn’t remember sleeping with him then why not file a Police report? What if it’s a date rape drugs he gave you?
You got dik down, both ya fault but ain't no accident
I would say you get out
Poj hmoob ruam aw, there’s a different between dancing and spreading your legs. Know what’s right and what’s wrong!
How do you not know if your hole been used
Lmao
Tsis yog accident. Yog txhob txwm vim thaum xub thawj koj twb hais tias koj tsis nyiam cov nplog thaub laus tab sis koj nyiam tus tub hluas nplog no es koj thiaj mus coj nws los nrog koj ua las voos ces thaum kawg thiaj tau lub I luv luv you ne
Hole stop lying to yourself.
Sister, sounded like you were drugged. Yeej muaj ib cov tshuaj es meska hais tias ua rau yus tus kheej tsis nco qab na. The date rape drug. Ua cas koj tsis coj mus rau tus nplog na? He might have done it on purpose and not an accident.
Your husband has a poor excuse. Jealousy has nothing to do with being Americanized or not.
No sympathy for these two foolish so called adult take accountability for ur actions..
I don’t believe she told her whole story. She was jealous about her husband and purposely did it. She did say that the Laotian guy was young and a good looking so she asked him to dance. This kinds of action tells a lots about her story. She must like him and wanted to sleep with him and pretended she was drunk and did not remember anything. People are not stupid to believe this.. I think she knew what was going on and did it to retaliate her husband because he danced and talked with younger Lao women.
The husband is a foolish