Your husband is right. You’re not better than them, you’re not innocent. You’re guilty by helping them hide and continue to hang out with them knowing how they are. How can anyone believe that you were with them but never did what they did?
Funny how it’s ok when Hmong men do it, but when the Hmong women do it, the sky is gonna fall down. Even Hmong women bashing on Hmong women. What a shame. We should support our ladies like how men support men.
If I was you, I would have never gone again after the first time. I am against adultery and there are absolutely no reasons that can justify adulterous, ever. God has said that any secrets will be uncovered, the truth will come to light (Luke 12:2-3).
Most men are hypocrites when it comes to this. If your husband knew his brothers or friends were cheating, I guarantee you, he would never tell you. How do I know? Because men always covered for each other and the reason they don't tell their wife is because they have always said they don't want to cause problems so they keep it away from their wife because women big mouths. If wives cover up for the same reason, husband's act exactly like this. They want you to accept it when they do it, but when you follow their exact rules, they can't handle it.
Wow! Guilty by association. If your husband can’t move on (I can’t blame him), it’s better to go separate ways. He is using that as an excuse to cheat and torture you.
Surprise surprise! Some woman are liam tiag tiag. This is what happens when you hang out with toxic people. Should have left and ghost the group after the first incident. Like they say, you are all in it together so now you face the same consequence. The end result is you lost the trust your husband had for you.
Yes, nej yeej liam tib yam. Koj mus tas mus dua, mus tas mus dua. Koj koom tes pab lawv npog, koj txhaum tib yam li lawv. You have no excuse that you did not do anything, you did. You help to cover up the cheatings
Well why didn’t she pay that room herself. Why making you pay parts of it. If I were you I would stop hanging with them cause remember if one bad all will be bad regardless you are innocent. Cheating is never right. Best divorce before you go and find new one. Lol The one that have to inspect all phone but karma got to her. Her own husband busted her. One thing is, if you are innocent like you claimed you shouldn’t allowed your husband to treats like that. Living like that is not healthy.
The trust isn't there, neither is forgiveness. Better to go separate ways and maintain good mental health than be rotten trunks, like the hmong saying.
If you were smart enough and stopped hanging out with them after that first time seeing your niam hlob with her boyfriend. Can’t blame your husband for not trusting you
If he's going out all night, be careful bc he may be cheating on you for revenge! Txiv neej hmoob siab me heev nawb. Ua cas, muab hais los, tsis ncaj rau peb cov pojniam hmoob li os lawv awww!! Cov niag tsov tom txiv dev no xav kom peb ua siab loj tuag nti rau lawv xwb lov? Yus twb tsis tau tham hluas nraug li es raug luag quab yuam yus mus nrog lawv xwb los tseem ua pauj thiab os!
And that is WHY they're all divorced. They all have cheating hearts by concealing, and even helping, with your ex-sil's affair. I could NEVER be friends with people like this.
You're not any better than the other women. The right thing to do was get yourself a one-way ticket back home if you want no part of it. Instead, you continued to hang out with them and helped hide their affairs. When you say nothing, it means you condone their behaviors. Men or women, divorce your spouses if you want to move on. Cheaters have thick faces and no dignity, but please have respect for your spouses.
Wow! Nej liam tiag2, I love only my husband, I don't have the heart to cheat, even though in the future he cheat on me, koj cov niam hlob niam ntxawm khaum pim heev, I believed that koj cov niam hlob ua ib tug askas aim qau.
xuab tshaj. Yog yus yuav ua phem deev hluas nraug, yus txhob coj lwm tus pojniam nrog yus mus pom. Kev sib npog tej yam no tsis zoo. Koj npog lawv, lawv yuav tsis npog koj. This is also why you women don't go to trip just all women, because some women will do bad things. Men is the same. If you man go secret hunting or trip just with men, they too secretly have girlfriends there.
Wow, nej zaj dab neeg no danger kawg nawb. Tos luag tias yus nrog cov neeg zoo li cas ces yus yuav coj li ntawm. If it was me, i would have stopped going after the 1st time. Good friends or families don't force or make you do something you are uncomfortable.
No bad role model. I will not promise. I will not go with you guys anymore 😅at least I am honest to my husband 😅no those guys that comes with her bf wants those married women like her too. Your husband should not do that evil plan bc he doesn’t know you well
Sister you knew it was wrong & continue going with them. You are just as guilty. No one can make you go & you could have left. How do we know you didn’t do anything wrong either? Hmmmmmm ?????? kinda fishy ….
Well tus sister aws vim thaum koj pom first time koj tsis khiav tawm ntawm koj cov niam hlob ntawv thiab tsis tab li ntawv koj tseem npog thiab ces yes u were wrong all the way. Plus now u open a door to ur husband to have a reason to go cheat on u any time he wants. I believe it is what he is doing when he goes missing all day or some nights. Sad u didn't leave right away and let them do what they were doing. Even u didn't do anything, u still are involved cuz u cover for them. if I were u in that situation, I rather stay away and not get involved. My husband n my peace is more important than covering for old ladies in their old age crisis.
Viv ncaus aw!!! Koj tuaj muab koj pab pawg rhuav ua dab tsi os Peb ua neej nyob tsis pom Txoj hmoo koj cem tsis tau hais tias luag qias neeg Koj raug tsim lawm mas
Wow cas tseem muaj ib co niam tsev liam22 li nej pab ntawm kod thiab na los cov me pog liam aw. Thov kom koj lub niag pim lwj nawb los vim koj liam dhau lawm.
You preach to your niam hlob about her right to call the cops and it’s America, no one can force you. But you cannot even put your foot down and say to those indecent people that “no, I’m going home now, anyone who tries to stop me will answer to the police”. You seem to like that life too. A grown woman that has already made it home after an event like that first event but continue to go with them? Can’t discredit where credit is due. You are a willing participant.
Txoj me ke es “girls only night out” los yog “guys only night out “ ces yeej yuav mus li no xwb tiag. Yog koj mus qhov twg, yuav tsum coj koj tus Txij tus nkawm .
Koj tus niam tsev ko dag lawm nawb thaum thawj koj tias 4tug txiv neej xwb no nev cas hais mus hais los ho 5 leeg txiv neej lawm thiab yog li cas tiag 2mas
There's nothing wrong with a bunch of married women hanging out like in this story. Hmong married men do the same or yet 10X worse. Tsis yuav lawm ces just move on too.
You are not that innocent. You should have stopped going out with them after the first incident. I understand peer pressure, but at your age and being a married woman, you know right from wrong and should have distanced yourself from them immediately.
Hehehe! I commend you for keeping the secret! We hmong women need to do the same as the men so to us BUT your niam hlob doesn't know how to play the game. You NEVER keep any evidence, pictures, or videos!!! 😂 Lam tso dag xwb os. Peb cov txiv liam liam, khib khib xuab qia qia neeg tabsis peb txhob ua li lawv es Tswv ntuj losis Vajtswv thiaj foom koob hmoov zoo rau peb os. Qhov ceem tseeb tshaj mas peb pojniam yuav tsum sib hlub. Yog yus yog ib tus poj nrauj poj ntsuam, luag tus txiv tuaj tom yus tsev, ua ntej yus tham nws, yus xwb lawv lub qe. Yog lawv muaj pojniam mivnyuam, ntiab kom lawv mus tsev kom lawv tsis txhob tuaj tsuj koj thaj av ib zaug ntxiv lawm xwb. If they keep coming, call the police on them. Cov poj nrauj poj ntsuam coj zoo zoo li no, peb cov niam tsev fwm heev hos. Cov poj nrauj poj ntsuam uas ua ua maum nkais maum dev xav dib xav thab luag tej txiv yog cov uas peb ntxub.
Koj tus niam hlob ntawv yuav tsum raug npam ib hnub twg xwb vim nws tsis tau nrauj txiv los nws cia li txaus siab hlo tuaj mus deev nws tus qub hluas nraug rau nej 4 tug poj niam muaj txiv paub thiab nrog nws npog. Tsis tas li ntawv los nej 4 tug poj niam muaj txiv nrog npog no yuav tsum raug npam tib yam nkaus, tab sis nej lub txim npam ntawv me dua nej tus niam hlob lub.
Txhob muab liam haistias yus tus txiv kidnapped yus yuav. Hope your sister in laws found the golden streets. LOL...seems like your husband lost trust for you and now he is copying your ideas.
Yeap I agreed with your husband. Koj yeej tsis zoo tias os. You’re lucky you’re not divorced yet. Your sils are bunch of bleep bleep 😂 So disappointed in us Hmong women these days. We are suppose to be better than Hmong men. But we just turn back and do the same shit we hated them for 🙄 aren’t we just a bunch of hypocrites then? Are we trying to be equal or are we trying to be better???
I feel sorry for you..if i were u I would have left also..because now..even if u said your innocent....your husband nws yeeu tsis hlub koj law os...he's gonna keep u..but nws yauv muaj koj tsim xwb...your husband will Never looked at you the same anymore...Trust me...txiv Neej lub siab ma Phem tshaj li os....koj xav hais tias koj tseem yog Neej zoo thiab koj innocent no ...tas si koj Tus txiv nws yeej tsis muaj qhov Trust koj law...that's why his Behavior towards you is Different..and Cruel ...because he has some hatered for you..Your life will be miserable sis and you may cover and pretend that everything is All Good..but it's NOT ..CAUSE REALLY YOUR LIVING IN A FAKE MARRIAGE WERE HE DOESN'T TRUST YOU OR LOVED U ANYMORE.😔😢NROG KOJ TUS SIAB KAWG OS.
Your husband is right. You’re not better than them, you’re not innocent. You’re guilty by helping them hide and continue to hang out with them knowing how they are. How can anyone believe that you were with them but never did what they did?
Funny how it’s ok when Hmong men do it, but when the Hmong women do it, the sky is gonna fall down. Even Hmong women bashing on Hmong women. What a shame. We should support our ladies like how men support men.
If I was you, I would have never gone again after the first time. I am against adultery and there are absolutely no reasons that can justify adulterous, ever.
God has said that any secrets will be uncovered, the truth will come to light (Luke 12:2-3).
Most men are hypocrites when it comes to this. If your husband knew his brothers or friends were cheating, I guarantee you, he would never tell you. How do I know? Because men always covered for each other and the reason they don't tell their wife is because they have always said they don't want to cause problems so they keep it away from their wife because women big mouths. If wives cover up for the same reason, husband's act exactly like this. They want you to accept it when they do it, but when you follow their exact rules, they can't handle it.
Wow! Guilty by association. If your husband can’t move on (I can’t blame him), it’s better to go separate ways. He is using that as an excuse to cheat and torture you.
Very common in Hmong women in America
Surprise surprise! Some woman are liam tiag tiag.
This is what happens when you hang out with toxic people. Should have left and ghost the group after the first incident. Like they say, you are all in it together so now you face the same consequence. The end result is you lost the trust your husband had for you.
Whoa..this is what I called forward drama..thx!
Yes, nej yeej liam tib yam. Koj mus tas mus dua, mus tas mus dua. Koj koom tes pab lawv npog, koj txhaum tib yam li lawv. You have no excuse that you did not do anything, you did. You help to cover up the cheatings
Thaum ib pab txiv tsev/niam tsev sib sau mus ua ke ces yeej yog mus tsim kev kob huam xwb nawb.
Well why didn’t she pay that room herself. Why making you pay parts of it. If I were you I would stop hanging with them cause remember if one bad all will be bad regardless you are innocent. Cheating is never right. Best divorce before you go and find new one. Lol The one that have to inspect all phone but karma got to her. Her own husband busted her. One thing is, if you are innocent like you claimed you shouldn’t allowed your husband to treats like that. Living like that is not healthy.
1st..very good 👍 👌 👏
Cov niam dev no ces liam ib yam xwb nej txhob ntseeg nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
This story sound so so maum dev.
The trust isn't there, neither is forgiveness. Better to go separate ways and maintain good mental health than be rotten trunks, like the hmong saying.
Cov niam tsev es mus qhov twg mus ib pab ces yog tib co niam dev xwb nawb lawv aw...
Karma regardless of staying or not. Everything you do in life you pay for. You’re a cheater for lying and keeping secrets from your husband
If you were smart enough and stopped hanging out with them after that first time seeing your niam hlob with her boyfriend. Can’t blame your husband for not trusting you
Wow, I wish get all of these OG ladies
Cov poj niam tiam tshiab leej twg ua tau los zoo kawg
If he's going out all night, be careful bc he may be cheating on you for revenge! Txiv neej hmoob siab me heev nawb. Ua cas, muab hais los, tsis ncaj rau peb cov pojniam hmoob li os lawv awww!! Cov niag tsov tom txiv dev no xav kom peb ua siab loj tuag nti rau lawv xwb lov? Yus twb tsis tau tham hluas nraug li es raug luag quab yuam yus mus nrog lawv xwb los tseem ua pauj thiab os!
And that is WHY they're all divorced. They all have cheating hearts by concealing, and even helping, with your ex-sil's affair. I could NEVER be friends with people like this.
Honestly, you're at fault too for keep going with them.
I love story ❤
You're not any better than the other women. The right thing to do was get yourself a one-way ticket back home if you want no part of it. Instead, you continued to hang out with them and helped hide their affairs. When you say nothing, it means you condone their behaviors.
Men or women, divorce your spouses if you want to move on. Cheaters have thick faces and no dignity, but please have respect for your spouses.
Wow! Nej liam tiag2, I love only my husband, I don't have the heart to cheat, even though in the future he cheat on me, koj cov niam hlob niam ntxawm khaum pim heev, I believed that koj cov niam hlob ua ib tug askas aim qau.
Tab Tom haum nej ntag Los Sav cov neeg siab phem na
Pojniam Hmoob night out feem ntau yog li no xwb
should have told your husband the first time and leave the group
I'll tell your hlob for sure. I don't care what they said, for God sake! They went ua lub pag pag tom hav zoov lawm. Hihih
You should have told your husband from the start there’s no secret in this world
Ntxim cav lom zem heev laiv 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Poj niam Hmoob mas zoo uas nyob puag pem toj roob hauv pes es npab npab nauj xwb.
Ok I want some of your crew too ..where can I get some 😂😂😂
Karma is real! It is karma that gets you ladies!
xuab tshaj. Yog yus yuav ua phem deev hluas nraug, yus txhob coj lwm tus pojniam nrog yus mus pom. Kev sib npog tej yam no tsis zoo. Koj npog lawv, lawv yuav tsis npog koj. This is also why you women don't go to trip just all women, because some women will do bad things. Men is the same. If you man go secret hunting or trip just with men, they too secretly have girlfriends there.
Ha ha you did it on yourself what a great story
Coj zoo ces tau zoo coj liam ces tau kev liam. Tsis txhob ntseeg tej poj niam tag tag..never trust everything
Kab lias aw, ua phem ces ntuj yeej pom.o zoo mloog kawg
Wow, nej zaj dab neeg no danger kawg nawb. Tos luag tias yus nrog cov neeg zoo li cas ces yus yuav coj li ntawm. If it was me, i would have stopped going after the 1st time. Good friends or families don't force or make you do something you are uncomfortable.
I’m speechless 😶.
Sorry not sorry, you know what you and they did wrong but still went with them time after time so 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
No bad role model. I will not promise. I will not go with you guys anymore 😅at least I am honest to my husband 😅no those guys that comes with her bf wants those married women like her too. Your husband should not do that evil plan bc he doesn’t know you well
Kawg khaum rau yav laus lawm xwb mog vajtswv muaj qhov muag pom nawb hmoob tsi ncaj ncees kiag li os.
Sister you knew it was wrong & continue going with them. You are just as guilty. No one can make you go & you could have left. How do we know you didn’t do anything wrong either? Hmmmmmm ?????? kinda fishy ….
I wouldve told my husband from the beginning .
She's a rookie. Cheater in training 😂😂😂.
Don’t feel bad for anyone. That’s what your bil get for brideknapping. Your sil should have divorce before cheating.
It’s your fault. You should have stop hanging out with them after the first time.
To the niam tsev meb cab in this story. Koj ces kavtsij npaj nawb koj yuav raug nrauj sai22 tamsim no li lawm ntag hos. 😊
No, don’t commit a crime with anyone. God sees all things.
You are as guilty as they as well…😩!
Well tus sister aws vim thaum koj pom first time koj tsis khiav tawm ntawm koj cov niam hlob ntawv thiab tsis tab li ntawv koj tseem npog thiab ces yes u were wrong all the way. Plus now u open a door to ur husband to have a reason to go cheat on u any time he wants. I believe it is what he is doing when he goes missing all day or some nights. Sad u didn't leave right away and let them do what they were doing. Even u didn't do anything, u still are involved cuz u cover for them. if I were u in that situation, I rather stay away and not get involved. My husband n my peace is more important than covering for old ladies in their old age crisis.
Muaj tej zaj Liam li no thiab los…!!!
Haha your husband were right. You're that innocent.
Viv ncaus aw!!! Koj tuaj muab koj pab pawg rhuav ua dab tsi os
Peb ua neej nyob tsis pom
Txoj hmoo koj cem tsis tau hais tias luag qias neeg
Koj raug tsim lawm mas
Koj mas yog 1 tug poj niam uas ruam tshaj Ruam lawm os tus me niam tsev aw.....!
Luag tias g Tim tso siab rau cov niag maum no mas
Nej paub poj niam lub tswv yim qias neeg lawm lod
Yus tsis zoo li lawv ces yus ua tsis tau. Sorry for you sis ❤️
Wow cas tseem muaj ib co niam tsev liam22 li nej pab ntawm kod thiab na los cov me pog liam aw. Thov kom koj lub niag pim lwj nawb los vim koj liam dhau lawm.
Wuohhhh, nej mas danger tas2! Txaus ntshai thiag!
Liam tiag tiag. Thaum hluas twb tsis tau xyuas koj ne. Xyob txhiaj tiag tiag.
You preach to your niam hlob about her right to call the cops and it’s America, no one can force you.
But you cannot even put your foot down and say to those indecent people that “no, I’m going home now, anyone who tries to stop me will answer to the police”.
You seem to like that life too. A grown woman that has already made it home after an event like that first event but continue to go with them? Can’t discredit where credit is due. You are a willing participant.
Txoj me ke es “girls only night out” los yog “guys only night out “ ces yeej yuav mus li no xwb tiag. Yog koj mus qhov twg, yuav tsum coj koj tus Txij tus nkawm .
Koj tus niam tsev ko dag lawm nawb thaum thawj koj tias 4tug txiv neej xwb no nev cas hais mus hais los ho 5 leeg txiv neej lawm thiab yog li cas tiag 2mas
Cov poj laib laus no mas quav dev tiag tiag. Tsim nyog coj mus tu kav theej tas tus.
Coj Niag maum dev khau pim!!!
Snitch! Lol. Maybe you should spy on your husband, he might be cheating on you.
wow kawg neeg tawg yog coj li nej cov pojniam no na. ua elcheater ces kawg ib hnub yuav tawm.
He's cheating. Might as well leave
Hoyo koj tus tuaj hais zaj dab neeg no los koj twb yog ib tug yeej txaus2 siab nrog lawv zaus ib yam koj thiaj pheej mus zaum tag zaum tuaj thiab os. Tab sis ntshe koj niag txiv yog neeg ruam thiaj ysis nrauj koj xwb os cas koj nim ua txuj dag tias koj feel guilty no na.
Nuam qhuav ntxim! Cov niam dev liam os.
There's nothing wrong with a bunch of married women hanging out like in this story. Hmong married men do the same or yet 10X worse. Tsis yuav lawm ces just move on too.
I mean…Hmong men have been doing this since the dawn of time so why they mad?? Lol
Play stupid game win karma cheating never work
You are not that innocent. You should have stopped going out with them after the first incident. I understand peer pressure, but at your age and being a married woman, you know right from wrong and should have distanced yourself from them immediately.
Hehehe! I commend you for keeping the secret! We hmong women need to do the same as the men so to us BUT your niam hlob doesn't know how to play the game. You NEVER keep any evidence, pictures, or videos!!! 😂 Lam tso dag xwb os. Peb cov txiv liam liam, khib khib xuab qia qia neeg tabsis peb txhob ua li lawv es Tswv ntuj losis Vajtswv thiaj foom koob hmoov zoo rau peb os. Qhov ceem tseeb tshaj mas peb pojniam yuav tsum sib hlub. Yog yus yog ib tus poj nrauj poj ntsuam, luag tus txiv tuaj tom yus tsev, ua ntej yus tham nws, yus xwb lawv lub qe. Yog lawv muaj pojniam mivnyuam, ntiab kom lawv mus tsev kom lawv tsis txhob tuaj tsuj koj thaj av ib zaug ntxiv lawm xwb. If they keep coming, call the police on them. Cov poj nrauj poj ntsuam coj zoo zoo li no, peb cov niam tsev fwm heev hos. Cov poj nrauj poj ntsuam uas ua ua maum nkais maum dev xav dib xav thab luag tej txiv yog cov uas peb ntxub.
Pab niag mej cab qias neeg. Ntuj yuav npam os mog. Tag nrho cov neej neeg kuv hnov zaj no qias tiag tiag. Hmoob orgy.
Koj tus niam hlob ntawv yuav tsum raug npam ib hnub twg xwb vim nws tsis tau nrauj txiv los nws cia li txaus siab hlo tuaj mus deev nws tus qub hluas nraug rau nej 4 tug poj niam muaj txiv paub thiab nrog nws npog. Tsis tas li ntawv los nej 4 tug poj niam muaj txiv nrog npog no yuav tsum raug npam tib yam nkaus, tab sis nej lub txim npam ntawv me dua nej tus niam hlob lub.
Txhob muab liam haistias yus tus txiv kidnapped yus yuav. Hope your sister in laws found the golden streets. LOL...seems like your husband lost trust for you and now he is copying your ideas.
Yeap I agreed with your husband. Koj yeej tsis zoo tias os. You’re lucky you’re not divorced yet. Your sils are bunch of bleep bleep 😂 So disappointed in us Hmong women these days. We are suppose to be better than Hmong men. But we just turn back and do the same shit we hated them for 🙄 aren’t we just a bunch of hypocrites then? Are we trying to be equal or are we trying to be better???
Cov niag poj .
I feel sorry for you..if i were u I would have left also..because now..even if u said your innocent....your husband nws yeeu tsis hlub koj law os...he's gonna keep u..but nws yauv muaj koj tsim xwb...your husband will Never looked at you the same anymore...Trust me...txiv Neej lub siab ma Phem tshaj li os....koj xav hais tias koj tseem yog Neej zoo thiab koj innocent no ...tas si koj Tus txiv nws yeej tsis muaj qhov Trust koj law...that's why his Behavior towards you is Different..and Cruel ...because he has some hatered for you..Your life will be miserable sis and you may cover and pretend that everything is All Good..but it's NOT ..CAUSE REALLY YOUR LIVING IN A FAKE MARRIAGE WERE HE DOESN'T TRUST YOU OR LOVED U ANYMORE.😔😢NROG KOJ TUS SIAB KAWG OS.
Peb hmoob tsis muaj cov zoo niam tsev tshuav tib co niam dev lawm xwb nawb lawv aw...