Therapist Reacts To: Bejeweled by Taylor Swift!

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  • Опубліковано 26 жов 2022
  • Hi everyone! Today, I'm reacting to "Bejeweled" from the new album Midnights!! I know this song will be stuck in my head for days, I loved it!!! What do you all think? I love reading all your comments! Don't forget to leave a like and subscribe :)
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 89

  • @GabrielaCenturionNeumann
    @GabrielaCenturionNeumann Рік тому +133

    I interpreted the lyrics "Putting someone first only works when you're in their top 5" as saying she put the person first but for them she wasn't even in their top 5 of priorities in life (which is a pretty lenghly list when talking about priorities in the first place, so I think she was exaggerating on purpose). Like saying to us "Look, if you're not even in their top 5 of priorities... it ain't gonna work no matter how much you treat them as your number 1 priority"

    • @HealthyObbsession
      @HealthyObbsession Рік тому +9

      Exactly! I don’t know where she got hall pass from
      I usually trust want she says but that one had me confused

    • @angelnelson2228
      @angelnelson2228 Рік тому +7

      That's how I understood it as well

    • @pattywood586
      @pattywood586 Рік тому +4

      Yes. Definitely this. It's more congruent with the rest of the message of the song.

    • @corneliastreet2491
      @corneliastreet2491 Рік тому +5

      This! I feel like this resonates with a lot more people, but that doesn’t mean that Mere’s interpretation is wrong by any means. If it’s significant to her, I love it for her

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +15

      Omg you all are right! This makes so much more sense! My mind went to hall pass bc I heard someone talking about theirs but…it was only one hall pass so I don’t get my top 5 theory haha.

  • @sbulls9030
    @sbulls9030 Рік тому +114

    If you watch the music video it shows Taylor also giving a double meaning to the the graded on a curve line with how she removes her cloak. The second meaning being that she was putting in all this extra effort into the relationship, but ultimately was just being graded on her body. The way her word combinations so often create these double meanings always fascinate me.

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +19

      Ahhh how did I miss this?!?

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +17

      Thank you for pointing this out to me

    • @athacker49
      @athacker49 Рік тому

      Wow, new perspective thanks for that

  • @aaabbbbyswift13
    @aaabbbbyswift13 Рік тому +40

    Is it only me or Bejeweled is somewhat related to Tolerate it? She made him a temple, a mural, and a sky and now she's reclaiming all of those. She already took the dagger and removed it and she's now bejeweled.

  • @AiSayuriChan
    @AiSayuriChan Рік тому +43

    To me this song is not necessarily about being cheated on but more about being neglected in a relationship. So she's kinda giving him payback? But you're right, I believe it's a great song to get ready to, too!

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +6

      Yes to all of this. Definitely about neglect. I have dealt with cheating (recently😢) so my mind just goes there immediately lol !

    • @AiSayuriChan
      @AiSayuriChan Рік тому

      @@mendwithmere I'm sorry to hear that! I hope you'll get over it soon :)

  • @burtonaSA
    @burtonaSA Рік тому +36

    I also see this song as having a double meaning with her albums being sold from under her. She referred to her songs as jewels in the my tears ricochet when she says "you wear the same jewels that I gave you as you buried me" . The line "I did all the extra credit then got graded on a curve" makes me think she's referring to her past albums. Like she did all this work on her past albums but it didn't matter. Then she says "I can reclaim the land" (I.e. Reclaiming her albums by rerecording them). Just thought it was another interpretation.

  • @davidhampson1958
    @davidhampson1958 Рік тому +53

    I adore your Taylor reactions...Not missed a single one..and I'm here for all the rest

  • @joshuaramon123
    @joshuaramon123 Рік тому +23

    This song has parallels to her other songs. I'd like to believe this is 'Tolerate It' is she had regained her confidence "I made you my temple, my mural, my sky." Also 'mirrorball'
    And I love how this reaction is different from your other ones. Usually the other songs were more sad and depressing (which I love) but this one's happy and uplifting.

  • @bobbyrw1398
    @bobbyrw1398 Рік тому +24

    Smart reaction. Thanks Mere. Midnights is a visual album, so she'll be posting different new MVs in the weeks to come. Bejeweled is out now. Cheers

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +3

      Thank you!! I’ll check it out now❤

  • @melodycook4561
    @melodycook4561 Рік тому +5

    I also noticed the lyrical parallel of:
    All Too Well 10 min: "the idea you had of me, who was she? A never needy, every lovely jewel, whose shine reflects on YOU"
    Bejeweled: "Best believe I'm still bejeweled, when I walk in the room, I can still make the WHOLE PLACE shimmer"
    She got her light back and no one can take it away from her.

  • @SaralerynWinter
    @SaralerynWinter 28 днів тому +1

    I hear this song as her break up letter to Joe, because they were in a slow death relationship and she was reclaiming herself even before they were publicly over. Personally, I think they split before the tour started and kept it quiet for a while… but the signs are all there. She was tired of hiding away her sparkle ✨

  • @biac8636
    @biac8636 Рік тому +5

    Miss Swift has definitely been reading all of our journals and it's been making me so emotional

  • @jackalyncolpitts5024
    @jackalyncolpitts5024 Місяць тому

    I love this song. Helped me remember who I am- I gave you my world, but have you heard, I reclaim the land? Cause I miss you, but I miss sparkling!

  • @jennpower6147
    @jennpower6147 Рік тому +3

    Mere, I have been doing a deep dive on your TS reactions and your insights from your professional and educational experience. I can also sense that you too are a long time Swiftie...you need to see the music video for this song. So many Easter Eggs! Thank you, thank you, thank you for these!

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      Aww thank you! Yes, I have loved her for a long time and I finally saw the video, it was amazing

  • @standyourtruth.juneb.8069
    @standyourtruth.juneb.8069 Рік тому +9

    I think this about her business relationship and how Scooter Braun stole her music

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +3

      I definitely think so too. I love how many different ways to take it❤

  • @carmeladawnt.adolfo9665
    @carmeladawnt.adolfo9665 Рік тому +10

    I really enjoyed watching your reaction! I hope you can do The great war next☺️

  • @yvetterodriguez2550
    @yvetterodriguez2550 Рік тому +14

    Oh no Mere! That's not the video. There's a legit music video with her and some cameo surprises. But this song is a total jam. Now every time I walk into a room, this song comes on in my head 🤣

    • @gigin6534
      @gigin6534 Рік тому +7

      I think she did the lyrics video on purpose to focus on the lyrics first

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +1

      Yes, just wanted to do lyrics but loved the video!

  • @survivorswapped7637
    @survivorswapped7637 Рік тому +11

    You should react to her song, "Death by a thousand cuts" next!

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +11

      It’s def on the list! You’re on your own, kid, paper doll…critique?, and mad woman are on deck next!

    • @edu.8552
      @edu.8552 Рік тому

      @@mendwithmere please do "you're on your own, kid"!

    • @LaneCorbett
      @LaneCorbett Рік тому +1

      @@mendwithmere You should definitely react to Bigger than the Whole Sky, TS was definitely dealing with something when she wrote that one.

  • @kahdemagalhaes8528
    @kahdemagalhaes8528 Рік тому +2

    Hey! Just wanna tell you that your reviews made me sob all morning… Taylor sometimes make me feel understood and that’s why I love her, and you did that too!

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      Hi!! I’m JUST now seeing your comment and this is why I made this channel. Yes to the tears and releasing all those pint up emotions that need to come out. We are lucky to have such a great lyricist in our lifetime. Thank you for the ❤ and I’m sending ❤ right back at you!

  • @Jessica_L90
    @Jessica_L90 9 днів тому

    The proper video is so good xxxx

  • @chompie861
    @chompie861 Рік тому +2

    I'm a new subscriber! I'm digging to your videos! It's great! Keep going

  • @LanaJulie33
    @LanaJulie33 Рік тому +1

    I think the "top five" references Myspace!! She used to connect to her fans that way. Could be wrong, but that is a fun interpretation of it! We all remember (millennials I'm talking to you) MySpace and the stress of having to pick the top 5 friends, and then top 8, that would appear on the MySpace profile. 🙂

  • @ceslestrialfairy
    @ceslestrialfairy Рік тому +5

    You should look up the song Lover Dearest by Marianas Trench, it's about addiction and started as a letter the lead singer wrote in rehab!

  • @raduanlepiksonmidlej5793
    @raduanlepiksonmidlej5793 Рік тому +1

    omg I love this so much!!!
    please react to august and mirrorball too ❤️

  • @larissabarbosa6020
    @larissabarbosa6020 8 місяців тому

    By the tone of this song I understood that the main person she’s talking about is Scott Borchetta, not an ex boyfriend (of course she might have mixed inspiration from more than one relationship, specially because of the “reclaim the land” thing, that just makes me think about she re-recording her masters to own them again

  • @biancatrindade3711
    @biancatrindade3711 Рік тому

    I love your reactions to Taylor's songs! I always saw references in this song to her relationship with Calvin Harris, she got him Kenye brand sneakers for his birthday, She wrote the song he recorded with Rihanna, apparently he didn't want the song linked to her name so she used it a pseudonym, in publicity interviews he was asked if he thought about creating something with Taylor, his then girlfriend, and he said that he had no intention of working with her on any music, that's when she took over the authorship and that the vocals in the chorus were the her voice, I figured that's where the top 5 comes from and the rest. A while later they broke up and he released a song about "her being the only thing standing in her way" basically blaming her for his shitty behavior.

  • @minna22
    @minna22 Рік тому +6

    You should check out You’re On Your Own, Kid, Midnight Rain, Question…?, and Karma.

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +4

      Just finished You’re on your own, kid!❤

  • @Marxnchill
    @Marxnchill Рік тому +1

    I interpreted top 5 as a MySpace reference

  • @abhidhavyass
    @abhidhavyass Рік тому +2

    react to illicit affairs, seven, dear reader! :) love ur reactions

  • @noodling_maybe
    @noodling_maybe 7 місяців тому

    I like what she's saying about Taylor's song, but she killed the mood when keeps adding stuff about her life.

  • @friendlyneigborhoodbean
    @friendlyneigborhoodbean Рік тому

    I'd love to see your interpretation of Bigger Than The Whole Sky. OR if you wanna branch out from just Taylor you could do The 30th by Billie Eilish

  • @taylorlester3495
    @taylorlester3495 Рік тому

    Suggestion! If you could make the lyrics bigger so we can follow along with you easier. Love these!! Thank you

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      We’ve been struggling with how to use her videos and make the lyrics bigger. Still haven’t mastered it but trying ❤

  • @analuizachavesdesouza8183
    @analuizachavesdesouza8183 Рік тому +4

    React taylor swift 13 moments that are hard to watch or taylor swift saddest interviews

  • @venishapillay9696
    @venishapillay9696 Рік тому +2

    Please react to "Ronan" by Taylor Swift

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +2

      I filmed it and I balled with snot. Afraid to post…

    • @venishapillay9696
      @venishapillay9696 Рік тому

      @@mendwithmere I know it's heart wrenching it's such a beautiful way to memorialize someone. Especially a little boy that touched so many hearts by simply being kind and happy despite his illness. It's written from his mom's perspective which makes it so unique.

  • @ryu1305
    @ryu1305 Рік тому +1

    Can you do a review on Cowboy like me by Taylor Swift please!!! I'm watching your videos for 2 hours now omg!! Cried with Happinesss and hoax. ❤❤

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      Ahhh such good songs! Yes, I love cowboy like me!

  • @edu.8552
    @edu.8552 Рік тому

    hi, thank you for your videos os suicidal thoughts.
    thank you for having these conversations, i can't speak with no one outside the virtual. they blame me because i'm putting myself on this situation or because I'm not praying enough - true or not, it doesn't help much.

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      No it doesn’t help at all. It’s so important to talk about these thoughts and have support. If the internet is your safe space, use it. Go to people that actually understand you. It isn’t fair that you don’t have support in the way you should but please know that you are not alone and it’s best to be talked about and put into the light! Sending you ❤

  • @leavealekalone
    @leavealekalone Рік тому +1

    We also need music video reactions, so we can hear your expertise in terms of symbols, cues etc.

  • @margaritacherkasheninova4723

    Please please look into Question? 🙏🏼❤

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      About to film but still uncertain about it. What do you think it’s about?

  • @palette5490
    @palette5490 Рік тому

    please react to the archer

  • @mimibelta259
    @mimibelta259 Рік тому

    I have a few songs I’d love for you to react to here are a couple anyone by Demi lovato
    Dancing with the devil by Demi lovato
    and pieces of me by Ashlee Simpson

  • @L_taylorsversion24
    @L_taylorsversion24 Рік тому

    For me this song is about fake friends

  • @AliceWanders
    @AliceWanders Рік тому

    Every video ive watched so far of you breaking these songs down, you mention they sound like cheating.. not every song can be about a cheater....

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      You are absolutely right. I recognize my view was a little skewed but that’s because I was cheated on around the time I filmed them. My vision is getting clearer so bare with me. ❤

  • @jessraspberry8315
    @jessraspberry8315 Рік тому

    Good girls do get screwed over :(