Facing the Death of Those You Love

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  • @TheCombatartist
    @TheCombatartist Рік тому +140

    Lost both parents in 7 weeks, Mom’s service is Friday. Please pray for her and my father ❤️🙏🏼

    • @michellehayes9958
      @michellehayes9958 Рік тому +3

      So sorry to hear you lost both parents in a few weeks pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet for their souls and pray for all the forgotten souls in purgatory may they both Rip 🙏

    • @chrismtucson5573
      @chrismtucson5573 Рік тому +3

      That's such a difficult situation. I often wonder why God gave us so many tears to cry. God bless you, give you comfort, and welcome your parents into His kingdom.

    • @baseballmomof8
      @baseballmomof8 Рік тому +1

      Absolutely will do. May I ask for first names? God bless you.

    • @marydethjudge118
      @marydethjudge118 Рік тому +1

      So sorry for your loss so close together. Prayers that the Sacred Heart of Jesus and Immaculate Heart of Mary will hold you and give you peace

    • @JackieDaytona1776
      @JackieDaytona1776 Рік тому +3

      Prayer helps, and I will pray for your parents, for your family, and for you. But that still doesn't make it easy. I'm sorry you're going through this and I pray your parents reunion in paradise may provide solice.

  • @jessicagrimsland7337
    @jessicagrimsland7337 Рік тому +181

    This is what I needed. My mom died a month a go today unexpectedly. I am crushed. I am beyond sad . My father is left alone and that is killing me. To see him lonely without the love of his life is torture. I ask that you pray for me and my family that we will have peace, joy, hope and happiness again. Father, I have wanted to talk with you about this. If you do read this please pray for me and my family. Fair is so overwhelming.

    • @echofarer_art
      @echofarer_art Рік тому +10

      I’m very sorry. You have my condolences. I will pray for you and your family. May God bless you.

    • @pattisiedlicki
      @pattisiedlicki Рік тому +7

      I am so sorry about the loss of your mother. I will be praying for you and your family. 🙏

    • @hollywhalen4461
      @hollywhalen4461 Рік тому +14

      I am going through the EXACT same thing. I lost my father 3 months ago and it still feels like yesterday. As sad as I am, I am worried about my mom just like you are about your dad. But how LUCKY we are that we have our Catholic faith. Every time I get sad, I just pray and ask my dad to pray along with me.

    • @marcihf217
      @marcihf217 Рік тому +6

      Praying for you and your family

    • @tomassalazar2798
      @tomassalazar2798 Рік тому +2

      😮🤯😰😱

  • @CodingByDay
    @CodingByDay 4 місяці тому +19

    I lost my mom today. Please pray for her she was the biggest blessing in my life.

    • @reedrichards1820
      @reedrichards1820 Місяць тому

      I recently lost my mom, Maria, too. Let’s pray for them and for the souls in purgatory.

  • @farmersdaughter1000
    @farmersdaughter1000 Рік тому +190

    I lost my dear husband almost 3 years ago. When we were in his final days, God gave us the grace of great peace. We have a picture of Jesus dieing on the cross hanging right where we could see it plus a picture of Jesus hugging someone in heaven who had died. My dear husband loved looking at both of these pictures. Our priest came as often as he could but was not there when my husband died only myself praying the Chaplet of Divine Mercy and our daughter holding his hand. He was ready to go home and with all the angels, Saints and Jesus Mary and Joseph there laying in our bedroom in a hospital bed surrounded by peace and golden light, he passed from this life and was born into new life. I was so very grateful God blessed me and our daughter with
    the grace to witness such a holy death. Do not be afraid. Trust in God.❤

    • @caroleroy742
      @caroleroy742 Рік тому +10

      Thank you for sharing your beautiful testimony. ❤😊

    • @matthewpoerschmann1373
      @matthewpoerschmann1373 Рік тому +3

      Bless y’all ❤.

    • @noradsouza3673
      @noradsouza3673 Рік тому +4

      You are so right in everything! Thank you for what you say and what you do.✝️

    • @reneekoenig1794
      @reneekoenig1794 Рік тому +6

      What a beautiful and peaceful gift you and your daughter gave to your husband. I’m so grateful that you shared this story of love and faith.

    • @farmersdaughter1000
      @farmersdaughter1000 Рік тому +5

      @@reneekoenig1794it was a very touching time for us to share thank you❤️

  • @rickros3677
    @rickros3677 4 місяці тому +4

    This month is the 2 year anniversary of my wife's death...at age 56. Way to young...after battling dementia for 12+ years and a lifetime of other chronic illnesses...and 35 years of marriage. I can share three truths about grief. 1) We all grieve as only each one of can...there is no right or wrong way to grieve. 2) Grieving a loved one...means...that you loved one...we only grieve those we love. 3) Grief never goes away...we can only learn to live with it...God does help in this with consoling the soul.

  • @ohwhataday7171
    @ohwhataday7171 Рік тому +44

    Just going to sit in church in adoration really helps. Before I know it one hour flies by and I have felt peace. Our Lord is truly there.

  • @annemariemcgowan9273
    @annemariemcgowan9273 Рік тому +7

    The thing that keeps me up at night is My late Husbands salvation. He wasn't Christian but he was a beautiful good man. I was so fearful for him, walking through the valley of death. Imagining all kinds of demons trying to grab him. I kept thinking of Dante and his nine levels of heaven. Where is he. It's the biggest fear I have ever faced. I pray with true raw feelings for our Lord to look after him I've always felt Jesus, close,throughout my life but his presence has been overwhelming. Bible passages becoming clear as if it were just written for me. But it's the Lords presence, that is the most merciful gift of all xx

  • @AlexCoombes123
    @AlexCoombes123 Рік тому +57

    Lost my brother on the 1st of September 2023. This came just in time, thank you 🙏

    • @terciodeflandes97
      @terciodeflandes97 Рік тому +2

      Im very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace, brother.

    • @erickzun4861
      @erickzun4861 Рік тому +1

      Pray a Divine mercy chaplet for his soul

    • @avinjenix8103
      @avinjenix8103 Рік тому +1

      God bless you and your family brother.

    • @Delilah122
      @Delilah122 Рік тому +1

      I’m so sorry you lost your brother.
      May your faith in our Lord comfort you and your family.

    • @lorrainecox7728
      @lorrainecox7728 Рік тому +1

      Isn't it AMAZING how God takes care of us, especially when we need extra help, like seeing this when you needed it. May God's peace cover you

  • @pattisiedlicki
    @pattisiedlicki Рік тому +63

    The anniversary of my mothers death, many years ago, is coming up on September 12th. Watching her die of cancer, I never knew how I would go on without her. Surrender to God, and His loving grace got me through. As Hebrews 13:5 says,
    “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” God was with me every day. 🙏
    I will see my mom again, and you will see yours Father Mike, and everyone who has lost a loved one, and this will be for eternity! God Bless!

  • @marybeth8028
    @marybeth8028 3 місяці тому +1

    I did " feel" God was with me when my parents, ( my age was 30 and 33) my brother and my husband died ( when I age was 62).
    This alone was a comfort. Not to say I did not cry, grieve, miss them and feel alone.
    I still do feel all of those things at different times. It has been 5 years since my husband and brother died. But I know God is with me and understands this, for he to, as a man went through the death of Joesph, Cousin John and surely others he knew while on earth. So there is no doubt The Holy Trinity understands what I am going through, what all humans experience.
    And yes, Fr Mike, this is part of life.
    It is very difficult for me to make big decisions and am probably too slow to make them. But God helps,if I only listen and remind myself He is with me

  • @v-veritas
    @v-veritas Рік тому +102

    It is really comforting to see how this message can also refer to any type of fear in general. The fear of loss, the fear of failure, the fear of abandonment.... In these anxious times, thank you, Ascension Presents for notifying me that God is always present and closer than I think He is. God bless you

    • @ceciliarauth9481
      @ceciliarauth9481 Рік тому +3

      AMEN! WELL SAID!
      👍🩵🙏🩵🙏🩵👍
      I KNEW A CVIJAN VIDAKOVIC FROM THE NETHERLANDS, BUT SERBIAN. HE WAS ONE OF MY ENGLISH AS A SECOND LANGUAGE STUDENTS AT ST. MARY'S COLLEGE OF ORCHARD LAKE, MICHIGAN IN AN EVENING COURSE FOR ADULTS. HE KNEW "PLEASE," "THANK YOU," AND "HELLO" IN ENGLISH WHEN WE MET! HE KNEW A LOT MORE THAN THAT BY THE TIME HE LEFT FOR SOME LIFE IN MISSISSAUGA, ONTARIO, CANADA. NOW HE LIVES IN BANJA KOVILJACA, SERBIA.
      👍❤️☺️❤️👍

    • @thomaserickson568
      @thomaserickson568 Рік тому

      Wrong

    • @v-veritas
      @v-veritas Рік тому

      @@thomaserickson568 ok.

  • @lajazz1
    @lajazz1 Рік тому +47

    My dad just died suddenly, and our family is in shock and in terrible grief. We are all so close, and it hurts terribly. People say it will get better, but it seems like every day without him is just as terrible as the day before. I thank God for the time we had with him, but each day is a struggle to get used to this new normal without him. Thank you, Fr. Schmidt, for your soothing and kind words. We need them right now. 😓

    • @lalaithan
      @lalaithan Рік тому +9

      I lost my grandfather who raised me like his kid in 2022 and I have experienced and still experience that amazingly terrible grief. From what I've gathered from others, it won't go away. But we have Jesus. He helps with the weight of all that grief and some days it will not weigh much at all. I will pray for you and your family. Always stay near Jesus. Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.❤‍🔥

    • @richarddeerflame
      @richarddeerflame Рік тому +2

      It takes years sometimes.... But the pain will go.... It depends on what you do in life.... what good things you work on for you self.. what you keep busty with .... what you set your mind to..... And what you know within yourself happens after death.... No one can say its all the same for everyone... The hurt can take 10 years... But it's different for each person. And again our current health... Are we anxious or not ... etc etc..... Peace to you.l.. And Gods Grace be upon you

    • @jessicagrimsland7337
      @jessicagrimsland7337 Рік тому +3

      I am in the same situation. Each day is hard. I will be praying for you and your family !

    • @veeherreraJanecka
      @veeherreraJanecka 10 місяців тому +2

      We lost my dad suddenly too. It was devastating to us. And now we just lost my son last month at the age of 44. I feel I can’t do another day.
      Father Mike is such a blessing in my sorrow and my anxieties

    • @lajazz1
      @lajazz1 10 місяців тому

      @@veeherreraJanecka I'm so very sorry. Sometimes, the grief seems overwhelming, but then you realize you're never alone, and Jesus will help you through your anguish. It's been difficult, but Fr. Mike makes it a little less horrible every day.

  • @cathieshelinbarger1424
    @cathieshelinbarger1424 Рік тому +4

    Lost my dear brother unexpectedly 11 weeks ago! His Wife , kids and my family are just so sad . Pray for us all

  • @beachgirl9823
    @beachgirl9823 5 місяців тому +8

    I lost my mom 5 months ago and it’s been a very, very sad time for me. I miss her so much but I have to say that I feel that she is safe and sound with our Lord in Heaven. She was a sweet person and everyone who met her loved her. I cant wait to see her again but I’m not sure what that will look like….but every now and then, I hear her voice or I dream about her. In my dreams, she;s alive and happy. ❤

    • @reedrichards1820
      @reedrichards1820 Місяць тому +2

      That’s so beautiful. I hope to see my mom in heaven too. Let us pray for them and for the holy souls in purgatory who have no one to pray for them.

  • @batmanhudson4235
    @batmanhudson4235 2 місяці тому +2

    We lost one of the kindest, greatest young man, who was never known to be unkind, who lead people to want to be their best, who suffered greatly and never complained. 5 years ago. 😢 I am so inadequate.

  • @susanwilson4695
    @susanwilson4695 Рік тому +13

    My husband is on hospice after 40 years together. As a nurse I thought I could handle this, but death and grief is so different and all consuming when it is someone so close.

  • @victorialoveday9998
    @victorialoveday9998 Рік тому +33

    I’ve lost my husband. He was sick for many years with Huntington’s Disease. I grieve the loss of things that we will never do and that we won’t grow old together. But there was a relief when death came because it was very hard to see such suffering. God has been with us through it all.

    • @richsimpson8429
      @richsimpson8429 Рік тому +3

      God bless

    • @richarddeerflame
      @richarddeerflame Рік тому +1

      Oh man that's hard. Condolences. Life is tough..... We dont understand it .... But The bible tells us we die because of the original Sin of Adam and Eve loosing that grace of closeness with God.... At least Our sacred scripture explains all this suffering and Woe.... May God bless and who believe on him and may we all be removed from fear of Death and anxiety.

    • @roxymelrose1822
      @roxymelrose1822 Рік тому +1

      Sorry❤️🙏😔

    • @roxymelrose1822
      @roxymelrose1822 Рік тому +1

      God is on the throne

    • @victorialoveday9998
      @victorialoveday9998 Рік тому +1

      @@roxymelrose1822 amen and amen again🙏🏻

  • @gracietilert8952
    @gracietilert8952 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Fr Mike.

  • @patrickwolff2727
    @patrickwolff2727 Рік тому +23

    My parents, both deceased, loved me and my siblings so much, that they never wanted to be separated from us. They knew death would come, but they gave us our Catholic faith so that ultimately, we would be reunited.
    Now that I am older, I understand why my mom brought me (sometimes kicking and screaming) to the Sacraments. That’s where she is now, with my dad. And I do look forward to seeing them again!

    • @Peaceshiet812
      @Peaceshiet812 Рік тому

      I feel the same way as your parents, I had my twin girls late in life, and they were brought up Christian, as God is central to my life , at 20 they say they’re not sure what they believe anymore, I pray He won’t let them go xx

    • @patrickwolff2727
      @patrickwolff2727 Рік тому +1

      @@Peaceshiet812 I’m in the same position.
      Live the Truth without compromise. In times to come, Your children will see how you journey through life with God. They will eventually see that what this world offers isn’t satisfying. They will look to you. You’re still their teacher 🙂

    • @Peaceshiet812
      @Peaceshiet812 Рік тому +1

      @@patrickwolff2727 Thankyou so much Patrick, that advice means more than you know, I will keep it my heart, and do my best to live it ❤️xx

  • @BrittanyBearMakeup
    @BrittanyBearMakeup Рік тому +18

    I lost my dad this December. His life was taken from him in a terrible way. I surrendered that pain to the lord, he has given me much peace. I don’t know how we survived that my dad was my best friend but with God he can give you peace in the midst of a storm

  • @brucehough492
    @brucehough492 4 місяці тому +1

    So good. Thanks Father Mike.

  • @rosemaguire4472
    @rosemaguire4472 Рік тому +1

    Padro Pia said
    Pray hope and don’t worry.
    Jesus I surrender myself to you,take care of everything and he does.

  • @angelacastellarin
    @angelacastellarin Рік тому +15

    I just lost my dad suddenly and unexpectedly last week. I have had so many emotions. He was a Deacon in the Catholic church and I want to be ready for the funeral yet right now I don’t know how to live without him cause I miss him so much. I am sad for sure, yet Dad always taught me to trust in God and in God’s plans. Dad reminded me that God’s ways are higher than my ways and God’s thoughts are higher than my thoughts too. I am giving my sadness up to God and I am trusting in God to help me through this rough time.

    • @grivsxiaomi4661
      @grivsxiaomi4661 Рік тому +3

      May Lord Jesus bless you & be with you. Amen.

    • @jessicagrimsland7337
      @jessicagrimsland7337 Рік тому +1

      I am so sorry. I am in the same situation but it was my mother. I will be praying for you.

    • @roxymelrose1822
      @roxymelrose1822 Рік тому +1

      Sorry ❤️ God strengthen you on this journey called life❤️🙏

  • @generalyousif3640
    @generalyousif3640 Рік тому +11

    I always pray for God to lead my family and I towards him. Daily, multiple times. I put trust in his mercy and ask him to help me discern.

  • @petraperez1075
    @petraperez1075 Рік тому +11

    Thank you, Father. Losing your loved one is so incredibly painful, the worst pain. I don’t know if you read these but I want you to know that God used you in part to prepare me for my cross to carry. On Dec. 20th, 2021 I was very happily cleaning my house and listening to a video of yours about the meaning of Advent to prepare for the coming of Christ. But it was about meeting Christ at our particular judgment, and that we should be prepared for a holy death. About halfway through the video, at 7pm I got a phone call where I was informed that my husband had suddenly died in an accident. We had just found out the day before that I was pregnant with our fourth child, and my husband was a wonderful person. So I had been especially happy in the moments leading up to that call, but in those final moments before God called me to give my most loving husband back to Him, you were helping prepare me for that though you don’t know it. It is still really hard, so thank you for your other helpful videos. God Bless and you are in my prayers.

  • @joanlb-ld3tw
    @joanlb-ld3tw Рік тому +13

    Dear Fr. Mike, thank you for this very timely video. It’s comforting to know that I am not alone in my fear of losing my husband and best friend of 52+ years. I live in fear and panic every day wondering how I will ever cope on my own. We have no family close by and since moving to FL in retirement have found it difficult to makes friends at this age. Most days I feel scared, isolated and anxious about the future. I pray to God for strength and courage but know I need to trust Him more. Praying for you Fr. Mike and all your followers….especially those grieving the loss of a loved one. Sacred Heart of Jesus I Place All My Trust In You. Come Holy Spirit.🕊️ Amen🙏❤

  • @Nancy-vo2kn
    @Nancy-vo2kn Рік тому +4

    My dad passed away a year ago at the age of 64. I still feel sad sometimes. I know God has helped so much. WE ALL SHOULD PRAY FOR THE SOULS IN PURGATORY ❤

  • @Kim-rq7my
    @Kim-rq7my Рік тому +4

    “The one thing we know about the future- God will be there.” 🙌 Amen!

  • @sharonobrien6257
    @sharonobrien6257 Рік тому +20

    So helpful. My mom is suffering from dementia and her memory is fading. She is so precious to us, her 10 children, and I will miss her terribly when she goes to Heaven. 🙏🏻✝️

    • @echofarer_art
      @echofarer_art Рік тому +4

      I’m sorry to hear that. I’ll pray for you, your family, and your mom.🙏

    • @kwkw5711
      @kwkw5711 Рік тому +1

      Grief does fade eventually. 2 years on from death of my mum and 14 years from fathers death. Anticipation was worse in some ways than event itself.

    • @katkat2340
      @katkat2340 Рік тому +1

      God bless her and keep her.

  • @kelco64
    @kelco64 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Fr. Mike. I have been away from the church, and have lost my mom and a sister within 3 months. What you said has snapped me back. You reminded me how much I need Christ everyday. HE is always there and I feel strength from HIM. Everything changes perspective when you go through life with God ever present, ever close. God Bless you.

  • @InExcelsisDeo24
    @InExcelsisDeo24 8 місяців тому +2

    My mom died too young a couple of years ago. She passed on the precious gift of her Catholic faith to me. Although I miss her terribly, I know that we will meet again. I trust that God is taking care of her, his faithful servant. She had a beautiful anointing, given the Sacrament of the Sick while she was still able to receive the Eucharist.
    She lives on here in this mortal plane in her children and grandchildren, and I pray that she has stepped into the glory of eternal life with Christ, who she loved so much.
    I have no fear of death now. I know that God is always by my side.
    Fr Mike, I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing your Mom is so difficult. She raised an incredible man, what a gift to all of us.
    Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May their souls and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

  • @adrianusseto1737
    @adrianusseto1737 2 місяці тому +2

    I believe it's not a coincidence that I'm listening to you talking in person with me.
    Thank you father Mike, God bless you..

  • @lindaorth9341
    @lindaorth9341 10 місяців тому +1

    2nd year of my Mamas passing from Covid. Having very bad time of it. I was the only child. I Pray to God so hard for peace in my heart💔🙏✝️

  • @veeherreraJanecka
    @veeherreraJanecka 7 місяців тому +1

    My grandson died of SIDS today. We are devastated.
    Needing prayers.
    🙏🏽

  • @jennifermiller2817
    @jennifermiller2817 4 місяці тому +1

    God bless you, Father. Thank you for this message.

  • @kevinmckay6815
    @kevinmckay6815 Рік тому +15

    I am so in love with this man of God he truly is full of the Holy Spirit. God Bless Father Mike and all of you listening to his messages.

  • @Sydroo1969
    @Sydroo1969 Рік тому +1

    Quite profound message.
    That would make a great t-shirt. " God is bigger than my fear"

  • @dianezunun
    @dianezunun 7 місяців тому +1

    miscarried twins in August of 2023, I needed this 😭💕

  • @Classical.Conservative
    @Classical.Conservative Рік тому +1

    4:25 this really hit me. My father passed away when I was seven years old. I didn't understand it at first but as I became a teenager I felt like I had nothing and that life had little meaning if it could be taken away in an instant. However, as I have grown closer to God and to the Catholic faith I have realized that life is meaningful and that my father passed away for a reason and that I must simply trust in God's plan and will for He is a just Father. Now I am at peace because of Him.

  • @alyssafletcher4067
    @alyssafletcher4067 Рік тому +4

    I am at a loss for words so I will simply say: thank you.

  • @default0111
    @default0111 8 місяців тому +3

    I lost my brother but I found God.

  • @MrClarkyclark
    @MrClarkyclark Рік тому +8

    Perfect timing for my greiving heart.
    We pray for the Gift of Your Holy Spirit o’LORD. In Christ Jesus’ Name. Amen.

  • @veeherreraJanecka
    @veeherreraJanecka 7 місяців тому +1

    I need you God !

  • @SaltyTribeCo
    @SaltyTribeCo Рік тому +10

    Our 6th child, our 10 week old daughter died in her sleep (SIDS) in 2021. It is the most horrific, shattering thing we have ever experienced. Holding your child that isn’t breathing - it LITERALLY felt like my heart would stop beating. It was physically, mind blowingly painful. Breathing was painful. We still don’t understand and probably never will. Mary understands, My Lord, My God comforts and gives peace. Thank you for this message Fr Mike 💗🙏🏽

    • @MsTupton
      @MsTupton Рік тому +3

      Hugs to you!! That happened to me 28 years ago with my 3rd baby. My husband and I were gutted. We have never been the same. But God was with us all the way through it. And now 28 years and 4 more kids later. I still trust in God. My heart breaks for you. Know God loves you so much.

    • @veeherreraJanecka
      @veeherreraJanecka 7 місяців тому

      I’m so sorry. My grandson died of SIDS today. We are devastated.
      Sending love and prayers.

  • @CricketTobias
    @CricketTobias Рік тому +1

    My Forever Love, My Husband entered paradise on 10/26/2018. I was so thankful that I was able to spend the rest of his life with him. Holding his hand and praying as he took his last breath of life broke my heart into a million pieces, but also comforting knowing that he was on his journey to enter paradise to be with Jesus.

  • @maddieho9994
    @maddieho9994 Рік тому +7

    I was watching a video clip. Of my belated father and wanted to cry. Father your video came on, as if God said “I’m right here”. So comforting and sweet. Thank you

  • @crs949
    @crs949 Рік тому +1

    Be not afraid takes a lot of faith and trust

  • @halleylujah247
    @halleylujah247 Рік тому +3

    Prayers for you Fr. Mike and your mom and your family.

  • @jaimemarks4302
    @jaimemarks4302 Рік тому +13

    Fr. Mike, my mother was murdered when I was 3. It was very hard to know that God knew, but I accepted it…it was hard. I’m 42 now, I’m going to miss my mom every single day, but because God knows past, present, future I am who I am today.

    • @veeherreraJanecka
      @veeherreraJanecka 7 місяців тому

      Sending love
      Lost my grandson today to Sids and my son in December.
      We are not alone.
      🕊🕯🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @michaelhaywood8262
      @michaelhaywood8262 20 днів тому

      So sorry for you losing your mother at such a young age, especially in such tragic circumstances. I hope you can remember her and that you have some good memories of her.

  • @nickcorfino902
    @nickcorfino902 Рік тому +1

    This reminds me of a quote from the “1883” TV show-
    “It’s the lords will. You can’t believe in heaven and then be upset when someone goes there.”

  • @truthseekerlana9871
    @truthseekerlana9871 Рік тому +2

    I lost my mother suddenly when I was 13. I didn’t stop crying for 40 years every time her name came up. Eventually the crying stopped but the loss will never go away. Love you Mama in heaven.

  • @hollywhalen4461
    @hollywhalen4461 Рік тому +20

    I woll add you to my daily priest prayer list Father Mike. My dads name was Michael alsp, and we just lost him. His heart stopped. I feel like my heart stopped too but I praying so hard for his soul, all the souls, especially those who don't have anyone to pray for them. Thank you for reminding me that being a Catholic is truly a gift of God. I miss my father with an ache inside, but i am learning to turn my tears into prayer. Prayers for all of you who recently lost a loved one.

  • @Hyperb2002
    @Hyperb2002 3 місяці тому +1

    December last year was one. Today makes two. Pray for them, and pray for us who remember them.

  • @katherinespong
    @katherinespong Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Fr Mike. My spouse is dying and I am helpless watching him go down hill. My faith has kept me going for 9 years, but I am finding myself getting tired, physically, emotiknally, and spiritually. Thank you for this message.

  • @archalupa4077
    @archalupa4077 3 місяці тому +1

    When my husband went down and was wavering between life and death, I learned that God’s Love wills only the best for us. That God holds the “Book of Life” in His Hands and sees past, present and future- whereas we are a dot on one page. He knows what path will get each of us to heaven and what is best for my loved one may not be what I want. Trust in God requires us to say, “God, Your Will, not mine” - no matter how hard it is to say.
    I learned to pray for an acceptance of God’s Will instead of what I want.

  • @mariastathopoulos744
    @mariastathopoulos744 Рік тому +23

    My sister died at the age of 24 from Multiple Sclerosis in 1995. Our family went through tremendous grief watching her deteriorate and pass away. It took 10 years to overcome the deep heartbreak.
    Twelve years ago, my daughter died at the age of 4 from an unknown progressive neurological disease.
    Since her passing my faith has wavered, at times strong and then weak. The heartache is constant. The feeling of being robbed from the family life and the life l wished for her tears me apart. I believe my daughter and my sister are embraced in God's love and in paradise. This is the only comfort.
    Good days, bad days. But life is still worthwhile and it is faith that pulls me through every time.

    • @farmersdaughter1000
      @farmersdaughter1000 Рік тому

      Maria I'm so sorry for your losses. May God bless you with peace amid your grief remembering that your sister and your little girl are with God now and are praying for you to be with them someday when God calls you home. God bless you my dear.

    • @Jin3311
      @Jin3311 Рік тому

      God Bless you. I cried reading your comment. I have a son who has had type 1 since 3. He has almost died a few times. The pain and worry over him is overwhelming at times. I pray for you. The only thing I can say is, keep your faith so you can join your sister and child one day. Honor them by living a loving life with God. Talk to them each and everyday and try so hard to laugh and be positive! Praying and reading scripture helps me so much. There is power in prayer and scripture! BIG HUGS! ❤

    • @hollywhalen4461
      @hollywhalen4461 Рік тому +1

      My prayers are with you. God knows best for us. We may never know why things happen the way they do, but so happy to hear you have the faith. Don't lose that! Turn every sorrow into prayer. That's what I have learned to do. Use it for good. God bless. Ps. Mary is amazing at sending her comfort as well.

    • @mariastathopoulos744
      @mariastathopoulos744 5 місяців тому

      ​@@farmersdaughter1000 Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. God bless you.

    • @mariastathopoulos744
      @mariastathopoulos744 5 місяців тому

      ​@@Jin3311 Thank you for your kind words. I hope your child grows strong. God bless you and your family.

  • @michelapontello2437
    @michelapontello2437 Рік тому +1

    Simply: thank you, father Mike. I needed just these words In this moment of my life.

  • @Theamateurecologist
    @Theamateurecologist Рік тому +1

    A family of member of mine just passed and I needed this. Thank you father ❤

  • @baseballmomof8
    @baseballmomof8 Рік тому +1

    Prayers for all of you who are mourning the loss of parents, spouses, siblings, children and friends. So much pain in these comments. May Our Lord send many Simons to help all of you carry your heavy crosses.

  • @veeherreraJanecka
    @veeherreraJanecka 10 місяців тому +1

    Father Mike is my pastor 🕊🕯🙏🏽

  • @yeseniacaballero2746
    @yeseniacaballero2746 Рік тому +39

    Thank you Father Mike, I needed to hear this. I’ve been dealing with Anxiety and Panic attacks as my Fathers death is near. He’s been suffering from early onset Alzheimer’s for over 10 years and is in his final stages.

    • @pattisiedlicki
      @pattisiedlicki Рік тому +6

      I’ll be praying for your father. 🙏

    • @monicadriscoll645
      @monicadriscoll645 Рік тому +5

      It'll be 19 years on All Saints Day when my husband died from Alzheimers!🙏🏼✝️🙏🏼 I'll be praying for you!

    • @fabianpatrizio2865
      @fabianpatrizio2865 Рік тому +2

      God Bless

    • @123OGNIAN
      @123OGNIAN Рік тому

      Im not sure if im late to this.If you havent tried, there is a therapy , vein liquid with EDTA Chelation. Its for 5-7 days i think. It can remove heavy metals from body and brain. The reason im saying it is because i keep hearing from time to time that alzheimer can be produced by acumulation over long period of time by metals in the brain. It can be little expensive, but it doesnt hurt to say it. It can be done in private and you can ask them if they had success with alzheimer being treated at their care with edta chelation. I apologize for the out of the blue info, specially since you are doing your best to find peace.
      God bless your father and family.

  • @sammyc9617
    @sammyc9617 Рік тому +1

    Has anyone else noticed the correlation between a decrease in subscribing to a faith tradition and the increase in anxiety, across our world?
    Pray for our world! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    God Bless 🙏🏻😇

  • @Lagunaticmom
    @Lagunaticmom Рік тому +1

    “If I have nothing but God,
    is that enough for me….?”
    “For a lot of our lives, we get to pretend that God is optional. It is In moments of great need, that we often realize, God is not optional……but we realize….God, I need You.”
    “If there is one thing we know about the future, is that God is there.”
    Thank you Fr. Mike. 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @17CW68fNv
    @17CW68fNv Рік тому +8

    Thanks, Fr Mike, for thinking of us, and giving this wise council. Praying for you, God Bless. Claire.

  • @h3868-d7j
    @h3868-d7j Рік тому +20

    I've been up to my nose deep into this despair that is the impeding death of my parents, especially my father's. His just feels so close. Suffocating anxiety, panic attacks, insomnia, all that good stuff since October, basically. Therapy helps so much, but I needed this video, badly. I felt hugged and talked to. Thank you.

    • @AlexanderBrown77
      @AlexanderBrown77 Рік тому +1

      ♥️ 1 John 5 kJV
      13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      1 Peter 1 kJV
      19 But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:
      🩸 1 John 1 kJV
      7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.

  • @techas20
    @techas20 Рік тому +3

    Gosh this is so very true. God is with us during our good times and the bad, our happiest and our saddest, he was there before we were in the womb, during our birth, will be there at our death. God is always there. No matter what. Whether we recognize it or not 🙏🏼

  • @buddybrown8607
    @buddybrown8607 Рік тому +2

    Shake off excessive anxiety and show a little confidence in God's merciful Providence.

  • @springsummerwinterorfall
    @springsummerwinterorfall Рік тому +2

    When we face the death of a close person, or for anyone for tha matter, we are ultimately facing our own DEATH. If we can’t face our own death, we will not be able to face the death of others and Vice versa. God will be with you and hold your hand through the whole thing, trusting him for He is the way the truth and the life.

  • @laurieloudamy1846
    @laurieloudamy1846 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much, Father Mike. I received a bad diagnosis for my loved on on Sept. 29 and was met with fear and grief. I lost my loved one on 14DEC and withdrew. It’s really hard -thank you for understanding how hard loss and grief are. You are a wonderful priest and human being.

  • @joebarzo9935
    @joebarzo9935 Рік тому +7

    Timothy 2 (1 to 7). ...for We are not born with a spirit of fear...but of power and love and discipline. Do not become oppressed dear friends by the spirits that would attempt to keep us in fear. Let us all renew our minds and think like God...and stop thinking like mankind. Such a timely message for me Fr. Schmitz. With thanks to you and glory to the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

  • @MidwestGirl
    @MidwestGirl Рік тому +4

    Thank you Father Mike.
    One of the things I love about Father Mike, is he 'understands'. There is no chastisement for a faltering faith, our doubts, our lack of understanding, or for the way we 'feel'. He offers encouragement and education and comfort from a place of love. God bless you Father Mike.

  • @luzpruz1358
    @luzpruz1358 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Father Mike. I have heard that God works in unknown ways and today He have spoken to me through your voice. Right now I’m dealing with the fear of losing my husband of 53 years. I know the Lord is here with us, doesn’t matter what we face.

  • @karenrich9092
    @karenrich9092 Рік тому +5

    I really needed God last year as I was recovering from colon cancer. It was so hard to go through this without my husband who passed in 2017. God came to me in thr form of little children and I thank God every day for them.
    My husband and I had God by our side in 2007 when my mother died in March and his mother in July. Our Catholic faith has been a very priceless thing in our lives.

  • @ceciliacastelino1250
    @ceciliacastelino1250 Рік тому

    O glorious THRONE of GRACE, IMMACULATE HEART of MARY Whose LOVE is stronger than death, TRIUMPH & REIGN in ALL hearts +

  • @maryloumonheim8724
    @maryloumonheim8724 Рік тому +3

    Amen Fr Mike

  • @janetandrews1306
    @janetandrews1306 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Father Mike!

  • @debbie4503
    @debbie4503 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for the reminder Father Mike.

  • @iloveyoubyee
    @iloveyoubyee Рік тому +1

    My 6-year-old son died in June 2022 and I have gotten to a place of acceptance and peace only through the grace of God and complete 100% surrender to the Lord and trust in his promise of the resurrection ✝️

  • @zacharymello8497
    @zacharymello8497 Рік тому +5

    I was just having thoughts about this subject yesterday. I struggle a lot with these kinds of thoughts so the reminder to let God enter into my anxieties is very helpful. Thank you and God bless you all.

  • @jenniferrinaldi8808
    @jenniferrinaldi8808 Рік тому +5

    This video is so timely Father. My family and I have been caring for my elderly grandmother full time for 14 years. She has a blood disorder that is has developed into early stages of leukemia. She also has dementia and a heart issue. Her numbers dropped again and she had to get another blood transfusion. My grandmother just turned 94. My mom and I were talking about this much more lately. She has been a very holy woman and I know that she loves God so much. We know that we will be at a loss without her. She has been such a powerful presence and she has been our world full time for 14 years. It will be the hardest on my mom. Thank you Father for your video. It is so comforting.

  • @paulforbes1217
    @paulforbes1217 Рік тому +5

    Fr. Mike, you appear to be developing sun-damaged skin. Skin cancer is deadly serious. Take care. We need you around for a long time. Viva Cristo Rey!

  • @traciebarthel3319
    @traciebarthel3319 Рік тому +1

    You are stronger than you know. That is something I really needed to hear this morning. Thank you Fr Mike

  • @michellehayes9958
    @michellehayes9958 Рік тому +1

    I lost my dad on the 18th August 2023 Friday at 03.20 Divine Mercy Hour.We had 6 different priests into visit him and bless and anointed him had his confessions and my sister who was a Eucharist Minister brought him communion every day he died peacefully and quickly in the Hospice with me holding his hand and talking to him telling him how much we all loved him and how he was a great father to us all and that i was with him when he wanted to go home to be with my mum😢 me and my twin sister prayed every day and night the rosary the divine mercy chaplet we read psalm 23 and 91 to him and scripture reading from the bible played some music for him my dad brought me into this world held me and i was proud to be with him when he took his last breath Rip Dad i know Jesus was waiting for you to take you home❤😢

  • @loricrockett-owens5117
    @loricrockett-owens5117 Рік тому +7

    Beautifully said father Mike. God bless and hugs. Have a great day.

  • @blairerwin8061
    @blairerwin8061 Рік тому +1

    “He gives us Himself.”
    Father Mike really‘gets it’.
    Jesus IS the Gospel. The lLord is all we need.
    God is our home.

  • @susanfox4960
    @susanfox4960 Рік тому +5

    Father Mike you have no idea how much I needed to hear your words. Thank you

  • @user-fc1ld9ts8u
    @user-fc1ld9ts8u Рік тому +2

    I was far weaker than I thought I would be.

  • @echofarer_art
    @echofarer_art Рік тому +25

    Thank you for this video. May God bless everyone going through the loss of a loved one and anyone suffering fear. Also I would like to ask for your prayers, please. I’ve been struggling lately and going through a rough patch in my faith. Thank you so much.🙏

  • @gregoryschnacky9837
    @gregoryschnacky9837 Рік тому +6

    Brought tears to my eyes. One of the best "homilies" Father Schmitz has given.

  • @vgraham580
    @vgraham580 Рік тому +9

    Thank you, Fr. Mike, for this important message, we all need to hear.

  • @exbiscotti
    @exbiscotti Рік тому

    I lost my precious daughter, Dina, almost nine years ago, forever 41. Finding you, Father Mike, has helped me accept this incomprehensible loss and return to the Church. Thank you for helping my soul to heal.

  • @sunitamarie1086
    @sunitamarie1086 Рік тому +2

    That was beautiful Fr Mike.Praying for you, your Mama and your family.Stay safe

  • @neilcunningham5542
    @neilcunningham5542 7 місяців тому +1

    God brought me to this video. I live in infinite anxiety... I need God now. Please pray for me. Hod Bless Father Mijke.

  • @hernandezteresa2614
    @hernandezteresa2614 Рік тому +6

    This is hard to hear but comforting at the same time. Thank you Father Mike. I appreciate you

  • @MrDarshD
    @MrDarshD Рік тому +1

    God will be there.
    Thank you Fr. Mike!

  • @homemakersheart3614
    @homemakersheart3614 Рік тому +1

    Amen! I believe our fear comes from what we want, not fully accepting and trusting in God. He loves us so much and in that deep trust, He is there. ALWAYS!!!

  • @carmenpugacobo3961
    @carmenpugacobo3961 Рік тому +1

    I recently lost my dear mother and I am grieving. I sometimes think that maybe now she was turned into an Angel by God, because she was so noble and generous. I wish we could meet in heaven again. I miss her terribly. Thank you, Father, for this video.

  • @lindacrooks4143
    @lindacrooks4143 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Fr. Mike, this was so helpful….anxiety about the future is fear…. I need to keep telling myself that no matter what, Jesus will be there to help me; I won’t be alone….awesome. 🙏❤️🙏

  • @pam7533
    @pam7533 Рік тому +2

    The pain of losing a loved one would be impossible without leaning on God.

  • @michelejones5538
    @michelejones5538 22 дні тому

    My husband died on Aug 29, 2024 at 52 years old. Total shock and surprise. When the state police call you at work, you know that’s never good news. This was a total shock to me. It’s hard to deal with.