"I Mocked Him for Crying in an Argument in Front of My Friends, I Wish He Didn't React Like This"

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 129

  • @jameyb1984
    @jameyb1984 19 днів тому +66

    Women: We want men to be comfortable showing emotions.
    Also women: Men who cry are soft and need to toughen up

    • @Remianen
      @Remianen 19 днів тому

      BINGO! If women didn't have double standards, they'd have no standards at all.

    • @joeramirez7879
      @joeramirez7879 19 днів тому

      Man never cries in front of a woman

    • @georgeturner301
      @georgeturner301 19 днів тому +4

      Damned if you...Damned if you don't!!!!

    • @Aeroshogun
      @Aeroshogun 19 днів тому

      Solution: stop caring what they think or say.

    • @Aeroshogun
      @Aeroshogun 19 днів тому

      @ don’t underestimate women and their ability to “feel” rather than “think”.

  • @paulchaudoir190
    @paulchaudoir190 19 днів тому +48

    Who needs enemies when you have this chick. Wow

    • @RobertStewart-i3m
      @RobertStewart-i3m 19 днів тому +7

      Oh yes. That crap is why I'll be enjoying taco Thursday alone. Plus the tacos don't trash my heart. Tacos have another way.....LoL

  • @dwightharris2957
    @dwightharris2957 19 днів тому +23

    Was anyone else yelling “YOUR THE PROBLEM “ or was it just me? lol

  • @GenericUsername223
    @GenericUsername223 19 днів тому +39

    Bruh aint no way she spins this into being a victim. Im sure she exaggerated all the times he was being sensitive. This is why you cant be too vulnerable around your women fellas. Im not saying don't show feelings at all but this is just one example of how it can be weaponized against you. Good on this guy for playing it smart.

    • @RobertStewart-i3m
      @RobertStewart-i3m 19 днів тому +5

      It's always weaponized. They're supposed to forgive and forget.

    • @GenericUsername223
      @GenericUsername223 19 днів тому

      @RobertStewart-i3m Maybe I'm naive but NAWALT

    • @SamElliott161
      @SamElliott161 19 днів тому +3

      You have to show as less as possible.
      All of them are able to weaponize it against you in due time.

    • @SamElliott161
      @SamElliott161 19 днів тому +2

      @@GenericUsername223 Nah bruh, to some degree AWALT !

    • @RobertStewart-i3m
      @RobertStewart-i3m 18 днів тому

      @@GenericUsername223 What does that mean?

  • @joeramirez7879
    @joeramirez7879 19 днів тому +7

    No woman wants to cry baby man or another woman you never cry in front of a woman

  • @lordsinister707
    @lordsinister707 19 днів тому +7

    But this is the man that women say that they want. They want the emotionally intelligent man who is willing to express his feelings.
    Now they complain about him?!

  • @969thewhip
    @969thewhip 15 днів тому +1

    If he had the house before the relationship, damn right he should get the house in the settlement!

  • @quinntinsmith7363
    @quinntinsmith7363 19 днів тому +3

    I don't know. I think I'd be annoyed by that, too. But she picked him. If he's sensitive and you married him that means you accept the fact that he's emotional. The disrespect is 100 percent unwarranted.

  • @TheVampirePriest
    @TheVampirePriest 19 днів тому +17

    She’s a bully who verbally, mentally, emotionally & spiritually abused her husband… but she’s innocent in all of this.
    Meanwhile, everyone’s giving her “tough love” & treating her like an adult… but she’s the victim.

  • @robertvaught6541
    @robertvaught6541 19 днів тому +8

    Love how she started the story it's such a mess i need to get my side out there. it's all about validation.

  • @popstarprincess123
    @popstarprincess123 19 днів тому +4

    He’s a pilot of course he knows how to be methodical calculating and professional

  • @ChristopherR1981
    @ChristopherR1981 18 днів тому +1

    This woman was just looking for any reason to ditch him... they will look for ANYTHING. Probably looking for cashing out on a divorce etc.

  • @TechnoMageB5
    @TechnoMageB5 18 днів тому +3

    If you call how you treated your husband "help", I would dread seeing your version of punishment.

  • @datruth1082
    @datruth1082 18 днів тому +6

    I'll be honest. I'm not 100% on the husband's side. Don't get me wrong, she messed up. Publicly humiliating your partner is an automatic loss. But, toxic masculinity? Are we still trying to run with that? To attribute how men have always acted as toxic is dumb. Can we be better? Sure. But to call it toxic, come on. Men that cry don't bother me. Do you. But if you cry as much as story lets on, yeah, maybe drink less water so there's less tears in your storage. Part of me had to take a step back and wonder if these stories are exaggerated but knowing the society we live in now, I can believe it. You say "I'm portraying toxic masculinity" then ok, I'll stop when you stop your "toxic femininity."

  • @MrSharrutu
    @MrSharrutu 19 днів тому +3

    Hahah ligjting th mood nah you were just mocking him

  • @EricChengV.
    @EricChengV. 18 днів тому +3

    Sure. We have a tóxic relationship. Why? Because wife humiliated exhibited and mocked husband in front of friends he did right getting therapy and divorcing her.

  • @natashahenry5044
    @natashahenry5044 19 днів тому +10

    I mean she could think he’s a little to emotional for her liking but, in that circumstance you just divorce him. You don’t belittle and deem him for who he is. Ma’am go sit down.

  • @TheIronwil
    @TheIronwil 19 днів тому +8

    I don’t believe her husband wept nearly as much as she claimed. Dog food commercials? Not buying it. But regardless, the only way her husband could have such a large pool of documentation of her cutting him down was if she did it constantly… which she did.

    • @Dave-un4oe
      @Dave-un4oe 5 днів тому

      He had so much material, because he actually was whining all the fucking time. I get emotions. But there is showing emotions, and then there is being a toddler.

  • @donaldkue2364
    @donaldkue2364 19 днів тому +8

    No lie, whenever i listened to the stories of the other side, i usually go straight to "whatever cheater" or "what a garden tool" but it's always good to know how both parties felt or what they went through during the situation.

  • @DBreviews777
    @DBreviews777 18 днів тому +1

    She married a man she thought would be easy to manipulate and change into her 'ideal' man. If she wasn't cheating on him, I'd be shocked. He USED to be a pansy ass man who cried over everything, until he realized showing that emotion was hurting him more than venting to the woman who claimed to love him. They were both wrong for one another, and I am glad he found his strength to leave her, before even more damage could be done. Thankfully no children were involved.

  • @richardcox4413
    @richardcox4413 18 днів тому +5

    A narcissist and her husband are quickly parted.

  • @jbustergrant
    @jbustergrant 18 днів тому +2

    This the problem with mixed marriages, he was actually a human being. When everyone in your life is wrong, they aren't wrong.

  • @gendai3513
    @gendai3513 19 днів тому +9

    Responsibility is a woman's kryponite.

  • @justcause9334
    @justcause9334 18 днів тому +2

    There is no such thing as "toxic masculinity" (or toxic feminity). There are only toxic people, and toxic people are neither masculine nor feminine.
    Insults, mockery, belittling, and shaming someone is not how you make them stronger.

  • @theinfidel2143
    @theinfidel2143 19 днів тому +3

    I hope she never gets married again. I hope Brad gets the support he needs.

  • @robertvaught6541
    @robertvaught6541 19 днів тому +4

    not all pilots are Maverick in fact Maverick is not and would never be an airline pilot the cocky pilots either end up broke and busted or dead.

  • @AdelaideGuy1968
    @AdelaideGuy1968 18 днів тому +1

    We need to normalize the phrasess "Toxic Misandry"and ""Toxic Feminism"

  • @krlayne
    @krlayne 19 днів тому +7

    Marrying after such a short time was foolishness on the man's part.

  • @Jeff-m5o
    @Jeff-m5o 19 днів тому +3

    Sounds like she got what she asked for to me hopefully she will be alone for the rest of her life

  • @nachtwaya8721
    @nachtwaya8721 19 днів тому +4

    Yeah, everyone sucks here. I get where she's coming from, but her actions were over the top. She should have suggested counseling for his over-emotional nature. Those kinds of reactions are indicative of pent up stress. Understandable with his job. But the mocking, the rude comments, and the overall disdain... she should have been more supportive of the seemingly unbalanced emotional nature he was exhibiting.
    The story itself reads like it was written by a far left lunatic fringe neo-feminist. 'Toxic masculinity' shows that.
    And the male character ends up sounding like he's manipulative. That some of his emotional outbursts were for show, to manipulate those around him and to impress the women.

  • @grdnsetr
    @grdnsetr 11 днів тому +1

    This story is complete horsesh*t . if this was real you would have gotten a medal for finding a real man on the side.

  • @kevinlemond4461
    @kevinlemond4461 19 днів тому +9

    No accountability and loyalty God help people like this such a fool

  • @bradburchnell2341
    @bradburchnell2341 16 днів тому +1

    She’s ridiculous and this is why men don’t trust their partners about being vulnerable. They wesponize it. She’s awful and is the bad guy here. Gets what she deserved.

  • @KillerBebe
    @KillerBebe 19 днів тому +4

    There is being sensitive and emotional, or being a downright crybaby😊

  • @MichaelJenkins-l8r
    @MichaelJenkins-l8r 19 днів тому +24

    This man was super emotional.There is nothing wrong with being emotional but this guy needs to get a grip

    • @joshuawilliams1893
      @joshuawilliams1893 19 днів тому +6

      I agree with this. He over did it with freaking everything. There is no need to cry unless it is about sickness or death.

    • @mmdb264
      @mmdb264 19 днів тому +3

      But when iron man died tho😢

    • @nachtwaya8721
      @nachtwaya8721 19 днів тому +4

      In the end, the writer, probably unknowingly, made it seem like his whole schtick was put on. That he was doing it to fool people.

    • @joeramirez7879
      @joeramirez7879 19 днів тому +4

      There is something wrong with men being emotional all the time this is what happens when a boy grows up without his father and raised only by his mother.

    • @GenericUsername223
      @GenericUsername223 18 днів тому +1

      @@MichaelJenkins-l8r pretty sure she exaggerated it

  • @popstarprincess123
    @popstarprincess123 19 днів тому +1

    It’s not about what happens in public
    She just doesn’t want him to have emotions that she doesn’t control

  • @ZacharyTaylorBaxter
    @ZacharyTaylorBaxter 19 днів тому +1

    Taking accountability for your poor behavior is kryptonite for a lot of people.

  • @nicknitro86
    @nicknitro86 19 днів тому +4

    Ok but constantly crying over every little thing is just obnoxious

  • @stornowayscotland
    @stornowayscotland 19 днів тому +7

    Thanks for the story keep them coming

    • @RobertStewart-i3m
      @RobertStewart-i3m 19 днів тому

      Well hello again, Stornoway! How is the land of my ancestors? Well....some of them

  • @MrSharrutu
    @MrSharrutu 19 днів тому +4

    Sve was the toxic one her narcisism doesnt allowed her to take responsability, creepy records nah thats smart records, when he got away from you and trully felt loved he laught, he dint set you up he got rid of you, his friends turned agaings you cause tou were a bully

  • @alihaydaryalnz6118
    @alihaydaryalnz6118 19 днів тому +6

    I think most Americans are pilots. And their relationships last for 3 years and when their wives turn 32 they immediately start looking for other things. 😂

  • @MrSharrutu
    @MrSharrutu 19 днів тому +3

    Fix their marriage fix it yourself b you destroyed it

  • @alihaydaryalnz6118
    @alihaydaryalnz6118 19 днів тому +1

    The woman in the story is just like me. But I also love polar bears, even more than humans. 🐾

  • @N3yo100
    @N3yo100 14 днів тому +1

    Yeah 2 mins in and i know your the problem the men were uncomfortable because they knew what was coming with him like that and we don't want to see it

  • @anthonyjohnsonsr.5220
    @anthonyjohnsonsr.5220 9 днів тому

    Men when you see the signs of a insensitive and toxic person get out.

  • @DawidGabriel
    @DawidGabriel 19 днів тому +2

    Yeah, she's as empathic as a doorknob, but if the guy is half as sensitive as she makes him to be I understand some frustration on her part. Dealing with emotional drama queens - or kings - is tiresome. If at every social gathering one thing or another always invites a meltdown from the guy he should have been in therapy a long time ago, and the couple's friends have all the right to avoid being around. Tearing up suddenly remembering your dead father is more than acceptable, having a hairtrigger on your heartstrings for whatever sob story around you IS NOT.

  • @brucek6563
    @brucek6563 18 днів тому

    She could have talked to him about his emotional situation and how it was affecting their friends. But she side stepped that and made a fool of him in front of their friends.
    He was a bit over emotional.

  • @michealcline7354
    @michealcline7354 19 днів тому +5

    She really is dence isn't she

  • @nobody-px7pz
    @nobody-px7pz 6 днів тому

    She needed to stay with the confident overzealous men. That are known for cheating and beating or just bad partners in general. Women stop dating dudes you don't want or like because of stability and security. You don't deserve that man. And your mind and body tells you.

  • @Ian-lf5gq
    @Ian-lf5gq 19 днів тому +2

    Wouldn’t like to be on his plane 😂😂😂😂

  • @bloodhorn02
    @bloodhorn02 3 дні тому

    I’m on her side on this one. His wimpy ass needed to stop crying. Don’t cry in front of your wife, or friends, or in front of anyone. Men don’t do that shit. And then he needed therapy for this? Stfu. She just wanted what women want: a man that is strong enough to not make her feel vulnerable and insecure.

  • @terrellmorris5801
    @terrellmorris5801 18 днів тому +1

    Mathew is little too sensitive.

  • @squadfathercrypto
    @squadfathercrypto 19 днів тому +2

    "climate change" 🙄

  • @joeramirez7879
    @joeramirez7879 19 днів тому +1

    You picked them that's on you

  • @slowmotion4435
    @slowmotion4435 19 днів тому +1

    MGTOW FTW!

  • @Rawhi.7
    @Rawhi.7 18 днів тому

    Why as a man you crying in front of her friend's anyway?! Aint NO woman respecting a man who doing shvt like that. Mans was a wimp. She knew it, took advantage of it. Mans was crying like a wuss at their wedding, come tf on.

  • @c.s.charles2102
    @c.s.charles2102 18 днів тому +1

    Well... I have a problem with effeminate, overly-sensitive men too, so I can't criticize her.

  • @Th3RandomGuy-Batsy
    @Th3RandomGuy-Batsy 15 днів тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 it wasn't emotional one for me.

  • @liverfailure1597
    @liverfailure1597 14 днів тому

    Why does this keep talking about "toxic masculinity?" This is toxic femininity

  • @lbjohnnyjohn
    @lbjohnnyjohn 19 днів тому +1

    I don't think her opinion was wrong. How she expressed it was bad. I have gotten misty-eyed in movies when i see something inspirational. When you stand back and look at the beauty people are capable of can be overwhelming. I have full-on bawled when my favorite wrestler died (RIP Latino Heat) and when Bruce pushed Ben back onto the shuttle to save the world. I however don't cry to win arguments that's a woman's game of manipulation. The way she describes all the times this guy lets out the water works i would be embarrassed too. Hell, i would be embarrassed if my wife cried that much. Society is trying to turn men into pansies. Women like emotion when it comes to inspiration. They want to know that their man believes in something and is willing to fight to protect it.
    I taught my sons that crying is not a valid response to pain anger is. Crying means you want sympathy and attention.

  • @MrSharrutu
    @MrSharrutu 19 днів тому

    Complete harmldss come on, you werent walking on eggshells you were belttlited him

  • @jackjackson3280
    @jackjackson3280 18 днів тому

    Guy was just a woos

  • @MrSharrutu
    @MrSharrutu 19 днів тому

    Carrier at the boutique? Tahts not a carrier thats a job. She could have talked to him about toughi g up a bit in certain ocassions

  • @JasonKritikos
    @JasonKritikos 11 днів тому

    Be stoic

  • @alfredpitts4035
    @alfredpitts4035 17 днів тому

    You're to stuck on yourself. You're the one who needs to grow up

  • @joeramirez7879
    @joeramirez7879 19 днів тому

    😅😂😂😂

  • @robertvaught6541
    @robertvaught6541 19 днів тому

    how much projection are you going to do lady every pilot i know and i have a little "stick time" myself and grew up around pilots private/commercial Air Force. hell my nice is one your the problem lady the guys are not really bothered by it

  • @lilrieffer1949
    @lilrieffer1949 19 днів тому

    do you have anything else to do better in your time??

  • @MrSharrutu
    @MrSharrutu 19 днів тому

    Brad jsut saw whonyou were a bully,

  • @sergiocardenas2425
    @sergiocardenas2425 6 днів тому

    WTF man...

  • @TROY-60
    @TROY-60 18 днів тому

    I’m on her side this time

  • @MrSharrutu
    @MrSharrutu 19 днів тому

    Sje onlu ried be aise she was going to lose her mealticket

  • @ejp99
    @ejp99 19 днів тому

    I am being the contrarian but I am on her side. Matt cries at the drop of a hat and she’s the villain? Her friends and family suck!!

  • @masculinus9I4I89
    @masculinus9I4I89 18 днів тому

    Ok... honestly? There isn't a man out there that would want this cry baby for a friend. This dude is an emotional abuser. He can be cold, calculating and emotionless, as he proves in the end, after she couldn't take it anymore. He clandestinely records his wife... the person he swore to love and cherish. He keeps a record of all the time she was being "mean" so he could tattle on her like the weak, pathetic, crybaby he is. Now she really hurt his "fee fees" he turned into a vindictive asshole who wants nothing but revenge. This story is almost the reverse of the modern marriage where the strong, good husband is betrayed by his wife. Here we have the good woman, who wants to love and respect her husband, but is completely turned off by his pathetic, unwarranted constant emoting. She only wants someone whom she can be proud of, not some weepy, weak, sobbing mess that feels the need to "have a moment" no matter where or with whom.
    An emotional man may as well be a woman. Nothing makes a woman like the Sahara Desert like a cry baby who thinks that he has to be "in touch with his emotions." Men like that absolute disgust me as they do to most women. She didn't cheat on him, she tried to tell him to "man up" but he would rather treat her like his emotional tampon, which is not what men do. There is nothing more disgusting that a weak man who emotes all the time. A man needs to be able to control that side of him so he can be ruled by logic and reason.
    In my opinion, she was completely justified for her reaction. It was completely natural.

  • @ray-ry8sv
    @ray-ry8sv 19 днів тому +1

    I can see the point of the wife but she should have filed from divorce a long time ago women that want to cheat they should do the same thing file for divorce and then cheat

  • @fabiangillespie9462
    @fabiangillespie9462 18 днів тому

    So basically ops a narcissist and the husband is a weakling

  • @orgkampong
    @orgkampong 19 днів тому +1

    The moment u said the whole town was wrong, meaning u sure as #π√√ were the only one correct, it confirmed u lost it.

  • @SuperMVOMarc
    @SuperMVOMarc 19 днів тому

    Great watch this to know!!❤️🤍💙👍🏻👍🏻🤟🏻