2017 was a year of growth and change for me, I bought my first car, ended an unhealthy relationship, moved in with new friends, adopted a second kitty and started a relationship with a wonderful man. A very good year that started bleak and sad, I just had to remind myself that I am in control of my life.
Ingrid.. I've been watching you since MsGlamourazzi days.. I've seen you grow and have grown with you. Nowadays every video I watch of yours I take something away to reflect on or apply to my own life. I appreciate you and your perspective and the way in which you share on here. I hope you and Eileen have a wonderful prosperous 2018 and thank you for being you and showing me a different way to look at everything! xo
I have three highs, but I can't really think of lows so here they are: -got my degree in environmental engineering and also got into a masters degree program -moved in with my boyfriend -went to Prague with my boyfriend. These are my big achievements of 2017. If I look back for me it was rather a stressful year but in the end all went well for me. :) Happy new year, Ingrid
Highs: marrying the love of my life, graduating college magna cum laude, starting my UA-cam channel and blog, and meeting you, Ingrid! Lows: Feeling unfulfilled after school ending (even though I have a great job working in social media,) battling anxiety and depression, not succeeding as quickly as I would like to and trying to stay motivated
Without meaning to sound like a jerk, I really enjoyed hearing your “lows”. I’m 27(28 in feb!) and I feel like I’ve definitely gone through very similar lows this year. The feeling “stuck” and uncertainty is definitely something I’ve been feeling. And it’s nice to be reminded other people struggle through this reflective time in life and come out better for it. Happy new year Ingrid!
I love the way your hair looks now! So sleek 😘 You're absolutely my inspiration and I find my thoughts and feelings resonate strongly with yours. You're an incredible woman and TRULY a queen!!! 💖
Lows - bad anxiety, some depression, health issues, feeling lost among friends. Highs - getting out of a relationship not right for me, closer bonds with new friends, finding more stability in myself, finding love and security in a new relationship, really enjoying school, As always, loved the video :)
I feel like my biggest low was feeling like I was never going to get a job after I graduated college. I was back at my parents and even though I pushed through everyday, I felt so defeated. I look back now at those months and I know see it as a huge blessing because if it wasn't for that period of brief hardship, I wouldnt have appreciated everything I have now! It was my dream to work with honeybees and I've not only landed a job as a honeybee biologist, but I've also been able to move out and become a more independent person. Another thing I'm grateful for during those months of self doubt is through those months I've finally created a UA-cam channel to become part of the community in a greater way. So now I find myself at the beginning of the year with everything that I wanted in 2017. Although I'm unsure of what's going to come out of 2018, I want to remain positive and remind myself that the moments of great self doubt can lead to exactly what you want if you push hard enough and never give up on yourself. Thanks for sharing this video Ingrid, I think you're right! Reflecting and being grateful for both the highs and the lows of the last year can help you see what sort of person you're shaping up to be because of those experiences 💛
Oh Ingrid, I am so grateful for how soulful your videos continue to be year after year. I really love how within conversations about makeup or airplanes you are able to captivate your audience and connect with them upon your life experiences. YOU are one cool lady.
First of all, I would like to say thank you, Ingrid, for the wonderful soul that you are. And thank you, universe, for bringing Ingrid into my life (yes I feel like Ingrid really is present in my life lol). This year I went through some major self realigning and redefining. I feel like discovering Ingrid during this time was absolutely meant to happen. Secondly, although I feel like I could call lots of things that has happened last year as “lows”, I do feel that those were transitional moments that absolutely needed and were overdue to happen in my life. I am grateful for this major transition that led me to finally find my true self and find meaningful, connected, and all around integrated life 💫 Love you Ingrid, you truly bring so much light in this world ❤️
LOWS: - Cutting out toxic friends and also falling out of friendships I thought would last longer (lost around 3-5 people) - I switched anti-depressants this year after being on one for 2.5 years and finding out it was causing unwanted symptoms. The new one was terrible and I never felt so anxious or low in my whole life. Even the lowest time before that that pushed me to getting medication for it wasn't that bad and I couldn't take it for more than a month and half before it was too much. That month and a half was extremely difficult and it's been almost 3 months since then and I'm still dealing with the aftermath. - It's the first time in 2.5 years I haven't been taking anti depressants and it's been a struggle. Being medication free has a lot of benefits but it is definitely a lot harder to manage my anxiety without it. - My mom, brother and I moved in with my mothers partner. It was really hard and stressful because my mom raised my brother and I all by herself for most of my life so moving in with someone that was basically a stranger was really hard. It was also hard because I have trust issues and the idea of letting another person in our lives that could possibly abandon us scared me. - My work life became really difficult because a good friend became a supervisor and due to the stress of the job took it out on me and my coworkers which strained our relationship. On top of that my work environment became a lot more toxic and I dreaded going to work but I had to because I need the money. - My self esteem was on a rollercoaster throughout the year due to toxic friendships, mental health issues and unrealistic expectations I tend to put on myself. - I had to get my hamster euthanized due to head injury and I felt incredibly guilty. I didn't know how serious it was and procrastinated taking her to the doctor, thinking she could last another day but I was so wrong. She was in so much pain and the vet said she had possible brain damage and she didn't have much time left. I was upset because my mom brought her while I was at school and I couldn't be there when she was being put down and I just felt terrible. She was in so much pain and I just beat myself up over it for a long time. HIGHS: - I met my current boyfriend in april 2017 and I'm in my first serious relationship. It has been rocky here and there but I'm grateful to have him in my life. It's my first time feeling loved and loving another person (besides family or platonic love) and it's an interesting experience. - I did a lot of hiking in the summer and managed to make it to the top of a really difficult hike despite being on my period, having asthma, being unfit and being afraid of heights. I ended up crying near the top when we were scrambling because my asthma was getting to me and I looked over the edge and realized how high I was. I made it to the top and felt accomplished though! I did around 5-6 hikes in 2 months and it was great! - I've been more consistent with working out and I'm finally seeing results physically and mentally. Although I'm still struggling with my self esteem, my perspective towards fitness and body image has shifted. - I've lost 18 lbs and it was the first year I was successful at losing weight and keeping it off. I have 15 more to go but I'm more motivated and have a healthier mindset to lose it. - I finally started getting therapy for my anxiety and depression. I'm getting CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) and it was a huge step for me to reach out and get the help. I've always been a self sufficient person and hated admitting i needed help or asking for help. I'm happy I'm doing it now because after the shitty medication situation I realized I really needed to get professional help. - Starting taking more care for my mental health. Rather than ignoring or distracting myself I've been trying to combat it. I'm happy I'm medication free for now. - I achieved my goal for cutting out red meat entirely! I've been red meat free for over a year now. Becoming vegetarian or pescetarian has been something that has always been on my mind but never actually took the steps to do. But I managed to cut a huge part of meat consumption and maintain it. My next goal is to cut down drastically on poultry. - I finally knitted a whole scarf. I've always wanted to knit a scarf but never did it. It's too short and kind of crappy but I'm happy I finally did it! - I've rekindled friendships I lost the years before and it's been nice to reconnect. Although it's still hard losing people, it's given me the opportunity to become closer to others that are better fit for me. - I took more steps toward self care. I went to the doctors, got exams, tests and just stopped procrastinating when it comes to getting important things checked. I've always been terrified of going to the OBGYN but I got a pelvic exam and I was proud I just did it for my health. There's probably more but that's all that comes to mind right now. This video was great and I loved it! :) I hope 2018 treats you well!!!!!!!
Low: Losing my best friend/the one I loved the most High: Realizing that I will be okay and realizing that I deserve better, and I didn’t lose much, but they lost a girl that would of loved him for the rest of time.
This touched on things that are just me to the core right now...I'm turning 30 (literally in 2 days) and I'm feeling strange, like I should have everything figured out now but I really don't -- I'm still working on getting to that happy place
ALI BUZZELLI I’m the same way! I just turned 27 and I feel like everything is off and nothing is figured out. But it’s nice to know it’s not just me feeling this way
Lows- My brother passing away 6 months ago, I had a miscarriage, and my parents marriage having troubles. Highs- Going on an amazing trip to Europe to Italy, France, Spain, Sardinia, and Malta, Many trips to Disney World, and starting nursing school.
Low- getting out of a 4 year long relationship and not knowing where my life would end up. High- pushing myself to try new things, get a new job, meet new people.. and now I'm headed towards a career path I'm so excited about.
my high is being able to receive your wisdom and become inspired by all the good you bring to the world. I feel as though I'm not alone with this community you've created. much love.
honest to God, I love how down to earth & honest you are to yourself as well as the people who look up to you, me being one of those people. You're a true inspiration! Love you, Ingrid, & a happy new year! xo my lows include - feeling so unmotivated and utterly powerless doing anything, even taking care of myself - learning I could have lost my sister to suicide my highs include - summer of 2017! I spent it with my cousins, and I had a good summer job which I actually, thoroughly enjoyed - I rekindled a friendship! I'm super grateful about that - I had the best birthday in 2017, filled with lots of laughter and happiness
INGRID. I loved this video-- it is so gratifying to see you as your TRUE self, as someone who has watched you since the beginning. Your light is shining so bright, and I couldn't be happier for you! *and your hair looks BOMB*
I'm 27 and Im not sure about the saturn return but i'd say this year was full of highs and lows and a lot of uncertainty. I'm definitely trying to work on myself more and on what I want too, so thanks for opening up and sharing your experiences!
Dear Ingrid I just wanted to say thank you! Thank you for being so open, for sharing your experiences and things you've learned. Thank you for making me feel that I'm not alone with my feelings of being stuck or anxious without preaching this one way to solving all of ones problems. Thank you for being the person you are and putting yourself and your thoughts out there! Lots of Love from this human right here! ❤❤❤
graduating from secondary school was definitely both a high and a low for me. a high because of all the celebrating and because of reaching another mile stone in my life. but afterwards came the lowest of lows because I was left on the other side of school with friends either working constantly or back in school at uni working towards their own dreams whereas I was completely lost. I didn't have a job, I had no idea what I wanted to study (still don't). it was hard going out with job applications after job applications only to either never hear from the company or be turned down. it was hard hearing and seeing on social media what all my friends were up to when I felt like I was doing nothing with my life at all. only now, half a year after graduation, am I starting to find my feet again on the other side of graduation. I got two new jobs that I love and I feel like I'm finally working towards something. what that something is I don't know yet, but it's a work in progress as everything is in life. happy new year to everyone. may 2018 be so much better than 2017. I hope everyone is healthy and happy!
I love how reflective and honest you are! I'm only in my early 20s but I am constantly trying to look at my life / self and think of how I can improve. Ive been trying to be more reflective and be grateful for everything that's happened to me (the good and bad and ugly!) And I become so inspired hearing people I admire doing the same :) cheers to a happy and fun 2018!
High: 1)Learned to make decisions based on what's best for me personally not what will make others like me better such as switching to the college I wanted to go & 2) went to Colorado and flew on a plane for the first time in a long time 3) reconnected with my best friend low) 1) a few heart breaks that sucked 2) struggled with a college class and that caused me anxiety
I love your honesty and transparency, it seems so rare to find these days, especially with online personalities. I loved this video too, I took away so much, as I do with every video of yours ❤️
Lows: My mom got diagnosed with breast cancer and Hurricane Harvey put a tremendous strain on my family and many family members Highs: My mom beat breast cancer!!! and I've taken control of my health/working out and met a wonderful group of friends in college that I took a trip to colorado with.
I love how much astrology you included in here! I'm a geek for it and always thought of it as a bit of a hoax but the more I learn how we're connected to the seasons and the rotation of our earth in relation to the planets and stars the more I believe and see the changes and shifts reflected in others and myself.
2017 Lows: ending a 4 year relationship being harassed at work and having to quit it facing more of my past in therapy. Highs starting a new relationship with someone I’ve known for 7 years. Learning to trust in others and speaking my truths. Getting 2 new jobs! And continuing to be responsible for my self functionally as much as I can. And I got my first dog too 🐕💕😁
I so relate to the first low. I'm turning 24 in Feb and it's hard to feel creatively inspired when you get into that adult routine. I aspire to get where you are with a consistent fitness regime! I just want to feel a little more fresh and peppy, less tired.
High: I completed cosmetology school and got a job in a salon Low: My beloved cat of 19 years passed away Loved this video Ingrid! Hope everyone has an amazing 2018! 😊💕🍾
Thank you for doing this video, it really made me reflect on my year and I decided to do a month by month high and low list which made me feel bittersweet with food and bad memories. I hope 2018 treats everyone a little bit better!
I absolutely loved this video. What a nice way to ring in a fresh year ! I’m going to be making a list of my highs and lows from 2017 and really spend the time to process the last year and let go of everything that no longer serves me.
Ingrid, thank you so much for this video! It really started to get me thinking... I’ve had some difficult times this past year and couldn’t wait to put everything behind me, but your video just inspired me to make a “high / low” list of my own. I haven’t started it yet, but I already know the high column is going to be a lot longer than the lows - perspective is a magical thing. You’re beautiful person 💖 Thank you and happy new year!
The high of 2017 was definitely moving back to California after living in Maryland for the past three years. My husband is in the Navy and we were lucky to get stationed in San Diego for the next four years! I'm a CA girl through and through and have been so happy to be back in my home state.
This video made me emotional, I think because I really relate to you. You're retrospective and reflective outlook is incredibly helpful and inspiring, and made me very optimistic. Thank you
The next time you fly and the pilot goes around always remember: The safest way is always the one going upwards, especially in a region with difficult terrain! If a pilot doesn’t feel perfectly fine about his approach, they will go around! But they should have said something, that is definitely true. If the pilots are working in the cockpit there are still flight attendants, who can manage to feel the passengers better about their situation. :)
Highs: being able to meet a bunch of internet friends that live a few hours from me (and where I went to university), and one them becoming my boyfriend. Also falling in love for the first time and truly looking forward to the future for the first time in a few years. Also getting a puppy, who is a little asshole but I love him. Lows: my moms business shutting down after never really taking off which effected us financially and leaving me with no job
Ingrid, thank you for sharing. Thank you for showing us life has it all, the highs and the lows, that you have joys and fears. Lows: I got diagnosed with some scary shit that basically means the pressure in my brain was too high which was causing me to go blind, so I had to have surgery for that. As a result, half of my face got paralysed (it was supposed to heal completely but it didn't, it's much better though) and I have chronic migraines. Because of all of this, I'll be retaking some classes at school and I lost some clients at my job. It also led to being diagnosed with liver problems and they are now investigating my heart, as apparently it's not doing it's job decently - though discovering all of this is also kind of a high, it explains so much! Highs: I started my own business, I moved in with my girlfriend, my sister graduated university and got herself a job, right at the end of the year (seriously, the 26th of December) I found a product for my hair that really seems to work after years of struggling with it, I randomly drove to Denmark (from Belgium) to visit a friend, I went to the scout Moot in Iceland where I also visited a friend.
Thank you for sharing the low moments as well - they're truly just as important as the high points when you're reflecting. While you were talking about the "feeling stuck" moment, I couldn't help but think about my own personal experience and how I relied on my meditation practice to feel better. Have you ever explored meditation?
My therapist and I were talking at my session about when my anxiety/worrying/overgeneralizing started, and I said "2016 election". And when you said "The News", I was like GOD YES, someone (well, a lot of people actually can probably do this) feels this! Thank you so much for bringing put the topic, because it's caused so much chaos and bad energy. Hopefully 2018 is MUCH easier on me anxiety and being so worried.
Hey Ingrid! I'm really enjoying this video so far, and your 'lows' for 2017 are really resonating with me. I felt pretty devastated by the election too, and I too felt very stuck after that. I actually took the entire year of 2017 off of making videos, after having made videos since 2011. I am just now coming around to thinking about uploading again because I miss it so much, but it was such a bummer for me that I couldn't even watch any youtube videos all of last year either. I'm glad for the time I took off though, because it gave me a chance to rethink my content, and imagine ways to make it reflect the more meaningful life I had decided I wanted to live. Anyway, I hope your 2018 is wonderful!! Xoxo, Sarah Nicole
Ingrid, I have been to four therapists. I have not yet found one I feel comfortable with. I am going to keep trying but I hope I find someone like you. Something about your advice, caring nature, even the way you speak comforts so many of us and is exactly what I’ve been looking for in a therapist. So until I find that person I will just watch your videos. ^_^ hehe
I love you more than you will ever know, Ingrid! Keep up the wonderful work with everything as always girl, and of course, stay smiling! Ps, I hope that 2018 is one of your best years yet!🤗💕
Such a lovely video, Ingrid! Hope your 2018 will be wonderful ✨ And I can't wait for the video about not getting stressed about the news, I really really value being informed and reflecting about what happens in the world but I'm struggling to figure out how to separate myself from it when I feel stressed and worried
I turn 30 this year, and this is the first time I've heard "The Saturn Return" idea. It's so accurate. THe past few years have been the worst. I feel as if I've developed anxiety and depression all at one time--so I'm glad to hear I'm not alone.
I felt exactly the same feeling as you about NY, except I did'nt live there, but when I went the last time it was so hard to leave from this incredible place...
I went through the same thing at 27. I felt like oh my gosh....ahhh I am 27, what have I done with my life! You just seem to come to a crossroads in life. I felt like I was running out of time. Now in my 30’s I feel like things are starting to become more clear and there is more of a confidence in knowing which path I am supposed to take. I used to think at a very young age that I knew my destiny, but I really didn’t. Life is a journey. I think we are constantly changing and evolving, each step slowly getting us closer to our purpose in life.
I'm in my Saturn return as well. I feel like I'm finding myself, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically. Like you said it's been difficult but I am starting to feel like the truest version of myself.
Low - facing the reality that not all family will choose to be in your life even if you leave the door open for them to be a part of it. - the passing of my fiancé’s grandmother High - GETTING ENGAGED!! 💍 - Moving into our first home! - and our new pup!! Nyla, the most precious Australian Shepherd! ❤️
YES, right with you with the Saturn return. I'm 29...and a half lol. I read about it back when I was 25 and started studying astrology and I had just had a 9 year relationship end with somehow who I found out was going through HIS Saturn return in the 7th house of partnerships....so I was dreading this year for sure. It's had a lot of highs and lows, more than any year I've had thus far, but I've grown in so many ways and faced so many fears that I'm actually very grateful. I was literally stuck for years in my anxiety, didn't work outside of the house, couldn't bring myself to date after my relationship ended. This year I lived a totally different life, and I am so glad I was pushed out of my comfort zone.
This was a great video, Ingrid!! Thank you for sharing it with us! I love your mental approach to things. You just have such a classy elegance about you and your thought provoking, as well! I appreciate the way you make me reflect and think when I watch your videos!! Thank you for being such an inspiration!! Wishing you a very Happy New Year!! ❤️😚
Lows: what I thought was just me and my shyness became actual anxiety and I stopped being able to go out as much as I used to and I got really ill the day after graduation :/ Highs: I got to see Harry Potter and the Cursed Child multiple times and I graduated from university with a 2:1! :D (I love you and your videos btw. Hope 2018 is good to you :) x )
Loved this video idea, Ingrid! Your content is always so enlightening to listen to. I always feel like I learn something new and gain a better sense of self. Happy new year and thank you!
I have to add another comment. So funny! To hear your description of the tumultuous airplane ride and the person sitting next to you. Lol lol. I traveled a lot in the past and I think I was born to travel bc I have no fear or trepidation flying. Sometimes I would fall asleep even before the plane took off. My husband says I'm the best traveler he's ever met. Lol. Pls tell us more of your funny stories whatever they are. Happy new year :).
I relate to the first part of your video 100%! I just turned 28 and I'm still working through things as well, so I'm hoping that things will clear up some more in the new year :-)
Glad to see a new video from you, Ingrid. Happy New Year!🎉 Hope you're having a great time in Montana right now. Sending a virtual big hug from Germany.🙆🏻
Loved this video 💚 first style like this I've seen this year!! You are amazing a treasure and brings joy through your channel!! Also that hair girl is sleek,ooh looking fYne haha🤣 what hair care products are you using at the moment V curious!!!
Hi Ingrid, can you do a video about “building solid relationships”. I want to be able to invest in relationships that matter and not fret too much about people that dont- but it’s such a difficult task and I think it really makes a person genuinely happy. Thanks. Xx
My other half is a pilot and what you experienced was a 'go around'. It's not unusual in bad weather or if the approach was off. You were perfectly safe but most people don't know what's going on and some panic. They will either have another go at the landing or they divert if it really is too bad to land. However, just so you know, I cry every time I get on a plane, even when he's flying it, so I get the fear 🤣 xx
The same thing happened to me on a plane to France! We ended up circling and then being able to land but feeling the plane go back up was terrifying. I was travelling with a friend of mine who is very fearful of planes, I was holding her hand as we were landing and I was telling here “we are just about to feel the wheels landing” when we started going back up. Of all the trips it ended up happening when I was with someone who already hated planes 🙈
Also, I feel like you would LOVE the Roots to Roam podcast with Catalina Friés. It's all about living an aligned life of health and wellness, and I think you and Catalina would be best friends.
2017 was a year of growth and change for me, I bought my first car, ended an unhealthy relationship, moved in with new friends, adopted a second kitty and started a relationship with a wonderful man. A very good year that started bleak and sad, I just had to remind myself that I am in control of my life.
Ingrid.. I've been watching you since MsGlamourazzi days.. I've seen you grow and have grown with you. Nowadays every video I watch of yours I take something away to reflect on or apply to my own life. I appreciate you and your perspective and the way in which you share on here. I hope you and Eileen have a wonderful prosperous 2018 and thank you for being you and showing me a different way to look at everything! xo
I have three highs, but I can't really think of lows so here they are:
-got my degree in environmental engineering and also got into a masters degree program
-moved in with my boyfriend
-went to Prague with my boyfriend.
These are my big achievements of 2017. If I look back for me it was rather a stressful year but in the end all went well for me. :) Happy new year, Ingrid
I'm studying environmental engineering right now! Do you have any advice?
Ingrid, I've always felt like you were the older sister I never had and this video is no exception❤️ thank you for all your advice!!
Brooke M Richards I feel the same way! She’s like my internet sibling for the past 5, 6 Years!
*i make funny videos like ingrid i truly hope they put some happiness into your day ! :)*
Highs: marrying the love of my life, graduating college magna cum laude, starting my UA-cam channel and blog, and meeting you, Ingrid!
Lows: Feeling unfulfilled after school ending (even though I have a great job working in social media,) battling anxiety and depression, not succeeding as quickly as I would like to and trying to stay motivated
Without meaning to sound like a jerk, I really enjoyed hearing your “lows”. I’m 27(28 in feb!) and I feel like I’ve definitely gone through very similar lows this year. The feeling “stuck” and uncertainty is definitely something I’ve been feeling. And it’s nice to be reminded other people struggle through this reflective time in life and come out better for it. Happy new year Ingrid!
I love the way your hair looks now! So sleek 😘 You're absolutely my inspiration and I find my thoughts and feelings resonate strongly with yours. You're an incredible woman and TRULY a queen!!! 💖
Lows - bad anxiety, some depression, health issues, feeling lost among friends. Highs - getting out of a relationship not right for me, closer bonds with new friends, finding more stability in myself, finding love and security in a new relationship, really enjoying school, As always, loved the video :)
I feel like my biggest low was feeling like I was never going to get a job after I graduated college. I was back at my parents and even though I pushed through everyday, I felt so defeated. I look back now at those months and I know see it as a huge blessing because if it wasn't for that period of brief hardship, I wouldnt have appreciated everything I have now! It was my dream to work with honeybees and I've not only landed a job as a honeybee biologist, but I've also been able to move out and become a more independent person. Another thing I'm grateful for during those months of self doubt is through those months I've finally created a UA-cam channel to become part of the community in a greater way. So now I find myself at the beginning of the year with everything that I wanted in 2017. Although I'm unsure of what's going to come out of 2018, I want to remain positive and remind myself that the moments of great self doubt can lead to exactly what you want if you push hard enough and never give up on yourself. Thanks for sharing this video Ingrid, I think you're right! Reflecting and being grateful for both the highs and the lows of the last year can help you see what sort of person you're shaping up to be because of those experiences 💛
Oh Ingrid, I am so grateful for how soulful your videos continue to be year after year. I really love how within conversations about makeup or airplanes you are able to captivate your audience and connect with them upon your life experiences. YOU are one cool lady.
First of all, I would like to say thank you, Ingrid, for the wonderful soul that you are. And thank you, universe, for bringing Ingrid into my life (yes I feel like Ingrid really is present in my life lol). This year I went through some major self realigning and redefining. I feel like discovering Ingrid during this time was absolutely meant to happen. Secondly, although I feel like I could call lots of things that has happened last year as “lows”, I do feel that those were transitional moments that absolutely needed and were overdue to happen in my life. I am grateful for this major transition that led me to finally find my true self and find meaningful, connected, and all around integrated life 💫 Love you Ingrid, you truly bring so much light in this world ❤️
LOWS:
- Cutting out toxic friends and also falling out of friendships I thought would last longer (lost around 3-5 people)
- I switched anti-depressants this year after being on one for 2.5 years and finding out it was causing unwanted symptoms. The new one was terrible and I never felt so anxious or low in my whole life. Even the lowest time before that that pushed me to getting medication for it wasn't that bad and I couldn't take it for more than a month and half before it was too much. That month and a half was extremely difficult and it's been almost 3 months since then and I'm still dealing with the aftermath.
- It's the first time in 2.5 years I haven't been taking anti depressants and it's been a struggle. Being medication free has a lot of benefits but it is definitely a lot harder to manage my anxiety without it.
- My mom, brother and I moved in with my mothers partner. It was really hard and stressful because my mom raised my brother and I all by herself for most of my life so moving in with someone that was basically a stranger was really hard. It was also hard because I have trust issues and the idea of letting another person in our lives that could possibly abandon us scared me.
- My work life became really difficult because a good friend became a supervisor and due to the stress of the job took it out on me and my coworkers which strained our relationship. On top of that my work environment became a lot more toxic and I dreaded going to work but I had to because I need the money.
- My self esteem was on a rollercoaster throughout the year due to toxic friendships, mental health issues and unrealistic expectations I tend to put on myself.
- I had to get my hamster euthanized due to head injury and I felt incredibly guilty. I didn't know how serious it was and procrastinated taking her to the doctor, thinking she could last another day but I was so wrong. She was in so much pain and the vet said she had possible brain damage and she didn't have much time left. I was upset because my mom brought her while I was at school and I couldn't be there when she was being put down and I just felt terrible. She was in so much pain and I just beat myself up over it for a long time.
HIGHS:
- I met my current boyfriend in april 2017 and I'm in my first serious relationship. It has been rocky here and there but I'm grateful to have him in my life. It's my first time feeling loved and loving another person (besides family or platonic love) and it's an interesting experience.
- I did a lot of hiking in the summer and managed to make it to the top of a really difficult hike despite being on my period, having asthma, being unfit and being afraid of heights. I ended up crying near the top when we were scrambling because my asthma was getting to me and I looked over the edge and realized how high I was. I made it to the top and felt accomplished though! I did around 5-6 hikes in 2 months and it was great!
- I've been more consistent with working out and I'm finally seeing results physically and mentally. Although I'm still struggling with my self esteem, my perspective towards fitness and body image has shifted.
- I've lost 18 lbs and it was the first year I was successful at losing weight and keeping it off. I have 15 more to go but I'm more motivated and have a healthier mindset to lose it.
- I finally started getting therapy for my anxiety and depression. I'm getting CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) and it was a huge step for me to reach out and get the help. I've always been a self sufficient person and hated admitting i needed help or asking for help. I'm happy I'm doing it now because after the shitty medication situation I realized I really needed to get professional help.
- Starting taking more care for my mental health. Rather than ignoring or distracting myself I've been trying to combat it. I'm happy I'm medication free for now.
- I achieved my goal for cutting out red meat entirely! I've been red meat free for over a year now. Becoming vegetarian or pescetarian has been something that has always been on my mind but never actually took the steps to do. But I managed to cut a huge part of meat consumption and maintain it. My next goal is to cut down drastically on poultry.
- I finally knitted a whole scarf. I've always wanted to knit a scarf but never did it. It's too short and kind of crappy but I'm happy I finally did it!
- I've rekindled friendships I lost the years before and it's been nice to reconnect. Although it's still hard losing people, it's given me the opportunity to become closer to others that are better fit for me.
- I took more steps toward self care. I went to the doctors, got exams, tests and just stopped procrastinating when it comes to getting important things checked. I've always been terrified of going to the OBGYN but I got a pelvic exam and I was proud I just did it for my health.
There's probably more but that's all that comes to mind right now. This video was great and I loved it! :) I hope 2018 treats you well!!!!!!!
Low-- Lyme Disease diagnosis. & also a Lyme co-infection called Babesia.
High--Treatment is working and I'm feeling about 80% better.
Wishing you get better soon and completely cured!
Low: Losing my best friend/the one I loved the most
High: Realizing that I will be okay and realizing that I deserve better, and I didn’t lose much, but they lost a girl that would of loved him for the rest of time.
This touched on things that are just me to the core right now...I'm turning 30 (literally in 2 days) and I'm feeling strange, like I should have everything figured out now but I really don't -- I'm still working on getting to that happy place
ALI BUZZELLI I’m the same way! I just turned 27 and I feel like everything is off and nothing is figured out. But it’s nice to know it’s not just me feeling this way
LalaUnscripted it’s definitely not just you! Even though it can feel that way at times - we can have it not figured out together :)
Lows- My brother passing away 6 months ago, I had a miscarriage, and my parents marriage having troubles. Highs- Going on an amazing trip to Europe to Italy, France, Spain, Sardinia, and Malta, Many trips to Disney World, and starting nursing school.
Low- getting out of a 4 year long relationship and not knowing where my life would end up.
High- pushing myself to try new things, get a new job, meet new people.. and now I'm headed towards a career path I'm so excited about.
my high is being able to receive your wisdom and become inspired by all the good you bring to the world. I feel as though I'm not alone with this community you've created. much love.
honest to God, I love how down to earth & honest you are to yourself as well as the people who look up to you, me being one of those people. You're a true inspiration! Love you, Ingrid, & a happy new year! xo
my lows include
- feeling so unmotivated and utterly powerless doing anything, even taking care of myself
- learning I could have lost my sister to suicide
my highs include
- summer of 2017! I spent it with my cousins, and I had a good summer job which I actually, thoroughly enjoyed
- I rekindled a friendship! I'm super grateful about that
- I had the best birthday in 2017, filled with lots of laughter and happiness
INGRID. I loved this video-- it is so gratifying to see you as your TRUE self, as someone who has watched you since the beginning. Your light is shining so bright, and I couldn't be happier for you! *and your hair looks BOMB*
I'm 27 and Im not sure about the saturn return but i'd say this year was full of highs and lows and a lot of uncertainty. I'm definitely trying to work on myself more and on what I want too, so thanks for opening up and sharing your experiences!
You bring so much wisdom and great energy into this world. Love you, Ingrid!
Dear Ingrid
I just wanted to say thank you!
Thank you for being so open,
for sharing your experiences and things you've learned.
Thank you for making me feel that I'm not alone with my feelings of being stuck or anxious without preaching this one way to solving all of ones problems.
Thank you for being the person you are and putting yourself and your thoughts out there!
Lots of Love from this human right here! ❤❤❤
graduating from secondary school was definitely both a high and a low for me. a high because of all the celebrating and because of reaching another mile stone in my life. but afterwards came the lowest of lows because I was left on the other side of school with friends either working constantly or back in school at uni working towards their own dreams whereas I was completely lost. I didn't have a job, I had no idea what I wanted to study (still don't). it was hard going out with job applications after job applications only to either never hear from the company or be turned down. it was hard hearing and seeing on social media what all my friends were up to when I felt like I was doing nothing with my life at all. only now, half a year after graduation, am I starting to find my feet again on the other side of graduation. I got two new jobs that I love and I feel like I'm finally working towards something. what that something is I don't know yet, but it's a work in progress as everything is in life.
happy new year to everyone. may 2018 be so much better than 2017. I hope everyone is healthy and happy!
2017? Pretty much all low-the amazing thing? I’m still full of gratitude despite many things not going my way. Thank you for your video.
I love how honest you are in this video, it's so refreshing and lovely:)
I love how reflective and honest you are! I'm only in my early 20s but I am constantly trying to look at my life / self and think of how I can improve. Ive been trying to be more reflective and be grateful for everything that's happened to me (the good and bad and ugly!) And I become so inspired hearing people I admire doing the same :) cheers to a happy and fun 2018!
High: 1)Learned to make decisions based on what's best for me personally not what will make others like me better such as switching to the college I wanted to go & 2) went to Colorado and flew on a plane for the first time in a long time 3) reconnected with my best friend
low) 1) a few heart breaks that sucked
2) struggled with a college class and that caused me anxiety
I love your honesty and transparency, it seems so rare to find these days, especially with online personalities. I loved this video too, I took away so much, as I do with every video of yours ❤️
Lows: My mom got diagnosed with breast cancer and Hurricane Harvey put a tremendous strain on my family and many family members
Highs: My mom beat breast cancer!!! and I've taken control of my health/working out and met a wonderful group of friends in college that I took a trip to colorado with.
Just wanted to say I went through the same thing with my mom in 2017. So glad both our moms made it. Happy new year!
I love how much astrology you included in here! I'm a geek for it and always thought of it as a bit of a hoax but the more I learn how we're connected to the seasons and the rotation of our earth in relation to the planets and stars the more I believe and see the changes and shifts reflected in others and myself.
2017 Lows: ending a 4 year relationship being harassed at work and having to quit it facing more of my past in therapy. Highs starting a new relationship with someone I’ve known for 7 years. Learning to trust in others and speaking my truths. Getting 2 new jobs! And continuing to be responsible for my self functionally as much as I can. And I got my first dog too 🐕💕😁
I so relate to the first low. I'm turning 24 in Feb and it's hard to feel creatively inspired when you get into that adult routine. I aspire to get where you are with a consistent fitness regime! I just want to feel a little more fresh and peppy, less tired.
I am so excited to see what 2018 has in-store for you! Wishing you an infinite amount of blessings! Xx
High: I completed cosmetology school and got a job in a salon
Low: My beloved cat of 19 years passed away
Loved this video Ingrid! Hope everyone has an amazing 2018! 😊💕🍾
Elizabeth Chilton I'm so sorry about your cat, losing a pet is always so much harder than people think❤️
amanda makes stuff thank you ❤️
I’m sorry about your kitty :(
Congo for ur job gurllll.....
Thank you for doing this video, it really made me reflect on my year and I decided to do a month by month high and low list which made me feel bittersweet with food and bad memories. I hope 2018 treats everyone a little bit better!
I absolutely loved this video. What a nice way to ring in a fresh year ! I’m going to be making a list of my highs and lows from 2017 and really spend the time to process the last year and let go of everything that no longer serves me.
Ingrid, thank you so much for this video! It really started to get me thinking... I’ve had some difficult times this past year and couldn’t wait to put everything behind me, but your video just inspired me to make a “high / low” list of my own. I haven’t started it yet, but I already know the high column is going to be a lot longer than the lows - perspective is a magical thing. You’re beautiful person 💖 Thank you and happy new year!
The high of 2017 was definitely moving back to California after living in Maryland for the past three years. My husband is in the Navy and we were lucky to get stationed in San Diego for the next four years! I'm a CA girl through and through and have been so happy to be back in my home state.
This video made me emotional, I think because I really relate to you. You're retrospective and reflective outlook is incredibly helpful and inspiring, and made me very optimistic. Thank you
I LOVED this honest and real video where we got to see a little bit more of you!
GUUUURL I'm 29 and felt that Saturn stuff like a mofo. All for the better though I reckon. Growth, evolution and change are good
Does anyone else remember those yellow stools? Love them!!
The next time you fly and the pilot goes around always remember: The safest way is always the one going upwards, especially in a region with difficult terrain! If a pilot doesn’t feel perfectly fine about his approach, they will go around! But they should have said something, that is definitely true. If the pilots are working in the cockpit there are still flight attendants, who can manage to feel the passengers better about their situation. :)
How incredible that you get to travel the world and see so many things and meet so many people. What an absolutely incredible privilege that is!
Thank you for another wonderful video, Ingrid! Your hair looks fantastic too!
I have watched you morph into a remarkable and worldly woman and I can't wait to see what 2018 brings for you and Tayto. Only the best!!
Highs: being able to meet a bunch of internet friends that live a few hours from me (and where I went to university), and one them becoming my boyfriend. Also falling in love for the first time and truly looking forward to the future for the first time in a few years. Also getting a puppy, who is a little asshole but I love him.
Lows: my moms business shutting down after never really taking off which effected us financially and leaving me with no job
Ingrid, thank you for sharing. Thank you for showing us life has it all, the highs and the lows, that you have joys and fears.
Lows: I got diagnosed with some scary shit that basically means the pressure in my brain was too high which was causing me to go blind, so I had to have surgery for that. As a result, half of my face got paralysed (it was supposed to heal completely but it didn't, it's much better though) and I have chronic migraines. Because of all of this, I'll be retaking some classes at school and I lost some clients at my job. It also led to being diagnosed with liver problems and they are now investigating my heart, as apparently it's not doing it's job decently - though discovering all of this is also kind of a high, it explains so much!
Highs: I started my own business, I moved in with my girlfriend, my sister graduated university and got herself a job, right at the end of the year (seriously, the 26th of December) I found a product for my hair that really seems to work after years of struggling with it, I randomly drove to Denmark (from Belgium) to visit a friend, I went to the scout Moot in Iceland where I also visited a friend.
Thank you for sharing the low moments as well - they're truly just as important as the high points when you're reflecting. While you were talking about the "feeling stuck" moment, I couldn't help but think about my own personal experience and how I relied on my meditation practice to feel better. Have you ever explored meditation?
My therapist and I were talking at my session about when my anxiety/worrying/overgeneralizing started, and I said "2016 election". And when you said "The News", I was like GOD YES, someone (well, a lot of people actually can probably do this) feels this! Thank you so much for bringing put the topic, because it's caused so much chaos and bad energy. Hopefully 2018 is MUCH easier on me anxiety and being so worried.
I love how genuine you are 💕
Hey Ingrid!
I'm really enjoying this video so far, and your 'lows' for 2017 are really resonating with me. I felt pretty devastated by the election too, and I too felt very stuck after that. I actually took the entire year of 2017 off of making videos, after having made videos since 2011. I am just now coming around to thinking about uploading again because I miss it so much, but it was such a bummer for me that I couldn't even watch any youtube videos all of last year either. I'm glad for the time I took off though, because it gave me a chance to rethink my content, and imagine ways to make it reflect the more meaningful life I had decided I wanted to live.
Anyway, I hope your 2018 is wonderful!!
Xoxo,
Sarah Nicole
My son and I do highs and lows every night before bed. I love this idea of doing it to summarize a whole year!! Great video :)
Ingrid, I have been to four therapists. I have not yet found one I feel comfortable with. I am going to keep trying but I hope I find someone like you. Something about your advice, caring nature, even the way you speak comforts so many of us and is exactly what I’ve been looking for in a therapist. So until I find that person I will just watch your videos. ^_^ hehe
I love you more than you will ever know, Ingrid! Keep up the wonderful work with everything as always girl, and of course, stay smiling! Ps, I hope that 2018 is one of your best years yet!🤗💕
This shade of green is FANTASTIC on you!!!
Such a lovely video, Ingrid! Hope your 2018 will be wonderful ✨
And I can't wait for the video about not getting stressed about the news, I really really value being informed and reflecting about what happens in the world but I'm struggling to figure out how to separate myself from it when I feel stressed and worried
I used to love ingrid in the kitchen as well as room/apt. tours.
I turn 30 this year, and this is the first time I've heard "The Saturn Return" idea. It's so accurate. THe past few years have been the worst. I feel as if I've developed anxiety and depression all at one time--so I'm glad to hear I'm not alone.
happy new year!
I felt exactly the same feeling as you about NY, except I did'nt live there, but when I went the last time it was so hard to leave from this incredible place...
I went through the same thing at 27. I felt like oh my gosh....ahhh I am 27, what have I done with my life! You just seem to come to a crossroads in life. I felt like I was running out of time. Now in my 30’s I feel like things are starting to become more clear and there is more of a confidence in knowing which path I am supposed to take. I used to think at a very young age that I knew my destiny, but I really didn’t. Life is a journey. I think we are constantly changing and evolving, each step slowly getting us closer to our purpose in life.
You should do a video on astrology! Im curious to see your views on it and how you use it in your life
Yes that would be cool
I'm in my Saturn return as well. I feel like I'm finding myself, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically. Like you said it's been difficult but I am starting to feel like the truest version of myself.
you're such a wonderful human being!!! All the best to you this year xoxoxo
Low
- facing the reality that not all family will choose to be in your life even if you leave the door open for them to be a part of it.
- the passing of my fiancé’s grandmother
High
- GETTING ENGAGED!! 💍
- Moving into our first home!
- and our new pup!! Nyla, the most precious Australian Shepherd! ❤️
YES, right with you with the Saturn return. I'm 29...and a half lol. I read about it back when I was 25 and started studying astrology and I had just had a 9 year relationship end with somehow who I found out was going through HIS Saturn return in the 7th house of partnerships....so I was dreading this year for sure. It's had a lot of highs and lows, more than any year I've had thus far, but I've grown in so many ways and faced so many fears that I'm actually very grateful. I was literally stuck for years in my anxiety, didn't work outside of the house, couldn't bring myself to date after my relationship ended. This year I lived a totally different life, and I am so glad I was pushed out of my comfort zone.
This was a great video, Ingrid!! Thank you for sharing it with us! I love your mental approach to things. You just have such a classy elegance about you and your thought provoking, as well! I appreciate the way you make me reflect and think when I watch your videos!! Thank you for being such an inspiration!! Wishing you a very Happy New Year!! ❤️😚
Lows: what I thought was just me and my shyness became actual anxiety and I stopped being able to go out as much as I used to and I got really ill the day after graduation :/
Highs: I got to see Harry Potter and the Cursed Child multiple times and I graduated from university with a 2:1! :D
(I love you and your videos btw. Hope 2018 is good to you :) x )
Happy new year I learned a lot from your channel and thanks for being here for us you are the best
I got dumped after being w someone for 2 1/2 years, & then I made new friends and met so many new people and really explored myself this year. x
I felt the same about feeling stuck and demotivated in 2017. I wish you the best for the year to come 😉😉
Loved this video idea, Ingrid! Your content is always so enlightening to listen to. I always feel like I learn something new and gain a better sense of self. Happy new year and thank you!
I have to add another comment. So funny! To hear your description of the tumultuous airplane ride and the person sitting next to you. Lol lol. I traveled a lot in the past and I think I was born to travel bc I have no fear or trepidation flying. Sometimes I would fall asleep even before the plane took off. My husband says I'm the best traveler he's ever met. Lol. Pls tell us more of your funny stories whatever they are. Happy new year :).
I relate to the first part of your video 100%! I just turned 28 and I'm still working through things as well, so I'm hoping that things will clear up some more in the new year :-)
Love your turtleneck 😍🐢💚
Oh i have that top from a french shop called cameau
Katie Logan oh ok
*i make funny videos like ingrid i genuinely hope they put some smiles into your day ! :)*
Glad to see a new video from you, Ingrid. Happy New Year!🎉 Hope you're having a great time in Montana right now. Sending a virtual big hug from Germany.🙆🏻
Ingrid, please come back to Texas! Perhaps Austin. You would LOVE IT
your podcast & videos have made 2k17 a better year can't wait for what you'll create in 2k18 :)
this is such a great video ingrid! i know your 2018 will be amazing:)
happy new year to you, i hope your year is full of happiness, joy, love and peace 🌈🌱🌸🐛🦋
I really love how real your videos are, especially this one❤️ great advice!
Loved this video 💚 first style like this I've seen this year!!
You are amazing a treasure and brings joy through your channel!! Also that hair girl is sleek,ooh looking fYne haha🤣 what hair care products are you using at the moment V curious!!!
Happy new year
Hi Ingrid, can you do a video about “building solid relationships”. I want to be able to invest in relationships that matter and not fret too much about people that dont- but it’s such a difficult task and I think it really makes a person genuinely happy. Thanks. Xx
Happy New Year Ingrid 🎆❤️ can’t wait to see what 2018 has in store for us :)
Feeling stuck is such a problem for me!!!
Awww I seriously love this video and videos like this one❤️ come visit Toronto because we’re destined to be best friends!!
My other half is a pilot and what you experienced was a 'go around'. It's not unusual in bad weather or if the approach was off. You were perfectly safe but most people don't know what's going on and some panic. They will either have another go at the landing or they divert if it really is too bad to land. However, just so you know, I cry every time I get on a plane, even when he's flying it, so I get the fear 🤣 xx
The same thing happened to me on a plane to France! We ended up circling and then being able to land but feeling the plane go back up was terrifying. I was travelling with a friend of mine who is very fearful of planes, I was holding her hand as we were landing and I was telling here “we are just about to feel the wheels landing” when we started going back up. Of all the trips it ended up happening when I was with someone who already hated planes 🙈
You look so beautiful and happy! Looking forward to more videos this year :)
Still fighting cancer....6 years after diagnosis.
Also, I feel like you would LOVE the Roots to Roam podcast with Catalina Friés. It's all about living an aligned life of health and wellness, and I think you and Catalina would be best friends.
Happy New Year Ingrid. I love you so much and I hope someday meet you!!! Hugs from Ecuador
Love this video Ingrid! Been watching since 2011 ❤️❤️
hope you have a great 2018!
Happy New Year Ingrid.
Love this I hope you have the best year yet igrid happy new year ❤️❤️
Loved the Delta story, I would have been so scared! ❤️