LIFE UPDATE: I'm Moving to NYC (For Good!) | Ingrid Nilsen
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- Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
- Lots of changes are happening: moving across the country, goodbyes, and new beginnings. I’m really looking forward to sharing this next chapter with you. ❤️
After opening up on Instagram recently about the emotional rollercoaster that comes with change and dealing with my views being down on UA-cam in the midst of this really big transition, I want to say thank you to everyone who has messaged me since then. A lot of the messages were from people in their late twenties dealing with their own significant changes and all the feelings of uncertainty that inevitably follow. These messages have inspired me to make a video that focuses specifically on dealing with big life transitions. I'll be posting it at the end of this month, so look out for it. Until then, to everyone going through a change right now: even though we're on our own paths with different experiences, knowing there are other people out there taking everything one step at a time makes it feel like we're all in this together. That's something pretty special. ❤️
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I admire you for following your heart and for dreaming big! You’re killin’ it, Ingrid. I would say good luck but you don’t need it.
The year I turned 30 I moved from Edmonton Canada to Orange County, California. It was the biggest most dramatic event in my life up to that point I had to sell a house, quit my job, sell my car, and start everything brand new. But 20 years later I am still in Orange County and absolutely LOVE my life and manifested my DREAM life and you will too honey. So excited for your new adventures. xoox Wendy
Im from Edmonton CA as well!! Thats an insane move girl good for you!!
Hey Bushra! I had the cutest little house in Glenora off Groat Road, I worked at Blu's downtown, left my large and loving family to move to California with no work visa. It was nuts! But 21 years later I have manifested my dream life. Wonderful husband, beautiful home, dream job, dream car, youtube channel and friends with a circle of other youtubers. I had a FULL ON NERVOUS BREAKDOWN in Salt Lake City when we were waiting for our connecting flight when we moved here. Oh m God people must have thought I was insane. But it was terrifying flying into the unknown leaving safety, love, security and comfort behind. BUT that is were GRACE lives. Faith and Hope and Grace and Hard Work, and Determination, and a Belief in Something Bigger Than Yourself To Guide You to Make Your DREAMS come true. Ingrid is going to fly fly fly towards her best and most amazing life. xoxo Wendy
Wendys loving life you are the sweetest 💜
And that is so true. I made the move to Dubai last year and couldn’t be happier. Although moving across the globe definitely had me worried as well intially but now that everything has managed to smooth itself out it feels like i definitely made the right decision!!
Best of luck with your youtube channel 🙂💜💜
Wendys loving life ... I'm so glad to see that everything has turned out wonderfully for you! I'm moving to NYC from Ontario soon for grad school and I'm absolutely terrified!!! It's always been my plan to move to Southern California after graduation but I know that would be really hard to do directly from Ontario so as scary as it is I do need some study/internship experience in NYC first. I hope things work out for me too. Thanks for sharing your story 😊
What picked you up once you got to OC? job right away?
Advice for a big move across the country: take less than you think you would like to bring. Seriously, get rid of most of it. Logistics of moving lots of large boxes and furniture is a pain. It felt flipping fantastic to walk into my new home with only the few things that I brought with me because I LOVED them (heirlooms and select memorabilia) . It felt even better curating and filling my new home with beautiful things from my new city.
Tanya Aranca good advice!
Tanya Aranca that’s fantastic advice!
THANK YOU for this comment! I'm moving half way across the country in a few months, and have been wondering if I should just donate almost everything I have that isn't essential. (plus I want to buy new things anyway tbh!) ty ty!
As someone who has moved from New York To San Francisco (and back), New York TO Barcelona, Spain across the entire Atlantic Ocean and Barcelona To Austin,Texas (amongst many other moves) I have some major thoughts that will 100% support you in this next magical chapter in your life. While all the physical "stuff" has to be tended to properly, and logistics regarding that - the MOST important thing is taking care of your spirit along the way because the shifts in who you are becoming now and the energies behind you can echo in your soul creating some confusion. You have to know that life is a beautiful continuum, and a sacred journey. You are never losing anything or anyone. Just moving forward and opening to new possibilities and massive transformation. Since you already have some people in your life in NY and know some of the place, it really won't be as hard for you as someone just moving to a brand new city - where you know absolutely no one, or just a few people. What can really support you: Creating simple weekly rituals that honor your needs and help you to engage with life and people so you feel embraced by what you love, and nurtured by life everyday. Find a spiritual center or community for meditation or yoga (or both) near you, and go there consistently so you feel a sense of home and soul honoring to keep you happy. There are so many truly amazing secret places and people in NYC if you open yourself up to discover them! Also, find weekly or monthly events that delight you in a place you want to immerse yourself so you create simple patterns that make you feel grounded and connected while EVERYTHING around you and in you is changing. AND IT WILL CHANGE A LOT VERY FAST IN NYC!!!! I know from your videos that you have spent time in NY - but as someone who is a Native New York Girl, I have to say that full-time life there can get emotionally exhausting at times because there are SO MANY PEOPLE, tons of energies and vibrations all the time non-stop, so it really helps to cultivate consistent patterns and routines that ground you daily including getting out of the city into nature. Having a dog is great in the city because my dogs always introduced me to the best people and got me out for walks! Congratulations on your new adventure :)
This sounds a little extreme, but my best packing tip is to label boxes with the room name and a number (Kitchen 1, Kitchen 2, etc.) and as you pack them, create a spreadsheet with the box number and a brief description of what's inside. This will make unpacking sooooooo much easier! Best of luck on the big move ❤️
CuteCoffeeGal that’s a GREAT idea! Saving that in my phone for the next time I move. Thanks for sharing! 💗
Love this idea!
Yessss !!! did that and it makes everything so much easier.
CuteCoffeeGal this is perfect! In fact it’s exactly what the relocation companies do and it really works!
@CuteCoffeeGal
Not extreme at all but I guess it's because this is exactly what I do when I move and it makes it sooooo much easier and stress free. People are always literally shocked that I am unpacked and all set up within a day or two of moving. For some people that's unheard of but when you label and track everything properly it's easy as can be. :)
Ingrid, I’m thrilled that you’re creating a home on the East Coast! What an exciting change for you. Take time for yourself each day, even just a few minutes, and you’ll remember why you’re doing this amidst the chaos. Thank you for being an inspiration! ❤️
so so happy for you ingrid! I can tell that you’re sad to leave but also you have such a light in you when you talk about new york! thank you for always striving to live as your best authentic self and sharing that with us 💕
I moved from India to California 2 years ago and that move took a toll on me mentally and emotionally. I would just say take it easy on yourself. Give yourself some time, everythng will be OKAY! :) May this move bring you lot of happiness and love!
Why did you move to California I am also from India and want to move to USA
This is really good advice. I moved from Alabama to NYC about 15 years ago. I think in the beginning I was so happy and everything was new and exciting but I’ve noticed over the last five years it has become very difficult for me to live here. It may be because of my job because I don’t want to be there anymore and it’s making it harder to live here or maybe I’m done with NYC; however moving is an emotional and mental challenge. Good luck, Ingrid.. You have tons of followers here I’m sure. Seek us out for help if you need too..
TheCurrentNatural I'm actually moving to NYC for grad school soon from another country and I'm already anxious about having to stay in the city "long term". I don't want to have to come back so I really hope after graduation I get a good job in the US but preferably in say LA because I know I need relatively more space and nature than there is in NYC. Of course I don't know your exact situation but perhaps NYC has just tired you out? I know a lot of people love the city for the first few years because it's exciting and a great place to make connections at the beginning of your career but after a certain point NYC just can't offer the kind of lifestyle most people want. It seems like constant sense stimulation overload! I can't imagine doing that for 15 years. With your experience in the city I'm sure it wouldn't be too difficult to get a job in another high paced but much more relaxed city- maybe Atlanta since it's in the south and closer to your hometown? I hope things work out for you 💕
Hi Aditi. What is the most difficult part of moving to USA from another country? I'm from Brazil and I have plans to move there, In California as well btw! =)
Alefiya Hakim oh to study actually. I was taking two programs at berkeley 💛
Hey Ingrid! I hope I can bring a little something to you because you brought a whole lot of greatness to my life in the past years. I am the same age as you, and last year I did the same move you did, except in the opposite direction and in Canada (Montreal to Vancouver). I am someone who loves to spend time alone to read, walk and think. To me, moving felt like starting a completely new life, but a new life in which I knew very well who I was from the very beginning. I had the opportunity to be anyone I wanted to be. I met new people at different places and gave myself the total freedom of being authentic without trying to act a certain way to please the new people around me. It felt like being in kindergarten and being just my true and simple self, but being conscious of it. I was surprised to realized that this brought me to develop relations with people who appreciate authenticity and who have interests that are very close to mine. Being in a new city also pushed me to be in new situations, and to spend more time alone than previously, and I discovered new facets of my personality that I had never "met" before. I am feeling even closer to myself now, and I have been able to explore new interests and passions because I was already out of my comfort zone anyway so why not try something new as well! It can feel very scary to move, but I promess the minute you land in New York it will all make sense. I wish you the very best and I'm sending you good energy
thank YOU for being so open and transparent, making sure you always bring us (viewer family) along with you! wishing you the best with everything and can’t wait for your new chapter in life! hopefully, i can bump into you one day in the streets of nyc (i’m a queens girl to the end).
Been watching your videos for years❤️ It’s going to be a tough move but it’s going to be so worth it. You know where you need to be and I’m proud that you always follow your heart ❤️ i visit NYC frequently and there is something truly magical about it. You will be just great there permanently 😊Wishing you all the best!
This year, we are actually making our house into a home. Working room-by-room, picking pieces that make the house not feel like a couple of 19 year olds renting in uni. GOD does it feel good. Best of luck with your move!!! I’ve never been to NYC but it’s definitely up there on the list
So excited for you!!!
I feel like I've been evolving alongside of you throughout your (and my own twenties) and it's been a privilege to share in, and hear about your life and journeys along the way. I feel like there have been a lot of parallels in our lives, but also many differences - so I've always been so grateful to share in, and learn from your experiences. This big move is a particularly exciting one to me as well because it comes at the same time of my biggest move as well. Hoping to hear about your experiences, and advice on not only packing and the logistics, but how it feels to leave your home and safety net to pursue a dream, what it's like to set up a 'new' life and everything in between.
Moving to nyc for college I can COMPLETELY RELATE to the fear and nerves you’re experiencing. My biggest tip is definitely to remember why you’re doing it. And this applies not only to moves but anything in life. The move is tough. There are going to be times when you think it would’ve been easier to just stay, but when you remind yourself of the passion you have for this new chapter of your life, it really helps putting everything into perspective. Can’t wait to say I share a city with you! Love you forever and always Ingrid 💕
I’m so incredibly excited for you girl!!!I love your outlook, positivity, and am so incredibly inspired by you. I have moved A LOT and I think my biggest tip would have to be getting out in the community makes a big difference. When I moved for the first time I went to classes in my neighborhood (yoga, soap making, literally EVERYTHING) and started volunteering at a charity I love. This gave me such a sense of community, belonging, and allowed me to meet a lot of really cool people.
Congrats on making that decision!! You deserve to be where you are happiest.
Hey Ingrid, I never leave comments but this video resonated with me in a pretty visceral way. I just moved to NYC about a month ago from Florida. I graduated, my parents were in the process of moving my childhood home, and I moved to NYC all within a month of each other so I completely know the feeling of massive life changes. Obviously, I have not been here long so I may not any kind of veteran but I have already found so many things about the city that help ease and heal some of the sadness and pain of moving. The first you have touched on but knowing this is where you are meant to be helps to feel everything without being overcome by sadness. It is the true definition of bittersweet. Being bold and saying yes to things that maybe I wouldn't, like coffee with a new friend who I just met, has actually already lead to some really neat friendships and while they may not last forever, some may be the best friends I will make here. Also doing the things that made me so excited to be here like becoming a MET member and seeing Broadway shows, or taking walks in the park and exploring different neighborhoods have been so so good. Like I said, I am so new still but this video meant more to me than you know! I hope you have a lovely move and welcome (for good) to the city! Maybe I will run into you one day and get the chance to tell you all of this in person ;)
I'm so excited for all the amazing things, people, and experiences that are coming your way, Ingrid! I'm actually in the beginning stages of planning a move to NYC this Fall! So I'm with you on the emotional rollarcoaster of stressful, scary, and wonderful feelings that come with that. Keep taking care of yourself during this time and know we're all cheering you on as you chase your dreams!
Ingrid, I’ve been watching you for so long and it was always evident that you had a very strong connection to NYC. I knew you would eventually be moving there, and I’m so excited for you! Being someone who lives only a couple of miles from NYC, I can confidently say that you will love it. I’ve been going there my entire life, and it is truly a city like no other. Hopefully this raises the chances of getting to meet you one day. Good luck on the move and just know that people are very excited for you.
ingrid!! i've been subscribed to you for the longest time and i'm super excited to hear this news. i'm also reaching a milestone this year (20yrs old!!) and i chose to move to nyc for school last year.. it changed my life in so many ways. i admit it was so hard to say goodbye to the people i've lived with my whole life but i've learned so many lessons in such a short amount of time. i wouldn't go back and change a single thing.. i love your energy and mindset and i wish you best of luck on this new chapter of your life
I am so proud of you! I have been watching you for years now and I'm just so proud and honored for you to open your life and heart in this vulnerable way. Best of luck!!!
Ingrid - congrats and excited for you in this next chapter. I made the move to NYC at 29 too and enjoyed my five years there before moving back to SF. Grateful for the years there and friendships I’ve made. Good luck on your move and I look forward to your updates!
Omgg just new york is great. One great thing about my beautiful city is that theres never a lack of exploration and adventure to uncover. Explore every corner and experience how much culture is rooted into this city❤️ congrats on the new chapter !!
Ingrid!!! Woman you are amazing and incredible and I’m so happy you’re doing this. Excited for you to be chasing your dreams and getting ready to tackle your 30’s. No doubt that this is a great chapter to come.
I’ve been watching your videos for so long and I’m not quite into my 20s but I’m already feeling this fear of changes happening and just everything that I have to prepare for in life. But you’re such an inspiration and I love you and your videos and your optimism! I can’t wait to see you on this journey, the changes in your life and all the good things they will bring!
Awwww I’m so happy for you Ingrid! I’ve been a fan for years now, and seeing you grow and see life take you in so many different directions is just so inspirational and just a great example of going out and living your best life! Love love love you and will always be a fan! 💕
Can’t wait for all the new incredible things you will accomplish in NY!
I'm really happy for you, Ingrid. Since I've been following you here and on the rest of social media I've always felt like I had the best possible woman model to inspire me. I can only thank you so much for being so true to yourself and always caring about the things that really matter in life. I know for sure that you will be very happy in NY and I hope you never stop sharing all your wonderful thoughts and experiences with us. Lots of love from Spain 💖
Following you for years, this is like we're living this achievement with you, I am so happy and also excited for you! I'm also living a big change in my life (I left my job and the city I know to live a new adventure in a new city with my boyfriend) and I know exactly how powerful and true it feels to listen to your inner voice 😍 Hugs from France
SO SO happy for you!! One thing that is nice for just random household items is amazon subscribe and save. You can set it to send items (like toilet paper, dryer sheets, dish soap, etc...) to your house on a schedule so you don't have to think about it and can focus on other things like finding your favorite brunch spots! It has saved me a few times. Best of luck with the move, can't wait to follow along!
I’m so happy for you to be finally moving to the city that is right for you. Whether it’s for right now or forever I wish you all the love and luck for a smooth move and I hope you and Tayto settle in really quickly. Look forward to seeing you in your new home.
I never find myself commenting on your videos, but I just loved this video! congratulations, Ingrid. we are all so happy for you! ❤️
I'm so happy you're moving to NYC just because a bigger chance I'll be able to meet you because that's where I live right now. To be honest when you said you had a big life update a part of me was worried you were gonna leave youutbe and I know if that was the case there was a good reason for it but it would have been sad because honestly you're still one of the realest youtubers out there and I would miss you terribly. Any change is terrifying i was terrified to move to NYC being a Jersey girl my whole life and never been to the city for more than a few hours. But making the change has been the best thing I've learned more about myself and became more independent and learned that I would be ok on my own which was something that terrified me. (i started this comment before even finishing the video, now i'll finish then finish this comment) Change is always terrifying and I know when my friends talk about changes it scares me because I've lost a lot in my life and i worry with change i'll lose more but in the end change will happen and you can either let it ruin you or embrace it. I'm starting to learn to do the lather. I wish you the best of luck. :)
What helped me with my move was making a list and literally what'd I do is as I go through out my day I write down what I use and such and yes the list will become massive but it helps and do it with everything like make a list for all the paper work you have to do when it comes to the apartment and questions to ask. I don't know if lists are your thing but they are mine it made the move very easy. Now the one thing I did and mostly because it was the first time i was on my own but as soon as my parents left I called a friend because I knew if I didn't talk to someone I would have broke down crying.
so excited for this next step for you, ingrid!! i'm thankful for your videos and your presence in the world, and thankful that you share your journey with us! it's so awesome that you're getting to fulfill this lifelong dream... it encourages me to fight for my dreams, too. also, i'm really excited to see your new place in NY!
I'm so so happy for you!!! I moved to a big city from a little town and i think that the best advice i can give is just remember that all is temporary. You will make this new place your home and you will find new friends and you will figure things out. Give it time. I wish you the best of luck!!! 😍😍😍
Hi Ingrid!!! I will also be moving to NYC at the end of the summer & it makes me so happy to hear how excited you are! I can relate to everything you are saying & constantly go back & forth with excitement & regret but nothing that is worth doing is never easy! Wishing you the best of luck during your move & your transition & know that someone is feeling the same exact feelings alongside you!!! 💕💕💕
I literally cheered when I saw the title of this video!! I've seen how much you love NYC. The vibe of your pictures and stories when you've been in my hometown was always so light and happy. I'm so glad you are following your heart and best of luck with the move!!!!
It's been a while since I last saw one of your videos and it's refreshing to see your cute little face and presence your amazing vibes!! I love you Ingrid, I wish you absolutely the best! ❤️
Hey Ingrid!
Just wanted to say thank you for sharing, and as always, being so vulnerable and honest with us and yourself. I've been watching your videos since the beginning, and it might sound cheesy but it's just been so so cool and inspiring to see how much you've grown/changed/blossomed over all these years, all while remaining the same Ingrid you've always been.
On another note, I moved to NYC almost two years ago and will admit it can be kind of hard to build a community here since things are so fast-paced and people are very career oriented. With your connections and work and all though I'm positive it'll all happen naturally and be great - just gotta give it time :) Always here if you ever need an ear or wanna grab a coffee or something once you're settled. Good luck, sending you all the love xx
Best video in ages, I loved the personal vibe you gave us and would love if you do lots of vlogs while you're settling in. These sort of videos you upload are the ones I click on. Enjoy the move, wishing you a great new chapter x
Hearing you say you're turning 30 next year just made me realise how /old/ I actually am and how long I've been watching you for. I've watched you since the beginning and I can't believe how much you've grown during that time. Or how much I've grown even. I'm 27 now and I decided to go back to university last year to really pursue my career. New York has always felt like the most perfect place for you. I'm really happy for you.
You will shine in NYC. You will find your NY fam quickly - just do the things you love and the people you click with will appear. Sending love and good vibes from an Astoria, Queens NYC chick!
oh ingrid! ive been watching for six years! i'm so hapy! you inspire me as I start a new job in a few weeks! moving on up! i'm not crying ur crying!!!!
I’ve moved across the country multiple times, and it is a hassle. Good luck! For building community, I highly recommend putting yourself out there. Try out new hobbies or activities that involve other people. For me, that was finding a new dance studio and going to the museums in my new city. The internet is a gift for staying in touch with everything that’s going on in your area, especially somewhere big like New York so you can do it!
I loved seeing this since I’m also about to make a big move, for me to France for a year. It’s a lot of logistics and a mix of fear and joy. But everyday is about making small steps to be ready until you’re there and it’s happening. I hope you enjoy this time and best wishes in New York!!
How exciting! I can't wait to see how you set up your apartment. Over the course of my early and mid twenties, I moved from Connecticut (my home state) to NYC, then back to CT, and then again back to NYC...and then back to CT, which is where I am now. Throughout those years, I was so afraid that people would think that I was directionless and didn't know what I was doing with my life. But each of those moves was so important to where I felt I needed to be, emotionally and professionally. I had to push past that fear of being judged by others and simply trust myself. I don't regret any of it because it all led me to where I am now: I'm about to start a Master's program for a totally different field from what I worked in while in NYC, and I'm thrilled about it! Your message of honoring your inner voice is so important to anyone experiencing self-doubt in their lives, whether they're on the brink of massive change or just trying to make it through the week.
I'd like to pass along a couple of book recommendations below, which are filled with the spirit of NYC and seem relevant to your life :) Happy moving!
Goodbye to All That: Writers on Loving and Leaving New York by Sari Botton
Never Can Say Goodbye: Writers on Their Unshakable Love for New York by Sari Botton
I really like to see you unpack the clothing/shoes/bags/accessories during the move in new home! Love your style! Have a happy moving and day!
BIG TIP:
Make a OPEN FIRST box.
This box will be what you need first, before your clothes arrive, before you unpack the 10000 billion boxes, before you can start the day.
This should include;
Toilet paper (at least a roll or two, perhaps some moist flushable wipes because you never know how your nerves will treat your G.I)
Soap- Your favorite hand soap. Something that will not only clean your hands but also give you the feeling of home with a great scent.
Towels- Hand towel, body towel & a back up towel. You will want to shower, you may not find the right box before that happens.
Just incase, have something ready to dry your hands on, at least one towel to dry off with after showering, and one oops towel for any issues that happen during the move (leaky faucets, dropped drinks, pet innocence)
Toothbrush/Toothpaste/mouthwash- New clean items that can quickly be used when you are ready for bed or an a surprise visit from friends and you've had garlic hummus just moments ago.
Snacks- something easy like a protein bar or granola. Everyone loves a good snack, and you might not have gone to the grocery yet (you may not know where it is!)
Medicine- Anything you take daily, plus the emergency stuff- headache, nausea, indigestion, upset stomach, ect. have a little stash, moving is stressful.
chapstick- keep them hydrated. long moves with new weather can really dry you out.
Hair elastic- one or two , to keep your hair up out of the way when you are in the zone!
basic cleaners- one good all purpose cleaner, dish soap, glass cleaner- this will be handy when you are wiping out the cabinets before putting things away.
Paper towels or reusable towels to use with the above cleaners.
Anything you need daily- Have a great "travel bag" or favorite items to put in your bag when you are on the go? Put them here.
A cup, A spoon, A fork.- because it never fails you need one of them and the box is somewhere in the land of boxes.
Finally- comfy clothes.
One pair of clothes that are great for comfortable nesting. A pair of fluffy socks, a baggy tee and pj pants, whatever makes you feel great while you build your new home.
Have a great time. Remember breathe, you got this.
Also- Color coding and numbering boxes really helps.
Bedroom - red
living room- blue
Kitchen-green
bathroom-yellow
pet care-Purple.
Make a chart, Bedroom = 5boxes, livingroom =9 boxes ect, this way you are not constantly looking and stressing for things you KNOW you packed but cant find.
Also make sure you give out copies of the chart to helpers!
This is awesome advice!!! I'm gonna use it too!!! 💜
Gingy L
Honestly I've moved a lot, and made a lot of mistakes.
This isn't a super easy and quick way to do it but its completely worth it
Congratulations on your move Ingrid!!! So incredible! My husband and I (and our dog) moved from Detroit to Atlanta last year and it was so emotional and exciting but we love it! I always thought you seemed so much more yourself in New York! ❤️❤️
Hi Ingrid! This video really resonated with me. Last September I made a similar cross country move, only I moved from NYC to LA. After 10 years in NYC, I got an amazing job offer in LA and I listened to that inner voice. It was such a hard move in so many ways. All of the goodbyes, the extreme environmental change, a completely different way of life. I can honestly say it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. All the logistics can be so overwhelming but it will be worth it in the end. Best of luck during this huge adventure. xoxo
Good for you Ingrid! It’s going to be extremely difficult but ultimately wonderful. I moved from Chicago, where I lived my whole life, to Seattle a couple years ago. I still miss my family all the time but I don’t regret it whatsoever.
Welcome to NYC full-time!!! I moved up just over a year ago, leaving friends, family, work etc. in Washington DC. Big transitions like that are really hard, but they’re so worth it in the long run when the city becomes your home. See ya on the subway 👋❤️
This really spoke to me. I’ve always wanted to move to London, but logistically it hasn’t made sense yet. Hoping that by the time I’m 30 I’ll be able to listen to my inner voice. Thank you Ingrid!
I've moved over 20 times in my adult life. Make a list. If you are packing, complete each space before moving on to the next and have lots of garbage bags! Get the unpacking done as fast as possible. You may not know where stuff goes but just get it out of the box and the organization will come later. Get the boxes out. And then be patient with it coming together. It can be a zen sort of thing, seeing where things want to be in your new space. Have a box to unpack first.. have your bedding, toilet paper, towels and coffee prep. First night stuff. Do your bedroom first. So when you are ready to crash you can. Take it one thing at a time. It is a lot but it also isn't. People do it all the time. There are tons of resources.. I am sure there are thousands of "moving' videos on youtube! Your relationships will change with those you are leaving in LA because you can't pop out to have coffee but gosh you can FaceTime over a cup of coffee. Be intentional with staying in touch. Finding new people.. I say get out.. join a gym, join a church (if that is your thing) join art classes, join things that interest you and you will find like minded network of friends that you have at least one thing in common with and it can snowball into finding other things too.
I really needed to watch this video today. I moved cross country from Florida to California and it was relatively smooth for me but I wasn’t super prepared and had to do a lot of figuring out when I came out here. My go getter personality thriiived off of that move though! My boyfriend was planning to move out here (also from the east coast) and ultimately decided recently he did not feel ready to make that big of a move (not because of me, and we are still together, but because it is, indeed, big.) My positive experience had me downplaying the fact that it is a lot to take on. And there are many emotions involved with a move like that. Watching this video made me emotional because it helped me realize all the changes that come from moving cross country, and even though I was “okay” from diving in head first, that will not always be the case for everyone. You have granted me the perspective that I no longer should be upset he isn’t making this move out here, because when one of us does move to be with the other, it’ll be the right time and done correctly with the right planning. Thank you, Ingrid! I wish you all the best in your transition!
Ps. When I moved to Cali the best gift someone gave me was a tiny succulent, because with the right care, succulents will grow where they are planted, and so will you! Caring for one might be a nice little reminder of that when things get hard.
Thank you for sharing this with us, Ingrid! You are such an inspiration to me in many ways and have been for years. I am also moving to NY this summer coincidentally and I feel everything you're describing as well. I'm excited to honor the voice inside of me and I am so proud that you're doing the same. ❤️
Thank you so much for the note in your description box. It’s great knowing we’re not alone in this world when we feel uncertain and have big life changes taking place! I’m so excited for you to move to New York! It’s inspiring to see you follow your inner voice 💛 I’m trying to do the same in the little ways I can 💛
Awwh Ingrid, I love you!! I just moved back home in LA from the Bay Area, this is still a huge transition for me especially since I absolutely LOVED the Bay and all the people I met there. You’re so inspiring and I’m so happy we’re transitioning together. Best of luck and I can’t wait to catch up with you on your Instagram as you move. I’m so so happy for you 💕
Your dog’s smile is literally everything.
I’m so excited to see this new chapter of your life. I listened to my inner self, moved back to my home of England from australia, leaving all of my close family behind. As terrifying as it was, It’s been the best decision I made. Good luck, Ingrid! 💕
Proud of you, Ingrid! You will thrive in NYC. I remember watching the video you did about all of the thing you loved about the city when you lived there and I could tell how much you loved it there. It's truly such an energetic, inspiring city! xx
Goodluck on your move! I lived in new york for a couple of years and I can honestly say it was the best couple of years of my life, and I actually saw you there once at a cafe but was too shy to say hi! I had to move for work, but the dream is to one day move back to the city. New York is such an amazing, diverse place to be in and you will absolutely love it! I wish you an easy move and nothing but the best!
Oooh I wish you a good move !! I also experience the magic that comes from listening to our inner voice and I am so grateful for it. On terms of big transition, what helped me is to honor every emotion felt with compassion and love and really feeling them fully and giving us the time to process everything without expectations. Yes transitioning to a dream and what we truly want is exciting but it is also very overwhelming, brings up a lot of fears and take us out of our comfort zone so much. So I think it is really a time to be gentle and loving with ourselves no matter what we feel, knowing we are doing this for the better and that when we're more settled and grounded into our new reality we will begin to get the fruition of everything we went through before :) good luck and much love ! 💖💗💕
ingrid, you are so poetic -- i love your perspective on change and your excitement exudes through your words. excited for what's to come
First of all, thank you for always making such authentic content and sharing so much of yourself with the internet. I moved across the country almost two years ago now and didn’t know anyone and one thing I would say is be patient with yourself. It’s a huge transition (bigger than I ever anticipated) and I wish I had given myself the space to grieve a little and be scared. On building a community I would say introduce yourself as someone who is new to the area. A girl in my apartment complex who I’ve been having in passing conversations with just recently found out I had moved knowing no one and she said if she had known she would have extended friendship much earlier.
Definitely make sure to try simple ways of getting to know the smaller community of your neighborhood and neighbors (it is possible and it does still happen people!). There are still gonna be times where you'll be lonely, but just know that these transitions take time and you can absolutely do this! I started joining volunteer work on Saturday mornings and not only was it important to give to others, it really helped me in equal measure by getting to know people I might not ever have met before. Making friends that come from various walks of life- for me at least- is one of the best ways to gain perspective outside of yourself and to feel connected to a new place :) lots of love Ingrid!
I’m so happy for you Ingrid! I’ve been watching you since 2012 and I can tell that New York is the place for you! So excited to watch you live this new chapter!
Hey Ingrid! Moving advice here! I’ve made the move from the very very north of Washington to the LA a while back and I can tell you right away the goodbyes are so weird. You’re right in that it’s not goodbye forever, but acknowledgeing that you won’t exist in the same role within the friendship can be devestating. Luckily, you’ve already been to and lived in New York. I highly recommend sinking into the things you do regularly when you’re there that bring you some joy and a sense of comfort. A few weeks in, once the excitement wears off, these things really help solidify the feeling of being home. You may also find a new community of friends from the routine. I’d also recommend having your friends maybe write some letters before you officially leave and keep them until you need them. It’s a rough, tedious, annoying transition, but going where your heart lies is worth it in every way 💕 can’t wait to see your new space!
I'm so happy to hear you are making such a huge change in your life to make yourself happier. Hope NYC will treat you well and I look forward seeing your videos from there. I admire your bravery for doing this. It's bound to be hard at times but I'm sure it will be worth it. Lots of love
When I turned 30 I moved to NYC from Southern California and I’ve never been happier. I met my husband here a few years ago as well. It’s a whirlwind change to move everything but it was the best decision I’ve made. Congrats on the move! Welcome. :)
Hi, Ingrid! Congrats on the move! I made the permanent move from the US to New Zealand about six months ago, and it was all the things you said a big move is--exciting and scary all at the same time. My advice to you is to make sure to bring things that make you feel at home. I moved with only two suitcases of clothes. I really missed all my little decorative pieces because everywhere I lived felt temporary vs when I shipped my blankets, photos, decorative things from the US, then my flat in NZ got 100% more cozy and felt less like I was crashing in a stranger's apartment. Something I'd recommend to build your community in NYC is to start a routine. My partner and I have a local pub we go to every weekend and sit and do a crossword together. Since we're now regulars, we've made friends with the staff and have another home-y spot to go to outside our actual apt. Good luck on the move!
Ingrid, I am delighted for you. You were one of the very first people I started watching on UA-cam about 8 years ago and WOW have we seen you grow. Good Luck with everything and New York City is lucky to have you.
Ingrid, you've grown to be so grounded in yourself and in the way you express yourself. You're just awesome and New York suits you :) Practice those meditations throughout the stress of moving and you'll be thriving!
Welcome to NYC!! I moved here a year ago and it was the best decision ever! One tip - pack a suitcase like you’re going on a trip for a few days so that when you get to your new spot you can easily access clothes and some essentials without having to go through all the boxes right away.
I am so happy for you and I admire you so greatly, Ingrid. I’ve been watching you since I was 17 (I’m 25 now), and it has been so amazing to watch you follow your truth and grow into the woman you are today. Coincidentally, I am also signing a lease in NYC and permanently settling down for the first time too, so I can’t wait to hear about your move and reflect on our shared experiences. Love you, girl! And please do a meetup in NY soon!
Congratulations Ingrid!!! Nothing good comes easy. You are an inspiration to so many, and no doubt, this will positively influence people to follow their dreams! Xoxo! New beginnings are so exciting!
I'm so glad you decided to share with us. It's awesome that you are following your heart and doing what will truly make you happy. I too love NYC, it's where I feel most at home. Sending love your way :) xoxo
So happy for you. You always seemed more alive in New York. Four years ago, I moved from Illinois to Arizona for a teaching job, and I’m still living in Arizona. It feels more like home then Illinois ever did even though that is where my family lives. Sometimes finding your happiness and your home means moving away from what you know and who you love.
As for moving advice, get to know your neighbors and neighborhood. Knowing more about the area you are living in helps to make you feel more comfortable.
Moving is really hard. I have moved internationally to go to college here in the States. All my friends are everywhere in the world, and it really felt hard to reconcile with the fact that I will be living in a new environment without my friends I grew up with. But, even though saying goodbye feels like leaving a part of me behind, I was able to discover a new me and make so many amazing friends that I know will be lifelong friends. Moving to a new place forces me out of my comfort zone and really allows you to fall in love with a new lifestyle. It is worth it, and I know that you moved knowing this!!! Best wishes to you and have a great time in NYC!!!!
It’s amazing to hear you are chasing your dreams ❤️ it makes me so happy to see you happy and well ❤️ I’m proud of you and happy for you! I’ve been following you since 2012 and I’m so happy to see the person you became and still going to become. Love you Ingrid! ❤️
I'm so happy for you!! NYC is your happy place and I fully support people finding their happy place. I just did a cross country move myself (after doing my first cross country move 2yrs ago) and it's a lot! I wish you much luck and safe packing. Going forward and far is scary but when your gut knows, it knows! In terms for packing, using those space saver bags are super great for packing soft items, having a 'go bag' that includes what you need for the morning after/morning of is super important to help you feel a little less off centered, paper bags are actually great for packing coffee mugs, aaaand KonMari before to declutter!
Best of luck!! I know how stressful that move is!! But the end point is a happy place!
You are a favorite you tubers to my daughter! You’re inspired always the girls go for their dreams! Thanks for be who you are!
My tips from me to you.
1) don’t stress
2) always have a time for yourself everyday
3) always be well organized and have detailed lists
4) don’t be shy. Always express who you are no matter what
5) don’t be afraid to ask questions
Btw ilysm ingrid ❤️
I totally feel you, Ingrid! I'm moving back to the US next Monday after three years abroad. Three cheers to new beginning!
Oh I so know how you are feeling right now Ingrid. I'm about to make a really big change in my life as well. I'm moving to Wisconsin from Indiana for my first full time adult job at the end of July. I'm really excited to start this next chapter in my life as I truly become an adult. But I'm so sad to leave behind my family and all the friends I've made in Indiana over the past 22 years. It's really hard stepping away from people I love to start following my dreams in broadcasting. I'm glad that someone like you is in a similar position so I have someone to watch content from and follow who's going through similar changes. I can't wait to see how NYC is for you and hopefully apply some of that to my new life in Wisconsin.
I'm so happy for you Ingrid!! I can really see how excited you are for this. I absolutely connect to the feeling of wanting to live in the place that's perfect for you. I can't wait to see your new place in New York, and good luck with the transition! Unfortunately I don't have any tips to give you, but I will be cheering you on all the way
I am so excited for you, Ingrid! While this may seem unrelated, I work a minimum-wage restaurant job on top of being a student. This usually means two things-- that I work night shifts, and that sometimes I have to wash dishes for five hours straight. Since we are allowed to have headphones in while washing dishes, Ladies Who Lunch has always been the brightest part of those shifts. It was always so calming and entertaining to hear you guys talk for a large portion of my day-- it made me feel so much less alone! I remember during one podcast you were discussing how you wanted to move back to New York for some part of your life, and my first thought was, "I really hope she does, and does it soon". While I will be missing your advice during my long shifts, I am so ecstatic that you are living your dream in real life!! I wish you all the best in your upcoming move!!
Moving tips: Label the ish out of the outside of boxes and take a picture of the outside labels and inside before you close it. If you have space (especially if your things are being driven) pack things you would hate to be without in lots of the boxes. For example, I put a roll of toilet paper in a Ziploc bag in most of my boxes and then I had toilet paper and a Ziploc bag almost no matter which I opened first. (List of must-have items at end.) Make appointments with places like the DMV now because it can take a while to get in. Check your health insurance coverage and establish a primary care doctor. If you see a therapist, start researching and reaching out. Look into ordering furniture because things like couches can be backordered weeks. Consider hiring a professional cleaner to clean your whole place before you move in. Set reminders on your phone to eat and drink water because it's easy to forget and it makes everything seem so much worse.
Must have items: toilet paper, paper towels, Ziploc bags, multiple pairs of scissors, sharpies, Mack's earplugs, Advil, first aid kit
Other things you might want for your new place: toolbox, household fire extinguisher
Good luck!!!
It is so wonderful watching you grow and evolve, keep chasing your dreams!
So happy for you, Ingrid. Knew this was coming, because you’ve always wanted it and it does seem like the right time for changes! I am right on the other side of the bridge. Will be waving!😊💕
I have made a few semi-big moves through the last 8 years for college & graduate school (KY to NC, then KY to FL). I am currently in the process of moving from Miami, FL to Seattle, WA (!!). I am looking forward to all your videos documenting this big change while I go through a similar experience.
I usually take time in the weeks prior to the move to really declutter - donate clothes I don't love, trash any home goods that aren't being used or in bad shape, etc. I also sold almost all of my furniture in FL and plan on starting fresh once I arrive on the West Coast. I moved furniture during one of my large moves and I found that it was super expensive and a lot of my furniture was scratched/damaged.
Best of luck as you start this new chapter!!
I booked my driving test yesterday which is something I never thought I could do, but I did, and I am, and I will. I'm absolutely terrified, but so deeply happy that I'm honouring my inner voice. Thank you for your words in this video, Ingrid, I really needed them ❤ good luck on your transition!!
I moved to NYC from Japan (completely a few month ago) and felt welcomed by this warm-hearted city. So you will be fine!!!!!! Welcome to NYC. Hope I can run into you♡
congrats! you're seriously so inspiring. I know you're just going to love living in NYC. I've lived just a short train ride away from the big apple since I was 3 years old, and I know it's where I want to end up living too! Best of luck on this big change, and new adventure! As for moving tips that may sound generic but are helpful to me:
1. Make note of all of the places around your new home (and I mean ON PAPER)--> go to grocery store, restaurant, coffee shop, shopping destination; it'll make you feel more connected to this new place
2. Don't be afraid to reach out to new neighbors! It may sound cheesy but baking cookies for your new next-door neighbor is a really kind gesture that will make you feel like you can start building relationships with them.
3. Take a walk! Walk to a place in the city you love from your new home; it will make the place feel even more like home.
4. If you're a candle fan, burn the same candles you usually burn in our LA home in your new home; it'll make the place truly feel like yours just by the scent of it!
Good luck, Ingrid. You're going to love your new NYC life.
GIRL. I can relate to this so much. I lived in NYC for about a year, left for about a year, and just moved back two weeks ago. It’s been better than ever so far, but I can so relate to the constant rollercoaster of emotions. Proud of you!!! 💕
I've moved across the US not once but twice in my twenties (Washington D.C. to LA then to Rhode Island for grad school) and my main pieces of advice are (1) trust your gut - as you're reassembling furniture, watching money fly out the window at random expenses, you'll think "staying in LA would've been so much easier" but I cannot even describe how proud of yourself you will feel in a few months for doing this! (2) As far as mental health goes, I just bought a foldable yoga mat (which takes up less space than rolling) specifically because I'll be working across Africa for the next few years and know that it's imperative for me to do yoga/HIIT workouts to keep anxiety at bay. I'm currently in South Africa and just used that mat in my very small room to exercise and it made a huge difference in how I feel about all of the anxiety inducing things I have to do tomorrow. Don't feel bad for taking care of your mental health (exercising, indulging in things, taking a timeout from "real life") when everything else is total chaos! (3) For building community, which is I think the hardest and most important thing of all for introverts, I have to say that it is worth it to be a bit shameless when you meet someone that you know will be a friend (trust your gut, remember!). Whether it's a work contact that you have a friend crush on and now can actually meet up with for breakfast because you're neighbors, or someone you meet randomly at an exercise class or the dog park, saying "I just moved here, we seem to be on the same page, want to get coffee?" almost always works. As someone who is shy and quiet (until I'm comfortable), I can attest to this being very stressful but totally worthwhile. Good luck! We are rooting for you (and going through it in our own lives, too!).
I just completed a move and the two things that were really helpful for me were (a) making a “Open First” box with things you need immediately (mine had toilet paper, a shower curtain, tools, scissors, a corkscrew, and a bottle of wine!) and (b) get groceries delivered. With so many things going on, it can be impossible to squeeze in picking up food. It was nice to wake up in my new place and know that I could make a cup of coffee and have a quick bite before getting back to unpacking! I know this transition will be great for you! Congrats!
Omg! A fellow east coast gal! Congrats to you, Ingrid. I've been following your journey since around the time you were first living in NYC and I'm glad you're doing something again that really resonates with you. If you ever find yourself in Massachusetts and need a tour guide, I'm here for ya 😚
Hey Ingrid! I moved to NYC three years ago and it was the scariest thing I’ve ever done but easily the most rewarding. I lived in Manhattan for the first two years, but last year moved to Brooklyn and it’s my favorite place I’ve ever lived! I recently got a dog and it’s helped me meet so many amazing people in our little neighborhood - Tayto will make as many friends as you will.
Please do moving vlogs 😩
I'm planning to share the move in real-time on my Instagram through photos + stories (starting this week since the movers are coming!) and then I'll be putting together a vlog with a compilation of moments from the entire move!
Looking forward to seeing them Ingrid! Although vlogs on youtube are the best in my opinion x
You deserve all the happiness in the world, Ingrid 😊 So happy for you! 💜 loving NY more 💜
I can not tell you how much I feel related to you. Thank you so much for sharing this. I'm about to turn 29 and I'm actually moving from Chihuahua to Monterrey (Mexico) to follow my dreams... I know how you feel, specially about saying goodbye to people and feeling excited about the new starts! I love you, I admire you and even tho we don't know each other in person and maybe we'll never meet, you're my friend! 😘