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  • Опубліковано 23 лис 2024

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  • @areejhasan7526
    @areejhasan7526 29 днів тому +6

    Bht himmat hai ap main ..mujhe apna time yd agaya 1 year phly uuuufff mujhse tou hila b nahi jarah tha or ap vlog shoot kr rhi thi MashAllah 👏👏😍

  • @babycraftz
    @babycraftz Місяць тому +7

    I am also due on December.
    Kindly please please make a vlog on how to stay positive during labour.. you dint throw any tantrum during contractions..
    One of the calmest birth vlogs ive ever seen.

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому +1

      I was practicing breathing exercises and doing yoga throughout my pregnancy. I used those same techniques during labour and it really helped. Because screaming and panicking actually makes it worse as that energy is being wasted.

    • @artsysugar2892
      @artsysugar2892 16 днів тому

      Mee tooo due in December ❤

  • @SugrabegumSiddiqui
    @SugrabegumSiddiqui Місяць тому +25

    Uff This reminds me of mine delivery. I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl around 2 months ago. Can't imagine the pain I went through. I had emergency c section after 32 hours of long labor pain. We women's are so so strong MashaAllah ❤ btw congratulations to your whole family 🎉

    • @aleenak6747
      @aleenak6747 29 днів тому +1

      of my delivery*

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your story. More power to you, super mom ❤

  • @mehakzehra9154
    @mehakzehra9154 18 днів тому +7

    I got some courage after watching this vlog I hope me Bhi isi terha brave rahon insha'Allah

  • @faikanaaz2228
    @faikanaaz2228 29 днів тому +2

    This video reminds me of my delivery😭I think our hospitals are same but different birth stories.Your hospital was west middlesex hospital I think.Atleast they discharged you after 4 days but to me they discharged after 8 days..even mine was a normal delivery. I was in labour pain for 24hrs...but they where very cooperative. My baby is now 5 months and i think i will never forget the journey from getting admitted to the hospital until discharged and i love how they take Care of mums. Seeing your video reminds me of my mum who was here to take care of me.she was here in UK foe 1½ month.Mums are the only one on whom we can rely upon and I also saw you during your ultrasound appointment..you were with your friend but until i realize who you are, you left the hospital😅and also congratulations to you and your family may Allah swt ease pain of every women during the labour pain.Ameen

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      Woah small world! The team at West Middlesex is indeed very very supportive. And yes you must’ve seen me with my sister at my 16 week appointment!

  • @ssk7283
    @ssk7283 29 днів тому +3

    Your mother's great. Matlab aap ki stories pr aur sab jagah unko itna kuch banate huwe dekha hai. Please tell her to make a channel and share her thoughts. Looks so young. I am so inspired by her snippet. Ji jesa hona chahiye wese karte huwe unhe dekha hai. Lucky you

  • @saroshsubhan29
    @saroshsubhan29 Місяць тому +11

    9:23 Ali bhai snoring is another visual representation of the father’s contribution in the baby birth😅

  • @Aqsamunir-mm7qb
    @Aqsamunir-mm7qb 18 днів тому +4

    U r soooo lucky for living this life style 🥰🥰🥰

  • @BakhtawarAbdullah-w2f
    @BakhtawarAbdullah-w2f Місяць тому +4

    You made it sound so easy but I know what you went through. The fact that you didn’t even get any pain relief 😢

  • @shabanabegum7119
    @shabanabegum7119 Місяць тому +10

    How come everything.. Ur preg and delivery just looked like a piece of cake... 😮even ur face during labour and after baby looks so fresh.never ever seen anyones preg like this. .. Just wow

    • @GDInspirations
      @GDInspirations Місяць тому +3

      That’s the mindset one needs for a battle lol that’s why so many doulas and midwifes say it’s all a mind game

    • @saverasavera3652
      @saverasavera3652 29 днів тому

      ladies in PK throw themselves 0n bed, dont workout neither during preganncy nor post, doesnt shower and freshen up which is why they are the way they are.

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      @@GDInspirations100%! It’s all a mind game. I was doing breathing, pointing and visualization exercises the entire time and it made it super easy to cope

    • @bushrarehman1716
      @bushrarehman1716 22 дні тому

      Epidural magic😂😂

    • @GDInspirations
      @GDInspirations 22 дні тому

      @@bushrarehman1716she was late for epidural please… there are positive birth stories but unfortunately our Pakistani women love to spread rumours and scare other women of labour they make a whole negative mindset around labour and when someone comes out with a positive mindset they downplay their effort by saying “epidural magic” lol

  • @hinazeeshan1801
    @hinazeeshan1801 20 днів тому +6

    Thank you for not putting the part where women actually do the deed.. the push part .. some things are personal and not for everyone to share with. From how you appeared throughout I was thinking you were gonna get a baby girl but a boy is equally as precious ❤️.. Mubarak ho!

  • @ayeshavlog9201
    @ayeshavlog9201 День тому

    It's a c section or normal Dilvery I can't understand but you gave me courage

  • @siffatrukhsar7445
    @siffatrukhsar7445 6 днів тому

    Awww masha Allah 🥹 m so happy for u plus just let us knw that swelling on nose disappears or not ?

  • @maryamsattar8739
    @maryamsattar8739 29 днів тому +12

    Congratulations, the video was enjoyable because of no background music. Also, a little reminder to always say Inn sha Allaah for future. Lastly, may Allaah make this baby a reviver of sunnah, a righteous man and coolness of his parents eyes. Aameen x

  • @AllahuAkbar0505
    @AllahuAkbar0505 19 днів тому +1

    Yaar ur just simply awesome and ur the carbon copy of janvi Kapoor ❤

  • @ash.a8412
    @ash.a8412 4 дні тому

    Stitches ki pain kitny days rhe apko r ap ti blkl mashaAllah fresh lug rhe .how to deal with stitches pain??

  • @deliasimms4499
    @deliasimms4499 22 дні тому

    Hey, you gave birth at west middlesex hospital ! They are excellent. Im really happy for you. I had a c section but they were amazing. That birthing suite is really nice.

  • @sidrayunus5177
    @sidrayunus5177 27 днів тому

    The shape of u're pregnant tummy reminded me of my last pregnancy of my son Ali..... 12 years back......baby boys r mostly up in the tummy....... Congratulations and best of luck on the hard journey of being a mum dearie🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 but don't worry Allah ghayab Sy himmat detain hain

  • @mehreensadaf6492
    @mehreensadaf6492 Місяць тому +1

    Mashallah.. beautiful daughter of beautiful mom❤❤❤brave brave girl ❤❤❤

  • @Cookandvlogsuk
    @Cookandvlogsuk Місяць тому +3

    How did u stay positive throughout your pregnancy.
    I was so nervous from the beginning ended up loosing the pregnancy.

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      It’s all a mind game. Start doing yoga and telling yourself that you will have a positive experience no matter what

  • @sadiakhan-r7q
    @sadiakhan-r7q 17 днів тому +1

    you are one brave girl ! MaShaAllah

  • @sheezasiddiqui4927
    @sheezasiddiqui4927 Місяць тому +3

    MashaAllah best most awaited video

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 29 днів тому +5

    I've heard crazy birth experiences with the NHS but yours looked amazing, put my mind to ease

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      I got very lucky indeed

    • @deliasimms4499
      @deliasimms4499 22 дні тому

      Please ignore horror stories. I had an excellent birth under the nhs

    • @ayeshaehsan9019
      @ayeshaehsan9019 21 день тому

      Crazy birth experience wahn hn jahn muslim community zayda jahn English log zayda hn wahn hospital bht achy hn or rush b nhi zayda

  • @saroshsubhan29
    @saroshsubhan29 Місяць тому +1

    Ma Shaa Allah May Allah give you and your baby Araiz a healthy and happy life Ameen ❤so happy for the beautiful little family 😍

  • @SobiaIrfan-q7l
    @SobiaIrfan-q7l 18 днів тому

    MashaAllah brave lady congratulations 🎉🎉main aj 5th November ko first time ap ka vlog dhk rhi hun and I like u sister ‘love baby from uk

  • @GDInspirations
    @GDInspirations Місяць тому +1

    MashAllah love your positive attitude ❤ congratulations again. You are giving me hope and courage!!!

  • @bismu682
    @bismu682 29 днів тому

    MashaAllah ramsha salute to you nd all moms ❤ jo sb dard hasty huy tolerate krleti hain we girls are so damnnn strong ❤

  • @ranaminahil2412
    @ranaminahil2412 21 день тому

    I was in labor for almost 40 hours but pushed for like 20 mins. the labor part was so exhausting as I couldn’t get any sleep form2 days so I could literally understand ur situation.

  • @AreebasCorner
    @AreebasCorner 29 днів тому +2

    My baby was also born on September 17th! He was due one September 22nd. 😅

  • @maryumnawaz6170
    @maryumnawaz6170 28 днів тому

    Ma sha Allah you are sooo strong ❤❤ Congratulations on your baby boy ❤❤❤

  • @manhalsiddiqui6624
    @manhalsiddiqui6624 Місяць тому +2

    You are so strong! ما شاء الله
    May Allah grant your baby good healthy and all the happiness! آمين
    🫣🤍

  • @sehrish_lifestyle
    @sehrish_lifestyle 28 днів тому +1

    Wow mashallah ❤ itni himat kahan se ati hai ?? Ye sb dekh k toh ese lag raha sb bht easy hai 😂😂😂😅

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 29 днів тому

    Thank u for sharing Ramsha!! congratulations

  • @anisausman7432
    @anisausman7432 15 днів тому +1

    Despite being 10 cm dilated you spent 16-18 hours just in pushing 😢 the baby. How difficult it must be.

  • @Maya22772c
    @Maya22772c Місяць тому

    This video is wholesome ❤️

  • @bakhtawarrazzaq9836
    @bakhtawarrazzaq9836 Місяць тому

    Ammarah is right legends are born on the 17th is September. Bakhtawar Razzaq aka me was also born on the same date 28 years ago

  • @hareemWasi
    @hareemWasi 18 днів тому +2

    So you dailated without any cut ??

  • @amnaghulamrasool3905
    @amnaghulamrasool3905 28 днів тому +1

    Iam going to give birth in start of December at queens hospital. Can you tell me if they provide anything over there. What are the must have items in ur hospital bag. Iam new to london so have no idea

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      Our hospital provided us with a maternity bag checklist so check with your midwife if she has any resource specific to your hospital. I have also uploaded what I packed in my hospital bag in my shorts so you can check that video out as well

  • @marvi2427
    @marvi2427 2 години тому

    It’s Birmingham?

  • @nayabulkhairhashmi7631
    @nayabulkhairhashmi7631 27 днів тому

    You are such brave girl Masha Allah . It reminds my baby girl birth 8 hours contractions ufffff

  • @fatimavali1053
    @fatimavali1053 22 дні тому

    What’s that thing you put in water? And what’s the story behind it?

  • @nehashahzad6809
    @nehashahzad6809 28 днів тому +1

    At which week you were in labor?

  • @anamnazidg8519
    @anamnazidg8519 Місяць тому

    MashaAllah MashaAllah boht boht Mubarak ❤❤

  • @lifeaftermarriage4038
    @lifeaftermarriage4038 28 днів тому +1

    I'm five months pregnant nd I'll make sure show this vlog before going to delivery that how do with baby

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      Do practice breathing exercises and start doing yoga

  • @Reem-yw4oh
    @Reem-yw4oh 2 дні тому

    Why in UK they dont admit till last minute?

  • @Yunzie22
    @Yunzie22 Місяць тому

    Really hats off to my mother who pushed 3 girls oh god! Anyways congratulations to you and your family masha Allah masha Allah masha Allah and Allah huma barik!!!

  • @Arijaved121
    @Arijaved121 25 днів тому

    Can you please tell cute small sa baby cot kaha se lia hai and what it is called ?

  • @aroofa-c1r
    @aroofa-c1r 29 днів тому

    Was the birthing easy , I mean Compared to other people's experiences you've heard of how long did the contractions last until the pushing session started. Sorry just asking because I am also 2 months pregnant and really scared of what going to come in the next 7 months.

    • @Uroosa_talha
      @Uroosa_talha 29 днів тому

      😮

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      I had 18 hours of contractions before I started pushing. The pushing lasted 2 hours so a total of 20 hours of labour

  • @fatimaiqbal2677
    @fatimaiqbal2677 Місяць тому

    Share your experience of eating dates and okra water. Did they help in labor or dilation?

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому +1

      I can’t be sure if that was what helped but I did have natural delivery so maybe they did work

  • @rifahtasfiasuprova2849
    @rifahtasfiasuprova2849 Місяць тому +1

    Can you please share your experience of the stitching and what worked best for you while pushing?
    Also do you suggest something or advice something from your experience of labor pain till delivery that you think you should have done differently?

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому +1

      I got quite a few second degree perineum and labial tears. The midwife had to call the doctors for the stitching because they couldn’t do it.
      One thing I would’ve done differently was to push for another check instead of going home. That way I could’ve gotten pain relief in time as pushing without any pain relief was a horrible experience. I felt like all my bones were being crushed over and over again

  • @everydayspecial378
    @everydayspecial378 29 днів тому +1

    Mashallah 🥰 😊❤❤❤

  • @adilaumar9837
    @adilaumar9837 26 днів тому

    Mashalllah congratulations

  • @bismamubushar490
    @bismamubushar490 Місяць тому +1

    At what week you delivered?

  • @Noorshortsnoor
    @Noorshortsnoor Місяць тому +1

    Today is the first day of 6th month and quite nervous but very confident that delivering the baby is not going to hurt much idk im in delusional 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @mirhina8727
    @mirhina8727 29 днів тому

    My edd is on 12 march inshah Allah can anyone tell me what is best nvd or lscs?

  • @sanayalikhan
    @sanayalikhan 29 днів тому

    How are you dealing with stretch marks ?

  • @misbahmahmood1203
    @misbahmahmood1203 29 днів тому

    I was waiting for the time when baby will pop out of you😂

  • @aamnarizwanjafrani880
    @aamnarizwanjafrani880 Місяць тому

    MASHAALLAH may Allah bless you all

  • @docmahoo473
    @docmahoo473 21 день тому

    Has marium flower helped you???

  • @afsanakhan6875
    @afsanakhan6875 20 днів тому

    Legends are born and the girl mentions modi. 😑😑😑

  • @onlineproductshoul.3383
    @onlineproductshoul.3383 22 дні тому

    Pregnancy phase me naak q Moti hojati hai
    Koi batayega

  • @lifeflavours6252
    @lifeflavours6252 26 днів тому +1

    Itna hosla.omg

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 29 днів тому

    Ali's snores🤣

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 29 днів тому

    please regarding the actual birth part a bit more if thats ok, like the pushing, the tears and stitches, how bad were they

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому

      I got a lot of second degree tears and had to be stitched up for almost an hour!

  • @erumnew5481
    @erumnew5481 16 днів тому

    2:16 name of this please

  • @kaneezfatima9329
    @kaneezfatima9329 25 днів тому

    Mama ki cup cake recipe?

  • @saniaaamer3827
    @saniaaamer3827 27 днів тому

    Born my baby in 19 October in c section.

  • @SayedaLubabahAbdullah
    @SayedaLubabahAbdullah 29 днів тому +1

    Aapne pani men kya bhigoya he...or kyun bhigote hen

  • @lifeaftermarriage4038
    @lifeaftermarriage4038 28 днів тому

    Make sure to actives like you

  • @lifeaftermarriage4038
    @lifeaftermarriage4038 28 днів тому

    For you mashallah nd for me inshallah

  • @fizzagmm
    @fizzagmm 8 днів тому

    Absolute rubbish, how could you record yourself while going through the most troubling situation. People are surreal!

  • @rameennasir7741
    @rameennasir7741 29 днів тому

    10:42 you are having white hairs so soon 😮😮😢

    • @amjadparvez3518
      @amjadparvez3518 28 днів тому

      Main 24 sal ki hu or mery white hairs 8 sal se h or baht ha ab zada ho gay h

  • @truthalltheway6791
    @truthalltheway6791 19 днів тому

    Jitnay marzi modern ban jau, food in plastic ka dabba and plastic bag will stay the same😂😂😂😂. How did hospital allow that ring on the baby??? Babies can swallow that. They can get get scratched 😮

  • @mariacorner1
    @mariacorner1 Місяць тому +1

    How did you manage to feed your baby on the first night without a midwife? 🥹 I'm going to be a first-time mom soon InshaaAllah but I'm so worried about how I'll take care of such a tiny, delicate baby without help🥲
    I can't even imagine touching such a small and fragile newborn

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  23 дні тому +1

      The midwife helped position him and got him to latch and then I took it from there.

  • @yutazen2262
    @yutazen2262 29 днів тому +1

    in which week you delivered??