I attended a church where the pastor’s wife stopped attending. She *might come maybe once a month.... maybe every 6- 7 weeks but threee/four services a weekend ... no... she wasn’t there even one time for one service. She’d show up annually on the pastor’s anniversary aervice and stand in front with him to be acknowledged and to receive the recognition from the congregation but, other than that, whatever was going on at home/ in their marriage, no.... she wasn’t coming to church. I’m talking about for years. 10plus years. Currently . To this day. She doesn’t come. I stopped attending the church (for many reasons) but for large part because this pastor’s relationship was troublesome and this seemed to be a character issue, imo No one ever mentioned this formally in the church (a leader saying “Mrs XYZ is ill.. keep her in your prayers...”) and because she obviously doesn’t come, of course, we all could speculate on all kinds of reasons why, which one of them is “to blame” for it and what the pastor is really like but all we know is she does not come. 😥 The pastor never mentions his wife from the pulpit in any sermons, stories or family anecdotes. To hear him tell his stories, you’d think he’s single... “I was on a trip...” Her photo isn’t on anything church related, she’s not in any ministry.... She’s just not a part.😥 The point of all that is our families need so much healing, in every position. We continue to pray for pastors and their families. It takes a lot to be in that role. Pastors are leaving the pulpit left and right and we pray for their strength.
I Am a pastor wife. I stop going to church with him many years. Because he is not right. He's a false pastor he preach one thing at church. And treats me really bad. DON'T SPEAK TO ME. I don't speak either. I can't tell you when the last time he told me he loves me. I have been been married to him 5 years. And I am working my way out. He will cause me to miss heaven
Pliz @cynthialurry7569 Don't miss heaven because of your husband! Forgive him and meditate on God's word, pray that God will assist you in granting you the Grace to forgive him!
@@cynthialurry7569 be encouraged and keep your eyes on Jesus. I'm proud of you for not supporting hypocrisy. But don't leave unless you are sure that's what the Lord is telling you to do. May the Lord bless you and give you wisdom to deal with him!
Pastor's wife, I'm happy it touched you too. People who are NOT in that role (ministry leaders) have NO idea the REAL hell you all go through. Ministry leaders (all positions) take on a LOT for others while their home is suffering. I pray healing comes to your home as well.
This is so real !!! I agree. By the way, Greetings to you Ty. This is Elder Grissom from GKB Macon Branch from back in the day. I thought that it was amazing that I ran into your comments like this. I still remember the day I invited you to Church. To see that you are .making healthy comments about a video of this caliber is a blessing to say the least. Please know that seeing your comment , and then seeing that the comment came from you really uplifted me. I hope that my comment encourages you the way that your have comment have encouraged me. Take care.
You can tell! I can see how hurt she was/is. He must have crossed the line and said or done some things that went too far. May God heal her heart completely beyond this public apology. ❤️
His public apology want make her feel any better. He’s exasperating the issue. He’s only doing it to make himself feel better. He’s selfish! It’s not about her! It’s about him! His conscience has got the best of him. Thank God he still has one, but she’s going to need a very long time to get over the hurt. You cannot only see it in her eyes, but you can feel her pain. Many Blessings my dear sister! God is with you.
Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story, its more than we know,its bigger than some Kroger flowers and a public appology, she is in pain.Look at other women looking at her they know whats really going on ,please pray for this woman. Pray for her healing, spiritual freedom, joy,peace,personal deliverance in Jesus name amen 🙏🏾
100% agree. My question for him would be what kind of counseling is he going to seek so that he doesn’t do what he’s been doing behind closed doors again? It’s one thing to apologize, but it’s another to address the issue the root cause that had you do what you did. That doesn’t get corrected with flowers, although it was a nice gesture.
Yes ma'am! I agree, "Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story..." I literally typed on a sticky pad all of her response. She was literally trying to get through her pain with Jesus. I guess you have to live it to know it (I have lived it.)
THIS RIGHT HERE!!! Wasn’t nobody business what their indifference was.. the fact that he acknowledged his error with her in private & in public is mighty!! 💛🙏🏾
I’ve grown up in church. If this was normal behavior in church not just husband and wife but among everyone the body of Christ would be so much stronger than what we are and could do more as a whole.
I apologized to my husband before singing at a church event in front of everyone, it wasnt planned and he had no idea, but I share this same testimony that I can't sing about something that i'm not living....he nearly slobbed me down in front of everybody lolololol
She really is. She already wasn’t exactly feeling his behavior, to begin with, that week 😬 then ... she had it made public to the church/ world 😬 then .... she was put on the spot to come up and talk about it. 😳 She easily could have let her emotions guide but it’s clear where she is spiritually. Praise GOD for her godly response to all of those situations. May Jesus be glorified and remain everything to her and to them. Amen
Men can be prideful and cruel at times. With that being said, I'm glad that he apologized to her at home first. Let's remember them in prayer because it's needed.❤
We all have to change an become as little children to enter the kingdom of heaven. Matt 18:3 We have to be obedient to God, Never think that we are too powerful to apologize, pride goes before destruction Proverbs 16: 18-20. Pastor share the devil. Thank you Pastor ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He did the right thing. I was married to a pastor and he's one way behind the walls of the church and totally opposite at home. He would scream and holler at me on the way to church or stay silent. Then walk into church like flipping a switch and try to present himself as godly. I had to sit there like a prop on Sundays portraying a loving family. He was hateful and aggressive at home until I finally left.
It's good you left your unequally yoked marriage. Even though I wasn't married to a pastor I stayed over thirty years. Finally I took him to court and the judge made him leave. I took him to court after a woman came to my door to tell me to go get him from his mistress house. I did because a week before that he told me that he had stopped cheating and I believed him.He eventually married her. Even after that he'd come to my house crying/begging me to take him back. He went all over our small town telling anyone that would listen that I was the best woman he'd ever had. He called me hollering and crying apologizing to me a few days before he passed He also told everyone that he was lying about the things he said about me. I asked God to make him do that and God did. I'm sorry my text is so long. I pray that God keep and bless you with a healthy,long and prosperous life as His presence, anointing and favor be in and with him. Enjoy your day Sweetheart.
Based upon your comment, you must not be married. Come see me after twenty -years of marriage and putting your two girls thru school. American black church is too fixated on sensationalism. Trust me this is no big deal.
PLEASE. I STAND ON MY FEET FOR THE KING OF KINGS. JESUS. IN GOD'S KINGDOM ALL HIS CHILDREN ARE SPECIAL TO HIM. I DON'T KNOW IF THEY PART OF GOD'S KINGDOM IN JESUS NAME. I DON'T WORSHIP NO FLESH AND BLOOD. I WORSHIP JESUS. GOD ALONE THROUGH CHRIST JESUS. AMEN.
Interesting point. If she was surprised by him bringing it up, MAYBE he should have asked her if it was cool to discuss it before bringing it to the congregation.......... AGREEMENT is ALWAYS important.
For all the foolishness that goes on in these fake churches, THIS should have gone viral to show a REAL MAN OF GOD, demonstrating REAL JESUS CHARACTER in public, to his WIFE!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I thank GOD for this Pastor! 😇😇😇
Open rebuke and he rebuked his self … this was done back in the old days… he did right… God is coming for the church first so he is the head and the ppl that follow him is the body if the head not right the body is led astray so any thing that’s not of God repent correct it! Good job pastor! What a great example .. no one is perfect.
3 minutes into this video-I paused it, and apologized to my husband. I needed to hear all of this !!! Thank you for this example of Christ Like obedience. “Mind your business-by taking care of Gods business”
My, my, my I've never ever saw anything like this. Some men need to see this right here. That's a true man of God. Love this.❤ May you have 31 more years.
At first she could not believe it and waited to stand. Then she concluded this is real and broke down, stood up, and shed a tear. The old folks used to say "you can tell how a Pastor behaves at home by watching the Pastor's spouse's reactions when the Pastor preaches".
I am reading the comments and it is disturbing that we can't rejoice for a man and a woman living out the scriptures. This is why the church has become wax cold. I am praying for the man and woman of God because it is not easy feeding God's sheep, and some times we are so busy feeding the sheep that those closes to us are starving. We need to cover our leaders in prayer because ministry is hard work and we want mercy from the leader but rarely have mercy for the keader.
It's disturbing to see the comments but it's refreshing to see what kingdom marriage truly looks like and the only reason why people have such a problem with it is because it has not been displayed properly in the body of Christ in the kingdom of people have been hearing the scriptures but not living the scriptures so that's why they can't recognize true Kingdom marriages when they see but that is what God is building in this season so people better get ready to hear the truth and truly see what kingdom marriages and living truly looks like cuz God is on the move and he's moving in every area in this nation God's will shall be done on Earth as it is in heaven 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Really I thank God for her. If she didn't go to God, may be her husband wouldn't have realised his error. It takes the Spirit of God to be silent and rely on God. May the Lord give me this kind of grace to live for Him (God) alone; thereby making me a better person to my future husband and anyone around me
❤ I love this! He said first he apologized to his wife privately at home, then he publicly apologized to her during service. I especially like when he said he wasn't going into details about the situation. Everybody doesn't need to know the intimate details of your problems, nor can they handle them. Praying for God to bring them closer and bless their marriage for many more years.❤
Facts only!!!💯💯🔥🔥🔥As a keyboardist myself, I was so thankful for this musician’s approach…there was healing even in the ministry of music. To God Be All The Glory.
IF THIS A’INT RIGHT! You’re NOT RIGHT!! The SHEPHERD LEADS! We follow. Thank you! As an ex Pastor’s wife, I’m waiting still for my apology. Love this lady’s response of WISDOM☮️💟
I respect any man who can apologize in public and in front of his congregation that he was wrong. We have to remember that Pastors are of flesh too!! Stop putting them on pedestals like they’re Jesus. All of Us makes mistakes. Yes men are nuts…but so are women. The important thing is that when God shows You your wrongdoings, hold yourself accountable. Accept that you did your wrongdoings and be obedient. Thank you Pastor for being obedient, apologizing to your beautiful wife, giving her/her flowers and leading by example. 🙌🏾👏🏾♥️
It's very rare that you see this. Wow...this has to be God. For all the women of God in the front line who needed to see and hear this...take this as a reminder that God has you in mind also..I'm grateful I came across this...and Im in awe...❤
I used to be married and been divorced since 2015 and my ex-husband and I are still good friends to this day and will be until the end of time and hearing this really blessed me. God will fix everything if you let Him. God Bless you both 😊
I am hear watching and crying. This brought me back to my own marriage that ended in divorce after 20 yrs. I endured several years of infidelity until one day I just told him ,I love you enough to let you go. He is now married to another woman and I chose to remain . It's 18 yrs since he is out of my life. My desire is to honor the most high. He has given his life to God ,and now he calls me for advice. I find myself sometimes being a counselor to him and his new wife with nothing but the love of God. I wish them well, the rest is up to God. Continue to Love your wife Pastor and may your wife do the same. Take it from me, a divorce especially after many years is like death of a loved one. It was for me and my 3 children. Even today my kids are grown people, but they are still traumatized from that divorce . Divorce is an evil weapon. God bless !
@@amechecameron3217 I wouldn’t call her a doormat! They know their roles in the marriage! Thats why they are blessed! Nothing wrong with submitting to your spouse.. male or female
I appreciate his honesty. The fact that he was able to humble himself and hold himself accountable for his actions toward his spouse says alot about him as a husband, Pastor, and man representing the body of Christ. Blessings to their union.
This is so Beautiful! As a PK I’ve never seen this and as I sit with tears in my eyes I wish this was more common ESPECIALLY in the church…. This was an AWESOME EXAMPLE and the CHURCH is missing this …. THE EXAMPLE MARRIAGES NEED in the home. God bless HIM AND HER, Their Marriage and the ENTIRE CHURCH❤❤❤
Her response is tale-telling. You're not first, GOD is. Set the record straight, ma'am. He made it about him, you made it about GOD and through that, you can be a wife to him. She's spilling the tea in a sanctified way. Passa wasn't ready for her comment. Whew! Smart Lady. 👏🏾
People need to see that their leaders have problems too. He apologized to her and confessed his wrongdoing in front of his congregation. Valley Kingdom.... you have a true man of God.
@@dorothymckay3565 I agree, it was a private matter, but the pastor felt need to apologize to his wife in public and to show his congregation he's not perfect and also ( confessed ) before God's people . This man humbled himself in front of his wife and everyone.
Don't make it about women! Are you saying you are without fault? Stop this selfishness.. Pray God the Pastor set an example. Quit making this about women. You figure women don't step out of line and some men don't go through stuff..
I pray for all first, ladies everywhere, because a lot of women are going through for the minister 🙏 ❤ first time hearing about this church this beautiful!!❤❤❤❤
This is so ENCOURAGING to and for the Body of Christ…and those of us who are married. Thank you Father God for these Leaders who are walking in Spirit and Truth #thispart
This is a powerful message to the world 🌎. I love it all. I loved it when he said I dont want you to miss God because of me. Im not a pastor. Im not perfect 😢. But this message touched me in a new way. I dont want to see anyone I love, miss God because of my mess. God bless 🙌 🙏 their marriage. We are never too big to say we are sorry.
When you are connected to God - you can’t even sleep right. I believe this accountable example has impacted many. Ministering on so many levels - singles, marriages, men and women, youth, families… the level of authenticity and displaying your heart posture of who your first love and responsibility is to is humbling. We are nothing without Him. Amen. All praise and glory to the Lord. Praise the Lord. 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
I applaud this Pastor and his wife. This shows transparency, honesty and maturity. God bless you both. This should go viral so that others will emulate and help to heal relationships around the world. Many blessings.
I applaud him for doing that...however, her demeanour told a deep hurt and pain he caused her. She didn't show much emotions when he spoke, she was stoic and still hurting. What old thing resurfaced and hurt her so deeply? He should go and get counselling before it happens again. Prayering for your FL. I know what it feels like because I'm a PW as well. Im seeing hurt all over this FL. Lord protect her and keep her safe.❤
The part of not feeling protected, women understand. That when you put it in God's hands and He brings safety and He'll even cause him to over flood you with security. Keep praying women
I agree that he truly hurt her. Even while on stage, it was about the focus on Jesus. I read the comments and they were praising him, but we do need to still pray for them. Whatever happened scared her, and it threw her thoughts back to a tumultuous time. I am married and have been for 24 years. An apology is fine, but sometimes the wound is so deep. I know why she responded in her actions like she did, and verbally.😢
I agree. Women with certain life experiences can surely SEE she’s treading the edge. I’m hopeful she’ll find her footing and get stronger in the areas that will benefit her wellbeing and let everything else come after.
I always look at the woman, her face and demeanor completely says, using your church to try to fix us ain’t working. This lady looks tired and looks unphased by this apology; she is sincere whereas he coming off as wanting to be apart of the crowd.
That is awesome now that's what I'm talking about true love for his wife the love of God and his congregation. No fake Christians I do not tolerate that myself or I will Heavenly Father. Let's give him praise and thank you hallelujah thank you, Jesus.❤❤❤
This is an amazing example of leadership as a husband and pastor.
Thanks Bishop Blakes for your stamp of approval! You always have great content on your program regarding relationships. You are a blessing sir.
Absolutely
yes sir.. Pastor
Yes. Pray keeps us in check
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😢😢😢😢 I am a pastor wife and that really touched me.
I attended a church where the pastor’s wife stopped attending. She *might come maybe once a month.... maybe every 6- 7 weeks but threee/four services a weekend ... no... she wasn’t there even one time for one service.
She’d show up annually on the pastor’s anniversary aervice and stand in front with him to be acknowledged and to receive the recognition from the congregation but, other than that, whatever was going on at home/ in their marriage, no.... she wasn’t coming to church.
I’m talking about for years. 10plus years. Currently . To this day. She doesn’t come.
I stopped attending the church (for many reasons) but for large part because this pastor’s relationship was troublesome and this seemed to be a character issue, imo
No one ever mentioned this formally in the church (a leader saying “Mrs XYZ is ill.. keep her in your prayers...”) and because she obviously doesn’t come, of course, we all could speculate on all kinds of reasons why, which one of them is “to blame” for it and what the pastor is really like but all we know is she does not come. 😥
The pastor never mentions his wife from the pulpit in any sermons, stories or family anecdotes. To hear him tell his stories, you’d think he’s single... “I was on a trip...”
Her photo isn’t on anything church related, she’s not in any ministry.... She’s just not a part.😥
The point of all that is our families need so much healing, in every position. We continue to pray for pastors and their families. It takes a lot to be in that role. Pastors are leaving the pulpit left and right and we pray for their strength.
I Am a pastor wife. I stop going to church with him many years. Because he is not right. He's a false pastor he preach one thing at church. And treats me really bad. DON'T SPEAK TO ME. I don't speak either. I can't tell you when the last time he told me he loves me. I have been been married to him 5 years. And I am working my way out. He will cause me to miss heaven
Me too and this was so WONDERful to watch! 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
Pliz @cynthialurry7569
Don't miss heaven because of your husband!
Forgive him and meditate on God's word, pray that God will assist you in granting you the Grace to forgive him!
@@cynthialurry7569 be encouraged and keep your eyes on Jesus. I'm proud of you for not supporting hypocrisy. But don't leave unless you are sure that's what the Lord is telling you to do. May the Lord bless you and give you wisdom to deal with him!
They didn’t get to 31 years for nothing! BEAUTIFUL display of love!
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Indeed. To see this is beautiful.
Truth
I am a Pastors wife. And I am touched by this. This need to happen more!
Good for you! I'm not touched 🥲
Pastor's wife, I'm happy it touched you too. People who are NOT in that role (ministry leaders) have NO idea the REAL hell you all go through. Ministry leaders (all positions) take on a LOT for others while their home is suffering. I pray healing comes to your home as well.
“You can’t preach something you ain’t living.” Amen 🙏🏽
That part. Brother reconciled!! Amen
Listen, my Pastor always says, “Live me a sermon”. Anyone can preach one but if you ain’t living it then what does profit you? 🙌🏽
So much FAKE PEOPLE IN CHURCH!!! Lying and having problems behind closed doors 🚪 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Good word from your pastor
Amen🙏
I dont want you to miss God because of me - Realness.
THIS PART Sis 👆🏾
That was powerful.
This is so real !!! I agree. By the way, Greetings to you Ty. This is Elder Grissom from GKB Macon Branch from back in the day. I thought that it was amazing that I ran into your comments like this. I still remember the day I invited you to Church. To see that you are .making healthy comments about a video of this caliber is a blessing to say the least. Please know that seeing your comment , and then seeing that the comment came from you really uplifted me. I hope that my comment encourages you the way that your have comment have encouraged me. Take care.
BEAUTIFUL!
Awesome word of encouragement
He hurt her REAL BAD. You can see the PAIN in her eyes even as he stood in front of her. Her heart is hurt. 😢
You can tell! I can see how hurt she was/is. He must have crossed the line and said or done some things that went too far. May God heal her heart completely beyond this public apology. ❤️
@@SoarLikeAnEagle624 Exactly!! ❤️❤️
Very true. Her pain is palpable and visible 😢❤
Well What ever is in the Dark Will Come to the Light Wake up Men & Women who Know that God didn’t Want us in UnClean Things ok
His public apology want make her feel any better. He’s exasperating the issue. He’s only doing it to make himself feel better. He’s selfish! It’s not about her! It’s about him! His conscience has got the best of him. Thank God he still has one, but she’s going to need a very long time to get over the hurt. You cannot only see it in her eyes, but you can feel her pain. Many Blessings my dear sister! God is with you.
Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story, its more than we know,its bigger than some Kroger flowers and a public appology, she is in pain.Look at other women looking at her they know whats really going on ,please pray for this woman. Pray for her healing, spiritual freedom, joy,peace,personal deliverance in Jesus name amen 🙏🏾
You noticed that as well. … 🙏🏽
Yes, I can see the hurt on her face. He really hurt her 😞
Exactly! His public display did not move her or fix anything.
100% agree. My question for him would be what kind of counseling is he going to seek so that he doesn’t do what he’s been doing behind closed doors again? It’s one thing to apologize, but it’s another to address the issue the root cause that had you do what you did. That doesn’t get corrected with flowers, although it was a nice gesture.
Yes ma'am! I agree, "Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story..." I literally typed on a sticky pad all of her response. She was literally trying to get through her pain with Jesus. I guess you have to live it to know it (I have lived it.)
What pastors’ wives put up with in secret is heavy; it’s a heavier load than other wives carry. God help them all❤
Truth! If only people knew ...
@@SB-tc2jrWe know……trust me. We know…….
I'm a PK Kid, how right you are.
Amen
Please explain why you believe pastor’s wives carry a heavi-er load than what other wives carry?
THIS RIGHT HERE!!! Wasn’t nobody business what their indifference was.. the fact that he acknowledged his error with her in private & in public is mighty!! 💛🙏🏾
Praise God 👏 😊
Yesssssss nosey for no reason! Ppl be wanting details to be messy! But will you pray for them ya know!!🙌🏽🙌🏽
Amen
Absolutely
That's a fact. He owes it to only her and the Most High.
A Pastor’s wife here and this is beautiful 😍 #LoveWins…
GOD Bless You Abundantly in JESUS CHRIST NAME Amen!
What stuck out to me was her feeling of being uncovered and unsafe ! Her honesty and transparency spoke volumes!
FACTS!!!!
Amen - that resonated with me.
I’ve grown up in church. If this was normal behavior in church not just husband and wife but among everyone the body of Christ would be so much stronger than what we are and could do more as a whole.
🙏🏽 AMEN AMEN & AMEN🙏🏽
JESUS GOT HIS CHURCH. WHY HE COULDN'T DO THAT AT HOME.
I HOPE YOU NOT MOVED BY THAT PHONY MESS. WITH THE LORD IT'S HOW YOU ARE IN SECRET.
You are so right. 😊
@user-lw8pk6fx6f he said he did do it at home that morning but the Lord had him to do it publicly as well, maybe to help others...
I apologized to my husband before singing at a church event in front of everyone, it wasnt planned and he had no idea, but I share this same testimony that I can't sing about something that i'm not living....he nearly slobbed me down in front of everybody lolololol
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Thank God because I have seen some terrible things by the head of churches this is leading by example
Praise God! This was powerful and beautiful. I'm not married, but I trust God and can use this with my relationship w/my daughter. 🤲🏽🙏🏽
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Amen. Blessings in your marriage always Beloved.
He's blessed to have a wife with wisdom and unconditional love for GOD first. May GOD bless their marriage.
She’s heard apologies like this before and you can tell.
Lol…
First Lady is full of wisdom and maturity 😊
Amen yes!🙏🏼
She really is. She already wasn’t exactly feeling his behavior, to begin with, that week 😬 then ... she had it made public to the church/ world 😬 then .... she was put on the spot to come up and talk about it. 😳 She easily could have let her emotions guide but it’s clear where she is spiritually.
Praise GOD for her godly response to all of those situations. May Jesus be glorified and remain everything to her and to them. Amen
@@noble604 👍
I’m praying to get there too while on my journey.
@chamey...nothing special,1st ladies are always matured, supportive &
forgiving wheareas their husband treat them like shit!(south africa)
It’s no infidelity. Sometimes you can just talk to each other wrong and be disconnected from God. So true I am living that now. Please pray for me. 😢
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Prayers 2you
Praying
Exactly
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This is what the church needs! Transparency among leadership!
This breaks the spirit of hypocrisy in the church!
Praise God!!!!! More Pastors need to take notes❤❤❤
His ability to put pride etc aside and publicly, openly apologize to his wife before congregation and God is beautiful thing to do🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥❤️
He had to. He knew GOD was not going to bless that sermon and she would be giving him that eye.
Men can be prideful and cruel at times. With that being said, I'm glad that he apologized to her at home first. Let's remember them in prayer because it's needed.❤
People (men and women) can be prideful and cruel.
Amen. 🙏🏽 ❤
Amen ❤❤❤❤
We all have to change an become as little children to enter the kingdom of heaven. Matt 18:3 We have to be obedient to God, Never think that we are too powerful to apologize, pride goes before destruction Proverbs 16: 18-20. Pastor share the devil. Thank you Pastor ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@DanThomasLIVE She addressed whom she wanted, not being corr3cted
He did the right thing. I was married to a pastor and he's one way behind the walls of the church and totally opposite at home. He would scream and holler at me on the way to church or stay silent. Then walk into church like flipping a switch and try to present himself as godly. I had to sit there like a prop on Sundays portraying a loving family. He was hateful and aggressive at home until I finally left.
Jesus!!
God help him
It's good you left your unequally yoked marriage. Even though I wasn't married to a pastor I stayed over thirty years. Finally I took him to court and the judge made him leave. I took him to court after a woman came to my door to tell me to go get him from his mistress house. I did because a week before that he told me that he had stopped cheating and I believed him.He eventually married her. Even after that he'd come to my house crying/begging me to take him back. He went all over our small town telling anyone that would listen that I was the best woman he'd ever had. He called me hollering and crying apologizing to me a few days before he passed
He also told everyone that he was lying about the things he said about me. I asked God to make him do that and God did. I'm sorry my text is so long. I pray that God keep and bless you with a healthy,long and prosperous life as His presence, anointing and favor be in and with him. Enjoy your day Sweetheart.
Tell him to watch this
This woman of God just preached the sermon of the day! Love = longsuffering, patience, and edification ❤
1 Corinthians 13
She sure did.
Amen to That!!!
AMEN!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Entire congregation should be on their feet. This is walking in true humility!
Thank God for the humility of this pastor, husband, and wife 🙏 😢😮
I AGREE
STAND UP
Based upon your comment, you must not be married. Come see me after twenty -years of marriage and putting your two girls thru school. American black church is too fixated on sensationalism. Trust me this is no big deal.
Amen
PLEASE. I STAND ON MY FEET FOR THE KING OF KINGS. JESUS. IN GOD'S KINGDOM ALL HIS CHILDREN ARE SPECIAL TO HIM. I DON'T KNOW IF THEY PART OF GOD'S KINGDOM IN JESUS NAME. I DON'T WORSHIP NO FLESH AND BLOOD. I WORSHIP JESUS. GOD ALONE THROUGH CHRIST JESUS. AMEN.
Although he was good to handle it at home, as a pastor he used this opportunity to teach and lead the people of God. Praise the Lord!
🎉😂Thanks for being a real strong man ❤
Interesting point. If she was surprised by him bringing it up, MAYBE he should have asked her if it was cool to discuss it before bringing it to the congregation.......... AGREEMENT is ALWAYS important.
That was a beautiful jester, the pastor gave to his wife, an open apology in front of his congregation as well as @ home to his wife. Thank you Jesus!
This is very beautiful to see the Pastor apologizing to his wife.
It’s really good to see a black man honor and respect his black Queen.
Yessssss!!!!
A lot of men and women need to do that. It only takes an apology. And asking for forgiveness. God loves us all.
But it starts with the men- because they are the head.
And changed behavior. It’s that simple.
I totally agree. I love how he was so genuine. Not in this instance, but please know that an apology without changed behavior is manipulation.
Why is it that now,you will acknowledge that the man is the head…I believe we can all I initiate it once we know we are wrong
For all the foolishness that goes on in these fake churches, THIS should have gone viral to show a REAL MAN OF GOD, demonstrating REAL JESUS CHARACTER in public, to his WIFE!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I thank GOD for this Pastor! 😇😇😇
Say it again !!
If they was for real about the Lord they wouldn't have people serving them. And calling him pastor and her first Lady. I see so many are ignorant.
SHOULD BE PRIVATE
Say THAT!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
Open rebuke and he rebuked his self … this was done back in the old days… he did right… God is coming for the church first so he is the head and the ppl that follow him is the body if the head not right the body is led astray so any thing that’s not of God repent correct it! Good job pastor! What a great example .. no one is perfect.
3 minutes into this video-I paused it, and apologized to my husband. I needed to hear all of this !!! Thank you for this example of Christ Like obedience.
“Mind your business-by taking care of Gods business”
That is right! Be blessed.
Yes Lord 🙏🙏
My, my, my I've never ever saw anything like this. Some men need to see this right here. That's a true man of God. Love this.❤ May you have 31 more years.
Beautiful!!!… I’ve been in a church over 50 years and never seen this before!!! With all the negativity on social media, this should go viral!!!😢😢
I’m in tears. This was powerful. Thank you Father for this husband and wife.
I love it! People are going thru REAL problems, and they need leaders who can be REAL❤️❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He is real for this! What a man of God. Take notes gentlemen
At first she could not believe it and waited to stand. Then she concluded this is real and broke down, stood up, and shed a tear. The old folks used to say "you can tell how a Pastor behaves at home by watching the Pastor's spouse's reactions when the Pastor preaches".
Sometimes…I was married to one and no one knew the trauma I faced. Transparency is well respected.
Not always! A pastor shot his wife while they were at a conference. No one knew the abuse and pain she was hiding.
That’s what you think happened here? Interesting.
THISSSSSS!!!!!
You can't preach something you ain't living!
This is a needed Word!!!!
I am reading the comments and it is disturbing that we can't rejoice for a man and a woman living out the scriptures. This is why the church has become wax cold. I am praying for the man and woman of God because it is not easy feeding God's sheep, and some times we are so busy feeding the sheep that those closes to us are starving. We need to cover our leaders in prayer because ministry is hard work and we want mercy from the leader but rarely have mercy for the keader.
It's disturbing to see the comments but it's refreshing to see what kingdom marriage truly looks like and the only reason why people have such a problem with it is because it has not been displayed properly in the body of Christ in the kingdom of people have been hearing the scriptures but not living the scriptures so that's why they can't recognize true Kingdom marriages when they see but that is what God is building in this season so people better get ready to hear the truth and truly see what kingdom marriages and living truly looks like cuz God is on the move and he's moving in every area in this nation God's will shall be done on Earth as it is in heaven 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I don't necessarily agree with you on this, but it's cool. I commented on it earlier.
Oooooweeeeee that's a message right there.
Don’t read the comments and thank God for the healing
His wife’s words coming out to the congregation shows a true heart for GOD.
Really I thank God for her. If she didn't go to God, may be her husband wouldn't have realised his error. It takes the Spirit of God to be silent and rely on God. May the Lord give me this kind of grace to live for Him (God) alone; thereby making me a better person to my future husband and anyone around me
❤ I love this! He said first he apologized to his wife privately at home, then he publicly apologized to her during service. I especially like when he said he wasn't going into details about the situation. Everybody doesn't need to know the intimate details of your problems, nor can they handle them. Praying for God to bring them closer and bless their marriage for many more years.❤
Whoever’s on keys deserves a raise!
Agreed!!! They added so much to this moment!🙏🏽💜
😂😂❤for sure God bless y’all ❤
Yes!
I second that!
Facts only!!!💯💯🔥🔥🔥As a keyboardist myself, I was so thankful for this musician’s approach…there was healing even in the ministry of music. To God Be All The Glory.
IF THIS A’INT RIGHT! You’re NOT RIGHT!! The SHEPHERD LEADS! We follow. Thank you! As an ex Pastor’s wife, I’m waiting still for my apology. Love this lady’s response of WISDOM☮️💟
Plenty hugs
If he is not sincere, God will begin to allow the “dirt” to be revealed.
How many other Pastors, Bishops, and men of God should do the same thing… I commend you for doing the right thing! 🙌🙌🙌
Watch for the next apology.
This blessed me as a PK…. and a wife…. Thank you both for your transparency. May God pour out double blessings for your obedience.
I respect any man who can apologize in public and in front of his congregation that he was wrong. We have to remember that Pastors are of flesh too!! Stop putting them on pedestals like they’re Jesus. All of Us makes mistakes. Yes men are nuts…but so are women. The important thing is that when God shows You your wrongdoings, hold yourself accountable. Accept that you did your wrongdoings and be obedient. Thank you Pastor for being obedient, apologizing to your beautiful wife, giving her/her flowers and leading by example. 🙌🏾👏🏾♥️
It's very rare that you see this. Wow...this has to be God. For all the women of God in the front line who needed to see and hear this...take this as a reminder that God has you in mind also..I'm grateful I came across this...and Im in awe...❤
I have so much respect for this Man & Woman of God for being so transparent. More people in the body of Christ need to learn from this moment.
I love my brother and sister transparency! This is what a true man and woman of God looks like. ❤
This is powerful especially for him to apologize publicly. I’m sure his example will help many men to do better.
Sir thank you… this is all most women want in relationship..an ear for God’s voice..sincerity..transparency..🎉
This is what true ministry is All about. It starts in the Home...
I used to be married and been divorced since 2015 and my ex-husband and I are still good friends to this day and will be until the end of time and hearing this really blessed me. God will fix everything if you let Him. God Bless you both 😊
I am hear watching and crying. This brought me back to my own marriage that ended in divorce after 20 yrs. I endured several years of infidelity until one day I just told him ,I love you enough to let you go. He is now married to another woman and I chose to remain . It's 18 yrs since he is out of my life. My desire is to honor the most high. He has given his life to God ,and now he calls me for advice. I find myself sometimes being a counselor to him and his new wife with nothing but the love of God. I wish them well, the rest is up to God. Continue to Love your wife Pastor and may your wife do the same. Take it from me, a divorce especially after many years is like death of a loved one. It was for me and my 3 children. Even today my kids are grown people, but they are still traumatized from that divorce . Divorce is an evil weapon. God bless !
🙏🙏🙏
When light comes in The darkness will flee. You chose the right weapon for that battle!
Such a humble First Lady ❤
Indees. May God continue to bless and lift her.
That’s the type of wife every man prays for!! God bless this marriage!!
How about a husband? Which type of the husband a woman prays for?
A door mat? Of course you want that.
@@berthaphiri3503 I’m speaking as a man!
@@amechecameron3217 I wouldn’t call her a doormat! They know their roles in the marriage! Thats why they are blessed! Nothing wrong with submitting to your spouse.. male or female
@@amechecameron3217😂🤣😅🤣😂
Thank God for this ministry . The Pastor & First Lady represents kingdom marriage so beautifully .
I appreciate his honesty. The fact that he was able to humble himself and hold himself accountable for his actions toward his spouse says alot about him as a husband, Pastor, and man representing the body of Christ. Blessings to their union.
I’m not married yet but I was inspired by your transparency.
May God continue to keep you humble and obedient 🙏🏽👏🏽
This is so Beautiful! As a PK I’ve never seen this and as I sit with tears in my eyes I wish this was more common ESPECIALLY in the church…. This was an AWESOME EXAMPLE and the CHURCH is missing this …. THE EXAMPLE MARRIAGES NEED in the home. God bless HIM AND HER, Their Marriage and the ENTIRE CHURCH❤❤❤
You don't know how many ppl you've helped in this moment through your obedience to the Holy Spirit. God bless you Man of God.
Her response is tale-telling. You're not first, GOD is. Set the record straight, ma'am. He made it about him, you made it about GOD and through that, you can be a wife to him. She's spilling the tea in a sanctified way. Passa wasn't ready for her comment. Whew! Smart Lady. 👏🏾
Amen 🙏🏾
OH YES 😊🙏🏾
She seems very sincere to me.
I hope he's not abusive to her😢.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
People need to see that their leaders have problems too. He apologized to her and confessed his wrongdoing in front of his congregation. Valley Kingdom.... you have a true man of God.
There was no need to apologize in public. It was a private situation at home and that where it should have stayed in my opinion.
@@dorothymckay3565 I agree, it was a private matter, but the pastor felt need to apologize to his wife in public and to show his congregation he's not perfect and also
( confessed ) before God's people .
This man humbled himself in front of his wife and everyone.
@@dorothymckay3565 I couldn't agree more
@@dorothymckay3565there was a need and God told him to do it. the need was to show to be an example you don't deny what the holy ghost commands.
Who pzstor at valley Kinvdom
This is truly what humility looks like! Glory to God!
Thank you First Lady. Your reply taught me so much. I thank God for the wisdom He has bestowed on you❤
That’s what you call a strong woman of god! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
This is powerful when anyone can say that they are sorry and wrong Some people will never say forgive me I'm wrong.
This was absolutely powerful! He yielded to the leading, rebuke, and correction of the Holy Spirit.
Hmmm... I hope he doesn't go home and turn into the #incrediblhulk!!!
Hmmm...suspect...
“I gotta whole lot of gift but eventually the gift will run out”….thats good Pastor!
I need the oil to run wheww
😭😭😭 Thank you Pastor. Well done Sir! Thank you for loving your wife well 👏👏👏👏👏❤
It's not easy to live with pastors as a pastor's wife. It's time to come clean. Women really suffer, behind the curtain 😢😢😢
Don't make it about women! Are you saying you are without fault? Stop this selfishness.. Pray God the Pastor set an example. Quit making this about women. You figure women don't step out of line and some men don't go through stuff..
I agree with you. My Mom was a preacher’s wife. A lot of hypocrisy in public. My Mom had to deal with this for years.
Lord I just thank you for the inspirational and growing testimony and message by this couple, leaders in the church and part of a marriage. Thank you.
Thank you for showing your church a great example of humility. You are a great leader.
I WAS in a ministry where the Bishop did not treat his wife right in front of his congregation. To the point I had to respectfully step in. 😢
I pray for all first, ladies everywhere, because a lot of women are going through for the minister 🙏 ❤ first time hearing about this church this beautiful!!❤❤❤❤
This was awesome to watch. Never seen a pastor do this. Humility seems rare sometimes
This is so ENCOURAGING to and for the Body of Christ…and those of us who are married. Thank you Father God for these Leaders who are walking in Spirit and Truth #thispart
That first lady is very feminine, genuine, and mature. I loved the words she spoke.❤
And I love how she kept the focus on God! No matter what her husband may or may not do …she ain’t leaving God!
@@blazee3895Amen! You are so very right!
AMEN!🙏🏾
Am a Pastor's kid, and watching this makes me want to see a lot of things that were done wrong being rectified...Lord, you see my heart. #Kenya
This is a powerful message to the world 🌎. I love it all. I loved it when he said I dont want you to miss God because of me. Im not a pastor. Im not perfect 😢. But this message touched me in a new way. I dont want to see anyone I love, miss God because of my mess. God bless 🙌 🙏 their marriage. We are never too big to say we are sorry.
When you are connected to God - you can’t even sleep right. I believe this accountable example has impacted many. Ministering on so many levels - singles, marriages, men and women, youth, families… the level of authenticity and displaying your heart posture of who your first love and responsibility is to is humbling. We are nothing without Him. Amen. All praise and glory to the Lord. Praise the Lord. 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
Amen.
I applaud this Pastor and his wife. This shows transparency, honesty and maturity. God bless you both. This should go viral so that others will emulate and help to heal relationships around the world. Many blessings.
Powerful!! This is wisdom. Lord cover all marriages, including mine. Amen!
I applaud him for doing that...however, her demeanour told a deep hurt and pain he caused her. She didn't show much emotions when he spoke, she was stoic and still hurting. What old thing resurfaced and hurt her so deeply? He should go and get counselling before it happens again. Prayering for your FL. I know what it feels like because I'm a PW as well. Im seeing hurt all over this FL. Lord protect her and keep her safe.❤
❤❤❤❤❤ I'm in total agreement with this pastor. I've not seen this done in any church. I'm not ashamed to do what this pastor did.
This is real Preaching, Teaching, Leading and Living the true Word of God. God bless this Pastor, First Lady and the entire Ministry.
His wife is so beautiful! He knows he got a good thing!
The part of not feeling protected, women understand. That when you put it in God's hands and He brings safety and He'll even cause him to over flood you with security. Keep praying women
This is The Day that The Lord has made!!! God was With me Today and I recognized it! Beautiful message Sister 🙌❤️🙏😊
Pastor Ray, this was God working through you. It was such a powerful example and I wish more of us Queens could experience this!🙏🏽❤️
Let's pray for this mighty woman of God. I can tell she is still hurt by the situation. Deeply hurt.
Wow! This is amazing. Am so emotional 😢😢. I wish all men were this humble. Glory be God
This is literally such a powerful demonstration for all of us! This is beautiful 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I don’t know she look’s sad 😞 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼let’s just keep all the Man and Women of God in Prayers the Enemy is after the Church Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I agree. I have been married for 20 years. I'm now separated. I know that look. Whatever he did hurt her pretty bad.
I agree that he truly hurt her. Even while on stage, it was about the focus on Jesus. I read the comments and they were praising him, but we do need to still pray for them. Whatever happened scared her, and it threw her thoughts back to a tumultuous time. I am married and have been for 24 years. An apology is fine, but sometimes the wound is so deep. I know why she responded in her actions like she did, and verbally.😢
I agree. Women with certain life experiences can surely SEE she’s treading the edge.
I’m hopeful she’ll find her footing and get stronger in the areas that will benefit her wellbeing and let everything else come after.
Yes, I see hurt and I'm praying for their marriage.
this is God at work, you must call into accountablity of your actions, may God be your guide
I appreciate the example he has set for others. God bless his marriage and church family.💜🙏
I always look at the woman, her face and demeanor completely says, using your church to try to fix us ain’t working. This lady looks tired and looks unphased by this apology; she is sincere whereas he coming off as wanting to be apart of the crowd.
The whole scene was a shame wasn't it? It was all about him, not Christ. Fake.
Bingo. A mess.
I sensed he broke her spirit. I sensed brokenness.
I agree. She looked very hurt. She wasn’t impressed.
@@user-ij3hf3wu2eVery true.
That is awesome now that's what I'm talking about true love for his wife the love of God and his congregation. No fake Christians I do not tolerate that myself or I will Heavenly Father. Let's give him praise and thank you hallelujah thank you, Jesus.❤❤❤
Thank you for reading my comments. God is good all the time we give him the 👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌