TOURÉ ROBERTS | The Power of NO
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
- As a wife, mother, and entrepreneur, Dairy Reeves, like many of us, wears several hats that come with a mountain of competing priorities. In an effort to see through the values that were instilled in her from a very young age, Dairy’s caring nature and intentionality with meeting the needs of others eventually turned into people-pleasing, a hard time establishing boundaries, and sacrificing her own needs. Over time, she began finding value in being needed and feeling useful. Dairy’s biggest, daily challenge is saying no without guilt and deciphering between a good thing to do and the thing God needs her to do.
In this perspective-shifting conversation, Touré Roberts (author of Wholeness, Purpose Awakening, and Balance) and Dairy apply principles from BALANCE that explore the value of our Yes and show how self-prioritization, a healthy No to Yes Ratio, and being self-full ultimately position us for bringing our BEST self to everyone and everything!
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So good I was a people pleaser all of my life. I cut that last year, I am at peace, my mental health is peaceful and I am thriving for me like I should have been doing A LONG time ago!
I love Gods timing. I was doing some reading today and the book talked about how we cannot define ourselves based of our fears. My greatest fear has always been losing the people that I care about. The book said “your fear ISNT you, it is something you have experienced.” That hit me because as a result of losing a lot of family early in my life, I have thought in order to feel whole again people are what I need. People are a blessing but they are not meant to be our everything. I told myself if people are what you are afraid to lose the most then maybe you need to lose them. I am currently in a transforming time in my life. I have recently let go of so many relationships that were not pointing me to Christ. I began to ask myself why do i NEED these people. It had more to do with filling a void within. There’s this song called “All I Have Is Christ”. I love this song and have been listening to it for years. when i sing it now hallelujah all i have is Christ, there is a new meaning. I am filled with the spirit, with peace, all because i finally decided to let go of people and let God. Trust in Him always. Even when you feel alone I promise you are not. I love you Jesus ❤️
The best version of "me". That does not always equate to the best version of what people want me to be.
That was good right there!!! About saying no to see if the friendship is real!!!!!!
Im so depleted 🥺because of all the Yeses I've said to certain things and people it's time to learn to say No.
I concur!!
The power of “NO”. People think you are mean when you say “no”. I learned that you can’t pour from an empty cup. Self care first.
Much blessings to you Pastor Toure! Thanking The Lord for you! AMEN!
I literally prayed an hour ago for God to help me set healthy boundaries for a specific situation. To be able to say no or not doing things and not feeling bad or guilty. And also to know when it's okay to say yes. And this videos came up. But God!
THANK YOU PASTOR TOURE’ the gems 💎 dropped 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This simply tells me that I'm on the right path. I used to suffer from yesingitis☺️ but I realized that I was hurting me a loooot so now I've taken a turn!!!
‘Yesingitis’! That’s a genius term! And way to go on making the right turn 😊
This is needed truly PT . Because if you go around saving everyone people will expect you to always save them. Then you become depleted and you become a financial idol to them. You become they're savior and we're only messengers not the messiah. Book for thought, "When Helping you is Killing me" Learning to say no holds power over keeping yourself sane. Cause people will make their EMERGENCY YOUR EMERGENCY.
I needed to hear this one! I have a hard time saying NO and the word is so simple but it feels like pulling teeth when I have to say it! But sometimes that word brings much peace so please pray for me as I continue to grow spiritually and naturally! 🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥💯😌
what a treat! thank you pastor!!! YES! is costly.
To whoever is reading this know that you are loved. You are important and God has a purpose for your life. So many people lost their lives to COVID but God spared us. It’s time to change how we show up in the world. Walk in your calling! How many signs do you need? You are Chosen…..
Yes has put me in more problems than I can count.
Amen..Awesome conversation..Help me Lord.. Im learning.. Book is already Pre ordered..
This is me! I am presently going through a mental imbalance as a result of the past YES I said instead of NO . I am trusting God for healing as well as the capacity to say NO when necessary. I hope to get the book BALANCE ASAP.
Thanks pastor for the enlightenment on the issue. Stretching on this will help a believer to know when not to compromise his or her faith and stand strong.
This whole conversation was a word for me.
This whole conversation was a word for me.
Thank you so much i difenetly appreciate ur prayer.. I always feel guilty when i tell others No.. Im always wearing myself thin to where everything i do is starting to affect my health.. I don't know what to do at times.. So thank you im glad i came across your Teaching
God bless😇😇🙏🙏
This was such a blessing! Still learning how to say no to this day.
No is necessary so we can focus on our mission. We can only truly be good at one or two things that we focus on.
Choosing to disappoint ourselves rather than others is not a good form of self care. We must be ok with telling people No, so that in the things and with the people we give our Yes to, we can give 100percent
Lord this is good! Thank you!!
Excellent and on time Word
I’m getting that book!
This is me. I actually let go of this , this year; it drained me so much even though it was hard to say no. I would say yes and I still would do it and was so depressed and tired never motivated in life and I lost myself and forgot who I was because I focused my life to just saying yes to everyone and never no. But I'm happy to say I am free !! And I have so much hope in life and getting to find myself it's an amazing experience
This is so true.
I had to learn and when it affected my health , Now I have no problem saying NO,
Sad thing it
was the people at the church you would think they would understand yea right🤦♀️
This is wonderful
Wow!!!!!!! I have been extremely depressed and even suicidal because of the poisonous of YES. Yes has caused me my peace, pain, suffering, self sabotaging and loathing. Thanks for this message. I just called the Suicide prevention hotline yesterday because I felt extremely numb from ALWAYS doing and never were being done for. If I even say no, I get attacked and questioned.
Continued Strength ✨
Prayers for you. I can relate unfortunately way too much to your comment.
@@lj8708 We are in this fight together. I will pray for you too. It is unfortunate that people gravitate to us just to use and abuse us then enjoy seeing that they have stripped us naked, leaving us shivering, confused and feeling worthless. Thanks to God that even while naked, we are clothed my Gods Love, grace and mercy. He will continue to protect us even when we are on the battlefield with these narcissistic and nonchalant people that we are either in a family with, have to work with, and even praise with. But even that can be extremely hard to grasp when being in the darkness. Most people today are a big question. I say that either I am alien and they are human or they are an alien and I am human because I just don’t feel relatable to many people at all.
I pray that God would give you the strength to say No and release you from any guilt that comes with it. May God continue to Lead you in the things you should say yes too.🙏
Pray 2 god
I just had an A.HA Mo.Ment when PT talked about friends valuing you only when you say ‘Yes’….This has been and still is my experience with friendships and Family relationships. I sure need ‘Balance’ for insight on navigating through relationships as I continue my journey in Christ….PT I’ve Purchased…and can’t wait to read and receive!!! Thank you for being a blessing to me 🙏🏾…May God continue to bless you and my Favorite Pastor in the whole wide world 👉🏾 SJR…Hey Gurlll 🙌🏾😊
This is so good and so true. Time is the one thing when we give it, we can't get it back. So we must be intentional with where we give our time and with whom we sow our "Yes" into
Wow this was so good and intentional and powerful so good to hear we can’t always say yess
Super powerful..we should be able to have an opinion and to agree to disagree it’s really respect
Definitely getting the book! I read Wholeness and absolutely loved it! You are truly a gifted man, God bless you and your family forever and always!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🔥
“ my yes is expensive…” POWERFUL!
Even 50/50 ratio would be an improvement for me.
Great conversation you both
had thank for sharing
Thank you for the video. I really needed to hear this. It’s the part of me I’m trying to let go.
It was meant for me to come across this
Hello Toure'! ✨📒🖋✨
Congrats on your book titled, "Balance." This amazing accomplishment is just one more testament to your display of creativity and passion in serving our God and Creator; thus helping to improve the world at large.
May you and Sarah continue to be a light and an inspiration.
As ever and truly,
1 Corinthians 10:31
My God this is the truth!
Definitely need to see this it kept pop up
👏🏾 needed this!
I need that book, I struggle with saying "No"
Amen xs a million 2022
Loveee this 🙏🏻💙
Awesome 👏🏽
This was excellent
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Yes 🙌🏾
Pastor Toure Roberts yes ❗ more I do never appreciate now am learning say no have peace ✌️😄🙏❗👆 guidesness.
Pastor Toure Roberts message given bless me it's was needed inspired ecourging Amen ❗ glory hallelujah 👏👏 yes ❗ Lord 😃🙏👆all over this nation Thank God for pastor Toure Roberts Potty House Ministries how's he's reach so many people , generation of younger adults .😃👐👐👐
Amen 🙏🏾 🙏🏾
Yes is expensive that shook me.
Wow so true
NO...I have learned to say No... .and a meaninful Noooo. It has avoided me many problems!!😇
I’m an a people pleaser. I I won’t to stop being a people pleaser.
Amen
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What is the name of the book?
Balance. Positioning yourself to do all things well. Link is in the video description.
Wow..when people only present friendship when told yes…it’s like going to jail for the person who now feels obligated to say yes just to feel handcuffed to the relationship
Amen 🙏🏾
In Jesus name
Amen
Amen
Amen
Pg pg pg pac tis the season😂🎁😱
Major Key🔑: My yes is expensive
In the name of Jesus i repent with rejoice prey's thanksgiving please forgive me for i have sin i repent with thanksgiving thank you in Jesus name amen
Sometimes being a blessing means ... Just sharing a WORD with others. *Don't keep this word for yourself, please share this with your contacts. 🙏🏽❤
90cercent no
When I was younger my mom would ask me to do something I would say no. She be like “no? No? You can’t say no.” Like what??? I wish I coulda slapped her then. It made be upset when I set boundaries and she felt un obligated to follow them
I needed this . It was amazing ! Can’t wait to order this book 🤍
exactly that’s i know about experience learning no for others and loving me more for success