NRM Our Brains Are Wired For Minimalism

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  • @donnaw1835
    @donnaw1835 Рік тому +11

    Thanks. This must be why I feel more relaxed in a hotel room. I thought it was because I was on vacation but maybe it’s because of the lack of “stuff”.

  • @bluemoon6567
    @bluemoon6567 Рік тому +60

    A thought-provoking video. As you spoke, I thought of a giant wall clock in my living area that has always made the room feel a bit “off.” I also thought about one or two people in my life who disturb my serenity with all their drama. The minimalist mindset can have many applications. I am an introvert by nature and only recently began noticing the effects these outside distractions can have.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому +1

      It is a process for me. Not easy, but worth it.

    • @sofia_ines
      @sofia_ines Рік тому

      Agreee with you and feel the same.

    • @cindynielson4231
      @cindynielson4231 Рік тому +4

      I'm having the same issues. I like my peace and quiet.

    • @rhodatuckey7119
      @rhodatuckey7119 Рік тому

      Get rid of the clock...maybe sell it?

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому

      nope...retirement gift....@@rhodatuckey7119

  • @deborahtapper3917
    @deborahtapper3917 Рік тому +6

    I once read, clutter is often a response to some sort of trauma. That’s a great motivation to have a clear out. My enemy is dust! 😂

  • @juliemix3373
    @juliemix3373 Рік тому +14

    I'm an introverted person. All my life I've wanted to be alone and live in very empty spaces. It most likely stems from being in a family of 9 other individuals. NOT a very relaxing life.
    I enjoy your very laid-back style.
    Cheers

  • @priscillawrites6685
    @priscillawrites6685 Рік тому +1

    I studied with an internationally renowned photographer. Of all the work we did, my favorite was B&W film; tri-X pan. Did my own darkroom work. I’ve taught photoshop, but nothing can match the old fashioned darkroom for truly understanding photographic process and creativity.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому

      Tim, has some beautiful black and white images here: ua-cam.com/video/X7iLCvGMDFU/v-deo.html

  • @tonythetourist2025
    @tonythetourist2025 Рік тому

    Turning the lights off removes everything in my place. Very calming.

  • @Justno-hm3vk
    @Justno-hm3vk Рік тому +13

    I'm a big believer in negative space in my home. I love the uncluttered look.

  • @unikreations2258
    @unikreations2258 Рік тому +4

    I so appreciate you talking slowly. I feel calm when listening to your precious content. While some UA-camrs have valuable content, the fact they speak so fast in attempt to get more content in, I get a headache and ultimately leave the video. I wish more you tubers will take your approach of giving viewers a more peaceful and relaxing experience. Thank you again.

  • @gabyem4435
    @gabyem4435 Рік тому +7

    As a non native English speaker I really appreciate that you speak slow and I don't care about the "ahmm" "ehmmm" it just makes it more real, love the video Tim!

  • @maryofventura4767
    @maryofventura4767 Рік тому +26

    Tim, I think your term essentialism is what drew me to your channel initially. I wouldn't click on a minimalist video. I agree less is more however curating your space with what is essential in mind - is very motivating to me.

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Рік тому +16

      The two terms can work side by side. At least in my mind. Essentialism is a much more life involved term. Minimalism helps us focus. I plan to do more with both terms along the way. Thank you for your comment!

  • @annsalty5615
    @annsalty5615 Рік тому +22

    So true. Now I get why I feel so much better in an emptier room. But some people are hard wired to fill a space, don't you think? Thats our struggle.

    • @hippodinoreserve6090
      @hippodinoreserve6090 Рік тому +7

      It’s abundance vs. simplicity. Some people crave visual abundance. It makes them feel secure and calm when they can have, and see all of their stuff. Some people crave visual simplicity. They like having less stuff. It makes them feel focused, and therefore calm.

    • @rhondadownes207
      @rhondadownes207 Рік тому +8

      I used to like having a bunch of my things around me because it made me feel secure and now I feel the opposite. I’ve been on a decluttering journey because having a lot of “stuff” around makes me feel like I can’t breathe. Funny how that happens 😂

    • @GoingGreenMom
      @GoingGreenMom Рік тому +3

      I am not sure I agree. I am a visual clutterbug (butterfly), so if stuff is behind closed doors, it disappears. I am also a recovering hoarder that very much fills space to make it caccoon-like when my mental state isn't great. Hoarding definitely, but I think in some ways filling space with lots of stuff is almost always a trauma response. Whether it is something like my Grandma who had gone through the Great Depression, or me who had sexual abuse trauma as a kid. Mom had a lot of stuff, but it was manageable and possibly more a learned thing from growing up with Grandma. Even aesthetic choices that are naturally more filled (bohemian or boho comes to mind) still have continuity and movement so you move through it like his minimalistic square pictures.

    • @GoingGreenMom
      @GoingGreenMom Рік тому +3

      As a side note, when I realized I got anxious in rooms that were very open, I started filling space by painting walls darker colors (plums and brick and blues) and using larger furniture to visually create the cozy caccoon feel without the debt or backsliding on decluttering.

    • @annsalty5615
      @annsalty5615 Рік тому +2

      @@GoingGreenMom I get what you mean, for some its a learned thing. Both my parents lived thru the Depression. I had to unlearn their attachment to things that I was taught to appreciate. My aunt became one of those hoarders like you see on those shows. That fear of losing things and, for example, that a small piece of string is worth keeping, or keeping every pair of worn out shoes....just in case you lose all the others.

  • @Bonita.Elizabeth
    @Bonita.Elizabeth Рік тому +26

    A unique way to consider a minimalist way of living through the lens of monochrome photography.
    I loved the effect of your presentation.
    Thank you.

  • @heartonastring
    @heartonastring Рік тому +3

    I do like black and white photos - but for me, shades of green are calming. I need color to feel happy - greys and blacks and blues leave me feeling melancholy, which I am prone to. I am working on decluttering and reducing “stuff with no purpose”, but for me, calm and serenity is in nature - trees and grasses and flowers. Which makes me think - that is really where I should go with home decor.

  • @shauleendelacroix1028
    @shauleendelacroix1028 Рік тому +6

    Wow your video brought to my attention why two pieces of furniture in my living room are giving me anxiety. A very large couch no one sits on and a large TV unit with a broken TV in it. I told my daughter I have to get it out of the house it's bringing me anxiety. She couldn't understand why and I couldn't explain. I wanted a room that made me feel calm. And not focused on the two pieces that served no purpose. Thank you I enjoy your videos.

  • @Jen.O
    @Jen.O Рік тому +6

    As a retired educator who taught art related subjects to many people from different cultures, I found that much like written languages are printed and read in different directions on the page, cultures can have different senses of balance, light/dark and color. With this in mind, I don't think that everyone is hardwired to respond the same way to specific environments, colors or light and even smell. I believe that these responses are learned through experience from as young as pre-language and stays to direct choices the individual makes though out their life. Selecting color, tonality, visual formats (square/landscape/portrait) to produce tranquility is a very personal preference. Childhood and life experiences can create the foundation for what an individual appreciates. At a cultural level, it's amazing to see how much Occidental principles guide western culture, however not everyone globally thinks and feels the same way as western cultures do (thankfully!).

    • @limonade2684
      @limonade2684 Рік тому

      Same in western countries. In interior design we moved from the grey decade to the off-white phase and everything was black and white.
      Now colours and warmth is coming back. I dread the time, when there will be everywhere flower prints like 150 years ago. Peoples living in the desert have many colours. But in humid countries too. In the western world the trends come and go and we don't understand, how people could love their dated furniture.

  • @jennywren8937
    @jennywren8937 Рік тому +11

    I am a photographer living in the countryside where we have created a hillside garden which is very much green all year, landscaped with stone walls, stream and ponds, seats made from tree trunks and slate. Features of black iron, huge stones, small stones, anythng natural which appeals to us. We love it, but a visitor remarked "Too green"😊 We love our stuff indoors, plenty of colour, no clutter, but definitely not minimalist. Having said all this, the most beautiful birds in our British garden are greys and browns, set against a backdrop of ever changing hues.

    • @robstrck8
      @robstrck8 Рік тому +1

      Sounds lovely! I can almost visualize it 😊

    • @pamelawilliams7174
      @pamelawilliams7174 Рік тому +1

      Too green??? Not possible in the garden or landscape. Your hillside garden sounds absolutely delightful.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому +1

      Slice of paradise!

    • @jennywren8937
      @jennywren8937 Рік тому +1

      Strange thing is, I suppose it's a kind of essentialism, which I hadn't thought about before. My husband is 79 this month, and has suffered lifelong health issues, but this is what keeps us going, keeping things manageable on a shoestring. With the world as it is, we need to make our own paradise, and for us it is love of nature as well as looking out for the good around us, including a smile and chat with a very occasional meeting with someone on the same path in life. Tools out today to do some serious hedging, no sittin' around in paradise!

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому +1

      💚

  • @simplycj5460
    @simplycj5460 Рік тому +10

    My earliest memory of being attracted to minimalism was when I was around 8 years old and reading the series of books by Laura Ingalls Wilder. I just loved the thought of living in a little log cabin home and having few possessions. Thinking about it made me feel very peaceful. Then when I was older I had the opportunity to visit some historic colonial homes, and then later still, to visit the home of an old order Amish family. All three experiences gave me that same warm, peaceful feeling. I’ve embraced that as an adult. Being a minimalist is part of the very fibre of my being.
    Thanks for a thoughtful video!

  • @OkieJammer2736
    @OkieJammer2736 Рік тому +4

    👍 Your channel is set to ZOOM, Tim. You're really a great communicator, even though you don't think so, but your education and creative photography experience has you thinking outside the box. In fact? In reality, you are saying that THERE IS NO BOX. This is very helpful for those of us out here who were taught to color between the lines in Life. As a collective, we're looking for answers, to connect the dots. You help us with that - not in our faces, but you're generous with things our own dads didn't know, didn't share. We thank you, sir. RESPECT.

  • @Franciso-so1bg
    @Franciso-so1bg Рік тому +6

    I agree with you. I have found that the less clutter and build up of stuff is pleasing to my eye and my mind.

  • @JudyTeames
    @JudyTeames Рік тому +17

    Thanks Tim for your thoughts. Definitely uplifting! In today's world, it's nice to walk into a home that welcomes calm in the space. No signs to read, no distractions to muddle through, just space between the lines.

  • @DFBurgermeister
    @DFBurgermeister Рік тому +2

    I never gave any thought as to why I was attracted to black & white photos. I think you explained it very well.

  • @catherinehillier9155
    @catherinehillier9155 Рік тому +1

    Not the most relevant comment to your vlog …. But was working in Cleveland last week and took some time to “cruise” through Chattanooga at the end of my work …. What a GORGEOUS part of the country ….. lovely weather, spectacular views and just lovely!!!! You’ve chosen a gorgeous destination for your retirement - and - thanks tor the sense of calm!!!!!!! Breathing

  • @eileenlehonnyberg1576
    @eileenlehonnyberg1576 Рік тому

    I have been attracted to B&W photography because I see the world in color and the photos give a different image I can’t see naturally.

  • @S.Lee13
    @S.Lee13 Рік тому

    Being an artist and minimalist I am routinely getting rid of color and things to have more calm in my life. It works perfectly for me and I truly feel I could live with only a few belongings and be happier than I am now so…that is my goal for my future. Love photography also and especially capturing historic barns and log cabins built by those who walked here before us💕

  • @RustieRose
    @RustieRose Рік тому +1

    Black and white makes more sense now. Thanks.

  • @Somewhereintime22
    @Somewhereintime22 Рік тому +3

    Our grandparents didn’t have much stuff…but…subsequent generations have had many more inexpensive retail opportunities. The result is that most of us have acquired a lot of stuff over the years. In our grandparents day, having more things was a luxury. In the current times of overstuffed houses and schedules, having less is a luxury. I love the open spaces in my house…and you’re right…negative space is calming…and committing to less unnecessary distractions gives back precious time.

  • @pinkagave4774
    @pinkagave4774 Рік тому +14

    I just thought I would write and tell you how much I enjoy your videos. You have a very relatable and calming presence. After watching your latest video, I think part of that may be intentional by the way you construct them, but I think there is also more to it than that. I seem to be drawn to Vlogs where they talk about themselves and what’s happening in their life. (Kara and Nate, The Frey Life, Eamon & Bec to name a few). Even though since they are all much younger and doing activities that I would never EVER consider, I am drawn to their Vlogs because they also let their guard down and talk about themselves and what they are thinking about what they’re doing. They don’t just present facts, they talk about how the facts affect them personally. They talk to their viewers like they are talking to a friend. So even though I will never do what they are doing or talk to them personally, I get to glimpse into the life of someone I consider a friend; if only for 5-10 minutes a week.
    You also have a very easy style, a kind laugh and I can also appreciate the new stage of life you are now enjoying. I also hope you will continue to make videos that focus on subjects that you think are important and fun for you and perhaps the story behind them. For example why did you choose to go to that particular park or what happened when you stopped somewhere on your way to have lunch. I know making videos is very time consuming, and I just want to express my appreciation for all that effort and hope that you will continue to enjoy doing it.

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Рік тому +4

      Thank you very much for these kind words!

    • @CarolDee61
      @CarolDee61 Рік тому +3

      Totally agree. Your comment gives language to what I’ve felt.

    • @homestatzfarmher8919
      @homestatzfarmher8919 Рік тому

      Same. Really have been enjoying Tim’s content!

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r Рік тому

      ❤❤❤

  • @kimwintering1053
    @kimwintering1053 Рік тому +3

    Part of the reason your videos are so likable is that you know how to speak and teach to draw us all in 🧲and you deliver some unique material. Thank you! 💯 A+

  • @deannaw9657
    @deannaw9657 Рік тому

    I really learned from this video! I can see why you made a great teacher! Thank you, and may the Lord continue to bless your efforts! ❤

  • @MegaSnow121
    @MegaSnow121 Рік тому +3

    This video hit home. A few months ago I moved away from an unhealthy, chaotic living situation. My theme for my new place is minimize, simplify, do without. I have given away and donated 20+ boxes and bags of things that I do not need - and I am not quite done yet. I have always been tidy, yet have had too much “stuff” around me. I am retired, and I need calm in my life. Thank you for sharing such an important message with the world.

  • @jadequinn9884
    @jadequinn9884 Рік тому +2

    The soul does need to relax, and listening to your voice is calming. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

  • @ginagonzalez6547
    @ginagonzalez6547 Рік тому +22

    Thank you Tim for the analogy, the explanation behind photography and its psychology. Now, i will be able to look at a picture with a different eye. Yes, i agree 💯 less is better, soothing and relaxing colors are better. This video helped me relax from all the bad news going around the media. Thank you.

  • @tracybishop7792
    @tracybishop7792 Рік тому +2

    Excellent content! Thank you.

  • @KarMa-ws3ll
    @KarMa-ws3ll Рік тому +1

    Very interesting. When I first encountered the works of Bernd and Hilla Becher, my thoughts were: oh, no colour, just some old industrial buildings, very "frontal." But then you look closer and then you don't want to stop looking.

  • @akontarini
    @akontarini Рік тому +5

    Thank you for that thought provoking video. I am in never-ending dance between minimalism, essentialism and just be me! Love a calm environment for most of the time and then I just throw a colour party like never before, sometimes for a reason, Christmas sometimes it is because it is a rainy cold Tuesday. Both of these styles can co-exist, cabinets have doors for a reason...Admittedly takes a very sensitive balance to get there but once I got ruthless with decluttering I can do me.

  • @AutumnVine101
    @AutumnVine101 Рік тому +1

    This makes a lot of sense. The sitting room with less stuff in became a quieter place. I wish the rest was as easy, but then thoseare linked to an unwell soul.

  • @akontarini
    @akontarini Рік тому

    Brilliant use of brilliant photographs!

  • @SpeakTruthBeKind
    @SpeakTruthBeKind Рік тому +1

    I heard somewhere that leaving good sized space between pictures give the person viewing them a place to rest their eyes. Personally I have found a large collection of pictures in multiple sized frames jammed together is not calming/relaxing - for me anyways. Thank you for this post.

  • @vickiebrannon5217
    @vickiebrannon5217 Рік тому +3

    Thank you.

  • @retiredgoon512
    @retiredgoon512 Рік тому

    Learning new things everyday! Thanks! 😊

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses135 Рік тому +3

    Great topic. I love color but I agree a monochromatic scheme makes a space much more peaceful. I've been aiming for a blue/green french country twist on that with the occasional pink room. You can apply this to just about any style you like in your clothing, home, anywhere.

  • @MrsTittlemouse
    @MrsTittlemouse Рік тому

    This is one of my favorite videos you have made. Thank you.

  • @davidsaylors
    @davidsaylors Рік тому +2

    I talk slower because I’m country and southern and that is in my blood😂 This is an interesting discussion and I will be honest, I have never paid attention to this before but now you have me looking at it.

  • @pinwheelgrl9304
    @pinwheelgrl9304 Рік тому

    You explained something I felt, but couldn't figure out how it even worked, this will also help me minimalize.

  • @sandramariegray7894
    @sandramariegray7894 Рік тому

    Thank you Tim for this explanation. It has made me think much more about my spaces.

  • @JamieM470
    @JamieM470 Рік тому

    Very interesting! I am going to look at photography differently now.
    As far as calming colors go, I've found that nature colors--blue, green, sandy (beige), soft brown--are calm, peaceful colors. I like a soft gray wall here & there, but I'm not a fan of it for all the walls, and especially not for flooring. It makes a home start to look like the Pleasantville movie lol. But it makes total sense for a peaceful video 😊

  • @bluejay5531
    @bluejay5531 Рік тому +1

    thank you Tim 🌷

  • @brandonjordan_
    @brandonjordan_ Рік тому +7

    Thank you Tim, this is what I needed today to remind me why I started looking into and participating in minimalism.

  • @markcorchado1054
    @markcorchado1054 Рік тому

    I really liked the comparison of minimalism in b/w photography to real life. Great points. Thanks for sharing.

  • @ElliottNest41
    @ElliottNest41 Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Tim. I would enjoy seeing additional videos regarding black and white photography.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому +1

      here some more of his work: ua-cam.com/video/X7iLCvGMDFU/v-deo.html you will find some in black and white.

  • @RayTator
    @RayTator Рік тому +3

    Love this video .I got rid of the doily’s ,the ( stuff) and I have just what we need no more no less. And we love the new uncluttered look .

  • @annakoelewyn3501
    @annakoelewyn3501 Рік тому +3

    I found this extremely interesting. Thank you. 😊

  • @RonGrattan
    @RonGrattan Рік тому +3

    Great video, Tim. I am constantly purging items from our home in my desire to create more streamlined, peaceful environment. But I still look around and feel like there is just TOO MUCH STUFF. It is definitely a work in progress.

  • @trevermccall6762
    @trevermccall6762 Рік тому +2

    👍

  • @angelapriddy6308
    @angelapriddy6308 Рік тому +1

    This I love. We get many more people to want to listen when we do talk slower. yes keep it up Tim!

  • @amritabhattacharyya4882
    @amritabhattacharyya4882 Рік тому

    interesting take and thank you for these photos!

  • @debjohansen7867
    @debjohansen7867 Рік тому +1

    Great information to take in and do some reflection. I am an empath and introvert. Although I occasionally enjoy people once in a while, or maybe I should say tolerate, I prefer my alone space and time. At the moment, I am experiencing empath burnout. Too much negativity happening in this world and too many people hurting and suffering. Whew...need calm so will be working on this aspect for myself. Thank you!

  • @Earth_to_Kensho...ComeInKensho

    I'm planning on moving and decided to store a lot of personal possessions at another location to make moving day easier on me. The lack of visual cues like books on a shelf create a pretty cool sense of PeaCe. I'm looking down a long empty hallway right now and its depth seems to pop out. I think you're right, I believe we're wired to respond to less. Hmmm

  • @Lorrieonline
    @Lorrieonline Рік тому +1

    Thank you! Enjoyed your perspective!

  • @Your_Lifestyle_Business
    @Your_Lifestyle_Business Рік тому

    Hi Tim, congrats on this early success. Saw a comment on another channel and click over to check you out. Our wife, Jo Barnes literally started sending out a newsletter called 'Unretirement' to her list of 5000 subscribers. I think we may have to mention your channel in the near future.

  • @kimgregory2781
    @kimgregory2781 Рік тому

    Very good video. Yes! Leave somewhere for the eye to rest. That being said, I do like photos of bohemian interiors but wouldn’t like living in them, just too busy.
    When I used to work as a drafter, I’d have to clean my desk of all the stuff used for a completed project before starting on the next one.
    I don’t like collections of knickknacks for knickknacks sake. I do like things displayed that mean something to me.
    On a different note. I’m older now and don’t have the energy to repaint a room, so I really don’t like putting holes in my walls. “Command” products work in some instances, but mostly I just don’t hang anything.
    I do like black and white photography, I’m not a photographer. In college I took a photography course and we took the photos and developed them in a darkroom. It’s amazing the things you can do in a darkroom. Have you done that? I can see one of your storage closets/rooms as a darkroom. But the equipment and chemicals can be a bit pricey. It is fun manipulate a photo in the darkroom

  • @CarolDee61
    @CarolDee61 Рік тому +4

    Finished the video - to the end - had to go back and like it. Mission accomplished. Great podcast. Stuff becomes noise to my spirit. Still looking to overcome being a surface abuser. Those horizontal spaces tend to invite coverage …

  • @ericecklund676
    @ericecklund676 Рік тому +2

    Tim, it will be interesting when you go back to look at the analytics next month on this video, to see how it faired. Another UA-camr who greatly expanded his channel recently posted a video on Minimalism...and that video now has 1.2 million views. So, Minimalism is definitely on people's minds now. Maybe as a way to slow down the pace of all of the distractions that are vying for our attention. Very nice video!

  • @ellenseiger8222
    @ellenseiger8222 Рік тому +1

    Love the topic! Soul food for your brain, abstract amazing!

  • @ceciliadelgado6899
    @ceciliadelgado6899 Рік тому +1

    I'm working on it! I'm taking it slow but getting there. Thx for this confirmation of the "why" I decided to take the minimalistic approach even before I found your channel. Thank you!

  • @denisecarter5117
    @denisecarter5117 Рік тому +1

    Love the tree pictures on Instagram.

  • @angelapriddy6308
    @angelapriddy6308 Рік тому +2

    Tim will you think about doing live videos

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini 6 місяців тому

      she got some....

  • @GirlfromNorth-i4l
    @GirlfromNorth-i4l Рік тому +1

    I've started my minimalist journey. I find that I don't need that much, but I still don't like white walls. Even in hospitals they've given up white walls, because it makes you sick. So I will keep my color but I try to make it more linear with everything else.

  • @simini1837
    @simini1837 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for being authentic and interesting!

  • @diannesargent707
    @diannesargent707 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Tim for this! It has made me rethink the photos and art I have on my walls.

  • @stephaniecranston8134
    @stephaniecranston8134 Рік тому +1

    Great video. Helps to explain why fewer things around us brings peace, beyond the obvious cleaning ease gained from no clutter. Thank you for this.

  • @pacsconsultant1271
    @pacsconsultant1271 Рік тому +1

    Tim - I'm grateful to have stumbled upon your channel. I'm now a subscriber. I love how genuinely surprised you appear that your channel, videos, and content are gaining momentum. Your success has inspired me to start a channel of my own. I'm a 56 year-old healthcare IT professional with a small photography business that my teenage son enjoys helping me with. You've opened my eyes that I too have a lot of life experience that I can share to inspire others and hopefully develop my own following. Thanks for being brave and fighting those internal thoughts that keep all of us from taking chances - and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable. I'll send you a link if or when I actually follow thru and create my 1st video. Thanks Tim... Steve in NJ

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/Jn0f9WPhcbk/v-deo.html , his other channel

  • @cindynielson4231
    @cindynielson4231 Рік тому +1

    This makes so much sense to me. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  • @hp7093
    @hp7093 Рік тому +1

    I think human nature leans toward hoarding. You really see it as folks get older and with the elderly. Holds on to things “just in case”. Good video

    • @jennywren8937
      @jennywren8937 Рік тому +1

      After the wars it was necessary to prepare for what remained of the future, including retirement. My grandparents were born 1882 and lived well into their nineties, having only that which they could put by for themselves. Unfortunately they were not aware that they were entitled to a govt. pension for most of their retirement because money was not discussed in those days. Older generations I knew of were never in a position to waste.

  • @su9652
    @su9652 Рік тому +4

    Interesting video - I like how you articulate the relationship between mental calm and a simple, well-composed scene. I think this can be achieved even with a more complex colour palette and scene, provided the elements of composition are respected and (to continue your photography analogy) the visual 'noise' is edited - e.g. limit the range of textures, and choose colours and shapes that are harmonious. I live in a very colourful home that is nevertheless calming because it is not cluttered and there are satisfying visual focal points. I have been weeding my stuff lately, and find that getting rid of knick knacks, things associated with sad memories, and things that jar the eye, help to make one's home a happier place.

    • @bananaanna1373
      @bananaanna1373 Рік тому

      Nature stuff is relaxing. Pictures in nature, houseplants, etc. People’s respiratory rate and BP go down when in a room decorated those things rather than cars, abstracts, modern art, etc. And of course, not too much. But almost nothing is too stark and not as relaxing either.

  • @PhilThach
    @PhilThach Рік тому +1

    I'm not used to commenting that you had some really nice images in videos on this channel, but you had some really nice images in this one, Tim! :)

  • @mrsb_96
    @mrsb_96 Рік тому +1

    Educational (I have learned something about photography!), helpful, calming and encouraging - I am inspired to find some decluttering time today. 😊

  • @DG20556
    @DG20556 Рік тому +2

    Enjoyed the video!

  • @pamelareeves9572
    @pamelareeves9572 Рік тому +1

    Tim, for me, your Ruth 1:16 photo fit the lesson of this chat today. Am thinking about where/ how to place it in my home.
    Friends of Tim, I encourage you to take a peak at Tim's art and see that it embodies what it is he is sharing with us today. Thank you, Tim for taking the time to share your life experiences with us.

  • @ethelliott5083
    @ethelliott5083 Рік тому +1

    Thanks a very relaxing watch!

  • @MsMaria990
    @MsMaria990 Рік тому +1

    Thank you. ❤

  • @sofia_ines
    @sofia_ines Рік тому +1

    Loved how you explained it all!

  • @grammysue2410
    @grammysue2410 Рік тому +3

    Less is more…. Nice calming video… especially after my mug of #dark roast coffee!!!

  • @kkeen1450
    @kkeen1450 Рік тому +2

    Wow, what a great subject! Thank you Tim. So glad I discovered your channel 🙂

  • @barbaramiller5625
    @barbaramiller5625 Рік тому +1

    This video really was a teaching moment and you made me think and examine my surroundings, very interesting.

  • @trishmccallister
    @trishmccallister Рік тому +1

    I've been following your channel because I have been interested in your perspective, but now that I know you are a fellow photographer I am stoked! Your photographs are beautiful :)

  • @klf153
    @klf153 Рік тому

    Yes, this. Thank you for putting into words what I've been feeling since I downsized and moved and feel extreme need to downsize, simplify, let go of a whole lot more! Even things I love...too many books...too much art...

  • @muhlenstedt
    @muhlenstedt Рік тому +2

    I am struggling with the neutral pallete for decorating the home .Its no problem for me to get rid of stuff , but I am afraid that the calming grays could be too cold.I want a minimalistic home but at the same time, I want it cozy...how dificult!Thank you for this very interesting video

    • @extrememinimalism
      @extrememinimalism Рік тому

      maybe add a colour?

    • @muhlenstedt
      @muhlenstedt Рік тому +1

      @@extrememinimalism yes, perhaps a warm calm color like ochre, where I live daylight is mostly cool, it makes everything grayish.Thank you!

  • @KarMa-ws3ll
    @KarMa-ws3ll Рік тому +1

    Hello! I'm a 40 something from Germany, far from retired and love your videos. Would u consider doing a room tour or something like that? Because I like the glimpses of your interior in the background in the videos. Of course, that might be too invasive. I'd understand that(would never film one myself to be honest😅)

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Рік тому

      I don’t mind doing that. I’m still working on my bedroom, so it may be a bit.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini 6 місяців тому

      🙂😊

  • @BILLBRAZIL100
    @BILLBRAZIL100 Рік тому

    I just found your channel last night. I absolutely love your introduction video. Trees, road , car and the music. What a perfect intro for you channel. Well done.
    I am a subscriber now and will each all of your videos.
    You are a very well spoken with great power presence. ( your background while recording , your precisely pressed shirts , talented , intelligent and your looks ).
    I enjoy every second of your videos. The contents are flawless!!!
    You have everything to keep rolling and growing with your channel. I wish you nothing but good luck Tim.

  • @alises.5986
    @alises.5986 Рік тому

    Clicked LIKE before the video started playing 😂

  • @outdoorstudios2022
    @outdoorstudios2022 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @peggyparsons5003
    @peggyparsons5003 Рік тому

    IF whatnots or photos on the mantel make you feel happy keep them. There are levels to minimalism. I read some of your blog posts. Well written. Well explained. Enjoyed your thoughts.

  • @Butterfly.2002
    @Butterfly.2002 Рік тому

    Such an interesting discussion..thanks

  • @RitaVernoy
    @RitaVernoy Рік тому

    I have been watching your channel from Paraguay. I love your content!😊

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому

      Amazing! From all the world people are coming to this channel! I love it!🙂

  • @tarynsanmartino8930
    @tarynsanmartino8930 Рік тому

    Hi Tim, I absolutely love your description and reasoning behind how we're naturally drawn to certain types of art and photography. Your examples included in the video show how much they are related to creating your/our own personal peaceful space. The examples and illustrations will really help me as I work on my own spaces. So funny that you mentioned your mantle. I am struggling with this, however improving as time goes on. Thanks!

  • @cindigorczyca8129
    @cindigorczyca8129 Рік тому

    I am not a minimalist but I do see how going into a cluttered room causes me anxiety. I recently had a few rooms painted and I did not replace many of the items in those rooms simply because the lack of items did make me feel better. Will I ever be a true minimalist? No, because I enjoy decorating my home. But I have become much more selective as to what I put in my home. Thank you for this very interesting perspective. I love that I always learn something from you.

    • @sct4040
      @sct4040 Рік тому +2

      Rotate your decor according to seasons, less cluttered and feels new each season.

  • @kzZnAT0r
    @kzZnAT0r Рік тому

    Interesting thoughts

  • @Wifemomnana
    @Wifemomnana Рік тому +1

    Another good video.

  • @kimberlieperry9587
    @kimberlieperry9587 Рік тому +2

    Hi Tim, Interesting and thought provoking. Not sure I agree that we are wired per se. I am calmed by things that I associate with my friends, family and joyful experiences that I have had. Looking at my desk here I have seashells in various bowls and glass jars, a rock from a beach, a bin of writing implements and tools. Yes, tools in with my pens and pencils because I will need a Phillips head screwdriver or needle nose pliers when I am writing my next post; or more likely I need it there so that I can grab it at an instant and not look in the 100 other places it might be. I still have some Christmas cards attached to my filing cabinet, why, because they are pretty darn funny and I like remembering who they came from. I like the aesthetics of my collections and what not. I also like cleaning some of them out when it gets to be too much.
    I see what you are saying though. In fact, I recently had several rooms repainted in varying light but warm shades of gray and subdued hues of blue and tan mostly to brighten things up. But now that the work is done i am taking my time in putting things back on shelves, the walls and on top of surfaces. I don't quite feel as though the work is complete yet. I will need to pull in some of my 'stuff', those key things that hold some meaning to me.
    I do like black and white photography and appreciate your explanation about how it relates to minimalism. But, I am also drawn to the impressionist paintings that I have and some of the more vibrant artwork I have purchased along the way.
    Luckily, we are in a time of our lives and a place where we have control over our surroundings and to each his own. Whatever makes you calm and comfortable and sets the stage for the more creative side of you to emerge, or the calm you seek to be found should be your guide.
    Looking forward to the live streaming coming this weekend. Take good care.
    🙏

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Рік тому +1

      I really appreciate your thoughtful comment. I don’t typically “script” my videos. I have a thought I sort of expound on extemporaneously. I suppose if I had thought ahead more I probably would have added that this does not mean we don’t NEED color. We most certainly do. It’s much more about calming the chaos. And that can be done through color, more open spaces (more on that soon), and making sure our Phillips head screwdriver is where it is supposed to be when we need it. LOL. Right now, I have no idea where mine is. 🤦‍♂️

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Рік тому +1