Deaf Man Personality Change With Hearing People
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Some people might say that your signing is a bit slow compared to some people, but I actually love the pace that you go because it’s super helpful to someone who’s learning to be able to see natural conversation at an easier to understand pace!
I agree, I see some people sign SO SO quickly and I haven't a chance in hell of following anything. Not their fault of course, but I do love how he signs.
Also could be slowing it down for his wife, it’s recorded & for the captions
@@Itsvampyy In the video they say he signs at this speed with everyone...
I see it as no different from the way some people speak slower vs faster.
Totally!
i found it so adorable when ryan put the fork down saying it’s dangerous idk why it seems like it happens often lmaooo
juniper that was the cutest
Signing hazards are Deaf Bing :D or ASL Bing
He has a girlfriend
Hey Ryan dog. New
@@valeriemoore1917 We totally didn't realize with him sitting right next to his girlfriend lol
if ryan signs “slow” i guess i’m just a tortoise
Same! I'm still learning, so I'm bound to be slow, but even speaking I'm a slow talker because I do a lot of thinking while talking. (Plus I have a block stutter) But it's nice to know not all ASL users are hyper speed signers. Lol
😂 same
it’s ironic that ryan told ellen to “shhhh” LOL
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it's technically not any type of irony, because you would expect Ryan to tell Ellen to "shhh" since Ellen is the only one talking. It's also not verbal irony because Ryan didn't speak
@@cletushumphrey9163 𝙤𝙠 𝙗𝙤𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙧
Holy_Watercolors_12 I mean I still think it’s ironic as a deaf person telling someone to shhh even tho they can’t hear them. But I guess not
@@user-jd1cy7jb5c chill
I'm always forgetting to activate subtitles and end up starring at you for like two or three minutes like really fascinated by your hand movements almost hypnotized before realizing I don't understand what your saying 😅 I really like your chanel, it is very informative and you are Both very sympathic.
That’s me😂
Lmao
ME TOO!!
😂😂😂
saaameee 😂 then I go back and watch it all over again
I am loving this channel! My boyfriend is deaf and I've gotten a lot of....unwelcomed opinions on the matter. What would I want to date someone who can't hear? Why put myself through that...blah, blah, blah. I mean, seriously, just because he can't hear, that doesn't make him any less of a person. Anyways, seeing you two together and how happy you are...I love it. You guys are truly amazing. Definitely earned a new sub from me!
I went with a deaf guy and we loved each other, forget the negative things people say.
That's awesome!!
No disrespect when I person is deaf does it affect there ability to speak
Myrthas Mascary Not necessarily. Most people that are born death usually can’t speak, but the people that lose their hearing later in life can usually speak.
Im hard of hearing and i am married to my husband who’s hearing and we both have our daughter whose also hearing. Thankfully, his family welcomed me and accepted me for who i am. Give them time and support your man. Also, i made a video about that on my channel. It would explain a little more in depth. Hope you can stop by. ❤️
“Oh ,ohhhh 2+2=4 “🤦🏼♀️😂😂 that’s just how my husband is when I don’t get things lol
maddison mine too lol I will stare at him after he makes a smart ass comment and then say “you’re a butthole” and then he hugs me tight while laughing to make up for making me feel dumb lol I used to get mad but now I go along with the joke
My old man does the same thing except he always says I might not be able to add 2+2 but I can put 2&2 together... Lol.
I am HH and even I am a little different around the hearing world. There’s definitely some differences.
I’m just glad my husband is willing to continue to try and learn ASL. Today he actually signed a whole sentence in ASL whilst I was in the bath and without my hearing aid! Lol So proud of him!
Let your husband know good job and keep up the good work.
No offense but he should have attempted to learn ASL farrr before you got engaged, much less MARRIED.
No matter how long he has been trying, very happy to see he continues to try!
@@MrAgentTurner some people just take longer to get languages.
Adam S I agree with you for the most part, but if she was ok with it and he’s learning now it’s better. Plus, she is proud of him, no need to dampen the mood.
Who else love that there’s never music in the background when they sign
Always
I actually love these videos because of that, I used to watch them at night before sleep. And because there is no music i get relax quicker
When your deaf and you can eat and talk without people judging you for eating and talking at the same time 😎😎😎😎
lol I know ASL (I'm hearing) and I do that all the time. I'd be eating an apple, my former student would ask me a question and I'd end up holding the apple in my mouth to sign back. They would always laugh
Her voice is so soothing and pretty I wish he could hear it, he would be even more in love than he already is.. if that's possible ❤️
The comment about the expressions being so exaggerated in class is so accurate, My teacher always says more more more when i feel like i'm doing enough
Exactly! I am learning through online classes, but I feel like the video is constantly stopped to remind you to use your face. Which I guess is good for people who forget and aren't expressive?
“Daddy doesn’t have two face, he has one face.” 😂😂😂😂 best joke
Caitlyn Robles timestamp?
Sign Duo= intro that makes you wanna eat + lovely persons
2:06 i saw in her face that that kinda upset her
With all the years you two have been together, do you still feel butterflies in your stomach? When do you guys feel like you're falling in love with your partner again? When do you feel most loved?
You guys always find the tastiest looking bakeries! 🥰
Reminds me of how tones are when you learn the Mandarin spoken language. They're important, but when you're proficient you're not going to need to exaggerate like crazy like when you start out.
I love that you've brought up this point. I've been learning spanish since highschool and I feel like my personality changes, but really it's just a language barrier preventing me from being myself
Wow you guys have been together for 8 years? Thats so incredible 🥺 I hope one day I can find a love, bond, and _trust_ this strong. You are a beautiful couple, and even though I'm sure you have your ups and downs, struggles now and then, it seems like you're so perfect for eachother. Especially in the way you two look at eachother, its something so sweet and special 😭💗
Wow, such a great question and thanks for answering it! I am HH and learning ASL loooove watching your channel w/ your positivity, deaf culture info. Java is such a pretty puppy!! Anyway, really appreciate you both for sharing with us. 😊
Hello beautiful person scrolling through the comments!!!
Kendra, please always do this ♡ so many people need to see positivity and you are radiating it :)
🥺💕hi
Hello 👋🏽👋🏽
Kendra Shore: what's up?( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)(๑˃̵ᴗ˂̵)（╹◡╹）W(`0`)W
hello mama sita
It is so wonderful that you both embrace the deaf and hearing worlds with kindness. I wish there was more of that.
your videos are honestly so cute, you guys as a couple are adorable and watching you communicate with each other is so refreshing ugh love that I found your channel
Your videos are so delightful. I love that they aren't scripted. I love that you keep discussing through ideas and concepts and you let us see that process.
you're both such genuine, nice people! best wishes to you and thank you for great content!
I’m so excited that I can now start to follow without subtitles most part (in the browser I can only see subtitles in the small viewer, not full screen) if I watch at 75% speed, and I only have to back up to catch up on some finger spelling or if I got distracted by java. Sometimes I don’t know a sign, but I’m trying to figure it out from context, and it’s nice that you both tend to repeat the important words. I can even usually keep up while you have a brief moment of signing over each other.
For reference I just finished the ASL 101 videos from Dr. Byron Bridges, in addition to watching a lot of Bill Vicars’s stuff, some signed with heart and our signed world, but mostly you two for practice! This is the first time I have put up with not having sub titles in order to enjoy the full screen view, and I’m so glad I tried it. I usually can’t stand 75% speed, but it’s so worth it for 150% learning value.
Firstly I love you guys so much. Im learning so much from you about being in a relationship and have always been drawn to signing..I had a SERIOUS aha..revelation too as Ryan was talking at the end about my personal situation. I grew up with a family that snubbed and treated me different then my syblings as a way to control and keep me down. I am very different to them which made them envy or hate on me..for years I had to be silent as I couldnt be myself but then it was really difficult to let my personality out and come through 'outside'..Now I am building those positive experiences and you guys helped me understand so clearly that I am not 2 faced..oh Java too!!!So I feel like I found two great friends...with no barriers. I am watching all your videos and aporeciate you guys. Love L x
When ppl are more expressive they become more excited about what they are talking about, and they laugh more
You two have the most chill vibe! Love the content!
I love watching these kinda videos. I lost my hearing at 22 years old & nearly 6 years ago now and it is a big change. I use hearing aids but still limited what I can hear and understand without lipreading. I actually started self teaching asl (I'm from London,uk) before my hearing went but then when it went I taught my best friend some signs and we can have a convo in all which is helpful. There is defo a change in body language when signing to talk ... I for sure can feel a difference in myself and my own body language.
I'm now about to study to become an audiologist hehe....
wish we could collaborate!! xx
Thank you guys for your honesty! Appreciate you ❤️
Love how comfortable you seem in this video keep up the great work
Oh my goodness thank you so much for answering my question!! Never did I think my question would cause a whole video!! Thank you again! Such a great answer
I love the content y'all put out! You both seem so kind and open to people learning and understanding more about Deaf culture and the community. As I learn more ASL I find it really easy to understand both of you. Keep it up guys! 🤟💚
I have been watching you both for quite a while now and I love you both. I think it is amazing that you two want to teach people who may not know much about the deaf cluture more about it. You guys are such an inspiration to me that I am taking an ASL class at my college and I'm loving it! I have two professors, one is deaf and the other is hearing, they are very passionate just like you two! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!♥️
Found you guys 2 nights ago and I'm hooked🤓
Watching your channel has been helping me a lot with my sign. It’s been about 10 years since I’ve signed and it kills me to be lacking in a language I loved. We don’t have much of a deaf community at the base we’re at so it’s soooo helpful to have you guys!
Your channel inspired me to learn more about the deaf community and I enrolled in a deaf studies class this semester! Just wanted to say thank you!
YOU TWO ARE SO WHOLESOME AND PRECIOUS 🥺🥺💜💜💜
This was such a fascinating video. I hope more questions come up that let us explore the linguistics of sign a bit more.
I love the pace that R & E sign. It's not too fast or slow. They are a great team. 😊💜
Thank you guys for making videos. It helps me learn asl bc I can read the captions and watch your hands. And it is actually entertaining to watch as well.
You two are so adorable together. Such obvious love for each other. You two sure love your baked goods!
Been binge-watching your stuff recently. I took ASL in college. Haven't practiced in a long time and I am super rusty. I love that half your vids start out with eating desserts. That's my kinda afternoon!
You two are going to be very lovely parents. The way that you work together so fluidly whole you care for Java is such a great indicator! Lots of love to you both. I really enjoyed this question. Makes total sense. Not a question of personality at all.
Ummm wow! I ADORED the sweet gesture of feeding your sweetheart at the end. Please always love each other that way forever! 😍
I found you guys only a few days ago due to quarantine. But I really like your content! Not only because you share in a very humble and unique way your own experiences, but also because you're truly happy to open up your world to us. And also, I really like that in the intro you always share delicious food! :DD Thank you!!
At 11:58 when he signed "actually happened true story" I could hear him whisper it perfectly nice
yall r so sweet to each other i wish this whole world was like you both are makes me teary in a touching way btw i am hoh and learning gbu both xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I love watching your guys' videos because my grandparents are deaf and I have been practicing to learn alot more signs during quarantine and you guys really help me with how to have a covers at ion with new signs I've recently learned.
i love this channel so much and your relationship! i can see that you both have soo much love for each other and have great communication skills. your videos have educated me so much and i want to begin learning ASL. i am a very empathetic person, if it helps i am an INFJ personality type. i am very much in my head snd introverted yet care for humans so much and am very understanding. i am an empath and very kind hearted and always want to make people feel welcome, so i’m so glad that i have learned from this channel some things not to do around someone who is deaf and things that are okay to do.
i think the one thing that i perhaps ignorantly was shocked by when first coming upon this channel, was that when ryan signs, he is mouthing exactly what he is saying so perfectly that i am able to read his lips. it shocked me that he was able to mouth words so perfectly without completely knowing the sound of the words or how to say them out loud, i found that very very interesting and beyond impressive!!!! but i think now i have more understanding on how he can do that 🥺☺️. i hope someday i can sign well!!!
They deserve more attention because they honestly seem like good people
This is a really great video. Things as a hearing person, would never think of. The over exaggeration you have to do in order for us to get your tone. So interesting! I do wish that hearing people would give you more of a chance and engage in conversation when you try to. We sure could learn a lot.
This was one of my favorites, thank you guys!
This might seem really strange, but I wonder, how does Ryan think? Like when I think, I hear my voice and it's like a monolog going on in my head, but is it the same for a deaf person?
Blue Universe Some people don’t hear a monologue in their head. An article came out about if not too long ago about it. It’s strange to me because I also hear my voice in my head haha
DailyAverageNobody: Then how can they read in their head?
@@blackflashp.rna2085 I don't know how to describe other than you just acknowledge the words you are reading or just acknowledge what you are thinking? I don't know. I do both, but mostly I hear my voice in my head, too.
Lena Foxy: Yeah same, I hear my voice in my head.
Im a hearing person and i dont think with a loud voice in my head. Imagine that you have an idea first that is without words im the beginning, and then afterwards you intentionally add in your own voice in your thoughts. I just never add in my voice in my thoughts. This way is more peaceful actually. I dont know if you understood that. But just think that there is a split second in your mind that are silent when you get an idea, and after that silent second you start to add the voice intentionally. Hope you understand my explanation, it's hard to explain
I am so glad that I subscribed to this channel! I am HH myself...I tell everyone I know (most know at least some ASL) to check your channel out! Also, I wanted to make a comment about your discussion. I assure you that your personality remains the same whether you're with hearing or Deaf. But, naturally, through adaptation, you will change some of your expressions, some of your styles and even your vocabulary. But remember that is a human nature thing...I absolutely love how supportive you both are of each other! I am learning so much...
This was a super interesting video!! Thanks for responding to this question. Ryan, your facial expressions are so easy to understand and also I love your smiles 😊
Java is such a good pup :) Love your vids! Been binge watching for days lol
Thanks for this video! I learned SO much especially the differences between ASL, SEE, and PSE 🤯 Didn’t realize there were so many varieties of sign language in “English”. I teach sociocultural aspects of education, especially for language learners, and dive into various forms of language acquisition; your video was very informative and I will be sharing my insights with my classes this week 🤓
You two are cute! Love all the videos - this is my first comment tho 😆
Hey! I recently stumbled upon your channel - great content! We need more creators like you to help bridge gaps during such a divided social climate! My wife is Russian speaking, and I can relate when we visit her family in Belarus! I’m still learning Russian and I can feel myself exaggerate my facial expressions and body language when I’m communicating with them, only because I don’t have the vocabulary to say what I want. I don’t feel my personality has changed, I am simply at a loss for words. Hope that improves soon!
Keep up the great work, and looking forward to more content! 👍🏽
I'm very new to your channel and I absolutely love it. I'm hard of hearing and use hearing aids which help tremendously but they aren't always dependable. I relate 100% to how Ryan was saying he sometimes just stays quiet. When I'm in large groups I do the exact same thing. There's too much noise and talking for me to always follow along in conversation so I usually just end up staying in my own bubble in my head because after a while it's all white noise and I get lost therefore I can't contribute to the conversations. I've spent most of my life with people that don't know me assuming I'm a...well... B because I can't hear them talk to me from behind so I don't answer or I do sit quietly in group settings for the reason mentioned above. For me, being hard of hearing, people never assume that I struggle to hear especially when my speech is intact. They don't believe me when I tell them I have hearing aids, I always have to show people to prove it and even then they will forget. The partial hearing group can be really difficult because you don't fully fit into either group and that has always been and continues to be a personal internal struggle for me.
Anyways, I just wanted to share that and let you guys know I enjoy your insight and appreciate you letting us all into your world. Keeping being you because you guys are amazing!
I just came across your channel about a month ago and I love it!! Now I really wanna start learning ASL so I can properly communicate with more people :)
Most of the times when I watch your videos, I think you guys are inspiring in terms of understanding one another. Eventhough you have distinct perspectives over something, both of you are capable of hearing each other's explanation till it's done, and meeting at an agreement point, where at the end none of you will feel less mutual.
Love ya, guys! Wish you could always be together 💙💙💙
-from Indonesia😉
This concept in the video is so relatable! My fiance and I dont "fight"or "argue", we do this ^ 😅 so hard to explain
You guys make great videos. I've actually been inspired to pursue an ASL Certification by you guys as well as some of my own friends and other people (deaf, HH, and hearing) I encounter who know sign.
I am watching your videos to see Baby Java ... 🤣😂🤣😂😍🐶 thank you for bringing her along with you on your videos .... she always makes me smile 😍
Thanks to you both for doing these videos! I have been hard of hearing all my life but recently I've lost almost all of my hearing. I'm currently taking ASL classes from a deaf teacher because my ability to communicate is becoming more difficult. I just discovered your channel and it's fascinating for me and very helpful in my learning process. I also like the contrasts you both present for hearing and deaf culture perspectives.
I'm going to learn asl because of your videos, in particular this and the drive thru one where they threw your order out. Thank you for the inspiration and realisation that it should be common for everyone to speak it :)
I’m very HOH and I sign PSE as well. I’m glad that you sign slowly (so to speak) because many people who watch you two are learning how to sign from you. I also messaged you in your inbox to explain how I became very HOH. Great job !
I instantly love you two. Thanks for sharing. Great question.
Wow! So cool to see you two having a real conversation (as opposed to an ASL lesson). I had a deaf partner for four years, and this brought back so many memories. Thanks for helping us all to appreciate hearing/deaf relationships better.
Love you Ellen and Ryan more videos please 🤗 ❤️
Can I just say - I started watching your videos about 2 weeks ago, and I didn’t know Any sign language. But then you guys inspired me to start learning, and I’ve actually learned some basics in these past 2 weeks! Well, after watching this video, I recognized the new signs I learned and even learned new signs from this video! 😃 Thanks for taking the time to answer these questions, inspire others, and share your lives with us! Love that you picked the name, “Java!” Love you guys! 😘
I found your channel few weeks ago but I absolutely love you guys ❤️ I'm around your age (I'm a 1996 baby) and I'm a wheelchair user... I don't like to say it often online but you both give me hope that maybe someday I'll find someone who see beyond my disability. Wish you the best 🥰🥰
I appericate the way you sign Ryan and Ellen, I've been watching other UA-cam videos and most people are signing so fast that I cant really pick up on what there saying, granted its only been 2 weeks of self taught UA-cam videos I've been watching...lol but the way you guys sign is great! very realaxed and chill
If you are interested you can slow their videos down. I use that feature to be sure that I'm catching every sign. It has been super helpful!! And I agree that both Ryan & Ellen sign at the perfect pace for those of us that are learning.
I’ve watched two vids and I really like this channel
You are a lucky man Ryan. And Ellen you are a lucky woman ! You two are great. Learning alot from this channel.
I seriously adore you all so much when I say all I mean Java as well!! I do have a question when are you both getting married!! I love sign duo!! Thank you so much for vlogs! You both teach me so much ASL!!😘🤗😍
Omg yessss when r u going to i mean there is no rush but it would be awesome
This channel has been super helpful for me in terms of seeing the language being used in a chill conversational environment. I’m always too scared to use my ASL skills despite having learned for the past 10 years because I’ve had some not great experiences (mostly with hearing people saying I’m not doing it right, but deaf people keep encouraging me)
I’m working towards being comfortable in my language abilities, but every time I have a deaf customer I always use my skills to help in any way I can!!
Thanks for the kind and helpful education on etiquette, language, and food. (Seriously y’all eat a lot of food, but I love it)
Always love the food video-intros on the newer videos
I’ve started to learn sign language because of your channel ❤️
this is a great ? and you 2 answered it beautifully together. my daughter was non-verbal for 3 years so I learned SOME sign language and took classes 3x at the local deaf and blind school. the DEAF teachers I had were not able to hear us so they wrote on the chalkboard to "talk" otherwise they just taught us finger spell and then signs.. What I found interesting about your video is you said you can tell a person is new to sign when they are extra expressive and in class we were GRADED on this. they said there is a square from your face to your hand and you need to keep your hand up and keep your expression big. we all felt like fools over doing what a semi truck was or the sign for strong, I thought all deaf people were super expressive due to this class but maybe it was the teachers way of helping us break our hearing barrier to learn those expressions and in time they would fade more.
Hey I just wanna day shout out to all of The Deaf people in this world. I find it Amazing that you guys and so many non deaf people find ways to communicate y’all are awesome and you know what who ever said we needed a Voice to Communicate.?
Hands down the funniest Sign Duo video 😂😂 Y'all made my day! Thank you for being so real, so genuine. No masks with you two. I love how you keep it totally real. So educational and so entertaining at the same time👍🏾
You are awesome!
Love you both!! Ryan, when you mouth words, I can lipread and understand you perfectly, even though I am a hearing person. I can read and understand your lips much better and faster than your sign. Also, I appreciate it so much that, for both of you, your words match your signs.
You are just AWESOME!!!
Ryan's signing pace is appreciated here because it helps with my receptive learning!
Wow the video editing is amazing! Love you both and the videos. ❤️❤️
This is so crazy, but I am currently taking an online ASL course and the teacher was talking a lot about how facial expressions were so important. So, I wanted to see it in action and see if I could notice any prominent facial expressions with you guys and it's crazy that you both started talking about facial expressions! This was the first video I clicked on today.
Love you guys and I'm excited to learn more about ASL and the culture behind it all.
Thanks so much!
gonna start learning ASL! Sending love from Singapore!
After watching one of your videos ,just one, I feel in love with it and I'm trying to learn sign now
I've learned ASL thru my whole life &it just so happens, my fiance is "half deaf," or almost completely deaf in one ear. He's always wanted to learn ASL/PSE, so I've taught him the phrased I know to get thru a conversation, &I'm thinking of enrolling back in school to get credentials to become an interpreter.
Your videos inspire us as well, because his first language is German, and he is tri-lingual (German, French, English; he's Canadian, so he learned French &English in school) so me being primarily English speaking, we have had major barriers in communication (he has to translate in his head to "say things right") but learning ASL has bridged that gap a bit for us ❤ we sign PSE for understanding purposes, but want to learn ASL more for broader purposes! Thank you Ellen and Ryan!!
Yo ngl these are the two most wholesome people I have ever seen❤️
Your videos always make me smile (: I'm the middle of a really stressful situation and have been crying for days but this video cheered me up so much 💜
It would be so cool to actually see what it's like when Ryan communicates with someone hearing, especially with a stranger, like a cashier or something. It would also be interesting to know if you've had any situations where you weren't expecting someone to know sign but they did!
Also (I'm)patiently waiting to hear about Ellen's UA-cam channel 👀😂💜
You guys crack me up. You guys are so sweet to each other. Patience and understanding. This should be in every relationship. He's so funny! Cute and a sense of humor of course she likes him for just being "Ryan".. 😂
😂😂 Looks at camera. "I'm two faced 😮" Love the vids man🙏
That's true in my experience now that you've said it. Some deaf people seem very excited/hyped when communicating with me. Now it makes sense that they are just trying to make sure they are getting their point across. Thank you for that explanation. 💛
Ryan, do you feel like you have difficulty understanding individuals who are stoic and do not use much body language?
Holy crap. I have a problem with people like that. I rely on face expressions, body language, and lip reading to figure out what someone is saying. But when they are not expressive in any way, it is hard to read them. I currently have a guy in my class who sits real still, and then when he talks, he's not even moving his teeth/jaw and he barely moves his lips. He came up to talk to me for a group project we were doing and I barely understand a word he said. But before that, a girl walked into class and through her face expression, body language, and normal movement of her mouth, I knew exactly what she said when she came in which was funny (she saw we were getting into groups and said, "I don't want to be here") lol
I find it much easier learning from just watching you guys than looking up the sign language I would use in Sweden. I probably won’t have that much use for ASL unless I visit the states!🤷🏼♀️😊
You guys so cute , thx for make me more understand deaf people , I subscribed.
Enjoyed watching this! Those cupcakes looked delicious. I know ASL from my Mom when she taught at the school for the deaf. I have always been hard of hearing most of my life but gradually became profoundly deaf and have sensorineural hearing loss.