Omg the girls used to love to play with my hair cuz it was so long & curly lol They seemed so intrigued with it but I hated it(the curls) :( I'm fine with it now tho' :)
I’m a teacher and see my pupils (aged 14-17) play with, brush or braid each other’s hair quite often. Or I see them scratch each other’s back. I never tell them off for it, because I think it’s such a sweet gesture!
Yes I’m a first year teacher now but I still don’t quite understand why my elementary school teachers used to get so upset it. Was lice just more of a concern or something?
I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha i loved doing it and i really miss it, felt so nice. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it too (im a guy)
I did everyones hair, to the point where boys would even ask me to help. my mom took me to pageants, I always loved staring at people getting their hair done.
Honestly, I think girls in class playing with our hair or scratching our back is the first ASMR experience to many of us and it's so sweet that this is such a shared experience among many different people🥺
I think if you enjoy that kinda thing and find it satisfying unlike some people who would find it annoying or weird, you're more likely the type of person to like ASMR... That's just what I've concluded 😂 Because literally everyone here (including me) has been talking about those kinds of things being satisfying and comforting vs most people who don't seem to like ASMR didn't like that lol
omg yes i remember this one time in preschool this girl was playing with my hair and i was getting tingles in my head that would shoot down to my back. the teacher told her to stop 30 seconds later 😑 idk why teachers have an issue with that
@@meganfoxsclit I'm a teacher, I'm here watching ;) my first experience with asmr was watching one girl playing with hair of another girl (not even mine) and I loved it :)
I used to be the girl that would trace peoples backs on the carpet and play with their hair- watching them relax was so nice :) and I always wore a cute sweater that had fluffy dots on it and some other kids would trace on me! I was the weird kid but some people knew I would get stressed easily and would trace the lil dots for me. Honestly shout out to those kids yall saved me in middle school
This brought me back so ACCURATE! I remember the teachers screaming "THIS IS NOT A BEAUTY SALON" and ruining the most satisfying sapphic experience of being at school.
I was always the "weird girl" that was shy and ignored, but girls always complimented my hair and would ask to play with it. I loved it so much, it made me feel liked and included. Even if it was just for a few minutes and that they would go on with their day and not talk to me again, it still felt special to me because it was one of the few interactions I had with other girls my age since I didn't really have any friends. I always got shivers and tingles when they would play with my hair or write on my skin. It felt different than if it was my mom doing it. The fact that it was girls that I admired and thought they were so cool made me feel special and happy.
Same in almost every aspect, especially being the "weird girl" because I was a nerdy not really girly type, like video games and anime, and was a good artist 😭😂 Though I never let most people even NEAR me unless we were close friends... The only people who have actually touched my hair was this one girl Cadence who was more of an aquaintence to me and one of my closer friends named Starr 😂 This usually happened when my hair was down and they caught me off guard tho lol and for some reason they lived touching my hair and always thought it beautiful and soft so I guess that's a thing 😂
In high school I would receive compliments on my long hair often, usually from girls. This was more often than not followed by a request to play with it. Especially in choir. What amazed me about this was the wide variety of girls that would sit around me and chat while one of them brushed and braided my hair. I wasn’t friends with them, but it made me feel included as they chatted on about personal topics that normally I wouldn’t be hearing about. And almost all of them would have to take a turn feeling my hair after one of them exclaiming how soft it was. I really appreciate that these girls felt comfortable enough around me to be so open and also treat me somewhat special. Also this comment section totally passed the vibe check ✅
I was a child that went through child abuse and I wouldn’t let anyone touch me at one point in time but there was this girl in my class who would play with my hair and scratch my back and I felt completely safe, so thank you for making me feel safe again 3/27/2022 Thank you to all that have responded with positivity and personal stories, thank you for words of kindness and encouragement. To those who had a problem with what I wrote I am not sorry. Nor will I ever be. You don’t have to like what I wrote/shared and I don’t care. I reached out because this video comforts me and I find solace in it, not for attention or likes or anything. It’s life. I am alive, happy and I am Standing for those who have been abused
I had a boy in my class one year in elementary school who I think had autism and I remember no one really talked to him or hung around him, because he seemed different, especially to kids who didn’t understand. He was one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met to this day, and I remember he LOVED anything related to dinosaurs, and whenever the class had free reading time or inside recess, I’d let him show me all his dinosaur books he had and he’d tell me every fact he knew about them and it gave me the most asmr anyone’s ever given me. I’m not sure why exactly, but it did. Long story, but I suddenly remembered him today and thought I’d share ❤️ his name was Cody and I think of him a lot, especially when it comes to asmr. Hope he’s doing ok now, wherever he is.
i always get tingles hearing anyone talk about something they’re really passionate about like the excitement and happiness radiating off of them is so ✨ so it might be something similar!
I’m enjoying reading everyone’s stories 🙂. Such a small comfort making a huge impact. Growing up, I had to be the “tough guy.” My Dad, cousins and uncles were all hard assess. The only thing they understood was anger, and the response was either rage, violence, retaliation and unhealthy things. I was never that person, and for 18 years I tried to force myself to be that person. Then, my Senior year of high school, I became very close with this girl. I remember once, when I was seething with anger and about to do something incredibly stupid, she put her hand on my head and said “just close your eyes and take a deep breath.” I did, as she started playing with my hair and scalp, and I went from 100-0 instantly. Damn near passed out from the drop in blood pressure 😂. Idk where you are today, Kayla. But thank you for showing me another option 💜
This is probably the best comment section I have ever seen in UA-cam, no negativity, no hate, just people enjoying the asmr and sharing their nice stories 💖
This brought back memories of the girl in my math class, that I didn't really know, who played with my hair. She did it every class and we became very good friends. She knew all sorts of gossip so we would just talk sh*t. I'd always leave class with a super pretty braid🥰
In geometry me and the girl next to me would take turns, one fell asleep getting her hair played while the other learned the material, and then we'd switch , at the end we would do the work together to teach what the other had slept through
I can remember sitting in the library a bunch of times and two girls that would always sit behind me would always play with my hair and draw on my back. Probably some of the most intense tingles I've ever felt in my life. Im still in contact to this day with one of them and thats been almost 23 years ago.
I was bullied and had my hair pulled so I get nervous when people have their hands on my hair. However, this girl in my class was playing with my hair and was complimenting it. She didn’t yank it as a joke or belittle me. She braided it and made it look so pretty. Too bad I didn’t catch her name. I hope she’s doing well now. It’s been almost 9 years and I appreciate her kindness towards my hair.
i had the same experience there was like one girl that would come up and braid my hair while all the other ones would like run away. i really should have become best friends w her.
i appreciate u girlie, this girl looked really tense so i scratched her back and played with her hair edit: in primary school, me and my friends would sit and make a chain. i always was in the back tho so i wouldn’t rlly feel the love but it’s okay! playing with someone’s hair also helps me lol
This reminds me of a high school friend I had who’d lightly scratch my back w her acrylics, she was funny and knew good gossip just like this video. Good memories :,)
I was the girl who was asked to play with people's hair and trace patterns on their backs. Sometimes they would even fall asleep. I was never on the receiving end of it but I'm glad people liked it as much as they did.
I was the girl was braided hair and I remember many time the girls I admired would come up to me randomly and start playing with my hair. It was so nice and I love those memories
@@veesha4ever you’re welcome, it’s so calming to have your hair played with. I just remember feeling so tired after recess and my friends would always braid my hair. I would return the favor because it made me happy to know they could just relax 💗
I remember one time in first grade when all of the class sat down on a rug and listened to the teacher read. My teacher would read in a light and really soft voice, which was so relaxing. Then, my friend would always play with my hair and trace my back/neck. That combine with the teachers voice was soooo nice, and this video reminds me of that ❤️
I dealt with a lot of abuse growing up, and I’m autistic, so I struggled to socialize and figure out when someone was actually being nice, or just making fun of me. But there was a boy in my second grade class who always would sit behind me wherever we were and would play with and brush out my hair. He never made it look weird or or did anything bad to me, and I’ll always be grateful for that little nugget of kindness.
i think im that boy lol (not really) but i love to play with one of my friends that is a girl's hair and i like to braid her hair everyday and by now i dont even have to ask her she just lets me
As a kid in kindergarten I loved the amount of lice outbreaks we'd have at our school since I loved the feeling of popsicle sticks and gloved hands being gently touched and rubbed through my fine hair... always gave me the tingles, thanks for helping me find that feeling again.
As a child I had been sexually assaulted and I was extremely scared of people touching me but there was this one boy in class that would always play with my hair and I remember teaching him how to do braids and hair do’s and all sorts of stuff. Tbh I liked him so much sometimes I’d purposely not do my hair so he could braid it or put it in a pony tail :)
My sophomore year I sat in front of a guy with adhd and whenever it started acting up he would draw shapes on my back with his fingers and he’d play with and braid my hair. It was a win/win for both of us Bc it’d help him stay calm and it’d relax me
I want this tbh, like I have ways to cope/relax in class but damn do I want to be able to draw or braid someone's hair, I just don't know anyone so it's damn awkward
!! TIME STAMPS FOR YOU!! !! Introduction, small talk. 0:00 - 1:12 playing with your hair, talking to you. 1:13 - 4:43 whispering, telling you a secret. 4:44 - 4:58 continue playing with your hair, talking to each other. 4:59 - 6:51 Tapping on wooden brush, brushing your hair, talking. 6:52 - 9:26 Playing with your hair again, chit chatting. 9:27 - 10:28 Touching your face, writing on your face, touching your hair. 10:29 - 14:36 Back to playing with your hair. 14:37 - 19:49 Getting something out of your hair / eye. 19:50 - 21:34 Playing with your hair, tapping. 21:35 - 24:02 Tapping on the glasses, talking. 24:03 - 24:44 Playing with your hair, outro. 24:45 - 27:42
Not a story about someone playing with my hair but remembering it gives me that relaxed feeling: Before christmas break, we watched a movie in class and everyone was supposed to bring snacks that we shared. A guy sitting in the row in front of me turned around and started telling me about the filled chocolates he brought and he got so excited about their taste which was already really cute. Then he was like "Have you had one yet? You have to try them, they're so good" and just gave them to me as if we were close friends. Not only did he await my reaction ("they're really tasty, right?!", he also immediately offered me more. All of this while his back was turned to the screen and he was missing out on the movie. I just really enjoyed that he was radiating with happiness and really seemed to care about my opinion in that moment, just a nice personal attention moment :) If you've read all of this, have a nice day, you deserve the world ♡
I’m really really sorry to hear about your loss. I know that’s not easy. But you’ll keep her alive forever with the memory of her braiding your hair, that’ll forever stay.✨♥️
I had my first tingle in kindergarten. My friend and I were seated on top of the monkey bar. I laid my head on her lap and she started playing with my hair. I felt a sensation that went through body starting from the top of my head right down to my toes. The bell rang because recess was over yet I couldn’t get myself to move out of that position it felt so nostalgic like it has happened before. My whole life I was searching for that feeling again. Years later I got the exact same feeling but this time from an asmr video.
My mom would always play with my hair and scratch my scalp, especially after a long stressful day. While doing this she would whisper a prayer and sing to me. And it would calm me down and make me sleepy, she passed away on Mother’s Day last year. Thank you!
I Dont miss those moments, the girls and boys would always yank my hair and blame it on someone else , to the point it changed into a literal disaster🥲
It really depended on if it was my cousin or not behind me. I had trust issues as I turned around 4-5 cause I lost my dog and it was a lot for me(knew him from when I born) so if it wasn't my cousin. Like any little kid, I'd start crying and throw a fit. We're still pretty close now, we're both 13, turning 14 this year. We have a cousin who's 10, turning 11 this year who pretends to be an opera singer when her hair gets brushed by our cousin. And they're two of the only people I let play with my hair, even to today. (Along with three of my aunts and two of my friends)
I was at a bar one night and this girl started playing with/braiding my hair. She said it was pretty. I felt kind of awkward so I started to chit chat, but she said "shhhh just enjoy it!" Yes ma'am! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 it was so nice and unexpected.
My coworker and I used to do this to each other. A few times every shift we would just walk up and gently pull and scratch each other's hair for a minute or two. It was great working with her.
I had this one friend who knew rubbing my back softly was my literal off-button and she'd do it to me every day without complaining or getting tired for hours- she'd also play with my hair sometimes and it was pure therapy. people like that are amazing
I had a girl in my class who would go half way across the class in the middle of class to play with my hair, it was actually really calming and I loved it. Thanks for bringing that feeling back :)
I used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it, i was afraid that they didnt or thought that was creepy cuz im a guy
You’d be having a relaxing time with your friend playing with your hair then the teacher would stop them and say something like “this isn’t a hair salon!” 😂
when I was in elementary school girls would play with my hair, I loved it. At that time if my mom was out of town and my dad drove me to school my hair would be trash, but ofc my girls would take care of me lol 😭👌
idk why but everytime someone touches stuff around me and especially touches me accidentally (depends on the person who is touching me though) it gives me the best feeling of tingles ever
I remember this one neurodivergent kid that most people thought was annoying and weird but girls noticed he liked playing with their hair and they became chill with him because of it. Such a natural human interaction.
Every time my friend gets new acrylics, she shows them to me, and then says “check this out” and scratches my scalp and styles/plays with my hair and says how it reminds her of her mom’s hair (brown, fluffy, and curly) and it’s my favorite thing ever 🥰 and when she hugs me she sometimes scratches my back lightly to see if I find it relaxing (I do). My mom used to do stuff like this for me but stopped when I was really young so it’s always nice to find the people like this that want to see you happy/comforted :)
Fr! It’s so sweet. There’s this one girl in my class who is so nice to me. Most ppl are nice to me, but this is a different kind of nice. I don’t know how to describe it but it’s like she’s taking “treat ppl how you want to be treated” to a whole new level.
This video is so Nostalgic for me. When I was in high school I was quiet and shy. Overall quite depressed as well. One of the popular girls in my class sat behind me one year and asked if she could play with my hair. Every time we had that class she would braid it or comb it for me. She always said kind things to me and helped me feel included in such small ways. I will never forget that kindness and how relaxed she would help me feel for that one hour. Such a small amount of time to effect someone. Remember you can always have an impact in someone's life even if it's in small moments. Choose to be kind. Thank you for this video! I am now subscribed!
So many lovely stories in the comments! When I was a teenager I worked in the hair salon and washed people's hair. When I told people that's what I do, they would say 'isn't that gross?' but it wasn't to me. It was really special giving people that moment out of their day where they can just close their eyes and enjoy warmth and touch in a safe environment. A lot of older ladies came in very frequently (once a week or more) to get their hair done and I felt so happy to give them a calming, caring experience. It felt like I was a therapist really helping people. I think almost every person likes getting a nice calming hair wash at the salon 😊❤
I have sensory issues with water because of my eczema flair ups and in middle school my mom would take me to the salon a couple times a week to get my hair washed. It was always the most relaxing experience to zone out / felt like a safe space. Appreciate people like you doing that job!
This has been one of the most relaxing times I’ve felt in a while and I’ve needed it. This comment section has been so calming to read so here’s my story. I have always felt like im 2nd. I don’t have a best friend but I have lots of friends and I’m pretty much always the back up friend. I love to scratch people backs and play with their hair but nobody would do it for me. I used to cry about this cause I thought something was wrong with me cause nobody would braid my hair. I’ve been watching these videos recently and it has brought me back to those times but made me so relaxed. Thank you to everyone and have a good day. 🫶
I have thick, long, and soft hair so the girls and the gays at my highschool loved playing with my hair. In my theatre class I had a guy sit behind me and everytime we read plays, he would either play with my hair or draw on my back with the eraser on his pencil or we would play a game called “guess what im drawing” on my arm. It was both funny and relaxing. We would also get detention for not following along the script and the funniest part is we did the same thing in detention. We usually rehearsed our lines while he played with me hair during that time. As two gays not wanting to be in our toxic household, we lived for detention together. I miss him 😪
The gaysss!!! Yasss thats me 🙋🏻♂️! Lol Give me that hair! Tomorrow we switching desks and you drawing on my back lol I always say Dog is mans best friend. Gays are woman’s best friend lol I miss the girl that was in my biology class. Krystal Rainwater. Best back tickler in the tristate area lol
I have hair that’s naturally soft and I always get compliments on it. It’s one of the only features I like about myself. In elementary school i legit had to divide my hair up for 10 different girls and boys to play with. Thank you for bringing that amazing special feeling back that I haven’t felt in a while :)
"I don't know if I should tell you, but I'm going to tell you okay?" No, but in all seriousness, this type of person in the back of the class in public school- God, they were amazing. The back scratching and hair playing and drawing on me, I loved it all so much for no reason. Well, it made me feel safe. It's so nice to feel that again. Thank you. Truly
This makes me miss the boy I sat with on the bus who liked braiding my hair. I started keeping a brush and extra hair bands in my backpack just for him. It was one of the best parts of the day for those years.
I was that boy lol. Growing up with three sisters helped to know how to braid. I used to love braiding their hair when they didn't want to do it themselves or let them do makeup on me but other guys would tease me. 😂
I was one of those boys lol imma gay hairstylist now 💅🏻 thanks girlfriends for all the practice!!!! I was known for being able to do multiple style updos with just two pencils lol also I was the only one who knew how to fishtail braid lol
this makes me think of this teaching assistant in my primary school. she was the loveliest lady ever and always made me laugh. i think she knew i had anxiety before i even realised myself and she used to call me cute nicknames and do my hair everyday. even during our first aid training, everyone had partners but my friends all left me so she said she’d be my partner. she died last year really suddenly of cancer and i didn’t even know until i read it in my local newspaper. it was truly heartbreaking and i have no doubt she changed many kids lives with her warm personality🥺 thank you mrs g🤍 edit: just want to say thank you for all the love people are giving. it’s her family who suffered the biggest loss and i hope they’re all doing better since! i appreciate these messages very much. it’s very sweet🤍
I used to have long skater boy hair in middle school I only kinda knew the girl that sat behind me, but one day she started playing with my hair, and I slowly turned to the side just to look at her and she immediately stopped and said sorry and I was like “ohh no, it’s ok.” But my brain was like “don’t stop.” The tingles we’re amazing!
I’m really happy with hearing everyone’s stories, I think it’s really amazing you guys have all of these experiences, I don’t know it just gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside of my stomach like when you drink warm hot chocolate and it’s just the right temperature
I use to have long hair back in elementary school and there were these two girls who loved playing with my hair. They would split it in half and play with it while the teacher was reading in class, making a chain of girls doing each other's hair, all I remember was the sense of comfort and relaxation I felt when they did this. We always got in trouble for doing this tho...
All these comments are so touching, like I’m actually tearing up. Ever since 1st grade I can remember no one ever wanting to talk to me or interact with me so these stories are so sweet to imagine, it gives me a warm feeling. now I’m a sophomore in college & i hope I can be this type of friend for people to confide in. I love playing with hair also 🖤
I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it. I loved doing that for shure and i miss playing with long hair
I am raising my children to love and befriend the children like you and I'm sorry no one was there for you when you needed them to be. If we could go back in time I'd hug you.
I know that feeling. My school went from kinder-12th and I left for 4th and 5th grades but figured I would have friends when I came back. I was so wrong, all the people I thought had been my friends in 3rd grade was definitely not my friends in 6th. The first day of 7th I spotted a new kid who I was determined to make friends with because no one deserved to feel alone and unwanted like I had the year before. I proudly call her my sister now as after several family tragedies after we both turned 18 we adopted her as part of our family. My family is also currently the only people who knows she moved out of state and where she is as no-one’s in her bio-family knows.
As a massage therapist my favorite thing to do is do scalp massage on my clients/brush through their hair gently with my fingers. They almost always immediately go to sleep and it makes me sleepy too. One of my friends in high school played with my hair every day in Spanish class and I would fight to stay awake lol I miss her
A few months ago, a girl in my class at the end of the day braided my hair and that is probably the most relaxed I’ve felt at school ever (I was the quiet kid so no one really talked to me, so it was really nice to have someone pay attention to me for once ☺️)
@@kazuyamiyuki7061 im more of a hyper extrovert these days so i tend to scout out quiet kids and play with them. everytime without fail they will let me play with their hair and talk to them, show them videos, etc. its a great feeling giving those people someone to spend a little time with during school when their sitting all by themselves. i used to be just like that (still can be) and remember how lonely it felt and wishing someone would just come up to me lol
@@stixxie569 Trust me the lonely kids appreciate it so much. It's like this painful feeling in your chest watching everyone else with friends. And then that one person that shows up outta no where will make their whole year. Trust me they probably still think about you when their lonely again. I remember when I was in animal science in middle school and this one girl grapped my hand outta no where and dragged me to her table to do a group project. It was a crappy project but I had so much fun making it. I didn't she her after that anymore but she really made an impact on me. So what your doing now is helping those people thank you😊
This is the kind of experience I wish I had when I was a kid. People are sharing their stories and it comforts me to think that they had this experience, among many that I had yet to even comprehend. Growing up homeschooled I was shut in 24-7, my parents weren’t rich so doing things always felt like a burden to me. I only had my siblings who were toxic and sexually abusive, I wish I had friends who could encourage and comfort me. That I could be open with. Being an adult and moving out at my first chance was the best thing I did, now having friends to be open with and play with each other’s hair. I feel like I’m much younger than I am (I’m 21) as if I was 15 instead. Never take the small experiences or memories for granted if you have them, even if there were only a few for myself. There is good in every situation, you just need to hold on to them and keep moving forward 💜
I was homeschooled as well from 2nd grade to 12th. My issues are mostly from emotional and mental neglect, so I totally understand feeling younger than you are. When I'm stressed, my mental age drops down to about six or seven and I have to be very careful to not melt down in public. I have friends and a couple coworkers who know and support me, so I'm getting better I think. You're not alone 🙂
When I was in Year 5, a girl who sat next to me absolutely ADORDED playing and ‘combing’ my hair with her fingers. There was also another girl, who really likes doing my hair, even now. She started in Year 4 and we went to the same secondary together and she still loves to. It was so relaxing, I almost fell asleep in school! Now all I need her to do is come over, plait (she has loads of braids in) and do my hair, whilst listening to your asmr! Heaven ✨
Im a boy but i used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in middle school haha i just loved doing that its nice to know that girls enjoy it too
These comments are so wholesome omg. I love playing with peoples hair or people playing with mine, I find it super relaxing. Nothings nicer than watching someone’s face relax with a content smile while you play with their hair
I absolutely adore hair play/hair brushing triggers so this videos is right up my alley! Perfect timing for the nap I’m about to take lol! Thank you so much Eda! Much love and hugs to you and yours 🤍✨
I wanted to add my story too! So my friends are mostly boys who have a lot of GFS but never keep one and stuff,so I do the cuddly stuff with them,hugging and combing their messy hair,and they do the same with me! It's a really chill experience for us the chaotic children in the classroom
Hey!! My sis has been diagnosed with idiopathic hyper somnia! Which means she goes without sleep for 24 to 48 hours! I told her to listen to asmr and I made her listen to you! She got her first 5 hours of sleep in 2 days and she loved it! So I make her listen to your asmr every night, and it really helps her get sleep atleast every 3 days, thank you :) Edit: I didn’t post this to get like but to just say thank you to Eda But thanks for the like :D it’s the most I have gotten :’) I show my sister the like she gets everyday and she wanted to say thank you to you all too :) We got it to 1k! :D sister says thanks ^^ Info: this is a bit more info on the disorder my sister has. So basically what I mean is even if she gets a full nights sleep she feels like she has had no sleep whatsoever, she gets really tired because of that and has a hard time sleeping at night, so she goes without sleep for 3 - 4 days. So basically my sis already feels like she’s tired even when she is sleeping and on top of that she can’t sleep, so asmr helps her calm down. I just wanted to tell you guys that’s because, some of you in the replies have been stating that they go without sleep for 3 - 4 days too, I’m not stating that you guys are lying, but my sister’s case is a bit different :) thank you for all the love and support :) good night!
Ty! If you don’t mind? Can I ask you a request please? Can you do a video for people who are deaf/hard of hearing? Maybe like some visual triggers and stuff like that! I’m sure they’ll love it ^^ Only if your comfortable with it though! -much love, a random person
Ooo, that's scary. All though, I feel like I already do that without any disease/disorder (I'm probably wrong). Well, is anyone else like obsessed with their device to the point where they think about it at night? I have that. And even though I sleep the normal 8 hours (I sometimes get up to play), I still think about it.
Back in school, it was basically a rule that you couldn’t touch others unless you were family, so I never had my hair played with. The only person who did play with it was my father and he was…rough. I remember trying to keep in my tears because it hurt😞
When I went to a psych ward, my roomate would touch and braid my hair every night before going to sleep. It was hard to sleep at that ward but shed help me calm down and sleep by touching my hair and giving me advice as a parent 🤗 I considered her as my mom there ❤
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16 “and saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.” Mark 1:15 “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” John 10:10 Jesus loves you and wants to save you
This is nostalgia and reminder for me, because ever since elementary, the first thing that caught people's attention about me (besides my weird personality) was my hair. A lot of my friends played with my hair, most of the time when we had freetime in class or on the bus. I was bullied so I had trust issues and my anxiety spiked whenever people approached me asking me about my looks, as I was majorly insecure about it. But my friends made me feel at ease whenever they just braided my hair or something like that. So nice video, brings back happy memories.
Not only playing with hair, but there’s also the universal experience of asking around for a hair tie after doing someone’s hair/ your own hair because you forgot one
this is how me and one of my good friends became friends 😂 I was sitting in the back of science with her and I asked her if she had a spare bobble and it got us talking, we don’t speak as much now but I know she’s still there
In first grade there was a girl that would play with my hair during “carpet time” but our teacher always got super mad and made them stop. I always felt so special that a peer would want to play with my hair or trace my back because I was really shy and had undiagnosed anxiety and idk it was just heaven for me. The tingles and also feeling accepted was amazing. I hated when my teacher yelled at us for it because it felt like one of the only moments I could relax as a kid
This took me back to freshman or sophomore year this wonderful girl used to play with my hair and would someone gently scratch my scalp or take out a brush and brush it. She’d also take her scissors out and just gently cut the splitting pieces. I really adored her and think of her often and wish her the best💕
this is calming to me. The hair noises and whispering tingles my brain. I’ve heard people whisper to me instead of yell but its rare. And me and my ex friend aren’t friends anymore so I’ve been randomly crying. Its hard shutting off my emotions. So thank you for making this
This reminds me of my friend from kindergarten, we literally used to have this routine where every time it was time to go to the carpet one of us would sit behind the other and play/stroke with the others hair and do faint back scratchers. Unfortunately I had to transfer but man I will never forgot her :)
@@chemical93girl going to the carpet means that like if the teacher was telling a story or something we'd all sit at the carpet. Since we sit there for pretty much an hour or so I guess we eventually just end up playing with each other's hair. But this would usually be like in pre k-3rd grade. I dont really know how they do it in other countries though so Idk if it's an American thing
I loved when my grand daughter played beauty shop with me. Tender hands without even knowing it, so relaxing. My hairdresser had the knack of relaxing me when she worked on my hair. I found it to be therapeutic.
In third grade, on a carpet, we listened to stories. Then these girls started playing with my hair, but only for a few seconds. Those few seconds they did was pure heaven tho 😇😩 Edit: TYSM FOR THE LIKES!!!!! It’s the most I’ve ever gotten!
Same here and drawing on my back. I used to have two girls that would always sit behind me when we had story time or movie time. They always wrote on my back and played with my hair since I was the only guy with longer hair. Thats been 23 years ago lol
@@Cocoonlaughs_videos definitely the most intense tingles ive ever had physically induced. Now its practically all visual on here unless im getting my hair trimmed.
One of the football players in highschool use to play with my hair in class and when the teacher would say to pay attention he would tell them he couldn't stop touching my hair because it was so soft. The whole time he would quietly say to me how pretty my hair was. It would put myself in such a good mood.
Haha im a guy and i played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class too, but i never said anything, neither they did. So i just Hope they liked it as much as i did lol
I've always had a fairly long hair and is often complimented of how soft it feels xD. Naturally, girls in my class would ask me if they could play with it. But there was this one guy who was seated behind me and would play with my hair for literally *the whole hour* it felt weirdly nice and tingly but he'd apologize afterwards, saying how he couldn't resist touching my hair lmao (started to like him afterwards too :'> )
Hahaha that would be totaly me I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school. I never asked but they never complained so i guess they liked it 😁 I loved doing it for shure and i really miss it
I love how open everyone is being. The comments pass the vibe check as they say lol! I've never trusted many people, I don't like to be touched. I see a lot of people say its due to their childhood trauma but I can't really say if I had trauma or not, I don't think so, but sometimes when I remember things I think maybe they meant more to me than I've told myself they do. I remember in middle school one girl would brag she knew the best way to calm people, she would run her finger down the middle of peoples backs. She did it to me once but she did it when I was off guard because she knew I didn't like being touched and made me jump lol! It did feel nice though. She kept asking "But it was nice wasn't it?" but I was afraid if I admitted it the other teens would make fun of me. I had issues with a guy and his best friends were stuck to her like magnets but she was always pulling me in I think specifically because I wouldn't give in to her "magic" hands lol! However, I was actually more relaxed in HS I had study hall with 2 girls and that was like it, just 3-4 people in the whole room. I would sit next to one girl, then the other girl would play with her hair. I really didn't want to be touched by people I wasn't fully comfortable with. I really only let my mom and dad do anything to my hair. (My dad knew like every braid imaginable, my mom would just brush it lol)
Isn’t it wild how everyone relates? It reminds me of when i visit our small town in the countryside and have my little cousins playing with my hair, i look forward to that every year
Lol i always played with long hair of my female friends in class. I never knew that girls like it so much i did it cuz i loved playing with long thick hair. Im so happy that this goes both ways lol I really miss those times
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I have never gotten my hair played with, but I am constantly playing with my friends’ hair! In my classes I just play with whoever is sitting infront of me as long as they allow it ☺️. I also give massages after! I’m trying to make school enjoyable for other people but sometimes I wish people would do the same to me.
I would play with your hair any day if i know you haha. I used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in middle school. I really miss it cuz i loved doing it
I never had my hair played with really because I was SO paranoid about Lice(my school had kinder-12th grade) that I never left my hair down. especially after a girl in my class, who wasn’t part of my friends, and her younger siblings gave our entire school, including me, head lice. However I am kind of a tactile person and would scratch with my nails or draw with a pencil on people’s shoulders for the ASMR. I would let people do my makeup for me with my supplies which felt amazing and relaxing.
At this point I'm here both for the ASMR and for the juicy high school gossip. I was home schooled so I never experienced any of this, it sounds fun to sit in the back of the class with someone and talk shit on other people.
Dont worry ain't missing much going to highschool in the age of social media, it sucks completely. Before all that it was a great experience. I had the best time back in the day, for sure ain't nothing like it used to be though.
It differs for people, as a sophomore in high-school it's fun, I found my group of people and they make the experience more enjoyable for me, they all like playing with my hair ever since I shaved it all off lol
That does sound fun. I spent a little time in elementary school before home schooling was required and, though I was the weird kid I still had a couple of friends. It was great, I just wish I could have experienced more of that before being isolated.
I imagine it would be hard to socialize or even learn anything with everyone on their phones. But, back when I was in high school I really did crave friendship and I was bitter towards my parents for home schooling me against my will.
This reminds me of primary school gym class! All the guys and girls were in separate rows sorted alphabetically all just sitting on the floor waiting to be assessed individually. I had (and still do!) Extremely long strawberry blonde hair and I remember all the girls behind me would practically fight over who got to braid my hair while we waited. It was always so relaxing and I always used to fall asleep!
As a person with really curly hair that would look frizzy and bad if it was played with or brushed, these videos are the only things keeping me relaxed
This brings back so many memories. When I was in elementary school i was the only redhead in my class and the girls loved to play with my hair during storytime. Good times. I think that's when i experienced my first tingles from ASMR.
This girl in my biology class we would switch desks every other day. One day I would play with her hair, the next day she would tickle my back neck and head with a closed pen. It literally was the best thing ever. That was in 2002… we are still great friends today. I can’t even remember the last time I’ve had someone do anything like that for me 😭😭😭 I’m 37 now. I just hope I can get someone to scratch/tickle my back and head just one more time before I’m bald headed and hunch backed 🤣
Find a person with a kid. Make sure you vibe with both of them. Start babysitting the kid, especially at night, or on warm summer days. Voilà! Instant free best friend and/or best friend's kiddo(/your niece/nephew/sibling's nonbinary offspring) ASMR.
i love how everyone has stories with people playing with their hair and making them happy and it’s really sweet knowing i was one of those people playing with people’s hair and making them happy
In third grade during story time, all the girls would sit in a braid line and we would play with each other’s hair. It was very relaxing. Good memories :)
Massage and hair trains were the absolute best part of story time!! My friends and I used to do it at sleepovers while we watched movies and stuff too. I still LOVE having my hair played with, only now I have to pay my hairdresser to do it 😄😄
That’s what I did in first grade but I didn’t know how to Braid so I would always be in the front of the line we don’t do it anymore tho but when we did it felt so good 😊
@@lali3731 oh god yeah even wore when I couldn’t get rid of them and would just find 1 every few days or something and treated them but they didn’t go away for like 1 year and now my heads always itchy and I’m always paranoid lol
I have not been in school since 1998, but I absolutely had a girl like this in my class too! Thanks for the wonderful triggers, whispered conversations and hair play! Loved every second of it 💕
hi friends 💖pt. 2 with CURLY hair is up ua-cam.com/video/Dyx4yg2ETbk/v-deo.html
yay :)
Thank you for taking the time to even create a video wirh curly hair❤
I had a headache today thanks for this vid cause idk how but it helped!
Omg the girls used to love to play with my hair cuz it was so long & curly lol They seemed so intrigued with it but I hated it(the curls) :( I'm fine with it now tho' :)
Kıvırcık saçlıyım ve kıvırcık versiyonu yaptığın için seni çok seviyorum :,)
I’m a teacher and see my pupils (aged 14-17) play with, brush or braid each other’s hair quite often. Or I see them scratch each other’s back. I never tell them off for it, because I think it’s such a sweet gesture!
Yes I’m a first year teacher now but I still don’t quite understand why my elementary school teachers used to get so upset it. Was lice just more of a concern or something?
@@LifeAsItIs478752 it’s teachers like you two that make the world better
@@your_too_cool9825 yeah🤩
We all should have had you for a teacher
Can u be my new teacher 🥲. Bro my friend almost got a detention and I felt so bad. We were done with our work and just wanted to share our boy drama
Man, shoutout to everyone who did the hair playing and back drawing to others, yall are the real ones
I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha i loved doing it and i really miss it, felt so nice. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it too (im a guy)
I did everyones hair, to the point where boys would even ask me to help. my mom took me to pageants, I always loved staring at people getting their hair done.
My friend used to play with my hair, it helped me focus and I used to get my hair pulled so she made my hair soft
I was that kid 😎😎
There was this one guy I always sat in front of in my science class because I knew he would play with my hair.
Honestly, I think girls in class playing with our hair or scratching our back is the first ASMR experience to many of us and it's so sweet that this is such a shared experience among many different people🥺
Omg, you're RIGHT! That WAS the 1st time I felt the relaxing feeling I get with a good ASMR video
I think if you enjoy that kinda thing and find it satisfying unlike some people who would find it annoying or weird, you're more likely the type of person to like ASMR... That's just what I've concluded 😂
Because literally everyone here (including me) has been talking about those kinds of things being satisfying and comforting vs most people who don't seem to like ASMR didn't like that lol
omg yes i remember this one time in preschool this girl was playing with my hair and i was getting tingles in my head that would shoot down to my back. the teacher told her to stop 30 seconds later 😑 idk why teachers have an issue with that
@@meganfoxsclit I'm a teacher, I'm here watching ;) my first experience with asmr was watching one girl playing with hair of another girl (not even mine) and I loved it :)
@@Wredniara ok
I can hear the teacher now. “This isn’t a hair salon, ladies.” 😂😂
My teachers don't rlly care that much at my school
No because it's a universal experience, literally got told the same and i live in a french speaking area 💀 teachers all share the same braincells
@crexem yeah, they just ask if they said you can play with their hair lol
INR it is so annoying when teachers say that
Hell, they probably need a hair salon if they're saying that.
I used to be the girl that would trace peoples backs on the carpet and play with their hair- watching them relax was so nice :) and I always wore a cute sweater that had fluffy dots on it and some other kids would trace on me! I was the weird kid but some people knew I would get stressed easily and would trace the lil dots for me. Honestly shout out to those kids yall saved me in middle school
@Tanya Farr don’t be rude? How hard is it to just scroll.
Shout out to you too, the girls that played with our hair were the best, you were our first Asmr
@Tanya Farr come on, just why? There’s simply no need for that kind of negativity in such a positive community on such a sweet post.
you sound so cute and sweet :’) everyone loved this type of person in school! you’re the best type of classmate
@Tanya Farr wow a grown woman picking on someone, get a life
This brought me back so ACCURATE! I remember the teachers screaming "THIS IS NOT A BEAUTY SALON" and ruining the most satisfying sapphic experience of being at school.
yeah that was my 4th grade teacher 🥲
that line exactly i hated when they said that like GIRL IT FEELS NICE leave me allooooneeeee😂😂
That was my gay awakening 😍
yeah my teachers even in most of middle school was like that im in middle school now btw
Sameeeeee the same thing happened fo me
I was always the "weird girl" that was shy and ignored, but girls always complimented my hair and would ask to play with it. I loved it so much, it made me feel liked and included. Even if it was just for a few minutes and that they would go on with their day and not talk to me again, it still felt special to me because it was one of the few interactions I had with other girls my age since I didn't really have any friends. I always got shivers and tingles when they would play with my hair or write on my skin. It felt different than if it was my mom doing it. The fact that it was girls that I admired and thought they were so cool made me feel special and happy.
I am exactly the same!
Same in almost every aspect, especially being the "weird girl" because I was a nerdy not really girly type, like video games and anime, and was a good artist 😭😂
Though I never let most people even NEAR me unless we were close friends... The only people who have actually touched my hair was this one girl Cadence who was more of an aquaintence to me and one of my closer friends named Starr 😂 This usually happened when my hair was down and they caught me off guard tho lol and for some reason they lived touching my hair and always thought it beautiful and soft so I guess that's a thing 😂
Awh, that's so sad but also sweet
I was the same way. Loved when other girls would play with my hair, braid it, comb it.
I was exactly the same before I was like oop I’m a man now
In high school I would receive compliments on my long hair often, usually from girls. This was more often than not followed by a request to play with it. Especially in choir. What amazed me about this was the wide variety of girls that would sit around me and chat while one of them brushed and braided my hair. I wasn’t friends with them, but it made me feel included as they chatted on about personal topics that normally I wouldn’t be hearing about. And almost all of them would have to take a turn feeling my hair after one of them exclaiming how soft it was. I really appreciate that these girls felt comfortable enough around me to be so open and also treat me somewhat special.
Also this comment section totally passed the vibe check ✅
I love playing with others long hair too. Its sooo nice and calming
You were the chosen one
@@strefury6873 *THEY WERE THE CHOSEN ONE!*
@@Thewatcher6864 yupp
This is how dogs must feel.
I was a child that went through child abuse and I wouldn’t let anyone touch me at one point in time but there was this girl in my class who would play with my hair and scratch my back and I felt completely safe, so thank you for making me feel safe again
3/27/2022
Thank you to all that have responded with positivity and personal stories, thank you for words of kindness and encouragement.
To those who had a problem with what I wrote I am not sorry. Nor will I ever be. You don’t have to like what I wrote/shared and I don’t care. I reached out because this video comforts me and I find solace in it, not for attention or likes or anything. It’s life. I am alive, happy and I am Standing for those who have been abused
Sorry u had to go through that 🥺
Hope ur doing alright now
Hope u ok😞
good vibes for you
Sorry you went through that and glad to know someone made you feel safe, hope you are doing alright sending you much love and good vibes your way🤍
I had a boy in my class one year in elementary school who I think had autism and I remember no one really talked to him or hung around him, because he seemed different, especially to kids who didn’t understand. He was one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met to this day, and I remember he LOVED anything related to dinosaurs, and whenever the class had free reading time or inside recess, I’d let him show me all his dinosaur books he had and he’d tell me every fact he knew about them and it gave me the most asmr anyone’s ever given me. I’m not sure why exactly, but it did. Long story, but I suddenly remembered him today and thought I’d share ❤️ his name was Cody and I think of him a lot, especially when it comes to asmr. Hope he’s doing ok now, wherever he is.
That’s so sweet!
i think i know cody. do you live in south florida?
Omg that is the sweetest thing I’ve read all day ❤️
@@ariellagamliel258 omg I hope she sees this
i always get tingles hearing anyone talk about something they’re really passionate about like the excitement and happiness radiating off of them is so ✨ so it might be something similar!
I’m enjoying reading everyone’s stories 🙂. Such a small comfort making a huge impact. Growing up, I had to be the “tough guy.” My Dad, cousins and uncles were all hard assess. The only thing they understood was anger, and the response was either rage, violence, retaliation and unhealthy things. I was never that person, and for 18 years I tried to force myself to be that person. Then, my Senior year of high school, I became very close with this girl. I remember once, when I was seething with anger and about to do something incredibly stupid, she put her hand on my head and said “just close your eyes and take a deep breath.” I did, as she started playing with my hair and scalp, and I went from 100-0 instantly. Damn near passed out from the drop in blood pressure 😂. Idk where you are today, Kayla. But thank you for showing me another option 💜
heart touching story ❤
This is so cute
U giving broly vibes with this comment.
Love it!! There is strength in allowing yourself to be vulnerable :)
thats beautiful
This is probably the best comment section I have ever seen in UA-cam, no negativity, no hate, just people enjoying the asmr and sharing their nice stories 💖
Not Rick roll
🥹🥹🥹🙂
Gotta love that moe shop pfp
For real
@@noahpacefan never gonna give u up
This brought back memories of the girl in my math class, that I didn't really know, who played with my hair. She did it every class and we became very good friends. She knew all sorts of gossip so we would just talk sh*t. I'd always leave class with a super pretty braid🥰
Omg I’m jealous
@@agustloof5884 what the fuck
Ooo, that's sounds cool. I wouldn't like people playing with my hair. Sometimes I'm okay with it.
@@agustloof5884 I'm married and expecting a child....so no, no thanks.
In geometry me and the girl next to me would take turns, one fell asleep getting her hair played while the other learned the material, and then we'd switch , at the end we would do the work together to teach what the other had slept through
I can remember sitting in the library a bunch of times and two girls that would always sit behind me would always play with my hair and draw on my back. Probably some of the most intense tingles I've ever felt in my life. Im still in contact to this day with one of them and thats been almost 23 years ago.
I want this. That bond is so precious 😭
@@ilovesaiki8503 frr 😭😭
This is so cute 🥺💜💜
I was bullied and had my hair pulled so I get nervous when people have their hands on my hair.
However, this girl in my class was playing with my hair and was complimenting it. She didn’t yank it as a joke or belittle me. She braided it and made it look so pretty. Too bad I didn’t catch her name. I hope she’s doing well now. It’s been almost 9 years and I appreciate her kindness towards my hair.
Aww :((
funny how people remember the most simple things, a small gesture can stick with you your whole life
@@beeshoney. I know. I hope she's doing well.
i had the same experience there was like one girl that would come up and braid my hair while all the other ones would like run away. i really should have become best friends w her.
Same! A girl in my class always played with my hair to make it soft so it was harder to pull, I also had adhd so I felt safe and knew I could focus
There’s a special place in heaven for the “can I play with ur hair?” Girls🥺💓
God I love them!
i appreciate u girlie, this girl looked really tense so i scratched her back and played with her hair
edit: in primary school, me and my friends would sit and make a chain. i always was in the back tho so i wouldn’t rlly feel the love but it’s okay! playing with someone’s hair also helps me lol
or the girls that just play with your hair and you don’t say anything or move bc you don’t want them to stop🙃
I'm one of them tysm ❤❤
Oml…I love it when someone plays with my hair like it just feels amazing 💅
she’s like the girl in high school that i wouldn’t be able to tell if i wanted to be her or be with her
The answer is both
If that isn't me idk what is-
Be with her
be with her
def be with her tho
This reminds me of a high school friend I had who’d lightly scratch my back w her acrylics, she was funny and knew good gossip just like this video. Good memories :,)
I was the girl who was asked to play with people's hair and trace patterns on their backs. Sometimes they would even fall asleep. I was never on the receiving end of it but I'm glad people liked it as much as they did.
I was the girl was braided hair and I remember many time the girls I admired would come up to me randomly and start playing with my hair. It was so nice and I love those memories
I want to say thank you on behalf of all those people. You seem like a very kind person. The world needs more of you. ❤
@@veesha4ever I would have braided ur hair don’t worry :)
@@veesha4ever you’re welcome, it’s so calming to have your hair played with. I just remember feeling so tired after recess and my friends would always braid my hair. I would return the favor because it made me happy to know they could just relax 💗
Bless yall's souls for giving people these wonderful, safe and comforting experiences with genuine human interaction, we appreciate you
I remember one time in first grade when all of the class sat down on a rug and listened to the teacher read. My teacher would read in a light and really soft voice, which was so relaxing. Then, my friend would always play with my hair and trace my back/neck. That combine with the teachers voice was soooo nice, and this video reminds me of that ❤️
Ikr
I cant be the only one that in primary school i would pretend not noticing that someone from behind was playing with my hair so they wouldn’t stop 😭
Same
And if thet know you know then there like oh sorry I`ll stop
Bro for real, I swear to God if I moved a muscle they would actually stop! 😩
Yessss
Faço isso ate hoje
same😭
I dealt with a lot of abuse growing up, and I’m autistic, so I struggled to socialize and figure out when someone was actually being nice, or just making fun of me. But there was a boy in my second grade class who always would sit behind me wherever we were and would play with and brush out my hair. He never made it look weird or or did anything bad to me, and I’ll always be grateful for that little nugget of kindness.
Tangerine Davis That sounds super relaxing!😊
I'm really happy to hear that, friend. I hope life [is getting/will get] easier for you with the passage of time.
That sounds very relaxing I feel bad that you dealt with abuse I hope you have a good day/ night/afternoon
i think im that boy lol (not really) but i love to play with one of my friends that is a girl's hair and i like to braid her hair everyday and by now i dont even have to ask her she just lets me
Its been a year, but im autistic and struggling with bullying but i have a friend whos nice and i hope you’re doing well
As a kid in kindergarten I loved the amount of lice outbreaks we'd have at our school since I loved the feeling of popsicle sticks and gloved hands being gently touched and rubbed through my fine hair... always gave me the tingles, thanks for helping me find that feeling again.
I thought you were gonna say "thank you for helping me find the lice"😭😭😭💀
@@mahatawfeek2532 yeah, I never got lice at school. My class was overly hygienic
I was always the kid with the most lice. I havent had it for 10 years though gladly! (I'm 13-18.)
*THANK GOD!* I thought I was the only one!
@@MiAmor-- FEAR NOT! There are weirdos like us everywhere XD
As a child I had been sexually assaulted and I was extremely scared of people touching me but there was this one boy in class that would always play with my hair and I remember teaching him how to do braids and hair do’s and all sorts of stuff. Tbh I liked him so much sometimes I’d purposely not do my hair so he could braid it or put it in a pony tail :)
Aww, this is so cute. 😍
Pleas tell me y’all dated!!
THATS CUTE
@@CS55CL16 I wish!!!
I hope you are doing okay now!
High school would have been a lot easier if I had a friend like this.
Are you still in high school? Cause I have a question
@@lennygriffin2761 I’m not I’m 22 lol
@@haylax8767 cool lol
Same
how would you even be able to though? when I used to do it, it was during carpet time in elementary but high school doesn’t have that.
My sophomore year I sat in front of a guy with adhd and whenever it started acting up he would draw shapes on my back with his fingers and he’d play with and braid my hair. It was a win/win for both of us Bc it’d help him stay calm and it’d relax me
Omg i love it
that's so cool
I want this tbh, like I have ways to cope/relax in class but damn do I want to be able to draw or braid someone's hair, I just don't know anyone so it's damn awkward
@@tessace4884 just do it 🥰
Symbiotic relationships are so cool! Especially when its two humans and not two animal species :>
!! TIME STAMPS FOR YOU!! !!
Introduction, small talk. 0:00 - 1:12
playing with your hair, talking to you. 1:13 - 4:43
whispering, telling you a secret. 4:44 - 4:58
continue playing with your hair, talking to each other. 4:59 - 6:51
Tapping on wooden brush, brushing your hair, talking. 6:52 - 9:26
Playing with your hair again, chit chatting. 9:27 - 10:28
Touching your face, writing on your face, touching your hair. 10:29 - 14:36
Back to playing with your hair. 14:37 - 19:49
Getting something out of your hair / eye. 19:50 - 21:34
Playing with your hair, tapping. 21:35 - 24:02
Tapping on the glasses, talking. 24:03 - 24:44
Playing with your hair, outro. 24:45 - 27:42
Thank you!!
U a real one, g!
Thank you!
Tysm
you did so close to the moment it actually starts without editing this i’m so impressed like i could never
Not a story about someone playing with my hair but remembering it gives me that relaxed feeling:
Before christmas break, we watched a movie in class and everyone was supposed to bring snacks that we shared. A guy sitting in the row in front of me turned around and started telling me about the filled chocolates he brought and he got so excited about their taste which was already really cute. Then he was like "Have you had one yet? You have to try them, they're so good" and just gave them to me as if we were close friends. Not only did he await my reaction ("they're really tasty, right?!", he also immediately offered me more. All of this while his back was turned to the screen and he was missing out on the movie. I just really enjoyed that he was radiating with happiness and really seemed to care about my opinion in that moment, just a nice personal attention moment :)
If you've read all of this, have a nice day, you deserve the world ♡
That's so cute 🥰
That's so sweet 🥰
This is so cute. Ppl being excited about little things is adorable.
Aww i think he was in love with u XDD 💖
@@tavusfatma2125 Pretty sure he already had a girlfriend back then so he was just kind haha :D
Playing with my girlfriend's hair was the ultimate means of calming myself down and showing her that she was everything to me.
Playing with hair is the sweetest thing to do in a relationship I swear-
This is so sweet you made me smile just knowing how happy you guys are
omg 🥺🥺
dont write such thing like girlfriends and relationships...because it hurt me...I don't have any girl friend....
@@asmr-ft6pw oof
When I’d get drunk, I had a friend who would play with my hair and then braid it. She passed away 2 days before you posted this. Thank you 💕
Sorry for your loss I’m hoping this video helped. Sending all my love your way❤️
I’m really really sorry to hear about your loss. I know that’s not easy. But you’ll keep her alive forever with the memory of her braiding your hair, that’ll forever stay.✨♥️
Sorry for you loss. Hold those memories close. Sending lots of love and support💖
Im so sorry for your loss, sending my condolences 💙
God bless her soul~
I had my first tingle in kindergarten. My friend and I were seated on top of the monkey bar. I laid my head on her lap and she started playing with my hair. I felt a sensation that went through body starting from the top of my head right down to my toes. The bell rang because recess was over yet I couldn’t get myself to move out of that position it felt so nostalgic like it has happened before. My whole life I was searching for that feeling again. Years later I got the exact same feeling but this time from an asmr video.
My mom would always play with my hair and scratch my scalp, especially after a long stressful day. While doing this she would whisper a prayer and sing to me. And it would calm me down and make me sleepy, she passed away on Mother’s Day last year. Thank you!
Sorry to hear about your loss ♥︎
Awe so sorry for your loss, ur mother seemed like a such a great person 💋💋
rip your mother, she seemed like an amazing, beautiful soul🫶🫶
hopefully she’s enjoying a peaceful afterlife ❤
Not all of us missing “carpet time” when everyone would trace your back and play with your hair🤌
I Dont miss those moments, the girls and boys would always yank my hair and blame it on someone else , to the point it changed into a literal disaster🥲
@@xiaoc0re12 aw shit you got the short end of the stick, girls would ask to braid my hair and I felt so special
same ugh
It really depended on if it was my cousin or not behind me. I had trust issues as I turned around 4-5 cause I lost my dog and it was a lot for me(knew him from when I born) so if it wasn't my cousin. Like any little kid, I'd start crying and throw a fit. We're still pretty close now, we're both 13, turning 14 this year. We have a cousin who's 10, turning 11 this year who pretends to be an opera singer when her hair gets brushed by our cousin. And they're two of the only people I let play with my hair, even to today.
(Along with three of my aunts and two of my friends)
@@xiaoc0re12 same people used to try and cut my hair😭
I was at a bar one night and this girl started playing with/braiding my hair. She said it was pretty. I felt kind of awkward so I started to chit chat, but she said "shhhh just enjoy it!" Yes ma'am! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 it was so nice and unexpected.
My coworker and I used to do this to each other. A few times every shift we would just walk up and gently pull and scratch each other's hair for a minute or two. It was great working with her.
This is so sweet ♡
Aww ❤︎ thats so wholesome
That's cute
Aqw
I had this one friend who knew rubbing my back softly was my literal off-button and she'd do it to me every day without complaining or getting tired for hours- she'd also play with my hair sometimes and it was pure therapy. people like that are amazing
I had a girl in my class who would go half way across the class in the middle of class to play with my hair, it was actually really calming and I loved it. Thanks for bringing that feeling back :)
awwe that’s so wholesome
I used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it, i was afraid that they didnt or thought that was creepy cuz im a guy
You’d be having a relaxing time with your friend playing with your hair then the teacher would stop them and say something like “this isn’t a hair salon!” 😂
I had a teacher that would say that but I also had a teacher that would help the girls with their hair if they came to class early enough
@@lazylemonislazy5956 me too😄
Right like? Stfu😭 y did they all say the same thing
@@lazylemonislazy5956 that’s so sweet that they’d help with girls hair :)
@@LivingWithLanss exactly they’d act like it was so distracting like carry on teaching jeez 😂
Did anyone else just love the tingly feeling when people would play with your hair or was that just me?
Nope, I rly enjoy people playing with my hair, and the best thing about it is that the teacher didn’t care :D
Btw I’m a Bakugou simp too!
I loved getting my hair played with but I'm in highschool now you'll get in trouble if you do that
when I was in elementary school girls would play with my hair, I loved it. At that time if my mom was out of town and my dad drove me to school my hair would be trash, but ofc my girls would take care of me lol 😭👌
Yeah it's just one of the best feeling ever
idk why but everytime someone touches stuff around me and especially touches me accidentally (depends on the person who is touching me though) it gives me the best feeling of tingles ever
I remember this one neurodivergent kid that most people thought was annoying and weird but girls noticed he liked playing with their hair and they became chill with him because of it. Such a natural human interaction.
Every time my friend gets new acrylics, she shows them to me, and then says “check this out” and scratches my scalp and styles/plays with my hair and says how it reminds her of her mom’s hair (brown, fluffy, and curly) and it’s my favorite thing ever 🥰 and when she hugs me she sometimes scratches my back lightly to see if I find it relaxing (I do). My mom used to do stuff like this for me but stopped when I was really young so it’s always nice to find the people like this that want to see you happy/comforted :)
Fr! It’s so sweet. There’s this one girl in my class who is so nice to me. Most ppl are nice to me, but this is a different kind of nice. I don’t know how to describe it but it’s like she’s taking “treat ppl how you want to be treated” to a whole new level.
Play with your mom's hair, or remind her you liked it. We are primates after all. Those little grooming things are special. :)
such a great friendship!
This video is so Nostalgic for me. When I was in high school I was quiet and shy. Overall quite depressed as well. One of the popular girls in my class sat behind me one year and asked if she could play with my hair. Every time we had that class she would braid it or comb it for me. She always said kind things to me and helped me feel included in such small ways. I will never forget that kindness and how relaxed she would help me feel for that one hour. Such a small amount of time to effect someone. Remember you can always have an impact in someone's life even if it's in small moments. Choose to be kind. Thank you for this video! I am now subscribed!
what a lovely story and message! i hope you’re doing okay now
Well said!
i’m very late but i hope you are ok now! you are loved❤
this was so sweet
Dont believe u for a second
So many lovely stories in the comments!
When I was a teenager I worked in the hair salon and washed people's hair. When I told people that's what I do, they would say 'isn't that gross?' but it wasn't to me. It was really special giving people that moment out of their day where they can just close their eyes and enjoy warmth and touch in a safe environment. A lot of older ladies came in very frequently (once a week or more) to get their hair done and I felt so happy to give them a calming, caring experience. It felt like I was a therapist really helping people. I think almost every person likes getting a nice calming hair wash at the salon 😊❤
That's my favorite part! I love it!
You’re so sweet omg ❤️ you sound so lovely
I have sensory issues with water because of my eczema flair ups and in middle school my mom would take me to the salon a couple times a week to get my hair washed. It was always the most relaxing experience to zone out / felt like a safe space. Appreciate people like you doing that job!
I'm gonna cry you're so sweet😭😭❤
I wish I could get my hair washed like that more often 😩 especially when they got long nails 🤤
This has been one of the most relaxing times I’ve felt in a while and I’ve needed it. This comment section has been so calming to read so here’s my story. I have always felt like im 2nd. I don’t have a best friend but I have lots of friends and I’m pretty much always the back up friend. I love to scratch people backs and play with their hair but nobody would do it for me. I used to cry about this cause I thought something was wrong with me cause nobody would braid my hair. I’ve been watching these videos recently and it has brought me back to those times but made me so relaxed. Thank you to everyone and have a good day. 🫶
ur the best person in the world for playing w people's hair. Thank you ᥫ᭡
I have thick, long, and soft hair so the girls and the gays at my highschool loved playing with my hair. In my theatre class I had a guy sit behind me and everytime we read plays, he would either play with my hair or draw on my back with the eraser on his pencil or we would play a game called “guess what im drawing” on my arm. It was both funny and relaxing. We would also get detention for not following along the script and the funniest part is we did the same thing in detention. We usually rehearsed our lines while he played with me hair during that time. As two gays not wanting to be in our toxic household, we lived for detention together. I miss him 😪
The gaysss!!! Yasss thats me 🙋🏻♂️! Lol Give me that hair! Tomorrow we switching desks and you drawing on my back lol I always say Dog is mans best friend. Gays are woman’s best friend lol I miss the girl that was in my biology class. Krystal Rainwater. Best back tickler in the tristate area lol
I loved the "guys what I'm drawing" game! It was so relaxing, but it was fun trying to figure out what they were drawing.
Aww you’re so pretty
@@graceingersoll1124 aww thank you 🥺🥺 so are you 💕
@@Goldun-nah LOLLL i love how we gays always gravitate towards eachother. I love it!!
In my school we loved “drawing on peoples backs” with our hands we would pretend to lightly draw a picture on someone’s back. It felt soooo good 😩
omg yes and sometimes we would try and guess what we were drawing on each other’s backs it was so peaceful
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We did that all the time! It was my favorite game all the way through elementary school and in middle school gym class
We never did that in my school tbh, I’m in 16 and in college now
I have hair that’s naturally soft and I always get compliments on it. It’s one of the only features I like about myself. In elementary school i legit had to divide my hair up for 10 different girls and boys to play with. Thank you for bringing that amazing special feeling back that I haven’t felt in a while :)
Is your hair still soft
@@peachywe4310 yeah it is 😅
@@charisweber698 let me play with it then 🙏🏻
touching hair after a compliment is a way to prevent mal de ojo! probably why your hair is still so soft even with people who envy you :)
@@beatrizp.videos ok bet lmao
"I don't know if I should tell you, but I'm going to tell you okay?"
No, but in all seriousness, this type of person in the back of the class in public school- God, they were amazing. The back scratching and hair playing and drawing on me, I loved it all so much for no reason. Well, it made me feel safe. It's so nice to feel that again. Thank you. Truly
We all need God
This makes me miss the boy I sat with on the bus who liked braiding my hair. I started keeping a brush and extra hair bands in my backpack just for him. It was one of the best parts of the day for those years.
I was that boy lol. Growing up with three sisters helped to know how to braid. I used to love braiding their hair when they didn't want to do it themselves or let them do makeup on me but other guys would tease me. 😂
@@CS-nt6yj W
I was one of those boys lol imma gay hairstylist now 💅🏻 thanks girlfriends for all the practice!!!! I was known for being able to do multiple style updos with just two pencils lol also I was the only one who knew how to fishtail braid lol
@@Goldun-nah that’s actually so cool
@@Goldun-nah you would’ve been my best friend holy shit
this makes me think of this teaching assistant in my primary school. she was the loveliest lady ever and always made me laugh. i think she knew i had anxiety before i even realised myself and she used to call me cute nicknames and do my hair everyday. even during our first aid training, everyone had partners but my friends all left me so she said she’d be my partner. she died last year really suddenly of cancer and i didn’t even know until i read it in my local newspaper. it was truly heartbreaking and i have no doubt she changed many kids lives with her warm personality🥺
thank you mrs g🤍
edit: just want to say thank you for all the love people are giving. it’s her family who suffered the biggest loss and i hope they’re all doing better since! i appreciate these messages very much. it’s very sweet🤍
She sounds like a dear person.
@@apushkal she really was
teachers like that stay with you forever. how lovely you got to meet her. RIP 🤍
She didn’t deserve to die, she sounds like a really nice and kind person who had a kind heart
Hol up so she died last year could be related to Betty white?? Ig we will nevea know
I used to have long skater boy hair in middle school I only kinda knew the girl that sat behind me, but one day she started playing with my hair, and I slowly turned to the side just to look at her and she immediately stopped and said sorry and I was like “ohh no, it’s ok.” But my brain was like “don’t stop.” The tingles we’re amazing!
This is so sweet!
In those moments you have to never move because the moment you do they always stop and don’t start again 😭😭
@@AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur you're experienced I can tell 😭😭
@@AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur had to do the repeated hair flick to hint at them to continue
I’m really happy with hearing everyone’s stories, I think it’s really amazing you guys have all of these experiences, I don’t know it just gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside of my stomach like when you drink warm hot chocolate and it’s just the right temperature
I agree 🤍🤍
I use to have long hair back in elementary school and there were these two girls who loved playing with my hair. They would split it in half and play with it while the teacher was reading in class, making a chain of girls doing each other's hair, all I remember was the sense of comfort and relaxation I felt when they did this. We always got in trouble for doing this tho...
All these comments are so touching, like I’m actually tearing up. Ever since 1st grade I can remember no one ever wanting to talk to me or interact with me so these stories are so sweet to imagine, it gives me a warm feeling. now I’m a sophomore in college & i hope I can be this type of friend for people to confide in. I love playing with hair also 🖤
I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it. I loved doing that for shure and i miss playing with long hair
I am raising my children to love and befriend the children like you and I'm sorry no one was there for you when you needed them to be. If we could go back in time I'd hug you.
i am sorry
*sending you tons of back scratches and patterns + scalp and hair tingles :) ❤
I know that feeling. My school went from kinder-12th and I left for 4th and 5th grades but figured I would have friends when I came back. I was so wrong, all the people I thought had been my friends in 3rd grade was definitely not my friends in 6th. The first day of 7th I spotted a new kid who I was determined to make friends with because no one deserved to feel alone and unwanted like I had the year before. I proudly call her my sister now as after several family tragedies after we both turned 18 we adopted her as part of our family. My family is also currently the only people who knows she moved out of state and where she is as no-one’s in her bio-family knows.
As a massage therapist my favorite thing to do is do scalp massage on my clients/brush through their hair gently with my fingers. They almost always immediately go to sleep and it makes me sleepy too.
One of my friends in high school played with my hair every day in Spanish class and I would fight to stay awake lol I miss her
A few months ago, a girl in my class at the end of the day braided my hair and that is probably the most relaxed I’ve felt at school ever (I was the quiet kid so no one really talked to me, so it was really nice to have someone pay attention to me for once ☺️)
That is nice to hear but the feeling when someone goes through your hair. Damn
Your one of the lucky quite kids I'm the quite kid at my school and not even the teacher knows I'm there most of the time
@@kazuyamiyuki7061 im more of a hyper extrovert these days so i tend to scout out quiet kids and play with them. everytime without fail they will let me play with their hair and talk to them, show them videos, etc. its a great feeling giving those people someone to spend a little time with during school when their sitting all by themselves. i used to be just like that (still can be) and remember how lonely it felt and wishing someone would just come up to me lol
@@stixxie569 Trust me the lonely kids appreciate it so much. It's like this painful feeling in your chest watching everyone else with friends. And then that one person that shows up outta no where will make their whole year. Trust me they probably still think about you when their lonely again. I remember when I was in animal science in middle school and this one girl grapped my hand outta no where and dragged me to her table to do a group project. It was a crappy project but I had so much fun making it. I didn't she her after that anymore but she really made an impact on me. So what your doing now is helping those people thank you😊
This is the kind of experience I wish I had when I was a kid. People are sharing their stories and it comforts me to think that they had this experience, among many that I had yet to even comprehend. Growing up homeschooled I was shut in 24-7, my parents weren’t rich so doing things always felt like a burden to me. I only had my siblings who were toxic and sexually abusive, I wish I had friends who could encourage and comfort me. That I could be open with. Being an adult and moving out at my first chance was the best thing I did, now having friends to be open with and play with each other’s hair. I feel like I’m much younger than I am (I’m 21) as if I was 15 instead. Never take the small experiences or memories for granted if you have them, even if there were only a few for myself. There is good in every situation, you just need to hold on to them and keep moving forward 💜
This is so underrated
I love what you said at the end and I'm sorry for your previous years, I hope you are doing OK and and healing.
@@diamondheart0723 thank you, I think I am ^^ I love this community. Who know the realist and kindest people were in the ASMR community!
I feel really bad but not in pity but as in I wish you never had to go through that as a child and or teen.
I was homeschooled as well from 2nd grade to 12th. My issues are mostly from emotional and mental neglect, so I totally understand feeling younger than you are. When I'm stressed, my mental age drops down to about six or seven and I have to be very careful to not melt down in public.
I have friends and a couple coworkers who know and support me, so I'm getting better I think.
You're not alone 🙂
When I was in Year 5, a girl who sat next to me absolutely ADORDED playing and ‘combing’ my hair with her fingers. There was also another girl, who really likes doing my hair, even now. She started in Year 4 and we went to the same secondary together and she still loves to. It was so relaxing, I almost fell asleep in school! Now all I need her to do is come over, plait (she has loads of braids in) and do my hair, whilst listening to your asmr! Heaven ✨
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*I am the chosen one*
Question like this, are you like from Canada or something like this? You really give me Canadian or Quebecer vibes😅 (coming from a Canadian-Quebecer)
@@piqachuLol
And then this moment gets ruined by that one teacher who is like “ItS nOt A BeAuTy SaLoN GiRls”
But it’s not tho
@@Rangerapocalypse like no shit we know that
Exactly
Why did everyones teacher say this wut the hell
@@Rangerapocalypse some enjoy the sensation, though lmao
This is my comfort video- can’t stop coming back. The hairplay is and gossip sooo tingly
the girls that played with the hair and did the back scratching are the real ones 😭 it always made me feel so nice and safe
Im a boy but i used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in middle school haha i just loved doing that its nice to know that girls enjoy it too
omg i bring a brush now just for this one girl in my history class 😖
@@juliaa6919 haha i never went this far to bring a hairbrush just for her
Yeah I actually I was okay with it, cause it felt real good!
FRR AND THIS GIRL IN MY CLASS WOULD ALSO SCRATCH MY HAIR TOO
These comments are so wholesome omg. I love playing with peoples hair or people playing with mine, I find it super relaxing. Nothings nicer than watching someone’s face relax with a content smile while you play with their hair
I absolutely adore hair play/hair brushing triggers so this videos is right up my alley! Perfect timing for the nap I’m about to take lol! Thank you so much Eda! Much love and hugs to you and yours 🤍✨
So good and same
Me tooo 😊
Do you watch tingting asmr?? She has 3 different 3 hour videos of hair related asmr. I keep them on rotation lol
I wanted to add my story too!
So my friends are mostly boys who have a lot of GFS but never keep one and stuff,so I do the cuddly stuff with them,hugging and combing their messy hair,and they do the same with me! It's a really chill experience for us the chaotic children in the classroom
It was really wholesome, then I read "chaotic children" and Instantantly died of laughter 😂
Hey!! My sis has been diagnosed with idiopathic hyper somnia! Which means she goes without sleep for 24 to 48 hours! I told her to listen to asmr and I made her listen to you! She got her first 5 hours of sleep in 2 days and she loved it! So I make her listen to your asmr every night, and it really helps her get sleep atleast every 3 days, thank you :)
Edit: I didn’t post this to get like but to just say thank you to Eda
But thanks for the like :D it’s the most I have gotten :’)
I show my sister the like she gets everyday and she wanted to say thank you to you all too :)
We got it to 1k! :D sister says thanks ^^
Info: this is a bit more info on the disorder my sister has. So basically what I mean is even if she gets a full nights sleep she feels like she has had no sleep whatsoever, she gets really tired because of that and has a hard time sleeping at night, so she goes without sleep for 3 - 4 days. So basically my sis already feels like she’s tired even when she is sleeping and on top of that she can’t sleep, so asmr helps her calm down. I just wanted to tell you guys that’s because, some of you in the replies have been stating that they go without sleep for 3 - 4 days too, I’m not stating that you guys are lying, but my sister’s case is a bit different :) thank you for all the love and support :) good night!
😭 I’m so happy it helps ❤️ big hugs to both of you
Ty!
If you don’t mind? Can I ask you a request please?
Can you do a video for people who are deaf/hard of hearing?
Maybe like some visual triggers and stuff like that!
I’m sure they’ll love it ^^
Only if your comfortable with it though!
-much love, a random person
@god's follower hope you slept well :D
Ooo, that's scary. All though, I feel like I already do that without any disease/disorder (I'm probably wrong). Well, is anyone else like obsessed with their device to the point where they think about it at night? I have that. And even though I sleep the normal 8 hours (I sometimes get up to play), I still think about it.
@@Libraryaccount2024 I used to be thinking of wanting to watch coco melon at night…
That does count lol-
Everyone: *sharing their experiences*
Me: *fails to remember the last time someone played with my hair and relaxed me apart from my hairdresser*
no cause same haha
Yep although I hated school and was bullied horribly all the way through so it’s not surprising that I didn’t have this experience!
Same lol,only reason I pay money to get my hair done
Back in school, it was basically a rule that you couldn’t touch others unless you were family, so I never had my hair played with. The only person who did play with it was my father and he was…rough. I remember trying to keep in my tears because it hurt😞
*aggressively sits you all down* I AM GONNA PLAY WITH YOUR HAIR AND YOU ARE GONNA LIKE IT!!!
When I went to a psych ward, my roomate would touch and braid my hair every night before going to sleep. It was hard to sleep at that ward but shed help me calm down and sleep by touching my hair and giving me advice as a parent 🤗 I considered her as my mom there ❤
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No way! I have shorter hair, but when I was in a ward, all the girls loved to play with it and I felt so loved.
This is nostalgia and reminder for me, because ever since elementary, the first thing that caught people's attention about me (besides my weird personality) was my hair. A lot of my friends played with my hair, most of the time when we had freetime in class or on the bus. I was bullied so I had trust issues and my anxiety spiked whenever people approached me asking me about my looks, as I was majorly insecure about it. But my friends made me feel at ease whenever they just braided my hair or something like that. So nice video, brings back happy memories.
Not only playing with hair, but there’s also the universal experience of asking around for a hair tie after doing someone’s hair/ your own hair because you forgot one
this is how me and one of my good friends became friends 😂 I was sitting in the back of science with her and I asked her if she had a spare bobble and it got us talking, we don’t speak as much now but I know she’s still there
In first grade there was a girl that would play with my hair during “carpet time” but our teacher always got super mad and made them stop. I always felt so special that a peer would want to play with my hair or trace my back because I was really shy and had undiagnosed anxiety and idk it was just heaven for me. The tingles and also feeling accepted was amazing. I hated when my teacher yelled at us for it because it felt like one of the only moments I could relax as a kid
THIS!!
Why do teachers always get mad about it 😭
“this isn’t a hairdressers 😠😠”
The comment RIGHT ABOVE THIS ONE was a girl saying they use to trace on peoples backs during "carpet time" coincidence? Probably :)
This took me back to freshman or sophomore year this wonderful girl used to play with my hair and would someone gently scratch my scalp or take out a brush and brush it. She’d also take her scissors out and just gently cut the splitting pieces. I really adored her and think of her often and wish her the best💕
Dang that was full service 😂 scissors too
@@JadedForAlways yea a whole hair salon going during class 😂
this is calming to me. The hair noises and whispering tingles my brain. I’ve heard people whisper to me instead of yell but its rare. And me and my ex friend aren’t friends anymore so I’ve been randomly crying. Its hard shutting off my emotions. So thank you for making this
Literally just woke up, perfect 4am vice to put me back to sleep
Perfect, sleep well❤
lol me too 😭
Me too though- 😭🖐🏻
This reminds me of my friend from kindergarten, we literally used to have this routine where every time it was time to go to the carpet one of us would sit behind the other and play/stroke with the others hair and do faint back scratchers. Unfortunately I had to transfer but man I will never forgot her :)
y'all see each other again. what do you do?
I keep seeing comments like this one referencing going to the carpet? Is this an American thing? What does it mean 😂
@@chemical93girl going to the carpet means that like if the teacher was telling a story or something we'd all sit at the carpet. Since we sit there for pretty much an hour or so I guess we eventually just end up playing with each other's hair. But this would usually be like in pre k-3rd grade. I dont really know how they do it in other countries though so Idk if it's an American thing
@@txbioq1437 oh that makes sense haha, thank you! so wholesome
I loved when my grand daughter played beauty shop with me. Tender hands without even knowing it, so relaxing. My hairdresser had the knack of relaxing me when she worked on my hair. I found it to be therapeutic.
I could literally watch hours of you just writing on the iPad, gossiping about fake high schoolers, and playing with my hair besties
Same!Its so relaxing!😭
Blessing to all the people who played with someone's hair/back and made them relax bc y'all literally made school tolerable and safe 😭💕
girlie u don’t need to thank us, it’s also a way i cope with being anxious :)
In third grade, on a carpet, we listened to stories. Then these girls started playing with my hair, but only for a few seconds. Those few seconds they did was pure heaven tho 😇😩
Edit: TYSM FOR THE LIKES!!!!! It’s the most I’ve ever gotten!
Same here and drawing on my back. I used to have two girls that would always sit behind me when we had story time or movie time. They always wrote on my back and played with my hair since I was the only guy with longer hair. Thats been 23 years ago lol
@@Enough_Tumbleweed ooh that sounds nice
@Liliana Friberg lol
@@Cocoonlaughs_videos definitely the most intense tingles ive ever had physically induced. Now its practically all visual on here unless im getting my hair trimmed.
@@Enough_Tumbleweed yea I can’t imagine those tingles 😫✨
These girls were always so kind and literally made my whole day better 😫
I wish I had a girl like you sitting behind me playing with my hair during my school days
Same 😫
One of the football players in highschool use to play with my hair in class and when the teacher would say to pay attention he would tell them he couldn't stop touching my hair because it was so soft. The whole time he would quietly say to me how pretty my hair was. It would put myself in such a good mood.
Haha im a guy and i played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class too, but i never said anything, neither they did. So i just Hope they liked it as much as i did lol
same
Best feeling ever 😊
Wow nice humblebrag 🙄
@@pizza_pizza_pizza6383 just sharing my experience that relates to the video like everyone else on here. Which part of my experience triggered you?
@Britt Borges the part where you humblebragged maybe?? Thought that was obvious?
I've always had a fairly long hair and is often complimented of how soft it feels xD. Naturally, girls in my class would ask me if they could play with it. But there was this one guy who was seated behind me and would play with my hair for literally *the whole hour* it felt weirdly nice and tingly but he'd apologize afterwards, saying how he couldn't resist touching my hair lmao (started to like him afterwards too :'> )
thats so cute !!
Hahaha that would be totaly me
I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school. I never asked but they never complained so i guess they liked it 😁
I loved doing it for shure and i really miss it
my motivation to grow out my hair:
U living the Wattpad life gurlll
that’s cute asf
I love how open everyone is being. The comments pass the vibe check as they say lol!
I've never trusted many people, I don't like to be touched. I see a lot of people say its due to their childhood trauma but I can't really say if I had trauma or not, I don't think so, but sometimes when I remember things I think maybe they meant more to me than I've told myself they do.
I remember in middle school one girl would brag she knew the best way to calm people, she would run her finger down the middle of peoples backs. She did it to me once but she did it when I was off guard because she knew I didn't like being touched and made me jump lol! It did feel nice though. She kept asking "But it was nice wasn't it?" but I was afraid if I admitted it the other teens would make fun of me. I had issues with a guy and his best friends were stuck to her like magnets but she was always pulling me in I think specifically because I wouldn't give in to her "magic" hands lol!
However, I was actually more relaxed in HS I had study hall with 2 girls and that was like it, just 3-4 people in the whole room. I would sit next to one girl, then the other girl would play with her hair. I really didn't want to be touched by people I wasn't fully comfortable with.
I really only let my mom and dad do anything to my hair. (My dad knew like every braid imaginable, my mom would just brush it lol)
This is 2 years later and I still love this and the comment section in the best😂
Isn’t it wild how everyone relates? It reminds me of when i visit our small town in the countryside and have my little cousins playing with my hair, i look forward to that every year
Lol i always played with long hair of my female friends in class. I never knew that girls like it so much i did it cuz i loved playing with long thick hair. Im so happy that this goes both ways lol
I really miss those times
@@akrosky5720 it’s super relaxing and tingly
@@justlola5651 playing with it is also very relaxing haha i love how soft it feels
her: "so, is your hair naturally straight?"
me who is black and have naturally curly hair: "Uhh sure!"
Random fact that was my discord pfp
She did a curly hair video! ^^
me
This made me laugh. Thank you so much
Or when I have braids
Random girl:is that your real hair???
Me:yes…
As somebody with very long hair who loves having it touched, thank you for this
This is so cute qwq making me miss my long haired boyfriend
That is adorable, makes me feel fcking lonely lmao
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I have never gotten my hair played with, but I am constantly playing with my friends’ hair! In my classes I just play with whoever is sitting infront of me as long as they allow it ☺️. I also give massages after! I’m trying to make school enjoyable for other people but sometimes I wish people would do the same to me.
I would play with your hair any day if i know you haha. I used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in middle school. I really miss it cuz i loved doing it
Ask! I'm sure your friends would do it
I never had my hair played with really because I was SO paranoid about Lice(my school had kinder-12th grade) that I never left my hair down. especially after a girl in my class, who wasn’t part of my friends, and her younger siblings gave our entire school, including me, head lice. However I am kind of a tactile person and would scratch with my nails or draw with a pencil on people’s shoulders for the ASMR. I would let people do my makeup for me with my supplies which felt amazing and relaxing.
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I would if I was at your school
At this point I'm here both for the ASMR and for the juicy high school gossip. I was home schooled so I never experienced any of this, it sounds fun to sit in the back of the class with someone and talk shit on other people.
Dont worry ain't missing much going to highschool in the age of social media, it sucks completely. Before all that it was a great experience. I had the best time back in the day, for sure ain't nothing like it used to be though.
It differs for people, as a sophomore in high-school it's fun, I found my group of people and they make the experience more enjoyable for me, they all like playing with my hair ever since I shaved it all off lol
That does sound fun. I spent a little time in elementary school before home schooling was required and, though I was the weird kid I still had a couple of friends. It was great, I just wish I could have experienced more of that before being isolated.
I imagine it would be hard to socialize or even learn anything with everyone on their phones. But, back when I was in high school I really did crave friendship and I was bitter towards my parents for home schooling me against my will.
I relate I'm mostly here cause I miss going to school and just hearing the gossip makes being alone for 12 hours is making it better😔
This reminds me of primary school gym class! All the guys and girls were in separate rows sorted alphabetically all just sitting on the floor waiting to be assessed individually. I had (and still do!) Extremely long strawberry blonde hair and I remember all the girls behind me would practically fight over who got to braid my hair while we waited. It was always so relaxing and I always used to fall asleep!
As a person with really curly hair that would look frizzy and bad if it was played with or brushed, these videos are the only things keeping me relaxed
This brings back so many memories. When I was in elementary school i was the only redhead in my class and the girls loved to play with my hair during storytime. Good times. I think that's when i experienced my first tingles from ASMR.
This girl in my biology class we would switch desks every other day. One day I would play with her hair, the next day she would tickle my back neck and head with a closed pen. It literally was the best thing ever. That was in 2002… we are still great friends today. I can’t even remember the last time I’ve had someone do anything like that for me 😭😭😭 I’m 37 now. I just hope I can get someone to scratch/tickle my back and head just one more time before I’m bald headed and hunch backed 🤣
I heard about this place where you can pay for this. I forget the name tho.
Find a person with a kid. Make sure you vibe with both of them. Start babysitting the kid, especially at night, or on warm summer days. Voilà! Instant free best friend and/or best friend's kiddo(/your niece/nephew/sibling's nonbinary offspring) ASMR.
i feel like people who do these type of asmr must be so good with conversations, they always know what to say, even if it’s to nobody 😂
i love how everyone has stories with people playing with their hair and making them happy and it’s really sweet knowing i was one of those people playing with people’s hair and making them happy
In third grade during story time, all the girls would sit in a braid line and we would play with each other’s hair. It was very relaxing. Good memories :)
Massage and hair trains were the absolute best part of story time!! My friends and I used to do it at sleepovers while we watched movies and stuff too. I still LOVE having my hair played with, only now I have to pay my hairdresser to do it 😄😄
That’s what I did in first grade but I didn’t know how to Braid so I would always be in the front of the line we don’t do it anymore tho but when we did it felt so good 😊
Anddd that’s how I got lice 💀
@@Whattheflipisgoingonwith2024 omg nooo same here- me in middle school back then, not realizing those dangers 😔
@@lali3731 oh god yeah even wore when I couldn’t get rid of them and would just find 1 every few days or something and treated them but they didn’t go away for like 1 year and now my heads always itchy and I’m always paranoid lol
I have not been in school since 1998, but I absolutely had a girl like this in my class too! Thanks for the wonderful triggers, whispered conversations and hair play! Loved every second of it 💕
Me, 10 seconds in: Maybe this is a college class since she’s using an iPad to take notes 🤔
Me, 3 mins in: Nope, this is 100% high school drama lol
11:17 - 14:30 is the best part and for me most relaxing! Thank you, Eda 🥰❣❤