i don’t get people who vibe with someone but press the button anyway bc they’re “looking to see who else is there” 😭 like whaaaat 9/10 times you won’t find what you’re looking for 🤕
@@en2p187 There’s different interpretations of the 80/20 rule, but in this case it refers to the idea that women can have 80% of what they want and desire out of a man but are SO ENAMORED with the other 20% that they’ll discard the 80% to chase after the rest. There’s probably a better way to explain that but hopefully you get the idea.
bro people go on this show knowing damn well nothing will come out of it, THAT'S why they keep pressing 😂 just to get more screen time. Most people on this channel are tryna push their socials
She's pretty and seems nice but it felt like an interview 😅 she wouldnt follow up with questions and would get quiet once she answered questions. I mean, she did follow up with comments about the guy and the morgue, though
3:33 - He was waiting for her to say "and what's something that brings you joy?" back at him, or somehow contribute to the convo, and she just sat there waiting to be entertained.
I think it's good to show also the bad sides of dating, different perspectives. Not every time goes smoothly but it's part of the process, until you find someone you don't have any doubts about wanting to be with. Everyone's path is different :)
@@aqua-minayh well I think to make it less awkward they should give the pairs questions to ask each other rather than make them sit there awkwardly that's all im saying😅
@@khadijahbegum3546 when you date people in real life are you reaching for questions on a table? lol this is meant to happen as organically as possible with the "button" asking questions when necessary
pov : you discovered radiohead from social media and only listen to them because other people listen to them. go and listen to ariana grande thats the music you really enjoy
Amalia accusing the guy of "not giving her much" when all she does with every dude is answer their question and then just sit there. Come on, girl....BACK AND FORTH
Anita’s comeback line is dope! “It’s not you, it’s me”…but why?…”That’s what they say!”. Implying that’s what dudes always say…so she’s just replicating dudes’ response! Loved it! 😂
i think it was more “that’s what they say “ like in the movies 😂nobody says that irl that’s just something that was in old tv shows not something men do
@@dylangordon4064 i mean there’s always diversity in every button video. this one is just majority black people, if you want more diversity, just go watch the other videos.
Little bit sad to see guys laughing about the second guys because he doesn't seems to be used to talk one on one like that, he was not even looking at her. I think people forget that sometime people are different (in a good way) and are not necessarly good with social interaction.
i don't think they forget maybe you are seeing bad intentions that might not even be there. i'm awkward too and sometimes you just have to look back and laugh cause tbh it can get so ridiculous it becomes funny. and yeah sometimes people are mean but these are grown people like any other; they don't need anybody feeling sad for them
I do think that the "immediate" need to assuage a waiting group of peers makes all the interactions more dichotic and team based, leading to less venurability and 'real' moments. It is fun but by leaning into that aspect I just mind you that you're robbing another.
True. Everyone trying to act "cool" and "not interested" while in real life they'd never have such a girl/guy show any interest in them lmfao. They should not allow the group to watch these 1 on 1 interactions while they are waiting for their turn.
You KNOW the last guy doesn't even want a relationship. He heard cooter cat and was out there in a heartbeat. He doesn't want marriage if he reacted the way he did to the one girl saying she has tendencies to be controlling. This show is nuts lol
Here is an idea. Do any of these " umatched dates" match after the show. Like when they leave exchange numbers of their own volition and go on their own dates? would love to hear if it happened and how did it work out on a we didn't match update video .
I can only imagine the reason why someone who's shy and awkward would do this to themselves is it to improve upon that same quality. That or they're sadists.
"She hasn't even seen three people."😭😭💀
That was so funny to me because I said the same thing 😂
She technically did on the screen
@@darnelthomas484 fax
that's something i realised because of you@@darnelthomas484 . These people just want to see what the next person got...the surprise factor is gone.
Even the girls are like wtf is she talking bout 😂
I want to see a "where they are now" episode haha i want to see who actually went on the dates, stayed dating, ect
I doubt any of them ended up together.
I think about this all the time
THIS SHIT!!!!!! get on it, button!!
Button 2.0
Thisssss!!!!☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽
Amaliya telling Sean that he is not giving her much while not asking him a single question is just wow. Glad they kicked her out
Exactly!
Right, I was like, "ASK HIM THE SAME QUESTION BACK!"
SAME
Ikr. He literally paused and was like, "Are you going to ask me the same question back, or..." She's dry AF.
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to notice. 😉
anita looks like a model, she’s ABSOLUTELY stunning.
Bad personality tho
@@samueltheman3012what makes you say that??
@@althn she called a guy last video she wouldn't date him
Robin Givens vibes
Very pretty, butttt also she’s a Republican and was a dick in the last video so 🫨
i don’t get people who vibe with someone but press the button anyway bc they’re “looking to see who else is there” 😭 like whaaaat 9/10 times you won’t find what you’re looking for 🤕
Classic 80/20 rule.
@@firstsabinitewhich is?
@@en2p187 There’s different interpretations of the 80/20 rule, but in this case it refers to the idea that women can have 80% of what they want and desire out of a man but are SO ENAMORED with the other 20% that they’ll discard the 80% to chase after the rest.
There’s probably a better way to explain that but hopefully you get the idea.
bro people go on this show knowing damn well nothing will come out of it, THAT'S why they keep pressing 😂 just to get more screen time. Most people on this channel are tryna push their socials
@itsmj3103 THAT sounds right.
Amaliya says "You're not giving me much" , when she's literally dry AF. She doesn't even ask questions back. It's like talking to a wall.
She's pretty and seems nice but it felt like an interview 😅 she wouldnt follow up with questions and would get quiet once she answered questions. I mean, she did follow up with comments about the guy and the morgue, though
Exactly. Like talking to a will.
She's used to being hot and guys doing all the conversational work for her
@@AndNoted she's hot?
couldnt even ask the guy back the same question like get to know him too shit lol
4:50 Acting scared like he wasn’t just trying to press it 😂
i knowww. i’m surprised he didn’t get called out, the button usually doesn’t let that slide
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
But at 5:20 he didn't press it.
He for sure was gonna press it lmao.
HELP
Anita and the dude she pressed red on would’ve been the weirdest couple I’ve ever seen and it would’ve been so entertaining
I was suprised that he pressed the button cause she is like 8 levels above him
you guys should make one where the eliminated person picks who will replace them.
That's an awesome idea
4:50 give this men an oscar 💀
why
He was cleeeeearly about the slam that button
Yesssssss😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@bbkixCovered his ass by not pressing it when it went red😂
Smooth recovery 🙏🏼
I loveee Anita lol such a strong personality. She glows literally.
"You're not giving me much" while not doing ANYTHING for the conversation...... omg
Exactly, I hate the person you ask a question to and only answer, is it that hard to follow up with another question damn
she embodies online dating.
Remember, this is edited and alot it cut out. We don't really know how any of these dates really went.
7:03 Her voice is so beautiful 🤩 I could listen to her all day. If she doesn’t do audio books she should
She's the type of female that would lead a guy on and waste his time just to inflate her ego.
Anita is insane, please button make a video with her and Jesse
LMAOO
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING
PLEASE!!! IM BEGGING YOU!!!
loooool
😂😂
Idk but Anita has a glow, she has an aura!!
Aura of madness 😂 girl is crazy
3:33 - He was waiting for her to say "and what's something that brings you joy?" back at him, or somehow contribute to the convo, and she just sat there waiting to be entertained.
Why is this episode so awkward omg I wish there was like questions at least written on the tables for them to ask each other💀😭
I think it's good to show also the bad sides of dating, different perspectives. Not every time goes smoothly but it's part of the process, until you find someone you don't have any doubts about wanting to be with. Everyone's path is different :)
That’s what the button is for, giving them prompts and questions
@@aqua-minayh well I think to make it less awkward they should give the pairs questions to ask each other rather than make them sit there awkwardly that's all im saying😅
Yeah I think they edited this one to be even more awkward than usual 😂
@@khadijahbegum3546 when you date people in real life are you reaching for questions on a table? lol this is meant to happen as organically as possible with the "button" asking questions when necessary
Lady in blue is stunning, with that voice? Black Barbie.
The girl who picked a Radiohead song to describe her sex life is a fucking icon.
4:50 for the impatient
2:46 a prime example of how females don't care about male struggles.
@@OnepieceistheworstanimeBro even the men said "new subject"...
pov : you discovered radiohead from social media and only listen to them because other people listen to them. go and listen to ariana grande thats the music you really enjoy
@@Onepieceistheworstanimego watch anime and don't talk to people
Cut, the phrase is “he is wildin’.” Not “he is wowing.” You got this.
like literally what does he is wowing even meeeeaaaaannnnnnnn lmao
Anita’s a star - I hope y’all have her back here! What a fascinating woman
"She hasn't even seen 3 people" took me out 🤣😂
Anita's voice, looks: she is amazing 🌹
Amalia accusing the guy of "not giving her much" when all she does with every dude is answer their question and then just sit there. Come on, girl....BACK AND FORTH
that gunna question had me rolling lmaooo came outta nowhere
Everybody be awkward on this one
@@Luke_2828the autopsy guy was the one
@@alienmapping3536
Yea I was just gonna say. Heavy conversation for a speed date
I love the live feed, adds some fun to the awkward dates lol
Literally the worst part of this
Makes the dates more awkward
Makes it more entertaining. The format should stay
at this point, the words "vibe" & "energy" are just replacements for "you're ugly/weird & i can't tell you that."
its so vague and annoying
They should make a rule that you can’t rest your hands/arms on the table so it’s not so obvious they’re gonna press the button fast af. 🙄
Alright Nan 😂😂😂😂
The fact that at the end of the vid he rejected HER is actually insane to me
Amalia would be making me laugh just because she has that funny person energy 😂😂💯
To be fair, Amalia was not giving the guys anything either
literally she just sat there expecting the guys to say everything😭
Anita’s comeback line is dope! “It’s not you, it’s me”…but why?…”That’s what they say!”. Implying that’s what dudes always say…so she’s just replicating dudes’ response! Loved it! 😂
i think it was more “that’s what they say “ like in the movies 😂nobody says that irl that’s just something that was in old tv shows not something men do
Who hurt u
Isn’t it literally the opposite
And they refers to not men but people in general. It’s pretty easy to understand. It’s a commonly used phrase in movies.
@@hurehuren8628for real
blue lady was very interesting...
idk she gave me therapist vibes
I’m loving the new format, the casting, all of it
Some racial diversity would’ve been nice.
@@dylangordon4064 i mean there’s always diversity in every button video. this one is just majority black people, if you want more diversity, just go watch the other videos.
@@surislife it’s the reference of “new format and casting” is concerning, preference of race erasure is unfortunate.
@@dylangordon4064 uh…you’re reaching. nobody is supporting race erasure and there is no race erasure in this video.
@@dylangordon4064they’re so diverse do u even watch these videos ?
I love anita!! shes so pretty and funny too! This episode had me laughing
That handshake would keep me up at night
7:45
"it's not you, it's me"
"it's you?"
"... that's what they say"
Little bit sad to see guys laughing about the second guys because he doesn't seems to be used to talk one on one like that, he was not even looking at her. I think people forget that sometime people are different (in a good way) and are not necessarly good with social interaction.
He signed up for the show!😂
I hate it when you guys act like we have to feel bad for every awkward man in these videos
@@CB____this!
i don't think they forget maybe you are seeing bad intentions that might not even be there. i'm awkward too and sometimes you just have to look back and laugh cause tbh it can get so ridiculous it becomes funny. and yeah sometimes people are mean but these are grown people like any other; they don't need anybody feeling sad for them
@CB-xu7pn never say that, you do you, still think it's sad imo! 🤗
I need more of Anita. This episode had be cackling.
04:50 i can already see cody's reaction coming lol
“That’s what they say” had me 😂😂😂😂
anita is genuinely so funny
I LOVED the blue dress girls energy guy who pressed on her missing out
Anita def got a smoothing and sensual voice
I do think that the "immediate" need to assuage a waiting group of peers makes all the interactions more dichotic and team based, leading to less venurability and 'real' moments. It is fun but by leaning into that aspect I just mind you that you're robbing another.
Love this
True. Everyone trying to act "cool" and "not interested" while in real life they'd never have such a girl/guy show any interest in them lmfao. They should not allow the group to watch these 1 on 1 interactions while they are waiting for their turn.
Why the college diction 😭
Wtf are you even saying
It’s no different than knowing the video is going to be seen by thousands of people
This game is so telling of how we go into relationships with our guard up.
We aren’t taught any other way 😭
@@TheNinjapancake14We're all grown though... It's on us to let go of harmful patterns and teach ourselves new ones
@@The-Growroom You can't start the healing until you realize there's healing to be done
Random, but shoutouts to the audio design in this video. The way they faded out the crowd audio was rly clean 👍
I wish the episodes were longer. Please drop full episodes cause that would be a lot more entertaining imo
This is hands down the funniest episode they've ever put out 😂
talkin bout trauma meeting a baddie is krazy but I think he a cool/ interesting person tho
thats something I would do, like 5 years ago. and I aint even got trauma.
wow....this one is definitely one of the most painful/awkward episodes LOL
He lost her immediately once he mentioned her and morgan freeman lmaoo
Anita is a real one😂😂😂 funniest episode I’ve seen in awhile
You KNOW the last guy doesn't even want a relationship. He heard cooter cat and was out there in a heartbeat. He doesn't want marriage if he reacted the way he did to the one girl saying she has tendencies to be controlling. This show is nuts lol
Maybe he just doesn't like people who are overly sexual deviants
Lmao I love Anita and her voice is so soothing
chilling in the holding room live watching the show and talking with the other guys looks like it's way cooler than actually being on the show
anita is so cool, love her! she knows what she wants and i admire that.
perfectly illustrating how short we are with each other today. I mean damn, no one has the patience to get to know anyone anymore.
“He is wowing” No Nigga it’s “wildin” Cut be having me dead 🤣🤣🤣
Big dude is fresh outta barbershop, sharp AF, slaying that "cooter-cat" 😂
The button should be in reverse. Whoever clicks, leaves. Cause this frustrates the heck outa me
By default the red light is making them think they need to beat other person lol
3:02 that has to be the most awkardly synchroned hand shake I have ever seen..
anita heavily gives me janelle monae vibes and love it
everytime the camera moves to the girls’ room most of them is on their phones and its so funny 😭😭😭
Anita is the perfect wife, she's attractive, funny, sexy and she's very family oriented. I'm all in.
2:10 this sounds like a comedy skit the way he delivered it
fantastic, Love this. the new generation version of MTV's NEXT I love it. keep em coming.
You new here? Check the archives. 🔥
I have been watching but I meant having the other watch the date and comment on it that's the new format. I love it
@@jonaswolterstorff3460
I feel so bad for Chris. How did he manage to get onto the subject of his dad's autopsy in about 3 sentences without the button even saying anything?
2:08 Sir went from dead dad to failed kidneys. The button did not light up fast enough.
I love that we get to see/hear what people are saying in the waiting room!
Y’all should do a reunion segment where past couples that stayed together rejoin and they review their on screen date !!
the second guy seemed so sweet and cute 🥺
Here is an idea. Do any of these " umatched dates" match after the show. Like when they leave exchange numbers of their own volition and go on their own dates? would love to hear if it happened and how did it work out on a we didn't match update video .
this was a rlly good episode. well done cut
the guy spilling his trauma is so me on a first dad as an autistic lesbian lol
If anita starts a UA-cam channel I'd be her number 1 fan
LMFAOOO that was a good slick excuse 🤣🤣 very witty 4:28
Bruh, the amount of people that try to keep their hands so obviously close af to the button is pathetic 🥴
Anita gonna be a hall of fame on this show
I can only imagine the reason why someone who's shy and awkward would do this to themselves is it to improve upon that same quality.
That or they're sadists.
Saying cooter cat is crazy
I felt so bad for Chris, man. He was just nervous cus she’s pretty!
6:30...the fact that the women didnt pick up on obvious humor is laughably telling.
Anita could be a news anchor with that voice of hers
Anita is not Morgan Freeman, she is the black Angelina.😍
Bro that got told he wasn't giving her much, it's a two way street! Reciprocity works wonders.
9:59 That was a close match but no cigar
wait that last couple really looked cute together and like they were matching energy throughout
3:05 took 7 years off my life
I died instantly seeing that
Casey was so respectful to Anita
broooo fumbled the last oneee. 🤣😭😭😭
The second guy has a wild style
timestape: 1:37 everyone is laughing at their convo but the girl that got eliminated by him lol
Not “that scared the hell out of me” 😂. Sir, we all know you were finna press that button 💀
the editor wrote "he is wowing" instead of wildin' 7:33 😂😂
when the dude said "thank you for having me" you can tell he knew he dropped the ball lol
Lmao now do one with enbies where the whole backroom is the same chaos. 🤣
4:50 is actually hilarous, decent cover up