Girl Talk: The Truth About Losing Your V

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  • Опубліковано 23 чер 2020
  • Hey my little angels
    I hope you enjoyed it! Share down below some comforting advice for anyone who is feeling nervous or scared about losing their virginity. Would love to spread some positivity.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 72

  • @VuyiSibanda
    @VuyiSibanda 4 роки тому +295

    Jourdan is that big sister we all need in our lives. Loved this!

  • @kelistalks3097
    @kelistalks3097 4 роки тому +241

    I’m almost 20 and I’m still holding onto mines. Honestly I’m just waiting for the right person to lose it to. Someone who cares for me and actually sees a future within me besides just having casual sex. Nothing wrong with casual sex it’s just a personal choice. Great video! 💗

    • @seritavanessa1835
      @seritavanessa1835 4 роки тому +16

      Same sis im 20 and im still scared cos heish our generation is mad im waiting for that right guy not just anyone really

    • @ethanJames7914
      @ethanJames7914 4 роки тому

      Lollllllllllllll

    • @ethanJames7914
      @ethanJames7914 4 роки тому

      Bit sad inning

    • @Goddess_kya_
      @Goddess_kya_ Рік тому

      Same I haven't lost mine but I am 19 and I am waiting for marriage lose it and for the right person ❤️

  • @iamryanlittle
    @iamryanlittle 4 роки тому +47

    As always, it's an honor to hear my music in your video, Jourdan. I must say, it's pretty interesting that "Body Language" was used for this video, especially considering the topic. I think it was a perfect fit.

  • @lydiaclarke6438
    @lydiaclarke6438 4 роки тому +43

    I lost it a few weeks ago. I'm 17 and I was determined to loose it before I was 18. I didn't want to feel left behind and I felt society pushed me into feeling I should. Thank you for this videos sis 💕

    • @nourak1149
      @nourak1149 4 роки тому +6

      Do you feel you should’ve waited longer? x

    • @sarahlambert1793
      @sarahlambert1793 4 роки тому +3

      I’m 17 now and I’ve come close to losing it but every time it gets near my vagina is just like no sis. I feel that same as you that I want to lose it before I’m 18 because of society like I don’t even fancy the person who I’ve been doing things with. Very confusing time for us xx

    • @brittanyduncan8946
      @brittanyduncan8946 3 роки тому +2

      That’s so true!

  • @LL-ip5mm
    @LL-ip5mm 4 роки тому +80

    Thank you jourdan this made me feel better as I’m a virgin im 19 nearly 20 and I feel so weird being a virgin because all my friends and ppl my age have lost it

  • @harveenpanaser9623
    @harveenpanaser9623 4 роки тому +17

    This video couldn’t have come at the perfect time ❤️❤️ so insightful , needed and reassuring! Appreciate you girl x

  • @elishagrace7898
    @elishagrace7898 4 роки тому +9

    Have so much respect for you!! Your using your platform to really raise girls confidence in every aspect and I love you for that! Such a genuine human💖

  • @sinnacarita
    @sinnacarita 4 роки тому +42

    I lost my virginity to one older man who raped me, it wasn’t my choice, i said i don’t wanna do it and it was horrifying and so freaking painful because he basically forced me do anything he wanted, he didn’t care about what I said or whether i wanted it or not. So my personal experience of losing virginity wasn’t normal and i can’t really compare it to anyone else’s. I’m just so sad that I couldn’t choose it myself, i didn’t have a chance to choose that did i wanna lose virginity then or not.

    • @Bsbawkdbeisnwpwy
      @Bsbawkdbeisnwpwy 4 роки тому +25

      Sis you have every right to still claim that you’re a virgin. You didn’t deserve this and I pray that everything is okay beautiful you’re so strong🥰🥰

    • @sinnacarita
      @sinnacarita 4 роки тому +4

      African kid thank you for your words😔❤️ it means a lot to me

    • @Garglicious
      @Garglicious 4 роки тому +7

      Hey i am really sorry about your experience.. but virginity is overrated. It all depends on someone who you love and can feel secured with :) Big hugs to you strong woman ❤️

  • @rosaaraujo9045
    @rosaaraujo9045 4 роки тому +17

    Dr.Jourdan coming through!!! ❤️
    For some reason she did clear up some things I was confused of

  • @kaitlanjaide
    @kaitlanjaide 4 роки тому +125

    I’m still a virgin

    • @LL-ip5mm
      @LL-ip5mm 4 роки тому +13

      I’m still a virgin and I’m 19 nearly 20 and I feel so weird being so old and a virgin

    • @alexandramihaela1231
      @alexandramihaela1231 4 роки тому +8

      Me too, I'm almost 19😄

    • @ethanJames7914
      @ethanJames7914 4 роки тому

      Ha

  • @mariajune4309
    @mariajune4309 4 роки тому +30

    Omg what a good video!! Helping others as always! Such an inspiration towards my channel💕💕

  • @fatimaali2055
    @fatimaali2055 4 роки тому +25

    👏🏾 a lot people need to taught about consent

  • @quietnoisemaker
    @quietnoisemaker 4 роки тому +13

    I loved this! You're such a great content creator!!!

  • @imogenmarshall6282
    @imogenmarshall6282 4 роки тому +2

    THANK YOU please do a part two , so helpful and normalise it 💕💕

  • @isthatlois566
    @isthatlois566 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video girl, love your content ❤️

  • @shaziamendes6926
    @shaziamendes6926 4 роки тому +5

    Thanks a lot this was really helpful! Because I'm going through this period. Appreciated☺️❤️

  • @chidokimberleychatikobo4789
    @chidokimberleychatikobo4789 4 роки тому +4

    I needed this. Thank you ♥️

  • @Dibzbee
    @Dibzbee 4 роки тому +2

    One of my fav UA-camrsssss

  • @isabellemaxtedpage8071
    @isabellemaxtedpage8071 4 роки тому +3

    Such a great video! Helped me out so much 💕✨

  • @laviedejamsy6863
    @laviedejamsy6863 4 роки тому

    Love you for this video, really needed, its important

  • @amanihuss2815
    @amanihuss2815 4 роки тому +1

    Excited for this video x

  • @homelasamantha2737
    @homelasamantha2737 4 роки тому +13

    This is very informative ,thank you so much!!❤️

  • @jacobsgrl1
    @jacobsgrl1 2 роки тому +2

    I'm 29 & I'm still a virgin I'm waiting until I'm ready and I meet the right one ,now I know everybody has faults to them ,also it's about who you share your energy with in my opinion so if someone is bad minded and always putting people down ,not having sex with you.

  • @Sabrina-yu7kr
    @Sabrina-yu7kr 4 роки тому +25

    I grew up on The Secret Life of The American Teenager so I was TERRIFIED that I’d get knocked up my first time.

  • @abigailowusukwofie9618
    @abigailowusukwofie9618 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks girl always with a good content☺️☝️

  • @mrdawks8932
    @mrdawks8932 4 роки тому +7

    Great content Jourdan.

  • @emmamead5334
    @emmamead5334 4 роки тому +39

    Can u talk about vaginas because I feel like mine is different and I just dont understand mine

  • @agboyoprecious9341
    @agboyoprecious9341 4 роки тому +2

    I love your girltalks

  • @graceekwo4831
    @graceekwo4831 4 роки тому +9

    Hi Jourdan, I really enjoyed your video... I loved the way u explained everything in the video 😍😍... Thank u for this, a lot of people, including me needed to hear this and learn about the misconceptions... It was a really nice and relaxing chat....I always enjoy your videos... love u, u are really gorgeous btw 😍

  • @ruheekhan6456
    @ruheekhan6456 4 роки тому +1

    Love this video ❤️

  • @milokelly351
    @milokelly351 3 роки тому

    Love you, you're great.

  • @deeluther4060
    @deeluther4060 4 роки тому +11

    ❣❣Gooooood Video❣❣
    😚Your drop dead gorgeous😚
    😍😍Makeup so cute😍😍
    HoPe u Enjoying your Bless weeK
    Stay Safe always

  • @kleakastrati9023
    @kleakastrati9023 4 роки тому +1

    Ur amazing.

  • @p.d9593
    @p.d9593 4 роки тому

    Love her❤❤

  • @roseowen1569
    @roseowen1569 4 роки тому +6

    Love your videos❤️

  • @ashleyj.3857
    @ashleyj.3857 4 роки тому +1

    Can you link your initial necklace?

  • @indimist390
    @indimist390 4 роки тому +3

    Hi have you got veneers please do a video on how your teeth r so white. R they whitened.

  • @lillyannagomez1557
    @lillyannagomez1557 4 роки тому

    Your so beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @LL-ip5mm
    @LL-ip5mm 4 роки тому +2

    I like ur nails 😍😍

  • @essiegeorge8848
    @essiegeorge8848 4 роки тому +15

    I don’t know if I’m the only one that didn’t bleed at my first time...

    • @jessxoxo7229
      @jessxoxo7229 4 роки тому +6

      you can loose your hymen from things like horse riding, riding a bike etc so some bleed some don’t it all depends if the girl has lost her hymen or not

  • @vm6796
    @vm6796 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the video. Do you mind me asking what if you were midway during the activity, but you felt uncomfortable and didn't want to do it anymore even if your partner was enjoying it. I feel like it should be normal to stop, but it's awkward. Also people can think you are purposely trying to tease them and some can pressure you to do more. Is it okay to say I don't want to do anymore and they should just be okay with it no matter how little or how far you have gone?

    • @jasminejackson8137
      @jasminejackson8137 4 роки тому +4

      Hi hun. She answers this question at 11:40. Yes it’s absolutely ok! Remember it is your body and you don’t owe anyone anything. At any point you don’t feel comfortable you should stop immediately. If they don’t understand that, they are not respecting you. Be firm and true to yourself. Definitely watch the video again at that time.

    • @vm6796
      @vm6796 4 роки тому +2

      @@jasminejackson8137 Thank you for your reply. I've rewatched it, and I understand now. I just wanted to make sure because I come from a culture where family and friends have told me otherwise which is confusing and hurtful. But thank you for being extra clear it really helped me to understand my rights x

    • @jasminejackson8137
      @jasminejackson8137 4 роки тому +5

      @@vm6796 You are so welcome! Yes just be confident in your decisions no matter how hard someone is trying to persuade you in that moment. It is definitely hard I know standing alone. I've had to do that, and it can be challenging especially when the opinions are coming from loved ones. I've been there before, but I had to realize its my life, and I'm the one who has to live with the decisions I make. It's ok to follow what you want to do and not follow other people. So proud of you for taking time to reflect on this and I'm praying for you. My fb link is below don't mind you reaching out anytime. facebook.com/JasJacksonENT/

    • @vm6796
      @vm6796 4 роки тому +2

      @@jasminejackson8137 Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. You explained exactly how I felt. It's difficult when you don't know your rights because it makes you feel like you have lost the ability to stand up for yourself. As you are brought up in a culture that would blame you first and would never say what the man did was wrong. Or you get told you were too naive and that's why you got treated this way. Either way it's hard not to completely blame yourself. Thank you for your prayers and thank you for being so incredibly kind to send me your Facebook x

  • @alishadotterer4092
    @alishadotterer4092 2 роки тому

    DOES IT HURT AFTER

  • @caitlinfarrow4498
    @caitlinfarrow4498 4 роки тому +3

    is the first time always awkward? Like if your a virgin but the other person is not, surely that makes you feel really inexperienced and not know what the heck to do!

    • @mimijenkins8113
      @mimijenkins8113 4 роки тому +6

      if they're not a virgin they can hopefully make you feel comfortable and lead you through it and show you what to do etc. but if you're both virgins it will be a little awkward but you can laugh about it after! and realistically it probably won't last long anyway if its his first time xx

    • @frieda0110
      @frieda0110 4 роки тому +3

      Not awkward at all with an already experienced person :) if it’s the right person, the fact that he/she is experienced and you’re not makes you feel even more safe because the other person knows what to Do and can tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. For me sex war weird for the first times just because it’s a brand new experience but never awkward ! :)

  • @cherry2442
    @cherry2442 2 роки тому

    Starts at 2:24

  • @inesornellachannel
    @inesornellachannel 4 роки тому +1

    the body doesn't change that's a fake idea

  • @mysteryblackstudio6185
    @mysteryblackstudio6185 4 роки тому +9

    Okay beautiful, I wish I had encounter with you in my golden days, Ha Ha, But it is what it is, You're the bomb!, Take care and keep safe, and have a great day..