It almost sounded like the Hamster Dance at the begiining 😂. The worst advice i can ever hear is get over it bc thats a complete disregard of my feelings and i take that very offensively
My best friend, God bless her I love that girl, keeps giving me this advice. She’s encouraging me to “be myself” and “find out who you are and be that”. I’m like….sweetheart, I know. The problem is find out what that is. When I ask myself who I want to be it’s the only time my mind shuts up. Borderline giving me semi-suicidal thoughts because I don’t know where I belong or what my purpose even is anymore. I love caring for others and I love focusing on helping the people around me but when it comes to my desires, I never feel like they matter or will ever happen.
@@Cheeriu that is an excellent question. There are many different theories and perspectives. I highly recommend at least taking a look at the Keirsey temperament sorter. It places less emphasis on the individual 16 types, and instead places the 16 types into 4 temperaments. INFP and INFJ are both in the Idealist temperament. Another thing you can do is read like literally 5-10 different descriptions of INFJ on 10 different personality theory websites, and literally 5-10 different descriptions of INFP on 10 different personality theory websites and then compare the descriptions and decide which description MOST CLOSELY resembles your personality. Many people do that to hone in and make a confident decision. Hope that helps.
@@DuelingPersonalities Thank you for your response! :) But even though they are both in the Idealist temperament, the functions are completely different, aren't they? FiNeSiTe vs NiFeTiSe. And if you look at the Inferior Te vs Se or the trickster Se vs Te. Those two types should perceive the world and make decisions very differently. So in the logic of the cognitive functions I don't think someone can be a borderline INFP/J. Would make more sense to be an borderline I/E-NFP or I/E-NFJ because the functions are the same but flipped.
The beef I have with "just be yourself" is I want an objective. That intuition needs an end goal. I can work on myself and all that jazz but what are the variables here of the people, places and things involved and the meaning of this "thing". I can be a jack of all trades pulling something out of my back pocket but what am I needing to apply here? Human beings are multifaceted. Otherwise I can just take the whole thing over and ignore everyone. It's an invitation for collaboration I guess you could say.
Yes, ive thought about this before. If youre nervous as F to talk to someone, well thats you being you. You are a nervous person when talking to others. But in all honesty, I thought the worst advice you can give an INFJ is get on your back, lift up your legs and poor a bottle of 1,000,000 Scoville unit, hot pepper sauce, down your b hole
lol!! I said the same thing when I first heard about it. Subscribe to my channel right now, then go to www.16personalities.com , take the fun free test, find out your personality type and read your personality type description, and then come back to the channel and everything will make sense. Let me know what your personality type is after you find out. Thanks!
If you tell an enigma, "Just be yourself," it seems like the enigma is already succeeding.🙃
It almost sounded like the Hamster Dance at the begiining 😂. The worst advice i can ever hear is get over it bc thats a complete disregard of my feelings and i take that very offensively
Hahahahahahaha!! The hamster dance yes!! 😂😅
I loved the intro and the goofy vibe 😂
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I hope you know, I won't forget this!! Expect a call at a completely random time 😊
My best friend, God bless her I love that girl, keeps giving me this advice. She’s encouraging me to “be myself” and “find out who you are and be that”. I’m like….sweetheart, I know. The problem is find out what that is. When I ask myself who I want to be it’s the only time my mind shuts up. Borderline giving me semi-suicidal thoughts because I don’t know where I belong or what my purpose even is anymore. I love caring for others and I love focusing on helping the people around me but when it comes to my desires, I never feel like they matter or will ever happen.
Be kind to yourself, heart. Thanks for your comment.
As a borderline INFJ/P, this is much appreciated thank you.
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How can you be borderline J/P? The functions are completely changing if you switch those two letters...
@@Cheeriu that is an excellent question. There are many different theories and perspectives. I highly recommend at least taking a look at the Keirsey temperament sorter. It places less emphasis on the individual 16 types, and instead places the 16 types into 4 temperaments. INFP and INFJ are both in the Idealist temperament. Another thing you can do is read like literally 5-10 different descriptions of INFJ on 10 different personality theory websites, and literally 5-10 different descriptions of INFP on 10 different personality theory websites and then compare the descriptions and decide which description MOST CLOSELY resembles your personality. Many people do that to hone in and make a confident decision. Hope that helps.
@@DuelingPersonalities Thank you for your response! :) But even though they are both in the Idealist temperament, the functions are completely different, aren't they? FiNeSiTe vs NiFeTiSe. And if you look at the Inferior Te vs Se or the trickster Se vs Te. Those two types should perceive the world and make decisions very differently. So in the logic of the cognitive functions I don't think someone can be a borderline INFP/J. Would make more sense to be an borderline I/E-NFP or I/E-NFJ because the functions are the same but flipped.
You seem correct Johnny. Thank you.
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The beef I have with "just be yourself" is I want an objective. That intuition needs an end goal. I can work on myself and all that jazz but what are the variables here of the people, places and things involved and the meaning of this "thing". I can be a jack of all trades pulling something out of my back pocket but what am I needing to apply here? Human beings are multifaceted. Otherwise I can just take the whole thing over and ignore everyone. It's an invitation for collaboration I guess you could say.
These are excellent points you are making, PR. I am the same way. Hope you’re well 👋🏻 🌈 😊
Don't be yourself INFJs, be better, be an ISFJ.
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lol. Thanks for your comment, Shale. Have a safe and happy Friday!
@@DuelingPersonalities Lol, np.
Thanks, same to you.
Do you have any plans for the weekend?
Yes, ive thought about this before. If youre nervous as F to talk to someone, well thats you being you. You are a nervous person when talking to others.
But in all honesty, I thought the worst advice you can give an INFJ is get on your back, lift up your legs and poor a bottle of 1,000,000 Scoville unit, hot pepper sauce, down your b hole
lol
What the heck is an INFJ or MBTI?
lol!! I said the same thing when I first heard about it. Subscribe to my channel right now, then go to www.16personalities.com , take the fun free test, find out your personality type and read your personality type description, and then come back to the channel and everything will make sense. Let me know what your personality type is after you find out. Thanks!