Our next book is “Where to draw the line, how to set healthy boundaries every day by Anne Katherine, MA” Also here is the next video you should watch: Women who ask for nothing suffer MOST! ua-cam.com/video/A1nuIS5_ZIo/v-deo.html
Just ended a toxic friendship. I don’t think the other girl was in the wrong honestly I think the problem was really me trying to people please. I’d go above and beyond for her and get supper hurt when I felt like she disappointed me or didn’t go as hard for me as I did for her. That friendship just felt so difficult and forced. Honestly it hurt initially but I feel at peace now. I’m learning to accept that people can grow apart, it doesn’t mean anyone was wrong it just means for this season of life we aren’t good for each other and that’s okay.
And a lot of times after i have argued with someone even if i still believe i was right i still go there to talk to that person and ask for forgiveness 🤦♀️
Thanks you for all your content. You are incredibly wise. And i grow so much thanks to you. I would like to add to me people pleasing is a defense mechanism as fawning. It happened a lot when you come from a narcissitic household. It is definiletly a maladaptative behaviour. So thank you to spread awareness about this topic. Cause even kindness can be weaponised which in a sense it is crazy. I will purchase this book cause i need to work in myself regarding this. Love and support from France 🇫🇷 🖤
This video was so needed. Thank you so much Karine. I just got promoted at my job and a lot of my natural response in customer service is very people pleasing, as a new manager it's a lot.
Thank for such a vital video! I am ordering the book! Please do a video on economics and Bible. I love this channel and so appreciate you- much blessings😊❤
Mine was feelings I used to have a huge heart I have had to learn to emotionally detach i remind myself it’s an unfair world we all go through stuff. And these people that are always manipulating people pleasers do end up with no friends until they learn they need to get their shit together.
Economics Bible ♥️. Thank you for this message. The breakdown was what I believe was needed to truly understand this concept. Thank you for always putting out amazing content! Also, I was looking for the video you did with color spectrum,for beauty and decor, I was not able to find it.🖤
Sadly my friend had mental illness so I took it. FINALLY I DCRSMED. NOT ALL YOUR ANSWERS ARE THE ONLY ANSWER. First. I was not asking you for a solution. “ THE TOPIC IS CLOSED FOR CONVERSATION”
22:57 I totally agree with your message in this video, but disagree with your biblical interpretation. Luke 18:18-30 (ESV) When Jesus heard this, he said to him, “One thing you still lack. Sell all that you have and distribute to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.” ALL that you have. Not whatever is convenient to give
3:00 - I went through this last year with a friend , we’re no longer speaking ..sometimes I think about her and miss her 😞but I’m at peace knowing I can take care of my needs and I don’t have someone taking advantage of me 🧘🏽♀️
I felt the people pleasing in the workforce. I was laid off yesterday out of the blue due to my company wanting to "down size" and it hurt me the most because I stayed and endured so much and was always people pleasing to stay in my job just to lose it anyways. No more people pleasing in all AREAS of my life the rest of 2024 and beyond
Oh calling me out on this. Struggling with the idea of always trying to be the « prettiest » the « smartest » the « most desired » woman in the room. Whew Lord…
Ouwhhee, Karine!! This one was great, very helpful, thank you🙏🔥. AJ Miller talks alot about these principles of emotional addictions (like people pleasing) and what we get from God vs. what we get from others and the expectations/demands put upon us and what we put upon another... very helpful as well. It is on us to take responsibility for the loving use of our will if that is what we desure to do with it and to find the courage to love ourselves and others even if it is uncomfortable to do so at times: ua-cam.com/video/1zgkRSOrkPc/v-deo.htmlsi=YDJKEQ5Al33lDmqC
I realize how much of a people pleasure I was 3 years ago. And cut off relationships that were so toxic that were driving mentality down to point of ending it. Its been a lesson learn hard not to please everyone in my life and learning setting boundaries. Some things right now I realized I was still doing it. Thank you for everything you been doing Karin this pass month been watching your videos on both channels love it! 🖤🖤🖤
Our next book is “Where to draw the line, how to set healthy boundaries every day by Anne Katherine, MA” Also here is the next video you should watch: Women who ask for nothing suffer MOST!
ua-cam.com/video/A1nuIS5_ZIo/v-deo.html
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It took me 50 years to realize all of what you said…better late than never❣️🖤
I’m 32, and now it’s starting to click. So don’t feel bad about it. When you get it, it’ll never leave you
YOUR *ACCOUNTABILITY* WILL CARRY YOU THROUGH!!!!
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Just ended a toxic friendship. I don’t think the other girl was in the wrong honestly I think the problem was really me trying to people please. I’d go above and beyond for her and get supper hurt when I felt like she disappointed me or didn’t go as hard for me as I did for her. That friendship just felt so difficult and forced. Honestly it hurt initially but I feel at peace now. I’m learning to accept that people can grow apart, it doesn’t mean anyone was wrong it just means for this season of life we aren’t good for each other and that’s okay.
I can't handle confrontation it makes me cry LOL 😭
Me too
And a lot of times after i have argued with someone even if i still believe i was right i still go there to talk to that person and ask for forgiveness 🤦♀️
Aww man 😢 I’m going to do a video on this. You all sound like empaths too. I used to be like this, it’s very possible to reverse and change it 🥺🩷
Just ordered the book because I've kinda ruined my life being a people pleaser 😢 🖤💯
what was the name of the book?
@@phizzy123 the disease to please
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@@phizzy123 ur welcome 😊
I’ve been watching you since 2020. Thank you for dropping gems and being like a big sis. May God bless you and continue to fill you 💖
Exactly what I needed. I'm having a talk with my manager tomorrow and I'm quite the workplace pleaser, so thank you
Glad I could help! I know you will do great! You deserve respect and great things, even if you have to hurt a couple feelings along the way!
I just want to say, that your mom would be very proud of the woman you have become. ❤️
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The way I needed this video is crazy. I’ve always hated disappointing people because my life has been full of disappointment. New subbie 🖤🖤🖤🥰🥰🥰👏🏽👏🏽
Thanks you for all your content.
You are incredibly wise. And i grow so much thanks to you.
I would like to add to me people pleasing is a defense mechanism as fawning. It happened a lot when you come from a narcissitic household.
It is definiletly a maladaptative behaviour.
So thank you to spread awareness about this topic. Cause even kindness can be weaponised which in a sense it is crazy.
I will purchase this book cause i need to work in myself regarding this.
Love and support from France 🇫🇷 🖤
You’re absolutely gorgeous and more importantly smart! Love your channel! Keep up the great work ❤
Thank you so much Lillian 🤍🤍🤍
Listening to this is both therapeutic, triggering . I’m definitely going to read the book.
This video was so needed. Thank you so much Karine. I just got promoted at my job and a lot of my natural response in customer service is very people pleasing, as a new manager it's a lot.
Thank for such a vital video! I am ordering the book! Please do a video on economics and Bible. I love this channel and so appreciate you- much blessings😊❤
Girl can you pls write a book about this topic? Would buy it, in a heart beat
Great mental gems!
Please do one on economics & God. That sounds very intriguing Karine ❤
Take care, friend 💐 🙏💗 🖤xo
YES I AM SCREWED. Because I want to help them.
19:18 number 6 got me processing a lot. thanks for the book suggestion karine🖤
Mine was feelings I used to have a huge heart I have had to learn to emotionally detach i remind myself it’s an unfair world we all go through stuff. And these people that are always manipulating people pleasers do end up with no friends until they learn they need to get their shit together.
Karine I love videos like this ❤️ I see you like a big sister ❤
I saw myself in a lot of what you were talking about🖤🖤🖤
You are so beautiful and motivating. Don't change.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You’re like a big sister to me & I love it! 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Thank you for all your wise advice and inspirational videos. Please do a video on finance and The Bible. Thank you 😊
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please do the video on money
🖤very insightful stuff Karine very informative!!!! Thanks so much 🙏🏾 for the video !!
Always love your videos. I see that you often mention DV. That would be a great topic to explore in your next video .
Thank you 🙏🏼 and in our next book club video coming up, I explore the topic on a psychological stance, spotting potential abusers and how to escape 🤍
Would love to hear more of the solution side from you cos I like the way u explain stuff
🖤 I understand my cousin's motivations to people please now.
🖤 I am ordering this book
Just in time.
Economics Bible ♥️. Thank you for this message. The breakdown was what I believe was needed to truly understand this concept. Thank you for always putting out amazing content! Also, I was looking for the video you did with color spectrum,for beauty and decor, I was not able to find it.🖤
Wow you are so beautiful ❤❤❤❤ I’m seeing you for first time Love you’re videos! ❤
Aww thank you 🥹 thank you for watching ❤❤❤
🖤much love from Moldova 🇲🇩
The SHEER BEAUTY OF YOUR GENTLE TOUGHLOVE, WITHOUT CODDLING!!! 🤩
....It's YOUR BALANCE OF INTELLIGENT COGNIZANCE & MATURITY FOR MEEEEEE!!!!! 🥰
Thanks for these videos because I struggle with this and is coming out of it. Thanks for explaining !
I really love your podcast Karine, you really helped me grow
This look it’s kind of giving well Kim I love the 90s look
I need to get this book. Thank you for doing this breakdown!❤
you is so gorgeous 😻😻😻
Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for this!❤ It called me out so much ❤ I'm looking forward to the series!❤
And please do the video on money as well ❤
needed this
32:30 Great video, K!!!
Black 🖤
This is your best wig look…it looks so natural and jet black looks good on you. Like you look AMAZING pleasseee wear more black you look stunning🙃
Love your channel! 💐
Can you do a video on deception please
MOMCALLS THAT DUMPING ON YOU
Благодарим ви!
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Sadly my friend had mental illness so I took it. FINALLY I DCRSMED. NOT ALL YOUR ANSWERS ARE THE ONLY ANSWER. First. I was not asking you for a solution. “ THE TOPIC IS CLOSED FOR CONVERSATION”
karine what was the book you mentioned in the video?
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22:57 I totally agree with your message in this video, but disagree with your biblical interpretation. Luke 18:18-30 (ESV) When Jesus heard this, he said to him, “One thing you still lack. Sell all that you have and distribute to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.” ALL that you have. Not whatever is convenient to give
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3:00 - I went through this last year with a friend , we’re no longer speaking ..sometimes I think about her and miss her 😞but I’m at peace knowing I can take care of my needs and I don’t have someone taking advantage of me 🧘🏽♀️
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I felt the people pleasing in the workforce. I was laid off yesterday out of the blue due to my company wanting to "down size" and it hurt me the most because I stayed and endured so much and was always people pleasing to stay in my job just to lose it anyways. No more people pleasing in all AREAS of my life the rest of 2024 and beyond
🖤I watch your Hollywood history channel. I really like that I just came across this one too!
Love the raven hair! It looks so flattering on you 🐈⬛✨️
Right on time 💛
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Loved this book! Bought the audible soon as you announced it and then went back bought the book. Im hooked on Harriett
Yay! Thank you! That makes me so happy. Really the best book for people pleasers 🤍
Lord this video hit I gotta send this love this channel like other one too but this one man . Keep videos going
You never miss Karine 🙏💕
You look so Beautiful 🖤
Oh calling me out on this. Struggling with the idea of always trying to be the « prettiest » the « smartest » the « most desired » woman in the room. Whew Lord…
Ouwhhee, Karine!! This one was great, very helpful, thank you🙏🔥. AJ Miller talks alot about these principles of emotional addictions (like people pleasing) and what we get from God vs. what we get from others and the expectations/demands put upon us and what we put upon another... very helpful as well. It is on us to take responsibility for the loving use of our will if that is what we desure to do with it and to find the courage to love ourselves and others even if it is uncomfortable to do so at times:
ua-cam.com/video/1zgkRSOrkPc/v-deo.htmlsi=YDJKEQ5Al33lDmqC
🖤 ! Really valuable video! I'm sure myself and a few close friends could benefit from the pearls of wisdom in this one.
🖤 love you, Karine 🖤
I realize how much of a people pleasure I was 3 years ago. And cut off relationships that were so toxic that were driving mentality down to point of ending it. Its been a lesson learn hard not to please everyone in my life and learning setting boundaries. Some things right now I realized I was still doing it. Thank you for everything you been doing Karin this pass month been watching your videos on both channels love it! 🖤🖤🖤
Please Please dive deep into the disease to please!!😯
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Love your channel it is appreciated ❤
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