Why My Mom HATED My Engagement Ring

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  • @ByBonnieJewelry
    @ByBonnieJewelry  2 роки тому +5

    Happy Holidays!
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  • @Mamamia90210
    @Mamamia90210 2 роки тому +135

    I hate when moms try to still control you well into adulthood. My mom did the same. Made my proposal about her, my wedding about her, now trying to tell me what to do with my kids. You definitely have to set boundaries. I couldn’t imagine wearing an engagement ring that I didn’t truly love as a “compromise” to my mother. She had her chance at her own engagement. It’s my turn lol!

    • @cuprunnethover2509
      @cuprunnethover2509 2 роки тому +3

      That her culture! She is not like you all American women!

    • @Mamamia90210
      @Mamamia90210 2 роки тому +6

      @@cuprunnethover2509 you have no idea what you’re talking about

    • @sarahtan8957
      @sarahtan8957 2 роки тому

      @@Mamamia90210 دددز😊اتاتااااااااااااااااارزضضض

    • @redrumax
      @redrumax Рік тому +1

      Exactly and this should not be indulged.

    • @Paris-wh4db
      @Paris-wh4db 7 місяців тому +1

      But Asian moms support and sacrifices to their kids and nieces financially and spiritually no matter how old they are .

  • @evez641
    @evez641 2 роки тому +38

    Sorry to say that I love this ring even more than your 5ct ring! SOOOOO unique and antique and gorgeous!

    • @ByBonnieJewelry
      @ByBonnieJewelry  2 роки тому +5

      I certainly love them both ❤️ Thank you dear

  • @g2whatbrodie283
    @g2whatbrodie283 2 роки тому +42

    The cushion as a solitaire was devastatingly beautiful. It’s a shame you messed with it at all.

    • @lynnarmbruster4353
      @lynnarmbruster4353 2 роки тому +9

      i agree, it looked more elegant and rich originallly.

    • @lizbueding2626
      @lizbueding2626 2 роки тому +3

      @@lynnarmbruster4353 I disagree. It looks elegant and effortless in a thicker yellow gold setting.

    • @Aj-uu5is
      @Aj-uu5is 2 роки тому +7

      Yeah, the solitaire was definitely the most elegant. The last setting was cute, but look more like a dress ring.

  • @spynena
    @spynena 2 роки тому +5

    Both are gorgeous but the re-mount of your cushion just sings to my soul looks so unique and fitting.

  • @deneelake4060
    @deneelake4060 2 роки тому +8

    I love how simple buy yet very substantial it looks.

  • @Klaumydia
    @Klaumydia 2 роки тому +5

    That's a beautiful right-hand ring! The halo is a lovely touch to remember the roots of your story.

  • @AthenaAthena
    @AthenaAthena 2 роки тому +9

    That new setting is gorgeous 😍
    Oh Bonnie, you are a brilliant artist.

  • @gemradiant6350
    @gemradiant6350 2 роки тому +9

    Your rings are beautiful!! I truly love your original Cushion cut solitaire best! But, they are all stunning!

  • @ThrivingNotDying
    @ThrivingNotDying 2 роки тому +4

    I love low profile rings. Love love love.

  • @nikkil764
    @nikkil764 2 роки тому +15

    I just don’t understand why someone would put a truly exceptional stone in a halo. To me, a halo is fine on a lesser stone but a great stone is so beautiful, I just want to see it on its own so I can admire it from all angles. But everyone has their own taste. Your ring is lovely.

  • @drennan427
    @drennan427 Рік тому +3

    Bonnie!! Do you have pictures of your original (lower profile) setting? I'm a sucker for a modest, low profile setting with a big rock

  • @rachelcyr1288
    @rachelcyr1288 2 роки тому +4

    Bonnie, your videos are the best. Thanks for making such awesome content!

  • @gaylecooley3630
    @gaylecooley3630 2 роки тому +6

    I absolutely love what you did with your engagement ring. I love low profiles and I love east west settings. My own ring that I designed is an east west oval with a low profile and a micropave halo. My favorite kind of setting. Tall elegant settings are beautiful, but crazy impractical IMHO.

  • @Dayana17ist
    @Dayana17ist 2 роки тому +3

    Wow beautiful yellow gold looks beautiful on you

  • @EliseF.I.R.E.mePlease
    @EliseF.I.R.E.mePlease Рік тому +1

    The re-set is gorgeous!!! Having it in gold makes it so classy and give that antique heirloom jewelry look. 😍

    • @ByBonnieJewelry
      @ByBonnieJewelry  Рік тому

      I'm thrilled to hear you love the re-set! Yellow gold can indeed give a piece a classic and vintage aesthetic, and it's fantastic that it resonates with you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and if you have more questions or need further assistance in the future, feel free to reach out! 😍🌟

  • @Dhdhdhdjsnsns
    @Dhdhdhdjsnsns 2 роки тому +2

    Such a pretty ring also. Love the reset. Lucky you. You get the best of both worlds with two different rings😍💍

  • @ItIsYourMom
    @ItIsYourMom Рік тому

    Wow! I love what you did with your original diamond - gorgeous!

  • @tigre9271
    @tigre9271 2 роки тому +1

    Love the low profile. My engagement ring is a 3 stone round, low profile Verragio setting with a medium width band. I didn't want a delicate thin band because I don't consider myself delicate. And I didn't want any pave on the band with for practical reasons (falling stones) and because that feminine factor is just not me. But I didn't want a split shank or a plain band. So my band is uniquely sculptural. It didn't come with a matching band, so we had one made, then I had it soldered together. After 23 yrs, I still love it. I have other vacation rings in other shapes. Emerald, Trillion and cushion. But my original round is still my favorite.

  • @melanniefranco5514
    @melanniefranco5514 2 роки тому +2

    I love it look stunning on gold

  • @zlj2052
    @zlj2052 3 місяці тому

    I love this ring! The thicker band and low profile it is gorgeous

    • @ByBonnieJewelry
      @ByBonnieJewelry  3 місяці тому +1

      They really do make for such a unique look! 😍

  • @mamapoppins7422
    @mamapoppins7422 2 роки тому +1

    🙋Hello from GA,
    I just found your channel and subscribed. I 💞 the right hand east west cushion cut ring👍😎. Every ring you presented is lovely. I like your style👍😉 HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

  • @brooke86
    @brooke86 2 роки тому +4

    Love the yellow gold!

  • @kimnguyen7277
    @kimnguyen7277 Рік тому +1

    Love this setting so much with the gold. Could you make this in a gemstone?

    • @ByBonnieJewelry
      @ByBonnieJewelry  Рік тому

      It's so precious! Yes it would depend on what gemstone you're looking to set :-) -Team By Bonnie

  • @Ms_Tex
    @Ms_Tex Рік тому

    I love the original ring and the second remake. Low-profile rings (and east-west orientation) are where it's at! This is coming from a woman who had her wedding ring & band remade into one ring that is low-profile with an east-west oval diamond. It's great because I can wear it with gloves (I'm a lab tech) without worrying about snagging the diamond or ripping my gloves.

  • @katpow959
    @katpow959 Місяць тому

    Good for you. Once you have a dream diamond resetting it makes it new. ❤ East - West

  • @janinegiordano5265
    @janinegiordano5265 2 роки тому +1

    I love east west.. I have a pair halo ring set east - west and I get compliments on it everywhere I go

  • @SarahRodriguez-1619
    @SarahRodriguez-1619 Рік тому

    It’s hard to say, I like the cushion on its own, but then LOVE the antique look with halo. However, I love round diamonds they bling so much brighter, so I love the upgrade to. Let’s just say I love diamonds lol.

  • @susanalopez4309
    @susanalopez4309 5 місяців тому

    Hi Bonnie, your ring upgrade is lovely. I noticed that the bottom part of the diamond is completely covered by gold. What is that style called? Do you have a video explaining the pros/cons of that setting type? I’d love to learn more about it. Your videos are wonderful, I wish you all the best.

  • @Pixlanta
    @Pixlanta Рік тому

    I love Bonnie tea time ❤❤ Thank you

  • @Craftgirly
    @Craftgirly Рік тому +5

    Omg that new redesign is absolutely gorgeous 😍

  • @gingerpenley949
    @gingerpenley949 2 роки тому +1

    Your jewelry is gorgeous... Lucky lucky lady!!!!

  • @paulastrong7571
    @paulastrong7571 11 місяців тому

    I love that new setting ❤

  • @lustiQue
    @lustiQue 2 роки тому +1

    Is your cushion an antique cut? Usually not a fan of halos but your ring is just so pretty! Stop giving me ideas lol.

  • @verydenise
    @verydenise Рік тому +1

    I like it. It's like a signet ring.

  • @stacie8947
    @stacie8947 2 роки тому +1

    It turned out so BEAUTIFUL! Thanks for sharing. Now we need to see which diamond bracelets go with it. 😜

  • @sfmiko7869
    @sfmiko7869 2 роки тому +2

    Your husband is handsome! You make a beautiful couple. Happy holidays!! 🎉🎄

  • @LoveSource1111
    @LoveSource1111 2 роки тому +3

    I love big diamonds too!

  • @momma-kins6241
    @momma-kins6241 2 роки тому

    I LOVE THE DIAMONDS, but can we also take a moment to honor those GORGEOUS GOLD BANGLES @ 2:30?!? I mean ❤😍❤🌟👸🏼🌟🤤🤤🤤🤤!

  • @akastacy625
    @akastacy625 2 роки тому +1

    Just found your channel, in love with the ring ❤

  • @GiftSparks
    @GiftSparks 2 роки тому +1

    I think it is a gorgeous ring and moreover, it looks really comfortable.

  • @Teffe-dl6dz
    @Teffe-dl6dz Рік тому

    As someone who also chose her own ring, heck yeah to our own choice! I am also Chinese but luckily, nobody changed my mind..

  • @amyruth3897
    @amyruth3897 2 роки тому

    I would like to see about channel set wedding bands, other shapes than round diamonds. Your videos are very informative. Thank you!!

  • @user-kw6lp8kv2e
    @user-kw6lp8kv2e 9 місяців тому

    Hello, I am new to your channel and very much enjoying the content. Just a quick question what size melee or pave have you used on the halo. Many thanks.

  • @missknisely
    @missknisely 2 роки тому

    Love low profile ring settings too, Bonnie! Can you do something like your signature tulip prong style if you're looking to go low profile or is that something that essentially only comes with a mid to high setting option?

  • @ydamarioneserbano3986
    @ydamarioneserbano3986 2 роки тому +2

    U inspire me to be a gemologisttttt

  • @gingerjackson1681
    @gingerjackson1681 Рік тому

    I love this ring!! I wish you did reset, my dad wore an east-west pear shaped amethyst and would love it in this setting as east west. Should I have it in gold or rose gold?

  • @HappyKaci
    @HappyKaci Рік тому

    Hi Bonnie ❤ I would love to see this ring style in a round brilliant diamond😊 either platinum or yellow gold.

  • @huckxing8946
    @huckxing8946 2 роки тому +1

    Omg. I just asked ur assistant for east west ring pics/links/vids last month so I could send them over to my partner 😂

  • @teenytinyT
    @teenytinyT 2 роки тому

    Love the story telling and seeing the Chinese gold jewellery! I really like your furry top/vest!!

  • @LoveSource1111
    @LoveSource1111 2 роки тому

    Omg! Yes! I want a halo too. So beautiful!

  • @paderthao4374
    @paderthao4374 2 роки тому +1

    Gorgeous 🤩🤩

  • @theresamitchell9577
    @theresamitchell9577 10 місяців тому

    I love that ring!

  • @cuprunnethover2509
    @cuprunnethover2509 2 роки тому

    Your ring is pretty! I like big things too! I get my expensive taste from my Mom as well!

  • @alexzandriaweston7869
    @alexzandriaweston7869 Рік тому +1

    Love it!

  • @paulinabrzozowska708
    @paulinabrzozowska708 Рік тому

    The more I watch your videos the less I know which one to choose . I love all of them ❤

  • @chantelcox8880
    @chantelcox8880 2 роки тому +1

    Sooo pretty!! 😍

  • @momma-kins6241
    @momma-kins6241 2 роки тому

    Ms Bonnie, just seeing the PURE JOY on your face as you explained YOUR GORGEOUS REDO, makes ME WISH (even MORE) that YOU would RECONSIDER doing REDOs for YOUR CLIENTS, too!! 🙏🏼 I would LOVE to be able to wear my little 25 yr old OG diamond wedding ring, but after metastatic Breast Cancer & lymph node removal (resulting in swelling), it will never fit me again (& it can not be resized).😭 I've decided to give it to our daughter on her wedding day, but it will be tough to let go of...🥹

  • @jojoton4eva
    @jojoton4eva 10 місяців тому

    I actually find your original ring to be the most elegant and beautiful in its timeless design. I don't like halos, I find they take away from the beauty of the center stone trying to mask it and make it look bigger than it is, but when you look up close it's just an illusion.

  • @docride2705
    @docride2705 2 роки тому +1

    Happy holidays !

  • @aalvenda6443
    @aalvenda6443 2 роки тому +1

    Are you ok disclosing if it is a natural or lab diamond. I am personally torn between natural and lab. I LOVE big diamonds but I genuinely want to know what a gemologist decided to have! Thank you in advance!

    • @ByBonnieJewelry
      @ByBonnieJewelry  2 роки тому +3

      Yea sure, is a natural diamond :)

    • @bleeka325
      @bleeka325 2 роки тому +2

      They are chemically identical. Lab grown is less expensive

  • @ProudKansan08
    @ProudKansan08 2 роки тому

    While I'm not a fan of the Halo style ring, I LOVED your original Halo Cushion cut diamond engagement ring. I would be happy with that ring even if it was a Halo. Your remake of it😦 not so much of a fan. But as long as you're happy, that's all that matters. It's your ring and everyone has different tastes. I also like the way your original engagement ring was before the remake, because sometimes, I just like simple unadorned solitaires. I LOVE your upgrade ring!!!!!!!!😍😍😍😍 But, since I like to wear bands on either side, the diamond pave on the outside of the shanks I would skip because it wouldn't be seen if I wore bands on both sides of the ring, but, I absolutely LOVE your upgrade, too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Makes me drool.😁 As for the east-west rings, my dream solitaire would be an emerald or radiant cut set east west with maybe trilliants on either side on a band as wide as the diamonds's width.

  • @marcanthonymartinez5772
    @marcanthonymartinez5772 2 роки тому

    All material things we cannot take with us when we die but it is a lovely ring

  • @valeriewinters8472
    @valeriewinters8472 Рік тому +1

    I love your ring

  • @delilahgillis5287
    @delilahgillis5287 Рік тому

    I LOVE EAST-WEST BEZEL OVAL

  • @tangomz7070
    @tangomz7070 Рік тому +1

    Interesting. I am also married to a French husband and over there nobody really cares about the carat size. Dainty and discreet seem to be the keyword, and gaudy rings tend to be looked down upon. Are engagement rings even a thing in China? I thought engagement rings are not a part of wedding tradition in many Asian countries. Maybe that's changing?

  • @georgiabelle5176
    @georgiabelle5176 2 роки тому +1

    Most of us can’t afford even one of those rings on your finger, and even if I could, I wouldn’t waste that much money on a diamond.

  • @ginkat1318
    @ginkat1318 2 роки тому

    Yeahss I love the east west. I have the ugliest marquis diamond ever and had it reset into n east west setting and its still ugly. It has terrible proportions, it very long 😪 😢. Any idea's?

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +1

      You could give it to me; I love ultra-long cuts! 😁

  • @donnadrane4977
    @donnadrane4977 2 роки тому +4

    What would your mom have done if you married a man who could only afford 3/4 to 1 carat ring? That’s what I did. Even though I wanted a big ring my husband was a public servant (retired now) and I knew that’s what he could afford. We never upgraded because once we had kids and a mortgage it wasn’t financially possible. If it ever becomes possible I will come to you!

  • @michelleferrero8206
    @michelleferrero8206 2 роки тому +7

    Your mom doesn't have to wear it

  • @caffeinecoffee
    @caffeinecoffee 2 роки тому +1

    Bonnie I love all your rings! What lipstick are you wearing in this video? It looks so good on you!

  • @cindysell149
    @cindysell149 2 роки тому

    I like the 1 on your left hand, not the gold reset ring. Js

  • @docride2705
    @docride2705 2 роки тому +1

    Lovely

  • @addicted367
    @addicted367 2 роки тому +2

    I thought all of them were beautiful

  • @jennyofbabylonia
    @jennyofbabylonia 2 роки тому +4

    I am Chinese too. I wanted an oval solitaire but my mom said my engagement has to be a round diamond so to make her happy I got a round diamond. I am still lusting after an oval solitaire. 😢

  • @susan49c
    @susan49c 2 роки тому +2

    Obedient daughter? Mom says need more diamonds? Seriously? As if 3.5 carats isn’t enough! Entitled? Definitely!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @zoomby4380
    @zoomby4380 2 роки тому +2

    To make your mom happy....."Be happy for you.....be happy in your heart" .....
    Material stuff....is dead stuff....empty...materialism is empty and emptyless pit that never gets fill.....with more and more stuff.

  • @AmberZhang-k9f
    @AmberZhang-k9f Рік тому

    听妈妈的就对了,resetting确实更美了

  • @shinyeechew662
    @shinyeechew662 2 роки тому +1

    Finallyyyyy!

  • @marywkinnear2000
    @marywkinnear2000 2 роки тому

    Wish you would have shown all the way under the ring

  • @renae9365
    @renae9365 2 роки тому +2

    Well, she doesn’t have to wear it.

  • @edennis8578
    @edennis8578 2 роки тому

    I prefer a low profile. I don't care for the look of high profile rings, plus I bang my rings a lot if they're set too high. I guess I'm a clutz.

  • @normabadillo3235
    @normabadillo3235 2 роки тому +1

    Your mom does not have to say anything about your engagement ring. .. It's not her wedding ring.

  • @rgee5176
    @rgee5176 2 роки тому +1

    Not a fan of any halo action. That original was POW.

  • @lyndreyer7080
    @lyndreyer7080 2 роки тому +1

    Its up to you not mum and its what you future husband wants for you

  • @cbboyle5117
    @cbboyle5117 2 роки тому +1

    What about the husband’s feelings??😡

  • @calikiwi
    @calikiwi 2 роки тому +1

    Put your mom in her correct place!! She didn’t get engaged, YOU DID. Changing the ring is an insult to your future husband and he won’t forget or forgive no matter what he’s said! So CHOOSE! Do you want to live with your husband or your mom.

  • @vincentiPad
    @vincentiPad 2 роки тому +1

    your mum needs to mind her own business lol

  • @marialouisehargrove2814
    @marialouisehargrove2814 2 роки тому

    NOPE

  • @cbboyle5117
    @cbboyle5117 2 роки тому +1

    East/west orientation has been popular for many years! What you’ve done is stunning but nothing new.🤷🏻‍♀️. Sorry.