Please don't call your emotions useless. The pain you feel on behalf of other sentient beings is caused by what I consider the noblest quality of all social beings: Empathy.
Omg I'm crying at how touching this is. You are such a compassionate person and your love knows no bounds. I'll be thinking of lil Demi and hoping she returns safely. She knows you love her and that's the most important thing❤❤❤
I've cried too over Dimi but I keep being hopeful that she is going to show up again soon. I really love her. Thanks for the kind words and wishes to Dimi
Pray: The Serenity Prayer 🙏 ❣I love how you care for our birds. I lost my little Cockatiel girl that I was madly in love with almost 3 years ago. She was only 11 years old, but I was blessed to have her in my life since she was a fluffy little fledgling. My grief is still great and I think about her and talk to her every day. Ziva was bonded to me too. She was on me or with me all of her waking hours. She would stand on my head or on my pillow guarding me when I rested or nappef. She took showerd with me and we shared meals. She loved goung on car rides with me. She was perfect and sweet and comicle. Ziva was an extremely intelligent bird and she truly lovef me in with her entire body. She was an extremely loyal little creature. You're doing everything right please don't be too hard on yourself, because I have been and my health suffered for it. Be well and stay strong ,please. The world needs more gentle and in tuned with nature people like you. Tears and hugs ❣ Pray the The Serenity Prayer - it helps to heal. 😊
I've learned most of my lessons from animals. They seem to bring spiritual growth which filters down as practical, physical growth. They really are messengers. I hope Dimi returns to you healthy and happy.
I agree completely, Everly. And Leslie, I'm always touched by your dedication to your bird friends...they're so lucky to have you! It's hard to remember when you're caring for loved ones that you must also take care of yourself, otherwise you won't be able to continue that loving care! Best wishes to you, and I hope little Dimi returns!🥰
I just love your channel, your compassion, and teaching us not only about all our feathered friends but how to follow your example in being compassionate to them. Thank you again for all you do, for who you are. Your friend, Ross, Boise, Idaho, USA
i hope you see fluffy demi again. reminds me of when i found a limping mourning dove on my walk from work. looked like it got attacked by a stray cat. i brought it home and took care of it for about 4 months and finally released her when she started flying around my apartment. i was so happy to hear the coo/whistle in the early mornings
What a sweet birding story of your time with Dimi. Hoping she comes back to your neighborhood. But yes agreed; nature is rough at times. And super rough during winter months. Glad that you are into doing what you can for the chickadees, bluejays and other birds that roost in your local trees. ✳️🌲🌲🌞🌲🕊️🌲🌲🌲🐦🌲✳️
Absolutely, I'm glad people understand the struggle with becoming attached to them. They are just so innocent and full of wonder. Thank you for the kind comment.
Never,never ever bring a wild creature into your home, it will kill them. They are wild for a reason. Let them be wild and free like they were intended to be.
Next to Lesley the Bird Nerd you deserve to be named Lesley the Bird Savior and Whisperer. Your relationship not only to birds as a species but also to individual birds is downright amazing.
That's very nice of you to be so dedicated to our avian friends. In my opinion the very best, and most genuine, compliment a person can get is the trust of an animal. They have to open themselves to so much potential danger by lowering their guard around us, and I just can't think of a better testament to a person's character than when an animal gives you the seal of approval. I remember the first time I was ever able to touch a house finch visiting my feeder. I felt so honored! 🙂🐦
I know how you feel, and thank you for being so thoughtful and compassionate to these little birds...Did Demi ever return? I live in-town mid-coast Maine with quite a lot of cars and people, but I have land enough for feeders and gardens. I have planted quite a lot of conifers, great for birds in winter. It is cold here in Maine today, Jan. 2024, low twenties with the wind gusting. After doing my work this morning, I ran to the grocery store to get more unsalted, roasted peanuts for all the song birds, crows, squirrels, even a few seagulls, I live a mile from the ocean. They also have a stand feeder with sunflower kernels, which they love, that's really for the smaller birds, the mourning doves can kind of take over. Anyway, that was the most important thing for me to do today, I wanted to make sure they had a feed before they go through this cold night. And I hope they come back this afternoon before going to bed.! Yes, I know how all consuming it can be, hoping that they can make it through the winter. ....Also, I have three cats and two dogs, so a lot of time and care goes to the animals! Wouldn't want it any other way 💙💙💙. Thank you for your channel, I am thoroughly enjoying listening, getting more knowledge of birds, and seeing the beautiful scenes of Canada....💟
Fimi is indeed precious. We want to save all animals, protect them - but our powers are limited, and we must care for ourselves also. Nothing on Earth lives forever. ❤
Oh Lesley,I worry about my birds too. I haven’t been seeing my “Pretty Bird” when I whistle for her. But I know things happen out there in Natures World. You have such a wonderful heart for birds. You are a true Bird Whisperer. 💙💫
Blessings to "Little Chickadee Woman" Dimi!!! It's very possible you will see her again - your food offerings were all calorie dense and with your extras efforts Dimi got multiple feeds. So likely your supplementation got her through the worst weather. Even with her handicap she looked bright eyed and otherwise healthy. We Love You Lesley!!!
Oh Lesley, this brought tears to my eyes. I didn't realize the extent of the physical and emotional hardships you go through caring for your birds and bringing us along on your journeys. I assumed some, but didn't realize just how much. Caring people, like most birders are, do tend to be givers in all areas of life to the point of hurting our own selves in the process. I've been having a bit of a rough patch myself, but in some ways it's been a good thing, and currently is providing me a way I can help where I'm being "directed" to help. Let's just say lately I've been getting some "otherworldly" signs, especially surrounding the word "Chickadee" which is weird because that's what my mom's nickname was for me when I was little. We were very close, but unfortunately she died of cancer when I was a teen. She was just like you and I and so many other empathetic souls that love, care for, and endlessly worry about those (especially innocent wildlife) we are drawn to help. Being in the medical field, I really wanted to figure out what was wrong with Dimi's foot/leg and fix it! I read a few comments where people were advising you to get a heated jacket, and when I looked them up, I saw that they sell heated gloves as well! I also wanted to mention to you, if you didn't know already, that they make roosting boxes specifically for song birds... I got one for Christmas! Picture a regular nest box, turned upside-down so the entrance hole is at the bottom. There are wooden dowels inside the box for the birds to grasp as they sleep, and there are no air vents in the top so that as their body heat rises, more of it stays inside (same reason why the entrance hole is at the bottom). There are smaller boxes and also larger, rectangular ones that hold more birds, and have entrance holes on either end. I think you're supposed to take them down in the warmer months so that nuisance birds like House Sparrows won't nest in them and then monopolize them when it gets cold again. Anyways, I'm donating this money to you so that you can put it towards a heated jacket or gloves or a roosting box or anything else you need it for... spa day? 😀 I don't pay for TV, and you have given me so much value... beautiful pictures and video, amazing facts and stories, all brought together with your calming voice and gentle demeanor (not to mention bird sounds... that White Throated Sparrow!)... so I want to show my appreciation for all you do, and I know my mom would approve! Take care of yourself Lesley... you're not alone in these struggles, you're on the side of what's good and right in the world, and sometimes that's the hardest place to be... but you're with very good company.
My gosh, I don't even know what to say, everything that you wrote, all of your thoughtful words and contributing money to me so that I can buy good heated gear or some roosting boxes. It's so kind of you and I appreciate it a great deal. I'm going to look into a heated vest, and also roosting boxes. I've been wanting to set up some roosting boxes for the birds since the end of summer but things just never worked out. After my experience this winter though I'm going to invest in a few over the next several months so I'll be ready for next winter. Thank you for letting me know about keeping them in over summer. Your mom sounds like a special woman, and I think the fact she called you chickadee is heart warmingly sweet. :) She did a great job raising another compassionate being in this world. Thank you again for your always kind words, and help. I've learned some things from you with regard to the birds over the last couple of years, and I appreciate that. Have a wonderful weekend.
"Heart-warmingly" I meant, not "Heart warningly" My gosh, that typo and auto correct slipped past me. Which only now I'm learning isn't even a word. I made it all up, haha. So 'Heart-warmingly' is my word invention, ha, oh my. Hope you got a little laugh out of that :)
@@LesleytheBirdNerd You're so welcome Lesley... thank YOU for what you do! I think so many people have learned to appreciate birds because of you, and I think a lot of the time that eventually leads to a greater appreciation for nature in general... something we really need right now. I've been trying to get people to check out the work of Douglas Tallamy. He has devoted his life to researching how important native plants are to ecosystems and I've just been amazed reading about his work and watching his videos. What really clicked with me is how he talks about how certain native caterpillars (and other insects) will only eat certain native plants (anything from "weeds" and wildflowers to bushes and trees) so when those plants are replaced or displaced with invasive plants, the caterpillars disappear along with them. He said a nest of Chickadees, for example, will consume 5,000 to 6,000 caterpillars by the time they're able to be on their own! So it boils down to: no native plants=no caterpillars=no baby birds, etc... not to mention no native bees, butterflies, even our own food supply is affected. I knew native plants are important, but for some reason, I didn't really grasp how important, but the way he relates them with everything, it clicked with me and is inspiring me to plant more native plants on my own property to help the birds so they can have enough food to feed their babies. I don't understand why nurseries are even allowed to sell invasive plants whose seeds are obviously not going to stay within the confines of a person's yard and eventually get spread around... then they compete with and take over wild areas, while being useless to insects and animals. I'm sure greed and money is involved as usual, ugh! Sorry I'm going off on a tangent, lol! It's just so important, and I feel like, geez, if I didn't even think about it, I bet there's a whole lot of other people that are ignorant to it too, and if they knew, they would do things differently in their own yards. It's crazy just how intertwined pollinators are with birds and, well, a lot of other living things, plant and animal. There's a video about the importance of native bees too, that I found SO interesting that I wish EVERYONE would watch called "Bee Extinction: Why We're Saving the Wrong Bees." You should check it out if you get time, I bet you would find it really interesting too. It was a real eye-opener to me! Anyways, yeah, we didn't get my roosting box put out this year either. The ground was already frozen by Christmas and I want it to be on a pole with a squirrel/predator guard so the birds have more protection, so... need to wait until it's warmer. I'm glad you'll be able to use the money for something you need... I wish it could've been more. While I was watching this video about little Chickadee Dimi, something was just telling me you could use it. Then my mom popped in my head, then I looked out at the closest bird feeder to our window to see a Chickadee look right at me, knowingly tilt her head and stare at me, and then I was standing at the kitchen counter deciding/thinking about it and I reached into the candy bowl (which still had some Valentine "conversation candy hearts" in it) and pulled out a candy heart and it said, "chickadee" on it! Isn't that weird?! It was like my mom was sending me these signs and finally just saying, "Chickadee, just do it!" Hahaha! Like, get the message already! 😆 🤣 She really was the sweetest person, and would've given the shirt off her back if someone needed it. She would've loved your videos! Haha, that darned auto correct is always changing what (I think) I'm writing too... sometimes for the better and sometimes not, lol! You would think it would know what I mean by now! 😆 Hmmm, maybe I'm glad it doesn't...! Alright, well, I should get going. Sorry I tend to blab on and on! Take it easy, only 22 days til Spring!!
Thank you so much for mentioning that guy, Douglas Tallamy. I've always had an interest in native plants but it's never went far enough, not like the birds. Just as you explained though, the importance of the entire ecosystem and how the absence of particular plant species trickles down, and how the presence of invasive ones also trickle down to other wildlife. It is such a delicate balance out there. I have a deep fascination for bees, and learned last year that our beloved bumble bees are having serious problems. Breaks my heart. I'm going to watch that documentary you mentioned as well, thank you :) Wow that was your experience with seeing Chickadee? Oh my gosh, the way everything is so connected you, we are all one. I believe there is so much more to this world than we are able to realize in our human form. Too funny how you described it though, your mom is like, "I'm trying to tell you something here". haha. No worries about the "blabbing" hahah I can be like that too so I totally get it. It was a pleasure reading everything you said. You take it easy too and I'm so looking forward to Spring as are my birds :)
@@LesleytheBirdNerd Yes, I totally agree with everything you said! The interconnectedness... human and beyond... physical and metaphysical... never ceases to amaze me. I try to pay attention as well as I can, but modern life can be so distracting, especially when you have ADHD (Inattentive type) like me, lol! It's 10 times worse! 😆 🤣 Yes, I hope you can check out that video about native bees, especially if it's something you're already interested in. I think it was less than 10 minutes long, but wow, SO important. My husband and I don't use pesticides or herbicides, only in the most *extreme* cases, and we have Rusty Patch bees on our property! They were put on the endangered list in 2017 I read. I know the calendar says Spring is coming, but we got at least 4 MORE inches of snow today! I noticed a week ago when we had an unseasonable warm up the bird calls were sounding different and I saw some territorial squabbles between the Chickadees. Maybe that's what happened with Dimi, or what I hope happened anyway. Part of me hates not knowing, and part of me doesn't want to know... I'm sure you can relate. I felt the same when I heard about Hermoso. 😥 I guess the more we have to love in life, the more we have to lose, but I definitely think we are better to have known that love and I have to believe that someday we will all be reunited. In the meantime, we just have to learn from how they lived... their humor, their quirks and uniqueness, their perseverance... all of it, and hope we do the same for others. 😀
After I lost my dog, other people's animals and wild animals became my pets. I love them all. I have feelings for them. It's ok to cry. In fact, it's healthy. (I don't catch "colds" because I only eat whole, healthy, organic foods. No wheat or dairy. No mass produced meat.) They're all special and we're all tiny parts of God.
What an awesome video! ❤ It definitely can be hard to know where to draw the line with helping animals or even people! You made Dimi's life extra good, we know that for sure!
A vet told me once (and I've never forgotten it) a bird can get along just fine with a hurt or crippled leg or foot, they have remarkable healing power. What they can't get along with is a damaged wing or beak. I remember this each time I watch my birds in the yard. It helps me judge. Equally important is to remember that we meet these wonderful creatures at the edge of their world, where ours meets theirs. We visit, but we can never cross that line, for neither belongs on the other side. Be well, Lesley. Your health is as important as theirs - they're relying on you for that extra food in winter.
Thanks so much, Karen. It is true, as I've seen plenty of birds over the years with a bad leg or foot, and they've lived on for years. Thank you for the wise words about how we interact with them in their world. I believe you are right about that.
I stopped trying to "keep myself" from feeling deeply towards wildlife friends; instead I choose to actively practice respect for their agency (not taking a paternalistic responsibility for their choices) and I have to give myself time and space to fully experience whatever grief arises when their journeys conclude, as all journeys must eventually. Hang in there, Lesley. Getting tough sounds pragmatic, but getting softer, treating yourself with warmth, patience, and generosity - I have found it more effective in the long term. Loving deeply is a gift, and that gift needs special care sometimes. I think it's deeply human and totally normal.
@@LesleytheBirdNerd Hi Lesley……thanks - I am “all in “ for helping my bird friends and all the critters who hang out around my house. I especially like the cute bunny rabbits! I live south of you in Massachusetts but we currently are in a polar vortex and the birds are really hungry. I filled the feeders this afternoon but I’m sure by tomorrow midday they will be depleted. I appreciate your commitment to Dimi - I would have done the same! 🙂
Caring for others starts with *self* care, though the maternal instinct will often drive us on regardless and we run ourselves into the ground in the service of others. Just think - a healthy, strong, well rested Lesley is far more useful to her feathered friends than a run down, burnt out, physically/mentally/emotionally exhausted Lesley. Just like the birds pour all their energies into raising their little families with their mates, you must prioritise your own family and your health, your hobbies will always be there, your precious few years with your own brood wont. Be well Lesley, hugs from across the pond 🫶🏻
Remembering a horrible winter in northeast Ohio when we had a string of twenty below days. Mom found a huddle of Doves next to the house. She laid down hay and boxes for them, along with cracked corn. Later the neighbours told mom with the spring thaw, they found so many dead birds.😥 From that time on, there was nothing we wouldn't do for them.
What a special relationship you have with your little avian friends. Dimi is so cute. God bless you for looking after them so well. Beautiful up close shots of them. Thanks for sharing.
Lesley, it's normal to get attached to our feathered friends. I pray you experience healing from these losses 🙏🏼 Remember that our heavenly Father cares for these little ones, more than we possibly can. You are demonstrating His love in caring for them (and His love for each one of us, His human children!). Thank you for sharing with us. Be well ❤🙏🏼
Who wouldn't love these beautiful little creatures? I know how hard it is to balance necessary self-care with care and compassion for those you love. Birds know when they're loved and who they can trust. They sense your compassionate heart. May you stay in good health, and may all your little friends continue to bring you cheer!
As an old woman who has mobility problems, I watch the birds and squirrels that come to the multiple feeders and birdbath I have in and around my huge Cherry Tree out my front room window. And Lesley, you have my heart. Watching how you hand feed the birds and name them, and learning so much about nature and the birds that come to my view. And now, watching you devote yourself until you, yourself get ill, is just heart breaking. There are just some things that I have learned over my long and happy life...some things are just beyond our control. I have been watching your videos for several years now, and have learned so much from you. Give yourself a break. We love you!!! 🥰🥰🥰
You and I could be sisters... I fret and go to great lengths, hikes to care for my beloved bird friends. I am pretty hardy and can take the physical exertion. These birds are the love of my life.
I am also very attached to the birds that eat at my feeders. I get so upset when the hawks injure one or take them right from the feeders. The are such adapted hunters and are much smarter than me. I also try to keep the snow moved and cleaned around my bushes in the winter and it is a lot of work. I do believe that we have encroached on bird territory, and we should help them. This year as we got to our favorite camping spot in the Manti Lasal Forrest, a hummingbird came around and I didn't have my feeder set up yet. The little guy sat in the tree where the feeder usually is and just looked at us as if to say, where is the feeder? Birds know when you help them. I truly believe they depend on us to help them. This year spring came very late up in the forest. Snow was still covering the ground in many places for the first of July. The flowers were just getting started. So, this little bird needed that supplement. It is such a small thing but to that bird it might be the food that keeps it alive while the flowers grow and bloom. I have felt that pain and loss and I know exactly how you felt over your little chickadee needing a little bit of help. I commend you for all that you give to these creatures. They are worthy of our love and care. We had a bad hailstorm this past June. Many of the birds at the Great Salt Lake were killed in the storm. And I believe that the big hail took out baby birds in the nests as well. I have never seen hail that big. I see the quail in our neighborhood. They have babies now. Nature is amazing. But the baby birds that usually would come to my feeders were in very short supply this year. Bless you for all you share about your journey. I share your commitment and your tears when things go so wrong for these little fury friends. You can't have one without the other.
Bird lovers all over the world are going through the exact same things you detail here including all the thoughts and emotions with the birds we interact with daily. We're out there feeding and caring for the birds and animals that exist in our little chunk of the world making sure they have the best possible existence.
Seeing her remain strong with only one little leg is the strength we all need to resemble. ❤ also, those emotions are not useless. Don’t lose your spirituality because “nature”. It’s not the emotions, it’s how you handle them. Numbing yourself comes with problems too.
Leslie, what you do for those birds is priceless. I am praying for Dimi. I know those feelings of guilt all to well. And I know the attachment one gets to these beautiful birds. I lost Napoleon (my green cheeked Conure) October-12-2020, and I have never gotten over it. I want you to know watching your channel has brought me much happiness and peace to help me cope. Thank you for all you do and God Bless.
So heart breaking when our little friends vanish with no explanation! 💔🛐 I’m praying for Dimi to be okay, while I also pray for the broken hearted, the downcast, the abused, the homeless, the sick, the needy, those who mourn, those on the verge of giving up, the hungry/thirsty, those in war torn countries, those suffering from natural disasters, the marginalized, the widow, the fatherless, the refugee, the foreigner, those with mental illness, those cursed for the sins of their parents, and Jimmy Carter in his final days to be rewarded for his good deeds and example to us all. May Jimmy rest in the bosom of Abraham.
You gave her so many good yummy strengthening moments and made us all love and appreciate her- what a gift! Please take care of your precious self and remember Emily Dickenson’s poem: Hope is the thing with feathers That perches in the soul…
Thank you for caring for all the birds, Leslie. Of course you love them! In the process you are learning to better care for yourself as well. Much respect and sympathy to you. May God always bless you and the birds. 🙏💙
It's hard to not get attached and I've given up trying not to and instead just accept that I will feel heartbreak. I had a mother deer who would always bring her fawns to my yard and she came to my house for 2 years and then one year she was gone. I still think of her often. I hope little Dimi is safe 💕
It's heartbreaking. You're not alone. I enjoyed 30+ Goldfinches at my feeders as short as 2 years ago; an ocean of yellow everywhere. I heard their little ones in the fall flying about. Some even came to our backyard to enjoy the seeds from our gardens. Fast forward to now, maybe a pair that shows up once a month. They were hit by conjunctivitis + construction of human homes over their homes. Their trees were taken down. Try as I did, I couldn't stop any of this from happening. Seeing them missing this winter was utterly depressing for me. I'm slowly learning that I too need to balance myself better. I wouldn't consider your emotions useless. They weigh on you but they're not useless. They're important in getting you to the point where you are ready to accept the things you can't change.
I totally understand how you feel. I'm especially attached to birds all my life. And I have had pet birds all my life. It's hard for me to see them in a pet store. My pet birds are out of their cages all day. I feed outdoor birds with many feeders. Seeing the moose in your video reminds me of a calf moose I fed all winter because someone killed it's mother. It's very hard not to care about the wild animals we're blessed to see. I do know they aren't with us for long sometimes. But I think it's better we care about them than not caring about them. Your story about Dimi has touched my heart. This is why I love your channel Leslie. I hope Dimi comes back and if she doesn't you gave your all to her. You are an amazing person! Thank you for looking out for our feathered friends. ❤️
I can so relate....my involvement is with cats, and some birds....I suffer terribly at times. I feel so sorry for the suffering I see among certain feral cats, and the birds around here. I live in the White Mountains of Arizona at 7K foot elevation. I've done what could to help the cats, and the birds too..but there's only so much one can do. And, it's all expensive....we nearly lost our home last year, due to too many cats and paying for storage units. By the grace and mercy of the Lord, we are still here. I've had to try to realize that this earth and all in it belong to God. He made everything that was made....He's our Creator and He knows all His creation. They belong to Him. I do what I, a puny human, can do. And I pray!! I pray for His creatures, every night, I lift them up to Him in prayer. I can't save them all! I've seen death over and over again. And, it's sad and it hurts. But, again, I lift up my eyes to the hills. Where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, Maker of Heaven and Earth. That's from Psalm 121, one of my favorite psalms. And, this is my motto: All I have is from God, and I give it out of His hand. We do our best, and I know, Lesley, you do your utmost! That's all we can do humanly speaking. But God....He knows! And it's all His, and we must simply Trust Him with His creation....may His will be done, not ours. He knows best. His ways are higher than our ways. And His thoughts are higher than our thoughts. We do our best....that's it. Shalom! 💜🕊💜✡️✝️💜🕊💜🐈🐦🐈🐦🐈🐦🎀💖🎀💜🕊💜
Your channel grew on me, i'm not the biggest bird person myself but the way you structure your videos and the beautyful shots you create are very appreciated. Keep doing what you're doing.
Thank you as always, for sharing this video and story of Dimi. Your compassion and empathy for the birds amazes and touches me! ❤️ I sure hope little Dimi returns soon! Stay well!
Always love your videos and info. I feed birds and critters all year long here in northern New Hampshire. My favorite are the Chickadees also. I have a respect for Crows after watching what good family birds they are. The Squirrels have convinced me to feed on the ground. The Chickadees roust in our evergreen trees. I put food around the trees and hide food in the notches of the trees. I give the Squirrels enough roasted peanuts that they don’t pig out on the seed the smaller birds and critters like.
I don't know who's sweeter: Lesley or the birds she feeds. Wish we had all that snow down here in Ohio. It's been one of the mildest winters in memory. I like winter when it snows!
The birds, definitely the birds :) Haha, thanks for the sweet compliment. I hear you about wanting snow in winter. It's just not the same without it. :)
Thank you Leslie for sharing as always, I know exactly what you mean, your thoughs and reflexiones sore through my mind every time I try to help to the feathery friends around my home, I hope Dimi is ok, and I can wait to see her soon in one of your videos. You are a kind soul, take care yourself. Blessings .
Lesley, you are a very special lady…you have such a big heart! Caring is tough, but isn’t that why we are here? God bless you…only you can decide what makes you happy…right?
Thank you for the kind comment. They are what makes me happy, I just need to rethink my approach to them :) I'll never leave those birds, and I will always do what I reasonably can for them.
Wow very awesome. Thank you for taking care of the birds in your area. We put out feed all winter. It makes a difference especially when it’s very cold. Their survival rate goes up tremendously when they have a food source when it’s really cold. Blessings. 🙏🏽
Lesley, buy and use a hand warmer. You can also buy battery-powered socks. As Alaskans remind us it isn't the cold that injures and kills, it's the lack of preparations for the cold. In winter, some starve; others ski, feed the birds or go skiing. Love your videos! "Every bird, every tree, every flower reminds me what a blessing and privilege it is just to be alive.” - Marty Rubin
Damn. That was a tough story to get through. So many emotions. I feel you. I really do. And bless you for your dedication to the birds and your mentorship to us. Demi was special. She reminds me of my one legged bluejay Mochi. Thanks again.
Lesley - I may not know you in real life, but you seem like a genuinely wonderful person. The way you see the world is incredibly touching, and your videos have brought me immense joy. You're the sort of person that I want to be in this life. Thank you so much for sharing your love of birds, and I'm glad that you're learning to show yourself the same care that you do our avian friends.
Wow, thank you for those kind words, Charlie. It's a great joy to affect people in that way. :) You're so welcome, I'm glad that you find joy from these videos, take care.
You're a gem Lesley. Black capped Chickadees are my favorite. I know how you feel because I know which birds visit my feeders and worry when I don't see my regulars.
Aw you have such a sensitive spirit and I completely understand your need to help these beautiful creatures! I got teary eyed when you couldn’t find your sweet little Dimi. 😢 However you did your best and that is all you can do. As you said it is nature. You truly are the Bird Whisperer! I love your channel and God bless you for your kindness! 🥰
This is amazing, cuz how bright personality you gotta have for bird's to earn trust in you, and feed em in freezing temperature? And first meeting trust is precious, I'm American and I hear Canadian accent, plus I love snow, and wanna go to trip to Canada when I can afford it. So beautiful nature 😍❤️😍😍❤️❤️😍❤️❤️. Love it.
Lesley, you have truly made my bird world soooo much more wonderful! You have enriched my natural love for birds with amazing information and personal insights and observations. I cannot find words to explain how much your channel has influenced not only my "bird world" , but my life in general. For example, I used to kinda be pissy at blue jays for being noisy and bossy, but now I'm embracing their breathtaking beauty and teaching them to catch peanuts I throw up to the sky! You know, Lesley, when people look back at their lives and wonder what, if anything, they have done to make a mark on this world, I can 100% assure you that you and the knowledge you've shared have *DEFINITELY* made a humble yet wildly profound impact on my everyday, simple life here in northern Michigan. Thank you. 😊
We have a flock of song sparrows who live in a viburnum bush at the base of a small hackberry tree on our property here in the mountains of East Tennessee. These tiny morsels of life are so cute in the morning as they sit together in their tree, turning their faces to the quickly warming sun. Later, they line up along the top of our wooden fence, singing for their breakfast. The quickly refilled feeder is a big hit with them and they take turns gobbling mouthfuls of seeds. All through the day, they continue taking turns at the feeder and can easily empty a five-pound hopper in one day. At evening, they all sit facing the setting sun, warming themselves in its last rays before the chill of night settles in. Then they fill their bush with soft songs and twitters as they prepare to sleep. We really enjoy these little songbirds, whom we refer to as "The Choir." They stay with us all year through and we make sure to provide plenty of fresh food and water. In the spring, we provide live mealworms as a special treat. How rewarding it is to help our little feathered friends! We rejoice in the late spring when the babies join the flock and we weep when a pile of tiny feathers says that the hawk who lives across the valley has taken one of our sparrows to feed his young in their nest. Nature is beautiful and it can be cruel, but cooperating with the Maker of all things in caring for the birds is a wonderful way to spend our time. After all, His eye is on the sparrow, so we can know that He watches over His children.
Good job, Lesley, I know these birds appreciate the heck out of you. As do your viewers. Take care of yourself. Milwaukee sells a battery powered heated vest, you might need to invest in something like that to help keep you warm while out doing your good deeds. We will keep our fingers crossed for Dimi.
Thank you the kind words and for mentioning the heated vest. I should look into that. Sounds like something I definitely need. I'm keeping a look out for little Dimi :)
Lesley, I love your heart for Gods creatures. I love my birds, but I am also attached to our foxes that live up here at 10600 feet with us. We had a few sick foxes lately ( mange) and it is heartbreaking when they no longer come around. I deal with the heartbreak like this. I tell God that someday in heaven they will be with me healed and whole. They will remember my help here on earth and surround me with their healed and healthy bodies. I will see them again someday, but healthy and thanking me for my love and attention. Hope you find peace and love in all you do with our feathered friends! ❤️❤️❤️
Dimi is adorable! Love our little birdy friends!❤❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing. Take care of yourself so you can take care of those adorable little ones!😊 Can you get some handwarmers?
You have such a good heart. I have worked health cared for 36 years....we can't care for others if we don't care for ourselves. Hardest thing for me to do. Bless you. 🧡
This was the first video I watched after discovering your channel. Undoubtedly, you are a very special person. These little creatures have all lived better lives because of you. And those of us that have been able to share in your moments from our homes just appreciate nature and the kindness of humanity that much more. Sometimes when all you can see when you look at the world is darkness and horrible things happen, little moments like this remind us that there is still good in the world. Thank you for what you do.
Lesley----what a lovely heart you have....I remember those cold days here upstate NY also...I certainly dont make a trek like you do....I had trouble in my own property with the wind chill...just seeing your hands I was thinking your way tougher then I am...that one Chickadee is beautiful red on bottom and green on top.......lol thinking about bringing it into your home....my wife and I have thought the same at times...your such a blessing to these birds and also to us...love little Dimi...a farmer where I live told me as a farmer you cant name any animals as you might get attached...I know you talk change and being realistic but I think your too full of love for these creations to change too much....stay safe God Bless
Oh it gets pretty cold on the old hands that's for sure and I seem to much wimpier than I was in my younger years. Either that or it's colder than they are saying it is, haha! Yea, I don't know how well that would be to take Dimi inside, It's nice to know that others think the same things when seeing birds in distress :) Maybe one day I will get my training as a wildlife rehabber and open something here in my area. We sure could use something like that here. Your farmer friend is right you know, naming these birds adds so much more to them, but then again if it weren't possible for me to see each of their distinctions and unique behaviors I would probably never had named them. I guess names or not there is no refuting the fact that all of these birds are truly different from one another. :) You're right, changing my approach to these birds too much is probably not something I will be able to do. Thanks for your kind comment, Russ Take care.
Life is too short and love is too long. It's hard not to care & I think that's beautiful about human nature. Thank you so much for teaching us about these birds and letting us partake in your journey with them 💜
What a wonderful video. You're such a beautiful person, Lesley! Your empathy and tenacity knows no bounds. Here in southeastern CT, we've barely gotten any snow all winter, which I attribute to global warning. I'm guessing most Canadians are like "What's global warming?" lol. I will be praying for Dimi's safe return. What a tough little bird, I love her so much! BirdsWalkingDown builds the most incredible nest boxes that I've ever seen, that was kind of him to send you a couple. He inspired me to put up my own boxes this year. Please take care of yourself, so you can continue to take care of your little feathered friends, and be healthy and mobile to greet Dimi upon her return. Thanks for another fantastic, heartwarming video!
I hope Dimi is OK! A lot of times after I start hand-feeding chickadees a lot and I stop for a couple of days, the chickadees all leave the area. Sometimes I won't see them again for weeks, months, or seasons. I hope you get to see her again sometime soon! Such a touching, heartwarming story
it is amazing that birds can survive weather like this.
I am glad to live under the same moon as you,Leslie.
That's such cute thing to say :)
Thank you for sharing this story about Demi.
You are an Angel
Please don't call your emotions useless. The pain you feel on behalf of other sentient beings is caused by what I consider the noblest quality of all social beings: Empathy.
Omg I'm crying at how touching this is. You are such a compassionate person and your love knows no bounds. I'll be thinking of lil Demi and hoping she returns safely. She knows you love her and that's the most important thing❤❤❤
I've cried too over Dimi but I keep being hopeful that she is going to show up again soon. I really love her. Thanks for the kind words and wishes to Dimi
@@LesleytheBirdNerd I like Demi sweet little chickadee 😊
Pray: The Serenity Prayer 🙏
❣I love how you care for our birds.
I lost my little Cockatiel girl that I was madly in love with almost 3 years ago. She was only 11 years old, but I was blessed to have her in my life since she was a fluffy little fledgling. My grief is still great and I think about her and talk to her every day. Ziva was bonded to me too. She was on me or with me all of her waking hours. She would stand on my head or on my pillow guarding me when I rested or nappef. She took showerd with me and we shared meals. She loved goung on car rides with me. She was perfect and sweet and comicle. Ziva was an extremely intelligent bird and she truly lovef me in with her entire body. She was an extremely loyal little creature. You're doing everything right please don't be too hard on yourself, because I have been and my health suffered for it.
Be well and stay strong ,please. The world needs more gentle and in tuned with nature people like you.
Tears and hugs ❣
Pray the The Serenity Prayer - it helps to heal. 😊
Please excuse all of my typos ❣
🥰🐦 bless your Heart ❤️ for taking care of the those birds 🦅
Thank you. :) I hope she comes back to me soon
@@LesleytheBirdNerd I believe she’ll come back you’re awesome🦅❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@LesleytheBirdNerd how do can those birds to trust you it's adorable 🤔🥰
I hope Dimi returns. Thank you for nurturing sweet baby Dimi.
I've learned most of my lessons from animals. They seem to bring spiritual growth which filters down as practical, physical growth. They really are messengers. I hope Dimi returns to you healthy and happy.
100 percent agree with everything you said. I hope that I see my little Dimi again soon too. Thank you for your kind words.
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Please let us know if she returns 🙏🏼
I agree completely, Everly. And Leslie, I'm always touched by your dedication to your bird friends...they're so lucky to have you! It's hard to remember when you're caring for loved ones that you must also take care of yourself, otherwise you won't be able to continue that loving care! Best wishes to you, and I hope little Dimi returns!🥰
I adore what you do. A dying breed, humble and kind people. Thank you and the Lord bless you and keep you! Beautiful video/pictures.
I just love your channel, your compassion, and teaching us not only about all our feathered friends but how to follow your example in being compassionate to them.
Thank you again for all you do, for who you are.
Your friend,
Ross, Boise, Idaho, USA
i hope you see fluffy demi again. reminds me of when i found a limping mourning dove on my walk from work. looked like it got attacked by a stray cat. i brought it home and took care of it for about 4 months and finally released her when she started flying around my apartment. i was so happy to hear the coo/whistle in the early mornings
What a sweet birding story of your time with Dimi. Hoping she comes back to your neighborhood. But yes agreed; nature is rough at times. And super rough during winter months. Glad that you are into doing what you can for the chickadees, bluejays and other birds that roost in your local trees.
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I love to see the love and care you give these sweet birds! Your channel has quickly become my favorite birding channel ❤
You are a very kind young lady! God is a kind and caring creator. 💕
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Leslie. It's so hard to not get attached to these wonderful little critters, you do so much to help them!
Absolutely, I'm glad people understand the struggle with becoming attached to them. They are just so innocent and full of wonder. Thank you for the kind comment.
Never,never ever bring a wild creature into your home, it will kill them. They are wild for a reason. Let them be wild and free like they were intended to be.
Next to Lesley the Bird Nerd you deserve to be named Lesley the Bird Savior and Whisperer. Your relationship not only to birds as a species but also to individual birds is downright amazing.
That's very nice of you to be so dedicated to our avian friends.
In my opinion the very best, and most genuine, compliment a person can get is the trust of an animal. They have to open themselves to so much potential danger by lowering their guard around us, and I just can't think of a better testament to a person's character than when an animal gives you the seal of approval. I remember the first time I was ever able to touch a house finch visiting my feeder. I felt so honored! 🙂🐦
It's beautiful that's for sure :)
You know what happened to that Inca Cheif and the gold hungry Spaniard, Pizzaro…. ? From letting his guard down and not turning on his trust ometer…
Totally understand your care for and of them...wear same shoes 👍
I know how you feel, and thank you for being so thoughtful and compassionate to these little birds...Did Demi ever return? I live in-town mid-coast Maine with quite a lot of cars and people, but I have land enough for feeders and gardens. I have planted quite a lot of conifers, great for birds in winter. It is cold here in Maine today, Jan. 2024, low twenties with the wind gusting. After doing my work this morning, I ran to the grocery store to get more unsalted, roasted peanuts for all the song birds, crows, squirrels, even a few seagulls, I live a mile from the ocean. They also have a stand feeder with sunflower kernels, which they love, that's really for the smaller birds, the mourning doves can kind of take over. Anyway, that was the most important thing for me to do today, I wanted to make sure they had a feed before they go through this cold night. And I hope they come back this afternoon before going to bed.! Yes, I know how all consuming it can be, hoping that they can make it through the winter. ....Also, I have three cats and two dogs, so a lot of time and care goes to the animals! Wouldn't want it any other way 💙💙💙. Thank you for your channel, I am thoroughly enjoying listening, getting more knowledge of birds, and seeing the beautiful scenes of Canada....💟
The price of love is grief. I’m sorry for your loss. Maybe she’ll return again. They sure love you too.
Fimi is indeed precious. We want to save all animals, protect them - but our powers are limited, and we must care for ourselves also. Nothing on Earth lives forever. ❤
You are a wonderful person my dear friend. It's not many people who would treck through the snow covered forest are very few. Thanks 🙏
Oh Lesley,I worry about my birds too. I haven’t been seeing my “Pretty Bird” when I whistle for her. But I know things happen out there in Natures World. You have such a wonderful heart for birds. You are a true Bird Whisperer. 💙💫
Aww I'm so sorry. I hope your Pretty Bird shows up again soon. I've had birds disappear for as long as a year and then show up again.
Blessings to "Little Chickadee Woman" Dimi!!!
It's very possible you will see her again - your food offerings were all calorie dense and with your extras efforts Dimi got multiple feeds. So likely your supplementation got her through the worst weather. Even with her handicap she looked bright eyed and otherwise healthy. We Love You Lesley!!!
Oh Lesley, this brought tears to my eyes. I didn't realize the extent of the physical and emotional hardships you go through caring for your birds and bringing us along on your journeys. I assumed some, but didn't realize just how much. Caring people, like most birders are, do tend to be givers in all areas of life to the point of hurting our own selves in the process. I've been having a bit of a rough patch myself, but in some ways it's been a good thing, and currently is providing me a way I can help where I'm being "directed" to help. Let's just say lately I've been getting some "otherworldly" signs, especially surrounding the word "Chickadee" which is weird because that's what my mom's nickname was for me when I was little. We were very close, but unfortunately she died of cancer when I was a teen. She was just like you and I and so many other empathetic souls that love, care for, and endlessly worry about those (especially innocent wildlife) we are drawn to help. Being in the medical field, I really wanted to figure out what was wrong with Dimi's foot/leg and fix it!
I read a few comments where people were advising you to get a heated jacket, and when I looked them up, I saw that they sell heated gloves as well! I also wanted to mention to you, if you didn't know already, that they make roosting boxes specifically for song birds... I got one for Christmas! Picture a regular nest box, turned upside-down so the entrance hole is at the bottom. There are wooden dowels inside the box for the birds to grasp as they sleep, and there are no air vents in the top so that as their body heat rises, more of it stays inside (same reason why the entrance hole is at the bottom). There are smaller boxes and also larger, rectangular ones that hold more birds, and have entrance holes on either end. I think you're supposed to take them down in the warmer months so that nuisance birds like House Sparrows won't nest in them and then monopolize them when it gets cold again.
Anyways, I'm donating this money to you so that you can put it towards a heated jacket or gloves or a roosting box or anything else you need it for... spa day? 😀 I don't pay for TV, and you have given me so much value... beautiful pictures and video, amazing facts and stories, all brought together with your calming voice and gentle demeanor (not to mention bird sounds... that White Throated Sparrow!)... so I want to show my appreciation for all you do, and I know my mom would approve! Take care of yourself Lesley... you're not alone in these struggles, you're on the side of what's good and right in the world, and sometimes that's the hardest place to be... but you're with very good company.
My gosh, I don't even know what to say, everything that you wrote, all of your thoughtful words and contributing money to me so that I can buy good heated gear or some roosting boxes. It's so kind of you and I appreciate it a great deal. I'm going to look into a heated vest, and also roosting boxes. I've been wanting to set up some roosting boxes for the birds since the end of summer but things just never worked out. After my experience this winter though I'm going to invest in a few over the next several months so I'll be ready for next winter. Thank you for letting me know about keeping them in over summer.
Your mom sounds like a special woman, and I think the fact she called you chickadee is heart warmingly sweet. :) She did a great job raising another compassionate being in this world. Thank you again for your always kind words, and help. I've learned some things from you with regard to the birds over the last couple of years, and I appreciate that. Have a wonderful weekend.
"Heart-warmingly" I meant, not "Heart warningly" My gosh, that typo and auto correct slipped past me. Which only now I'm learning isn't even a word. I made it all up, haha. So 'Heart-warmingly' is my word invention, ha, oh my. Hope you got a little laugh out of that :)
@@LesleytheBirdNerd You're so welcome Lesley... thank YOU for what you do! I think so many people have learned to appreciate birds because of you, and I think a lot of the time that eventually leads to a greater appreciation for nature in general... something we really need right now. I've been trying to get people to check out the work of Douglas Tallamy. He has devoted his life to researching how important native plants are to ecosystems and I've just been amazed reading about his work and watching his videos. What really clicked with me is how he talks about how certain native caterpillars (and other insects) will only eat certain native plants (anything from "weeds" and wildflowers to bushes and trees) so when those plants are replaced or displaced with invasive plants, the caterpillars disappear along with them. He said a nest of Chickadees, for example, will consume 5,000 to 6,000 caterpillars by the time they're able to be on their own! So it boils down to: no native plants=no caterpillars=no baby birds, etc... not to mention no native bees, butterflies, even our own food supply is affected. I knew native plants are important, but for some reason, I didn't really grasp how important, but the way he relates them with everything, it clicked with me and is inspiring me to plant more native plants on my own property to help the birds so they can have enough food to feed their babies. I don't understand why nurseries are even allowed to sell invasive plants whose seeds are obviously not going to stay within the confines of a person's yard and eventually get spread around... then they compete with and take over wild areas, while being useless to insects and animals. I'm sure greed and money is involved as usual, ugh! Sorry I'm going off on a tangent, lol! It's just so important, and I feel like, geez, if I didn't even think about it, I bet there's a whole lot of other people that are ignorant to it too, and if they knew, they would do things differently in their own yards. It's crazy just how intertwined pollinators are with birds and, well, a lot of other living things, plant and animal. There's a video about the importance of native bees too, that I found SO interesting that I wish EVERYONE would watch called "Bee Extinction: Why We're Saving the Wrong Bees." You should check it out if you get time, I bet you would find it really interesting too. It was a real eye-opener to me!
Anyways, yeah, we didn't get my roosting box put out this year either. The ground was already frozen by Christmas and I want it to be on a pole with a squirrel/predator guard so the birds have more protection, so... need to wait until it's warmer. I'm glad you'll be able to use the money for something you need... I wish it could've been more. While I was watching this video about little Chickadee Dimi, something was just telling me you could use it. Then my mom popped in my head, then I looked out at the closest bird feeder to our window to see a Chickadee look right at me, knowingly tilt her head and stare at me, and then I was standing at the kitchen counter deciding/thinking about it and I reached into the candy bowl (which still had some Valentine "conversation candy hearts" in it) and pulled out a candy heart and it said, "chickadee" on it! Isn't that weird?! It was like my mom was sending me these signs and finally just saying, "Chickadee, just do it!" Hahaha! Like, get the message already! 😆 🤣 She really was the sweetest person, and would've given the shirt off her back if someone needed it. She would've loved your videos!
Haha, that darned auto correct is always changing what (I think) I'm writing too... sometimes for the better and sometimes not, lol! You would think it would know what I mean by now! 😆 Hmmm, maybe I'm glad it doesn't...!
Alright, well, I should get going. Sorry I tend to blab on and on! Take it easy, only 22 days til Spring!!
Thank you so much for mentioning that guy, Douglas Tallamy. I've always had an interest in native plants but it's never went far enough, not like the birds. Just as you explained though, the importance of the entire ecosystem and how the absence of particular plant species trickles down, and how the presence of invasive ones also trickle down to other wildlife. It is such a delicate balance out there. I have a deep fascination for bees, and learned last year that our beloved bumble bees are having serious problems. Breaks my heart. I'm going to watch that documentary you mentioned as well, thank you :)
Wow that was your experience with seeing Chickadee? Oh my gosh, the way everything is so connected you, we are all one. I believe there is so much more to this world than we are able to realize in our human form. Too funny how you described it though, your mom is like, "I'm trying to tell you something here". haha. No worries about the "blabbing" hahah I can be like that too so I totally get it. It was a pleasure reading everything you said. You take it easy too and I'm so looking forward to Spring as are my birds :)
@@LesleytheBirdNerd Yes, I totally agree with everything you said! The interconnectedness... human and beyond... physical and metaphysical... never ceases to amaze me. I try to pay attention as well as I can, but modern life can be so distracting, especially when you have ADHD (Inattentive type) like me, lol! It's 10 times worse! 😆 🤣
Yes, I hope you can check out that video about native bees, especially if it's something you're already interested in. I think it was less than 10 minutes long, but wow, SO important. My husband and I don't use pesticides or herbicides, only in the most *extreme* cases, and we have Rusty Patch bees on our property! They were put on the endangered list in 2017 I read.
I know the calendar says Spring is coming, but we got at least 4 MORE inches of snow today! I noticed a week ago when we had an unseasonable warm up the bird calls were sounding different and I saw some territorial squabbles between the Chickadees. Maybe that's what happened with Dimi, or what I hope happened anyway. Part of me hates not knowing, and part of me doesn't want to know... I'm sure you can relate. I felt the same when I heard about Hermoso. 😥 I guess the more we have to love in life, the more we have to lose, but I definitely think we are better to have known that love and I have to believe that someday we will all be reunited. In the meantime, we just have to learn from how they lived... their humor, their quirks and uniqueness, their perseverance... all of it, and hope we do the same for others. 😀
We are here to be stewards of nature, doing what we can in gentle ways to protect, this is what you were doing with Dimi.
After I lost my dog, other people's animals and wild animals became my pets. I love them all. I have feelings for them. It's ok to cry. In fact, it's healthy. (I don't catch "colds" because I only eat whole, healthy, organic foods. No wheat or dairy. No mass produced meat.) They're all special and we're all tiny parts of God.
What an awesome video! ❤ It definitely can be hard to know where to draw the line with helping animals or even people! You made Dimi's life extra good, we know that for sure!
A vet told me once (and I've never forgotten it) a bird can get along just fine with a hurt or crippled leg or foot, they have remarkable healing power. What they can't get along with is a damaged wing or beak. I remember this each time I watch my birds in the yard. It helps me judge. Equally important is to remember that we meet these wonderful creatures at the edge of their world, where ours meets theirs. We visit, but we can never cross that line, for neither belongs on the other side. Be well, Lesley. Your health is as important as theirs - they're relying on you for that extra food in winter.
Thanks so much, Karen. It is true, as I've seen plenty of birds over the years with a bad leg or foot, and they've lived on for years. Thank you for the wise words about how we interact with them in their world. I believe you are right about that.
You are amazing! Out there in the cold for them!
One can’t change the world.
But we can change one life.
I stopped trying to "keep myself" from feeling deeply towards wildlife friends; instead I choose to actively practice respect for their agency (not taking a paternalistic responsibility for their choices) and I have to give myself time and space to fully experience whatever grief arises when their journeys conclude, as all journeys must eventually. Hang in there, Lesley. Getting tough sounds pragmatic, but getting softer, treating yourself with warmth, patience, and generosity - I have found it more effective in the long term. Loving deeply is a gift, and that gift needs special care sometimes. I think it's deeply human and totally normal.
I appreciate your thoughtful words, thank you :)
I also appreciate this so much and needed to read it. I'm saving it for when I need a reminder. Thank you from me, too. ❤
@@LesleytheBirdNerd Lesley you don't have to worry bird's know how to Care themselves 😊☝️
I sure wish more people had the capacity for empathy and kindness as you seem to have.
Thanx so much for helping our critter friends.
Very touching story. I have several feeder’s going ( seed and suet ) and it’s literally a feeding frenzy everyday - love watching them.
I love that you are helping them! 😊
@@LesleytheBirdNerd Hi Lesley……thanks - I am “all in “ for helping my bird friends and all the critters who hang out around my house. I especially like the cute bunny rabbits! I live south of you in Massachusetts but we currently are in a polar vortex and the birds are really hungry. I filled the feeders this afternoon but I’m sure by tomorrow midday they will be depleted. I appreciate your commitment to Dimi - I would have done the same! 🙂
Caring for others starts with *self* care, though the maternal instinct will often drive us on regardless and we run ourselves into the ground in the service of others. Just think - a healthy, strong, well rested Lesley is far more useful to her feathered friends than a run down, burnt out, physically/mentally/emotionally exhausted Lesley. Just like the birds pour all their energies into raising their little families with their mates, you must prioritise your own family and your health, your hobbies will always be there, your precious few years with your own brood wont. Be well Lesley, hugs from across the pond 🫶🏻
Remembering a horrible winter in northeast Ohio when we had a string of twenty below days. Mom found a huddle of Doves next to the house. She laid down hay and boxes for them, along with cracked corn. Later the neighbours told mom with the spring thaw, they found so many dead birds.😥 From that time on, there was nothing we wouldn't do for them.
What a special relationship you have with your little avian friends. Dimi is so cute. God bless you for looking after them so well. Beautiful up close shots of them. Thanks for sharing.
Lesley, it's normal to get attached to our feathered friends. I pray you experience healing from these losses 🙏🏼 Remember that our heavenly Father cares for these little ones, more than we possibly can. You are demonstrating His love in caring for them (and His love for each one of us, His human children!). Thank you for sharing with us. Be well ❤🙏🏼
No matter how much heartbreak I go through helping critters, I just can't stop. You too, huh?
Who wouldn't love these beautiful little creatures? I know how hard it is to balance necessary self-care with care and compassion for those you love. Birds know when they're loved and who they can trust. They sense your compassionate heart. May you stay in good health, and may all your little friends continue to bring you cheer!
As an old woman who has mobility problems, I watch the birds and squirrels that come to the multiple feeders and birdbath I have in and around my huge Cherry Tree out my front room window. And Lesley, you have my heart.
Watching how you hand feed the birds and name them, and learning so much about nature and the birds that come to my view. And now, watching you devote yourself until you, yourself get ill, is just heart breaking. There are just some things that I have learned over my long and happy life...some things are just beyond our control. I have been watching your videos for several years now, and have learned so much from you. Give yourself a break. We love you!!! 🥰🥰🥰
You and I could be sisters... I fret and go to great lengths, hikes to care for my beloved bird friends. I am pretty hardy and can take the physical exertion.
These birds are the love of my life.
Please take the best of care of our Leslie! Nourishing soup& rest is best! Love all around you!
Thank you very kindly, Linda. Much love
I am also very attached to the birds that eat at my feeders. I get so upset when the hawks injure one or take them right from the feeders. The are such adapted hunters and are much smarter than me. I also try to keep the snow moved and cleaned around my bushes in the winter and it is a lot of work. I do believe that we have encroached on bird territory, and we should help them.
This year as we got to our favorite camping spot in the Manti Lasal Forrest, a hummingbird came around and I didn't have my feeder set up yet. The little guy sat in the tree where the feeder usually is and just looked at us as if to say, where is the feeder? Birds know when you help them. I truly believe they depend on us to help them. This year spring came very late up in the forest. Snow was still covering the ground in many places for the first of July.
The flowers were just getting started. So, this little bird needed that supplement. It is such a small thing but to that bird it might be the food that keeps it alive while the flowers grow and bloom. I have felt that pain and loss and I know exactly how you felt over your little chickadee needing a little bit of help. I commend you for all that you give to these creatures. They are worthy of our love and care.
We had a bad hailstorm this past June. Many of the birds at the Great Salt Lake were killed in the storm. And I believe that the big hail took out baby birds in the nests as well. I have never seen hail that big. I see the quail in our neighborhood. They have babies now. Nature is amazing. But the baby birds that usually would come to my feeders were in very short supply this year.
Bless you for all you share about your journey. I share your commitment and your tears when things go so wrong for these little fury friends. You can't have one without the other.
If you can see an issue, and can help without causing harm, maybe the universe put her in your heart for helping?
Bird lovers all over the world are going through the exact same things you detail here including all the thoughts and emotions with the birds we interact with daily. We're out there feeding and caring for the birds and animals that exist in our little chunk of the world making sure they have the best possible existence.
Seeing her remain strong with only one little leg is the strength we all need to resemble. ❤ also, those emotions are not useless. Don’t lose your spirituality because “nature”. It’s not the emotions, it’s how you handle them. Numbing yourself comes with problems too.
You are an angel with special powers and the birds love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️💙💙
Leslie, what you do for those birds is priceless. I am praying for Dimi. I know those feelings of guilt all to well. And I know the attachment one gets to these beautiful birds. I lost Napoleon (my green cheeked Conure) October-12-2020, and I have never gotten over it. I want you to know watching your channel has brought me much happiness and peace to help me cope. Thank you for all you do and God Bless.
Thank God the birds have you as their friend. I envy your relationship with all of them. Thank you for your loyalty! 💜
So heart breaking when our little friends vanish with no explanation! 💔🛐 I’m praying for Dimi to be okay, while I also pray for the broken hearted, the downcast, the abused, the homeless, the sick, the needy, those who mourn, those on the verge of giving up, the hungry/thirsty, those in war torn countries, those suffering from natural disasters, the marginalized, the widow, the fatherless, the refugee, the foreigner, those with mental illness, those cursed for the sins of their parents, and Jimmy Carter in his final days to be rewarded for his good deeds and example to us all. May Jimmy rest in the bosom of Abraham.
You gave her so many good yummy strengthening moments and made us all love and appreciate her- what a gift! Please take care of your precious self and remember Emily Dickenson’s poem:
Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul…
Thank you for this sweet video. Yes, love teaches us great lessons.
Keep us apprised of big Dimi! I have hope she’s got that hippocampus working bigger and better than the other ones❤❤❤❤
Thank you for caring for all the birds, Leslie. Of course you love them! In the process you are learning to better care for yourself as well. Much respect and sympathy to you. May God always bless you and the birds. 🙏💙
It's hard to not get attached and I've given up trying not to and instead just accept that I will feel heartbreak. I had a mother deer who would always bring her fawns to my yard and she came to my house for 2 years and then one year she was gone. I still think of her often. I hope little Dimi is safe 💕
Always help when your heart tells you to. You'll feel good for it, and it's the only selfish thing that's good to do.
It's heartbreaking. You're not alone. I enjoyed 30+ Goldfinches at my feeders as short as 2 years ago; an ocean of yellow everywhere. I heard their little ones in the fall flying about. Some even came to our backyard to enjoy the seeds from our gardens. Fast forward to now, maybe a pair that shows up once a month. They were hit by conjunctivitis + construction of human homes over their homes. Their trees were taken down. Try as I did, I couldn't stop any of this from happening. Seeing them missing this winter was utterly depressing for me. I'm slowly learning that I too need to balance myself better. I wouldn't consider your emotions useless. They weigh on you but they're not useless. They're important in getting you to the point where you are ready to accept the things you can't change.
Thank you! One with nature. ❤️
Serenity Prayer. God love you.
Hugging you so tightly, you kind, sweet dear.
God will reward you for caring for his birds. You got Demi through the winter!! Praise Jesus!!!
You're pretty much an excellent human, Lesley. Thanks for all of the kindnesses you extend to your bird buddies
I totally understand how you feel. I'm especially attached to birds all my life. And I have had pet birds all my life. It's hard for me to see them in a pet store. My pet birds are out of their cages all day. I feed outdoor birds with many feeders. Seeing the moose in your video reminds me of a calf moose I fed all winter because someone killed it's mother. It's very hard not to care about the wild animals we're blessed to see. I do know they aren't with us for long sometimes. But I think it's better we care about them than not caring about them. Your story about Dimi has touched my heart. This is why I love your channel Leslie. I hope Dimi comes back and if she doesn't you gave your all to her. You are an amazing person! Thank you for looking out for our feathered friends. ❤️
I can so relate....my involvement is with cats, and some birds....I suffer terribly at times. I feel so sorry for the suffering I see among certain feral cats, and the birds around here. I live in the White Mountains of Arizona at 7K foot elevation. I've done what could to help the cats, and the birds too..but there's only so much one can do. And, it's all expensive....we nearly lost our home last year, due to too many cats and paying for storage units. By the grace and mercy of the Lord, we are still here.
I've had to try to realize that this earth and all in it belong to God. He made everything that was made....He's our Creator and He knows all His creation. They belong to Him. I do what I, a puny human, can do. And I pray!! I pray for His creatures, every night, I lift them up to Him in prayer. I can't save them all! I've seen death over and over again. And, it's sad and it hurts. But, again, I lift up my eyes to the hills. Where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, Maker of Heaven and Earth.
That's from Psalm 121, one of my favorite psalms.
And, this is my motto: All I have is from God, and I give it out of His hand.
We do our best, and I know, Lesley, you do your utmost! That's all we can do humanly speaking. But God....He knows! And it's all His, and we must simply Trust Him with His creation....may His will be done, not ours. He knows best. His ways are higher than our ways. And His thoughts are higher than our thoughts.
We do our best....that's it.
Shalom! 💜🕊💜✡️✝️💜🕊💜🐈🐦🐈🐦🐈🐦🎀💖🎀💜🕊💜
Your channel grew on me, i'm not the biggest bird person myself but the way you structure your videos and the beautyful shots you create are very appreciated. Keep doing what you're doing.
Thank you as always, for sharing this video and story of Dimi. Your compassion and empathy for the birds amazes and touches me! ❤️ I sure hope little Dimi returns soon! Stay well!
Always love your videos and info. I feed birds and critters all year long here in northern New Hampshire. My favorite are the Chickadees also. I have a respect for Crows after watching what good family birds they are. The Squirrels have convinced me to feed on the ground. The Chickadees roust in our evergreen trees. I put food around the trees and hide food in the notches of the trees. I give the Squirrels enough roasted peanuts that they don’t pig out on the seed the smaller birds and critters like.
You don't how much your helping me by helping the birds.. thank you . 🐦💞
I don't know who's sweeter: Lesley or the birds she feeds.
Wish we had all that snow down here in Ohio. It's been one of the mildest winters in memory. I like winter when it snows!
The birds, definitely the birds :) Haha, thanks for the sweet compliment. I hear you about wanting snow in winter. It's just not the same without it. :)
Thank you Leslie for sharing as always, I know exactly what you mean, your thoughs and reflexiones sore through my mind every time I try to help to the feathery friends around my home, I hope Dimi is ok, and I can wait to see her soon in one of your videos. You are a kind soul, take care yourself. Blessings .
Lesley, you are a very special lady…you have such a big heart! Caring is tough, but isn’t that why we are here? God bless you…only you can decide what makes you happy…right?
Thank you for the kind comment. They are what makes me happy, I just need to rethink my approach to them :) I'll never leave those birds, and I will always do what I reasonably can for them.
You did well Dimi was given a few more days because of you. Your words give much wisdom please continue
Wow very awesome. Thank you for taking care of the birds in your area. We put out feed all winter. It makes a difference especially when it’s very cold. Their survival rate goes up tremendously when they have a food source when it’s really cold. Blessings. 🙏🏽
Lesley, buy and use a hand warmer. You can also buy battery-powered socks. As Alaskans remind us it isn't the cold that injures and kills, it's the lack of preparations for the cold. In winter, some starve; others ski, feed the birds or go skiing. Love your videos!
"Every bird, every tree, every flower reminds me what a blessing and privilege it is just to be alive.” - Marty Rubin
Leslie, thank you for all you do for all God's little creatures. But please take care of yourself, you are important too. ❤️
Definitely, I learned that lesson loud and clear the last couple of months :) Thank you for the kindness and concern
Damn. That was a tough story to get through. So many emotions. I feel you. I really do. And bless you for your dedication to the birds and your mentorship to us. Demi was special. She reminds me of my one legged bluejay Mochi. Thanks again.
Yes. Stay positive because as you say “nature is nature”.
Lesley - I may not know you in real life, but you seem like a genuinely wonderful person. The way you see the world is incredibly touching, and your videos have brought me immense joy. You're the sort of person that I want to be in this life.
Thank you so much for sharing your love of birds, and I'm glad that you're learning to show yourself the same care that you do our avian friends.
Wow, thank you for those kind words, Charlie. It's a great joy to affect people in that way. :) You're so welcome, I'm glad that you find joy from these videos, take care.
Awe, I pray Dimi is okay. I love your care you give these sweet souls❤❤
You're a gem Lesley. Black capped Chickadees are my favorite. I know how you feel because I know which birds visit my feeders and worry when I don't see my regulars.
Aw you have such a sensitive spirit and I completely understand your need to help these beautiful creatures! I got teary eyed when you couldn’t find your sweet little Dimi. 😢 However you did your best and that is all you can do. As you said it is nature. You truly are the Bird Whisperer! I love your channel and God bless you for your kindness! 🥰
It's pretty incredible that a wild bird can have such an impact on us emotionally. They are all just so wonderful, I love them.
This is amazing, cuz how bright personality you gotta have for bird's to earn trust in you, and feed em in freezing temperature? And first meeting trust is precious, I'm American and I hear Canadian accent, plus I love snow, and wanna go to trip to Canada when I can afford it. So beautiful nature 😍❤️😍😍❤️❤️😍❤️❤️. Love it.
Lesley, you have truly made my bird world soooo much more wonderful! You have enriched my natural love for birds with amazing information and personal insights and observations. I cannot find words to explain how much your channel has influenced not only my "bird world" , but my life in general. For example, I used to kinda be pissy at blue jays for being noisy and bossy, but now I'm embracing their breathtaking beauty and teaching them to catch peanuts I throw up to the sky! You know, Lesley, when people look back at their lives and wonder what, if anything, they have done to make a mark on this world, I can 100% assure you that you and the knowledge you've shared have *DEFINITELY* made a humble yet wildly profound impact on my everyday, simple life here in northern Michigan. Thank you. 😊
We have a flock of song sparrows who live in a viburnum bush at the base of a small hackberry tree on our property here in the mountains of East Tennessee.
These tiny morsels of life are so cute in the morning as they sit together in their tree, turning their faces to the quickly warming sun.
Later, they line up along the top of our wooden fence, singing for their breakfast. The quickly refilled feeder is a big hit with them and they take turns gobbling mouthfuls of seeds. All through the day, they continue taking turns at the feeder and can easily empty a five-pound hopper in one day.
At evening, they all sit facing the setting sun, warming themselves in its last rays before the chill of night settles in. Then they fill their bush with soft songs and twitters as they prepare to sleep.
We really enjoy these little songbirds, whom we refer to as "The Choir." They stay with us all year through and we make sure to provide plenty of fresh food and water. In the spring, we provide live mealworms as a special treat.
How rewarding it is to help our little feathered friends! We rejoice in the late spring when the babies join the flock and we weep when a pile of tiny feathers says that the hawk who lives across the valley has taken one of our sparrows to feed his young in their nest.
Nature is beautiful and it can be cruel, but cooperating with the Maker of all things in caring for the birds is a wonderful way to spend our time. After all, His eye is on the sparrow, so we can know that He watches over His children.
Good job, Lesley, I know these birds appreciate the heck out of you. As do your viewers. Take care of yourself. Milwaukee sells a battery powered heated vest, you might need to invest in something like that to help keep you warm while out doing your good deeds.
We will keep our fingers crossed for Dimi.
Thank you the kind words and for mentioning the heated vest. I should look into that. Sounds like something I definitely need. I'm keeping a look out for little Dimi :)
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Yes please take care of you first. Just like the instructions by the flight attendants before the plane takes off. Thanks for all that you do. 🥰
Lesley, I love your heart for Gods creatures. I love my birds, but I am also attached to our foxes that live up here at 10600 feet with us. We had a few sick foxes lately ( mange) and it is heartbreaking when they no longer come around. I deal with the heartbreak like this. I tell God that someday in heaven they will be with me healed and whole. They will remember my help here on earth and surround me with their healed and healthy bodies. I will see them again someday, but healthy and thanking me for my love and attention. Hope you find peace and love in all you do with our feathered friends! ❤️❤️❤️
Dimi is adorable! Love our little birdy friends!❤❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing. Take care of yourself so you can take care of those adorable little ones!😊 Can you get some handwarmers?
You have such a good heart. I have worked health cared for 36 years....we can't care for others if we don't care for ourselves. Hardest thing for me to do. Bless you. 🧡
Good message for those of us who struggle with the harsh reality of nature.
This was the first video I watched after discovering your channel. Undoubtedly, you are a very special person. These little creatures have all lived better lives because of you. And those of us that have been able to share in your moments from our homes just appreciate nature and the kindness of humanity that much more. Sometimes when all you can see when you look at the world is darkness and horrible things happen, little moments like this remind us that there is still good in the world. Thank you for what you do.
Take care of yourself. Be well so the birds will have their best friend--you.
Lesley----what a lovely heart you have....I remember those cold days here upstate NY also...I certainly dont make a trek like you do....I had trouble in my own property with the wind chill...just seeing your hands I was thinking your way tougher then I am...that one Chickadee is beautiful red on bottom and green on top.......lol thinking about bringing it into your home....my wife and I have thought the same at times...your such a blessing to these birds and also to us...love little Dimi...a farmer where I live told me as a farmer you cant name any animals as you might get attached...I know you talk change and being realistic but I think your too full of love for these creations to change too much....stay safe God Bless
Oh it gets pretty cold on the old hands that's for sure and I seem to much wimpier than I was in my younger years. Either that or it's colder than they are saying it is, haha! Yea, I don't know how well that would be to take Dimi inside, It's nice to know that others think the same things when seeing birds in distress :) Maybe one day I will get my training as a wildlife rehabber and open something here in my area. We sure could use something like that here. Your farmer friend is right you know, naming these birds adds so much more to them, but then again if it weren't possible for me to see each of their distinctions and unique behaviors I would probably never had named them. I guess names or not there is no refuting the fact that all of these birds are truly different from one another. :) You're right, changing my approach to these birds too much is probably not something I will be able to do. Thanks for your kind comment, Russ Take care.
Life is too short and love is too long. It's hard not to care & I think that's beautiful about human nature. Thank you so much for teaching us about these birds and letting us partake in your journey with them 💜
it comforts me to know youre out there caring for these little beings
What a wonderful video. You're such a beautiful person, Lesley! Your empathy and tenacity knows no bounds. Here in southeastern CT, we've barely gotten any snow all winter, which I attribute to global warning. I'm guessing most Canadians are like "What's global warming?" lol. I will be praying for Dimi's safe return. What a tough little bird, I love her so much! BirdsWalkingDown builds the most incredible nest boxes that I've ever seen, that was kind of him to send you a couple. He inspired me to put up my own boxes this year. Please take care of yourself, so you can continue to take care of your little feathered friends, and be healthy and mobile to greet Dimi upon her return. Thanks for another fantastic, heartwarming video!
Dimi is a beautiful chickadee she is very
I hope Dimi is OK! A lot of times after I start hand-feeding chickadees a lot and I stop for a couple of days, the chickadees all leave the area. Sometimes I won't see them again for weeks, months, or seasons. I hope you get to see her again sometime soon! Such a touching, heartwarming story