Something new I found that works good for any night while I'm on period is Always ZZZ underwear for your period. It has totally stopped the worries of bleeding though during the night. Also if anyone out there doesn't like to add on to the porn section you can try Anime, Hentai, cartoon type stuff it's a little better I think.
As a woman who also grew up in a religious household, I am always so appreciative of these videos. So proud of you for making them and always speaking with such grace and poise! You are moving mountains girl - wether you know it or not. 💗
I so appreciate how open and willing you are to talk about these topics, especially as a woman of God. It is so good and important to have these conversations, and I applaud you for doing so in such a public arena, and for being willing to answer intimate and 'taboo' questions. You're amazing, and Daniel is amazing for being comfortable with it too! Love you guys ❤
Thank you India for talking about these things. I’m 25 and still a virgin. My ex boyfriend and I almost went all the way but I wasn’t ready. I’m glad I didn’t lose my virginity to him that night because we broke up. I’ve decided I’m gonna wait until marriage. The right guy will respect that.
yes, never settle until you feel 1000% ready. and just because you're married to someone, doesn't mean you're obligated to have sex with them whenever they feel like it. enthusiastic consent for both persons involved is key.
Good for you! My husband and I waited. It was the best decision we ever made (aside from getting married). For us, it made sex so special. You won't regret it. 18 years later, we still can't keep our hands off each other. Lol.
My sister went to a couple's activity at our church where they were discussing all kinds of things (without deep details), and a quote she told me that I've never forgotten is "men are like microwaves, and women are like crockpots" lol and it's true!
Loved this video!! One of the things that people don’t mention/know about porn is the absolute insanity and human trafficking behind the industry as well. There’s nothing good or healthy about it.
Been married for 15 years and I just have to say, it's easy to be "ready" for sex early on in the marriage but when you've got kids and you're working and exhausted you'll find yourself needing a little help, and that's okay...BUT keep making the time and the effort. It really is important! And it gets so much better, I promise. 😉
Thank you so much for sharing this !!! I really appreciate it. making the effort is something I hear from so many mentors of mine. this is great advice !!!!! Congrats on 15 years !!!
Awesome video...so informative! I just wanna add and I think I speak for most when I say that you're the kind of person everyone would love to have as a BFF or a sister! Your natural beauty, light & laughter are contagious and we need more people like you in this world. Everyone is so over the fakeness that have seemed to capture most of our society and we are all just craving real, down to earth & genuine people to be with & associate. Love you, sweet beautiful India! Give Mochi a big hug from me!
@@indiabatson26 always! Your channel brings me so much joy. I am honored to be a subscriber & I feel like I've found a true friend, with such a beautiful soul even though we've never met...but with God's grace maybe we can someday very soon!
Older mom here. I stumbled upon your channel in the middle of the night "down-the rabbit hole session on youtube! I have always encouraged my kids to talk to me and ask any questions they have but I am defiantly going to share your channel with my daughter because no matter how open you keep things with your kids they still feel weird going to mom sometimes. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
I have been married nearly 33 years. My husband has MS and can no longer perform in the traditional way in the bedroom...that does not mean we do not enjoy each other, we just have to be creative and have also learned that s*x is not the most important part of our relationship.
I love this! Thank you for your openness and honesty!! 😍 This Sunday, my church is having a sermon about sex and healthy marriages. I’m hesitant to go because I feel like it will be awkward and uncomfortable. 😬 I’m currently single and have no intention in having a serious relationship soon, so I wanted to skip church this week because I felt like it doesn’t apply to me right now and I could avoid the uncomfortableness. But your video has made me realize that this is a topic that I should be learning about now to help me in the near future! Who knows, maybe I will end up getting something really impactful out of church this week!! 💜🥰
Same here! It is awkward when youre single but preparedness is so key. You cant become a teacher unless you learn how to teach before. I avoided the topic of dating/marriage in my early teens because I thought I would just know what to do when I wanted to get married. Now Im in my late 20s and I realized I should not been afraid to talk about it earlier. Now Im having to play catch up to prepare myself and learn the right things.
I like the shift and how you’ve been switching it up on your channel. Thank you for presenting other topics and talking about stuff from your point of view.
I love you India you are so beautiful inside and out. Thank you for normalizing sexuality for everyone watching. I am a married Christian mom of 2 boys and I am doing my best to be open to them so they don’t have to learn information from porn or their friends. ❤️ I agree with everything you said! My best advice for keeping things spicy is lingerie! Definitely helps my marriage 🤗
Omg talking about the outdoor “fun” y’all had recently, me and my husband tried to pull off the road behind a building recently and ran into a security guard parked back there hahahah, we had to pretend we were just turning around 😂😂
I can attest to the “extra curricular” toys being damaging to your marriage. My husband and I had things we used to spice up our love life and after using them for several years it was impossible for me to “reach a certain level” without them. It was frustrating to both of us. Thankfully after throwing them away and just waiting things out, we are back in the groove again and need nothing other than each other to “reach that level” and have fun.
I really appreciate you sharing this and being so open. it means a lot to me ! I’ve heard both sides from married couples and I just really appreciate you taking time to share this 💛 I’m so glad you have been able to get back on track I’m your marriage ! I pray for so much joy in your marriage angel xoxo
Just wanted to say thanks for making this video. I wish I had more non biased, realistic education about sex instead of porn. I also think it’s good that you set boundaries with each about watching porn as something neither is comfortable with. My boyfriend and I actually talked about this, and we actually found that both of us were pretty turned on by jealousy, and it led to much more passion and intensity (which is exactly what both of us like). But I also think that requires communication and lots of reassurance that we’re both only truly interested in each other.
Prior to this video, I didn’t know that you were a Christian..amazing surprise! Fellow Christian here and I just love that you touched on this in reference to today’s topic. As you said, with the young viewers you have, it’s important that you convey things in such a way that’s suitable. Well done you for being a good role model
India, you are such a bright light in this world! It’s so beautiful to listen to a woman of faith speak about things that many Christians (in my experience), either refuse to, or demonize. Disclaimer: No one should feel forced to talk about sex if they aren’t personally comfortable doing so. What you are and aren’t comfortable sharing bears no weight on your worth. I’m not implying that you MUST speak about your sex life to be a good person/Christian. It becomes dangerous, in my opinion, when people weaponize their religion to shame others (women especially), into silence. Denying the notion that sex and pleasure are completely natural and essential parts of the human experience is ludicrous. I’m glad that young women have someone like you to validate their curiosity about sex, and provide them a safe space to be heard and educated. You’re doing great things, love!
i'm 21, a Christian, and i'm suuuuuper going through this season of hungering for answers to my questions about sexuality and "taboo" stuff. i'm not like confused, or anything, but sometimes i really need to hear that my sexuality is of the Lord and not apart from Him, even though i have it in my worldview that God can't care that much about my sexuality. i really think He does care about my menstrual cycle, my ovulation time, my hormones, my libido, my everything, even if it sounds like the Church doesn't really care! i have shame sometimes for feeling like i always think about sex and sexuality, but i'm really just not satisfied with how church kinda sugarcoats everything about sexuality. i get more info from netflix and porn than from my fellowship ppl or my church, and it kinda distresses me sometimes, because i really want my worldview to be shaped by the Bible. thank you so much for posting q&a, as taboo as they are! i'd rather learn from a big sister than from the world, like you said ❤️
Girl, I've had upper lip hair since I was 10 and face and chin hair since I was like mid teens. Bane of my life!! Love you girl. thank you for showing me the curly way!
I think with regard to using toys, for some women, it’s “easier” because they aren’t focusing on their partner or feeling insecure about how they look, feel, smell, etc. I hear so many stories from friends who can’t enjoy the moment because they are comparing themselves to some unrealistic expectations, so they can’t really relax. But on their own they don’t have those insecurities. Masturbation is a tough topic to tackle lol, but in this day and age of COVID we need to!
Urgh this. I think orgasms with a vibrators are so different than with a partner that gets your there. It’s important that you don’t think there’s something wrong with you, so you just need to be in the moment and if you don’t feel like your partner gets you there, then maybe switch things up and/or be open to different sensations. I personally was chasing the same and it all changed when I realized it was such a different kind of orgasm
ps. I was on the pill for ages and even thought I was asexual. It turned out the pill did a lot against my libido, and you may not realize it’s doing something to your body. So sometimes it’s not even you or him but just your body reacting to something else?
Very accurate. Masturbation and sex are two very different things for very different reasons, for both men and women. Masturbation is because stress relief (phsyical and emotional), getting to know yourself and doing all while not focusing on r pleasing someone else is important. That has been shown to then make sexual experiences (where partner is involved) far better and those who masturbate have better physical and emotional health. Education on tha topic is very important. We have people get jealous if a partner masturbates, making person feel that, which is normal and healthy human behavior, has to be hidden or shaming them, which is very unhealthy and detrimental to a marriage. It is not masturbate or have sex with me. They have two very different purposes and fulfill very different needs. Women can use tous for 50 yrs and not have loss of sensation, but like everything else, education about use is needed.
I am honestly so appreciative of these videos that you make. They really are well put together & you know how to say everything with such poise. Thank you again for creating a safe & educational space like this💛
As someone who also struggles with this, I feel that it is harmful and damaging when people make the assumption that we just aren't trying enough or "jumped right into vibrators". Due to religious trauma, it took me many years to even truly feel comfortable having sex without guilt. Because of that, it also took me so long to realize that there was nothing wrong with me for struggling to climax and sometimes you just need the extra help. Everyone is different and it's okay if you need help ❤️
The toy thing is tricky!! I have never hit that point with just my partner but have with a toy. I think every women is different and some need more than one type of stimulation and you can’t always get that with just a partner. However, I think it’s a great starting point to learn what you do and don’t like and to tell your partner and then maybe you can get there with them! The more comfortable you are with your body the better it’s going to be and the more you can vocalize what you want
Well, I just wanted to say, thank you India! So, I’m a 30 y/o woman that because of the famous taboo, I’m still learning things about my body, that I wish someone had talked to me sooner. Things that I didn’t even question my self, because of plain ignorance. I love watching your videos of this kind of topics and I always learn something from them. Please continue with the good work, don’t let others ever make you feel like you’re doing something wrong, because even when (we all know you are human and not perfect, so please) you can make mistakes, I know, I believe that you have a mission from the heart and there is good within your intentions. So yeah, keep spreading the word, I already consider you my big sis (even though I’m older lol), xoxo - Priscila from Puerto Rico
I find these types of videos that you make are very helpful for me because I grew up with 3 older brothers and I knew nothing about periods and stuff to the point were my mom told me all late about them and I was scared to tell her when it first came. These videos help me feel not alone that I can be in a safe environment like this. Without anyone judging
It's so refreshing to hear about these things that so many of us are afraid to discuss; and it's easier to ask questions when done in this format. So thank you for having these kind of conversations.
Hey India I just want to say thank you so much for talking about your Christianity in a way that isn't pressing it on other people. You just make it seem so casual but yet it's an important part of your life as well. (btw I am 17 and also the oldest girl so these videos really help me cause I don't like talking with my mom about it lol)
You are doing such a good thing for young women that need to know these things but are afraid to ask I was also brought up in a strict religion where no one talked about these things so I had to figure it out on my own. wish I would have had someone like you to talk to. I'm older now but I'm still learning...... Thanks for sharing
India thank you so much for talking about these topics. I dont have a sister and growing up i never wanted to discuss this stuff with my mom because its just awkward. So even though I'm 23, thank you for being like a big sister giving advice 💓
India, thank you for making these videos. I’m 28 years old I got married at 27 I saved myself for marriage. Following what the lord would have me to through kid teen and adult hood. Now I’m married and I am thankful there is someone like you to speak up for Women of all ages. Because I could’ve use someone as a young teen and I’m glad others have it now.
Let me start my comment off with I am not married and I am single and a virgin. ANYWHO,I personally don’t want extra curricular toys to be added to my marriage bed.I also don’t want to add any restraints or tools.I want it to be me and my husbands bodies and that’s it,buts that’s me🤷🏼♀️I also want to set the boundary that neither me or my husband will look at/watch porn. Of course I will have to discuss these things with my future husband because communication is the best way to accomplish anything,in my opinion,but I’m not comfortable with being in a relationship with someone who has a different opinion on these things than me. That may sound harsh but I know the boundaries I need personally🤷🏼♀️
A very wise and wonderful gentleman who was also the family GYN for many years told me before I got married (as far as the difference in men and women when it comes to foreplay: “Men are like microwaves, and women are like crockpots.” 😂 You were so right, Dr. McClendon! 💜
Hello, India you are the best, thanks for sharing So I am 46 yrs old and married for 24 years and I want to talk about shame about masturbating. So I was very young I think like 8 when I started exploring myself. I grew up in a Christian household and was made to feel ashamed of myself for it. I even struggled with intimacy with my husband because of the shame associated with it.
I love how open & honest you are about your private life and how respectful of others. You are an amazing roll model for young girls and boys. Thank you. On another note........ PLEASE GIRLS don't shave your face, only tweeze it. Other wise the hair grows in thicker and darker.
Heyy! I’m new to the channel I’m currently 14 going 15 next week but i just wanted to let you know you answered a lot of questions I had about my period and things like so a very big thanks :) ❤️
Can I just say, you look absolutely stunning India. I don't know if it's the way you did your makeup today or just a natural glow but I'm here for it🤗😍🙌🙌👑
Hi India! I’m hoping you’ll see this comment because I have a few questions. I’m new to your channel and I love your videos! I’ve also started my journey on the curly girl method! The tips from your videos were so helpful. Anyway, as much as I love my natural curls, sometimes I like to do my hair up in different ways. Is it okay to use hot tools on my hair if I use a protector? Will is completely destroy my progress or am I safe to do this once in a while? I’m curious what you have to say about flat irons and curling wands, etc. If you do see this I greatly appreciate your time! Thank you!
please note: some people can't reach that point without a vibrator 🙃 I never could reach that point,after doing/trying everything..only thing that helped was THAT toy
Yes !! Thank you for mentioning this !!!!!! I should have mentioned this in the video. This particular couple I was speaking to that isn’t their experience. but yes !!!!!! Thank you for being this up !! P
exploring your body and getting more comfortable with yourself without a vibrator and trying different things might help. of course if you jumped straight into masturbation with a vibrator you're gonna think you can't orgasm without one. you can actually desensitize yourself over time with a vibrator.
I love these videos you do and how you talk about exercising lol "get the juices flowing" lol An for my husband and we talk after we are intimate every time. As you said, communication is very important.
Author Shiela Wray Gregoire on UA-cam is an awesome resource for answering all of these type of questions and what is healthy in a relationship. I highly recommend! 💕
i personally don't like using vibrators simply because i can reach orgasm without one and vibrators are just too "strong" for me. and like you said, over time, vibrators can desensitize you down there to the point where you won't be able to orgasm without one, and that's due to nerve damage. it can be reversed if you stop using a vibrator all together for a while, but sometimes it's permanent.
I KNEW you had to be an only child! I’m an only child, too, and I only have one 8 year old little girl 👧🏼🎀! She and I love your videos because we both have the same type of hair as you and my daughter says you are a “cutie patootie”! 😂🙏🏻💜
The vibrator in the marriage is very dangerous, as you said, but with therapy your friend can "train" herself to reach that point again without a vibrator, talking from experience (I had a friend who went through the same situation and she spent months in therapy and now she is able to reach that point without a toy). Thank you for doing this videos 💙
Dang for those of y’all who are lucky enough to have a partner who can get them to that magical point alone every time… bravo haha. But ya girl here looooves her vibrator added to sex haha, my husband was the one who bought it for me actually because he knows I struggle more with getting all the way and damn now every time having multiple o’s & we’re both happy as hell 😂😂
You stated you had a video that Daniel was in discussing porn and the video would be linked "below" and I don't see it. May I have the link, please, India?
I get a couple jet black hairs on my chin too and they're so thick! What is with that? 😂 I always pluck them but they keep coming back... Wish my eyebrows survived my plucking phase in my teens 🙃😂
I really loved this video!! I think communication is key and not just in our marriages but like you say with young teens and young adults growing up. I actually watched a documentary about p**n the other week 😂 and then general reason why many people started watching it was like you said to educate themselves because no one was talking about it, they didn't know what these things were so you Google and that's what comes up 🤷🏻♀️
I have never understood why sex is such a big deal topic. Scripturally speaking, one of the first things God said to Adam and Eve was to be fruitful and multiply. In other words “go get busy”!! I’m a “retired” minister (I stepped down after having my children to raise them). But now they’re 13 & 12 and I’m feeling the draw back into ministry. Counselling and teaching youth is where it’s at! They’re being taught the good stuff the wrong way!
it doesn’t work for everyone unfortunately depending on your skins Fitzpatrick scale. I discussed more of that in the first video. I hope you returned it ❤️❤️
@@indiabatson26 I didn't return it.😭😭😭 Im going to try it again and go over the hair 3 times and see if it works better. I have a lot of hair on my lip black coarse hair and chin.
I didn’t have results until about week 5 of using my Kenzzi. You have to stick with it. It’s been a dream. I’ve done my face, underarms and bikini area. I’m going to do my legs - it’s a big commitment so I keep putting off. Every time I have to shave my legs I kick myself. It really does work.
it does not hurt after ! in the moment it feels like a hair tie snapping on your leg on the highest setting. & I barely feel the lowest setting. But everyone is different 💛💛
Check out the time stamps to jump to the questions/ topics you want to hear 💛💛do you like time stamps?
I love timestamps, I find them super helpful if I want to go back and find something specific after watching the entire video!
Yesss they’re so helpful!💕💕 thank you sm
time stamps are such a blessing
Something new I found that works good for any night while I'm on period is Always ZZZ underwear for your period. It has totally stopped the worries of bleeding though during the night. Also if anyone out there doesn't like to add on to the porn section you can try Anime, Hentai, cartoon type stuff it's a little better I think.
As a woman who also grew up in a religious household, I am always so appreciative of these videos. So proud of you for making them and always speaking with such grace and poise! You are moving mountains girl - wether you know it or not. 💗
I so appreciate how open and willing you are to talk about these topics, especially as a woman of God. It is so good and important to have these conversations, and I applaud you for doing so in such a public arena, and for being willing to answer intimate and 'taboo' questions. You're amazing, and Daniel is amazing for being comfortable with it too! Love you guys ❤
Thank you India for talking about these things. I’m 25 and still a virgin. My ex boyfriend and I almost went all the way but I wasn’t ready. I’m glad I didn’t lose my virginity to him that night because we broke up. I’ve decided I’m gonna wait until marriage. The right guy will respect that.
yes, never settle until you feel 1000% ready. and just because you're married to someone, doesn't mean you're obligated to have sex with them whenever they feel like it. enthusiastic consent for both persons involved is key.
Did u guys breakup because of that??? Because some guys are idiots and that’s all they care ab
Good for you! My husband and I waited. It was the best decision we ever made (aside from getting married). For us, it made sex so special. You won't regret it. 18 years later, we still can't keep our hands off each other. Lol.
@@zm4362 No that wasn’t why. There were other reasons. He never pressured me when it came to sex though and I’m thankful for that.
@@Scrappicat That’s good to hear. I hope I find that someday.
Grown 31 year old Christ-following woman here and I LOVE that you talk about the taboo.
My sister went to a couple's activity at our church where they were discussing all kinds of things (without deep details), and a quote she told me that I've never forgotten is "men are like microwaves, and women are like crockpots" lol and it's true!
Loved this video!! One of the things that people don’t mention/know about porn is the absolute insanity and human trafficking behind the industry as well. There’s nothing good or healthy about it.
I just wrote a small novel about why I think that industry is more harmful than ppl think and I think UA-cam immediately deleted it 🥴
Been married for 15 years and I just have to say, it's easy to be "ready" for sex early on in the marriage but when you've got kids and you're working and exhausted you'll find yourself needing a little help, and that's okay...BUT keep making the time and the effort. It really is important! And it gets so much better, I promise. 😉
Thank you so much for sharing this !!! I really appreciate it. making the effort is something I hear from so many mentors of mine. this is great advice !!!!! Congrats on 15 years !!!
Love your comment and you are beautiful!!!
I haven’t gotten married yet and this is such a great perspective I think priorities change after women have kids
You’re such a comforting presence on the internet! Thankful you’re still making videos
Awesome video...so informative! I just wanna add and I think I speak for most when I say that you're the kind of person everyone would love to have as a BFF or a sister! Your natural beauty, light & laughter are contagious and we need more people like you in this world. Everyone is so over the fakeness that have seemed to capture most of our society and we are all just craving real, down to earth & genuine people to be with & associate. Love you, sweet beautiful India! Give Mochi a big hug from me!
This is the kindest message 😭😭 oh my gracious ! Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate you listening and being so supportive madalina 💛💛
@@indiabatson26 always! Your channel brings me so much joy. I am honored to be a subscriber & I feel like I've found a true friend, with such a beautiful soul even though we've never met...but with God's grace maybe we can someday very soon!
Older mom here. I stumbled upon your channel in the middle of the night "down-the rabbit hole session on youtube! I have always encouraged my kids to talk to me and ask any questions they have but I am defiantly going to share your channel with my daughter because no matter how open you keep things with your kids they still feel weird going to mom sometimes. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
I have been married nearly 33 years. My husband has MS and can no longer perform in the traditional way in the bedroom...that does not mean we do not enjoy each other, we just have to be creative and have also learned that s*x is not the most important part of our relationship.
I love this! Thank you for your openness and honesty!! 😍 This Sunday, my church is having a sermon about sex and healthy marriages. I’m hesitant to go because I feel like it will be awkward and uncomfortable. 😬 I’m currently single and have no intention in having a serious relationship soon, so I wanted to skip church this week because I felt like it doesn’t apply to me right now and I could avoid the uncomfortableness. But your video has made me realize that this is a topic that I should be learning about now to help me in the near future! Who knows, maybe I will end up getting something really impactful out of church this week!! 💜🥰
Same here! It is awkward when youre single but preparedness is so key.
You cant become a teacher unless you learn how to teach before.
I avoided the topic of dating/marriage in my early teens because I thought I would just know what to do when I wanted to get married. Now Im in my late 20s and I realized I should not been afraid to talk about it earlier. Now Im having to play catch up to prepare myself and learn the right things.
I like the shift and how you’ve been switching it up on your channel. Thank you for presenting other topics and talking about stuff from your point of view.
I love you India you are so beautiful inside and out. Thank you for normalizing sexuality for everyone watching. I am a married Christian mom of 2 boys and I am doing my best to be open to them so they don’t have to learn information from porn or their friends. ❤️ I agree with everything you said! My best advice for keeping things spicy is lingerie! Definitely helps my marriage 🤗
Omg talking about the outdoor “fun” y’all had recently, me and my husband tried to pull off the road behind a building recently and ran into a security guard parked back there hahahah, we had to pretend we were just turning around 😂😂
They authenticity of these videos, I’m in love 💜
I can attest to the “extra curricular” toys being damaging to your marriage. My husband and I had things we used to spice up our love life and after using them for several years it was impossible for me to “reach a certain level” without them. It was frustrating to both of us. Thankfully after throwing them away and just waiting things out, we are back in the groove again and need nothing other than each other to “reach that level” and have fun.
I really appreciate you sharing this and being so open. it means a lot to me ! I’ve heard both sides from married couples and I just really appreciate you taking time to share this 💛 I’m so glad you have been able to get back on track I’m your marriage ! I pray for so much joy in your marriage angel xoxo
Haven't finished the video yet lol but wanted to say YOUR HAIR IS SO PRETTY!
Omg angel 💛💛
Just wanted to say thanks for making this video. I wish I had more non biased, realistic education about sex instead of porn.
I also think it’s good that you set boundaries with each about watching porn as something neither is comfortable with. My boyfriend and I actually talked about this, and we actually found that both of us were pretty turned on by jealousy, and it led to much more passion and intensity (which is exactly what both of us like). But I also think that requires communication and lots of reassurance that we’re both only truly interested in each other.
India, You are so generous and kind in sharing so much with us all. Thank you. X
Prior to this video, I didn’t know that you were a Christian..amazing surprise! Fellow Christian here and I just love that you touched on this in reference to today’s topic. As you said, with the young viewers you have, it’s important that you convey things in such a way that’s suitable. Well done you for being a good role model
India, you are such a bright light in this world! It’s so beautiful to listen to a woman of faith speak about things that many Christians (in my experience), either refuse to, or demonize. Disclaimer: No one should feel forced to talk about sex if they aren’t personally comfortable doing so. What you are and aren’t comfortable sharing bears no weight on your worth. I’m not implying that you MUST speak about your sex life to be a good person/Christian. It becomes dangerous, in my opinion, when people weaponize their religion to shame others (women especially), into silence. Denying the notion that sex and pleasure are completely natural and essential parts of the human experience is ludicrous. I’m glad that young women have someone like you to validate their curiosity about sex, and provide them a safe space to be heard and educated. You’re doing great things, love!
i'm 21, a Christian, and i'm suuuuuper going through this season of hungering for answers to my questions about sexuality and "taboo" stuff. i'm not like confused, or anything, but sometimes i really need to hear that my sexuality is of the Lord and not apart from Him, even though i have it in my worldview that God can't care that much about my sexuality. i really think He does care about my menstrual cycle, my ovulation time, my hormones, my libido, my everything, even if it sounds like the Church doesn't really care! i have shame sometimes for feeling like i always think about sex and sexuality, but i'm really just not satisfied with how church kinda sugarcoats everything about sexuality. i get more info from netflix and porn than from my fellowship ppl or my church, and it kinda distresses me sometimes, because i really want my worldview to be shaped by the Bible. thank you so much for posting q&a, as taboo as they are! i'd rather learn from a big sister than from the world, like you said ❤️
Love you girl! Thank you for being so open and honest with your viewers.
Amazing video. It was very informative and non biased. You cover a lot of topics with an open mindset that I would be to embarrassed to ask my mom.
Girl, I've had upper lip hair since I was 10 and face and chin hair since I was like mid teens. Bane of my life!! Love you girl. thank you for showing me the curly way!
I think with regard to using toys, for some women, it’s “easier” because they aren’t focusing on their partner or feeling insecure about how they look, feel, smell, etc. I hear so many stories from friends who can’t enjoy the moment because they are comparing themselves to some unrealistic expectations, so they can’t really relax. But on their own they don’t have those insecurities. Masturbation is a tough topic to tackle lol, but in this day and age of COVID we need to!
Urgh this. I think orgasms with a vibrators are so different than with a partner that gets your there. It’s important that you don’t think there’s something wrong with you, so you just need to be in the moment and if you don’t feel like your partner gets you there, then maybe switch things up and/or be open to different sensations. I personally was chasing the same and it all changed when I realized it was such a different kind of orgasm
ps. I was on the pill for ages and even thought I was asexual. It turned out the pill did a lot against my libido, and you may not realize it’s doing something to your body. So sometimes it’s not even you or him but just your body reacting to something else?
This is a GREAT point of view thank you for bringing it up
Very accurate. Masturbation and sex are two very different things for very different reasons, for both men and women. Masturbation is because stress relief (phsyical and emotional), getting to know yourself and doing all while not focusing on r pleasing someone else is important. That has been shown to then make sexual experiences (where partner is involved) far better and those who masturbate have better physical and emotional health. Education on tha topic is very important. We have people get jealous if a partner masturbates, making person feel that, which is normal and healthy human behavior, has to be hidden or shaming them, which is very unhealthy and detrimental to a marriage. It is not masturbate or have sex with me. They have two very different purposes and fulfill very different needs. Women can use tous for 50 yrs and not have loss of sensation, but like everything else, education about use is needed.
I am honestly so appreciative of these videos that you make. They really are well put together & you know how to say everything with such poise. Thank you again for creating a safe & educational space like this💛
As someone who also struggles with this, I feel that it is harmful and damaging when people make the assumption that we just aren't trying enough or "jumped right into vibrators". Due to religious trauma, it took me many years to even truly feel comfortable having sex without guilt. Because of that, it also took me so long to realize that there was nothing wrong with me for struggling to climax and sometimes you just need the extra help. Everyone is different and it's okay if you need help ❤️
The toy thing is tricky!! I have never hit that point with just my partner but have with a toy. I think every women is different and some need more than one type of stimulation and you can’t always get that with just a partner. However, I think it’s a great starting point to learn what you do and don’t like and to tell your partner and then maybe you can get there with them! The more comfortable you are with your body the better it’s going to be and the more you can vocalize what you want
Well, I just wanted to say, thank you India! So, I’m a 30 y/o woman that because of the famous taboo, I’m still learning things about my body, that I wish someone had talked to me sooner. Things that I didn’t even question my self, because of plain ignorance. I love watching your videos of this kind of topics and I always learn something from them. Please continue with the good work, don’t let others ever make you feel like you’re doing something wrong, because even when (we all know you are human and not perfect, so please) you can make mistakes, I know, I believe that you have a mission from the heart and there is good within your intentions. So yeah, keep spreading the word, I already consider you my big sis (even though I’m older lol), xoxo - Priscila from Puerto Rico
I find these types of videos that you make are very helpful for me because I grew up with 3 older brothers and I knew nothing about periods and stuff to the point were my mom told me all late about them and I was scared to tell her when it first came. These videos help me feel not alone that I can be in a safe environment like this. Without anyone judging
It's so refreshing to hear about these things that so many of us are afraid to discuss; and it's easier to ask questions when done in this format. So thank you for having these kind of conversations.
Hello Linda, how are you doing
It’s took me a while to watch it, but thank you for making this video! There is not a lot of people on YT touching on these topics.
Love you India 🤍 your words bring so much joy to my day!
You are the sweetest stephany !!! 🥰🥰 God bless you angel
Hey India I just want to say thank you so much for talking about your Christianity in a way that isn't pressing it on other people. You just make it seem so casual but yet it's an important part of your life as well. (btw I am 17 and also the oldest girl so these videos really help me cause I don't like talking with my mom about it lol)
You are doing such a good thing for young women that need to know these things but are afraid to ask I was also brought up in a strict religion where no one talked about these things so I had to figure it out on my own. wish I would have had someone like you to talk to. I'm older now but I'm still learning...... Thanks for sharing
Love this vid so much. I love these more 'taboo' topics and girl talk. Love you🤍
I think it's great that you speak about these types of things, especially since there are so many that aren't having the conversations.
India thank you so much for talking about these topics. I dont have a sister and growing up i never wanted to discuss this stuff with my mom because its just awkward. So even though I'm 23, thank you for being like a big sister giving advice 💓
India, thank you for making these videos. I’m 28 years old I got married at 27 I saved myself for marriage. Following what the lord would have me to through kid teen and adult hood. Now I’m married and I am thankful there is someone like you to speak up for Women of all ages. Because I could’ve use someone as a young teen and I’m glad others have it now.
Let me start my comment off with I am not married and I am single and a virgin.
ANYWHO,I personally don’t want extra curricular toys to be added to my marriage bed.I also don’t want to add any restraints or tools.I want it to be me and my husbands bodies and that’s it,buts that’s me🤷🏼♀️I also want to set the boundary that neither me or my husband will look at/watch porn.
Of course I will have to discuss these things with my future husband because communication is the best way to accomplish anything,in my opinion,but I’m not comfortable with being in a relationship with someone who has a different opinion on these things than me.
That may sound harsh but I know the boundaries I need personally🤷🏼♀️
A very wise and wonderful gentleman who was also the family GYN for many years told me before I got married (as far as the difference in men and women when it comes to foreplay: “Men are like microwaves, and women are like crockpots.” 😂 You were so right, Dr. McClendon! 💜
Hello beautiful, how are you doing today
Hello, India you are the best, thanks for sharing
So I am 46 yrs old and married for 24 years and I want to talk about shame about masturbating. So I was very young I think like 8 when I started exploring myself. I grew up in a Christian household and was made to feel ashamed of myself for it. I even struggled with intimacy with my husband because of the shame associated with it.
Omg I got the mighty patch earlier this week it is AMAZING! It got rid of a painful white head on my nose pretty much overnight!
I love how open & honest you are about your private life and how respectful of others. You are an amazing roll model for young girls and boys. Thank you.
On another note........ PLEASE GIRLS don't shave your face, only tweeze it. Other wise the hair grows in thicker and darker.
Ordered my Kenzzi and thanks for being so transparent and open!
Absolutely !!!!! I hope you love it as much as I do !!!!
I loooovvveee this girl sooo much!!! Than you thank you THANK YOU India!!!!!
Heyy! I’m new to the channel I’m currently 14 going 15 next week but i just wanted to let you know you answered a lot of questions I had about my period and things like so a very big thanks :) ❤️
thank you. you have helped me so much. and i would love too know where i can send questions.
Can I just say, you look absolutely stunning India. I don't know if it's the way you did your makeup today or just a natural glow but I'm here for it🤗😍🙌🙌👑
You are so sweet😭💛💛💛💛💛
I LOVE these talks !!
Hi India! I’m hoping you’ll see this comment because I have a few questions. I’m new to your channel and I love your videos! I’ve also started my journey on the curly girl method! The tips from your videos were so helpful. Anyway, as much as I love my natural curls, sometimes I like to do my hair up in different ways. Is it okay to use hot tools on my hair if I use a protector? Will is completely destroy my progress or am I safe to do this once in a while? I’m curious what you have to say about flat irons and curling wands, etc. If you do see this I greatly appreciate your time! Thank you!
you don't know how much you make me happy when I see a notification from you❤❤❤
I love you so much from Sudan 🇸🇩
Awwww so much love from Georgia !!!!
please note: some people can't reach that point without a vibrator 🙃 I never could reach that point,after doing/trying everything..only thing that helped was THAT toy
Yes !! Thank you for mentioning this !!!!!! I should have mentioned this in the video. This particular couple I was speaking to that isn’t their experience. but yes !!!!!! Thank you for being this up !! P
exploring your body and getting more comfortable with yourself without a vibrator and trying different things might help. of course if you jumped straight into masturbation with a vibrator you're gonna think you can't orgasm without one. you can actually desensitize yourself over time with a vibrator.
Is it really work the hair removel and the thing for nose?
I love these videos you do and how you talk about exercising lol "get the juices flowing" lol
An for my husband and we talk after we are intimate every time. As you said, communication is very important.
I’d love to see your tanning routine (preferably if it’s affordable 💓)
Your a very educational channel God blsss you to ppls who don't have anyone to talk to :)
I really appreciate this commment !!!!!!! 💛💛💛💛💛
Thanks for replying ilysm :)
My fiancé likes to use toys on me more than I like to use them hahaha. At first I thought it was kind of weird but I guess it’s a turn on for him.
I agree with you and India, you are so important! I wish I had a channel to watch like yours when I was younger. 🤍
Oh really are like a big sister :)
awwww I hope this video is helpful !!
Sure is
I love your videos and you're so pretty
Author Shiela Wray Gregoire on UA-cam is an awesome resource for answering all of these type of questions and what is healthy in a relationship. I highly recommend! 💕
You are sensational in the vídeo. Thanks for the tips
So much love to you xoxoxo
U r so great 💜💜💜💜like a real big sis❤
Where is the machine for black head? Is it good for sensetive skin?
i personally don't like using vibrators simply because i can reach orgasm without one and vibrators are just too "strong" for me. and like you said, over time, vibrators can desensitize you down there to the point where you won't be able to orgasm without one, and that's due to nerve damage. it can be reversed if you stop using a vibrator all together for a while, but sometimes it's permanent.
Do you have dark leg hair? I use IPL and the directions say that is doesn't work on blonde, but I haven't tried so I don't know
Awesome video India🙂💖💖💖💋
Very interesting video India!!
Love your videos sis 😍😘
I KNEW you had to be an only child! I’m an only child, too, and I only have one 8 year old little girl 👧🏼🎀! She and I love your videos because we both have the same type of hair as you and my daughter says you are a “cutie patootie”! 😂🙏🏻💜
love u india
Which Kenzi level did you use for your chin? 🙂
Hi sweetie, I hope everything is going well for you and you look so beautiful and God bless you and stay safe and healthy. Love 💘 so much 💘 💓
The vibrator in the marriage is very dangerous, as you said, but with therapy your friend can "train" herself to reach that point again without a vibrator, talking from experience (I had a friend who went through the same situation and she spent months in therapy and now she is able to reach that point without a toy). Thank you for doing this videos 💙
Listen, I’m a 33 year old woman and I just want to be like India when I grow up.
Dang for those of y’all who are lucky enough to have a partner who can get them to that magical point alone every time… bravo haha. But ya girl here looooves her vibrator added to sex haha, my husband was the one who bought it for me actually because he knows I struggle more with getting all the way and damn now every time having multiple o’s & we’re both happy as hell 😂😂
I also use Google to ask questions. Thanks for being our sister. More Love from Pakistan 😘
You stated you had a video that Daniel was in discussing porn and the video would be linked "below" and I don't see it. May I have the link, please, India?
I get a couple jet black hairs on my chin too and they're so thick! What is with that? 😂 I always pluck them but they keep coming back... Wish my eyebrows survived my plucking phase in my teens 🙃😂
I really loved this video!! I think communication is key and not just in our marriages but like you say with young teens and young adults growing up. I actually watched a documentary about p**n the other week 😂 and then general reason why many people started watching it was like you said to educate themselves because no one was talking about it, they didn't know what these things were so you Google and that's what comes up 🤷🏻♀️
I love you so much
I have never understood why sex is such a big deal topic. Scripturally speaking, one of the first things God said to Adam and Eve was to be fruitful and multiply. In other words “go get busy”!! I’m a “retired” minister (I stepped down after having my children to raise them). But now they’re 13 & 12 and I’m feeling the draw back into ministry. Counselling and teaching youth is where it’s at! They’re being taught the good stuff the wrong way!
India’s my UA-cam aunty
hi my sweet niece (;
I have the same 3 hairs in the same spot lol
Omg twins 😍
You are so stunning. 😘💖💋💕
Head covers akways make super DECENT Sofisticated looks that you all need 😇scarf👍hat😜cap🥰
I have the kenzzi it didn't work for me.
it doesn’t work for everyone unfortunately depending on your skins Fitzpatrick scale. I discussed more of that in the first video. I hope you returned it ❤️❤️
@@indiabatson26 I didn't return it.😭😭😭 Im going to try it again and go over the hair 3 times and see if it works better. I have a lot of hair on my lip black coarse hair and chin.
I didn’t have results until about week 5 of using my Kenzzi. You have to stick with it. It’s been a dream. I’ve done my face, underarms and bikini area. I’m going to do my legs - it’s a big commitment so I keep putting off. Every time I have to shave my legs I kick myself. It really does work.
@@ShelliLK I used it for 3 months on my upper lip did nothing.
is it soree? like that thing does it hurt your legs ?
it does not hurt after ! in the moment it feels like a hair tie snapping on your leg on the highest setting. & I barely feel the lowest setting. But everyone is different 💛💛
I liked your vídeo and I wish a great day
Lvoe you babe !!!
Your eyes are beautiful,where can i buy them? Hahaha
Can you use the laser hair device on your bikini area too?
Yes. You can.
Hey India what about the bikini area, with IPL do you think the hair will slow down "down there"?
Yes. You can.
Hi there very nice to meet you!!! Are you a wwe wrestling fan
Hello India, I'm Guilherme
Hi!!!!
I was wondering, do you still support people who don’t share your beliefs about religion and stuff?
I love people whether they share my beliefs or not 💛 just as I hope they will respect my beliefs. But I’m not going to push my beliefs on others.
@@indiabatson26 and that's what i love about you
Hello love 🌹