5 signs that she's not marriage material

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  • Are you thinking about marrying your girl. This AskChazzEllis Guy's video will give you 5 signs that she is not marriage material.
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  • @barrytucceri6437
    @barrytucceri6437 7 років тому +19

    If they cant be any support for you when your at your lowest.(0 support).Then she or he is not for you).

  • @MeTube0190
    @MeTube0190 7 років тому +6

    well done this is good video it explains a lot of things and you are right God bless

  • @ditttch
    @ditttch 4 роки тому +3

    glad I found this channel, you are wise beyond your years brother, thanks for sharing your knowledge

  • @daveholbert9483
    @daveholbert9483 6 років тому +2

    that's some real stuff man good info

  • @thegobe
    @thegobe 6 років тому +6

    Chazz this is brilliant

  • @mauricehightower554
    @mauricehightower554 7 років тому +14

    maturity and saving money

  • @davevalens9918
    @davevalens9918 6 років тому +4

    I 100% agree with #2. There was this 1 lady that constantly kept asking me to help her out with to pay for her data for her phone in another country and i got really fed up with her always asking me for it. And when i told her how i felt what she always did and when she visited me, i told her how i felt about her always taking advantage of me. And once i told her that, she was like "oh, you hurt my feelings, i don't like what you said" and there was another time i told her something else which was true about her and she got very upset @ me just for telling her the truth that she stopped talking to me and i finally quit talking to her and she's still bugs me to this day eversince i left her. Damn😡

  • @Noexcuses00
    @Noexcuses00 6 років тому +4

    Good points. Unfortunately I have absolutely no interest in marriage. I have too much to lose, it’s not worth the stress.

  • @DevotedDisciple-x
    @DevotedDisciple-x 6 років тому +6

    Why didn't I receive a shout out in this video? Clearly, this video, "Beware of Women with Nothing to Offer" and a few others was taken from following and observing my ex and I the past 4 years. But seriously, excellent work, solid words of wisdom.

  • @Mr2andresims
    @Mr2andresims 7 років тому +2

    excellent points

  • @kitwanatyhimba5247
    @kitwanatyhimba5247 6 років тому +4

    So true ✨❗️

  • @STARDOMSk8
    @STARDOMSk8 6 років тому +1

    Excellent advice

  • @kingbey3480
    @kingbey3480 Рік тому

    Excellent insight

  • @s.crockett5457
    @s.crockett5457 7 років тому +4

    #SUCH A VALUABLE TRUTH

  • @joyceghosty2083
    @joyceghosty2083 4 роки тому +3

    these comments are so disrespectful towards women

  • @monyairving1142
    @monyairving1142 7 років тому +15

    Great advice ! Women can also learn from this video too. Thanks got sharing your knowledge and experiences with us.

  • @dirtyflex100
    @dirtyflex100 5 років тому +1

    I'm from Trinidad and you talk some real stuff

  • @janiceelainemack1995
    @janiceelainemack1995 6 років тому +1

    Thanks Chazz for your videos...your always 100...If people get offended, that's cause the shoe fit... if people were wise they would use your videos to better themselves. I do!!

  • @SudhaSingh-gr7mi
    @SudhaSingh-gr7mi 7 років тому

    Chazz you are very wise

  • @ronnrollins8942
    @ronnrollins8942 5 років тому +2

    I agree 100 percent

  • @drjohnsonhungwell5115
    @drjohnsonhungwell5115 6 років тому +25

    1single moms
    2 single moms with multiple kids by different father's

    • @naturalbodyandskincare9965
      @naturalbodyandskincare9965 5 років тому +7

      Dr Johnson Hungwell single moms? That means the man wasn’t husband material

    • @ladygospel4366
      @ladygospel4366 3 роки тому +3

      What if the husband died?

    • @drjohnsonhungwell5115
      @drjohnsonhungwell5115 3 роки тому +1

      @@ladygospel4366 It would really depend on her character morals and actions so I wouldn't totally rule it out.

    • @limitlessinfinite2284
      @limitlessinfinite2284 3 роки тому

      @@naturalbodyandskincare9965 but he was good enough to open her legs and have his seed? Says more about the woman than it does the man.

    • @naturalbodyandskincare9965
      @naturalbodyandskincare9965 3 роки тому

      @@drjohnsonhungwell5115
      So you’re unsure . Please be sure before you make a statement as dumb as that

  • @Ndumixo
    @Ndumixo 4 роки тому +6

    I broke up with my girl last week and she was everything you are mentioning in this video. I made the right decision.

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 5 років тому +1

    That’s why you must date for a long long time to be able to check off all of these points and see if the person passes all these tests! The problem arises when you are so blinded by love that you overlook these very important things and yet at the end you’re unhappy and realize you want our

  • @morquelalove9928
    @morquelalove9928 7 років тому +1

    He starting off right with this video. I did a little laugh.

  • @HelpMe-kj2kh
    @HelpMe-kj2kh 7 років тому +20

    eagle claws

  • @OLatreil
    @OLatreil 7 років тому +12

    The last one about being submissive is a big one. I'm working on not worrying about whether I feel like doing it or not. If it needs to be done (ie. cooking, washing clothes, cleaning up, going to the gym, getting to work on time....) JUST DO IT! What got me really going in this area is this TED Talk "How to Stop Screwing Yourself Over" by Mel Robbins: ua-cam.com/video/Lp7E973zozc/v-deo.html

    • @sharonjones7651
      @sharonjones7651 7 років тому +1

      FrozyWozy thanks for the TED video!

    • @OLatreil
      @OLatreil 7 років тому

      You're welcome. Enjoy.

  • @Julio-ez2np
    @Julio-ez2np 5 років тому +2

    I'm so impressed by what you say. Honestly you are a lot better than most coaches out there. You have everything clear and state points I never heard about. You the best. Some of what you say I've seen it and gone through it. I Learned it the hard way. You know what you talking about. 👍 I wish I knew all this before, but I still benefit from it.

  • @inkkroom
    @inkkroom 7 років тому +13

    this video wasn't fo yo azz" lol

  • @mauricehightower554
    @mauricehightower554 7 років тому +3

    knowledge good stuff

  • @Angelicconnections111
    @Angelicconnections111 4 роки тому +1

    I ain’t mad I’m studying what not to do with my crown

  • @doug186
    @doug186 6 років тому +1

    Thank you. So informative and REAL. You had me laughing too.

  • @crystalgridart3610
    @crystalgridart3610 7 років тому +21

    As a woman, I'm not mad but I feel like every point can be turned around to also be, '5 signs he's not marriage material'. I think it all goes both ways.

    • @marvinportillo3042
      @marvinportillo3042 6 років тому +8

      joyful gabby why you hurt? Lol. Contemporary studies indicate that modern woman in relationships cheat 70%, whereas guys is 30%. Plus, women ALWAYS LIE about their body counts ( don't want a woman who has been careless with her sexuality) and they NEVER OWN UP TO CHEATING. " I've never cheated before." Llllolll

    • @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass
      @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass 6 років тому +5

      You bitches always use the "reverse" strategy when confronted with the truth... Why can't you just acknowledge it without having to use that tired ass well men do it too bullshit!

    • @simonlynch3479
      @simonlynch3479 6 років тому +3

      Sure... But right now this is for men.......he has videos for women as well.....go there...Not here

  • @russthecoolguy512
    @russthecoolguy512 5 років тому

    True!!! @9:09

  • @amymhchan1584
    @amymhchan1584 6 років тому +2

    That's exactly how I feel. And I am going to continue listening to myself instead of these predators.

  • @williamsriggins69
    @williamsriggins69 7 років тому +1

    Hey chazz i have a question. I been seei g this guy for a month now and whenever i ask him questions he would say take it easy and go with the flow and just let me tell you things in my own time. Do you think that he's full of it?

    • @bijoupam
      @bijoupam 7 років тому

      How far? where you able to figure something?

    • @stacyr4768
      @stacyr4768 7 років тому

      Did he ever reply to you?

  • @dwanirby4771
    @dwanirby4771 6 років тому +8

    Dang, sounds like you met my ex wife 🤔😲bro, this video is 💯% factual ✊🏽

  • @briarprastiti3494
    @briarprastiti3494 2 роки тому

    All good points, but this applies to both sides, both men and women. Also number 5, you assume people are going to get annoyed at the the word ‘submit’, which is probably true, but you wouldn’t have to defend your statements if you used fair language. What you mean essentially is that each person in the relationship listen and respect each other’s decisions right? To paint a picture of a wife submitting to her husband has some rather outdated undertones.

  • @jacobduchesne22
    @jacobduchesne22 5 років тому

    Bro I have a girl that said she wanted a break but then started seeing this "friend" and sees him every other day, ik she cheats but she always talk about our future together.. 😂😂

  • @clyclenggg
    @clyclenggg 5 років тому +5

    I’m here cause I gotta learn and study 😂

  • @williamsriggins69
    @williamsriggins69 7 років тому +1

    We use to date when we were in high school and came back in contact with each other we go out and sometimes hw comes to visit me but i can never visit him at his house. Do you think he has something ti hide?

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia 7 років тому +2

      williams Riggins his wife,gf,mother or kids. or he is a slob,broke but has something that will reveal the truth.

  • @EmilySimpson723
    @EmilySimpson723 7 років тому +3

    Yeah, I think point 5 is better framed as compromise, not submit. And yeah, it needs to go both ways.

  • @daveh9551
    @daveh9551 3 роки тому

    Right, I received a lot of feedback from women who are close to me because I told my ex she wasnt marriage material. Why? Because she was busted texting her ex and to get revenge she went thru my phone and read some old text mgs I had. SO, instead of carrying the beef I said ok we both were wrong, lesson learned, lets move beyond this. This didnt work because every time we'd get into an argument she would bring up the same old shit as if she wasnt guilty of something... I nver slept with the females in those mgs but how is texting ur ex ok, epecially if he was a cheater too? So after about a 2.5 yrs of this among other bs we ended it. She wanted an apology and I told her to fk off. It was really one problem we had and to others looking in it was so petty. Def not marriage material.

  • @eddier2k9
    @eddier2k9 7 років тому

    👌👌👌

  • @10MinutestoRouletteFortune
    @10MinutestoRouletteFortune 5 років тому +1

    if she only knows how to use the microwave..........PASS. I dated a gal 26 years old that didn't know how to cook BACON. TRUTH.

  • @khadyndiaye5999
    @khadyndiaye5999 5 років тому +2

    If men stopped being shallow they would find a marriage material without problems

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 2 роки тому

    I’m not wife material by choice…the idea of being married gets more irrational the older I get. Sacrificing your dreams and goals is not appealing.

  • @theprolificnetwork4670
    @theprolificnetwork4670 6 років тому +1

    And you didn't say one thing about love if the woman don't love you she's not marriage material love erases all five of those points you made because love includes forgiveness

  • @lisabolduc802
    @lisabolduc802 2 роки тому

    Number 3...beauty is not outer looks alone. Ugly hearts lye within many a pretty body.

  • @tracyellis581
    @tracyellis581 7 років тому

    An add on to not going through tough times. I think if you haven't had an argument in 1.5-2yrs then it's a high sign of compatibility. But there are other life dramas to fight through together.

  • @JadeCarter66
    @JadeCarter66 7 років тому +11

    I'm dying at the thick to really, really thick 😂😂😂😂😂😂 but it's true. I've seen soooo many people let themselves go after marriage

  • @cheetahcat3940
    @cheetahcat3940 2 роки тому

    6:25 why is a womans worth always determined by how much wrong doing she can take.

  • @abycasty8590
    @abycasty8590 7 років тому +1

    ... does this also applies to husband material?

  • @healthguy79
    @healthguy79 5 років тому +1

    Why are we discussing marriage when this is an anti-MGTOW idea?

    • @valentinazaba7253
      @valentinazaba7253 5 років тому +1

      Yuck! Then why are you here ?! I think this is the right question.

  • @ryanryan862
    @ryanryan862 4 роки тому +2

    If a woman can't cook or clean and you can is a huge! red flag

  • @daybreak76cmariewalker63
    @daybreak76cmariewalker63 7 років тому +1

    🤔🙄 eagle claws😂😂

  • @thewynndynasty9652
    @thewynndynasty9652 6 років тому

    Women do not like criticism and will find a way to flip everything.. Women have tons of self help videos

  • @morquelalove9928
    @morquelalove9928 7 років тому

    He starting off right with this video. I did a little laugh.