10 Bad Habits That Make People Dislike You Immediately

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  • Here are 10 bad habits that make people dislike you immediately! Whether you’re starting a new job, want to make friends, or about to start dating someone new, there are certain bad habits that destroy your likability. Sometimes these don’t seem like a big deal, but they can make a big difference in the way other people perceive you and whether or not they want to spend time with you.
    If you’re wondering why people don’t like you or just want to be more likable, this video is for you! You may be making a bad first impression without even realizing it. So, improving your communication skills and overall social skills is critical if you want to get people to like you and establish healthy relationships.
    In this video, we go over some examples of the bad habits that make people dislike you and how to change them so that you can become more likable.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 111

  • @jannamartens9806
    @jannamartens9806 Рік тому +76

    I don’t like people who need to use video s to talk to talk to me . And can’t talk to me face to face . Or people who gossip about me and pretend to be my friend. I don’t keep people in my life who don’t respect my boundaries.

    • @reprogrammingmind
      @reprogrammingmind Рік тому +1

      Comment as watching UA-cam.

    • @Timewithmabel
      @Timewithmabel Рік тому

      So me

    • @donk2427
      @donk2427 Рік тому +2

      Well, maybe some people are trying to learn to better communicate. I'd appreciate the effort if someone did that for me honestly.

    • @placebo106
      @placebo106 Рік тому

      Just make sure it's really your boundaries and not your comfort zone.

    • @joesix-pack4022
      @joesix-pack4022 Рік тому +2

      Well, you sound very judgemental, Janna!

  • @juntaveekammanee
    @juntaveekammanee Рік тому +18

    Best thing is be balance. Be loving. Be respect to self & others.

  • @juntaveekammanee
    @juntaveekammanee Рік тому +35

    Sometimes no matter what you do or how kind you are to folks they just won't like you. It's ok cause with God's help I'm mellow out.😊🐦

  • @bevanbuckwheatshea5520
    @bevanbuckwheatshea5520 Рік тому +7

    Respect yourself first

  • @ChocoParfaitFra
    @ChocoParfaitFra Рік тому +30

    I hate when people reply to your messages hours or even days later
    It can’t be that you’re always that busy
    You just don’t care and it’s disrespectful

    • @Coryraisa
      @Coryraisa Рік тому +15

      I can understand a few hours later or a day or do later...they might be with another friend or even traveling.
      I can't tolerate people who demand an immediate response and also people who are with one person but are texting or on the phone to somebody else...that's very rude.

    • @losrajvosa0078
      @losrajvosa0078 Рік тому +5

      People can be beasy tired and we do sleep so you cant expect answer on time man

    • @ryanstarlight8018
      @ryanstarlight8018 Рік тому +6

      Some people have social anxiety

    • @Coryraisa
      @Coryraisa Рік тому +1

      @@ryanstarlight8018:
      Very true also, *Ryan.*

    • @ChocoParfaitFra
      @ChocoParfaitFra Рік тому +2

      @@losrajvosa0078 i didn’t say on time, I said hours later or even days when you already know that the person is home

  • @susanneschmidtcruz7156
    @susanneschmidtcruz7156 Рік тому +11

    Another good one Brainy Dose. These are lessons we all need to remember.

  • @spoilerman8975
    @spoilerman8975 Рік тому +9

    Family for me has been the hardest to put up with. I'm the youngest of six children, four are now gone, but the other two still think that their voices are more important than mine. I now control when and if I see them. Sometimes we need to distance ourselves from the ones were supposed to love the most. You must think of your health first. Outside of God, love yourself the most.

    • @belinspicyasscontreras5766
      @belinspicyasscontreras5766 Рік тому +1

      I agree u on this so much! I'm also the baby of the family but I'm not a baby. Yet the more i hang out w fam the more they think they know me n can put me down n i hate that. It's like they're trying to train me to play that role but i refuse. So I distance myself n then get told that I'm avoiding the family but really i just want to be happy.

    • @spoilerman8975
      @spoilerman8975 Рік тому +2

      @@belinspicyasscontreras5766 I agree with you 100% and a big factory is do not feel guilty about your decision to keep distance.

    • @spoilerman8975
      @spoilerman8975 Рік тому

      Great point because at the beginning many will go through guilt like I did. Time can make us all stronger when we are on the right path for our health.

  • @SonsofThunder1234
    @SonsofThunder1234 Рік тому +1

    Brilliant. The trait about, 'Not keeping time', is spot on. When people are often late, what they are saying is, 'In my time, not yours'. Usually arrogant, selfish people are like this. Extremely selfish people who think the world revolves around them.

  • @sarahhurst701
    @sarahhurst701 Рік тому +26

    Wise counsel, great advice! I agree 💯 with this entire list! In fact, I'll be sharing this one for sure!🌹🔥💜😎

  • @arielhenry4539
    @arielhenry4539 Рік тому +3

    I completely agree with number 10. I had to put several people in their place about touching me too much or asking questions that were none of their business

  • @halledwardb
    @halledwardb Рік тому +19

    Maybe its more important to be able to be strong and take care of yourself, and not be a codependent.

  • @nataliet.8263
    @nataliet.8263 Рік тому +11

    Wonderful points ! Thank you very much!!!

  • @alexrios4064
    @alexrios4064 Рік тому +3

    Thanks its a good reminder even for the ones all these common courtesies are second nature.

  • @gloriahoulihan8717
    @gloriahoulihan8717 Рік тому +4

    Nobody is perfect are they! If you go through life worrying about all your faults you will be sitting in the corner like a nervous wreck. However it is good to be considerate of others and their weaknesses.

  • @schallrd1
    @schallrd1 Рік тому +2

    Well that explains it.

  • @jay69mi
    @jay69mi Рік тому +6

    It's hard being a human.

  • @coltonsimmonds6991
    @coltonsimmonds6991 Рік тому +5

    'Been Humble & Reajust According To The Circumstanses We Find Ourselves In From Day Too Day; This Video Is Superb; & Have The Right Spirit Each Day'.

  • @melodythemassagetherapist6957
    @melodythemassagetherapist6957 Рік тому +10

    Yes!!! Be polite to everyone!!! Loving this video!!! Sharing!! Love your channel!!! 💕💕💕

  • @angelofamillionyears4599
    @angelofamillionyears4599 Рік тому +4

    True, Everyone makes assumptions.

  • @elroyemmanueld7
    @elroyemmanueld7 Рік тому +3

    More often than not not having these character flaws or being on the opposite and mature side of these habits will only help you gel well with equally mature people because some people happen to think these habits make them cool or assertive when they really don't.

  • @TheDianne0004
    @TheDianne0004 Рік тому +2

    I have the most problems with my daughter she is always unhappy which can be very difficult to deal with I pray but she is just selfish and unhappy

  • @betanialacoste7945
    @betanialacoste7945 Рік тому +3

    Another unlikable quality is when people are easily offended in a situation that calls for empathy. I run into unlikable people all the time, but they're popular for these ugly habits that they all know I have to cope with at home or abroad.

  • @patricialondono4438
    @patricialondono4438 Рік тому +6

    Excelent!!! Thank you❤

  • @peggymittag5274
    @peggymittag5274 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for this insightful message Amen

  • @darkvader125
    @darkvader125 Рік тому +8

    hm great points i generally dont like people around me as I am introverted and quiet, but all the points are valid because of which I genuinely hate some people in my life and I wish I would never encounter them in my life, yet these people constantly bothers me and try to make themselves as if I should be liking them but I hate those people genuinely

    • @luistorres6956
      @luistorres6956 Рік тому +2

      These ppl who we feel strong dislike for, are their to teach us, help us grow, everyone is you in a different body, don't take nothing personal, they are hurting, suffering maybe and are projecting that onto you. Articulate yourself with words, speak accordingly with reality, so they can help to correct themselves. Remember we will come into contact with ignorance everyday we just have to lead by example thru class, dignity, integrity, decency , kindness, etc etc

    • @darkvader125
      @darkvader125 Рік тому +1

      @@luistorres6956 agree with you

    • @luistorres6956
      @luistorres6956 Рік тому

      @@darkvader125 godspeed 🕯️

  • @jeffreyreynolds4732
    @jeffreyreynolds4732 Рік тому +4

    Much Appreciated Veideo. Everyone has One, Two, even three of these Character Traits. If No One points these things out, there's No Way for a Person to Be aware and Make Changes within Themselves. If any of these are Pointed out to a Person and they Choose NOT to be Aware and Make Necessary Changes, that Person is Choosing to be Unlikeable. It's on them.
    One thing this Video Could have Pointed out is that:
    There are Many People who Carry ALL of these Character Traits. They have them Pointed out to them Time and Again. They Choose NOT to make Any Changes. These People are Called NARCISSISTS. They have DOOMED Themselves to their Own HELLSCAPE. Too Bad, So Sad- NOT MY Problem ANYMORE!!!

  • @annasamwel1463
    @annasamwel1463 Рік тому +3

    I don't like people who are cheaters it does not matter whether physical or emotionally.

  • @angelofmyheart1967
    @angelofmyheart1967 Рік тому +2

    I came here because I'm so paranoid about being quilty of doing any of these things. Yet, I also leave not knowing whether I've gotten the answer I'm looking for. I'm 97% confused about the world and how to act in it.

  • @terencemeikle534
    @terencemeikle534 Рік тому +4

    Spot on again. This had me squirming at times. 🙂

  • @sulisardya8917
    @sulisardya8917 Рік тому +3

    Number 4 is my least favorite. I hate people who think they know everything when they really don't

  • @markjones2453
    @markjones2453 Рік тому +2

    You are you as long as you're a decent person be you who cares what others think

  • @SpikyMushroom70
    @SpikyMushroom70 Рік тому +5

    I'm happiest when left alone

  • @ericremme7589
    @ericremme7589 Рік тому +1

    Act like they do and make yourself a little scarce and when not around them become yourself again !

  • @bevanbuckwheatshea5520
    @bevanbuckwheatshea5520 Рік тому +2

    Excellent advice.

  • @sri0999
    @sri0999 Рік тому +1

    Thank you very much for your knowledge brother, I hope I can be as successful as you

  • @shareecoleman9687
    @shareecoleman9687 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for these videos please make more I enjoy them

  • @losrajvosa0078
    @losrajvosa0078 Рік тому +6

    Bragging can be funny but playing victim mentality is much worse.
    Gossiping is one of the worsiest thing that people do to other people behind back.

  • @ayampencen6363
    @ayampencen6363 Рік тому +2

    K...dh tido blako..kijo dulu stretttt...
    🚶‍♂️

  • @lawrencewebster5377
    @lawrencewebster5377 Рік тому +4

    Awesomeness thanks 😊

  • @Gabriela-zb9qd
    @Gabriela-zb9qd Рік тому +4

    Yeah, be polite to everyone, but don't trust anyone. People are selfish and you gonna regret sharing your personal informations or problems with them soon or late. Just stop looking for friends in collage or job, cuz you'll be dissapoited how toxic and false people can be. You are not a candy, nobody must "like" you. Just be yourself, but dont be so honest and open about yourself. Xoxo

    • @Gabriela-zb9qd
      @Gabriela-zb9qd Рік тому

      @whatspp6425 yup, so funny, but that just what I learned from my life experience and mistakes, take my advice and don't be so sure about others, you could be really surprised, just like I was :)

    • @uncommonsensor
      @uncommonsensor Рік тому

      "you are not a candy" lol very true

  • @anee7163
    @anee7163 Рік тому +3

    Thank you !

  • @seratuspersen_ch
    @seratuspersen_ch Рік тому +2

    Awesomeness thanks **

  • @bohanan5851
    @bohanan5851 Рік тому +2

    Very sobering video...

  • @angelofamillionyears4599
    @angelofamillionyears4599 Рік тому +2

    good points

  • @dantefernandodantezambrano7910

    Show respect to some, but not to others can be such a synonym for preferences. Whether anyone realizes it or not; they show they're being kind of "picky" when it comes to meeting other people. The social rule involves treating anyone with the utmost consideration by not making any remark on their persona. Nevertheless, if someone behaves quite snobby towards somebody else, but shows such a bragging attitude towards others, then it won't be hard to notice those are about to be dislikable to some.

  • @sarahgirlisit
    @sarahgirlisit Рік тому +3

    Perfect video.

  • @Utopian30
    @Utopian30 Рік тому +2

    Is this a Canadian channel

  • @lionanishana
    @lionanishana Рік тому +2

    Useful video

  • @pluto_onthefirst8461
    @pluto_onthefirst8461 Рік тому +5

    I hate people who constantly interrupt or talk over you. Good listeners are smart.

  • @kennethguidry3132
    @kennethguidry3132 Рік тому +2

    This was good!

  • @foreverseethe
    @foreverseethe Рік тому

    The first one "making assumptions" has to be clarified. Its too broad a statement. It can mean anything from prejudice to cognitive empathy which are pole opposites or anything in between.
    (Cognitive empathy means having an idea of where your conversation partners' mind is, which helps you to say the appropriate thing which in turn makes the conversation fruitful for both parties)

  • @nanci3232
    @nanci3232 Рік тому +2

    I like the content ❤

  • @MrSa458
    @MrSa458 Рік тому +3

    That's why I honestly quit smoking and drinking because it was only killing me anyway
    So anyways, God bless everyone who comes across this comment 🕊✝️🔥🙌🏾

  • @milalila1048
    @milalila1048 Рік тому

    Make video about how can I complany about something but not on toxics way

  • @CPRforyourSocialLife
    @CPRforyourSocialLife Рік тому +2

    Ooh, some good stuff here! The key is to take yourself off 'autopilot' and really LOOK at what you're doing!

  • @whatstherootofmoney
    @whatstherootofmoney Рік тому

    Great!

  • @diannedell8405
    @diannedell8405 Рік тому +1

    Sounds like everyone to a degree. Could be boring if we are all too perfect, and behave like this all the time.

  • @Alan-io2ew
    @Alan-io2ew 5 місяців тому

    My wife squeezes the toothpaste from the top of the tube,which just drives me mad,it's one of the worst habits.

  • @lfg_gamecrshr964
    @lfg_gamecrshr964 Рік тому +1

    I find it funny how some of these are Italian stereotypes

  • @veritasprojects8064
    @veritasprojects8064 Рік тому

    Watch this: so I tell her I know she wants another man instead of me. She replies that I am making an assumption. Noooo I have access to her cell phone and see all her texts messages where she says she can’t wait to see him. So the accusation I am making an assumption is destroyed by the fact that she is a congenital pathological liar unaware that I know the truth and there is sooooo much more!!!

  • @michealcarnegie5589
    @michealcarnegie5589 Рік тому

    3 : 46

  • @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892

    Getting way too drunk - like, really?!? I had no idea!!!! ...

  • @joshuamaulden9084
    @joshuamaulden9084 Рік тому

    3:13 🐫

  • @mohamadjefry9412
    @mohamadjefry9412 Рік тому +1

    The common bad habit that people had are heavy smoking, my parents start smoking when I was a baby . I tried to convince my parents to stop smoking but they never stopped until now

  • @patricialondono4438
    @patricialondono4438 Рік тому +3

  • @DWPersianExcursion
    @DWPersianExcursion Рік тому +3

    💕💕💕💕💕

  • @toniareynolds5403
    @toniareynolds5403 Рік тому +2

    👍🏾👍🏾

  • @somanaboinasrihari2486
    @somanaboinasrihari2486 Рік тому +2

    First 🥇

  • @kiruro397
    @kiruro397 Рік тому +2

    First

  • @bevanbuckwheatshea5520
    @bevanbuckwheatshea5520 Рік тому

    Picking your nose and scratching your bottom.