Meeting My Biological Parents For The First Time...
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- Опубліковано 19 бер 2022
- This was the most emotional day of my life....after being given up by my biological parents at just 3 months old to the foster care system I finally got the chance to meet them & ask them questions ive been wanting to do my entire life....
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Respect in shouting out your adoptive parents. Touched my heart. Family is not blood, its those who love you unconditionally.
Love is powerful
I felt that 💯
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The dad probably wasn’t a citizen that’s why he said he couldn’t do anything and he was depending on the mom to get them back cause she was American. Forgive and thank god you had a chance to talk to them. Nobody’s perfect
That’s what he said he wasn’t a citizen he lost his job and his mom couldn’t take care of them
This what happened, he said it... he said I not a citizen so I left it to your mom to get you'll back but she couldn't and it tore me down and I just gave up on everything)
Yes exactly
Exactly. He was not a citizen, even probably undocumented, didn't have a job and lost hope. I know dad loves him by the way he hugged him. He was hoping mom, an American citizen, could work on getting the kids back but she was not able due to her drug situation.
I don't think your friend has to say your dad wasn't genuine. Dad warmly welcomed him, and took him to mom's house. PrettyboyAlfredo has fogiven them and that's the most important. Some men are not very expressive and dad definitely still has difficulty expressing himself in the English language. Just give him a chance to prove himself.
God has blessed you through your adoptive parents and helped you to become who you are now. Just live your life the best way you can.
Dad definitely was more sincere than mom was. She asked for a house after doing nothing for him meanwhile the dad asked for a job.
She's scrolling on her phone, he's asking for a job, and they don't seem to understand the seriousness of your pain....It's a lot to work out bro, I wish you well!
And infants not yet a baby don't say I'm going to buy you a house. I have a feeling they tricked him and at the very least are addicts.
I was chilling and trying to keep an open mind until she said he called her and said he was going to buy her a house one day. I was highkey mad and it became very hard to watch after that. 😤
The parents did what was best for the kids. They were obviously on drugs or mentally unstable and unable to care for themselves let alone young children. I think that the fact that he was raised by decent people is truly a blessing. I hope that he will find peace.
There’s a vid out there where the mom says she’s never done drugs in her life (2 years ago) and she gets mad cuz he portrayed her in a bad light
Looking at your bio parents, it looks like they had and are still having a hard life. Count your blessings. I know It hurts but keep pushing.
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@prettyboyfredo Knew you all was gonna have something messed up to say at the end😩. Thats a millennial 26-39 year old thing to always be negative and see no positive
@@illwill5215 honestly I haven’t finished the video to see what he says but it sucks like it’s painful asf to see these are the people you came from and they are just so trash it makes grateful for my parents they’re not perfect my dad was not around and my mom was always but they tried their best especially my mom
@@illwill5215 who said something negative?
Don't cry bro. Your dads culture is different from Colombia so the way they express themselves is different. Thank God for what happened to you and you ended up with your adoptive parents coz you are what you are now due to what happened. Love them coz they didn't throw you away. God is great.
I new Fredo looked different.
on god i hope he sees this comment
That doesn’t mean anything
@@pinkiepie1165 what do you mean? he’s just trying to make him smile like why you ruining stuff
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He looks like his mom ! This was so heartwarming, thank you for reaching out
Yes he does with a smack of his dad for flava!
As a former Foster Care Worker, I have heard kids in Care…say, “I’m gonna buy you a house”, because they think that’s what’s keeping them apart…a house. It’s not far fetched or unbelievable that a kid would say that.😢
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One thing you gotta understand is that your biological dad is a product of his environment and is a victim of life … he most likely lived and was raised by survival and not Love … I’m happy that you were able to learn and be the curve of your bloodline for you and your family!! RESPECT BRO 💯
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True some people don’t know anything outside of what they grew up around. Some people learn and change and unfortunately others don’t.
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Everybody is a product of their environment
@@AJBuddha sad but true. A lot of people don't know that. They believe some people are just flat out evil, and that may be, but there's a likely chance that that person had to become evil to fight evil around them. It's a vicious wirlwind.
U can see the look of disappointment and pain in his eyes man happy you handled the situation well
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Damn🖤
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Facts lmao should’ve went w/out the chain
Some people are meant to break generational curses! Your journey was meant for YOU! Appreciate it. Big ups to you. 🤞🏽
All Of This is the truth!!! Imagine how he could have turned out
facts his journey is a blessing in disguise. even if it seems hard right now, there’s always a reason behind it
I think the dad is telling his truth.
True amen
Just love your biological parents where they are and help them all you can. It's a blessing to be a blessing.
This was so beautiful. I love this episode because we all need to learn how to FORGIVE and be at PEACE.
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Yes!
I don't like that guy in the car,u negative asf let the man heal and add positivity to the situation
@@sexyshaki I AGREE!
Dad tried to make fredo callem daddy hwll nah
This made me appreciate my mother so much!! She’s done it all by herself for me and my siblings. I cried watching this. You are strong
I can relate I’ve been through the same thing and reading your comment got me in tears but you know this made us stronger and who we are today❣️
honestly 100%
straight facts
Deff can relate !!🥹🤍 shout out our moms!
same for me too 😖
Damn bro I honestly never really kept up with any of your content but this one hit home for me ..
Watching him say thank you to his parents at the end of this hit me im the chest. They are indeed the reason you are who you are. God allows things to happen in order to reach ur destiny.
The fact that your mom have all those pictures up of you guys showed that she still cared, she owned up to her mistake and that's the most important part of it all. She is truly sorry. Your dad I just feel like he couldn't express his emotions. Hope you guys can grow a bond together 🙏🏾
True. But the dad is fasho just way too deep into them drugss its sad man.
@@hernandez4695 yea it's sad he stated that he started using after the kids got taken from him smh
Sum ain’t right bout the mom too, when she said that fredo said he was fina buy her a house when he was younger seemed off, like she seems like a fan just as the dad
@@beetleotayy6145 crazy I thought about that to she know he didn't say that just tried to throw it in there that was definitely the wrong thing to say they owe him everything he owe them nothing honestly.
@@shanitaupshaw7066 that ain’t his mom
Hey Fredo don't be so down on your dad there's a culture difference that's hard to explain. I was never adopted or anything but my parents are both African and there very blunt with little emotions. I think your dad is just happy you made it
21:20 you read your dad so wrong he just can’t articulate himself correctly, I think u should do another video with your dad but get a Spanish translator who can really understand him, cus ur dad Cleary came from a tough background.
We have the same name
I'm Puerto Rican and I know is hard I lose my daughter because of bullshit and your mom and dad please love them don't look at your dad deferent your dad was on drugs and he is probably drinking so don't judge help him to get help for him to be in your life more
@@AhmedAhmed-ix5tw wtf lol y’all twins🤣🤣🤣
@@gatacusthelastgat2171 😂😂😂
I can relate!! I went to 16 different foster homes from 5 to 14 and finally got adopted. Thanks for sharing your story. I was desperate for answers myself. I and went back answers that were more heartbreaking then having no answers. It presented the truth of change that never happened. As I live my life better than what I was born into. I'm truely blessed.. no one in my family has created sober and new memories to be a part of me and my children's life. It's sad but its life. My main mission was to break the chainz so that my children could avoid what I weathered. 😁 again I'm blessed. Thank you GOD. Fredo again thanks for sharing
Blessings Queen 💙
I can relate . I’m glad you found them and they’re still alive. Some people who been through this never found there parents. You blessed bro.
Don't get me wrong, I'm so happy he finally got to meet his mom and dad but something just seems off when the dad said you got a job for me. Then the mom saying you said you'd buy me a house when you got big. Idk, just seems like they are gonna be wanting from him. But I really hope I'm wrong.
His mom left him when he was months old he ain’t ever said that
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@@Swif1 She said on the phone so he was probably a toddler.
I felt da same way thought i was buggin idk if Fredo gone see this comment but thats how it really felt no cap
this a whole prank or some 😂😂😂
Gotta start looking at our parents as people they have issues....and sometimes being a parent is not enough to overcome those issues
Big facts
Yes, they’re flawed imperfect humans just like anyone else..
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Exactly💯 I had pretty messed up parents as well & had to learn to look at my parents differently and learned to look at them as people with issues as I got older. definitely a game changer! forgiveness came much easier once I stopped judging them as parents & saw them as just people that need help.. 🙏🏽 I’m just thankful they’re both now sober, alive and in my life.. ❤️
I’m glad your mother apologized to you. I don’t think she was ready to tell the whole truth but coming up where she’s from and from the time she was in I know it was tough. Your dad was ready to tell part of it but I think the language barrier is what’s happening. I’m also glad you realized that even though they were not there you had great parents that took you in and raised you. Growing up in the 80’s and 90’s myself with a mom that was a drug addict and alcoholic it was hell. And I seen a lot of things that no kid should’ve witnessed and experienced. My dad was also on drugs but he was a functioning addict.
Damn brother.. thank you for sharing your story with us.. it’s truly inspirational.. so many more people just connected with you through your story
I think your dad was super excited that you made it. He was cheering you on by calling you pretty boi.... He probably talks about you all the time. Plus he has a language barrier. Your mom seems genuinely sorry and it seems that they had a past of substance abuse. I'm happy you forgive them.
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My thoughts exactly
Facts the dad was happy he made it
That was tough to watch and even more difficult to hear some of the comments made. as a viewer you can’t help but get angry when you witness someone missing the point or not being in the moment, which was so fragile. Thankful for people out there stepping up to love and care for kids in our system, when their parents can’t or won’t. I pray your heart continues to heal from here on out. 💕
Despite the economic downturn im so happy 😊. I have been earning $60,000 returns from my $7,000 investment every 13days since PrettyboyFredo referred me to his broker..
Dont be so hard on your dad. He loves you. Men just show there emotions differently. The fact that he remember the little intrecate details about his son, your birthday, your birthmark, and what happened when he lost you. He cares... The reaction you saw in your first meeting him after many years, was his happiness for you, and what you become, and your success... If it was anything different , he would have tried to contact you years ago, and he would of asked you for something... Both your parents love you... and Im glad you are at the point in your life and the person you are that you are able to forgive them, and have an open ear and mind to listen, and try to understand, and agin to forgive, and give them and yourself a chance to move forward from the pass and move towards the future and try and be a family... I wish you guys all the Best!!!!
I love your comment
You got love Fredo give them the love that they never got.
His dad asking if he has a job for him in the first hour of meeting him was a big red flag , I don't mean to offend you or anyone be cautious on this journey fredo
He’s Colombian that’s all they know is work
I noticed that too, It seems as if his dad didn’t do much to look for him and all of a sudden he knew about who he was to others and the first thing he does is take pictures because he knows his son has made a Someone out of himself… instead of just sitting still and explaining the situations no camera pictures or anything idk it was very odd
At the level he’s at that’s bragging rights to his peers yea I’m a bum and broke but my son is pretty boy fredo
And his mother making up that story about him saying he would buy her a house one day
Seems like they only want to be a part of his life for his success. People will say anything, actions speak way louder.
She Played her self by saying…. Wen you was younger you said you was gonna buy me a house! She knows she Lying 😂😂
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Big facts 😂😂😂
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@@glacierboy1629 😭 bro was 3 months
She want a house🤣
It takes a great man to endure so much in life and an even greater one to forgive the people who were part of your pain. I hoped that they would give you a deeper understanding of the past but I'm glad you forgave them, that speaks volumes about who you are and I will attest to the fact that you truly deserve the life you have now. thank you for sharing your story and reminding folks like me how blessed I am for having both parents present throughout my life.
This was really amazing, I’m glad you got the closure you needed.. I cried with you bro idk what it’s like to be adopted but I felt for you thank god you weren’t raised in that type of environment!
The language barrier and his past trauma as well is what is wrong with his DAD... Y'all don't do his pops like that. If you've ever been to a 3rd world country you know.
I know pop don’t speak English wasn’t in my life. But his dad had no remorse. Even told Fredo to him daddy when they were at the gas station parking lot. like who tf is he to have that title of dad to fredo.
Well he's his dad biologically speaking which is why he said that. I think his dad's actions are misinterpreted by a lot of people in the comments due to the cultural differences. Even if he says something, you can't fully translate that to how he feels because of the language barriers. The word "dad" can have a million meanings, especially in different languages.
@@kingcomeup1623 I understand king but lack of emotion doesn't come outta nowhere.
@@BrandonLee-rm6hc respectfully explained 💪
I agree. Language barrier is awful when your trying to decipher a meaning. If the guy spoke in Spanish and Alfredo understood he’d be able to share exactly how he feels
Your dad admires you and what you became. He was looking at your videos before you showed him any he knew who prettyboyfredo was. They just couldn’t raise you or didn’t want to. Look at in a positive way you have 4 parents two who raised you and two your birth you!
Amen❤
They keep trying to blame the dad. He look like he couldn't raise him
Exactly. That just might be how the dad acts. It doesnt mean he doesnt care for his son.
Well said.
His Dad truly cares and has watched from a distance,but his Mother is a user and liar..
This is beautiful Fredo , I’m glad you stepped up and got to experience this
How humble and noble to reach out & touch as you have to your birth parents, you are an incredible man & thanx for sharing.
Watching from the UK. xxx
I think the friend shouldn’t have given his input. I don’t think he understand his fathers point of view and his life. Who knows the struggles he had. But clearly it was better for you and your siblings to not be with them. Everything happened for a reason. But I think your dad and mom can be misunderstood by us and them. Maybe have another conversation with them but not on camera. I think that also has an effect on the conversation. That could have effected your fathers way of communicating. I think he is a fan but parents should be your biggest fan.
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Agree
I highly agree! He’s African American and the love is expressed differently!!! Fredos dad is Latino and he’s not American Clearly he’s not financially stable or doing well on his own we need to have compassion and understanding to parents as well !
21:20 you read your dad so wrong he just can’t articulate himself correctly, I think u should do another video with your dad but get a Spanish translator who can really understand him, cus ur dad Cleary came from a tough background and to me more genuinely regretted what happened then your mom
Same thing I said. I agree 💯
I felt the pain every time the dad called him, Prettyboyfredo. But things definitely happen for a reason brother. Glad you stayed so strong throughout life and became who you are today. 💯💯💯
I’m so happy that you you and your adopted parents found each other.
This was so beautiful I was literally crying I’m so glad you didn’t judge them instead accepted them.
This a life changing to Fredo just so y’all can know why u shouldn’t judge a book by it’s cover Fredo literally lost himself many times and found himself again you will never know what people think deep in they thoughts what they go thru , Fredo I love you ❤️ you deserve this ❤️.
Also I don’t think your parents were completely honest about what happened. They either may not remember due to substance abuse or they’re too ashamed to speak about it in front of your friend and on camera
Yeah they was not honest at all
They are too ashamed. Substance abuse can cloud ur memory but a lot of times addicts use that as a cop out to admiring things
This was such a beautiful series. 💖💖🙏🏽 I pray that you and your family find some solace and peace and remain reunited.
Man it sounds good to be able to speak to your family I lost my mom and my dad doesnt keep in touch with me a conversation like this just will make me feel a lot better
The part where they’re completely on their phones and questioning what your future is gonna look like is crazyyy like the awkwardness and the amount of tone deaf actions, then his mother talking about“you said you’re gonna buy me a house when you were a baby” 🤨
Thats crazy
@@GOATMALIK19 as fuckkkkk like the memory you remembered and wanted to tell him was that when he was a baby he was gonna buy you a house ???? BYE
@Zae dad was on another planet
That’s the part that got me , if he was put in the system at 3 months he can’t even talk.
@@yoimkira7644 yea but she said they talked on the phone when he was a little older.
I think although his dad seemed like a “fan” there could’ve been a slight language barrier and he probably didn’t know how to navigate his way to say what he wanted or how he felt.. on the other hand his mom seemed very genuine only thing that threw me left was the house comment. Doesn’t mean it didn’t happen because kids says things all the time especially kids who may be growing up in a situation such as a foster system but maybe it was not the best comment to make due to them just meeting. Congratulations Fredo! More life and blessings coming your way 🤍
Could not said it better!
I agree
I agree she went to the store to get milk. Dad can only do so much and once the government gets involved it’s so hard for a man. He just don’t know how to express that feeling and Fredo you need to realize that my brother. Peace and love
I wanted to say the same but I can’t put in words like you 😂
I felt the same. I enjoyed the video it was bittersweet but she definitely threw me off with that
Fredo with all due respect. Your bio parents saved your life because that made you stronger..
They’ve done nothing for him tho besides bring him in the world and neglect him
I’m so glad you met your parents and forgave them. This is beautiful 🥺❤️
I’m so sorry that you went through so much in your childhood. Your mom was genuinely sorry, I could see that. 🥺
This videos was very well out together. They gave u up for a better life and look and the beautiful life you’ve created ! This the closest we ever felt to u. Thank you for sharing this.
Fr. Because it’s a lot of people who can’t or won’t take care of their kids. And would be neglecting them. However they would never put them up for adoption or nothing. So they suffer until they’re kicked out or other things. Lord forbid.
Big ups to Dariano that's what true friendship is all about.
He was stating the Obvious for sure
Wariano
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Hundred bro
This video broke me down. Your friend broke the dynamics down really well. Yes your Mama was sorrowful and I'm grateful that she apologized. However, your dad was more of a fan and pointing the finger at your Mom. I'm very grateful that you forgave then both. And you're blessed to have been adopted, shown a better life, and able to give your daughter a great life. Blessings to you all.
This video honestly broke my heart. You can see the pain in your eyes the entire time. I’m so sorry.
The fact that you have came along way no matter how high the odds was stacked against you and you still managed to stay strong and become the best version of your self is amazing. You have came along way and I can't say I full understand the situation but I some what do. not having a mom in the picture beside when she wanted I somewhat understand how it feels and I just wanna say you are truly an inspiration and a role model to so many continue to be the goat and continue to be the best version of yourself much love bro 🙏
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You being in foster care then being adopted literally likely saved your life Fredo! No matter what God saved you. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing.
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Going to visit my dad tomorrow unannounced. Not sure what’s going to happen. Thank you for sharing this moment with us. It’s very sacred. You’re in my prayers
How was it?
Hope it went well for you guys
Its okay to cry. I am thankful you found them. You needed this to help you cope with the challenges you endured not understanding why things happened the way they did. It is a blessing to have your adoptive parents. They seem like they were better fit than your biological parents. 😢🙏
They were clearly abusing drugs and alcohol. I think the dad kept saying "pretty boy fredo"because that is all he knows. He doesn't know you, but the moments he talked about family names and birth marks seemed genuine. He will have to work on taking responsibility for his role in everything in his own time. Thank God everything happens for a reason.
Men don’t know how to talk about there emotions, especially something like this! I bet if they went fishing or did some bonding activity his dad would really open up!! It’s hard for men to talk bout there feelings!!
If you realize he said he came home and saw they were gone ... He was broken and then he couldn't do anything cause he's not American so as bad as he maybe wanted them back even in his most distasteful times he still could do anything it was more so the mother fault but while they were in both their care he could have at least try to be a man and take up more responsibility when the mother wasn't showing maturity 😥 it's hard breaking but at this point lack of communication in this video and story
the parents that adopted you got a gem, love to see the growth fredo.
As an adoptee who found her biological parents I so ger everything he shared and said...everything...I so relate. So much I want to share of my own journey and reality...one day.
Been here since 2k15 fredo and I’m not even half way through the video and I’m blown away.... I can’t believe he just asked his son if he had a job for him.... I can feel the irritation in the room keep grinding bro everything happens for a reason ❤️🤞🏻
hey fredo with all due respect about your dad i feel he is not in the best condition yet to feel this situation under all aspects and value totally the moment,as for your mom you can feel she is in a better place and more mentally prepared for that,please dont be mad at your dad's reaction,i am sure with time things will improve,like he said himself his life went downhill from the moment he lost yall which shows he cared and he found comfort in something i dont want to mention out of respect for him
God has allowed you to see them,i believe there is more ahead,every story starts from somewhere
I totally agree,and I also feel like he couldn’t really express his feeling all the way because he doesn’t speak English that well
@@Jay.gabl06x thinking the same thing man.
My sentiments exactly 💯
Beautifully written
Well said
Bro you have done well for yourself. The fact that you are so open to share this is admirable. Keep being a great dad to your daughter.
This is one of my BEST videos you did
Love the emotions you shared with us
And please don’t forget your birth parents
Life chooses them…it wasn’t easy I can tell
I know this was a hard journey and video to make. It brought tears to my eyes. For you and for your biological parents. I can't judge someone and their lifestyle. The best thing I heard was your mom say I'm sorry. The best thing was for her was to send you away. Only the Lord knows what situations you would've been involved in. I thank God for your adoptive parents that open their homes and hearts to raise you. They did an amazing job. I'm glad that you went with no expectations. Whether you choose to include them in your life or not, you have at least given them the opportunity to make peace with you.
I had a reunion with my biological mother a few months ago. She gave me away at birth. I was lucky enough to have phenomenal adoptive parents. They basically fed me with a silver spoon. My biological mother was very young and unable to provide for me. She had 3 boy before me and was only 19 when she had me. I was the only one to get adopted.When I met her for the first time it was VERY emotional. She cried, and I cried. The weirdest part was to realize that I was so hurt deep down once I saw her. I built up resentment. We communicated for a while, but I began to feel off. I was t feeling the relationship. I didn’t want to talk otp. I didn’t want to meet up. I began to just hurt and not wanna be bothered. It turned into a “see, i did GREAT without you” type of thing. I eventually cut off communication. Fast forward to about a few weeks ago, my wife and I began to converse and I realized I may have made a mistake. I felt as though i didn’t give it a chance. I began to pray on it. And since praying, I’ve just been having faith in God to lead me in the right direction with how I want to move forward, because I know if I go back into it, I’m not allowing myself to come out. I’m going to commit. Seeing this has really helped with my decision. Thanks brodie🙏🏾 and ya “brotha” right. There was NO genuineness in it. Plus, out of all things, ma dukes says “you said you gone buy me a house”. PUHHLEASE. Meeting my biological parents only made me thankful for my adoptive parents. On a level that will NEVER be able to be explained
I got the exact same vibes his friend got. Accept their apology, and continue living your life. Parents are not always who birthed you. It’s about who was there when you needed them. Your adoptive parents were there.
You are exactly right.
Agreed
What does everybody want them to apologize for? When you can’t provide for your children other than abortion there’s only adaption.
HE SEARCHED FOR THEM!!!! I don't know how yall expect him to just MOVE ON SO EASILY
SOME ADOPTED MOM OR DAD ARE NARCISSIST. SO ALL ADOPTED MOM OR DAD IS FIT. ITS COMING FROM EXPERIENCE FROM MY 5 ADULT KIDS AND THIER NARCISSIST ADOPTED MOM,HER SON,AND THE SON GIRLFRIEND.
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
With all due respect your biological parents did you a big favor through their ignorance. A lot of people that were orphaned don't get to see how blessed they could be if they saw where they could have been. Everything happens for a reason.
I've never watched you before and probably won't again but I'll never forget this experience you shared with us. It very courageous.
I understand what u sayin fam but a blind man can see that his parents is struggling HARD and we all kno it wasn’t intentional for them to abandon him but life happens, everybody has their own testimonies bro feel me?
Forget all that, their biggest favor was giving him life. He wouldn’t exist that if they were not exactly who they are. Whether they made many good or bad decisions, every decision they made, one of them helped bring this influential man into existence. Oh, and the mother of course who went through massive pain and sacrifice carrying him in her stomach for months and months, then going through the labor process. All the pain Fredo talks of, I doubt he’ll ever experience labor pain 😩 Also, I don’t think it was a happy day for her letting go of her children, Im pretty sure it was like hell to experience what she was going through to do something like this. But of course, he only knows his own pain, he wont understand what she had to go through
@@ilaserlaser215 as a parent you owe your kids everything and they owe you nothing. Even though I owe my mom the world but what I mean is I don’t even think they care about him now they just want to benefit from his success
@@justinfernandez1436 bro some people just lose themselves and they are no longer thinking like your average civilized person. Things like drugs and alcohol addiction completely take away from people’s dignity and ability to sustain a responsible life. Someone who can’t cope with their own selves definitely can’t raise a child, thats a way bigger task. There are documentaries of parents abusing and killing their children out of hatred because they lost themselves, at least his parents didn’t do something like this and ruined his life completely keeping him under a distorted household.
To be honesttt
I haven’t watched you in forever, and now returning back with watching this video. What a video this was. Fredo, you are a fooking monster man. From start to finish, you are someone I truly look up to as a Huge role model in my life. I’m so glad, you’re on this platform. The best thing is, you forgave them. ❤️❤️
Yes bro Forgiveness is Key.
They did something right. Look at how AMAZING YOU ARE SON! 💕 They loved you enough to let you go.
That talk at the end between you too was one of the realist thing , truly shows the bond between the two , much love Fredo
That was so hard to watch but I'm glad I saw the ending. Your brother there is a true friend and brother to give it to you straight like that. Thank you for showing the reality that a 'family reunion' may not be all butterflies and roses. It seemed like you got the answers you needed, though maybe not the answers you wanted. ❤
YES! This is my exact thoughts
Respectfully… Don’t buy her a house.
Why? Lol
Right out of everything that’s all she could say 😭😭
I hope he's still keeping in touch with his parents and I'm glad that he has a heart of forgiveness
I feel his parents did the best they could, gave him up for him to have a better life. Prayer works, she prayed for her baby to come to her, yes God!❤️❤️❤️ His friend is a Godsend❤️ Ron and Carol are amazing for raising this awesome and amazing man❤️❤️
Gotta love the part when he asked if they had anything to asked him, anything. Literally how he grew up, how was school how’s his daughter literally anything, first thing she said “remember when you were a kid and you told me you were going to buy me a house?!”... damn that one had to sting for him.
Boys beyond blessed they gave him up and he got to a lease experience a true family with his new family. So many others were forced to be raised by parents like them.
I don’t know how he felt a more genuine vibe from his mom then dad, to me his dad really loves him he just can’t articulate him self
Facts man probably barley understand English and was probably raised differently where he was form.
@@kobaa7129 yea in some cultures the sons help out the parents as they grow older. Cultural differences
No harm met either ull right that had2 b a huge painful sting momma was fishing a house right .Johnny come lately.
I agree, when she bought up him buying her a house I was like really 😕
I could sense the emotional pain and confusion. It didn’t appear that you received any direct answers or closure, but I pray for the healing of you heart, mind and spirit. If you decide to keep the lines of communication open with your biological parents, be sure to take it slow to protect your peace. I hope everything works out for you! ❤️
This was very touching and I know you have so many unanswered questions.. I know this was hard and painful for you but the most part is that you can forgive and they have to forgive themselves as well. Praying for you all. 💜
For you to put your personal life out there like that takes a really strong person and I admire you for the fredo, dang g I’m srry you went thru that bro. Stay up homie
The mistakes they went through made you who you are today man glad you took the time out to meet up with them. ❤️
You can see his mother is so genuine but the energy he got from his dad was just acknowledging his online personality. It shows you that even thought being given up caused him the most pain that everything happens for a reason and god knew he was going to be great! 🙏🏾💗 keep pushing forward and being the best version of you fredo! They think he is just some kind of celebrity like that was/ is your son a grown man!!!!
I agree totally! It was really sad to see the dad wanting pics like he was a celebrity that he was out taking pictures with. I don’t think I heard him call him Alfredo once and also asking him if he had a job for him like this wasn’t a critical situation for him. The mom did seem genuine but I was a bit thrown off with the house thing. I do know kids tell their parents that when they’re young but i kind of find it questionable that that’s the only words you remember your son telling you. But I wish them all well🙏
there is a language barrier between him and his dad and i feel like his dad didn’t really get to say what he really wanted to say but he just didn’t know how to say it.
Is he mixed?
@@Lily-ow5wm clearly
@@flysoulja I definitely agree can’t hold that against him
@Prettyboyfredo I think you need to go see your dad with someone who can translate and speak his language to translate coz I see he is genuine but does not know how to express in English. It shows he has been following you. Take everything positively and I wish I had the opportunity to hv my parents now regardless coz its a blessing to still have them abd this was part of your journey and I think it took you to where you are. We can never turn back the hands of time, but we can shape how the future will look like.
Keep going strong, and do what you are doing!!
this was a tough conversation but it’s one that deserved to be talked about. I am so glad you did this video. 🦋💜
Man this has me balling right now. I lost my birth mommy in 93 to gun violence. I was 8 years old with 3 other siblings who were all split up after my moms death. I didn’t hear nor see my oldest sister for 10 years. I was abused by my aunt and told to send me to the state beca she no longer wanted me. Thank GOd that 2 years later I was adopted and saved from the system also.
I’m sorry to hear that. I pray u live a wonderful life
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
i truly send my love to fredo. i’m been watching fredo for a very long time and i hope that this doesn’t discourage you from staying to yourself❤️. i love that you were asking questions. i genuine feel feel for your mother because my mother also had to give up her daughter but you had all of these questions and when you finally asked her she says “ fredo you said you were gonna buy me a house” . not how’s your daughter, how’s life ? yk . 🥺
This is a very touching video man I can’t even imagine the way you feel but your dad is nun to trust🤦🏾♂️he asking you for a job before even try to talk to you and apologize for everything and was not trying to let your mom talk and explain but your mom definitely cares
While it has to feel good for Fredo to get things off his chest, he looked really uncomfortable throughout the whole thing.
Well I mean he doesn’t kno them what do expect
Of course. They never raised him. It's like meeting a family member that you haven't seen in years. They remember you as a child but you have no recollection of them
Cant judge them off the first meet, keep in mind they could be dealing with addiction so they aren't going to act the way you ideally want them to act. You have to remember they might not be in their right state of mind, addiction is hell of a thing especially for someone to shake. Don't judge them off of that, you can tell it was hard for them to acknowledge what they did and at the same time a camera was around. They know it'll go up online and they also worrying about their character as well. Have to think about everything as a whole
nigga wtf are you talking about
@@WeekendsUp23 tf is you slow? if you could read then you'll know Bozo
At least his dad is for sure still active
@@thelexer3731 how y’all just gon say that man on drugs at the age of his age
@@WeekendsUp23 don’t matter what age u are u can see when somebody is not sober
Such a inspirational video. Hopefully you stay in touch with them but don’t forget about the ones who held you down. Best of luck
I grew up in the foster home system and I can tell you from experience that your blood parents did the best thing for you by giving you up because of that you have loving parents that raised you.
Your adoptive parents gave you another chance at having a life and you came out blessed where we come from don't define the end ♥️ you took the chance of finding a possible answer and now you know stay blessed
She know damn well he ain’t said nun bout buying her a house😂😂 she definitely should have kept that to herself because she made it look bad on her part , her ass was hoping he would’ve got her a house just because he “said he would when he was a BABY”😭😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
Fr 😂😂
Yeah she gave me an opportunist vibe when she said that
The fact that I know his parents surprised me he’s a great person keep doing what your doing 💕
Fredo, your dad meant well. He does not know how to express in words what you want to hear. Embrace him!!! Do not pass up the opportunity to do so!!!!!!!
This had me in tears. Hope this brings the closure you needed to make peace with this part of your life .
Even though some of us can only imagine what it’s like seeing your parents/parent, Fredo took it really well by asking questions and explaining instead of cursing and verbally getting mad over not having parents. Well done Fredo best man I’ve seen handle something like this not because of the cameras. 👍🏾❤️
bro they both obviously struggling with addiction..have been and still are g so understand they both sick and can't even fathom what they witnessed just there bro! takes greatness and strength to face this and you did king 💯
Fredo I know deep down in your heart you needed to know but at the same time just move forward and continue to…the family that took you in is all you need to live for. Love you bro…even though I don’t know you but as a true fan you make me feel some how like I’m family to you
In so happy for you Fredo. We’ve been here with you since the beginning ❤️❤️