Exes Meet For The First Time After 3 Years | {THE AND} Krystal & Steven (Part 1)
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It’s been three years since Krystal & Steven ended their relationship of two years. Now, after living in different cities and barely speaking, they sit across from each other in a special two-part conversation to vulnerably explore the love they once shared, aftermath of their breakup, and what truly forced the couple apart. Don’t miss the second part of their conversation as they look towards the future, here: bit.ly/StevenKrystalP2
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Exes Meet For The First Time After 3 Years | {THE AND} Krystal & Steven (Part 1)
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The Skin Deep you guys should do adults who talk with their high school sweet hearts exes and the lessons learned from their first loves
@@williamsca7 This!!!
How can I get on one of these. I’m what your looking for.
This is exactly what my ex is about trying to puppetry my life into what she wants and when she wants it.. That's not what love is about remember that.. Love is 2 people that connect in a way that is real. And isn't something you can direct like a movie. When she will ever get that in this lifetime or not. That is something I highly doubt now. Just like you don't like being told what or how to do things niether do I. You wanted things like this cause of your thought I was doing wrong well you didn't confront me rather just u walked away and iv accepted it as it is what it is today chapter has ended without a proper smile or ending and now doesn't even need one. Cause if it really did matter hey I wouldn't be messaging a comment section on you tube CORRECT. thanks for watching........
Where's the video of the white couple in the introduction of this video?
The regret is eating him ALIVE. she’s COMPLETELY moved on. Karma activated.
You win the internet for best comment. Couldn’t agree more!!!!
Yea you could see the hurt when she said their chapter ended. He knew that he really blew it. I really love how mature these two are this is one of the most authentic things I've watched
I saw that too. He knows he messed up & is now missing out!
This guy could still get back with her idk what you're going on about. Everything depends on communication and creating good feelings. I've known guys doing way worse and getting back a woman
Cameron Sparks yeah but that never end up good
he lost his future wife and he knows it.
nicole dujon , She Lost Out Too.
Shaivon Williams That’s a stretch
I know how he feels.
Yea, she lost out.
He is about to cry
Update: she got married a couple months ago. 🥂
Thanks for that!!
Awesome...
Good for her ❤️❤️❤️
She has a pretty smile
with who?
You know a woman’s moved on when she can still sit in front of you and smile and have a normal conversation like your her friend after you’ve wronged her that’s a different type of peace and acceptance
True
This is cap lol
If she is moved on why is she in the studio with him filming this ?
@@MikaIzZabaceneUlice thank you😂😂
And if you say closure 😆😆
People do not value what they have until they lose it. 😞
Truth!
Addi Paulina you can say that again
LET THE CHOIR SAY AMEN!
Very true. The grass is not always greener.
@@great-full3612 Aaaaaamen
She still loves him but believe found peace and happiness without him..her smile says it
Lol really
That's baloney, girl talk right there
Yees
@@Amalia77777 relationships are hard and exhausting if one not ready..but lessons are to be learn if the self time is taken to reflect
@@SH-yk4ft Why? It makes perfect sense.
When he apologized and she said it's ok. I felt that. It's ok. She held her head high. So happy for her. He has visible regret or sympathy
Held high suussss ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
I noticed that as well
@@ashiacameron😂
I’m a mama and I teach my son this: I believe that when someone does something to hurt you and they apologize you don’t say “ it’s ok” you say “ it’s forgiven “ it’s not ok when someone hurts you. But it can be forgiven ❤️
Untouchable af and powerful 😮💨
When He look at her, He see's the beautiful future he lost. When she looks at him she see's We're done.
I don’t think it’s over.
@Farhiya Mohamed y’all say this type of shit then see them together in the future then be saying “oh y’all are so cute” stfu
@@mnorwood334 oh it is 🙄
There is a possibility that he will change. But with or without her is up to themselves, but he might be better moving on
@@LennyGriffin-ip7mm how u know ?
He's definitely hurt that he hurt her and it's killing him inside.
Courtney Mack as a man who can admit this is true. Most painful shit in the world
It should because he was a jerk ass for cheating on a good woman
@gary corr respectfully, I disagree. I think that he did the right thing. He can look her in the eye. Perhaps you can do that to someone you 'love'.....
@@ronnimartin7033 i agree. I think he told her because he saw a future and he didnt want any secrets...
He wants her back
Cheating is most women’s deal breakers in a relationship. If men know this, then cheating behavior is a clear sign he is willing to risk everything & the relationship is not the priority.
lmao women cheat just as much as men
@FujitoraTheGreat The truth
Is it? Women praise themselves for staying with cheaters just like "the good ole days." Women will raise males baby he had with another woman as if it's a normal thing to do. You're not catching males staying round watching a woman's body grow with another males baby inside. You're a "real woman" for sticking around but you're a simp if you stay with a cheating woman.
@@Ashley-qx4my Seems like a bunch of generalisations, I've never heard of a woman raising a mans baby, the modern family court almost always sides with the mother, so it is usually a man bringing up another man's child seeing as though women generally get custody.
women cheat too bruh
“why do that to yourself” the fact that she’s concerned about how his guilt was making him feel after what he did to her... just maturity and i respect it
He took advantage of how nice and cool she was and thought he’d get away with it.
If it had been HER that cheated, these comments would be a whole lot different.
@@Childfree334 Nope would have been the same situation. Don't know why you would think it would be any different. A cheater is a cheater. Doesn't matter the gender. As a matter of fact it would be worst for her as they would probally be calling her a h 0 e, for sleeping with many different men while in a relationship. Which you don't see any comments calling him that. Despite that being what he is.
No he didn't he took time sat down with her and told her doesn't sound like taking advantage to me.
That’s how they normally do good women.
@@tariegriffin3869 I’m pretty sure she was talking about when he cheated
*He gon cry in the car!* 😭😭😭
smokey voice
He's going to kick himself for a VERY long time. If not a lifetime. I hope he learns.
@@EN-mh6sr True
😂😂😂😂 IKR?
Amaryahu Ban Yasharaalah 😂😂😂😂
His bass voice is vibrating my phone
Lol😝
LMFAO!!!
Just your phone 🤣😫🤣😫🤪
LMAOOOO
I literally lool
I never go back to exes, what is the point of it all...just reliving the drama all over again with harboured anger. Nope.
I had a ex introduce me to her guy friend then called me up a week later to come see me im confused 🤔 what you think about this?
@@davante1286 she prolly fcuked him n wants to see if it bothers you.
Allot of times it helps with healing!
@@mrputtogether if it helps with healing why hit me up to come see me that's what I don't get. I should b avoided.
@@davante1286 introduce her to a "girl best freind" and see how she likes it
The loss of a whole shared language must be one of the most devastating parts of a breakup
His constant deep breaths carry alot of regret, it feels.
Beautiful people though.
Jackie Sears I felt them EVERY single time ... I thought I’d not notice! Geez
Yessss!
Exactly
No it don’t he’s straight just stop it guyz
@@236ar I said "it feels". Who are any of us to know for sure? I don't know either of them. It just "feels" like regret every time he did it.
The woman is healed but I can see the man is still hurt
I think they both still hurt.
@@lynneanderson4255 yea but the woman seem more over it she mostly found a better man.
@@cello_thomaz1557 - Not according to the follow up on Part 2. Afterwards, they started talking again and occasionally hanging out.
They were very young when they met. He was 18 or 19. She was younger. Good decisions by young men are often as rare as hen's teeth. They are truly adults now and will have a more adult relationship, friendship or something else, since they've both grown up.
Period
@Luz Renteria - Some people have to painfully learn their lesson.
This video right here testifies how much strength a woman possess and once she’s healed it’s done. Happy she moved hurts me same time dude lost a great wife. And how she kept smiling through the video tells me fo sho she’s completely healed and moved on. 😊
Works the same for both men and women. I have gone through the same thing with the woman cheating. So yea.. women cheat emotionally which is 10 times worst.
guys be like “i cheated on you but trust me it hurts me way more” like ??? boy how you broke my whole ass heart when i didn’t even think of one moment of hurting ylu
people make mistake the real ones mature from there mistakes, remember that was 3years ago not last week.
This why men who make mistakes don't tell on themselves...he was trying to come clean because he noticed where he really wanted to be
baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.
@Savannah Martino EXACTLY!!
It's not just guys...
This is the most dangerous game to be engaged in. Let memories be memories.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@tieuellegacy LMao cameron and lauren be cute thooo hehehehe
@@naomik5722 VVibrant couple, fa sho.
Very dangerous
Dennoh yea I agree 💯 I don’t wanna ever go to this place with my ex. 3 years later it is what it is and you over there living your life and I’m living mine. No need to talk about shit from our past especially when we’ve emotionally, mentally AND physically moved on
It feels like this dude holding back tears the whole time.
He knew he fucked up. He probably wishes he never told her about his infidelities
At least he didn’t lead her on and waste her time. Why be in a relationship if you can’t be faithful?
Rashad Muhammad yeah....how about go to the root cause?!?
How about he regret cheating?!?!??? Instead of regretting integrity of at least telling her.
Erica Wilson he wasted 2 years of her life, so it was a bit too late for that at that point. She believed they had a fully committed relationship and he tarnished that from the beginning.
Their relationship didn't end because he cheated or admitted to cheating. They were having significant problems before he admitted to cheating from what she said. They were on the way to breaking up, and the cheating was the final straw.
I love her for being so understanding but being so strong to walk away
I love how she speaks, how eloquent she is. That is something that is very beautiful
Her whole vibe is insane she’s seems super chill and she’s beautiful
seriously she is. and It's sad to see women cheated on
Who
Amanda Perez yeah she's beatiful under a pound of make-up and fake hair lmao
What was he thinking..........?
Steve The III She doesn’t have a pound of makeup on. Why so angry??? What did “she” do to you???
Her joy is vibrant! You can just see it in her eyes. That baby is healed.
Beautiful Recovery no she’s not. She’s faking it and her face expressions are very telling.
@@diabloiii9766 - I don't think she's faking at all. That said, I don't think she's over him. They're not over each other.
@@diabloiii9766 finally !!! ! I am thinking I am insane
@@diabloiii9766 nah lol she said their chapter ended n u can see the regret in his eyes for losing her, she moved on n is happy
@@lynneanderson4255 are you sure
Cheating is betrayal at soul level. No way back. She’s such inner peace ✌🏽
She has good energy and he’s like a magnet gravitating towards her.
When you come across a queen don't take her for granted.
GirlYouAlreadyKnow PERIODT.
She’s not a queen. She fronting. She prolly got good cat. Not great. She just got pretty features and a nice voice. That goes veryyyy far
Natali Avila why are u making an assumption about who she is based on how she presents herself in this 1 video? I know a lot of liars. Most of them are women without accountability
@@joewill9967 lol. n what's great puss 2 u?
African Girl any cat that gets watery while giving neck and doesn’t complain about a bent back is good cat
His guilt is still eating at him
Goodt..it should. I hate cheaters
Khaliyah Taylor absolutely should!
Great! He deserves to feel what he put her through.
Good! Do you know how many women have HIV, herpes and other stds because of men who wanted to eat their cake and come back home and give their partner things. Disgusting. I hate cheaters. They need to stay from tf away from women like Krystal and relationships in general
He ain’t guilty that’s just the thing to do
she’s so pure & sweet. so glad she found love & marriage after this ❤️❤️
How do u know
This video is a perfect example of you do not know what you have until it’s gone. He lost a great woman but that’s okay because he made room for the man who was really meant to be with her. She’s a gorgeous woman and on the inside too. Congrats to her on her new marriage! ✨ and to any ladies who have a feeling that they aren’t in the right relationship or anything similar.. trust that gut feeling and leave. Make room for your future husband or wife. Sending love and light.
You kinda want to see them work it out but some things are not workout worthy. He did a final over it action! Some women go back and some will never go back. Cant blame them...
Who cares let her move on she will get cheated on a few more times and then she will look up and be 35 and single 😆. Then she won't have the leverage anymore.
He has the deepest voice. She has the most beautiful smile. They still love each other but the trust is gone.
Forgiveness is everything! I think that he sabotaged himself in the beginning of the relationship. They could be happy again!
@@ronnimartin7033 everything is possible, I hope they end up happy..whether together or not.
Chinedu Bethrand Okafor Nigerian scammer alert 🚨
I would have kept thag secret to myself lol
@@ronnimartin7033 a cheater is a cheater
Does anybody else find it beutiful that she keeps smiling 😭 .
Yup 👍🏽
She’s happy and I love it
She's at peace. So proud of her..
Because they are Twin Souls
YES 😭💖
I know everyone's angry he's a cheater but I just want to say it's really rare to find a guy who's sincerely sorry and apologetic for his mistakes. I hope he moves on and finds peace. For the woman, I'm really happy she's moved on and healed. She is a really beautiful and strong woman ☺️
I also hope he gets therapy and mentoring so that he never repeats the cheating again ever
This was perfect to me, she has clearly healed and he is remorseful for his mistakes. They are whole people at least in this regard. Happiness and light to both of you!
She has a vibrant aura. Just beautiful. I don't understand men at all.
Brooklyn Dun women do it too. It’s happened to me with two relationships.
waynesworldizm sorry that happened to you, I hate how normalized cheating has become. It’s not ok it SUCKS it’s a betrayal
😭
You don’t understand men because you don’t take the time and patience to. And another thing. Women only care about how they feel. They don’t care about the mans feelings. This is why you can’t seem to understand men. Women blame men for everything they see happening to fellow women. But they fail to see the real picture. Women only see what they do right, and what they see what the man does wrong. But never what they do wrong. And this is straight facts. Disagree with me if you want. We all know this is true.
M.S.C ISLAND and in this situation what did she do wrong?
Am I the only one wondering where they find these people.
김지운 you sign up for it
Right where does god send these people at
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Michigan
Gosh, I felt everything. Well done you guys. I relate so much. Never thought that me and my ex could ever be civil, I would rather act like I never knew him, but I think it's possible. I love how calm she was.
Hurting someone you love is so painful.
Krystal is so gorgeous inside and out. Any man would be lucky to have her. She’s also seems so emotionally well balanced.
Yes. I very much agree
You don't know her like that come on
Plus men cheat out of fear too wow you ladies have alot to learned about the world of men
Gregory Glass I never said anything negative about him. I just pointed out that her overall response to seemed measured and thoughtful. Kudos to both of them for being able to express themselves in an open and honest and transparent way.
@@arik2916 and that was the problem in the beginning and sorry.
Sis is free from deep within. She ain’t got a tear to shed or an “F” to give. At the end of the day she would never trust him again no matter when he told her.
Tina Parks He’s faking. He hasn’t changed and yes, I’m glad she has standards for herself and has moved on.
Yes!
Tina Parks she has definitely had her coming to Jesus moment concerning him! 🙌🏾
@@privatelifejust_4me how do you know he hasn't changed? Have you been with him during those years in his life? Lmfaaao, wtf?
elijah piere 👀 🤧 dusty 🚨, lol. I will not entertain you.
she's so sweet and she smiled at him the whole time. she didn't deserve the hurt but she's still standing strong. she's a warrior❤️
One thing to take note of is when ever you are with someone who you can just chill with, or how they put it, just simply enjoy the presence of the other without doing anything big, you know you found someone special.
When someone is so pure inside it shows. She holds no bad feelings for him and I think it's amazing. Being bitter makes you ugly. She is beautiful and over it.
Very true, she's radiant
Well three years is enough to fix you again. I was in the same boat she was.
Bitterness has its place and time though. People want women in particular to just get over it and at the same time understand when males kill their ex over cheating. I'm yet to hear bitter being used to describe a male. Anybody else wonder why that is?
@TravelingDiva2018 nobody said it didn't lol
@@Ashley-qx4my women become bitter because of emotions, and men aren't nearly as emotional as women, so thats why men tin to handle it better, least thats the simplest way to put it
can't help but notice her body language, and how she is sitting with her arms crossed. still trying to protect herself . she's beautiful
Beautiful Beast lol
Nah, that’s just a comfort reflex.. not a “protecting myself” she’s comfortable sitting there in my opinion.
Yea she’s sitting pretty comfortable to me lol
@@komziar6219 actually could be one or the other
She is gorgeous, knows what she wants and very emotionally mature. She is a role model for all of us. I absolutely adore this woman. 🥰
I hope she never has a relationship with him again. He's not worthy of her; she gave him her trust and he cheated on her and killed her heart. She is too beautiful of a soul to let this guy mess her up again. Once a man cheats on you, always beware! Furthermore, she's not the one for him because he would not have hurt her the first time if he really wanted to be with her. Sometimes men don't realize the good thing he lost until it's gone.
Yep, definitely toxicity behind the smooth charming exterior.
He still loves her and I know he’s willing to go back....but when she said “close the chapter the proper way” you can see the Hope drain from his face. I felt that
She may be closing a chapter, but I don't think she's really ready to close the book.
Lynne Anderson dammmm🤪
Malcolm_ Flex69 when did she say that?
@@TheCHILDRENofTV - at 11:20.
He never loved her.
What a lovely girl but it's sad that after 3 years she wants to know the full details so that she can get closure. Us girls always want the full details so that we can get closure. Sometimes you have to give closure to yourself and stop hanging on.
Ma Ha I was just thinking this
Men also need that.
It’s not only women. It’s men as well. There are women that just pick up and leave, and then expect the man to just figure out what went wrong without any communication.
Facts!
After 3 years, I would no longer gaf! Sometime women want a reason to hang on.
This type of closure is so damn crazy good. You can tell he really felt this shit. She so damn vibrant and her energy is amazing. She knows exactly what she wanted to say and is super clear. Babygirl is healed🙏🏿✨❤️❤️ I love it. He lost a great woman.
They have really good energy together too bad things didn’t work out. He seems really sincere in his apology.
Her simplicity and truthfulness is a reflection of the flaws within him. Her security made him insecure. He was suppose to grow with her instead he hurt her and himself in the process.
1noteC Perfectly said
💯
1noteC on point!
1noteC beautiful statement
This is deep
This channel is a hidden gem.
@Joe Ann I mean it wouldn't be very practical because not much money would be made to pay for the other shows
Definitely agree
Yess.
It really is
she’s found a place to store all that hurt & emotion. She had gotten past it and you can see she had genuinely moved on it’s in the past and she has so much more going for her in life! 😁
The look they gave each other at the beginning before they even spoke said it all.
That’s how confident and laid back I wanna be when I bump into him
Kris PO unbothered and sittin pretty we can do it
Yes Sis🤗🤗🤗
💯
Same
right cause if I bump into him now.. it’s up 🤣
If I had the opportunity to do this, I probably wouldn't...
Guurrrrrrrllllll 😆
I agree. I do not want to bring old memories back or relive the past. I want to find happiness in the now not look back at that hurtful train wreck.
😂😂😂
Demi D sis 😂😂😂
Only if they pay me.😅
i like the way they look at each other. after all this time none of the feeling they once had are truly gone
They always remember what they had when its gone. Im glad she has healed and moved on. That Queen deserves the world
I know that dude cried on the way home lmfao. She's a hell of a catch
Lol I know right
Nah come on dude he can get a badder chick looks not every thing.
@@davante1286 you just contradicted yourself
@@fierzflower3136 no I haven't nothing but facts.
@@davante1286 you obviously don’t know what contradiction means then.
He has the manliest voice over.. I feel my voice is girly now I’m watching this fml
reminds me of Tyler the creator
And Morpheus from the Matrix
He has a great voice. But your voice is special to you.
thats kinda how my ex voice sounds like
Abdul M 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
I love a man that can admit their wrongs.❤️ cudos to him. I love the maturity and vibrancy of her. Love the way they handle this. I wanna do this with my ex fiancé . They made each other better for their true partners, you can tell.
Love the depth of such conversations.
I have learned overtime that anything build on dishonesty becomes undone no matter how long it takes or how much one there is. Trust is so fragile.
"I don't wanna be proud of that"
That's a man talking right there
Stephanie Knowles lol shut the fuck up. Mens are human to, we have insecurities, we make mistake ...
Stephanie Knowles if he wasn’t a man he wouldn’t tell her at all you idiot 😂😂😂
@Stephanie Knowles Yes, it is important to realize that he was not mature when he cheated, but he should not be looked as someone who can't redeem himself. You make it sound like he has no chance left at all based on that ruined relationship.
@Stephanie Knowles every saint has a past and every sinner has a future. He made a mistake and he's trying to rectify it. That's what a man does.
Stephanie Knowles you’re actually dumb. Don’t comment on relationships. You know nothing about anything
You cheated - several times - on THAT lady? Wow!
Xaris Xeros if ‘Lack of integrity and selfishness’ is a game...then yes!!
@Xaris Xeros I mean not really if he ended up feeling so bad that he told her himself.
Cheating is often never about the other person (ie the partner being cheating on). It’s to do with insecurities and ego in the person cheating. A man with high sexual value, having women throw themselves at you - you’d be hard pressed to find a man who won’t at least entertain it. A man with self esteem or ego issues is going to take the bait. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Have his faithful loving beautiful girlfriend at home, and play around on the side. Ego. Thought he could have it all and didn’t consider the pain he was inflicting. Till his maturity and conscience perhaps caught up. I think he did the right thing by telling her. She deserves to know his character and the choice to leave or stay. And I respect her decision to leave. Sad, because they do seem like great people who’ve grown.
@@user-pf1fe1sn5k its sad that ppl find ways to make up for a man cheating but when a woman cheats she's a cum drizzling slut. He cheated he knew what he was doing. He obviously regrets it but he still cheated. A cheater is a cheater it has nothing to do with us "expecting" things. All we ask is loyalty a man who is unable to fulfil a simple task like that isn't a man lmao. Let's just give each other attention and stay loyal. Idk why cheating is so normalized for males
Xaris Xeros point is it don’t matter why he cheats he should be dropped and any woman that keeps them has some self esteem issues.
I’m so happy that this guy is feeling bad for what he did and not blaming it on the girl like others do. And they seem like they’re not TRYING to be rude or not get along, it’s like she’s gotten over it, such a vibrant personality.
There is no greater hurt than living a lie, Steven. In a relationship, one must know where to stop their digressions or else time will draw that line for us...this love may not get beautiful than this. Just let it be and move on.
The Skin Deep - I always believed that every conflict and hurt in this world can be mitigated, if not resolved, through meaningful conversations between the parties. This is a great video...
The deep breaths ; he’s like “damn she looks even better now”.
Elrae 1520 faaaaacts!😭
My nigga is sick !! He wants her back so bad.
He's definitely hurting inside and he can't hide it sadly some people learn the hardest way
Don't ever cheat on someone, you'll just regret it.
True
Can't tell these men this they the worst but i pray for them nothing last forever
My ex won't
Don't ever regret cheating on someone and move on.
@@AADVENT Hmmm different perspective. Thanks for sharing!
"It makes sense to close the chapter in the proper way."
Thank you for that
This was very mature and powerful. To see two young black educated people discussing past differences for a more positive productive future I am beyond proud!!!
Yes he cheated, yes he is sorry & yes he regrets but he played himself. He lost a good one don’t take him back.
Mr. Chalmers I don’t know her but I’ve been through it. Niggas don’t appreciate a good woman until it’s too late. He better take his loss & move on.
evadiva238 yeah because they wanna fuck and dip their dick in everything until they’re done and had their fun then They’ll think about the good women
Eva can you take me baby. I was just fucking them girls i was gone get right back.
Barry shes just speaking from her experience. Surely not everyone is like this.
@@evadiva238 well. The fact that it bothered him At the time, says something.
It wasn't just upon reflection.
She's definitely done with him. She did not drop one tear, you can see she's moved on. Good for her :),
Loubna QOTB she did in the part 2 video
Oops :)
No she's not. She keeps catching herself.
I actually completed disagree. When she said that they still needed to talk things through that's a clear indication. It's been 3 years since I've seen you....what do we need to talk about given the timing. I feel like she's hanging on to something.
She cried in part 2
You can tell that this was a learning experience for the both of them, and they both grew and changed for the better.
She is like a breath of fresh air, he was not ready for her, but I can tell he truly did love her
Truly loving someone and you're not ready for them. What does that mean? I don't understand it at all. Aren't we supposed to protect the ones we claim to love?
Me and my Ex wouldn’t last 2 secs in this video😂😂 gun shots immediately
Huh...bruh!
😂😂😂😂 pewww pewww
Damn
MrCmoney1992 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol I just bust out laughing
I dont think he's a bad guy, I just hope he has learnt this lesson.
COMPLETELY AGREE!!
When you lose the love of your life, there’s no way you don’t learn
Can y'all please stop spelling learn with a "t" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Let There Be Truth are you dense? “Learnt” is the past tense of “learn” 🤦🏽♀️
Lizay Skyy learned is the past tense
It’s amazing how she kept a smile on her face
I know this sent a wave of emotions through both of them, but I like when they laugh and snicker together. I bet when they were on, it was a lot of fun.
Damn this is gonna haunt him forever . This is his queen and he wasn’t ready. A good woman is precious . Don’t play with her be real . I feel sorry for him honestly because he screwed up big time .
Yea, maybe. But maybe the reason it didn't work out, is because she is TOO GOOD for him, even if he got her back, maybe he is just a bad dude and would fuck it up again. She deserves someone as good as her.
Sometimes we fuck up, and we hate ourselves for it, but we're so scared to tell the other person about it in fear that we're going to lose them. I'm not trying to justify cheating but I understand why someone doesn't immediately tell their SO about their infidelity.
Tim Tam nothing is truly black and white like that man... too good, too bad... people grow, people fall, people change.
They're still friends but I hope they get back together
Okay he was honest about way too late. That's why she left in the first place. Hiding the truth from a partner is a form of lying.
She is so calm about it, I can tell that she's done with him. No feelings for him at all
Part 2 says you're wrong
yes she does its all over her face lol
No. That one breast out says it all. She wants him back.
Aaron Cliett 🤣
@@aaroncliett4742 🙄 she probably won't take him back
Good for her for healing. Good for him getting the weights off. They’re both beautiful people and they will find happiness with other people.
This is a valuable lesson, if you love someone do it 100% that way if it ends you know you did all you could, again that way you don't regret and it's easy to move on
I know it kills him how happy and carefree she seems
That's the best revenge....success and happiness
I think that he just loves her. He wants her to be happy. It would mean more if it was with him.
@@ronnimartin7033 I believe that too like it would make him happy if he could still be with her but it will never be the same if he ever got her back and it's best for him to just move on and learn from his mistakes and even I've been in his shoes before and after awhile he will bounce back again and hopefully treat someone better than he did with her and he will always love her.
@@jarellbrown6974 are u forgetting he cheated on her he dont care he just got a free check of this he just aint trying to look like a ass
Why do women think we like to see them unhappy that's not true. He might have regrets but he probably doesn't want her to be happy
I think she’s over the hurt but he still loves her
So unfortunate lol
And I think that that's why she's open to seeing what could happen from there. She saw that they still love each other.
Dixee Jru - Nah they're both still in that place no doubt that; it's there he just knows he f up simple. Always the way when you lose a good one 🤦♂️🏽
No she's not and they both still love each other i know this cause the eyes don't lie
She is so beautiful but its always good to move on..
Tbh I've talked about this with my partner and to me cheating doesn't mean sleeping with someone else. Cheating starts with hiding, lying, lustfully looking at others etc. If the thought is there the actions will be taken sooner or later. I'm the type of person that doesn't even glance at other men whenever I have a bf. If I feel the need - something's wrong. Already.
It takes a certain level of maturity and courage to allow yourself to be put in such a vulnerable position.
He lost a true Queen and 3yrs later he's still hurting 💔😢 the chemistry is there but the trust is GONE he's definitely gonna cry later on when cameras aren't rolling and she's not around
That's life men play tuff we cry an hurt now but later they hurt more than ever
Facts😢 shit got me sad
Same way. I know my ex is feeling now. He lost something good for a greed
jatoya rushing lol I wouldn’t care there plenty fish in the sea 😃
Gummy worms!!!🤣🤣🤣 That was just beyond me. It's the little things that make a relationship work...
She’s so beautiful and seems like a really good person. He fucked up big time.
Tyler Thompson I know right I would’ve married her lol
Well it does SEEM like she's a really cool person, i being the optimist, i wanna believe that she is, however who really knows, but one thing we do know for sure is that she is beautiful, with a gorgeous smile.
I agree, and she seems very kind, with a sense of humor too :) We all have our "stuff" tho... I'm sure it wasn't ALL him. It does seem like he might've learned a valuable lesson from the way he handled himself back then ✌🏻
Looks don't mean shit....... That's a development. An less physically attractive (whatever you consider) person with a amazing personally subconsciously draw you things you never think you'll like about a person.... Easy. She can be fine and all but it might not be meant.
A 12min y’all think y’all got it figured out lol.... who knows how she acts behind close doors.. attitude probably nasty like most women
When she said "you were really good at hiding it" , talking about the cheating, I felt that. 😫
Such a BLESSING for a former couple to see each other after x amount of time and actually navigate the positive, thus stepping over the negative and embracing a tomorrow that will reflect on what was good yesterday.
My dude in the red cap, no sir you didn't hold on to that for her sake to spare her pain, you held on to that in order to have her for as long as you could.
Tragic for him.
This!!!
But then why say something at all? He could've taken it to the grave. Seems like at the time he wanted to break up it didn't want to do it so he gave her a reason to leave HIM.
@@shimag1992 he probably couldn't keep it in any longer. but people won't tell you cheated out of selfishness. by not telling the other person it hurts them even more when they eventually find out because it means they weren't respecting you the entire time
Right that was very selfish of him and he says he was worried about hurting her but he cheated multiple times so he made that choice I felt like he wanted his cake and eat it too smh hopefully he has learned and will not make the same mistakes
I’m so hoping she doesn’t take him back. She’s so smiley and kind hearted that her body language seems to say she’d consider reconciliation but she shouldn’t. Forgive yes but don’t let him back in. His body language seems like genuine regret over his past or possibly even deeper than that, he realizes he lost his soulmate. Either way I believe he’s grown and no longer the man he was in the past. Good for him but please leave her alone. She deserves a man who will ALWAYS treat her as the Queen she is.
Briana G. Not by experience, but I object. I feel that if he cheated with multiple women at the beginning of the relationship. It might have been a moment and time of him just making one of those mistakes that make you the person you are now. Just bigger and better. Im a believer of love and if you can get through those mistakes as a couple with gods grace, you can overcome all that is to come with that person.
D E I believe you can love multiple people but it doesn’t mean they are right for you. To cheat is an excuse. You always have the option to leave. I don’t know what is worst the cheating or being having your trust broken and leaving you completely vulnerable. Not all company is good company.
@ Briana G, guurrrrrlll, i 100% agree with you. I still dont trust him. I havent even finished the video and i JUST DO NOT TRUST HIM! It feels like he saw her after 3 years, realized how geogous she is and he just trying to kick it. I agree, she deserves better.
It’s been 3 years, guaranteed she’s moved on. Look at her, feel her positive and beautiful energy. Someone else snatched her up and hopefully treating her properly, people need to stop thinking cheating is anything less than evil.
@@dpalacios11 why do ppl always say that. He cheated he knew what the fuck he was doing when he did it. Idk why ppl try to say things to cover up what he did. Yes he is filled with regret but like the original commenter said she deserves someone better they're ex's for a reason. If it was the other way around and the girl cheated would u still say the same?
I could not smile as much as she does esp given the circumstance, don't know how she does it, she is a gem!
Their Dialogue is gut wrenching…. You can hear the emotion in the words. I’m happy she’s forgiven him and moved forward. I think he learned a lesson about relationships.
this dude needs to get in on that voice over game.
P J facts 😹💀
seriously i had to turn my volume down on my headphones LOL
Reminds me of the deep speaking dude from boys to men 🤣 who would always start talking at the end of the song GIRL IM HERE FOR YOU ALL THOSE TIMES AT NIGHT WHEN YOU HURT ME AND YOU RAN OFF WITH THEM OTHER GUYS I'M HERE FOR YOU BABY🤦🏾♂️ HAHAHA 🤣😂
Sim Don Lmaooo
Sounded like mufassa in the beginning!
I love that he said “ I don’t want to be proud of that” after she said he hid the cheating very well. Good for him, I applaud that. He recognizes.
You only cheat yourself when you cheat. If you can’t love someone right be a good person and set them free
The bar is on the fuckin floor.
All these comments about him ans this is the first decent one. He came to here with honesty, while brutal, but confessing his sins. People CAN change and regret IS real. Regardless of her, I find what he did commendable but people are quick to hate instead of trying to understand. She doesn't need to take him back, that's her choice her life but he wanted to be honest even when most people wouldn't.
Yep..he knows he fucked up..he will be a great husband to some woman...but, it won't be her...sheeeiiitttt
Hes lying. He still thinks he has a chance with her.
You can almost touch the pain in his eyes.he’s crying inside for sure