How I Became Paralyzed

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  • Опубліковано 29 сер 2024
  • I am a complete T-6 paraplegic and this is how it happened. Things I forgot to mention is that during my crash I broke 3 vertebrae, 2 ribs, and my sternum. Thank God no brain damage.

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  • @susie3512
    @susie3512 2 роки тому +5

    I’m sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing. I am glad you are doing good and getting stronger. Your attitude is getting really good. Prayers with you. I have a friend that was paralyzed at 18. He is now 65. I have always had a fear of this. I am not sure why I watch these video’s. Thank you for sharing. This takes some of the fear away that I have. I feel stupid saying this but it is all true. I am going to try to follow you, I am not to slick with UA-cam.

  • @teejaylecapois9741
    @teejaylecapois9741 11 місяців тому +6

    Stay healthy brother. Be safe.

  • @Jennayyy41
    @Jennayyy41 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. Your positivity and perspective is inspirational❤️❤️

  • @lizjones7220
    @lizjones7220 4 роки тому +6

    Always listen to your momma......

  • @tiasky3438
    @tiasky3438 4 роки тому +28

    If you do an update please lose the gum. Hope you’re doing well!

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +6

      😂😂😂

    • @tiasky3438
      @tiasky3438 4 роки тому +6

      Sallah Mohamed but seriously thank you for sharing your story. So glad you survived but I’m so sorry that happened

  • @jennifersinclair7249
    @jennifersinclair7249 5 років тому +12

    When you said "All these things had to happen", the term is "it was a perfect storm"....if one thing had been different, it would have been averted. I understand why people love motorcycles but as a driver of a car, driving with motorcycles around scare the crap out of me. I am so scared of getting too close to the person driving the motorcycle.

    • @goose7574
      @goose7574 4 роки тому +2

      Same. Whenever I see a motorcycle or even a cyclist, I slow down and am super cautious for their benefit. I don't care if it makes OTHER people mad. If I can help save somebody's life by being extra cautious, so be it!

    • @towens2079
      @towens2079 4 роки тому +1

      I’m the same

    • @nyoom5125
      @nyoom5125 4 роки тому

      as a motorcyclist I appreciate that so much, I was almost hit by a truck the other day when it was overtaking a cyclist in a blind corner and cut into my lane. It's very refreshing to see people with some common sense and empathy

  • @deee1776
    @deee1776 4 роки тому +3

    My husband’s cousin (they were more like brothers and best friends) died on 5th Nov 1997. He was riding his bike. He was doing under the speed limit. Just a freak accident and wrong place, wrong time!

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +1

      Yeah that happens, in sorry for the loss. Motorcycles are insane, you never know what's gonna happen

  • @kimulm0619
    @kimulm0619 3 роки тому +5

    Your so brave and handsome.Thank you for sharing your story and helping everyone who watches this.

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  3 роки тому +2

      Thanks I really appreciate it

  • @kimdontcare244
    @kimdontcare244 2 роки тому +4

    i wish you nothing but success and healing in your journey but the chewing of the gum throughout this video makes it hard to listen to and concentrate
    i would ditch the gum and camera angle for your follow up videos

  • @maritza5625
    @maritza5625 4 роки тому +4

    Greetings and thank you for sharing your story! You are blessed to still have your upper body strength 🙏...Prayer will continue to lead your path 😇!

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +2

      Thank you I really appreciate, may God bless you

  • @imveryhungry112
    @imveryhungry112 10 місяців тому +3

    you look good brother.

  • @stankormy5717
    @stankormy5717 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your story, stay positive!

  • @hildaaybar9042
    @hildaaybar9042 4 роки тому +2

    Sorry this happened to you 😢 I hate motorcycles 🏍 am glad that my husband sold his , it just made me so nervous, Best of luck to you , wish you the Best , God Bless 🙏🏽

  • @kathypeyser8507
    @kathypeyser8507 4 роки тому +7

    I just watched your story, and I know I would never be able to handle a situation like yours with so much courage. I'd like to hear some follow-up videos from you, but ditch the gum, I had trouble trying to concentrate on what you were saying.

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +4

      yeah i know about the gum, everyone is yelling at me in the comment section about. i will do a follow up hopefully soon.

    • @tinipants2
      @tinipants2 4 роки тому +1

      @@kolsalhtmac sexy james bond

  • @goose7574
    @goose7574 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story.
    You're truly inspirational!
    💗

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому

      Thank you I appreciate it

    • @goose7574
      @goose7574 4 роки тому

      @@kolsalhtmac
      Of course!
      💗

  • @theoballer96
    @theoballer96 5 років тому

    I'd love to hear how you overcame this. Your positve attitude and growth mindset is super inspiring man.
    I think about you every time I ride. Your story keeps us all safe.

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  5 років тому +1

      I might make video on that that, it was a long and rough journey

  • @C.O._Jones
    @C.O._Jones 10 місяців тому +2

    Bad things happen when you don’t listen to your mother. And FYI, 70-80 mph is NOT a “normal” speed, and totally opening up the throttle is just insane. Inattention while riding even at normal speeds will inevitably result in injury or death. It is only by the grace of God that you survived.

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  10 місяців тому +2

      70 is the speed limit on the freeway, open throttle is 170 with that bike

    • @C.O._Jones
      @C.O._Jones 10 місяців тому

      @@kolsalhtmac Right. And exceeding the speed limit is not normal. Roads are designed for those speeds. Going faster is not safe. Proof is the severed spine.

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  10 місяців тому +5

      @@C.O._Jones when I crashed I was not speeding, you need to listen the video again

  • @OdsnFilms
    @OdsnFilms 6 місяців тому

    You mention this occurred in November, living in the Midwest during winter season I always question why anyone would ride their bike let alone their motorcycle on possible icey roads which many times cannot be seen? But I'm a pedestrian so I'm sure I'm looking through this from another perspective... 🧐

  • @beverlyeisen7557
    @beverlyeisen7557 3 роки тому +6

    Talking and chewing gum aren't a good combination.

  • @elainehunt5339
    @elainehunt5339 8 місяців тому +1

    Ditch the gum

  • @ChristopherPChicken
    @ChristopherPChicken 5 років тому +2

    Crazy it’s already been this long. I’m sure it doesn’t feel like that to you though. It’s funny, I remember after my accident they cut off my brand new roshes and winter coat and I was PISSED lol

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  5 років тому

      I know time flies, bro I know the feeling. idk if you remember it but you told me and Rony that when we came to visit

    • @ChristopherPChicken
      @ChristopherPChicken 5 років тому +1

      KoSlaw I don’t really remember my first 2 days in the hospital very much. You know how that Delodded and Norco be lol

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  5 років тому

      @@ChristopherPChicken greatest drugs ever

  • @taciam3797
    @taciam3797 4 роки тому +1

    Going 150mph 😯 I sorry you just didn’t have enough experience

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому

      You're right but that's not when I crashed

  • @patricialangeveld1227
    @patricialangeveld1227 4 роки тому +4

    Next video maybe you could lay off the smacking with the gum, it's distracting. I know guys want to look tough with the push ups and all that. It must be very hard going through this. I wish you a lot of luck and I hope you can maybe even walk one day. Keep up the positive attitude.👍

  • @colingarner6175
    @colingarner6175 2 роки тому +2

    Like,like,like,like !

  • @dlbrittain1976
    @dlbrittain1976 5 років тому

    WOW...you were VERY lucky..Talking about it is a BIG step for you...takes courage.... yes do some more stories as it will help you you HEAL to. ...ABYou...:)...we learn from our mistakes :)

    • @dlbrittain1976
      @dlbrittain1976 4 роки тому

      Hey sallah..its been a few years since I started watching ..you have made great progress...i now follow approximately 600 guys on Instagram..many with SCI's. Kinda a outreach..giving them a little positive support.....i miss your Instagram updates..guess you blocked me ..

  • @TheBeingReal
    @TheBeingReal 4 роки тому +1

    Buck fifty and a new rider. Crazy.

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +4

      Yeah I know, crazy and stupid. Thank God I didn't crash at that speed

  • @ibnwashington1146
    @ibnwashington1146 4 роки тому +1

    Sallah when you get a chance please check out this really great book the name of the book is (A taste of patience) the author's name is (Mohamed Eid Al-Araimi) I recently read the book and your testimony is very similar to his it's very inspiring

  • @debcoates112
    @debcoates112 4 роки тому +11

    Don’t chew gum this rudely ever!! It is difficult to listen to anything you’re saying because you are chomping on that gum so furiously!

    • @DiTrying
      @DiTrying 4 роки тому +2

      Then don’t.

    • @donnajanecastle4807
      @donnajanecastle4807 8 місяців тому +3

      You need to have some compassion. Poor guy can't walk, let him chew gum without complaints at least!!!

    • @Addy-745
      @Addy-745 3 місяці тому

      You are horrible and probably a nutcase

    • @cynthialewis2096
      @cynthialewis2096 17 днів тому

      Shut up! Let's pick out something has nothing to do with what he is sharing. Idiot

    • @user-fv3nj4te6q
      @user-fv3nj4te6q 14 днів тому +1

      I Would Rather You Chew Gum Than Disrespect Someone Telling His Story!! After 60 Seconds, If You Don’t Like It LEAVE”” 😮 Thx For Having The Courage To Tell Your Story Young Man”!!!!!

  • @tammymurray883
    @tammymurray883 5 років тому +2

    I had my accident on the same day...T-12 spinal injury.

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  5 років тому

      No way that's insane, how are you doing through this crazy journey? It is's a good thing you're T-12 a lot more ab control than me lol. Incomplete or complete?

    • @tameikabrown
      @tameikabrown 3 роки тому +1

      Tammy Have U Started Physical Therapy To Try To Get Back To Walking Again

  • @girltal.k
    @girltal.k 25 днів тому

    Im a biker ,nt had a bike for years but rode everywhere for years, everyone falls off once is a phrase i was told. Which i did but at low speed,.still went unconscious to waking with someone looking over me like you descibed.. But my comment was to do with the fixation thing becz i remembr commonly riding towards the bollards when unsure to exit a junction or not and you end up ,for some unknown reason riding at the central station 😂 seems mad but you just do and wondered whether that is the thing ur describing?

  • @Uncle-Smart-Alec
    @Uncle-Smart-Alec 4 роки тому +2

    Does your religious faith help you in dealing with the pain of the situation?Do you question or feel anger towards G-d?

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +4

      It helped a lot, more then I can explain. My religion is a huge factor in my recovery. No anger at all towards God, what happens, happens. No you got to get up and roll with the punches

    • @Uncle-Smart-Alec
      @Uncle-Smart-Alec 4 роки тому +1

      @@kolsalhtmac Thank you.I am not an atheist but my reliance on God is not deep or strong.I question how or if I could overcome this kind of challenge?

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +2

      @@Uncle-Smart-Alec you never know unless something like this happened to you, you just have to prepare for the worst

  • @interreligionstudy6966
    @interreligionstudy6966 4 роки тому

    Do you have the picture of that bike

  • @Bertrand146
    @Bertrand146 7 місяців тому

    You spent too much time at the mosque....

  • @interreligionstudy6966
    @interreligionstudy6966 4 роки тому +3

    Come on man dn do next video while chewing bubble....Story is interesting but ist agonizing to hear it...I watched whole video an its sad..May Allah gives you patience

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +2

      Ameen brother, I didn't realize the phone with pick up that sounds

  • @Rogue_Wave5150
    @Rogue_Wave5150 6 місяців тому

    How is life now?

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  6 місяців тому

      All good I need to make an update video

  • @tammywisecup5634
    @tammywisecup5634 4 роки тому

    What fixation did you mention on the curve? You said it really quickly

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому

      Target fixation, yes one of the top 3 causes of motorcycle accidents

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому

      I can't explain it well in text look it up

  • @mattmaster2582
    @mattmaster2582 4 роки тому +1

    Dam bro, so sad

  • @zwan1820
    @zwan1820 4 роки тому

    You are so lucky to be alive
    Thank God
    You are so handsome 😍

  • @codyratcliffe4952
    @codyratcliffe4952 5 років тому

    Do you know if the lady who stayed with you was in the red Focus?

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  5 років тому

      the car i passed was a red escape and the lady that stayed with me is a parent at carlson high school. i won't say her name on here but god bless her

    • @codyratcliffe4952
      @codyratcliffe4952 5 років тому +1

      Thank God for her!

  • @milekrizman
    @milekrizman 4 роки тому

    These speeds are in miles per hour?

  • @ibnwashington1146
    @ibnwashington1146 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this message Sallah your testimony is inspiring I also have videos on UA-cam spiritual health is wealth ibn Washington

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +1

      I didn't see any videos on your channel

    • @ibnwashington1146
      @ibnwashington1146 4 роки тому

      I have videos on UA-cam spiritual health is wealth ibn Washington

  • @dlbrittain1976
    @dlbrittain1976 5 років тому

    send some cooler weather down here bro......

  • @tommyornothing7301
    @tommyornothing7301 4 роки тому

    How are you doing these days?

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому

      I'm doing well thanks for asking

    • @tommyornothing7301
      @tommyornothing7301 4 роки тому

      That’s so awesome! Your video was in my recommended today and so glad I watched. I’m going thru something and can’t seem to see the light at the end of the tunnel...though I know the light is there. Your courage inspires me to keep going and never give up!
      Praying for you and wishing you well especially during this worldwide pandemic. Don’t forget that you’re amazing! 🤗 😊

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  4 роки тому +1

      @@tommyornothing7301 thank that means a lot I pray that your situating gets better what ever it is. Trust me keep a positive mind set, with that time will heal all wounds. Stay healthy and happy

  • @mohamedalmawri8622
    @mohamedalmawri8622 5 років тому +1

    Allah yeshfeek in’sha’Allah

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  5 років тому +1

      Inshallah

    • @arwamuth
      @arwamuth 4 роки тому

      @@kolsalhtmac in sha *Allah
      also with duas it best to just to have full trust in Allah Subhana Wa Taala and say "Ameen" and not to say "in sha Allah."
      Prophet [salAllahu alayhi wa salam] said: “Let not any one of you say, ‘O Allaah, forgive me if You will, O Allaah, have mercy on me if You will.’ Let him be resolute in the matter, whilst knowing that no one can compel Allaah to do anything.”
      [Saheeh Bukhari and Muslim]
      but rather say "in sha Allah" like this:
      Al-Kahf 18:23-24
      وَلَا تَقُولَنَّ لِشَا۟ىْءٍ إِنِّى فَاعِلٌ ذَٰلِكَ غَدًا
      And never say of anything, "I shall do such and such thing tomorrow."
      إِلَّآ أَن يَشَآءَ ٱللَّهُۚ وَٱذْكُر رَّبَّكَ إِذَا نَسِيتَ وَقُلْ عَسَىٰٓ أَن يَهْدِيَنِ رَبِّى لِأَقْرَبَ مِنْ هَٰذَا رَشَدًا
      Except (with the saying), "If Allah will!" And remember your Lord when you forget and say: "It may be that my Lord guides me unto a nearer way of truth than this."
      Allah Subhana Wa Taala Knows Best

  • @BobbieDraper
    @BobbieDraper 3 роки тому

    target fixation is terrifying..I am gonna start riding one day and I just have a feeling it will happen to me sooner or later :/

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  3 роки тому +1

      I can't recommend you to get a bike but if you do, start slow. get a 250 or 300cc bike,

  • @faisalahmad3309
    @faisalahmad3309 23 дні тому

    Allah Hu Akbr

  • @rythempetemusic4207
    @rythempetemusic4207 4 роки тому

    you can get surgery to walk

  • @joycepayne3505
    @joycepayne3505 8 місяців тому +3

    So funny everyone talking about gum chewing. Chew that gum and enjoy

    • @kolsalhtmac
      @kolsalhtmac  8 місяців тому +3

      I appreciate that but I was wrong for it lol, I didn't know. I'm not a UA-camr