Feeling Like A Wallflower In Jilbab | Taboo talk, Vurnebility, Let's talk, Eid Fitnah,
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
- Assalaamu aleykum!
I have wanted to make this video for so long and now that I have been going through some down times lately I thought it would be a perfect time to talk about it so I wouldn't sugarcoat myself too much in shaa Allah.
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Sister this video made me realize I must stop wearing makeup, because I can be a fitnah for women. I am a revert and wear jilbab. Wallahi you made me think and stop a sin, sister that is such a blessing you give people! Allah will reward you. May Allah bless you
May Allah bless you too sister in your efforts. Make up on women when they go outside is a fitnah to the men first and then to women 😊 as men are more visual and make-up and islamic covering just dont match, they rule each other out. Make alot of dua to Allah to make it easier on you ⚘
Alhamdulilah this made my day 💕 May Allah keep you steadfast
@@robertbogussy4618 Do you have anything else to do than to circle around and troll my comment box? :D I mean ok you said that we are extreme already in one or two comments, I think we get to point. Just go and let us be extreme if we want to :D
@@robertbogussy4618 I havent deleted a single comment from you. Not tonight at least. Don't try to collect sympathy points with false claims.
I usually never remove comments unless someone insults or threathens other people or their religions or stuff.
Btw I'm still waiting for the daleel on the niqab, which you skipped earlier. I am really interested to hear about it.
@@robertbogussy4618 I'm a muslim trying my best to follow the Quran and the sunnah.
Daleel means proof or resource so for example give me any ayah or sahih hadith that proves to me that niqab is against islam like you say.
I dont know what your history with islam is but maybe it would be good to return back to the original texts and seerah (biography of the Prophet) to learn what islam teaches and not what humans have made of it. I have hard time of recognizing the true islam from the discriptions you give. To say that illiteracy in muslim countries is islam's fault is absurde if you know how islam sees pursuit of knowledge for both women and men.
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Islam began as a something strange and it will return to being strange, so blessed are the strangers.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 145
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim
Alhamdulillah so true and I try to remember that when ever I get the waswas
JazzakAllahu khair..its soothing as cool breeze. Love from Bangladesh
Jazakillah Khairan Kathiran. for the hadith. Never be afraid to be alone when you have Al Mighty ALLAH with you.
Love you all
Mashallah, I like every Muslim around the world......I revel these feelings because prophet Muhammad s.a.w said whom you love, revel it to him/her that you do so.
This is really applicable to me as well. I feel beautiful in jilbab but always have to fight the urge for accessories or makeup. Sometimes I win, sometimes I lose but I am going to keep struggling to do my best InshaAllah.
God bless you
Sister you completely described my most recent fears when starting to dress more modestly and starting my niqab journey. I always hear waswas say I'm not good enough for niqab. I'm not wise enough to dress so modestly. You think you're better than others for wearing niqab? NO. Shaytan is our greatest enemy and he really works hard. I'm glad I wasn't alone in this thank you sister ❤
Alhamdulillah jazakallah khairan my sister
“Who do you think you are” I can relate to a lot! Recently went to a gathering with these beautiful sisters all born in Islam. I was only convert, and also only one wearing niqab and jilbab... however they could all read Qur’an and I struggle to read Arabic and still learning. I felt very embarrassed being dressed so modest but can’t read Arabic. then later I did think, I can definitely learn from them and just maybe Allah placed me as reminder for them as well. Allahu alum. Allah forgive us and guide us all.
Ameen sister ma shaa Allah do not feel bad about not being able to read Arabic yet. In shaa Allah you will and be rewarded for every second you give to your studies ❤
Aameen thumma Aameen
Ameen, can you read Arabic yet sister? If not I would love to teach you free of charge :)
I am a niqabi. I love my niqab and the freedom it gives me. I used to have days when I had these waswasa or shaitaan put me down, especially when we had some sort of celebration in college where others doll up but I look kinda similar to my everyday look. Those urges to look good, being out of the craze for selfies, yeah these can be bummer in mixed occasions. Alhamdulillah it never got to the point that I would have the urge to remove my niqab. Alhamdulillah I really love my niqab ( I love making faces under the niqab to amuse myself)😂
Subanaallah this is spot on... I genuinely struggle with wanting to feel more feminine in correct hijab. I do think it is our Fitrah as women to want to beautify ourselves always, but it’s important to do it at home so that you don’t feel like you’re missing out on all the womanly fun! Lol
Subhanallah, I also struggled with those Kind of Waswasa! Sometimes it is more and sometimes It doesn't come at all. What a great reminder. Sister this is to important.. thank you for talking about those Topics. Jazakallahu kheir 🌹🌹🌹
Wa iyyaki 🌸🌸 thank you so much for your feedback! I try to talk about things that are there but not said in shaa Allah
The full hijab ( niqab ) with gloves is very good and respectable, hamdoulilah, ALLAH OUAKBAR.
I relate to this soooo bad,! Subhannallah sister this is exactly what i feel, even off Eid the normal days i feel shaytan wasswassah when I’m surrounded by pretty girls with their hair,makeup and cute outfits and I’m here covering myself from head to toe...
Yes defenately outside of Eid aswel! So hard sometimes, I couldnt choose is it harder in a non-muslim country or a muslim country but all I can say is that it is tough in both. Egypt is hard for me but Finland is hard for me in a different way subhanAllah. ⚘
Ahhh sister your jilbab is stunning 😍😍😍❤️MashaAllah
I got judgments in all the stages I've been through in my hijab journey, from hijab and skinnies to finally niqab. This got me believing that I'd better do the right thing regardless of how others might think. 😊
Subhanallah sister I relate to this video sooo much. I started wearing jilbaab recently by the blessing of Allah and I definitely feel like a wallflower especially when I go to university. Jazakallahu khair for sharing, I feel so much stronger and better!! May Allah shower you with countless blessings amen ❤️❤️❤️
I definitely can relate, I started wearing Jilbab when I was a teenager.. and I’d always feel insecure about it cuz I’m the “odd” one out and old ig.. the teens my age wear cute khimars etc. but alhamdullilah I got over it, I learnt love my Jilbab! I hope others who are struggling one day learn to love it as well, see the beauty in it!!
This was powerful. I totally understand those feelings sister. Every woman wants to feel pretty. This was beautiful advice. But you are lovely in how you dress sister. And your inside is even more beautiful subhanAllah.
Assalaam Alaikum sis I just wanna first thank Allah(swt) for allowing me to find your video and clicking on it, and secondly I want to thank Allah(swt) for using you to reach out to me....your video's have touched me so much jazakallahu khair... my journey has been tough but I am gonna get there just like you InshaAllah
did you arrive
I totally agree it's a real struggle but we must always remember our accounting is only to Allah (swt)
You're so lovely, kind and smart woman. 🌼 Just as you said, we should always remind ourselves why we do what we do, and we should focus on The Creator, not creation. Jazak Allahu Khayran sister
Wa iyyaki ⚘ It truly is that constant conscious effort we need to make in order to remember the why when times get tough
Yes! This isn't spoken about much. Seriously it's a big struggle with all this waswaas from the shaytaan. May Allah keep us firm with our deen. And Jazakillahu khair ukhti for acknowledging this because alot of us girls can relate to this issue. ♥
Oh my Allah! The final waswasa is absolutely what I could relate to the most.....sometimes I even feel that am I a munafiq! Because I know struggles that I am going through, but people know me to be super religious and practicing....
May Allah SWT protect us from A-L-L the waswasa of shayateen, be it soft or loud, be it on eid day ir any other day .Ameen.
Assalamu Alaikum sister,
Lately, I feel really insure in my University.
I don't know why they asking us for removing our niqubs in the name of security issues , even though they are also Muslims!!
We never told them that they can't check us! They surely can for security purposes. Female security guard can of course check us thoroughly, even they can see our faces if needed ...
I know Allah is the most powerful and is taking tests of my Imaan and InShaAllah I'll never remove my niqub for them!
Please sisters pray for me, so that I can practice my religion peacefully. :)
May ALLAH swt gives you strength to be istiqamah in your ibadah to ALLAH. Aamiin
@Kitty Razor ji bon.
@@lientoo Ameen.
In my uni there was cases of stealing, some people (we dont even know if its women or men) were niqab and steal bags from the women prayer side. And i know why some people at some place is so strict about no niqab. Allah never forbids us to open our niqab. I think we should also respect the rules in a place. Eventho it will be great if they give permission for wearing niqabs
@@adylaar6708 :)
Yeah I can understand, that's why Universities should set some extra steps because in my uni there are not more than 10 niqubees, and to be honest I never heard of stealing in a niqub (in my uni, but I know it happens) whatever, Allah (SWT) is watching us, so everyone will be judged for his/her deeds..
(Assalamu Alaikum)
I experienced this same feeling the second time I ever went to jumuah as a revert. I wore all black jilbab. And other ladies were adorned with flashy colors and tight abaya and perfumes. Even nails and makeup done. I felt kinda lame. Sometimes it can be hard to sort through your own thoughts versus those of waswas. I'm still a newish muslim but thank you for sharing sister. I just have to remember Allah's teachings alhamdulillah. May Allah reward you for all the goodness you put out sister. you've really inspired me on my niqab and hijab journey😊❤
Allahumma barik sister. To be a newer Muslim and already wearing jilbaab and considering niqaab is a great accomplishment. It takes many born Muslimahs years or even decades to start observing jilbaab/niqab. May Allah elevate you further.
Subuhaanallah!
May Allah Azza Va Jal keep us steadfast. Aameen!
As a niqabi, living in Australia, i know what u r talking about my sis. Alhamdhulillaah for everything. 💞💕
Ameen 🌷🌷 May Allah support you and always keep you safe. I'm sure it can be a challenge at times in Australia too
This is 100% relatable. I have yet to wear jilbab, as of now I only wear abayas and the khimar with 0 makeup, when I see "modern" hijabis on social media with designer clothes and tons of makeup with some hair out, I somewhat do feel left out that I'm not following the trends but alhamdulillah, I read the Quran and realize that that is not the way Allah commanded the believing women to dress.
subhanallah this has been on my mind for so so so long i relate to this so much 😭😭 i also wear jilbab and i really thought this struggle wasn’t something others felt. i’ve started acting on this feeling slowly it’s been coming back and i know i shouldn’t i didn’t for such a long time and slowly little things i saw myself doing. some days it’s good but also some days it’s not so good
Thank you for sharing your feelings on this. It truly is a struggle for many but in silence subhanAllah. I pray Allah helps you with your journey and gives you strength ❤
Please do not be discouraged. May Allah bless you in so many ways as he is merciful.
I would like to thank Allah for inspiring your beautiful mind to make this video, the day before yesterday I went out for a walk and I came back crying because of all sorts of fitnah I'd seen in girls that made me feel insecure and confused if this is normal or not!
Alhamdulillah I am just a middle man for Allah to say this message to people. May Allah support you and give your heart ease. It is not easy most of the time ❤
@@niqabinextdoor1954 Alhamdulillah sister that we feel strangers 💎💙"..so blessed are the strangers"🤗💞
I totally relate to everything you said. SubhanLlaah, we often feel like we're alone but many are going through the same thing.
Alhamdullah i found your channel, finally I found someone I can relate to 😸finnish muslim also
Subhanallah. I found your channel in a time I needed it most. Jazakullah khair my sister. When I was younger I had no problem with my niqab. Then now I became old, 47, I began to have difficulty. Really the shaytan comes and he says you're old you don't need to use this or some other ridiculous whispering to you about removing the niqab and it becomes a struggle. Your words helped me so much.
Thanks to Allah
May god bless you sister
You inspired me so much , we are in a muslim countries and fell loneliness with niqap ,but we seek hasanat from Allah ,l loved you so much ,we are in the right way and we will have the upper hand soon Insha Allah .
Much needed Jazaki Allah khairan sister
Subhan'Allah I know EXACTLY what you mean, this entire video. I hate that feeling. May Allah protect us.
I am listening first time such great nasiha.JazakAllah.
May allah bless our efforts in getting closer to Him
Valikmussalam sister,,
I too had that feeling,,really hard at times,I was like "am I being extreme"!I didn't wanted to face the world at all,,
But now Alhamdulillah,I am feeling a lot better,,
i can tell you the best solution I come up was morning and evening adkars,learn more duas,it's meanings,start not a day without it...
I bet you,we will feel strong,content over our dressing,
And even I happened to be in a surrounding of many other woman who wear it so happily,and who were so respected by others... they were so gud in deeds,thoughts,
including me many others too felt a positive energy from them,people of every religion love them..
Now I tell you am very happy on my niqab, every time I go out
Alhamdulillah..
Alhamdulillah ❤ yes defenately the adhkar have a huge impact on the energy of the day and the confidence. Iman goes up and down naturally for all and adhkar help us to remember our purpose and Allah at all times
😭😭😭😭😭MashaAllah.. Thank you so much for this. Every single thing you said.. MashaAllah.. Thank you.. Especially with Eid coming.. And my Ramadhan doesn't feel so good.. Sometimes I wish i have you as a friend to talk to on a daily basis about this. May Allah reward you plenty.. And make our journey to please Him with ease.. Jazakallahukhair.. Please do pray for me as well.. These thoughts as well as ugly thoughts of judging other women who does not cover properly often time visits me and I despise it.. May Allah make it easier for all of ur to please Him.
Ameen wa iyyaki. Thank you for your honesty. We all have these feelings sometimes and it is so important that we fight against them and make dua to all of our sisters. You are not alone in this really 🌸🌸🌸
I wanna recreate this look, you look lush allahmubariklaha 💐💐
I know this is an old video but Jazaakillahu khayran this is just what I needed right now 😢 May Allaah make it easy for all of us! Ameen ❤️
Wa iyyaki! I am happy that it benefitted you
ما شاء الله تبارك الله أختي جزاك الله خير وثبتك، والله يحفظك من كل شر❤️❤️❤️🌺
Salamu alaikum my dear sisters. Don't get discouraged in any way my sisters, and know that people may look pretty on the outside but ugly in the inside. Islam is perfect and hijab is our badge of honour. It's better to look like the pious women instead of the kufaar. However, The Prophet alayhi salaatu wa salaam tought us that Allah is beautiful and loves beautiful, meaning Allah doesn't oppose beauty so long it's within His legal Rulings. Hence why we can still wear nice cloths, look ironed and sharp so long it's permissible. However we should try do Hijra to practice better. Take care my sisters.
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Wa alaykum as salam wa rahmetullah wa barakatuh, habibti...
I don't use hijab/ nikkab, but if I don't use makeup people come to me saying: oh my god, haven't you slept during the night? I feel so bad, people are like this everywhere. 😣 you are awesome.
I know what you mean, it's as if our face and skin is not sufficient enough. It's their fake niqaab covering their skin. May Allah bless you my sister with hijab. In sha Allah do it slow-step by step my sister, you'll never regret in sha Allah, I too never use to wear it, now Alhamdulillah I wear hijab and niqab. May Allah grant my sisters to wear their honour. This is our badge of honour.
@@RochelleHa thank you for your words! 🙏
Yes subhanAllah people should consider before they speak. May Allah bless you with everything good in this world and the next
Assalamu alaykum sister . Sometimes it does happen but Subhanallah what calms me down and brings me back and makes me feel better is knowing that When Allah Subhanahu loves someone he creates the desire for them to wear more modestly and when he is not happy with his creations he makes them want to remove more and more clothing off and makes them dress worse . And also so many things that are prohibited in this life are allowed In Janna but nakedness and vile clothing isn’t allowed or wished for in Janna Subhanallah . That was a biggg eye opener for me . It really made me love my layers Alhamdulilah
Wa aleykum assalaam sister. Such a beautiful reminder thank you
May ALLAH give you strength to be the best that you can,
Yesterday I felt the same thing, and I needed to hear these words...thank you so much..
May ALLAH bless you my beautiful princess😊❤
Ameen 🌷
I appreciate this video so much 😭 jilbaab I’ve started recently & I never used to wear makeup anyways but recently I’ve been having thoughts of wanting to look pretty like you said 😭 I was thinking of makeup & looking beautiful but I also know that it’s not right. It’s a struggle but I appreciate this a lot ♥️♥️♥️
This video spoke volumes to me. May Allah SWT preserve you ameen
And you too ameen 😊
Thank you. I understand exactly what you’re saying. I felt similar too. May Allah bless you ❤️❤️
So nice sister!!!
Needed this badly
You look so beautiful even u wear nikab and we can't see your face but your soul and your words makes the person fell like umm so happy and stuff hhh
Thank you for talking about this issue. It's important to discuss how women affect each other. Such an important, yet forgotten, subject.
Also, I so look forward to you continuing your "Journey with Islam" story, Insha'Allah. :)
JazakiAllahu khayran for your comment 🌷 and yes I want to continue the journey video series as it has a special place in my heart. In shaa Allah I would film it in the becoming days 🦄
Thank you sister for supporting
Baraka Allahu feeky Jazakalokhirine. May Allah help us. It’s a time of really strong fitnah. I wish I can wear Niqab but I live in a place Islam is so alien and some times ppl act in a way I worry about safety if I was to wear it. Jazakalokhirine for the video. May Allah grant you sincerity and reward ameen.
Wa fiiki Barak Allah ❤ you do what feels good amd safe to you (with the limits set by Allah). It is a struggle just to say one is a muslim these days. May Allah keep you safe and healthy
Thank you for being honest about your struggles in your life.😍😭
You are welcome 💖 We all need to be honest otherwise shaytan gets a bigger hold on us by making us feel we are the only "bad ones". May Allah bless you with goodness ⚘
I can feel you from my first experience of going central mosque..i never returned though.. May Allah save us..BTW MASHAALLAH TABARAKALLAH...YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL..
I'm sorry for your experience. I hope you get to return and have a different one 😊 Allahumma baarik
You are beautiful inside out Mashallah. I can relate even that I dont wear niqab.
May Allah bless you. This channel is for all sisters and our experiences are universal wether we were niqab or not ❤
@@niqabinextdoor1954 jazak Allah khayr 💕 wise words mashallah
Ma sha allah Allahuma barik tabarakallah sister ⚘i❤niqab
Salaam alaykum ukht I don't know what type of friends you have. Tou seriously need to change them. Tell this sisters to fear Allah maashAllah you look beautiful. Love your sister in Islam from USA
Thank you sister for accepting my follow request on IG 😭💜 I love you so much sister, you are such an inspiring person mashAllah! May Allah SWT keep you strong and steadfast on the deen.
Salamu alaikum. The makeup is their niqaab, and modesty is our niqaab. Hijab and niqaab is our badge of honour, so sisters lets wear our honour. Don't be bothered about what the creation thinks, soon you'll feel like it's not on you so you wouldn't feel any diff,a though we need to keep reminding ourselves that we ARE wearing it and to behave like we should. Wa salamu alaikum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatu
Subhan Allah , I needed to watch this. Jazakillah ghair❤
Wa iyyaki 💖 Have a blessed Ramadan
I love this a lot, it helped me so much❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
As salaamu alaikum. Alhamdulillah For this video.
I love you so much my sister. Funny how we compare ourselves to others all the time yet we don’t realize we are all in the same boat and none of us are perfect or feel complete. Except maybe narcissists 🙊 Allah bless you and allow you to continue your videos in sh Allah
your weraing authentic jilbab based on criteria which mention in the quarn and sunnah
Shlama! Good job sister! These topics are needed...and it is important for sisters know it is okay because shaytan tries to tempt us all! We are tested constantly but we must stand strong in our faith and path of righteousness.. Pray and do not act on these thoughts that shaytan whispers, do NOT give him what he wants..they are not your own thoughts! May Alaha grant the righteous peace and may he be pleased with us!! Stay strong and take care sisters!
Jazakillah khayr uhkty! May Allah bless u and and bless us all..Aamin
Wa iyyaki! Ameen 🌼
Salam Alaykum sister, thank you for posting this. I feel this way at the masjid sometimes. I wear niqab to the masjid, and at this masjid nobody else really wears it. I often feel ignored and like a wall flower. 😞 🌸 but alhamdulilah I keep reminding myself that I’m there to worship not to gain others favor.
Mashaallah new subscribe here😊😊😊assalamualaicum sister may allah grant you in jannatul firdaus with your family
"Shaytan creates an insecurity and then provides a haram solution for it"
Masha Allah sister
Assallamu Alaykum Waramatullah Wa Barakhatu my dear sister My Allah reward you... remind all sister.. im not much understand English but i understand what are you talking About.. Jazzakhallahu Khayran i have learn this video... im not wearing jilbab but im wearing niqab... i hope soon i wearing... Alhamdulillah Rabbill Allameen i have learning you about that make up... im New birth in Islam.. everyday i watching your video and what i learn good from you that's also i do it... i till you honesty i like your outfit your jilbab your niqab all the way you speach.. Jazzakhallahu Khayran Allahumma Barrik fii.
As Salamu Alaykum sister, I converted 2 years ago and I've been in niqab 1 year, Alhamdulillah I love being a niqabi too, Allah (SWT) makes it very clear to us the different levels of Iman and reminds us daily to pray for His forgiveness, strength and to seek knowledge not just for ourselves but for our sisters. Jazakallah Khayran
Masha'Allah you did address a very important subject which is not discussed! Btw the same goes to men as well! Maybe not as much as women, but it does exist when I wear islamic attire to many gatherings, 95% are wearing European western style lol, that makes you odd! But alhamdulillah we ought to be Ghurabaa' غرباء
جزاكم الله خيرا وباركم الله فيكم، كثرالله من أمثالكم
alhamdulillah Allahu akbar my dear sissy you right as always.proud of you sissy girl Allahu akbar
JazakiAllahu khayran sister 🌷
May Allah make it easy for all of us.
When Men try to hold onto Deen they also struggle. Like if a man has a Sunnah beard, and stays away from wrong places. It takes a conscientious effort to stick to good practices for the sake of Allah.
Thinking that my Allah will reward me, and thinking that my Allah will grant me something better, Inshallah relieves the waswasa. Also making some zikr or Salaah and remembering Allah's promises .
May Allah accept us.
Amin
Ameen
Walaikum salam sister... Alhamdulillah
Subhan Allah good video! I am going to have to come back and watch this time and time again 🌹 May Allah swt reward you abundantly
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, ya ukthi! This video really hit home; it was so relatable. I'm a revert from America living in Egypt. Do you attend Eid prayer in Finland, or do you usually travel to Egypt?
Wa aleykum assalaam wa rahmatullaahi wa barakatuhu. We spend eids usually in Finland, we dont get so many opportunities to travel to Egypt.
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wa barkatuhu.
Thank you so much for making this video.
It was closest to what I'm going through now.
I had been wanting to wear the niqab but I can't because of stereotypical or cultural beliefs here in Nigeria. I'm trying to observe long hijab lately and even the niqab but my experience wasn't so good so I had these crazy thoughts which almost made me slip.
Deep down, I do not want to dress in any garment that's not very wide, loose and thick but when I go to school and meet my friends wo wear this traditional ankara that it not very loose and thin/see through veils. I felt very different and alone and all these waswasa from the shaitan too may Allah SWT protect us from him.
I'm very sure I want to observe the hijab and wear it the right way and Niqab too if Allah wills but I had been struggling to the extent I almost gave up and I started doubting myself and not feeling good enough to wear long hijab and keep it on.
It's very rare to find people talk about these but it's very important.
I'm very delighted you did this it's ever a great source of motivation and encouragement for me. Jazakillahu khairan🌹.
I love you for the sake of Allah ❤.
Thanks for putting the links in the description of your beautiful clothes! Just ordered from Akhawat thanks to you! Kiiiiitoksia❤️
Me too😊
Beautiful
السلآم عليكم ورحمة الله لا افهم ماتقولين لكن احببتك واشتركت في قناتك تشرفت بك نسأل الله الثبات لنا ولكم
بارك الله فيكي اختي
You're beautiful in jilbab ماشاء الله لا قوة الا بالله
Masaalloh
After I went back home I kept crying until I fell asleep
What happened?
I understand.
Very nice hijab
Godspeed, sister.
Suppose you came to 2 sweets in the first street, the first covered and the second uncovered, what do you take?🌿
I appreciate the thought behind your mental image but uncovered sisters (or any women) are not free for people to just "take". It is true that we can see more of them but it doesnt give us permission to violate them or to forget our values and morals. We should treat others as per our values, not per what we think they are worth etc.
@@niqabinextdoor1954
Thank you, my sister, because I am an Arab. You may not have received my idea or translated correctly. “You are free and you have the right to choose. Sorry if you misunderstood my words, but the purpose is the benefit of the veil to preserve your beauty and not to be chosen by men.”
May God bless you, you are my sisters in Islam, and I love, but what I love for my sister.”
As salam aleykoum, voilà ma petite histoire, je suis rentrée dans l'islam il y a 2 ans maintenant. Dès le jour de ma reconversion j'ai porté le hijab.
Mais je n'aimais pas.... les vêtements européen sont toujours trop court, trop serré, trop transparent à mon goût et à ma morphologie.
Donc il y a 1 ans j'ai adopté le jilbab, super pratique ! Mais le problème c'est le regard des autres.
J'ai migré ( quitté ma France natal) pour aller vivre en Allemagne où il y a plus de liberté de religion. mais la population n'aime pas... je reçois beaucoup de critiques.
Aujourd'hui j'aimerais porter le niqab, je me suis abonnée à ta chaîne pour trouver le courage et l'inspiration à la foi nécessaire pour affronter le regard et comportements désapprobateur des gens.
Saches que même en Allemagne même plus qu'en France je suis victime de racisme islamophobe.
Que Allah nous préserve et nous facilite le port du voile intégral.
Claire Asalman force et courage à toi! Moi je ne le porte pas encore, tu as bien fait de partir! De toute façon les vêtements européens et le foulard ce n’est pas le hijab et c’est exactement la version light que les kouffars veulent.. en tout cas bravo à toi tu es une vraie allahuma baarik!
@@Hannah-xj1dz merci beaucoup, que tu restes sous la protection d'Allah
As SalamouAlaikoum @Niqabi Nextdoor im really curious what kind of work you do
Btw I love your videos you gave me the last motivation that I’m sure now I want to wear the Niqab Insha’Allah after I immigrate to another country Insha’Allah with the best cuz I live in Belgium now and we can’t wear a niqab here but Alhamdulilah now we have masks
Wa alikum as Salam sister. She works in a Islamic kindergarten
@@redpearl8821 barakAllahu feeki oukhti
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So, it's easy for her wear it .
Sister may allah bless you and keep you firm. Don't worry maybe there are not may sisters that don't where what you are agreeing where you live. We are everywhere. May Allah keep you strong sister. Wallahi I don't know how much I stress the importance of being around other sisters like yourself. Increase in strength and Ilm my sister. It is said that knowledge keeps you strong. Of course there are desires everywhere and they get strong. The best best thing to do is find a community of salafi/sunni sisters. You'll usually find they dress like you. Even that brings comfort. I know this personally.
So true sister ❤ We need good people around us
SUBHA ALLAH
Asalalm alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh, such a brave woman. Leading the women to light. An-noor for the women. May Allah bless you and continue you on sirat Al mustaqeem. Ameen. Are you upon the kitab and Sunnah WITH the understanding of the salaf us Salih and so therefore be known as salafi?
I know what u mean
But believe me even the women who dress like glam or wear make up may be having their own battle and struggle and may be they wish they dress or look more appropriate for islam .... the point is their will may be weaker than yours and may be when they see u with ur niqab wish they were more appropriate or try to work on their appearance.... u r amazing honey i get u ❤
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That is so true, thank you for the reminder! We all go through something and what is easy for me can be really hard on others and vice versa.
@@niqabinextdoor1954 thank u for being such an inspiration for us ❤❤
ما شاء الله اختي ربي يوفقك
I am an Italian Muslim coming from a Christian background. I never felt in my life the urge to "be pretty", kind the opposite instead. When I embraced Islam I understood this was Shaitan telling me to hate myself and I started to put effort in being clean, with simple and proper, modest dresses. At a certain point I started to feel what you describe. Shaitan again. I can relate. What I think everytime is I have to please Allah SWT. It's not easy certain times, but I think it's a trial all women who believe have to be challenged with. People say Islam has made me a better person since I learned to respect myself in a better way, but they don't see the struggle behind my hijab to fight Shaitan wishpering, telling me to put makeup for a job interview or to dress up for a family gathering while all I really want is being me, with my simple and modest clothes. They don't see it now, and they weren't able to see when I hated myself so much that I always wore hugly things because who cares? Now I know Allah SWT is watching me constantly. And I feel he understands, and I found many believing women who struggle like me everyday. Thanks for telling me I am not alone sister. May Allah SWT reward you for your sharing this with us.
What a lovely comment my beautiful sister. Important thing is the beauty inside and I think you are. Keep your head up my sister and remember being unique is a good thing. And dressing like the pious is even better than dressing like the kufaar. Alhamdulillah my sister that Allah guided you to Islam, never feel inferior(I know some Muslim who born in to Muslim families can behave in a way that says they are more entitled to Islam) that is not true, once a person becomes a Muslim it's their Religion and usually they are the ones who love and have more jealousy for their Religion. So, what I mean is don't get discouraged in any way, and know that people may look pretty on the outside but ugly in the inside. Islam is perfect and hijab is our badge of honour. However, The Prophet alayhi salaatu wa salaam tought us that Allah is beautiful and loves beautiful, meaning Allah doesn't oppose beauty so long it's within His legal Rulings. Hence why we can still wear nice cloths, look ironed and sharp so long it's permissible. However we should try do Hijra to practice better. Take care my sister.
Keep it up sister
Alhamdulillah thinks you from my for this one I shaped you thinks you
I don’t wear Jilbab or Niqab and I wear some makeup outside sometimes but honestly everything you say is so relatable. Big respect sister for being real and humble❤️💜
So relatable ❤️
Masaalloh