Well, how he acted in the video, that would be a turn-off. But if you are just introverted or shy then I don't see any problem, I actually like that (f/18) because I'm like that too. The problem is just that people like this have a hard time to find a partner because they (we) are too shy to approach others :/
+OrbGoblin It's awfully hard to be happy when you depend on someone else to make you feel that way. If you don't love yourself, how can you love someone else the right way? Basically, the opposite of insecurity is independence and through finding independence you'll likely stumble upon your self confidence :) Believe in yourself, *then* sell the product you believe in!
daniel campos Most of my drive to be in a relationship came from my insecurities and trying to find someone to validate me. I put a lot of time and effort into addressing those issues in myself and when I did a relationship just seemed kind of superfluous. I used to look at relationships like a person dying of thirst looks at a bottle of water. Now I'm hydrated so, idk it's just water I have plenty of my own.
+OrbGoblin I kind of agree in a way, as my independence grew I had less desire to be with someone. I still love hooking up and hanging with chics, but muuuuuch more picky about a serious relationship and how much I'd invest in it. Also don't really mind being alone sometimes, so yea I feel you man. Then again I still love getting some! haha.
1. Correct 2. Correct 3. Correct 4. Correct 5. CORRECT 6. Correct 7. CORRECT!! 8. Sometimes 9. Correct This is coming from a girl, so take all of these seriously
@@nathanwright5543 All the stuff you hear about being good looking nice be nice to woman is aload of shit btw. But I agree having low self esteem does fuck up your chances
It does happen to people that they lose their self-respect. I think, at first, people should feel more or less okay and only then, you should look for someone to date. If you talk to someone about these stuffs, it‘s more like if the person in kind, you can be a „talking-partner“ to him/her. Maybe that‘s what you need right now. But that‘s not a girlfriend/boyfriend. Get yourself okay, than you can look for a lifepartner 👌🏻
Have been really struggling in a new relationship due to my insecurities. Can't explain to you how much this video helped to make me realise she isnt the problem and that I'm the one holding us back... just another box to tick on my list of how many things your videos have helped me with. Love you Alpha.
As a female I would rather date a respectable broke person than an asshole with money. I can make my own money so my partner's socioeconomic status means jack to me.
I mean ya you can get a lover that way, but what was mentioned in the video is about having real love. Not "being with you for your money until you go broke and leaving you to rot" video.
Last time I checked I'm not a guy, and I pretty sure I'm not supposed to be here buuuuuuuutttt these videos are kinda addicting if I do say so myself as a female
Ilydowa who doesn't hate people which look at their phones rather than listening to the person in front of them. Also, that brings me to a question... Is there another major turn off for you outside of the ones in video?
Had to rewatch to see. But yeah bragging,.. well too much bragging (a little bragging is ok most of the time). And aggressive talking. In my high school there was this dude, who would always brag about how violent he was, it's hard to explain, but for example he would always try to find the opportunity to mention that he carries an army knife all the time, and when he managed bring it up, he would always act kind of superior and make gestures of how he would use it and such. It's hard to describe, but if you ever met someone like this you know what I'm talking about. They just come off like they want to compensate for their poor social skills with aggression.
Also if a guy curses every five seconds.... like c'mon you can be at LEAST mature enough to use actual words instead of disrespectful fill-ins.... that's just my opinion as a woman tho.
wth 1:18 I love dorky guys and plus guys be yourself yes personal hygiene u can work on but come on personality if a girl doesn't like u for u forget about her there r many fish in the sea
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IDK, we men spend too much time, energy & money trying to please women. It's like someone has given them the supreme right to judge us for everything we do. I say, if you are worthy, she will stick to you. If she doesn't, she ain't worth your time. Point is, you are worthy.
My ex was constantly asking me stuff like "Do you think i'm fat?" "Would you still be with me if i got fat?" it was awful. Like, what the hell do you even respond to that with?
I hate most of these..... because I realized that I did them in my last relationship. Not only did this video open up my eyes, but it made me realize how worthless I really was. However, it also made me realize how I can change myself for the better. I don't think I can ever get over my ex, but at least i can try and make myself a better person from this video. Thank you.
Monday I went out with a girl I had never met before, only by whatsapp... Man her breath was awful, couldn't keep my face straight while she was speaking!... And my ex GF had the nicest smelling breath ... Good luck this weekend my ex GF wants me back.
The thing about confidence (while mostly true) is coming from the POV of an extrovert. I’m an introvert, and while I really do want to be confident, lack of confidence or insecurity is not always a turn off. Sometimes, but trying to fake confidence means you are not true to yourself. It’s good to be confident, but don’t sacrifice your personality.
When I'm in the zone, I flirt like crazy, I mean I am a great conversationalist. But to get to that point is so hard for me, I am very insecure, and it takes a lot of meditation for me to make the first move, but when I do, oh boy.
+Cal (LiveLifeCal) Not really, no. You can be hot, but people aren't going to look over the fact that you smell like shit, you dress like a chode, you're rude, insecure, inconsiderate, and messy.
He's completely right with everything he's listed especially with not listening and being rude to people. My husband interrupts me all of the time and it makes me really angry.
+Nihum Wait...how does one measure their razor stubs? lol I just figure if I can grab it with my finger tips time to trim lol but yeah apparently the short scraggly look is in now. This guy must have chicks all over him, envy!!
Dang I didn't violate a single one? My problem is I'm pretty quiet, I think most girls think I'm not interested in them at all, I'm only talkative in certain social situations, small talk I absolutely suck at because I just don't care about the stupid topics in it but when I am out doing activities, sports, camping, float trips etc I like to talk because it's laid back and you can discuss meaningful interesting things, it's kinda odd, anyone else like this?
+95TurboSol yeah me too. Which suck most is why i can't keep up any conversations, like they didn't care at all. That's why from now on i hate small talk
Im sorry Aaron, but i disagree with the insecurity one, I think that all men and women have the right to show their insecurities. Since everybody and i mean EVERYBODY has insecurities it's okay for a man to cry as much as it is for a girl and if you're in a relationship the partner is there to quell your insecurities and be there for you. Every man has insecurities, some just choose not to show them.
Your insecurities are for you to keep, not share with a woman. You're a man for fuck's sake, either crush your insecurities and eliminate them or take control of them.
+Al H. "You're a man for fuck sake" who are you to dict what that is supposed to mean, I am a male but why does that have to mean I have to hide my emotions and create facade. Let men be themselves not what society says they should be.
+Al H. And if you have a lady that you hold dear in your life why would you want to hide you emotions from them. That's being everything but honest my friend. And honesty is the most important thing if you intend to keep that bond.
Sam Chenier Yes, honesty is one of the most important factor in a relationship, but that doesn't mean a man should speak of his insecurities often. What you state is the norm of the current society, that men should be equally honest and open about their feelings. There are significant physiological and mental differences between a man and a woman. We have different instincts than women. We think differently, and if experienced and wise enough,we have the capacity to base our decisions on logic, not emotions. We want to be in control, not just sexually but in almost every aspect of life. We weren't taught to behave this way, we evolved this way. What you are saying is perfectly fine, as long as you are comfortable with sharing your true emotions and feelings with women, but unfortunately, it is not the best method to interact with women, especially if you want her to believe that she can reply on the power of your masculinity and self-control in life.
+Al H. Yes we did evolve like that, but that was hundreds of thousands of years ago. We have since then gone past that. We are in a safe environment most of the time and need not rely on anything. What I am saying is that I am sick and tired of how men are taught to act and conform to social norms. Men and Women should BOTH be able to be as tough and as in touch with their feminin side as they damn well please and it shouldn't change how "attractive" that person is. This is the kind of mentality that will allow our world to move forward. It's time people learn to be a little open minded, start questioning society and you will help it's development and bring our world out of this state of opperession and prejudice. It's what has happened time and time again on this planet and it is the only way to get out of this. Men have just as many emotions as women there is nothing that should make us hide that, it only causes more unhappiness.
2:05 This situation actually sucks for dudes because if you actually try and do something about it, most of the time people think YOU are the asshole for trying to call it off for the sake of your energy
okay I'm female and i came here because I have the same haircut as him 😆😆😅 and he styles it really cool. and to be honest, biggest turn off is when guys are rude, full of themselves and unpolite. but certainly not to lack confidence
I've been needing to buy new shoes. The soles are almost off. I went through my closet and threw away a bunch of junky clothes. I plan on going and doing some shopping next month. I plan on selling the car I have now and buy something different.
What the fuck, it's literally the opposite of that. You must have your brain so filled with feminist propaganda, any time a dude talks about girls & relationships all you hear is "sex object". I pity you
Kamikoroshiteageru i meant relationships should be MORE than just sex. Anyone can have sex, but not not anyone can handle a true loving relationship. If someone gets into a relationship just for sex, then it's pointless.
Oh please...I don't give a damn what any woman thinks about my shoes....When I see the HIDEOUSLY high heel wedge shoes a lot females wear and think of as fashionable; I know they have no room to call anything a man wears on his feet as "dorky" or ugly.
He is just letting you know what women like. They do, in fact, notice a man's shoes. If you don't care what they like, I guess that's up to you. But if you want to be attractive to women, how you dress is part of it.
Insecure girls is the biggest turn off for me, I guess it works the other way to but for instance when a girl watches you and gets mad if you even glance at another girl, when they get aggressive or rude around other girls and just hate them because they are prettier than them or when they constantly txt or call and ask where you are, what you're doing, who you're with and when will you be there, are you with the boys having fun without me, I want you back now. My friends ex-wife now was like that and I had to stop hanging with him from time to time because his dungeon master had a tight leash on him and he couldn't do anything, I'm surprised she didn't make him sign a punch card when he left home and came back.
I got adhd which makes it so that if I don't write down my thought or say it out loud immediately I forget my response to what shes saying. One thing that helps me is when I'm video calling I type my thoughts in a one or two word sentence to help me remember so I can keep listening.
most of your videos are on point, but this one is spot on. no matter who you are if you listen to these 9 things anyone will have a better time not just with the opposite sex, but with everyone.
i totally agree. however with this kind of video is fine because its tips on how to better yourself. not "The Top 10 Best Spongebob Episodes" no hard feelings luv u
Sphyris 2nd Channel - haha, "no hard feelings luv u." **Virtual high five**. You're officially my favorite person on the internet today. And touché, I'll give you that. At least this guy isn't blatantly wasting people's time.
Aldrich Leblanc - "I'm not sure if pretending to be intellectually and socially superior to everyone works for you..." huh? how in god's name did you get that impression from that one sentence? You are one delicate little daffodil my friend.
Ha! That's exactly what I was thinking. Trying to fake paying attention while some mindless woman prattles on about the dumb shit they like to babble about is just more than I can handle.
Max Johnson I know, right? So let's say you fake paying attention, you'll get the girl. Great, awesome. Now she'll prattle on for hours in your own house too!
+Max Johnson i think he meant that you should pay attention to a chick you like only, cuz you aint gonna like a dumb one that talks uninteresting shit, right?
Samer Hamod Not sure I have actually ever met one that talks interesting shit. Not to say they don't occasionally have something meaningful to offer, to be fair, it's just that they don't talk about things that interest men for the most part. And in the work place, you have to measure and weigh every single thing that comes out of your mouth when you're around them. Even when you do your best to make sure you don't say anything they can possibly find offensive, they can and will twist your words to try and get your ass in a sling. The second you let your guard down and think they are "cool" and you can talk to them like one of the guys, you're ass is in for a rude awakening.
Insecurities are definitely a turn off, when I sense it, I purposefully won't reassure them about their insecurities. Oh and the messy house is gross. I can't think, I've seriously cleaned guy friends houses, because I could not stand to sit in the mess. Disgusting. I like the end "should be common sense"
I love Aaron Marino, he's legit the most chill dude ever and his videos are actually helpful. Aaron Marino if you read this thank you for the help you have given me in becoming a better alpha male. :)
Papi Champú some girls like short guys if they're sexy and funny and have a good personality. Those things plus stuff like hygience, confidence, and good social skills, etc. Are huge turn ons and honestly, what can you do abt your height... you can't change it so just own it I guess.
Don't be too sure. If you can gather up some confidence and just enjoy yourself on the date, you'll make up for quite a few inches of height. If she's enjoying herself with you, she'll forget all about your height and (assuming it's reciprocal), so will you. Don't try to set up an experience that's too elaborate either. Start with coffee, suggest a walk, grab a bite, hit an obstacle course, just find places where you can enjoy each other's company :)
Yeah, had the shoe problem before. Apparently they were too bright of a shade of blue. Wasn't a deal breaker though, just something which came up in conversation
Alpha: it's "couldn't care less", not "could care less". It's ironic that you made that mistake when talking about the importance of being a good conversationalist...
+João Soares Indeed! Native English speakers tend to make that mistake all the time, it´s quite annoying. As a woman few things turn me off more than guys who can´t speak properly.
+João Soares "Could care less" when speaking, their/they're/there, your/you're, it's/its, then/than when writing. Why so many Americans make these errors and people with English as a second (or third) language so rarely do I'll never understand.
+Jack Lan English is only my fourth language, actually (French my native language, Portuguese my second and Spanish my third). If you're a native English speaker you should really be able to avoid all those errors.
+Trinajskaa How do you acquire confidence if all of these steps aren't in check? Confidence is just the top of the pyramid. Without the rest, there will be no confidence..
+Trinajskaa How do you acquire confidence if all of these steps aren't in check? Confidence is just the top of the pyramid. Without the rest, there will be no confidence..
Mark Thygesen Confidence is key,but the other things also help. For example if you're confident and a smooth talker you can have any girl on the planet even if you're shrek.
Totally agree with all of them, especially that with insecurities, it`s really annoying That one with the ex-girlfriend, sure i`ll prefer him not to talk shit about her but if she did something really bad and he is hurt and says that let`s say in a very rude way if i like the guy it won`t be such a turn off. Another turn off is texting back reeeeeally slow and without even apologising or smth. Like he just responds after one hour or more and not even say smth like `sorry, i was...`
Yep he hits all the right points. My problem is interrupting and I do it unintentionally and feel bad about it but I rebound by restating what she said to finish her thought so she knows that I'm listening at least. Still.... Need to work on that.
This confidence-thing must be great ... I hear so many stories about it
+overTIMe legends...
Well, how he acted in the video, that would be a turn-off. But if you are just introverted or shy then I don't see any problem, I actually like that (f/18) because I'm like that too. The problem is just that people like this have a hard time to find a partner because they (we) are too shy to approach others :/
you don't have to BE confident, you just have to APPEAR confident.
Joe's music Exactly.
KEY / 41PH4 / GO_PRO Oh well if it's nothing else ^^
The ironic thing about insecurity is that, once I'd addressed this issue, I found I didn't really want to be in a relationship anymore.
+OrbGoblin could you elaborate?
+OrbGoblin It's awfully hard to be happy when you depend on someone else to make you feel that way. If you don't love yourself, how can you love someone else the right way? Basically, the opposite of insecurity is independence and through finding independence you'll likely stumble upon your self confidence :)
Believe in yourself, *then* sell the product you believe in!
daniel campos
Most of my drive to be in a relationship came from my insecurities and trying to find someone to validate me. I put a lot of time and effort into addressing those issues in myself and when I did a relationship just seemed kind of superfluous.
I used to look at relationships like a person dying of thirst looks at a bottle of water. Now I'm hydrated so, idk it's just water I have plenty of my own.
+OrbGoblin What about a sex life?
+OrbGoblin I kind of agree in a way, as my independence grew I had less desire to be with someone. I still love hooking up and hanging with chics, but muuuuuch more picky about a serious relationship and how much I'd invest in it. Also don't really mind being alone sometimes, so yea I feel you man. Then again I still love getting some! haha.
being subbed to alpha m is like having the coolest big brother in your pocket.
I hear ya brother
Eh.
Not go to bed early is a turn left? My wife told me that she doesn't like me to do that. Being on pH is a turn off also.
He is like a dad to me.
ur the real life host of total drama island
lol your the joke. :)
+nitrogoat You're * fucking dumbass
+Salah Ammar tryhard."youre the reason alpha made this video.
being rude it's a no no ;)
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This is coming from a girl, so take all of these seriously
Thanks
Thanks for yoir advice.
Thanks for tip, gals who give guys advice are usually correct
thank you very much
I'm 53 years old, and a widower. I am so glad I'm not a young guy nowadays.
You sound like a sad sad guy
I am. I was happily married for 18 years, 39 days before my beloved wife passed away in 2014
+MusketeerinFlorida I'm sorry to hear about this
+carlos torres Fuck you, Carlos.
53 year old guy on youtube? i dont think so
Biggest turn off for women: me
KAC3 with that attitude, yes.
@@nathanwright5543 All the stuff you hear about being good looking nice be nice to woman is aload of shit btw. But I agree having low self esteem does fuck up your chances
2nd biggest turn off for women:Me
It does happen to people that they lose their self-respect. I think, at first, people should feel more or less okay and only then, you should look for someone to date. If you talk to someone about these stuffs, it‘s more like if the person in kind, you can be a „talking-partner“ to him/her. Maybe that‘s what you need right now. But that‘s not a girlfriend/boyfriend. Get yourself okay, than you can look for a lifepartner 👌🏻
You missed the confidence point
A big turn of for me is over-masculinity, like dude show your sensitive side and be human okay
True.
Black Pharaoh then I guess thats just kinda fucked up for that person
Yes, for crying out loud. A dude who tries WAY too hard to be masculine reeks of insecurity and douche-y ness.
Eden Jay Collins youd hate me im not masculine at all but also not sensitive at all either
a big turn off for me is too much muscle to the point where you look like the hulk, yeah sure some muscle is pretty hot but don't overdo it
I think turn off #1 for women is men in their 30 with no job , lazy , fat and still live with his parents .
hugh mungus
Jakob Spencer hugh mungus what?
did you just sexually harass me?
Hugh mungus Bone 2k16
DISGUSTING! DISGUSTING!
Jakob Spencer humungus what?
He seems like a cool Uncle named Ryan.
Yeah Emma aunty
Emma Rose His name is Brian. I don't think he's gay. He's never confirmed it.
Damn youre a babe
Justin Carrillo that’s not very alpha like
Emma Rose “when does uncle ryan come by?’ hahah
# 10. Being a Mama's Boy.
I like mama boys
#11. BEING WHITE
What about daddy's boy
Truth. His mama is his woman. Lol
@@eggbertinkabod1121 I'm sorry for your disadvantage
Have been really struggling in a new relationship due to my insecurities. Can't explain to you how much this video helped to make me realise she isnt the problem and that I'm the one holding us back... just another box to tick on my list of how many things your videos have helped me with. Love you Alpha.
Having tons of money will get you an automatic pass on all of these.
ConureMaster but they'll want you for just that. Hit it & quit it.
As a female I would rather date a respectable broke person than an asshole with money. I can make my own money so my partner's socioeconomic status means jack to me.
C12H22O11 HIGH I wish more women said that
ConureMaster yep especially if you are black
I mean ya you can get a lover that way, but what was mentioned in the video is about having real love. Not "being with you for your money until you go broke and leaving you to rot" video.
Last time I checked I'm not a guy, and I pretty sure I'm not supposed to be here buuuuuuuutttt these videos are kinda addicting if I do say so myself as a female
Right up there with you girl 😋
its all good I agree
It's because he's badass
Dojocho he's married to a woman
Kaiya Kelis As a female, how much of he is saying is true in this video?
fuck! my wife has all those "don't"s. I'm so totally fucked.
She has Stinky balls?
Glennvanni Maiquez DAD??
rofl killed it hammy
I am a woman and these were all my biggest turn offs, especially the not listening part! Good luck with your romantic lives, Gentlemen!
Ilydowa who doesn't hate people which look at their phones rather than listening to the person in front of them.
Also, that brings me to a question... Is there another major turn off for you outside of the ones in video?
Had to rewatch to see.
But yeah bragging,.. well too much bragging (a little bragging is ok most of the time).
And aggressive talking.
In my high school there was this dude, who would always brag about how violent he was, it's hard to explain, but for example he would always try to find the opportunity to mention that he carries an army knife all the time, and when he managed bring it up, he would always act kind of superior and make gestures of how he would use it and such.
It's hard to describe, but if you ever met someone like this you know what I'm talking about.
They just come off like they want to compensate for their poor social skills with aggression.
Saying money fixes everything, if she's ill, she needs you. Money may help insurance, but can't cure. Grow up fellas.
Thanks... 😅
*uses tips from other vid* so illy r u single
fuck i love wearing my crocs
SEXY
They better be gucci crocs LOL
Haha yes , i too wear my crocs all the time
JNR etsos there ugly af tho
crocs are totally acceptable
the tips for being better in bed helped bro!
my hand and I are growing closer each day
Also if a guy curses every five seconds.... like c'mon you can be at LEAST mature enough to use actual words instead of disrespectful fill-ins.... that's just my opinion as a woman tho.
Matty Betty "disrespectful"... don't listen to this prude guys fuck all that shit
John Smith 😂😂
great stuff alpha
Yoo supp
wth 1:18 I love dorky guys and plus guys be yourself
yes personal hygiene u can work on but come on personality
if a girl doesn't like u for u forget about her there r many fish in the sea
turtlelovin' elsie. I know how you feel... I like turtles too
turtlelovin' elsie. Dorky shoes is one thing, dorky person is alrighty
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i like you
I love dorks too. But there is a limit to how dorky you can look before it becomes a turn off.
I got a girl, I came here
I got cheated, I came here.
Now I found the love of my life, still I come here🍁
Is having crippling depression a turnoff ?
Distressed At Dawn Yes, you got to love /fix yourself bevor you can love others
But getting laid might just be exactly what you need.
Depends who you ask I say no but its probably just me
were wally Why?
Same this shit sucks
You are such a funny and handsome man. And your video tips are always on point. As a woman, I do hate all those things too.
Just realised I fucked up.
Don't u hate when u wanna watch all of alphas videos, so u switch videos and miss most of the video...
MATTY_B foreal doe xD
MATTY_B
Emm..no, I just add them to the watch later list
IDK, we men spend too much time, energy & money trying to please women. It's like someone has given them the supreme right to judge us for everything we do. I say, if you are worthy, she will stick to you. If she doesn't, she ain't worth your time. Point is, you are worthy.
My ex was constantly asking me stuff like "Do you think i'm fat?" "Would you still be with me if i got fat?" it was awful. Like, what the hell do you even respond to that with?
Oh and i meant the 2nd question, i know what to say to the first one haha.
I hate most of these..... because I realized that I did them in my last relationship. Not only did this video open up my eyes, but it made me realize how worthless I really was.
However, it also made me realize how I can change myself for the better. I don't think I can ever get over my ex, but at least i can try and make myself a better person from this video.
Thank you.
Monday I went out with a girl I had never met before, only by whatsapp... Man her breath was awful, couldn't keep my face straight while she was speaking!... And my ex GF had the nicest smelling breath ... Good luck this weekend my ex GF wants me back.
Carlos Gómez your all fuckn shit haha
Cockbreath
The thing about confidence (while mostly true) is coming from the POV of an extrovert. I’m an introvert, and while I really do want to be confident, lack of confidence or insecurity is not always a turn off. Sometimes, but trying to fake confidence means you are not true to yourself. It’s good to be confident, but don’t sacrifice your personality.
No sponser? No Tiege Hanley? No Pete & Pedro? Tompson T?
Someone call 911, there's something wrong with Alpha
When I'm in the zone, I flirt like crazy, I mean I am a great conversationalist. But to get to that point is so hard for me, I am very insecure, and it takes a lot of meditation for me to make the first move, but when I do, oh boy.
It's nice to see how much your channel has evolved in quality
If you are a hot guy you can probably get away with most of this stuff, lol
Totally. If your average you have to be on your game always even if you think the girl is chill.
He's 35+
Nope. Knew a handsome guy who dressed well. Bad breath killed everything
+Cal (LiveLifeCal) Not really, no. You can be hot, but people aren't going to look over the fact that you smell like shit, you dress like a chode, you're rude, insecure, inconsiderate, and messy.
a shy guy and hot will not get the ladies. women hate shy men regardless if they are hot at least in this country
If a woman made this video we would all get mad and tell her she can't change our way of life
what gel do you use for your hair?
+erdal0 peteandpedro.com/product/putty/
+alpha m. So. Alpha. i love it
pete and pedro prob..his own product
pete and pedro prob..his own product
You can buy garnier fructis mess maker putty it's much cheaper
I literally couldn't agree more with everything you've mentioned here. Took every single word right out of my mouth
He's completely right with everything he's listed especially with not listening and being rude to people. My husband interrupts me all of the time and it makes me really angry.
It was awkward for you to make that thumbnail wasn't it? XD
SHUT THE FUCK UP
Damn, who shit in your corn flakes?
+RocketGlitch and milk lol
I don't understand what did he say wrong?
+supermonkeyyyyyy Turn off number #10
Watches cartoons and uses "XD"
I wanted this video from the beginning thanks
Your comment was posted 4 minutes ago and the video is 5 minutes long. Liar
+JesusChristNeverLived I mean from beginning of this channel ha-ha!
+alpha m. Whats the length of your stubble beard in this video ?
Take care
+Nihum 3mm
+alpha m. Good one
+alpha m. hi are you sure that the philips grooming is it the best? did you ever tried some other brands?
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+Nihum Wait...how does one measure their razor stubs? lol I just figure if I can grab it with my finger tips time to trim lol but yeah apparently the short scraggly look is in now. This guy must have chicks all over him, envy!!
I agree with every syllable you said. You are so right!! That constantly reassuring can be a second job. Ugh!!!
Dang I didn't violate a single one? My problem is I'm pretty quiet, I think most girls think I'm not interested in them at all, I'm only talkative in certain social situations, small talk I absolutely suck at because I just don't care about the stupid topics in it but when I am out doing activities, sports, camping, float trips etc I like to talk because it's laid back and you can discuss meaningful interesting things, it's kinda odd, anyone else like this?
+95TurboSol yeah me too. Which suck most is why i can't keep up any conversations, like they didn't care at all. That's why from now on i hate small talk
Im sorry Aaron, but i disagree with the insecurity one, I think that all men and women have the right to show their insecurities. Since everybody and i mean EVERYBODY has insecurities it's okay for a man to cry as much as it is for a girl and if you're in a relationship the partner is there to quell your insecurities and be there for you. Every man has insecurities, some just choose not to show them.
Your insecurities are for you to keep, not share with a woman. You're a man for fuck's sake, either crush your insecurities and eliminate them or take control of them.
+Al H. "You're a man for fuck sake" who are you to dict what that is supposed to mean, I am a male but why does that have to mean I have to hide my emotions and create facade. Let men be themselves not what society says they should be.
+Al H. And if you have a lady that you hold dear in your life why would you want to hide you emotions from them. That's being everything but honest my friend. And honesty is the most important thing if you intend to keep that bond.
Sam Chenier Yes, honesty is one of the most important factor in a relationship, but that doesn't mean a man should speak of his insecurities often. What you state is the norm of the current society, that men should be equally honest and open about their feelings. There are significant physiological and mental differences between a man and a woman. We have different instincts than women. We think differently, and if experienced and wise enough,we have the capacity to base our decisions on logic, not emotions. We want to be in control, not just sexually but in almost every aspect of life. We weren't taught to behave this way, we evolved this way. What you are saying is perfectly fine, as long as you are comfortable with sharing your true emotions and feelings with women, but unfortunately, it is not the best method to interact with women, especially if you want her to believe that she can reply on the power of your masculinity and self-control in life.
+Al H. Yes we did evolve like that, but that was hundreds of thousands of years ago. We have since then gone past that. We are in a safe environment most of the time and need not rely on anything. What I am saying is that I am sick and tired of how men are taught to act and conform to social norms. Men and Women should BOTH be able to be as tough and as in touch with their feminin side as they damn well please and it shouldn't change how "attractive" that person is. This is the kind of mentality that will allow our world to move forward. It's time people learn to be a little open minded, start questioning society and you will help it's development and bring our world out of this state of opperession and prejudice. It's what has happened time and time again on this planet and it is the only way to get out of this. Men have just as many emotions as women there is nothing that should make us hide that, it only causes more unhappiness.
Did he just say "stinky balls" at 0:56?
obviously kidding lads. good day
+Joseph Liau gaaiiinnnnzzzzz
we're all gonna make it brahs
Wtf i did not know balls stunk wtf........
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biggest turn off is when your pockets are empty.
M'kay lmao
2:05 This situation actually sucks for dudes because if you actually try and do something about it, most of the time people think YOU are the asshole for trying to call it off for the sake of your energy
I am a woman and this was a awesome video. You really knew what you were talking about!
Is mayonnaise a turn off?
No Patrick, mayonnaise is not a turn off...
Horse radish is not a turn off either
okay I'm female and i came here because I have the same haircut as him 😆😆😅 and he styles it really cool. and to be honest, biggest turn off is when guys are rude, full of themselves and unpolite. but certainly not to lack confidence
Some chicks like dorky guys. They actually think it's cute. Not gross weird dorky, but cute handsome dorky. You just have to know.
Spicy Egg they're probably in the minority, but yes. Some girls do like dorks, me included.
Right... "you just have to know"
alpha m's facial expressions are hilarious to watch! so expressive!
I've been needing to buy new shoes. The soles are almost off. I went through my closet and threw away a bunch of junky clothes. I plan on going and doing some shopping next month. I plan on selling the car I have now and buy something different.
4:27 - 4:37 U should be an Actor dude..
Agree
1:11 That's a turn off (crusty up the nose ;) )
yep
another one is only foucising on sex and seeing the girl as a sex object
I agree. as fun as sex is, a relationship shouldn't be about one thing and one thing only.
Actually that turns on girls more
+Rahim Royce no it doesn't
What the fuck, it's literally the opposite of that. You must have your brain so filled with feminist propaganda, any time a dude talks about girls & relationships all you hear is "sex object". I pity you
Kamikoroshiteageru i meant relationships should be MORE than just sex. Anyone can have sex, but not not anyone can handle a true loving relationship. If someone gets into a relationship just for sex, then it's pointless.
clean, confident, polite
I applaud you for these videos. Men are so important and need to understand what a real man is. Women need these videos too.
The worst is that this is so true for both genders 😅
Oh please...I don't give a damn what any woman thinks about my shoes....When I see the HIDEOUSLY high heel wedge shoes a lot females wear and think of as fashionable; I know they have no room to call anything a man wears on his feet as "dorky" or ugly.
He is just letting you know what women like. They do, in fact, notice a man's shoes. If you don't care what they like, I guess that's up to you. But if you want to be attractive to women, how you dress is part of it.
& if you don't like HER shoes - I'm sure you can let her know too (or what you prefer her to wear). Why be so resentful?
Insecure girls is the biggest turn off for me, I guess it works the other way to but for instance when a girl watches you and gets mad if you even glance at another girl, when they get aggressive or rude around other girls and just hate them because they are prettier than them or when they constantly txt or call and ask where you are, what you're doing, who you're with and when will you be there, are you with the boys having fun without me, I want you back now. My friends ex-wife now was like that and I had to stop hanging with him from time to time because his dungeon master had a tight leash on him and he couldn't do anything, I'm surprised she didn't make him sign a punch card when he left home and came back.
I got adhd which makes it so that if I don't write down my thought or say it out loud immediately I forget my response to what shes saying. One thing that helps me is when I'm video calling I type my thoughts in a one or two word sentence to help me remember so I can keep listening.
most of your videos are on point, but this one is spot on. no matter who you are if you listen to these 9 things anyone will have a better time not just with the opposite sex, but with everyone.
This is the internet now. 10 common sense, blatantly obvious factoids, put into list format, and screamed into a camera.
i totally agree. however with this kind of video is fine because its tips on how to better yourself. not "The Top 10 Best Spongebob Episodes" no hard feelings luv u
Sphyris 2nd Channel - haha, "no hard feelings luv u." **Virtual high five**. You're officially my favorite person on the internet today.
And touché, I'll give you that. At least this guy isn't blatantly wasting people's time.
Scott K Thanks dude.
Aldrich Leblanc - Really? You didn't know that poor hygiene was a turn off for women?
Aldrich Leblanc - "I'm not sure if pretending to be intellectually and socially superior to everyone works for you..."
huh? how in god's name did you get that impression from that one sentence? You are one delicate little daffodil my friend.
I thought he was gay I was wrong
Everything Junkie lol same here
We all did
He is.
I always fail at "paying attention when she keeps rambling." I'm more inclined to ask if she would just be quiet for 10 seconds.
Ha! That's exactly what I was thinking. Trying to fake paying attention while some mindless woman prattles on about the dumb shit they like to babble about is just more than I can handle.
Max Johnson
I know, right? So let's say you fake paying attention, you'll get the girl. Great, awesome. Now she'll prattle on for hours in your own house too!
+Max Johnson i think he meant that you should pay attention to a chick you like only, cuz you aint gonna like a dumb one that talks uninteresting shit, right?
Samer Hamod Not sure I have actually ever met one that talks interesting shit. Not to say they don't occasionally have something meaningful to offer, to be fair, it's just that they don't talk about things that interest men for the most part. And in the work place, you have to measure and weigh every single thing that comes out of your mouth when you're around them. Even when you do your best to make sure you don't say anything they can possibly find offensive, they can and will twist your words to try and get your ass in a sling. The second you let your guard down and think they are "cool" and you can talk to them like one of the guys, you're ass is in for a rude awakening.
Torva Messorem If you really like a girl, you will want to listen
the Interrupting part is so true can confirm to 100%
Insecurities are definitely a turn off, when I sense it, I purposefully won't reassure them about their insecurities. Oh and the messy house is gross. I can't think, I've seriously cleaned guy friends houses, because I could not stand to sit in the mess. Disgusting.
I like the end "should be common sense"
Raya copied the hell out of this video
He was on point but if a chic digs you , this doesn't apply to u
Men pay attention. Cut your finger nails please!!!! It's such a major turn off 😖😷
iLovelucY Well, i chew them off... 😶😁
I love Aaron Marino, he's legit the most chill dude ever and his videos are actually helpful. Aaron Marino if you read this thank you for the help you have given me in becoming a better alpha male. :)
I met this awesome guy today. Keep improving the world one video at a time!
I wear a white shirt, overalls, and boots everyday and got the hottest girl in my grade (she was country)
She's country That's why
BOOM!
Damn i didnt know overalls work. I have a pair and theyre comfy as hell but even i dont wear em.
btw i like your name and profile picture
this is amazingly accurate 😂
Another turn off for girls is being short, been there many times. Us short guys have no chance with most women.
Papi Champú some girls like short guys if they're sexy and funny and have a good personality. Those things plus stuff like hygience, confidence, and good social skills, etc. Are huge turn ons and honestly, what can you do abt your height... you can't change it so just own it I guess.
Don't be too sure. If you can gather up some confidence and just enjoy yourself on the date, you'll make up for quite a few inches of height. If she's enjoying herself with you, she'll forget all about your height and (assuming it's reciprocal), so will you. Don't try to set up an experience that's too elaborate either. Start with coffee, suggest a walk, grab a bite, hit an obstacle course, just find places where you can enjoy each other's company :)
4:11 did he just say that... don't even get me started on that phrase that everyone idiotically says wrong
Yeah, had the shoe problem before. Apparently they were too bright of a shade of blue. Wasn't a deal breaker though, just something which came up in conversation
Alpha: it's "couldn't care less", not "could care less". It's ironic that you made that mistake when talking about the importance of being a good conversationalist...
+João Soares Indeed! Native English speakers tend to make that mistake all the time, it´s quite annoying. As a woman few things turn me off more than guys who can´t speak properly.
+Rita Amorim like?
+João Soares You got REKT
+João Soares "Could care less" when speaking, their/they're/there, your/you're, it's/its, then/than when writing. Why so many Americans make these errors and people with English as a second (or third) language so rarely do I'll never understand.
+Jack Lan English is only my fourth language, actually (French my native language, Portuguese my second and Spanish my third). If you're a native English speaker you should really be able to avoid all those errors.
The girl that I'm interested in has a boyfriend, she says he's selfish in bed, she still wants him.
Jay Heath just forget her, she won't let go until he completely stand all over her
Jay Heath find another girl bro
Usually girls in bad relationships that have alot of good in them don't leave until worse shit keeps happening
Jay Heath. A bit late but relatable
You're like the jeremy jahns of fashion
i mean you remind me of Jeremy jahns
Bill, watchu doing here? You Alpha as fuck anyway
Thought this would be bad... but it's actually spot on and goes both ways. Well done.
2:07 had me dead 😂 but I do have a friend that always begged for compliments and I was like what ever I'm done with you
Ahhhh the insecure thing that makes perfect sense now 😂
Just came across this video :D I feel like my boyfriend is a total turn off :D :D
What's in his eye?
Childhood Cancer Is Real it's a freckle
the stain of vanity.
+mMaxwell_ 007 xD
Childhood Cancer Is Real it's just a little poopoo
The mark of tiege hanley
This list should be common sense, but great video to make for some people that lack, great channel.
I'm a women. Everything you said is true. Thank you 😁
It's all about confidence gentlemen, everything else is irrelevant,trust me on this ;-)
+Trinajskaa you also got the "gentlemen" virus?
+Trinajskaa How do you acquire confidence if all of these steps aren't in check? Confidence is just the top of the pyramid. Without the rest, there will be no confidence..
+Trinajskaa How do you acquire confidence if all of these steps aren't in check? Confidence is just the top of the pyramid. Without the rest, there will be no confidence..
Mark Thygesen Confidence is key,but the other things also help.
For example if you're confident and a smooth talker you can have any girl on the planet even if you're shrek.
+Trinajskaa ogres are like onions
you forgot having both lobes pierced.
Money covers everything. Just be rich. Everyone ll like u.
Waqas Ahmed o yea but have a nice attitude though, and also ugly teens/men usually get girls bcuz they have money
Kinda true. But you get out what you put in also.
Totally agree with all of them, especially that with insecurities, it`s really annoying
That one with the ex-girlfriend, sure i`ll prefer him not to talk shit about her but if she did something really bad and he is hurt and says that let`s say in a very rude way if i like the guy it won`t be such a turn off.
Another turn off is texting back reeeeeally slow and without even apologising or smth. Like he just responds after one hour or more and not even say smth like `sorry, i was...`
i disagree with the shoe thing. i'm. pretty much known for wearing special edition vans a lot and i think i'm confident enough to rock them.
10 over the top cocky/know it all guys *cough* *cough*
#10 not being alpha
His wife is legit hot AF, i tend to listen to tips from guys with hot wives, they must be doin something right
Why am I watching this I'm a lesbian
Juustomimmi you came here to say just that for attention
Yep he hits all the right points. My problem is interrupting and I do it unintentionally and feel bad about it but I rebound by restating what she said to finish her thought so she knows that I'm listening at least. Still.... Need to work on that.
Loved the GI Joe reference lol .. great video and spot on