People Share Their Coming Out Experience | Filipino | Rec•Create
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- Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
- We asked people about their personal stories on coming out, and how it was to have this experience.
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Nahiya ako mag out
hi lol
Yooooooooow
Second thissss. Yayyy
"Actually, I don't like calling it coming out, it's letting people in"
-Jan 2019
I felt that...
Nichi kun agree
agree
nice
100% TRUE!
❤️
“ it’s hard to be close to others when you’re not your real self.”
Totoo to, lagi nilang sinasabi just be yourself. Kung alam lang nila kung gaano kahirap nun, kaya nung early years ng college ko nahirapan ako buti na lang at inampon ako ng mga friends ko ngayon hahaha
Tinamaan ako🥺😭
@@jessejames8901 true!!! if i “became myself” in public, i’d just be subject to bullying. nakakatakot talaga umamin dito, ang dami kasing ayaw sa lgbt like pls we’re literally the same as u, we just have different personalities and thoughts.
Mom, I'm gay.
"I know naman"
Mom knows everything. Nag aantay lang sila na sabihin mo sa kanila :)
true
sanaol :((
@Eenfeeneetee Fuck off
Eenfeeneetee respect, please. if you don’t like gays/lgbt, then just be silent.
Eenfeeneetee are you a Muslim?
Pag may anak ako at sinabing pa Im pansexual! Wait lang google ko muna.
HAHAHAHAHA
At least you'd take courage to understand. I know it's just for humor, pero thank you for wanting to try to learn about it. 😊
tbh its another labels. poeple lost what personality, is
"Ano? Nagkakagusto ka sa frying pan?"
Hahahha
When I was in college I'm secretly dating with a guy.. when I decided to broke up with him.. he spread rumors about me and I was outed in a bad way. But, with the love and support of my friends.. I courageously faced all of their judgements and discrimination.
Mark Lorenz Lising do u still talk? Being gay is different for everyone, its a process and you come out when you’re ready in your own terms. He took that moment away from u.
Atleast you faced it all the judgements and discrimination bout you.❤️ im so proud of you 🏳️🌈
He is/was bad. Im nearly got in that kind of situation when I was in high school, all-boys school (yes, 80s)...but i never knew then that im a bitch. 😂
Grabe naman yung guy. At least you have supportive friends to go through it. Congrats!
Omg that sounds terrible. I'm so glad it worked out for you. What he did wasn't right!
I CAME OUT TO MY MOM TODAY 😭 HAPPY PRIDE MONTH Y'ALL 🥰😭
"Actually, I don't like calling it coming out, I like calling it letting people in" - Jan
6:10
I'm happy that my friends accepted me so as my family. I'm bisexual and I'm open to any possibilities when it comes to relationship. There's no need to come out to everyone, those who matter to you is more than enough. Just love yourself and no words or actions could tame you then.
HI FRIENDSHIP 🐷🇯🇵
Amen 💖✨
Na touch ako sa sinabi ng mom nya na: I know naman. Well thats true. Minsan mas kilala pa nila tayo kesa sa sarili naten. Di lang nila sinasabe kase nag hihintay lang sia na tayo ang mag open.
Jan is cute!!!! Even he looks soft I’m still attracted to him. 😍
Cute bottom af 😍
Me too 😍
Jan is such a witty person. not just form but wid full of substance.i admired him wid his intelligence.
This is what social media means-to disseminate information that are inspirational and uplifting. More videos like this plsss☺️😍💖
There were several times when I just wished that one day when I wake up, I'll be straight. I have been hating myself more than others do. They keep on asking "bakit di ka na lang naging normal?" I have been already asking that to myself before they even thought about it but I can't do anything about it no matter how I try to stop myself. It is so sad to be judged and misunderstood like it is a heinous crime. I feel so depressed being alone and having no one to talk to. It makes me feel sad when others are comparing me to my siblings who are getting married and building their family already.
Same lol. I relate to your comment on all levels. I even considered killing myself. But I thought about it for a long time, and I decided that it isn't wrong. What other people think and judge about you isn't the truth. The only person who can define you, is you. Prosper so you can prove them wrong. It's gonna be hard, but you'll make it through. I hope you're okay.
"Yey, Inom na tayo" - Kyra 2019
And i felt that, celebration for being true to yourself. Yung wala ka ng guilt sa sarili mo because of who you are. 🏳️🌈 You need to accept yourself first, and society will follow (kahit di naman lahat) at least you come out to show to them na ikaw yan at wala kang pagsisihi because your decision will be the molded fact of your true personality.
I just found a very good Filipino UA-cam channel with great content! I pray for more subscribers and success!
A new big fan here!
Me too
Agree
HI 🐷🇯🇵
I came out as bisexual and my girlfriend was even the first na nakaalam 💁🏻♂️ Now she's my ex and we're still friends and often encourage me to get a boyfriend rather than a girlfriend (if I get myself a girlfriend daw magiging awkward Yung things between us)
Same. Lol
I'm drawn to Jan. He's cute and looks innocent. He's very vulnerable in a way na ang cute
"In seventh grade, iniisip ko " *Uy, everyone's having a girlfriend.* " But like *bakit ayoko ng girlfriend?* " - Jan
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Lol relate! This is so meeeee nung high school!
thats called PERSONALITY.
you are who you are. its not sexual or gender. its PREFERENCES.
Relate 😂
same hanggang ngayong college ako amp hahhahaha
Ano pong realname ni jan?
Hahaha
Loved this video!! I was very lucky as a transgender person that I didn’t need to come out to my family and friends as they already knew I was different at a very young age. They thought I was “gay” but eventually when I started my transition, they didn’t bother to stop me and later on I was given a chance to enlighten them of what “transgender” is. And they understood that I wasn’t “gay” that they thought I were. So ayun, they supported me with my decision and even asked my dad’s permission before getting my breast implants and he just advised me to make sure na magaling and safe ung Doctor na mag operate saken then my mom and cousins were there at the clinic during my breast augmentation and my dad picked us up in the evening as I’m an outpatient. They all took care of me after the surgery. I felt at the time that I was the luckiest girl in the world to have a very loving and supportive family. ❤️❤️❤️
I came out just last week through posting it to social media. Maraming nagulat, natuwa at nalungkot..some supported be but others not. It was hard for me to reveal my true self because of the fact that I am an openly christian; a leader in a church. But I don't want to waste my life in pretending to be someone I am not so I decided to tell them.
I felt their love and acceptance that I am not forcing them to give. Even others say something bad about me, I keep in mind that I did it, not just for myself, but for my LGBTQI+ family.
God loves everyone equally.
Let Grace Be Total!
Just believe and be true to yourself.
I love you whatever you are! ❤️
You are cool! I often hear that many religious people don't accept LGBT+ but you as leader can change it) Stay strong, healthy and happy
So inspiring. I’m gay too and had my coming out in my channel. It is really hard to be someone you are not, I’ve been through the struggles, and it is really hard to be hidden. Be proud, and don’t mind what others are going to say. Be yourself.
"Jan is so cute."
My thought throughout the video😄😄😄
HE IS MY HUBBY AND I WILL EAT HIS DELICIOUS BETLOG! 😤
❤️🐷🇯🇵
Anu full name ni jan?
@@carlop.balderama5027 Jan Angelo
@@lifeless.sandwich thanknu po
YiSiR
*"It's letting people in." TRUE! IT SHOULD BE IT*
"its hard to get close to others if your not your real self".
Kaya wala akung friend, close friend or even best friend... 😭😭
Relate :(
Been there. But soon you’ll know whom to trust. It’s a gamble on if it went good congrats if not, then search for a right friend again.
Yeah, it's really difficult.
I am too in a place that I always have to keep my guards up or check myself first even na naka pag out na ako sa ibang friends ko.
and one thing that I found out is
having online friends really do help sometimes.
Hope you find one!
and don't give up there's a 🌈 after the rain,ikanga😊
Rel8 much, haysss... Kaya puro nlng cat at dog videos ang pinanonood ko hahaha (help lol)
Halp Me lol wag kang mag tangkang pumunta sa gay couples. Nakaka sampal ng realidad na single tayo. 😂
i am gay and too scared to come out, even after i watched this. But this made me gather confidence on coming out on the future ❤️
GSP and this video helped me gain courage come out to my family. Thank you for the things you said. I decided to come out because i felt distant to my family na. I've been trying so hard to limit my actions and I've been denying my sexuality and also desperately convincing myself that it was just a phase. Now, I am who I am and thankfully, my family accepted me. I feel free and no longer need to hide myself.
Before coming out, naiisip ko "Eto na ba talaga to? Sure na ako? Kaya ko na ba? Kaya ko na ba tumanggap ng rejections? Kaya ko na ba mahusgahan ng iba? Kaya ko na ba iaccept yung totoong ako? Kaya ko na ba maging masaya?". And after coming out, nothing but genuine love from my family ang nanaig. Thank you Lord!
If magkaanak ako , I will accept him/her kahit anonga sexuality pa nya , as long as wala syang tinatapakan na tao at di nya pino force yung Ibang tao sa panini wala nya *ehem Christianity* , respect nalang sa paniniwala ng ibA
I envy those who could live their lives being true to themselves. How I wish I could just come out as a bisexual be as easy as their coming out. Praying I could live long enough for me to come out as well, with fear and hesitation. 🖤
Always remember guys, just because we see or heard something that motivate us to come out doesn't we should take it. It takes time, and never make a decision that taken from your feeling. Pwede naman pero not in casual way, we can do this.
At the end of the day, we are all humans. Nothing is wrong with us. Live life. Love life. Happy Pride guys!
I can relate to Robi. At first I labeled myself as gay, but then I started having feelings to the opposite gender which is a girl at my age so I thought I was bisexual, but I didn't took it to the next level with that girl. Then I started having feelings towards a guy again. Later that time, I fell in love to a gay crossdresser. But then I realized na maybe I am pansexual. I'm in love with the personality of the person and I like the feelings that I have for him/her. Like it doesn't matter if you're a boy/girl/trans/bi/gay crossdresser, if I like you then I like you.
Imagine this is the first YT video na napanood ko si Jan Angelo and now he has a YT Channel and ang gaganda ng vids/contents nya. 2021 will be his year, trust me, he’s going to be one of the most (if not the most) skincare enthusiast in the Philippines!!! ❤️
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update: As of May 17, 2021 - 118k subscribers na siya 🥺
Sobrang saya ko dahil umamin na ako kay mama na, i'm bisexual at tanggap niya ako ng buong buo. At gets nya ang bisexual dahil pinaliwanag ko sa kanya!! ❤️
It takes time lang po talaga, kaya ung iba diyan na hirap mag come out, may time po para diyan!! Hehe. Matatanggap kayo ng magulang niyo dahil walang magulang ang kayang tiisin ang kaniyang anak!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Hello, I think this might help, as a closeted gay person, I think it's good if u create a content about closeted people's struggles, why they're closeted and what they feel, I really think it will help open up people's perspective on gays, and will be able to understand their struggles deeper. Thank you! And Happy Pride Month!
I hope that these people know how much courage they gave me to come to terms with my sexuality. This was one of the videos I watched when I started questioning myself, when I thought that maybe, liking someone of same gender is just a phase. But this video made me realize that a lot of people are actually have the same questions as me. This video made me realize that there is nothing wrong with how I feel, and I don't have to sorry to me, or to anyone for being who I am. Thank you for your words. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for the representation. You made me feel seen, heard, and valid. Just like them, I also wish for a world that people like me don't have to feel the need to come out anymore.
People around you always knew. They are just waiting for the confirmation. Its just awkward to talk about it with your family though thats just part of it.
Yap theyre just waiting for you to admit it specially your friends because they respect you so much
Hirap din kasi umamin specifically pag sa pamilya na 😪
the first person na sinabihan ko about my sexuality is my bestfriend
i was like "huy may sasabihin ako" and she's like "ano un"
me: i'm bi
her: alam ko
and i was like.... daaaaaamn .thankful.
Yes exactly, since im not very. Vocal to my fam, instead of telling them i show them who really i am.
@@mariefetaguas8070
wait paano niya
nalaman ang talino niya
30% comments: *shares experience about coming out, words of encouragement*
70% : ang cute nung isang guy. Ano name nya
Ps cute talaga HAHAH
JAN.. JAN KA LANG😎 READY NA AKO LOL
haha para sa mga straight girls: sorry, gay sya kaya para lang sya sa akin😍😍 ayiiieee! gay din kasi akow🤘
@@vinzlinardobnimaga7204 no he’s mine he’s my power bottom 😍😙
@@scomiche7618 what is power bottom?
May youtube channel siya jan angelo
The guy who came out in a speech at college was so brave! And I had a very similar experience to the red t-shirt guy, I actually cried when he was talking about it. Proud of and grateful for all these brave beautiful people sharing their stories x
Thank you Re create for this video.
Sa mismong araw na napanuod koto, lumabas ako sa closet ko at inamin ko sa parents ko na pansexual ako at may girlfriend akong tomboy. It was a peaceful/calm experience. Sana lahat ng parents ganito, kahit hindi sila open about LGBTQIA+ ay matanggap nila ng buo ang anak nila.
this is the kind of content that we deserve 🌈❤️
"It's hard to be close to others when you're not your real self" 5:09
This defined the first 24 years of my life. I kept praying and hoping I'll grow out of it so I can finally be rid of all the anxiety. I was so uncomfortable in my own skin that I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror. Kaya naniniwala ako na most LGBTQ teens have to go through twice as much pain in life because we have to deal with homophobia and coming out, on top of the regular hardships people go through.
Same struggle for 24 yrs now. Ang hirap mag out and to be our real self wihout hiding to everyone..😥
@@jvcvlogz4014 It's not about whether or not people are ready to know, it's whether you're finally ready to accept yourself and live your authentic life. Yung iba nga nasa 40s and 50s na bago pa sila nag out dahil sa takot na mahusgahan. So only come out when it's safe and when you're ready.
@@asbaran Woah! I didn't expect for a reply. Tama par, pero may point lang tlga ngayon na gusto ko nang mag out pero I know di pa ngayon yung time. I need to prove more lalo na sa pagging successful. Ewan ko pero ganun nmn tlga pag belong sa third sex. We need to prove to everyone na kahit Gay/Bis or ano pa.. We can compete or even surpass the straight ones. Pra matanggap tayo nang iba and also sa family natin. Cge lang darating din tayo diyan. Naka relate kasi ako sa comment mo..😄
@@jvcvlogz4014 Sorry if my earlier comment sounded abrasive ah. Ngayon ko lng napansin na mejo harsh pala ang ilang words pag naka sulat. Pero ang totoo, dumaan din ako sa puntong pakiramdam ko may kelangan akong patunayan: na dapat mas matalino, athletic, buffed etc. ako kesa sa mga "Straight" guys. Na dapat may pinanghahawakan akong katangian para masabi ko lang na kahit pa'no angat ako sa iba. Tipong "I may be gay but I'm buffed and athletic, so I matter."
Later ko lang na-realize na hidden insecurity pala yon dahil hinayaan ko na itanim ng ibang tao sa utak kong hindi nire-respeto sa lipunan ang mga lalaking malamya, feminine at higit sa lahat, nagkaka-gusto sa kapwa lalaki. Pero kinalaunan napagod din ako: sa pagpapangap at kaka-meet ng expectation ng ibang tao for me to act masculine. Having feelings for guys is not illegal nor immoral. Why would my feelings be inferior just because of what's between my legs? Why do I have to prove my worth?
Kung opinion lang din ng ibang tao ang batayan ng halaga ng isang tao, bakit hindi counted ang opinion ko sa sarili ko? I needed to believe I have worth, na wala akong dapat patunayan. I came out shortly after. It was then that I realized that I was being bullied because other people feel more important when they put other people down. Insecure people can't stand others who know their worth because it reminds them of their inability to see theirs. Pang tanggap mo kasi ang sarili mo, kaya mo'ng harapin lahat. That was 10 years ago and I never regretted it.
@@asbaran It's nice to know, you already came out. What a brave action man. I salute you for that.
Yeah! Nothing's wrong for us. Naniniwala din ako diyan and I always put in my mind that, God do not commit mistakes and God made us. So we are not a mistake but the society. Good for you that you'd realized it was a hidden insecurities. And na conquer mo na siya. Thank you for the words of encouragement bro. You made me beIieve that I can do it. Because I know someday makakapag out din ako. Not now but someday I will..😩❤💪
My ate and kuya is both in LGBTQ+ and I noticed, before my parents are okay with my ate being gay, but when my kuya came out my parents doesn't agree (but respect his decision) and they always told kuya that 'pag-peperahan ka lang ng lalaki'.
And the biggest plot twist is I'm also a Pansexual, and I want to tell my siblings this so they can give me advice but I can't tell my family cuz they expect me to be heterosexual.
I felt that peer pressure, lalo na sa mga friends and cousins ko who kept on asking if I have a girlfriend. I tried but I felt like I was not living my true self, that I wasn't really happy. I didn't realize that until now, for 15 years I stayed in the closet, refusing to act on those feelings for fear of being criticized by society. I just realized that na buhay ko ito, hindi buhay nila.
I've never felt so happy living my life as a bisexual man.
Who is the cute guy that said he's a Gay AF? Plssss 😍😍
AKIN LANG SIYA......TUMIGIL KA JAN CASSIE
Kung akala niyo sa inyo lang pwes nagkakamali kayo HAHAHA
Hahah
EHEEEEMMMM NANDITO YUNG ASAWA NIYAAAAA
ANG ORIGINAL😂😂😂
Mga Gaga lalaki ang gusto niyan!! wag na kau mag away! hahaha
Destiny has brought me here. Idk I was just looking for something to watch and this came out. This video changed my life 360 degree. Thank you guys!!! ❤️
Jan, I just felt your sincerity during the interview. Nakakainlove yung truths that you mentioned about letting people in. ❤️❤️❤️
So much love for all these strong people. I told myself before I would never come out and here I am celebrating my first anniversary with my girlfriend next month.
"it's hard to be close to others when you're not your real self"
I felt that 😢
So brave and so proud of this people. Bravo.
I’m very lucky to have all of my friends who I met in online class and also *LAHAT KAMI BAKLA* pero both of them are girls and I love them superrrrrr ❤️
I always come back to this video to give myself courage. My dad just died and I wished I could've came out to him. I kept crying during his funeral but my mom told me that he actually knew, because apparently I came out to my mom one time when I was drunk and he was eavesdropping. He was very homophobic which is why I couldn't bring myself to tell him the truth, I wished he talked to me about it if he knew or that I talked to him even if it meant him disowning me, rather than having this feeling of confusion whether it was okay for him or not. Anyway, I'm starting to accept myself and slowly coming out of my closet despite the lack of closure with my deceased father. It feels so much better outside of the closet. Yun lang, thank you for reading and I wish you all the hapiness in the world. Also, jowain nyo nga ako hahaha
Thank you for this vid. Thank UA-cam for placing this on my recommendation. I'm still doubting myself and I fear of coming out esp to my family. Huge Respect to people who actually took life's challenges despite how hard it's gonna be, like pano yon?
THANK YOU SO MUCH, I feel like someone can understand me and Hugging me right now 😭💕💞
Coming out story ko. I was thirteen and I was discovering feelings that was new to me. Yung feeling na di ka sure kasi nagkakagusto ka sa guys tapos wala pa masyado visibility nun about LGBTQ+, if meron man madalas joke for straight people o yung mga tita gays. Fifteen I was drinking with my friends and by that time sobrang confused pa ko and the word "bakla" was used as a deregatory term, golden boy pa ko sa community namin tas pinepair ako sa mga ka age ko na girls. Long story short, I got drunk and I cried to my dad and came out to him. My purpose wasn't really to come out pero para di niya ko pagalitan na lasing ako hahaha so yung galit niya na lasing ako turned into softness and for a very long time I felt loved. Siguro swerte ako sa family ko pero may mga tao pa din na nagsabi ng masasakit na bagay yung iba sakanila mga kamaganak ko pa narinig. Now, I realized I'm not just into guys. I'm into people regardless of gender. Ang weird sa feeling na some gays finds my preference weird and some people still label me "gay pero nagkukunwari lang na nagkakagusto sa di lalaki" . Wala na ko pake sakanila actually basta alam ko sa sarili ko who I like and who makes me feel things and give me butterflies. Anyway, if binasa mo to thanks and let's find ways to support people in our community not shun them because iba sila sayo. HIV/AIDS Awareness is something prevalent sa community natin at hate crimes like transphobia and homophobia. So let's all help each other and educate the world we ain't that different and we just want to love who we want and not have our rights taken from us. Thank you for reading my Ted talk at pag naabutan mo to tara momol tayo hahahaha
When i came out to my mom, she didn’t speak, but just hugged me. All love.
It's not called people coming out but people coming in. I really like that.
"You're not obligated to come out to everyone." Hits me hard.
I felt the same with these people, takes courage and peace and acceptance. I believe my family and relatives knew it since Im a kid kase I dressed up and pageant walk when I was still in Kindergarten but telling them personally is still hard. ✨👍
It's not coming out it's letting other people come in to your life. This one is true you will be happier if you do.
It's really hard to come out because of the reaction that you might see in everyone's faces the comments and the rejection but if you conquered the fear you'll know it's fun. I had this experience i wanted to share that I will never ever forget. This happened this year in our team building with my co worker. Everyone is curious what I am so when team building came and they had this chance to ask me if I am gay then I answered them what you see is what you get with with a smile in my face. What I like about it is they accepted me and we get closer after that.
Now I am happy. I know not everyone can accept who we are but remember you don't have to please everyone. As long as your happy and you're not hurting anybody then you're okay.
This channel deserves millions of views and subs. I'm happy YT recommended this vid. Keep it up!!
"It's hard to be close to others when you're not your real self." - THIS!
😍 ♥ to those brave enough to accept their true/real self. Congrats god bless us all and happy pride month 🌈
Thank you
I like the guy wearing red jacket saying letting people in not you coming out. 😍 hugs
Jan is super cute. Definitely a bf look.
Gaga ka akin un hahaha
I remember a scene from the Love, Simon movie, wherein they talked about why do gay people have to come out whereas those that are straight don't need to. That hit me hard because it is true. In this society, gay people ALWAYS have to explain themselves, but they don't have to. And I like what Jan said, "I call it letting people in."
how i wish i have the courage to come out to my family... they obviously know that im gay but they keep telling me to not act girly, not to act too soft... the most painful moment that I've experienced was hearing my grandma saying "you're dad is in military and yet you're gay... what will the others say"
one day if i can sustain my self and have a nice job, i will go somewhere where i feel accepted.
I dont know if I had this "coming out" moment. My friends knew me from who I am and with my parents we never had this "talk" its just that people around me always knew it. No one ask about it. Parang they just go with the flow. Maybe for them as long as wala akong ginagawang masama go. Im just happy that I have this understanding family.
Maybe you're too obvious to come out pa, parehas sa case ko bata palang malambot na we never had that talk coz they already knew na bata palang ganun na ako and they understand ,in their case baka discreet cla Kaya Di halata and they really have to say something about who they are..
Congrats guys di naman kayo nag-iisa sa mundong ito. I am a college professor and I'm a proud man myself. As a gay person, I'm happy na nirerespeto ako sa pagka tao ko. At hapi ako kasi may lalakeng nagmamahal sa akin. Keber!
Thank you for making this kind of content! Hi! I'm a 23 years old gal and still figuring out my sexuality, and I would really love to hear coming out stories and make friends🌈😊🌹
Grabe sobrang hirap umamin. Pagnaaalala ko, naiiyak ako. Umamis ako before ko pormal na ligawan yung taong mahal ko. Best thing na ginawa ko. Finally, nakahinga ako ng maluwang. I dont have to pretend and deny anymore. Thank you mama and papa letting Joanna be part of our family. Lord Jesus, Thank you for this life. You are the amazing God.
Grabe yung "I know naman" .. hit me like a sucker punch. I'm not out to my family. I am though, to my closest friends. Like what the beautiful people in the video said, I don't really feel obligated to come out not even to some of my siblings. Pero there's that thought at the back of my head, na maybe they already know. Obvious naman eh (never had a boyfriend, masculine vibe, and tomboy hobbies lol) but siyempre I can only imagine how it feels to be truly accepted and loved, and not hiding anything. Sometimes I wish I can easily tell them, pero I'd rather wait for them to ask kasi I also know that it's not something easy to accept especially coming from a conservative Catholic background.
This channel is like Cut but Filipino. I like it
Same thought! :)
My parents love me and I'm pretty sure they know I'm gay, di ako mag laladlad because i don't care what people thinks and d ko need opinion nila at d ko kailangan mag explain
Thanks for sharing this! And oo, hirap i-explain yung pagiging pansexual. Pero yeah, sobrang weird nung pg come out ko rin. Sa buong angkan, actually. Ppunta na kasi ako sa UAE non, so last week ko sa Phil. Then gathered na sila sa sala. Each has their own message para saken about my journey sa pag aabroad or ganito ganyan about food and self. Then ayun na, humingi na sila ng “speech” ko.
Yung mom ko, umiyak (though alam na nya). Yung daddy ko naka-smile and niyakap ako, habang yung brother ko rin nakipag high-five. Lahat ng pinsan kong bata pa naka- smile, and mga tita ko naluha pero luhang relieved na saken nanggaling yun. Halata naman, really. And you know now, kung saan ko nakuha yung confidence ko kung papano iexplain kung sino ako and kung ano ako lalo na ngayon, na nakikipag sapalaran ako sa iba’t ibang klaseng tao.
I can never be anybody else, but my true self. Much love, people. :)
I remember totally coming out last year on my gender preference. It wasn't easy. Imagine a 27 year old bisexual coming out. I am thankful having supportive family and friends. There were times of self-denial than self acceptance. I think, this vid must watch by those who are still in the closet, this might help them out. Kudos to those who made it
I can relate to Jan, I came out with the dramatic monologue I composed.
I’m gay and for me, I don’t feel like the need to come out. Like I know straight is the default but they don’t come out, so why do we? I only wanna come out to people that I actually and need to come out to e.g family and closest friends. That’s my point of view 🤷🏻♂️
Yes, same thoughts po. I have always thought that coming out isn't actually necessary since why come out when a lot of people feel that you are one. I also think I'll just bring a boyfriend home and just ma,pa my boyfriend and fuck it hahaha
Im here nanaman, Idol talaga yung "It was more of letting people in" ni Jan uwu
I'm a closet gay until now. I also have a boyfriend which is also a closet gay, alam mo yung feeling na akala ng ibang tao Bestfriends lang kayo pero deep inside mahal na mahal niyo pala yung isat isa. Ang hirap ng sitwasyon namin, yung gusto namin maging sweet in public pero di namin magawa kasi may mga matang nakamasid😢 Ilan beses nakong nakipag break sa kanya kasi hirap na hirap nako pero he keeps on coming back, mahal nya ko and mahal ko rin sya, di ko na alam kng saan hahantong tong relasyon namin. Both kaming nahihirapan mag confess sa family and friends namin coz we're both the bread winner in the family, lahat ng family namin umaasa sa amin and we don't want to disappoint them, lalong lalo na sa family ko na sobrang homophobic 😔
Cguro sken experience ko ang pinaka complicado 😂 that time takot pa ako umamin sa family ko nagtanan kami NG jowa ko . Napaka selfish act actually . Nag alala parents ko . UNG boyfriend ko kc until now kami pa is independent na . 20 ako nun sya ay 25 . Nag aaral pa ako nun so sobrang gulo UNG ginawa ko . Di ako nagpakita sa parents ko ng 2 taon . Nag stop ako Sa pag aaral at nag start mag work . Pero now nakauwi na ako samin . Tinanggap ako ng family ko . Plus until now kami padin NG boyfriend ko 3 years and 6 months na pla kami 😍
This channel is breaking stigma from everything and I couldn’t stan enough! ❤️
This video is really nice. One thing I also want to say as a gay teen who got accidentally outed by my friends last month is to make sure you choose the right people you come out with. Safety must always be an important factor us queer people should be taking in consideration because we never knew who could be the people that could break our trust.
thank you. this is what i need
Okay! Can I just saaaay. This is only the second video that I've seen from your channel (last night a friend showed me the straightxtransgender video) and I gotta say i am livinggg for your content. Thank you for making these. More power to your team! 💋
thanks for the messages. it's hard to live in an environment at home full of negativity and hate. i think of coming out to my family but then i remember they're homophobic. i also have to plan out my life before coming out to them but with their words i guess i wouldn't come out. me coming out to my friends is enough and them knowing my true personality is enough. I LOVE EVERYONE AND I ALSO HOPE FOR A FUTURE WHEREIN WE DON'T NEED TO COME OUT!
Its really hard to come out specially kung alam mong maraming tao na huhusga sayo at alam mong maraming humahanga sayo tas one day malalaman nalang nila na gay , bi or lesbian ka . at isa din sa mga reason kung bakit yung iba ayaw mag out ee dahil na tatakot sila na baka pag ginawa nila yung pag amin yung mga taong close sakanila yung mga nagmamahal sakanila ay biglang lumayo , natatakot na baka di agad matanggap ng iba .ito yung mindset kaagad ng taong gustong mag out pero natatakot .nakakasad lang na isipin😢
Sana all nakakapag out !
Hit like kung isa ka sa mga to !
I didn't have this coming out thing because it has never been a secret to my family and other people as well that i'm gay and they accept me and are proud of me.
Exactly the same thing to me. My family already knew and openly talked to people about me being gay, in a good way.
"I don't like calling it coming out, I like to call it letting people in."
"Youre not obligated to come out to everyone."
Yeah, ganun ako. I just do what I want but I dont know what to say if they questioned my sexuality.
watching this because my 12 year old cousin just came out to me and I didn't know how to react since siya palang kakilala kong lgbt member, this video really helped me a lot to understand where he's coming from. thank you.
am i the only one who didn't come out? i mean, i don't need to. my parents stop asking if i have a gf after i started college. it's like they dont care but i know they love me. it just happens that we dont talk about my sexuality and im comfortable with it. or maybe takot lang sila sakin AHAHAHA
I’m still not coming out yet and that makes me feel lock in a cell where i cant freely do and be true to myself😭
So yun, last month i came out to my parent. And now, i'm free to express my feeling without hesitation and fear. I am out in my shell na. And gladly, during that time my papa didn't get mad at me nor he just cried and said: "nakkung(anak), kahit ganyan ka. Supportado kita. Pasensya na sa minsan na nasasabi ko. Basta tandaanan mo, mahal kita"
And i was wonderstruck during that time, kasi ang alam ko is that he will be mad at me. Kasi religious family kami. And you know that na bawal i-disobey yung words sa Bible.
What i've realized is, if God forgave those sinners, prostitutes and murderers. We deserved that too.
And besides, during Jesus' time he didn't discrimanate gays noon. It's just about acceptance kay God and sa sarili mo.
I have been binge watching Rec.Create videos. Just amazing. Keep on creating these kind of content. It was worth every minute.
Thank you so much! 💖
I am so thankful for these videos 💕🏳️🌈😭
Haha funny how Jan and I had a similar way of "coming out", done it during my class in college, where the prof asked us to tell something about our selves and what's unique about us/me. So, when it was time na to introduce myself and tell the whole class what's unique about me, I said I once loved a girlfriend... but got loved by a boyfriend. 😂 then boom! Everyone in class became koko Crunch!
Nakaka Proud. We need more videos like this. To help younger LGBT that they're not alone and to help them identify who they are in the community.
Coming out was easy for me at a young age I knew that I am gay but Im on the stage of denial to the point na nag girlfriend ko hahaha. But as times goes by I was able to open up little by little about myself as a gay and then there you go. It's not an issue anymore even my family wholeheartedly accepted me without a doubt. Yay! ❤😍
Jan Angelo (@ongiel)is in that commercial about bestfriends in FB. Forgot the product though.
Ung globe telecom ata yun haha
fb name??
@@rickyzapantacadelina314 @ongniel ung IG nya .. i dunno his fb accnt
Bakit di ko sya nahanap sa IG?
May UA-cam video ba yung Best Friends commercial ni Jan?