Woman Says She Feels Offended When Men Ask Her To Drink Dates

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  • Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
  • A woman has every right to say what she will or will not accept from a man. But men also have the right to vet the women they date. Coffee or drink dates help the man vet the woman and prevent him from financial loss. What if he doesn't like her or vice versa? It's better to be out of a coffee than $200 on a dinner date.
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  • @thesuperdingos
    @thesuperdingos 20 днів тому +189

    Why waste 300 bucks on a dinner on a stranger?

    • @DominantBlackMaleLeader
      @DominantBlackMaleLeader 20 днів тому +22

      Because Keisha told you to….🤷🏾‍♂️😂

    • @marshaeperry8616
      @marshaeperry8616 20 днів тому +6

      ​@@DominantBlackMaleLeader😂😂😂😂😂

    • @criticalthinker907
      @criticalthinker907 20 днів тому +13

      When you can invest that $300 in cryptocurrency

    • @joemomma3208
      @joemomma3208 20 днів тому +21

      if you spend 300$ on food that’s not for your house you are as smart as driving blindfolded in rush hour traffic!

    • @Yopyop1982
      @Yopyop1982 20 днів тому +10

      Facts this woman crazy

  • @Cutthroatrah
    @Cutthroatrah 20 днів тому +133

    And I feel offended when they ask me to do more than the last guy.

    • @MyNameIsUnavailable
      @MyNameIsUnavailable 20 днів тому +11

      Bingo 😂

    • @bossplayermfs5972
      @bossplayermfs5972 20 днів тому +7

      Exactly.

    • @Seanda589
      @Seanda589 20 днів тому +5

      So true!

    • @iceman_2360
      @iceman_2360 20 днів тому +9

      Exactly, more times than not they'll have kids by a man that would take them to 7/11 at best then be expecting the new man to buy the damn store.

    • @user-pk6pt2pr8b
      @user-pk6pt2pr8b 19 днів тому +2

      Real talk

  • @JBoomer-pi6ml
    @JBoomer-pi6ml 20 днів тому +109

    She's confused about dating. The date is an opportunity to get to know the other person. Silly girl.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 19 днів тому +2

      Go ahead, keep thinking she is an innocent "silly girl".

    • @CarlMoore79
      @CarlMoore79 17 днів тому +2

      They don't give a damn!

  • @jeanmicheljr.9122
    @jeanmicheljr.9122 20 днів тому +90

    Always remember guys, her rules are for the men she's not immediately physically attracted to. The guys she really wants don't have to do anything but show up.

  • @mizzmee1976
    @mizzmee1976 20 днів тому +89

    So its ok to drink alcohol at the “dinner date” but not on a “drink date”🤔She made absolutely no sense.

    • @tooneov
      @tooneov 20 днів тому +8

      Note she also said coffee, etc doesn't count either. User, waste of time.

    • @Themusicalhealer
      @Themusicalhealer 20 днів тому +6

      If she order alchool at the dinner, she paying, only food 😂

    • @htmlemaildeveloper6013
      @htmlemaildeveloper6013 20 днів тому

      I caught that too lol

    • @vr4892
      @vr4892 17 днів тому

      I thought the same

  • @rastahill748
    @rastahill748 20 днів тому +88

    I HOPE NOBODY ASKS HER FOR DATES ANYMORE

    • @JBoomer-pi6ml
      @JBoomer-pi6ml 20 днів тому +9

      Yes!

    • @Rambo-vr7gi
      @Rambo-vr7gi 19 днів тому +4

      I said the same thing just don't ask her to do anything ask her friends

    • @wensj8
      @wensj8 18 днів тому

      😅😅😅😅

    • @CarlMoore79
      @CarlMoore79 17 днів тому

      Why don't you guys just stop being played altogether!

    • @JBoomer-pi6ml
      @JBoomer-pi6ml 17 днів тому

      @@CarlMoore79 Many young men have no male mentorship. They grow up without good examples and proper guidance. As a mentor I see it often.

  • @estebanleon5826
    @estebanleon5826 20 днів тому +35

    Why invest so much when they’re not virgins? No thanks.

  • @user-vd8oc1it2h
    @user-vd8oc1it2h 20 днів тому +102

    Block her. She's not worthy. There are nonalcoholic beverages. Coffee. She can pay for the dinner date.

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 20 днів тому +8

      Golddiggers often have a roster. Eating mutliple meals a week on someone elses dime. Its not "low effort" or "bare minimum". It is him not allowing her to exploit him.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 17 днів тому +2

      These crumb snatchers are ridiculous.

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 23 дні тому +91

    🙄👎🚫🤦‍♂️ that man wasn't trying to get you drunk. He was trying to protect himself

  • @joemomma3208
    @joemomma3208 20 днів тому +59

    She would probably feel offended if no one asked her out on any type of date too! Can’t win for losing with her!

  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 20 днів тому +42

    She better take what she can get. Nobody ain’t spending 100 bucks + on a rando

  • @etuitivemillionaire
    @etuitivemillionaire 20 днів тому +37

    Sounds to me like he dodged a headache.

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 20 днів тому +4

      More like "AN ANEURYSM!!"

  • @raytheking2504
    @raytheking2504 20 днів тому +36

    Tell her you're not interested anymore and then move on. No more free dates. No more free attention. Drizzle Drizzle.

  • @PepeToTheMooon
    @PepeToTheMooon 20 днів тому +31

    She only deserves the value she brings to the dude

  • @samuelknight886
    @samuelknight886 20 днів тому +29

    She is offended when a man ask her out for a drink date. She offended when a high value man rejects her. She probably is offended when a man that she doesn’t see as handsome approaches her. She is even offended when Pookie, RayRay, and Tyrone leave her as single mother. She offended when she see a well dressed,educated, intelligent, established African American Man, with a non-black woman. I believe I have covered the topic as it is.

    • @wayneblack4085
      @wayneblack4085 19 днів тому

      I need a women to be lighter than that for a dinner date. That probably offends her too 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @GodSon-1980
    @GodSon-1980 20 днів тому +51

    This man is smart, A woman should earn her value before she gets dinner dates.

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 20 днів тому

      INDEED AND AGREED 👍💯

    • @tarrius1210
      @tarrius1210 19 днів тому +2

      Yesss, I’m glad the fellas are awake. I feel like a proud unc watchin’ my nephew’s graduate 🎈🥲

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 19 днів тому

      EXACTLY 💯

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 19 днів тому

      Don't hold your breath on that one.

  • @daishawilliams8301
    @daishawilliams8301 20 днів тому +16

    I was just grateful for my hubby to ask me out on a date.😊

  • @MyNameIsUnavailable
    @MyNameIsUnavailable 20 днів тому +30

    I got played *ONE TIME* on a date financially, but thankfully it was peaceful and only cost me $74 total. Over 10 years ago, and _BOY OH BOY_ did I dodge a bullet and *OUR LIVES TURNED OUT COMPLETELY DIFFERENT.*

    • @TDOTSE1
      @TDOTSE1 20 днів тому +8

      LOL you gotta elaborate man you can't leave us like that 😂😂

  • @phill5917
    @phill5917 19 днів тому +11

    She probably wanted a foodie call...... I'm glad dudes are waking up.

  • @Nightrain349
    @Nightrain349 20 днів тому +37

    I know a Brad who was dating a so called sister bragging about how he bought her some salty fries with nothing to drank and had it all night long. But a brother got to break his bank account and still get nothing.

    • @joybrooks564
      @joybrooks564 20 днів тому

      That woman has low self esteem

    • @ellechim-wd6yt
      @ellechim-wd6yt 15 днів тому

      Do you really believe he had her all night long, this is a Brad your talking about.

    • @Nightrain349
      @Nightrain349 15 днів тому

      @@ellechim-wd6yt Hell yeah. She got a kid by that Brad. And word has it she two more kids by two other Brad's.

  • @backonurporpose
    @backonurporpose 20 днів тому +18

    if she's truly interested in you she'll come with a picnic basket with $5 worth of food in the middle of nowhere, these same women will be sharing your leftovers with pookie later on that night and he get it for free🤔

  • @Itsnotmenfault
    @Itsnotmenfault 20 днів тому +19

    The simps mess up trying to find a good woman

  • @Xprezzionsable
    @Xprezzionsable 20 днів тому +12

    It's annoying listening to anything that have to say at this point they just complain..

  • @christophersterling6788
    @christophersterling6788 20 днів тому +9

    😂😂😂😂😂 gentlemen, don't deal with buffoonery 😂😂😂😂

  • @hybridPeople358
    @hybridPeople358 20 днів тому +8

    She want a $400 dinner with leftovers for tomorrow.

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 23 дні тому +16

    Hey sista, there's levels to this dating game 😒🤷‍♂️💯. Dinners 🍽 and other things come later if/when it goes to the next step

  • @Chrisdocc
    @Chrisdocc 20 днів тому +7

    She just wanna see what she can get out of a man

  • @ZuraiLion
    @ZuraiLion 20 днів тому +11

    I'm glad she saves mens time cas nobody got time to be bossed around and made to feel small just to please an unlikable stranger 😂

  • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
    @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 19 днів тому +4

    The guy clapping her cheeks takes her on no dates.

  • @brownpapi2634
    @brownpapi2634 19 днів тому +4

    If a person tries hard enough they can feel offended by EVERYTHING. Get ya passports fellas!

  • @bryanoliver1596
    @bryanoliver1596 20 днів тому +11

    If she don’t fine you attractive she makes rules…. So just take the clue and move on gentlemen. Trust me she breaks all rules for men she find attractive.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 20 днів тому +6

      But what happens when all the makeup and weave eventually comes off for the men she find attractive?

    • @jayw4525
      @jayw4525 20 днів тому

      @@blackworldtraveler3711💯!

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 19 днів тому

      Agreed 💯

    • @slinkiegirl2001
      @slinkiegirl2001 19 днів тому +2

      as a woman i seen it with women that i know, a man they do not particular fancy has to do the max just to get a kiss from her, but the man that they like he only has to show up with empty pockets, and they are over the moon and they go off together in her car

  • @goodfellatv313
    @goodfellatv313 20 днів тому +21

    She got a Netflix & Chill Face 😅

  • @jahkarimirza7286
    @jahkarimirza7286 20 днів тому +5

    The whole point of the date is to get to know each other not for the man to get you expensive food. That will happen over time if you prove you are worthy of that level of jester. A man should always start out small and slowly raise it up a notch if you've become official. There are levels to this. Women who talk like this are a red flag.

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 19 днів тому +1

      Bruh I have been saying this for yeeeaaarrrsssss... im glad men are finally catching on.. it's the only way to curve this entitlement that they have

  • @jenniferlowe816
    @jenniferlowe816 20 днів тому +7

    Girl please 🤦🏾

    • @lovefood4eva1983
      @lovefood4eva1983 20 днів тому

      I know right. Women like her are just posting videos just to complain about nothing. Women like her just plain miserable, nothing a man can do will make her happy.

  • @wtfsamusidk7574
    @wtfsamusidk7574 20 днів тому +15

    Stay single fellas 😂

  • @301cameosis
    @301cameosis 20 днів тому +16

    She's just hungry....😂😂

  • @theerealatm
    @theerealatm 19 днів тому +3

    They think a man boring if he don't drink or smoke tho...

  • @davidford3073
    @davidford3073 20 днів тому +7

    She has standard,5 years later still has standards 😊

    • @slinkiegirl2001
      @slinkiegirl2001 19 днів тому +1

      they have all these standards when they have been run through and have a bunch of pookies kids, check out the kendra G show full of baby mamas looking for a provider

  • @PessimistPirate
    @PessimistPirate 20 днів тому +6

    An energy vampire. Not worth it.

  • @mcjrocker
    @mcjrocker 20 днів тому +6

    Wild because a woman will go out for STRICTLY drinks with a group of 12 women every weekend and get drunk with them and call pookie over to come dig her out 😆😆 so what’s the difference

  • @nothingbutfacts1676
    @nothingbutfacts1676 20 днів тому +6

    Women will only say no to drink dates to men they have a low interest in. However, If a woman has genuine high interest no dates are really required.

  • @contextmatters8243
    @contextmatters8243 20 днів тому +4

    So..the moral of the story is:
    Modern western women want to enforce THEIR preferences but ignore those of me..
    All goes for equality...😳

  • @Themusicalhealer
    @Themusicalhealer 20 днів тому +4

    Alot of women go on dates to try new restaurants and food on your dime. Men pay for women foodie experience 😭

  • @jjmcg9184
    @jjmcg9184 18 днів тому +2

    I was talking to a chick about a year ago on an app that shall remain nameless. Everything was going pretty good so i told her lets hit up applebees. She said something along the lines of "nah im good i dont do applebees" & blocked me immediately. That heifer did me a favor in hindsight.

  • @willmallory9085
    @willmallory9085 18 днів тому +3

    Fellas: How many of you would like to see a woman WITHOUT make up...if you're taking her serious?

  • @joimonae4090
    @joimonae4090 20 днів тому +7

    There is nothing wrong with a drink date omg I think it honestly benefits both parties

  • @quinndeskimo4132
    @quinndeskimo4132 20 днів тому +45

    If a white man was interested in her and suggested a drink date, she would jump at the chance. She would accept any type of date that he offered her.

    • @vergespierre4271
      @vergespierre4271 20 днів тому +9

      Exactly 💯 smh 😅

    • @user-co3sj9qn4h
      @user-co3sj9qn4h 20 днів тому +5

      Fr

    • @mattiaslp9645
      @mattiaslp9645 20 днів тому +1

      i mean we can say the same about how you dudes simp for white women.

    • @jahkarimirza7286
      @jahkarimirza7286 20 днів тому +6

      That is why brothers have to draw the line with Keisha and her disrespect.

    • @xunknown6073
      @xunknown6073 19 днів тому

      I try to tell FBA men this all the time. This bs is specifically for you. Not for zaddy or immigrants which confirms that the majority of ABW are the opps

  • @Mae-ig5ez
    @Mae-ig5ez 20 днів тому +4

    It's really disgusting to see how people treat one another these days. It's like people don't have common sense nor do they know how to respect each other. I'm so glad I didn't grow up in today's society. It's much worse now than ever. Everyone wants to take yet nobody wants to give, share or compromise in a sensible manner. People are like spoiled babies. Selfish, prideful and Godless.

  • @hareemobduljawon
    @hareemobduljawon 20 днів тому +2

    I'll get offended if a woman ask me to buy her a drink.

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 19 днів тому

      Facts 💯 they are not even entitled to a free drink, but got the NERVE to think that they should be treated to dinner when you barely know them

  • @mireederrick1977
    @mireederrick1977 20 днів тому +6

    Modern Western Women 😂😂😂

  • @LisaS483
    @LisaS483 20 днів тому +2

    She sounds like she doesn’t drink at all.

    • @LisaS483
      @LisaS483 20 днів тому +1

      Baileys is delicious!

  • @jp-uno
    @jp-uno 20 днів тому +2

    For those dating I believe that coffee dates are a great introduction meetup. Low cost, low risk and coffee shops usually have a great ambiance. You cant drink as much without risking intoxication while most importantly, getting to know the person.

  • @hundreds2696
    @hundreds2696 20 днів тому +6

    I like hearing this at least it gives guys a chance to not deal with Bw and skip them, unlike before guys wasting time

    • @viviennebaptiste
      @viviennebaptiste 20 днів тому

      But if bw deal with other races it's wrong? 🤔

  • @cecilfletcher4404
    @cecilfletcher4404 20 днів тому +9

    She doesn't do coffee/drink dates and I don't date birds that have so much makeup up on that it looks like they're wearing a disguise 🥸.
    These 🐦 be auditioning for the role of the Batman villain Clay face!

  • @chrislegend382
    @chrislegend382 19 днів тому +2

    So in other words she’s the type to say that effort=money, right and once a guy drops the bag on her and gets the cookie and ghost her, she probably gonna say he showed low effort

  • @oldschool8983
    @oldschool8983 19 днів тому +2

    I say, go on ahead with the dinner date. And if she calls herself trying to break my wallet I'll just simply go to the bathroom and leave.

  • @P.90.603
    @P.90.603 20 днів тому +2

    Because most women nowadays are going out with men for free meals. You weed those women out by going on simple dates.

  • @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
    @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 20 днів тому +5

    I don't throw pearls before swine and I don't fatten frogs for snakes.
    So when a female tells me I don't have any balls then I will tell her she only says that because she is very experienced in draining balls!!! LoL 😂😂😂

  • @kevinjohnson3066
    @kevinjohnson3066 18 днів тому +2

    Yeah they complain about applebees and cheescake factory but everytime you see them they pulling up at McDonalds

  • @ForReal1962
    @ForReal1962 20 днів тому +2

    I don't drink. Some people have health issues .😮

  • @gmongrel
    @gmongrel 19 днів тому +2

    If you're hungry just say that!!!!😅😅😅

  • @teflon100
    @teflon100 19 днів тому +1

    Take yourself to dinner. It's a million of you

  • @burgundyskinned
    @burgundyskinned 20 днів тому +2

    She lucky she even get that😂

  • @mikehill584
    @mikehill584 20 днів тому +3

    A "Drink Date" is to see if there is any chemistry between the two persons. To check out the other's character. Why is this such a foreign concept for W.

  • @antoineragins5035
    @antoineragins5035 19 днів тому

    Exactly they “want” something they don’t want to meet and get to know you

  • @PassportPapito-g2g
    @PassportPapito-g2g 19 днів тому +1

    Another Jezebel. Run fellas run.

  • @Jerizon1481
    @Jerizon1481 19 днів тому

    That’s why the commercial says DRINK RESPONSIBILITY

  • @danjjice
    @danjjice 19 днів тому +2

    It always the BLACK BUNNY DOING THE MOST. 😐

  • @lamonthardy6411
    @lamonthardy6411 20 днів тому +2

    Says a lot about her character.

  • @TheBlackRickGrimes
    @TheBlackRickGrimes 20 днів тому +2

    Block…no online dating for me so sorry!

  • @michaelwilson939
    @michaelwilson939 18 днів тому +2

    She wanted a free meal😂

    • @Gigga101
      @Gigga101 18 днів тому

      They be starving 😂😂

  • @backonurporpose
    @backonurporpose 20 днів тому +2

    keep these videos coming sisters y'all literally just empowering men and got us thinking like never again. thanks🤨

  • @Tryingtomakeitmakesense
    @Tryingtomakeitmakesense 19 днів тому

    I learned my lesson the hard way with this one. Never again.

  • @tooneov
    @tooneov 20 днів тому +3

    Question: dinner date means what? Chipotle is dinner.
    I only do dinner dates = im a user and a waste of your time.

  • @ahkielbey2157
    @ahkielbey2157 15 днів тому

    If she has an issue with a coffee or tea date, let her eliminate herself and block you. Alot of these new women are scammers.

  • @kleard2
    @kleard2 19 днів тому +1

    If the woman is truly interested in the guy she will go on a drink date.

    • @jidec3165
      @jidec3165 19 днів тому +3

      She will go on a walk with him at a public place 😂

  • @CarlMoore79
    @CarlMoore79 17 днів тому +1

    Fellas stop interacting with them altogether until you can get out of here!!

  • @js43168
    @js43168 20 днів тому +1

    Oh she does dinner dates? Cool. Let me know when dinner is done and I'll be right over 😆

  • @kellykell8439
    @kellykell8439 14 днів тому +1

    Small dates are okay to see if you want to make it official. If you make it official, then you can ask for better dates.

  • @davidford3073
    @davidford3073 20 днів тому +2

    She told you UP front what she about….wait what if you get into an argument….😮……her “box” might be nice , but anti exclusivity

  • @andre1987eph
    @andre1987eph 19 днів тому +2

    Why do men even bother with dates anymore? Weve been sharing notes with each other for a decade so we already know what Western women are like. And you should have planned accordingly.

    • @jjmcg9184
      @jjmcg9184 19 днів тому +1

      Exactly. If a woman isnt attracted to you without opening ur wallet then keep it pushing.

  • @TheEsquireOfSports
    @TheEsquireOfSports 16 днів тому

    That's OK, there will come a time when NO ONE will ask her out, and she will still be offended.

  • @livelaughlove2366
    @livelaughlove2366 19 днів тому +2

    She's a 6 at best with make up..

  • @ericboswell8863
    @ericboswell8863 18 днів тому

    smh...I'm so glad I don't have to deal with this FOOLISHINESS..See Ya..🤣

  • @blackhawk6615
    @blackhawk6615 20 днів тому +2

    Foody date days are over bishes!!😅😅

  • @uriyahrobinson7704
    @uriyahrobinson7704 19 днів тому +1

    …she running game all day and then try to frame it under the gaslight of a dude trying to get her drunk just to try to guilt trip a dude into buying her a dinner. If a chick really feeling a dude, she would be cool with going anywhere as long as she’s genuinely interested. These pretty broke chicks got nerves lol

  • @TheMegatron673
    @TheMegatron673 17 днів тому

    If you go on a dinner date, 9 times out of 10 they wallets are dry as hell. 😂

  • @Jariece
    @Jariece 20 днів тому +7

    That’s the same chic who said “ why do men only see her as a fun girl “ she’s just got on darker makeup

  • @user-nd3tg5zn1b
    @user-nd3tg5zn1b 20 днів тому

    She will end up alone with a house full of cats!!!🐈

  • @P.90.603
    @P.90.603 20 днів тому +1

    I knew this guy would call a girl. She wouldn't respond, so he goes to her house. The girl had to call the cops on him. He's such a clown. He just doesn't get it. He made it sound like he was checking up on her in case something happens. Just don't be a hero!

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 17 днів тому

    "Guysm, when you learn to walk away from a woman you're in a position of power." ~KS

  • @MsLotusBlooms
    @MsLotusBlooms 10 днів тому

    As a woman, I think it really doesn't matter about the date. As long as it's in a safe and public place, it shouldn't matter if it is for a cup of ice cream, drinks, or a dinner. The point is we should be getting to know each other. If we click, the occasional fancy stuff will come later in process.

  • @mistarogers1911
    @mistarogers1911 18 днів тому

    I approve this message, Phil!!!!

  • @177bandit
    @177bandit 20 днів тому

    ...you pay for your own damn dinner!!

  • @G43X
    @G43X 19 днів тому

    I don’t negotiate. If I propose a date and she’s not interested. Move on. Only exception would be dietary restrictions.

  • @dvdlntn
    @dvdlntn 19 днів тому

    why would she block him and not have the conversation with him instead of the internet?

  • @ondray740
    @ondray740 19 днів тому +2

    Sure I'd take her in a dinner date. Lol but she gon take care of that bill. 😂

  • @acethefloridianforever
    @acethefloridianforever 10 днів тому

    Low effort date? Girl you're high maintenance! She might as well be a cat lady!😂🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @steveyj3002
    @steveyj3002 20 днів тому +1

    Me and a coworker were just talking about this and how hard it is to convince a black woman to go on a coffee date or for lunch at an average restaurant and how it’s almost the opposite with non black women 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @evelynclark3926
    @evelynclark3926 18 днів тому +1

    A drink date coffee, hot cocoa or tea. I'm good.

    • @jjmcg9184
      @jjmcg9184 18 днів тому +1

      You know damn well she'd have no problem with it if it was a brad. He could say lets go to the park & she'd be 10 toes down for it.