Chasing 304s Will Always Have A Black Man Dying Alone
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- I know it's popularized to tell single women with outlandish demands that they will die alone. But, Black men who chase 304s without obtaining a wife will die alone as well. Black men realize this when they either become ill or in their older years.
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It is also in the Bible that a man is better off alone than with a contentious woman. Far too many of women today are contentious.
I agree. Women, particularly Black women, today are not trained to be wives.
And far too many men are weak, childish and incapable of leading.
Well put. Thank you.........💯
It's a easy way to weed that out
@@dboygreatIf it was so easy why is no one else doing it?!🙄
I don’t chase 304’s. I chase my health,my goals, my grind, my work ethic, my self esteem and self respect.
What about God?
@@mesoanto1031 Hawk Tuah!
Exactly 💯😂
Invest in your health fellas, these women are not worth it.
Exactly 💯
Not all men who are unmarried are FOOLING around
Very true.
Also not all wives will be by your bedside.
No ones saying all unmarried men are fooling around but as usual the ones they choose to focus their attention on are the ones doing just that and by default accuse all men of doing the same thing. Just remember how shocking it was when the late Kevin Samuels told the women that over 50% of black men don't have kids and how many of them doubted him and still to this day?
My uncle just passed this weekend. He was married to a WW who had two sons for many years. He helped raise her kids and when he got sick recently, she left him for another black man. I heard she was trying to come to the funeral and I said she shouldn't. It was all good when he was healthy but she broke the marital vows (in sickness and health) and left him when he got real sick.
A BW wouldn’t have been with him long enough to reach that phase of life
@@DominantBlackMaleLeaderlmao damn
@@Geountold what's so funny? The y t woman who left that bm? Yea, that is hilarious 😂
@@DominantBlackMaleLeadera bw had nothin to do with his dam de@th and the y t woman left his @ss. Leave bw out yo mouf.
@@DominantBlackMaleLeaderhow do you know this? You really should not generalize.
I’m in my late 50s, divorced, no kids, no baby mamas, not interested in marriage because of my fear of dealing with these ratchet women. I’ll be good
You have to do you. If you are happy that’s what count. It’s good to be with people that cares about you. Some of my male relatives had terrible wives.
@@Its882 true. Even I turned down a God fearing BW whom someone tried to set me up with and who owns a house recently because of my bad relationship experiences in the past
Dam right
travel travel travel my brother it'll change your life its not too late
ABW are so full of 💩 talking like they’re loyal and holding it down like this brawd in this video. These h*es be talking like we haven’t witnessed the extremely high divorce and miserable marriages.
AMERICAN BLACK WOMEN are specialists at gaslighting and find new ways to say the same thing on this subject. They have tried ever possible tactic. The obvious shaming language didn’t work, the pretending like they didn’t care didn’t work, and so this is the new way they’re trying by talking like they’re just so loyal, respectful, and trustworthy. It’s going to fall on deaf ears. Yes, many of us do want wives. But they won’t be women raised by American females. No thanks.
This is why you must properly vet who you end up with. Women should complement men.
Absolutely.
You can Vet all you want, WOMAN CHANGE! You cant tell me over 65% of men who are victims of women filing divorces on them did not "Vet" their woman. That's nonsense. Hold women accountable for them divorcing men at such rates. Stop putting the blame on men.
It's supposed to be like that but they're all programmed to want the same type man.
We just lost my uncle. One of the sad things is while he was in the hospital was his kids from multiple women. My Uncle wasn't a bad man, but he had kids from different women and that creates problems later in life. Men need to be careful of their long term actions. RIP Uncle.
RIP to uncle. I'm starting to understand women in general are just problems, not all are as bad but very few can actually support a men spiritually.
Did they force them to have sex with them. Accountability it takes two to reproduce
@@CeeT-wg3hz Because most are selfish and chaotic. These brawds really think these little tactics like this brawd in the video is enough to get us to ignore what we have witnessed from them for decades. ABW are so full of 💩 talking like they’re loyal and holding it down like this brawd in this video. These h*es be talking like we haven’t witnessed the extremely high divorce and miserable marriages. Like we haven’t witnessed them mocking black men and literally teaming up with colonizers against us. FOH.
AMERICAN BLACK WOMEN are specialists at gaslighting and find new ways to say the same thing on this subject. They have tried ever possible tactic. The obvious shaming language didn’t work, the pretending like they didn’t care didn’t work, and so this is the new way they’re trying by talking like they’re just so loyal, respectful, and trustworthy. It’s going to fall on deaf ears. Yes, many of us do want wives. But they won’t be women raised by American females. No thanks.
I had the same when my dad left this earth i was the only one with my sister who truly lived with him since the day i was born his other children don't even got one picture with him or anything else.
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When he died in the hospice it created a bunch of problems since we don't know them but they tried to be "the boss" it was really crazy the disconnect with them was real making children everywhere is not good.
Hopefully UNDERSTOOD.
It's always Jermaine's fault. 😒
Exactly 💯
Most men go to work and home and that's it
There are women that do the same.
True
Dont believe the hype about Ethiopian women in the motherland. They're still affected with the modern woman nonsense. Speaking from experience
Yeah, the modern virus has spread over there, particularly South Africa.
@@oblambo6896
Ethiopia is in the east
And most of them are told to avoid black Americans
@@vr4892 Women all over the globe are warned to avoid black American men. Black men have a reputation for creating babies and rolling out.
they are either extremely sweet and soft spoken or the complete opposite. that's what I've noticed.
Gotta learn how to pick em.
I’d rather go to the upper room in peace…
''I came into this world alone & that's exactly how I will go out''
Rupert Crosse
1927-1973
I just survived a battle with cancer. I had my cousins and sister, but I had a fiancee that left me in 2019, tore her apart. I was alone in the hospital and in my house. I'm dating now, with the intention of marriage. Nothing like the love of a woman to come home to and heal you past your pain.
Wasn't it a woman who caused that "past pain!"?
@cecilfletcher4404 women don't cause pain bro. Lack of understanding does.
@@dboygreat so why are it always women who go for divorce and why are they always the one who never understand anything?
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Can you explain that to me i'm really curious i wanna learn more
@@dboygreatman who are you Dr Phil 😂.
@brucepower3429 brother Bruce you just answered your own question. As I said, most women (not all of course) have a lack of understanding, lack of accountability and lack of order in their lives.
Chasing 304s won't always have a black man dying alone. Everyone dies alone. Some of us die with eyewitnesses.
Tbh 304 chasing is a 0-sum game and ultimately a waste of time. Do a few guy trips and call it a day
5:57 Phil is absolutely right here. There are only 20 million BW here in America. There are 4 BILLION women around the planet 🌎 and most of them LOVE ❤️ BM. Get your PASSPORTS ✈️✈️✈️
😂😂😂😂BINGO BROTHER, LOVE YOUR COMMENT
They love a way out !!!
@@soniapinkney1342 Nobody cares.
They “strong and independent,” and “don’t need no man.” But it’s still our fault.
Bruh I never hard so much bullshine in my life. I know how to go to the doctor and look out for myself.
No. It's men's fault when they end up alone because there are multiple good women looking for a husband. But you guys think you'll be young forever so you play multiple women or waste the time of one and you don't take care of your children and build relationships with them. That's why you end up alone don't try to deflect and gaslight. What happens to a man is his decision.
I agree
@@MsRenaissance Damn!! How many times are you BW going to keep pushing that damn lie about BM not taking care of their kids when over have of us don't have kids.
@@MsRenaissance The pookies and the ray rays are a prime example 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She just giving me black girl magic vibes.
Having a relationship with some of these women is just like being alone. And you don't have to know more then god to have wisdom.
She's definitely giving "black girl tragic" vibes
Shout out to the Loving Wives out there! My mom took great care of my dad when he lost use of his arms and legs.
Yes I Need a Woman! That Quarantine Taught Me a Lesson ! "You Never Miss your Water Until the Well Runs Dry ! "
It's beautiful women out of America who love black men.
5'8" 38*28*38 100% Woman Love. I Can Dream, Can't I? (smile)
There's a lot of laws need to be changed for me to date again
Exactly 💯 at this point these women are for the streets
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To Phillip Scott Show:
Those types of videos are frightening me. I am already 42 years old and I will be 43 during the month of September and years are passing by and I am still alone. When I will be older I can end up in a hospital bed with no woman to look out for me.
Don't give up. 42 is still young to find a quality woman.
Yea and the lonely divorcee who lost half his stuff is right next to him.
Bro Phil wasting his time men are too smart to fall for the bullshyt
And there’s TEN TIMES MORE more lonely divorcée’s, than “rolling stones.”🙄🙄🙄
I tell you. the internet has spread feminism even down here in Africa
I already know
I can imagine these women are going to be so lonely in the next 10 years 😂the lonely pandemic is coming for them.
The bible says it's better to be single as a man also
This fear mongering was meant for Chad and Tyrone, aka player types... This has nothing to do with the men they friend zone, cheat on with the player types...
Thank you..they really think the mass number of us will suffer 😂..I have been to multiple nursing homes and there were more of them in there than us!
the game for men will forever be genetics and resources. Men with these will only die alone if they choose to.
i see your point, but a man with resources could be parenting children who he think are his.
Those men who end up alone its not because they were fed up with dating. Its because they refused to settle down with one person. They were players their whole lives, left a trail of heartbreak in their wake not to mention never looking after their children. They thought they would have been young and hot forever so they played and hurt a lot if women, now they're dying alone. Time eventually catches up with people.
Some of those men were in the streets for 30 years. A lot of men are good men but it's really hard to get women.
They still smashed you….thats why you have such detailed accounts of their lifestyles 😂
Eve wasnt selling ass on IG unc 😂😂
it doesn’t matter if it’s a “403” or a “304” “numbers” are infinite, therefore you will be chasing them forever and “forever” doesn’t exist!
Bro smoking that good lol 🍄
@@tooneovman do ur thang
Facts!
They could be a 152, still don't chase them. After all, no matter what number/percentage they are, leave them alone.
If she is not right from the start, then you must swiftly depart.
You dont have access to everything that exists to say there's no such thing as forever. 🤦🏿♂️
At least those men can afford the nursing homes, the single childless women never save up enough for a retirement so you a seeing a growing population of homeless older women
I’m glad I don’t get lonely 😌
I haven't felt lonely in so long,I don't know what it feels like
Which is worse. Being lonely or being miserable for a lifetime?
@@patrickhenry2845 I rather be lonely 🙁 because miserable is a monster, and lonely is lightweight as hell " it's nothing ",actually it's happiness, although one must come out and associate and mingle " one has to" so one won't go crazy or insane......one is supposed to be loving and living life ,and one can't be dodging the world!!!!!! You or one can't do that it's forbidden 🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷 ,one has to give back !!!!!! To the world " aka your people " be lonely all you want but you owe !!!!! Like pookie in New Jack city.....you owe pook .....you owe God and you owe yourself, and your family . ...so get it together ❤
It's still risky, Unc. Iman Shumpert is the latest casualty. His ex got her own money, and he still gotta pay her.
Actually, he is asking her for support. Plus, they were open swingers which never works out.
@LisaS483 he asked for support, but headlines are saying he gotta give her 7 figures and $8K a month in child support. But I had no idea about the swingers part. Those are the worst kinds of relationships.
He isn't paying her. He has to pay child support for their children and give Teama a 1 time lump sum payment.
The property and vehicles were divided evenly and both got to keep their separate businesses. The settlement was fair.
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This is an honest question:
But do black women do this for there husbands. I really feel like American black women look down on black men more than they “care” about them. They don’t want to be our “mothers”.
Maybe I just don’t see those types of black women in America in major metropolitan areas.
My father outlived my mother by seven years let that soak in
@@ajt8967 fair enough… But the worst ones are usually the loudest, not the majority.
@@keepmoving2023-ku7nb Fair enough.
Brothers, take care of your health. Many of us smoke, drink, and eat our way to one of the shortest life expectancies of any group. The average black man dies at 70 years old. Personally, I mostly eat seafood, vegetables, and fruit.
Fix my sick bed nurse lady I'm too broke I don't meet the standard I don't make millions a year so fix my sick bed nurse lady see you on the other side 😇 🤗
Listen closely to what Brotha said about his wife see thats the values moral and respect that matters
I’m totally happy being alone. Too much to lose and I’m not interested in the way people have evolved. I feel more at peace by myself and nothing makes me more happier than that
I met someone from Nigeria on IG and we been talking for a 1 year and half now and tbh she seems pretty transparent and honest also talk to her family as well but they looking forward on seeing this year and can't wait for that moment. I hope and pray everything goes well but never thought would meet someone overseas after dealing with women from Houston that doesn't go anywhere..
I'll take my chances it's not worth the risk with these ratchets 💯
I agree having a loving significant other by your bedside nursing you is indeed a great thing to have and a luxury nonetheless.
You have a lot of women out here that's trying to kill you off too,
Yeah well make sure you get a good wife. I married again at 56 at 58 I lost my right leg above the knee. Now at 64 my wife is done with me so I'm back at square one. I didn't have much coming in and have less now because I haven't been able to work a real job in 6 years. The future looks bleak for me buy, it's my fault for not being better prepared and mostly for not being a better man.
Praying for you.
Stay strong. I will definitely pray for you.
This video hit home for me for sure. I'm single with no kids in my 40s. I think a better solution would be to have your own kids. Divorce rate is high, and relationships come and go. But the parent/child bond is stronger. I do regret not having kids. My parents are getting older and so am I. I fear being alone when I get older. When you get down with bad health unless there is some sort of parent/child bond I dont think people would stick by you and care for you in a time of need. Being a stepdad etc... people would abandon you. The same women that would condemn you for leaving a woman in her time of need would abandon you on that hospital bed.
Yes life is much more when you are with someone who appreciates you but it’s much better to be alone if you can’t get that and ultimately being a single man can have several different motivations tied to that
I hear what Phil is saying but everyone situation is different...
I was born physically disabled and I'm very cautious when it comes to dealing with people in general due to my situation. Yeah I have a video game system that I play from time to time if I get really bored (I'm a gamer at heart). But I do workout weekly and do certain tasks around the house.
Being an older millennial and seeing how entitled some of these women have become has made the appeal of me wanting to date very uninterested. Also, a lot of these women lack MORALS. I'm just not at that place or mindset in life right now. It's easy to say get a passport but that isn't always 💯 guaranteed that a man is going to pull a woman of quality.
At some point I'll try dating (in America) I've always been late to the party.
They say there somebody for everybody I seriously doubt that!!
Thanks I needed this message
I won’t be visiting my dad all like that. So I can see how he will be lonely. But my mom she’s living with me! Even if she doesn’t want to I’d never leave her by herself
This is good advice guys 😊
Idk it’s like you have to move out the country cause you can’t bring them back here 🤦🏾♂️
We love you Phil! I’ve been following you since back in the day when you were the advise show.
NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE BROTHERS!
And it's the same on the other side with them, too. No one should be living alone.
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 the sister is speaking facts. No one should or want to grow old alone
Society often conditions Black men to prioritize sexual conquest over forming lasting marital bonds, leading many to engage with women who may not be suitable partners for long-term relationships. This mindset needs to shift, encouraging men to value marriage, build families, and create legacies for their children. Additionally, the prevalence of absentee fathers has caused many Black women to opt out of dating, further highlighting the need for a cultural re-emphasis on responsible fatherhood and committed relationships.
Sexual revolution made by feminism destroyed families households, majority of men aren't having all the sex that's just a minority of men ,most black men are childless and single as well
What you said i agree with 100%, an addendum to that
A virtuous woman who can find one?
King Solomon
Crazy how it’s not true but go on
Well, what about all of these old single blk women?
She should ask why does he feel the need to not settle down? Women just can't read the room, it's YOU that is failing
How are you gonna blame a man for not finding a woman he wants to commit to, that sounds like it's the issue of the women not filling a need!
Hey Phill. I have been wanting to go to Ethiopia for a long time.
Stress and Drama leads to Trauma. I love my tan, brown, and black women but only if they are foreign.
Black British lady❤❤😊😊
Garymac6549 you choose foreign women but I’m a good black women y’all men holler about women being submissive but you are one of the very men who don’t know how to be faithful so why would a woman submit
Good video, great topic
Phil is telling the truth I’m watching Father go through this now. Chasing tail and asking my Mother his Ex to help him. Fellas you don’t want to transition like that it’s hellish
So it isn’t a “Black man” thing it’s unmarried men. She just pays more attention to black men.
Ecclesiasticus 9:6 " Give not thy soul unto harlots, that thou lose not thine inheritance."
That verse is so real.
Also don’t cast your pearls before swines.🤔
I agree with yu, i want a wife and family but it is not as easy as yu make it seem, i've been tu kenya twice in the past two years, i plan on going back tu east afrika and seeing other countries as well, hopefully i meet my wife, i'm trying,
Alot of times we have tu suffer in silence, because once we say we have difficulty finding a viable partner, here come the **** talkers putting us down, but i will say i meet tons of beautiful black women at airports, i've met beautiful black women at these airports
Toronto
Amsterdam
Atlanta
Paris
I am from michigan
So you by pass all of those beautiful women? Why,?
Some laws got to be changed for me to date again
Great content Phil. Thumbs up to you 👍🏿
This relationship business is finish it's all about hit and run being in a relationship these days will destroy your health and mental don't woman file for divorce the most 🤔
No matter what women you pick cuz not everybody's true
@@nicholasnorman4179 true
Planet fitness is $11 a month my fellow BM. Get in the gym, cut down on that sugar & especially salt. PLEASE !! Stay debt free & surround yourself with happy, good, OPEN-MINDED motivated brothers OF ANY RACE !!
I just wanted to know who was Purple finger nails she stayed in my hospital room.! Sitting on the bed fluffing the pillows and bringing ice and by my side every time I woke up !
Im saving up for a dating service. Cost like $3000.00 on the cheap end.
Also save up for alimony and child support
😂😂😂@@mesoanto1031
@@mesoanto1031exactly 💯😂
Spend it on something else brother.
My great uncle James Evans McLaughlin passed away at age 76 on February 25 2023
Bring a foreign girl to states. See what happens.
This msg spoke to me tonight Phil
What about women saying they don't need no man strong independent
Exactly
What about them? We’re talking about the Brothas today
@@ThePhillipScottShowso what bw ain’t worth the headache
Carry a durable power of attorney and carry it in my wallet. It can be a card with specific medical instructions for if you are unconscious.
304's? WHAT'S THAT?
And she’s not lying. I see it all the time too. They are depressed, angry lonely. And then wants to have the googley eyes for the nurses. They don’t want you now. You broke down now. Brotha’s get it together.
Men shouldn’t chase women 🙅🏾♂️Men should chase their dreams, goals and always motivated his self..🙏🏾💯
Nah we got brothers and sisters. Why would I risk ruining my life for one final moment that may never happen with the females we're dealing with nowadays.
Choose wisely!!❤
This goes for women as well not just men.
You are right.
BM need a wife if they chose to have one, theres a benefit and a curse for some and some of yall be mad depending on who his wife is..
That is why spiritual discernment is important.
Thought she was Toya Wright for a minute.
Those old men are getting checks and that's why those women want to keep those men alive. And take off that damn filter
This video is absolute gold!
I'm not really interested in dating, travel wise sure. Talking and being in a relationship I'm not much social like that outside of work
FABW been done with yall since 2006
I appreciate her bringing this up but there are no wives lol
Very true straight up it’s a while world 🌎
Thank You, Phillip!
There are more women in the nursing homes than men but keep it up
Remember this the Future belongs to the fertile......We are all much better off marrying and having large families. If you are good to your family they and the good Lord will be good to you by being there when times get rough.....
I dis agree with this segment video
It's always about money with a BLACK WOMAN soon if she cant get a free meal date from you and take care her and her kids so we go suffer and die cause you can't use him
Men and women are not equal
Chase God ✝️
Some of you men in the comments aren't really listening to the message here.
At the sametime people are going too do whatever their want.