Your past matters. Especially to humans. Women tend to lean on reinventing themselves after racking up bodies. You deserve nothing good after that by way of relationships with men.
I already have 2 grown kids and I'm still involved in their lives. And even though I'm single, I'm not lonely because Father God has completed me. I pray all lonely brother and sister will be completed in Christ.
I love reading that. I too am single( I found Jesus after my divorce) and for the first time not looking for anything in all the wrong places. Jesus's love is enough. I am not lonely. Thank You Lord 🙏🏽✝️🤍 God bless you!
so good 💯 I always pray for people who are unmarried and married couples each day. Individuals who are single and married go through battles and need prayer.
This was really good! I am 38, grew up in church, and I’ve never heard such a real and grounded yet fully Biblical discussion on the topic. THANK YOU!!! 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻
Pray for me on this. It's been important to me for years. I hear and understand all of this. I pray about this myself. I just feel discouraged about this the older I get thinking I'm running out of time. It's just something I struggle with along with other things that I have dealt with that I wish I had never dealt with. Pray for me
I am re-watching you, and I’ve been very blessed and knew most of this, but I’ve learned a lot. I am 71 years young, and I am learning a lot from the way you are presenting it. Thank you very much and your wife is a doll! Oh, I just realized I didn’t say that I am a woman. Lol I love your relationship.
I’m 16 and I’m so glad I found this video. There’s such good advice and so many things that resonate with me as someone who has gone through many things. You’ve gained a subscriber!
There were many great takeaways from this video. I thank you for taking the time to put this word out. The biggest one for me was when you spoke about the cliff. Instead of thinking about how close to the cliff you can get to instead focus your mind on how far away from the cliff you can be in terms of sin. Something I will definitely keep in mind because I've honestly been the person to think of how close to the cliff I can get without going over.
Any chance you could do a video more directed to older singles and widows, I’m 46 and a widow for two years. All videos and books are towards young people.
Thank you very much for making this video. I wish my youth leaders talked about this when I was a teenager. Perhaps you can encourage other pastors and church leaders to do this. I am 44 years old and have been single for so long and have never had a date. It's hard, but now I know from your video that there is nothing wrong with me and I have tips on what I can do while I wait until I hopefully meet a man in the not too distant future with whom I can spend the rest of my life. I will definitely buy the book Single and ready to mingle. God bless you and your ministry.
Thank you, for this topic. I stopped dating due to the difference in what God says and what men seek. I don't believe in pre marital sex and those I dated kept manipulating me into having sex.
Thanks I've been blessed ,may this prayer be a breakthrough for my marriage to come sooner than now,as i am also observing my fast of 21days days and believe this is my season of getting married
I agree that God will not impose a spouse on you, but I believe that if ASK Him to align you with someone who He approves of, and who He knows you will equally yoked, I believe that He will do that for you. He loves us and wants the best for us, so,if we have had flawed selection skills in the past, and seek God for help and confirmation, I think that's a good way to go.
I disagree on the age gap. It should not be too big but more than 10 years isn't bad. Women tend to prefer 'older' men and as long as you are taking care of yourself there's no reason you cannot still grow old together. I've seen 15 - 20 year age gaps (with the women being in their 30's) that worked out quite well. I think it really depends on your stage of life, especially if it's a second marriage after a divorce maybe. My step-dad was 11 years older than my mom and it didn't seem like it at all. Sadly, he passed away from brain cancer at 69, but the age gap was not a factor in that.
Try to become as close to the Holy Spirit as possible....avoiding situations that can lead to sin. I really am putting this across my heart. "IS THIS WISE?" Thank you Pastor. 😊
I'm sharing this to our youth and our young professionals! Thanks for blessing us with these truths that we really need to hear. May God bless you all the more, Pastor Vlad and Sister Lana together with your baby boy! Excited for him to come out! 😊
I wish I heard this as my20 year old self. I was on my own since 16 and was so lost. This is wonderful advise i will give to my children who are noww adults
Hi, I’m a 57 year old man and I’ve been a Christian since 1994 and I’ve recently decided to get married again. living alone for 24 years after my divorce is a challenge but you guys changed my perceptions by explaining things precisely in this regards. I also strongly urge young people to stay away from sexual temptation while meeting someone for marriage. God bless you two. Parviz
Thank you guys for this. I’m like 15 minutes in and I’ve already heard things I needed to hear, and didn’t even know it. You’re doing Gods work!! Bless you both and your family.
So good. I hope you have opportunities to train Youth Pastors to teach similar teachings to the younger generation, so they can avoid the pitfalls. Wish I had heard this when I was younger. God bless you.
I’m glad I watched this video. I was a bit confused about whether marriage was a “commandment” or expectation of God. Ive always wanted to get married but I recognize that a teenager like me doesn’t need to worry about dating right now 😅 Thanks for this and I’ll come back to this when I’m ready!
I’ve been beyond blessed hearing this God has cleared up so many answers in my life through this video it’s crazy and you’re very specific on details which clears up so much grey area in dating/courting
Thank you so much, my son is dating a sweet girl for one month but now he told me that he likes her character, she maches him in every point BUT she isnt attracting him. What shall he do, he asked me. I told him to pray and fast and ask God. But after listening to you i think they should not be together. May God help him find his way
Everyone need first to be holy before you can be happy.... Absolutely 💯 true... ❤ THANKS PASTOR Vlad & with ur beautiful wife by sharing this beautiful insights about the biblical dating 🙏
Ever since God brought Ps. Vlad video on the homepage, I’ve watched every single one of his videos since that day, the past 6-7 months. Now subscribed to Lana as well. I’m 38, practicing Christian and single, ready to mingle. I’m moving to a different location to position myself where the well isn’t dry (like Portland where I currently am). Waiting for God to direct my steps (Proverbs 16:9), praying for double discernment of where that is! 🙏🏽
So blessed by this message!! I really needed to hear this. So encouraging and this makes me so grateful to God for the goodness and wisdom He has given to us. So grateful for your ministry!❤
I feels like mostly western, European people having intercourse before marriage become tradition, I appreciate the pastor ❤❤❤, for the advice as from Asian mostly people we avoid this stuff, because we don't think, it's not our tradition , as christian brought up Sunday school, I never regret not reluctant to attend. Our parents always keep first priority than acedamic school. Thank Jesus ❤❤❤ 1:12:37
I watch a lot of pastors online and have really been enjoying your content lately, but you’re the only pastors who have your venmo and cash app as a pop up on your videos. I’m a little put off by it honestly. Most pastors are supported by their local church so i would imagine your motivation for making these videos is sharing the good news and pointing people to Jesus instead of your Venmo 😊 🙌
As an over-55 year old single lady believer, I thank you for reviewing these vital principals.Even we 'older' brothers and sisters need to review them. Could you please cover how to identify a narcissist? I have seen allegedly 'Christian' narcissists involved with lovely believers. What damage they do to those dear brothers and sisters. Thank you.
Thank you. This has helped me. I need to feel that inner peace with him before I know he is the right man to marry. I will never give up on this. I look forward to God showing me my future husband someday in his timing. Thank you ♥️🙏
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Good day, Im Abraham God bless you
I love your content and would love to gift you a little present form my heart❤
Stay blessed ❤
I will check this out
“Just because you made mistakes in the past does not mean that you don’t deserve God’s best for you.” 💯
True and you will always pay for any mistakes, truly identify what you did wrong and reedem yourself. I’ve been there.
I needed that thanks. Jesus first
Your past matters. Especially to humans. Women tend to lean on reinventing themselves after racking up bodies. You deserve nothing good after that by way of relationships with men.
Hopefully the best one will not be torrmented and exprienece a Jelous hurt in the heart
Your past mistakes might end up costing you God's best for you ..
"You're ready to date when you don't need to." PREACH 🔥
“Don’t stir up the feelings of someone else of the opposite sex that you are unable to meet right now.”
I already have 2 grown kids and I'm still involved in their lives. And even though I'm single, I'm not lonely because Father God has completed me. I pray all lonely brother and sister will be completed in Christ.
I love reading that. I too am single( I found Jesus after my divorce) and for the first time not looking for anything in all the wrong places. Jesus's love is enough. I am not lonely. Thank You Lord 🙏🏽✝️🤍 God bless you!
@@debbiebramwell God bless you sister
This was fun 😂 Thanks You two
@@debbiebramwell singleness sucks...period!⚕️⚕️🈶🈶
No…singleness is a gift…embrace it!!! 🎉
“God send me a man that is going to love You more than he loves me” 🔥🔥🔥
Is it OK if you are dating an outchurchman?
We use relationship for having sex,especially men
That's my prayer
I'm 48 years and I've been single all my life. I am lonely and depressed as a result. Please pray that the Lord touch my Life
Desire a close relationship with God and He will take the loneliness away. Put God first and let Him transform you.
Asking others to pray for you is not going to get you anywhere.
@@eugenaionescawhat this guy said. He’s not lying. Also, surround yourself with other Christians, and find a mentor
God bless uu
@matthewnelson1136 God tells us to pray for one another, so praying for others does help them because there is power in prayer
Shalom over your Ministry Pastor Vlad and Pastor Lana
“If he really loved you he would take you to the front of the church not to the backseat of the car.” 🔥
"Even in Marriage you should desire to be pure" so good, this is such a blessing and teaching." 🌿🙌
Perfect timing, I really needed to hear this as a single 37 yr old
so good 💯
I always pray for people who are unmarried and married couples each day. Individuals who are single and married go through battles and need prayer.
I pray for a partner every day and I try to follow God's will the best I can 😊
“need to be holy before you can be happy” AMEN
I love how you both talked about friendship. This is exactly what's been on my mind about being with someone, friendship first.
This was really good! I am 38, grew up in church, and I’ve never heard such a real and grounded yet fully Biblical discussion on the topic. THANK YOU!!! 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻
Same here! Close to the big 40 😬😭
I have met people I wasn't really attracted to and as I got to know them I was more attracted
Thank you Pastor Vlad & Pastor Lana for your teachings, you'll be amazing parents for baby Samuel 😘
Starting from 8:48 !! Yes! Marriage does NOT fix what you NEED to fix! YOU have to fix it so you don’t put your weight on someone else!
Pray for me on this. It's been important to me for years. I hear and understand all of this. I pray about this myself. I just feel discouraged about this the older I get thinking I'm running out of time. It's just something I struggle with along with other things that I have dealt with that I wish I had never dealt with. Pray for me
I am re-watching you, and I’ve been very blessed and knew most of this, but I’ve learned a lot. I am 71 years young, and I am learning a lot from the way you are presenting it. Thank you very much and your wife is a doll! Oh, I just realized I didn’t say that I am a woman. Lol I love your relationship.
I’m 28 years old & I love all this information 🥲 thank you!
This is your ministry as a married couple 😊 I have learned a lot. In fact I will suggest this video. ❤
I’m 16 and I’m so glad I found this video. There’s such good advice and so many things that resonate with me as someone who has gone through many things. You’ve gained a subscriber!
There were many great takeaways from this video. I thank you for taking the time to put this word out. The biggest one for me was when you spoke about the cliff. Instead of thinking about how close to the cliff you can get to instead focus your mind on how far away from the cliff you can be in terms of sin. Something I will definitely keep in mind because I've honestly been the person to think of how close to the cliff I can get without going over.
Any chance you could do a video more directed to older singles and widows, I’m 46 and a widow for two years. All videos and books are towards young people.
True - I find a lot of these Christian ministries tend to forget that there are people of all ages who are single.
That would be a good teaching I agree some of us are middle aged and still wanting a marriage in our later life
Thank you very much for making this video. I wish my youth leaders talked about this when I was a teenager. Perhaps you can encourage other pastors and church leaders to do this.
I am 44 years old and have been single for so long and have never had a date. It's hard, but now I know from your video that there is nothing wrong with me and I have tips on what I can do while I wait until I hopefully meet a man in the not too distant future with whom I can spend the rest of my life.
I will definitely buy the book Single and ready to mingle. God bless you and your ministry.
Thank you, for this topic. I stopped dating due to the difference in what God says and what men seek. I don't believe in pre marital sex and those I dated kept manipulating me into having sex.
Because it's god designed...period!🍑🍑🍑
I pray for a woman like you as a man who’s never been a relationship
@@markfornefeld299 why haven't you been in a relationship?
@@violetlove1893 Because I wait for the woman to make the first move and I have autism which makes it hard to recognize if a woman’s into me
Eye contact, smile, look away, wait for her to place herself around you. Approach and start conversation. Crash and burn haha
I'm a part of the rewatch fam.
Thanks I've been blessed ,may this prayer be a breakthrough for my marriage to come sooner than now,as i am also observing my fast of 21days days and believe this is my season of getting married
I agree that God will not impose a spouse on you, but I believe that if ASK Him to align you with someone who He approves of, and who He knows you will equally yoked, I believe that He will do that for you. He loves us and wants the best for us, so,if we have had flawed selection skills in the past, and seek God for help and confirmation, I think that's a good way to go.
fighting in english over whether you should pray in english,or tongues,thats funny!
Thank you for making this. There are a lot of videos about dating but no one goes in and explains it better than how you two have done. Thank you!🙂
God bless you both and glory to the Most High. I needed this much.
I disagree on the age gap. It should not be too big but more than 10 years isn't bad. Women tend to prefer 'older' men and as long as you are taking care of yourself there's no reason you cannot still grow old together.
I've seen 15 - 20 year age gaps (with the women being in their 30's) that worked out quite well. I think it really depends on your stage of life, especially if it's a second marriage after a divorce maybe. My step-dad was 11 years older than my mom and it didn't seem like it at all. Sadly, he passed away from brain cancer at 69, but the age gap was not a factor in that.
Try to become as close to the Holy Spirit as possible....avoiding situations that can lead to sin. I really am putting this across my heart. "IS THIS WISE?" Thank you Pastor. 😊
Yes👍🏻great advice. Temptation is real and sin crouches at the door so yes avoiding certain situations is smart👍🏻
What an amazing Godly explanation of how to approach dating. Every teenager & young adult needs to hear this!
1:16:24 mentorship and advice from older couples is what I’m seeking at the moment 🙏🏾
Yes, a HUGE blessing!!! I wish I could have had a teaching like this when I was young and single. Thank you!!
I'm sharing this to our youth and our young professionals! Thanks for blessing us with these truths that we really need to hear. May God bless you all the more, Pastor Vlad and Sister Lana together with your baby boy! Excited for him to come out! 😊
What's going on with dating?😮😮😮
This is so good! I am understanding I am not ready for marriage or courtship and this video is giving me more peace about my singleness in Christ 😊
dating a lot of people causes for more break ups and prepares you for divorce Wow so good
I wish I heard this as my20 year old self. I was on my own since 16 and was so lost.
This is wonderful advise i will give to my children who are noww adults
Amen
Amen
I shared with my son I hope he shares with his friends ❤
Hi, I’m a 57 year old man and I’ve been a Christian since 1994 and I’ve recently decided to get married again. living alone for 24 years after my divorce is a challenge but you guys changed my perceptions by explaining things precisely in this regards. I also strongly urge young people to stay away from sexual temptation while meeting someone for marriage.
God bless you two.
Parviz
Im blessed to watch this. Ive learned so much from you guys. Im single for more than a decade and i am happy to choose this journey.
This is SO good. I wish I had seen this when I was single. Will definitely share. Thank you.
Thank you guys for this. I’m like 15 minutes in and I’ve already heard things I needed to hear, and didn’t even know it. You’re doing Gods work!! Bless you both and your family.
Wow! Pastor Vlad is a very good teacher! Great teaching, you guys did a good job in this video. Blessings to both😊🎉
So good. I hope you have opportunities to train Youth Pastors to teach similar teachings to the younger generation, so they can avoid the pitfalls. Wish I had heard this when I was younger. God bless you.
rewatch squad. love you guys
Re-watching for the 2nd time. This time it's making more sense 🔥
I’m glad I watched this video. I was a bit confused about whether marriage was a “commandment” or expectation of God. Ive always wanted to get married but I recognize that a teenager like me doesn’t need to worry about dating right now 😅 Thanks for this and I’ll come back to this when I’m ready!
I’ve been beyond blessed hearing this God has cleared up so many answers in my life through this video it’s crazy and you’re very specific on details which clears up so much grey area in dating/courting
Unfortunately, the holy scriptures did not mention anything specific.
Don't stir up the feelings of someone else of the opposite sex if you are unable to meet
Love your book single ready to mingle!
Thank you both so much for this Video and the beautiful Prayer🙏🏼🕊✝️❣️❣️❣️ Love you both very much ❤️
Pastor Lana is Soo beautiful ❤️❤️
And stunning!💙💓💙💓💙💓
Thank you so much, my son is dating a sweet girl for one month but now he told me that he likes her character, she maches him in every point BUT she isnt attracting him. What shall he do, he asked me. I told him to pray and fast and ask God. But after listening to you i think they should not be together.
May God help him find his way
This is timely. Thank you sharing ❤
Everyone need first to be holy before you can be happy.... Absolutely 💯 true... ❤ THANKS PASTOR Vlad & with ur beautiful wife by sharing this beautiful insights about the biblical dating 🙏
This has been a blessing to me, Thank you for your guys wisdom.
I’m apart of the rewatch family!!
What a beautiful message. I pray this message goes around the world and spread wisdom and touch many hearts.
re-watch.. thank you,, me and some of my believers girlfriends need to hear this blessings to you both....
Ever since God brought Ps. Vlad video on the homepage, I’ve watched every single one of his videos since that day, the past 6-7 months. Now subscribed to Lana as well. I’m 38, practicing Christian and single, ready to mingle. I’m moving to a different location to position myself where the well isn’t dry (like Portland where I currently am). Waiting for God to direct my steps (Proverbs 16:9), praying for double discernment of where that is! 🙏🏽
Thank you for this Livestream. You have answered every question I've ever had about dating. I wish I watched this back in my pre-teen years.
Sharing with all of my single friends! So good!
It's perfect advice for me thank you so much, good teachings on marriage ❤
I loved everything you had to say! So much wisdom in this video. I'm going to buy your book.
Excited for this message 🎉.
How many months left for baby samuel to be come?
Is it 2?
2 more months!
Before his due date❤❤❤
Can't wait super excited for you pastor Lana 😁 😁 ❤@@lanahungrygen
Thank-you Pastors Vlad and Lana....
Can you do a video on the milestones that lead up to marriage? How you know your both heading in the right direction?
This video really got my attention 👏🏽 watching on Replay.
Wow. One of the best and sound dating advice videos I have seen on line. Thank you for sharing . God bless you both abundantly
You are such an amazing couple! Love seeing you working together. This is great content and so important! I loved your book, "Single Ready to Mingle."
So blessed by this message!! I really needed to hear this. So encouraging and this makes me so grateful to God for the goodness and wisdom He has given to us. So grateful for your ministry!❤
I feels like mostly western, European people having intercourse before marriage become tradition, I appreciate the pastor ❤❤❤, for the advice as from Asian mostly people we avoid this stuff, because we don't think, it's not our tradition , as christian brought up Sunday school, I never regret not reluctant to attend. Our parents always keep first priority than acedamic school. Thank Jesus ❤❤❤ 1:12:37
Watching on replay, really appreciated this video, helped a lot. God bless you both
Hi guys. I'm so blessed everytime I listened to your video. ❤
This is helping me,praise the lord
This is so good! It answered my prayer! 🙏🔥🔥🔥
Great message Pastors!! This was filled with SO much wisdom and so many laughs too!
Thank you for praying for me and others.
This is Soo good . Thank you guys for sharing this. God bless your ministry ❤❤❤
Thanks!
I wish I had seen this before I got married, or before my children went to a relationship, I could have given them good advice. May God bless you both
I'm a part of a re-watching fan
Thank you for the Godly conviction. I now have a completely different perspective on marriage, dating and love
Great advice for those who are struggling with godly dating. Period!🥭🥝🥭🥝🥭🥝
Deliverance does not happen in marriage, it happens in Christ ❤
Love the T-shirts!
Thank you guys! Super helpful
I watch a lot of pastors online and have really been enjoying your content lately, but you’re the only pastors who have your venmo and cash app as a pop up on your videos. I’m a little put off by it honestly. Most pastors are supported by their local church so i would imagine your motivation for making these videos is sharing the good news and pointing people to Jesus instead of your Venmo 😊 🙌
Some people may want to give and don’t know how to do it. It’s just an opportunity for the audience. Overkill would be offensive.
I’m learning all the ways to find the right life partner(Wife) and how to know when it’s time and how it’s the right person for me I feel like.
As an over-55 year old single lady believer, I thank you for reviewing these vital principals.Even we 'older' brothers and sisters need to review them.
Could you please cover how to identify a narcissist? I have seen allegedly 'Christian' narcissists involved with lovely believers. What damage they do to those dear brothers and sisters. Thank you.
Thank you so much ! I learned a lot.
This is so good, and timely for me!
Re-watch.... ❤❤❤❤❤❤ this is Exactly what I needed . You guys are amazing and so lead by the LORD . THANK YOU 😊
Thank you. This has helped me. I need to feel that inner peace with him before I know he is the right man to marry. I will never give up on this. I look forward to God showing me my future husband someday in his timing. Thank you ♥️🙏
This very much blessed me! Thanks to you both and I love you!!! 💟💜💟
Thank you guys! God bless you! ❤