How to let go of your stuff & do hard things

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  • Опубліковано 15 січ 2025

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  • @user-mm6xi3er5u
    @user-mm6xi3er5u 15 годин тому +30

    I said it before, I’ll say it again. Don’t sell the truck. The savings is minuscule for no insurance. Sitting for 3-6 months won’t hurt anything. If you have someone taking care of animals they can run the truck every few days also. If you need the money ok, if not, keep the truck. It is a necessity for a homestead. You also know the mechanical condition of the truck. You won’t have the same knowledge of a new used truck. Keep the truck.

    • @luckydiscoqueen
      @luckydiscoqueen 15 годин тому +9

      One option is to put the vehicle on a "storage" insurance policy. Very inexpensive - maybe $20-$30 per month. Means the vehicle is still covered, but isn't being driven. I have the same thought. Keep the truck for a while, then decide.

    • @alexiarifaey
      @alexiarifaey 14 годин тому +3

      Agreed!!!

    • @ClairenParkerontheRoad
      @ClairenParkerontheRoad 12 годин тому +2

      I love this pick the comment apart slowly. Lol 😆

    • @DonnaWard-vd1tt
      @DonnaWard-vd1tt 11 годин тому +5

      I agree with not selling the truck, vehicles are overpriced.
      You know what you have with that truck, buying used is risky. Hopefully you will reconsider.

    • @cmacdonald1197
      @cmacdonald1197 Годину тому

      Completely agree 💯

  • @reginafisher9919
    @reginafisher9919 11 годин тому +5

    I'm just shaking my head I have a bad feeling all the way around about this decision.

  • @katiepederson1260
    @katiepederson1260 7 годин тому +2

    A truck is just a truck, you can replace it when you get home. I am under the belief that everything works out in the way that it should, especially if you stay positive and don't worry too much about it. I wasn't always this way but I get more like it every day and proud to be more that way.

  • @luckydiscoqueen
    @luckydiscoqueen 15 годин тому +8

    I appreciate your transparency and authenticity. I like how you address the financial, emotional and practical aspects of making a decision. You and your husband are very wise. Just my two cents...maybe keep the truck for the first few months of your travels and then decide. What if you decide to come back early? It is such a nice truck and you'll need a truck during the development of your property.

  • @lost-south-lake-crafters
    @lost-south-lake-crafters 14 годин тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this video. I love the questions you ask yourself in the decision making process, especially "if you currently didn't have the item would you spend money on purchasing it at this time?" That is so helpful! Wishing you the best on your journey!

  • @jana7183
    @jana7183 7 годин тому +1

    I agree with a lot of the comments on keeping the truck. Have it go to family who are keeping some of your stuff already. They can periodically start it, etc. Financially, in the long run, it would be better than buying something when you return. IMO However it's your life and decision and I respect and support that.

  • @shirleysparks1148
    @shirleysparks1148 15 годин тому +4

    I see both sides to keeping or selling the truck . You guys have made your decision, and i respect that. I'm guessing this trip might turn in to a move . Are you selling or keeping the camper? That will be the thing that deteriorates fast left unattened . Regardless of if this it just a trip or a permanent move, I look forward to seeing how this all works out . Enjoy!!

  • @Ross_Will
    @Ross_Will 15 годин тому +5

    Once you get back it will cost more on insurance from having no insurance for awhile on a vehicle.

  • @KarliWessler-Banks-t3j
    @KarliWessler-Banks-t3j 8 годин тому +1

    Selling my kids books… a library I have built up for years… the books I read 5 million times & we had silly sayings for - emotional! So hard! My kids favorite books, the things I’ve been collecting to read… hard!
    Homemade Christmas ornaments - hard!
    Kids art - gut wrenching.
    Their home carved height board - yikes!

  • @budgetwithfatima6530
    @budgetwithfatima6530 15 годин тому +1

    I wish you the best of luck in your decisions you have done this you know how this works ❤❤

  • @yadymoncayo294
    @yadymoncayo294 11 годин тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @truthseeker2718
    @truthseeker2718 15 годин тому +4

    Every handbag I ever owned doesn't total $200 lol 😊

    • @raisingwildflowers
      @raisingwildflowers  10 годин тому +1

      Me either! I've had the same $20 bag for like 10 years 😅

  • @laurieclarkson9180
    @laurieclarkson9180 15 годин тому

    I love hearing your chats :)

  • @laurijohnson7754
    @laurijohnson7754 4 години тому

    I also feel it’s bad to never settle down. It can
    Be hard on your children to never have a routine or a normal home. Like I’ve said all of your “chasing dreams ” is costing uou financially.

    • @laurijohnson7754
      @laurijohnson7754 4 години тому

      I do hope you finally find something that makes you happy, I believe slow and steady wins the race.

  • @tessramos8828
    @tessramos8828 15 годин тому

    Hello Katie 🌻
    We’re so excited for you ! 💖

  • @carolwoodward6141
    @carolwoodward6141 15 годин тому +1

    I believe the truck should be sold, recycled if you will, so it can be used by someone who can use it in real time. Vehicles that sit deteriorate. If you were to be gone 1 or 2 months that would be one thing, but months and months that is another.

  • @alexiarifaey
    @alexiarifaey 14 годин тому +2

    Wait, you aren’t bringing your toddler with you to travel? I’d be so curious to know more about that!!

  • @Elsa_318
    @Elsa_318 11 годин тому

    💜💜💜

  • @rebacarmack8335
    @rebacarmack8335 5 годин тому

    If love your truck, Why would you sell it? You are planning on coming back- you guys got a deal on this. You can pay up the insurance for 6-12 months

  • @hydspirit
    @hydspirit 15 годин тому

    Can you loan the truck to family or friends to use? Or let a construction shop rent it to customers ? So that takes care of the auto insurance? Once you know you have a reliable, stable vehicle, it's hard to let go, especially if it's the one car you have and are certain that you may be returning back to US. As a family only you can make the decision that works for you.

  • @esteeb42
    @esteeb42 14 годин тому +1

    I have watched your channel for years. I understand a lot of what you say but I had a question. Do you plan on building a homestead on your land? If you still plan on living off grid when you return I feel like a truck is a necessary tool in that situation.🤷‍♀️

    • @raisingwildflowers
      @raisingwildflowers  10 годин тому

      We can always buy another truck when we get back. Technically, a more expensive truck if we invest the money and save all the money we would have spent just maintaining it while we are away 😅

    • @user-mm6xi3er5u
      @user-mm6xi3er5u 8 годин тому

      Most definitely. A homestead needs a truck. This one is paid for. No rational reason to sell the truck if they only plan to be out of country for a few months, even a year. It’s about the money.

    • @raisingwildflowers
      @raisingwildflowers  8 годин тому

      @@user-mm6xi3er5u I would be interested in your breakdown of how keeping the truck is the better financial decision.

  • @ahermitslife3684
    @ahermitslife3684 10 годин тому

    Much easier to sell the truck now than when you decide not to come back!
    Question? Do you think as someone that is autistic that you have grown out of certain traits? My autistic daughter (33) is basically a hoarder and very adverse to any change. I know that there is a wide range on the spectrum but I have read that these are common.

    • @raisingwildflowers
      @raisingwildflowers  9 годин тому +1

      I think it kinda depends on why she is hoarding the stuff. It could be too overwhelming to decide what items to keep and what to get rid of (executive disfunction). Or her stuff may make her feel safe and secure. I will say, we may not be hoarders, but we are to the other extreme - we will just get rid of everything 😅 I have never been a hoarder, but I did like collecting stuff when I was younger. Especially as a kid I had all kinds of collections. And it has always been very exhausting for me to decide what to keep and what to get rid of - which is why I lean into getting rid of it all 🙃

    • @ahermitslife3684
      @ahermitslife3684 9 годин тому

      @raisingwildflowers thank you for the thoughtful response. She definitely has executive dysfunction.

  • @janicekennedy4894
    @janicekennedy4894 14 годин тому +2

    How come your selling everything if your coming back in a few months? Just curious ❤

    • @raisingwildflowers
      @raisingwildflowers  10 годин тому +1

      We aren't getting rid of every single thing, just a lot of our stuff. Stuff we really don't need or can be easily replaced when we return. We are taking our most important items to family out of state, so it's easier to not move a bunch of stuff. We still have our camper on our property so we are keeping some of our necessities there - like kitchenware and tools - stuff that doesn't need to be kept in a climate-controlled environment. Life is also just easier with less stuff 😊

    • @user-mm6xi3er5u
      @user-mm6xi3er5u 8 годин тому

      You could also leave the truck with family. I think this is more about the money than anything else. Way more advantages to keeping truck. Bottom line is the money.

    • @ZXX984
      @ZXX984 8 годин тому

      I’m sure you have some contents that have sentimental value you should store in sturdy totes with family or friends.

  • @user-mm6xi3er5u
    @user-mm6xi3er5u 15 годин тому +2

    You want to sell the truck I get it. Your ‘expenses’ for the truck sitting for 3,6 or 12 months are exaggerated IMO. Hopefully everything works out well for you on your trip. Hopefully you don’t regret selling the truck. Have fun.

  • @Lee_Proffit
    @Lee_Proffit 10 годин тому

    Keep the truck, better the devil you know for when you return than have to start again
    Have a good trip

  • @ITellYouRide
    @ITellYouRide 3 години тому

    I want to know how you are planning to sell your truck. I want to sell my car. Not sure where to start?

  • @ericac4842
    @ericac4842 15 годин тому +3

    Are you afraid or nervous to leave your daughter behind or is she going with you?

    • @bwillsboys
      @bwillsboys 15 годин тому +5

      One daughter will be staying with family and the other daughter lives on her own.. that’s what she said in a video

    • @ericac4842
      @ericac4842 14 годин тому +3

      @bwillsboys You're much braver than I am. I'm one of THOSE moms & I'm fully aware I shouldn't be... but I am. I can't even move the next state over without hyperventilating about being that far away from my kids. I'm not saying this in any kind of disrespectful way to you, I hope you don't take it that way. I love your channel & I think both of you are amazing parents!!!❤️

    • @raisingwildflowers
      @raisingwildflowers  10 годин тому +1

      I am nervous and it's going to be hard! But I also know she will be okay and is capable. And it helps a lot that we have family and friends close to her in case she needs anything.

  • @Ashley-n6p6n
    @Ashley-n6p6n 13 годин тому +1

    Will you be selling your travel trailer. The economy is going to tank so it is best to sell what you don't need right now.

    • @raisingwildflowers
      @raisingwildflowers  10 годин тому

      We are not going to sell the camper. It has already reached about max depreciation and we are storing some of our belongs in it while we are traveling. And I am not sure it would make it off our mountain safely if you want me to be honest 😅

  • @carolwoodward6141
    @carolwoodward6141 16 годин тому +2

    Hello fella Virginian👋

  • @barbhopell1649
    @barbhopell1649 4 години тому

    I wish you were staying around and moving forward with your new home build and land.
    I feel like you’re running from something.
    I worry for your animals. All of them. It doesn’t seem fair for them.

  • @CassieDavis613
    @CassieDavis613 19 годин тому

    Have you sold the truck?