Hayley Williams: Mind-Body Breakthroughs, Weird Weddings, & Intensive Therapy

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024

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  • @CrochetLadyBird
    @CrochetLadyBird 3 роки тому +694

    When Mayim said that Hayley's fans also use Paramore albums to pin point times in their life....yes! 100%

  • @angeliquerenteria7908
    @angeliquerenteria7908 3 роки тому +752

    Mayim: We’re all broken
    Me, a P-more fan since 11: we are brOOOKENn!!

    • @ThomFost
      @ThomFost 3 роки тому +21

      This is the comment!!!

    • @maurykermit5429
      @maurykermit5429 3 роки тому +34

      WHAT MUST WE DO TO RESTOREE 🎶

    • @ajd7662
      @ajd7662 3 роки тому +23

      Also when she said that's what you get, I died a most wonderful little death.

    • @soicancommentonvideo
      @soicancommentonvideo 3 роки тому +16

      @@maurykermit5429 OUR INNOCENCEEE, AND ALL THE PROMISE WE ADORE

    • @DanaKot336
      @DanaKot336 3 роки тому +13

      @@soicancommentonvideo
      GIVE US LIFE AGAAIIN
      CUZ WE JUST WANNA BE WHOLE..
      Gosh that's so nostalgic I remember in high school i made a cover of this song, it was my favorite!

  • @RomanianKrisbian
    @RomanianKrisbian 3 роки тому +675

    This podcast feels like hearing and talking to my best friend, like therapy. Hayley has been that person that I looked up to, that person who indirectly encouraged me to keep fighting and never give up since 2009 and this conversation is so raw and deep and meaningful and beautiful. Thank you guys.

    • @MayimBialik
      @MayimBialik  3 роки тому +190

      Thank YOU for the comment. And being so open with me. It's comments like these that remind me why it's so important to be having these conversations and why I'm doing a podcast like this one.

    • @amisguidedgh0st
      @amisguidedgh0st 3 роки тому +4

      ❤️

    • @soicancommentonvideo
      @soicancommentonvideo 3 роки тому +15

      @@MayimBialik you'll never read this but I wish you'd have decompressed at the end of the podcast more with Hayley after she had such a fucking deep and vulnerable moment. It ended so abruptly. This podcast felt like I was watching a therapy session for most of it. And ik you're not a therapist you're a scientist but you were just needing a little less clinical application and more warmth towards the human that is not only opening themselves up to you (of course also helping you create content) but also having this moment with you that is probably (especially in hayley's case) probably much more important to them and their healing journey than it is to you.

    • @billyalarie929
      @billyalarie929 2 роки тому +4

      @@MayimBialik i love that you're the one who comments. like, it's specifically, actually you.
      that's the coolest thing, maybe, about all of this.

    • @level-uplearning5095
      @level-uplearning5095 2 роки тому +2

      @@soicancommentonvideo very wise

  • @robertnorris8367
    @robertnorris8367 3 роки тому +805

    A collaboration I was not expecting.

    • @pizzaroll7126
      @pizzaroll7126 3 роки тому +1

      Right!! I never thought that this will happen ever!!!

    • @JilliansNL
      @JilliansNL 3 роки тому +8

      right!!! the coolest though!!!!

    • @penncakes07
      @penncakes07 3 роки тому +8

      BUT VERY MUCH NEEDED!,!!!

    • @questioneverything7582
      @questioneverything7582 3 роки тому +2

      I'm going to get around to writing a stellar review of your show on iTunes as soon as my busy season is over, but I will have to continue adding to what I know Mayim already knows....all diseases start in the brain. Brain-Body Connection. If you say Mind - Body, it gives the illusion that it's "all in your mind" and/or controllable. Most of the more severe illnesses happen to people by surprise, unexpectantly, impacting first in the brain, then in the corresponding organ which that part of the brain controls. The end of WWI had absolutely everything to do with the Flu and lung TB outbreak that occurred killing millions. In nature, the biological conflict linked with a territorial fear (just what it means-a fear in your territory, your home, your community, etc.) is a widening of the bronchia (tissue loss). Your body attempts to widen your bronchia in order to allow more air into your lungs to give you more strength and energy to fight to keep your territory safe. Stay with me.......The biological conflict linked with a death fright impacts the lungs. The lungs attempt to grow larger in order to allow more air in because breath equals life, as we all know. No breath equals death.

      While you are in the fear or death fright conflict, you notice no symptoms of “disease”, except you have cold hands, cold feet, you can’t sleep, you awaken at 3 AM every night, you have little appetite. During the war, millions of people were in fear of the bombing of their homes and cities where the war was most active. Fearing for their lives, their loved ones in the war, their ability to survive. The food in the stores was sparse due to shortages. This lasted for 4 long years! The longer the conflict, the worse the healing phase. Within 2 weeks of the German Chancellor announcing the end of WWI, these millions of people ALL went into the healing phase all at the same time. It is during the healing phase that you experience symptoms of illness! What is the healing phase of the bronchia widening? Severe bronchitis, pneumonia. The body attempts to refill this lost tissue and you experience inflammation, fever, coughing, body aches, fatigue, etc. What is the healing phase of the extra lung tissue that grew? Decomposing of the tissue by TB bacteria and fungi. The symptoms of this healing phase are: severe coughing up of blood and tissue, fever, inflammation, severe mucous, body aches, fatigue. During this decomposing of the extra tissue (tumor), the body expels a lot of protein, and without replenishment, severe protein loss can result in death. Antibiotics did not exist yet. If TB bacteria does not exist in a person or they have been vaccinated against TB (big mistake), then the tumor will simply encapsulate and become dormant and not harm you. Who died during the Spanish Flu? Mainly the poor who could not afford to buy meat and proper nourishment, and the people who were directly impacted by the bombings and destruction of their homes.

      Millions of people suffered fear and death frights during the fighting of WWI, and millions of people all went into healing at the end of it. Not everyone was affected because not everyone suffered the same way.

      It’s not a “flu”, it’s not something you “catch”. It’s biological, meaningful, and unavoidable. One hundred years later, a Fear Campaign begins, using the media to spread it......

    • @kaymarshall2469
      @kaymarshall2469 3 роки тому

      Me either . So glad it happened though☺️

  • @1337gaia
    @1337gaia 3 роки тому +415

    I've dived into 'after laughter' for years. This album came out when I was in my darkest times and it was unbelievable how the lyrics could be so heartbreakingly relatable for me.

    • @amandajacobs57
      @amandajacobs57 3 роки тому +14

      Same. The album dropped at a terrible time in my life and I was so thankful that I had something so relatable

    • @lizf3857
      @lizf3857 3 роки тому +5

      Yes best album

    • @micaelaclifford2729
      @micaelaclifford2729 3 роки тому +6

      Same. 2017, the year that I wanted to change for real and leave everything that hurted me behind.

    • @rebelbelle1039
      @rebelbelle1039 3 роки тому +3

      Honestly same. I was in an abusive relationship with my sons dad and that album came out and it helped me get through a lot

    • @foxcatcherformerlyfoxblue5759
      @foxcatcherformerlyfoxblue5759 3 роки тому

      Wow, same here. I was in such bad shape when I personally discovered after laughter

  • @heyjessieraye
    @heyjessieraye 3 роки тому +200

    ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME I AM SCREAMING MY TWO FAVORITE PEOPLE WAAHAATTTTTTTTTTTTT.
    I literally had to read the description and pinch myself.

  • @HayleySulfridge
    @HayleySulfridge 3 роки тому +287

    Thank God she got a divorce. You can see how much she’s grown and opened up into her own without the weight of an unhealthy relationship on her shoulders.

  • @BG12sofia
    @BG12sofia 3 роки тому +299

    I know it probably isn't easy for her, but I love hearing Hayley talk about mental health.

    • @MayimBialik
      @MayimBialik  3 роки тому +139

      She's a rockstar - both on AND off the stage!!

    • @BG12sofia
      @BG12sofia 3 роки тому +6

      @@MayimBialik so true!

    • @Smsbulgaria
      @Smsbulgaria 3 роки тому +10

      It is such an effort, I can imagine, but also it is so healing for all of us. Thank you so much, to all of you.

  • @juliet6200
    @juliet6200 3 роки тому +189

    41:50
    "You got me tied up
    But I stay close to the window
    And I talk to myself
    About the places that I used to go"

    • @Jay_bird_22
      @Jay_bird_22 3 роки тому +2

      This is exactly what I thought of too.

    • @riverraines270
      @riverraines270 3 роки тому +2

      Yes! Exactly this came to mind. I came here to see if anyone caught it. 💕

  • @vilpbr08
    @vilpbr08 3 роки тому +300

    Automatically said "when you let your heart win" when Hayley said that's what you get.. I was not expecting this one! Loved it!

  • @karinaflores3742
    @karinaflores3742 3 роки тому +96

    The Paramore song she mentioned she wrote about feeling trapped and seeing the world from the window is called “26”. It’s one of my favorite but you can totally feel how miserable she felt back then. It’s a really sad song.

  • @markmacatee4602
    @markmacatee4602 3 роки тому +123

    There are no words to describe how amazing this episode is. Mayim and Hayley just made it completely okay to let down your guard and open up to someone. You are both amazing human beings. I can't wait to hear what Bev has to say about this episode.

  • @mbsl923
    @mbsl923 3 роки тому +216

    "Emotions can't hit a moving target." - Wow! I can really relate to this.

    • @erin723
      @erin723 3 роки тому +8

      And emotions bounce right off the rubber coating of numbness. Think they’re so smart, those damn emotions. 😝

    • @ingelawyer9830
      @ingelawyer9830 3 роки тому

      As an enneagram 7 lol I'm hoping it's true 😂

    • @twizzlerlemonpie3083
      @twizzlerlemonpie3083 Рік тому

      What's the time stamp

    • @mbsl923
      @mbsl923 Рік тому

      @@twizzlerlemonpie3083 it was so long ago. I don't remember. Maybe someone else does. This one is worth watching all the way through.

    • @424io
      @424io 8 місяців тому

      But we have radio waves
      We want the air waves back, we want the airwaves bbaack!!

  • @namimaya9595
    @namimaya9595 3 роки тому +73

    I related so much and it’s okay to say ... I’m not okay.
    I needed to hear this so bad.
    Thank you.

  • @sizzle8558
    @sizzle8558 3 роки тому +662

    I love hearing from Hayley like this so much. I don't know if she realizes how much this podcast will mean to fans like me who have practically grown up with her and are still struggling and figuring it out just like she is.
    BTW what we are taught about diet in the western world is a total lie. Eat less vegetables and grains eat more animal products. We are animals. We are made of cholestrol and saturated animal fat. The lie that cholestrol and saturated fat are the devil is destroying our populations health.

  • @michellenelson7954
    @michellenelson7954 3 роки тому +78

    I'm a divorced woman who never had panic attacks until the period directly before my wedding. I also got married in an army green dress and stiletto boots! I'm reeling from this podcast. Feeling so much solidarity right now. Thank you guys!

  • @SuperSissen
    @SuperSissen 3 роки тому +62

    Hayley is a f'ing wonderful human being who went through more than what she would have deserved. If there were more people like her the world would be a better place.

  • @helenaandrade5154
    @helenaandrade5154 3 роки тому +82

    This was so amazing! I’ve been Hayley’s fan since a teenager, and being about the same age as her, it was great to hear all of her “I don’t know” answers.
    Got that feeling that I met my idol and she is just as great as I thought she would be.
    Thanks Mayim! As always, you’re brilliant

  • @noahg9936
    @noahg9936 3 роки тому +40

    I'm so glad she mentioned Avril! =D I'm even happier with this interview now! A lot of ppl don't tend to credit her for being sticking up for herself at such a young age back in a time where it was not "ok" for girls to do that!

  • @tikovacs5988
    @tikovacs5988 3 роки тому +58

    A collaboration I didn't know I needed.

  • @mattbaumgart3621
    @mattbaumgart3621 3 роки тому +78

    I’m sure Hayley has other things to do, but I would LOVE if she would be a permanent addition to the show. The three of you just seemed like long-lost friends just catching up with each other. Great episode!

  • @stephaniekim1783
    @stephaniekim1783 3 роки тому +26

    Came for Hayley but stayed for all 3 of these vulnerable, honest, and insightful people. Love this informal format

  • @paigeadleta9692
    @paigeadleta9692 Рік тому +15

    I as am elementary music teacher take time out of every class with every grade level to practice mindfulness. We breath, we notice our bodies and our surroundings, we feel and express. The difference it makes in their emotional regulation is insane.

  • @eugenialasso440
    @eugenialasso440 3 роки тому +63

    Mayim we all love to hear your stories but it would be nice if you actually let Hayley talk more. You kept interrupting while she was trying to open up. She mentioned her wrist problem very early on and didn't even get to explain it until minute 44 of the conversation. I think she really needed you to just listen more.

    • @kenzkiniry2901
      @kenzkiniry2901 3 роки тому +9

      I agreeeee. As a long-time Paramore and Hayley fan, It’s been great getting to learn more about her personal struggles as she opens up more, as I resonate with what she’s been going through. I was so excited to learn more about her in this episode and left feeling kind of underwhelmed due to the interrupting that kept happening. 🙃 Surprised this wasn’t mentioned more in the comments.

    • @Adriana-fb4pl
      @Adriana-fb4pl 3 роки тому +16

      @@kenzkiniry2901 I think she was trying to protect Hayley. While it may be amazing to share her story, it envolves other people - and Mayim didn't want to be that interviewer that is pressuring her to share things that may get her in trouble or hurt her relationships (for example, with her mother), like Hayley mentioned.
      I know we all want to know more (I know I do!), but it's important to give people some space so they can think properly if they want to share the whole story.

    • @kenzkiniry2901
      @kenzkiniry2901 3 роки тому +7

      @@Adriana-fb4plMmm I think giving people space involves not interrupting and giving them the power to choose to share or not to share. It seems like there were times where Hailey was about to open up (something she mentions she’s trying to become more comfortable with) and never got to finish because Mayim stepped in and directed the conversation elsewhere. I don’t think she needs protection, as she has always avoided sharing personal stories and described them as vague as possible if she even chose to share them. She actively recognizes that she wants and needs to let people in, and I feel like the interrupting was getting in the way of her exercising that. Like the original comment said, “I think she really needed you to just listen more.”

    • @BelAyrosa
      @BelAyrosa 3 роки тому +1

      Totally agree she kept interrupting SO MUCH

  • @Denem55
    @Denem55 3 роки тому +25

    I looked up to her ever since I was 12,
    I'm 26 now and I am so proud of her as a fan. She makes me feel like it's okay to be human and have issues. After all the great instagram posts where everyone's life seems so perfect, I tend to believe that I am a failure for kinda just being human and have all these doubts, and mixed feelings. But here she is talking about her experience and making me feel better not just with her music but also with her words ❤ please let her talk a bit more next time ❤

  • @Puncturedw1ngs
    @Puncturedw1ngs 3 роки тому +26

    It’s insane to me that after all these years, after all the young women Hayley has inspired to this day, that she still can’t take any credit for how she’s helped paved the way for women who feel different than the status quo. We stan our humble, paramore’s biggest fan, queen.

  • @eyelashesfallen
    @eyelashesfallen 3 роки тому +41

    Why does this seem like a therapy session for Mayim with Hayley in the corner? Surely the host shouldn't speak more than the guest

    • @ssrr90
      @ssrr90 3 роки тому +10

      100% agree with you. Anytime she began a point they would jump in before she could finish

    • @mariangelgarcia6802
      @mariangelgarcia6802 3 роки тому +2

      This is a podcast, for interviews you can find many others

    • @suuudo
      @suuudo 3 роки тому +4

      @@mariangelgarcia6802 what’s the point of inviting a guest to a podcast when the host almost belligerently dominates 95% of the conversation?

    • @Kaybye555
      @Kaybye555 3 роки тому

      The premise of the podcast os literally for Mayim to explain things. It's not just a normal conversation either.
      Hayley seems very validated and comfortable so I don't see a problem. I'm sure if she just wanted to share all her storied she could start her own channel like Jeannette

    • @jeremysmith9694
      @jeremysmith9694 2 роки тому

      Yup. You nailed it. Now I know why I don't love this podcast and probably why it's not bigger than it is. I didn't come for mayim. I came for Hayley. But I don't feel like I got Hayley at all.

  • @annec8127
    @annec8127 3 роки тому +27

    Creepy to listen to when in the midst of planning a wedding. (Before you get worried about my future: No wrist or ankle symptoms, just allergies I've had since before I met him.)

  • @AgusLara1
    @AgusLara1 3 роки тому +32

    I've been a Paramore fan since 2007, and I feel like with the evolution of the albums, I've grown up with them. This last album for sure saved my life in a moment when I was going through a mourning and a heart break at the same time. Thank you so much to both Hayley an Mayim for open up and share their experience with us! Loved it!

  • @ImLindsayyyy
    @ImLindsayyyy 3 роки тому +22

    this conversation was everything I didn't know I needed. "emotions can't hit a moving target" is permanently engrained in my brain. thank you so much for this podcast. I've been a fan of Hayley and Paramore since 2007. And it's true, every paramore album, even hayley's solo albums, have arrived at such appropriate times in my life. I truly feel like I have grown with them by my side.

  • @jessicasoares466
    @jessicasoares466 3 роки тому +25

    A song is gonna come out of this conversation and it's gonna be a great song

  • @vegainfamily8213
    @vegainfamily8213 3 роки тому +21

    Just wanted to say that after having gone through a period of intense stress and seeing the physical repercussions of it this episode felt like my confirmation. Being in the UK we are hugely behind in being in touch with mental health and mind body connections. It took a pandemic to kick start the realisation that we are all struggling and now we collectively have hit a rock bottom. Thanks

  • @yvexyz8704
    @yvexyz8704 3 роки тому +26

    Last July I was finally able to escape my longlasting abusive relationship, the mind-body-connection is something I've been educating myself about ever since. So this episode is pure gold for me! Very educational on an easy digestible level, a lot to take away from it. The three of you did a great job, it was like listening to a couple of friends 💜

    • @itsjustme.7059
      @itsjustme.7059 3 роки тому +3

      I don’t know you, but I’m happy you got out of an abusive relationship. Nobody deserves that. I was in an abusive relationship when I was 19. Luckily my mom came and picked me up and escaped to another state and never spoke to him again.

    • @yvexyz8704
      @yvexyz8704 3 роки тому +1

      @@itsjustme.7059 thank you stranger that's so kind!! ✨

  • @elsapadrons
    @elsapadrons 3 роки тому +17

    Mayim is such a great communicator, this podcast is a treat 💕 Hayley was in fact like "what am I doing here?" and ended up super engaged in the interview.

  • @silvaughna
    @silvaughna 3 роки тому +16

    This was such an incredible and thoughtful conversation. Having followed paramore for a long time and watched a lot of paramore and hayley interviews, this is one of my favorite chats hayley has done. I feel like i've learned a lot about different ways of processing things and honestly hearing about the mind body connection made so much click in my head. It also felt like y'all had a real ease of talking to one another, super enjoyable episode :)

  • @alonsomesia7385
    @alonsomesia7385 3 роки тому +14

    What an spectacular woman Hayley is. Looks like an amazing life partner.

  • @alishia1723
    @alishia1723 3 роки тому +11

    Another worthwhile Mind Body book is When The Body Says No by Gabor Maté - highly recommend it.

  • @shinartsph7375
    @shinartsph7375 3 роки тому +15

    Unexpected collab 😭 My two favorite women together. Hayley's new album, Call me Kat and MBB is my sanity during the pandemic lockdown. AND THIS EPISODE IS SO SPECIAL FOR ME. Thank you soooo much.

  • @menamgamg
    @menamgamg 2 роки тому +2

    I dont understand how people can be so successful in their career and also suffer from such bad mental health.. I mean it's amazing that they can, but as someone who has struggled all my life with depression caused by ADHD (was recently diagnosed at 29) i've always been so stuck with my life. I'm a musician too and i've worked incredibly hard on my craft ever since i was a teenager but it has never lead me anywhere "real" because of my mental health. I feel like it's such a punishment to have a lot of potential but never being able to make anything out of it.

    • @efeklau6502
      @efeklau6502 2 роки тому

      That is so painfully true 🫠 I can relate

  • @j.l.salazar3398
    @j.l.salazar3398 2 роки тому +9

    "The problem is not so much God or religion, it's humans." Wow, this is something I really really stand for! Thanks for these amazing talks!

  • @goatontheroad7692
    @goatontheroad7692 Рік тому +2

    NO FUCKING WAY YOU INTERVIEWED HAYLEY WILLIAMS I JUST DISCOVERED YOUR PODCAST THIS MONTH

  • @noonenoone5748
    @noonenoone5748 Рік тому +3

    This interview is frustrating 😒 . I came for Hayley but she rarely gets to talk. It's more the hosts droning on and on about their lives and Hayley can't get a word in. Sorry but it's frustrating!

  • @krystal.alexandria
    @krystal.alexandria 3 роки тому +12

    And then the Louise Hay brilliance dropped in! THIS WAS SO ENJOYABLE! 😆👏🏼💯✨

  • @soffiegirl1027
    @soffiegirl1027 3 роки тому +17

    Man I wish she let her talk a little more. It was hard having her interrupt so often

  • @beafellone4284
    @beafellone4284 3 роки тому +9

    I'm in my 20's and I feel like I'm left out coz I haven't made any progress since I've transitioned into adulthood. I've learned so many things, like no one is prepared enough and got it all figured out when it comes to adulthood and that you don't have to know it all to be successful. And I didn't know that traumas are genetic 🤯 this explains a lot! I'm really thinking about going to therapy this and helped a lot. Thank you so, so much.

  • @kristybasolo-malmsten1607
    @kristybasolo-malmsten1607 3 роки тому +12

    Jonathan makes this whole thing work. Every week.

  • @merryxmaswarisover
    @merryxmaswarisover 3 роки тому +11

    “Emotions can’t hit a moving target.”

  • @monroejj6222
    @monroejj6222 Рік тому +5

    I saw paramore at give it a name 2006 before they were big in the Uk. I remember seeing Hayley on stage and being in shock at how this girl had such vocals! I was at the front of the stage with about 50 others if that and when I turned after the first song the crowd was huge! She literally called everyone at that festival to that stage! 🙌🏻
    Then soon after misery business dropped and the whole world heard ya! Girl fooking powerrrrrr 💕

  • @sharonr5605
    @sharonr5605 3 роки тому +7

    Currently doing EMDR and I as a child took on stuff for my parents, for my family that I am now learning wasn't mine to take on. Its tough work but is freeing. Generational trauma is real and does exist. Thanks for another real truthful episode.

  • @jaredknutson2866
    @jaredknutson2866 3 роки тому +9

    Listened to Paramore since the beginning and have never seen an interview with Haley. ❤️ this!

    • @underworldfilms86
      @underworldfilms86 3 роки тому

      I saw one on TRL...My thought (ironically) was that she was super happy.....Surprised to hear her suffering from depression......

  • @MichiaMakes
    @MichiaMakes 2 роки тому +1

    Religious trauma is defined by Catholicism. The first prayer we learn as we are learning to speak: Now I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord, my soul to keep. If I should DIE BEFORE I WAKE, I pray the Lord my soul to take.
    I’m now over 50 and STILL dealing with traumatic induced insomnia. Literally, WTF Catholics???!!!

  • @marinnadda
    @marinnadda 3 роки тому +9

    it seems like they know each other for ages, i love how hayley conects with literally everybody

  • @brianrodriguez6897
    @brianrodriguez6897 3 роки тому +6

    I'm probably 1 of the few males out there obsessed with Hayley not only because she's beautiful and Paramore is amazing but because of what she stands for. I like listening to these podcasts while I work and I absolutely loved this. Ive watched tons of Hayley interviews and as someone that has gone through depression and anxiety (and still do), she's always so inspirational to me. First time seeing your podcast too!

  • @SamHolland
    @SamHolland Рік тому +1

    I LOVE you ALL!! :D Can I come on? :D lovely podcast. Thanks for that.

  • @flomo1336
    @flomo1336 2 роки тому +1

    Wow
    I just wanna see and more know about Hayley and after I see this video, i wanna know more about mental health Care. I know i'm not beeing good for years. It's just in phrases. At the moment i'm really fine. But to learn about new things and to hear to other poeple helps me. And i'm learning english. Please correct me, when i do a mistake
    And btw. i didn't know that you are a neuroscientist. It's so awesome

  • @LM-js4dn
    @LM-js4dn 3 роки тому +5

    43:07 the “Emotions can’t hit a moving target” idea reminded me of the stomping on a beat lyric from Fake Happy. 🙃

  • @roisinfairydust8852
    @roisinfairydust8852 3 роки тому +7

    i could listen to you both all day, i love Hayley's music and her last two albums really spoke to me because they're so personal and intimately written

  • @1353timk
    @1353timk 3 роки тому +6

    This is the first time I watched. I usually listen to the podcast on spotify. Although I feel like I'm cheating on spotify I really enjoyed watching it more. This is absolutely my favorite interview so far. Thank you so much Mayim for doing this I have learned so much. Jonathan you are amazing as well. You two are so much fun together. Thank you Hayley you are an amazing person and artist.

  • @amandaakemi5811
    @amandaakemi5811 3 роки тому +3

    I wish they would let Hayley speak more 😭

  • @level-uplearning5095
    @level-uplearning5095 2 роки тому +1

    With respect....it would have been more balanced if Mayim would have let Haley share more and not jump in so quickly. Love the podcast.

  • @HayleySulfridge
    @HayleySulfridge 3 роки тому +4

    My OCD is very much rooted in my religious upbringing. My compulsions include praying “the correct way”, making sure i word it the way that “feels right”, along with all the other weird physical compulsions. It is definitely an obsession and it’s exhausting. If anything, it pushes me further away from religion, as I start to believe God will punish me if I don’t do the compulsions (intrusive thoughts). Obviously they logically pass, and I go through phases of it, but i definitely blame early indoctrination to a corrupt church for a part of it.

  • @alessandrafgrd
    @alessandrafgrd 3 роки тому +6

    I'm laughing so hard of the talk about weddings and I never been married! Lol so good!

  • @begentlebutdontallowshit2549
    @begentlebutdontallowshit2549 3 роки тому +65

    Dear whoever is reading this, I wish there was a way for everyone to erase all sadness and stress and just replace it with happiness. You have an entire galaxy and a beautiful life ahead of you. Nothing in life is ever easy, but what's important is that YOU keep going!
    And you! You're different.
    What sets you apart? what makes you different from the rest?
    Well when you get knocked down, you get right back up.
    You figure it out.
    You do what you gotta do to get back up.
    Other people, when they get hit, when they get knocked down, they stay down.
    Because they dont want to get hit again....they can't take it, it hurts too much.
    But you...You dont know how to quit.
    You don't stop.
    You are a fighter
    You are resilient.
    You're strong.
    You are a force to be reckoned with.The enemy has tried to defeat you
    . Life has knocked you down...and kicked you while you were there.
    People have hurt you.
    Circumstances have been a mess and yet, here you are...
    still going...
    So in case you forgot who the hell you are...
    You're a badass.
    You'll Get back up.
    Keep going!
    Youre worthy of love and happiness, never allow anyone to tell you otherwise! I wish all of you plenty of health and strenght during these tough times. You are loved, you are strong, you got this! Never forget that!
    Sending much Love over from Germany

    • @jason_abides
      @jason_abides 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your post. You just brightened my day.

    • @roxyd7127
      @roxyd7127 3 роки тому +4

      The podcast was good but I think I came here for this ⬆️ Namaste 🙏🏻

    • @anthonyfuentes1836
      @anthonyfuentes1836 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you for the brightness and sending back love from Texas and hopefully you folks are doing well

    • @TimChipp
      @TimChipp 3 роки тому +6

      I would rather you wish for everyone to have the proper tools to handle and process sadness rather than get rid of it altogether. I feel happiness is made more special when there's sadness in the world. It makes the bright brighter. Kinda like "in a world where everyone's super, no one is." But with happiness. We need the negatives to then feel positive.
      We just need to make sure everyone receives the tools needed to process sadness in productive ways.
      I hope you find happiness and do the most you can with it while you have it. And find it again and again and again. I hope everyone finds it.

    • @marisamartinezolivera
      @marisamartinezolivera 3 роки тому

      This is as good as the podcast itself! Thank you from Barcelona! Danke Schöen!

  • @Lauren_182
    @Lauren_182 3 роки тому +5

    I could listen to Hayley talk nonstop about absolutely anything 😂 but this is so important and I’m so proud of her! I’ve been a huge fan of Hayley and paramore for 12? Years now and I couldn’t be prouder

  • @DatPuzzle
    @DatPuzzle 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow I just stumbled across this somehow, among my recommended videos I guess. But everything you are talking about resonates so much with me, on an unreal level. Even the album that Hayley is talking about, I just started listening to it for the first time just a couple of weeks ago, and have had it on repeat since then. Thank you for this, I know I'm 3 years late but I really needed this exactly in this moment. It makes me feel less lonely and less scared in what I'm going through right now. You are all such an inspiration, thank you!

  • @sugeygutierrez9130
    @sugeygutierrez9130 3 роки тому +7

    ¡Qué entrevista para más geniaaaal, muchas gracias Mayim por permitirnos conocer más de Hayley! ❤️

  • @scarlamackey1031
    @scarlamackey1031 3 роки тому +3

    In October, I'll be on this earth 37 year's! I used to ask myself the same question when I was in Middle school .... What God's in the universe would allow me to be a girl! I didn't have a mom to look up too (she chose drugs over her children to many times, we are no longer contact) I didn't have any aunt's (they all did drugs with my NM, we are no longer contact) so how on earth was I suppose to do this "stupid" girl thing!! Then at 17, I found out I was pregnant (by the man who is still my husband) with my first daughter, I knew right then and there what kind of Mom I wanted to be!! God blessed us with us with 3 daughters 🖤 my soul loves our ladies and god knew what he was doing and he has a lot a lot of faith in me 🖤

  • @astridreads
    @astridreads 3 роки тому +7

    The interview I never knew I needed 😍

  • @isabellewinkler2347
    @isabellewinkler2347 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you Mayim and Jonathan for this reminder of Louise Hay and mind-body connection. I was recently diagnosed with herniated discs and also have some other troubles like pain in my wrists, hip, etc etc at 29. The doctors do nothing at figuring out where this comes from and I am trying to think of professionals that could help me in a holistic way. But I was not thinking of Louise's book that I bought 3 years ago and is lying on my shelf!

  • @Trblues22
    @Trblues22 2 роки тому +1

    I love the meme that black people love Paramore.
    Then she says Missy Elliott inspired her.

  • @pammatthews9743
    @pammatthews9743 3 роки тому +3

    Raised Roman Catholic I was taught that my “Guardian Angel” was to watch over me ever night,and there was a specific prayer I was supposed to pray every morning and night so that I was protected.

  • @elizabethrose5692
    @elizabethrose5692 3 роки тому +5

    What a rich and thought provoking conversation. I believe learning is more about the process than the product, you can be way more creative and adaptable if you are less concerned with how things will look in the end. Letting go of that image of the moving goal post has allowed me to live in the moment and enjoy the good times.

  • @aAakyless982
    @aAakyless982 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much for collaborating here. It's so good to hear youse be open about your mental health. Thank you also to hayley, you're my idol and hearing the struggles and things I could relate to. It's glad to know I'm not alone and there are ways to help yourself

  • @dani1567
    @dani1567 3 роки тому +8

    Congratulation on Season 2! Can't wait😻😼

  • @josearroyo8008
    @josearroyo8008 3 роки тому +8

    I'm such a fan of Hayley can't wait for her new song emotions can't hit a moving target.

    • @Diego_drittsekk
      @Diego_drittsekk 3 роки тому

      Its Hayley "such fan"

    • @josearroyo8008
      @josearroyo8008 3 роки тому +1

      @@Diego_drittsekk excuse me for the aurocorrect typo mister I need to correct everything

  • @veronicamelendez6677
    @veronicamelendez6677 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you Mayim Bialik. Seeing Hayley Williams talking about this is amazing 🧡

  • @izar165
    @izar165 3 роки тому +4

    this podcast is v important, just def like a therapy. paramore is my favourite band since i'm 5 years old (i'm 19 now) and during my angsty teenage years helped me to ignore the bullies at hs and my now young adult era w uni. thanks so much for bringing it how mental health is v important especially we're suffering w historical 20 century consequences. i have my battles, i'm always trying my best every tomorrows. i'll subscribe! 💖

  • @kencoleman5007
    @kencoleman5007 3 роки тому +12

    This was the most revealing interview that I've seen Hayley give since she spoke with Zane Lowe (another terrific interviewer) last year.
    I'd like to know how Hayley's friendship with Joy Williams (the non-related former half of the Civil Wars) has developed through these spiritual changes. I've read that the two had met through church in Tennessee. Joy guested on a recent Paramore song about seeing a friend suffer through dpression called " I Hate to See Your Heart Break".

  • @lovinglifehealth
    @lovinglifehealth Рік тому +3

    This was one of the best conversations ever on Breakdown. My sanity song for the past 5 years has been Haley’s song “Last Hope” Live in Chicago version which is the Best and most moving impactful and uplifting song. My Go-To when I’m so down and it lifts me instantly out of my funk. Haley is so real and so was this very impactful interview. Gratitude for you all because this was important and healing to help so many going forward ❤

  • @muse63027
    @muse63027 3 роки тому +5

    My heart goes out to her and everyone with depression. Great interview.

  • @pizzaroll7126
    @pizzaroll7126 3 роки тому +4

    I’d like to comment about the podcast itself but I’d say this first.
    Mayim, you are GLOWING 😍

  • @lilwing6969
    @lilwing6969 3 роки тому +3

    I'm a hospice nurse of 29 years and recently, in the last 5 years or so, I've internalized all of my emotional pain, which has manifested into physical pain. I guess this is also, I've enjoyed several drinks after work. Totally get this and so grateful for this episode. Also explains why I've kept a journal for 30 years about work. It's helped, but also, it's definitely my "diary of a mad woman".... Mad being "unbalanced".

  • @richardtaylor2449
    @richardtaylor2449 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Blossom and team please can you interview the incredible Armenian musician/writer/singer Serj Tankian or Daron Malakian lead guitarist/singer/writer

  • @danyellow7857
    @danyellow7857 2 роки тому +2

    This has convinced me to get therapy. I have been on antidepressants for years. And have told others to seek help. And I need to do it now myself.

  • @Kameron_creative
    @Kameron_creative 9 місяців тому +1

    Self proclaimed “white elitist”…. I’m done here. SMH

  • @LG777.mother
    @LG777.mother 3 роки тому +2

    YOU HAVE A THYROID CONDITION!?? ME TOO! Mine is underactive though.... 😔
    We can still be besties 👯‍♀️🤗

  • @m_brokenleg
    @m_brokenleg 3 роки тому +3

    Btw, I don’t know if here is the place to say it, but huge, huge congrats after #CallMeKat Season 2 renovation! I’m a big fan, even if I must watch it at 3:00 a.m. western Europe timezone!! 😻😽😽😺

  • @leej-
    @leej- Рік тому +1

    Good podcast! Wish i had found this earlier... i rejuvenated my paramore rabbit hole after their new album drop

  • @catherinemakohn6141
    @catherinemakohn6141 3 роки тому +4

    Another great week! Loved what Hayley had to say about creativity and medication. So many great things in here. Can't wait for next week! Love to all

  • @julie_uk_
    @julie_uk_ 2 роки тому +3

    This is such an important set of conversations, thank you Mayim. It's amazing to hear yourself & Hayley connect. I'm due to start a PhD this autumn, age 48 & I'm hoping to access my authentic voice & encourage others, to safely do so. I'd love to check in with you Mayim about this if possible.

  • @Sallyscissors56
    @Sallyscissors56 3 роки тому +13

    Can I just say this was not a collaboration that no one was expecting. I’m a fan of Hayley and Paramore even more so if you Mayim! From day 1 I thought she should be on your podcast but I didn’t think it would be possible! This episode was so much fun and educational. I enjoyed it a lot that I have to hear it again because there was so much information that needs to be absorbed in shorter segments. It was wonderful to see JC interact more. As always, you surprise me even more with each episode.

  • @koraldavis3474
    @koraldavis3474 3 роки тому +49

    Congratulations on your show getting renewed Mayim 🐈😻🐾🐈😻🐱🐱🧶🧶🧶

    • @audreyadams7099
      @audreyadams7099 3 роки тому

      Really?!

    • @koraldavis3474
      @koraldavis3474 3 роки тому

      @@audreyadams7099 Yep

    • @shainacabanban9485
      @shainacabanban9485 3 роки тому +1

      Omg I really enjoyed her recent show and I literally finished it in just one day 💚 Congrats Mayim!! 🥰

  • @kirbstommpgaming
    @kirbstommpgaming 2 роки тому +1

    oh my god i was also in heaven's gates, hell's flames lmao

  • @carolrogia
    @carolrogia 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you Hayley, Mayim and Jonathan for talking about all these things! It is a very helpful conversation for others to listen to. I am very proud of Hayley for opening so much. I need that Louise Hay's book ASAP!

  • @roxannetracy2931
    @roxannetracy2931 3 роки тому +3

    Hot dog! Best part of my Tuesday. Still in isolation so I grab on to this podcast like a life raft. LOVE YOU GUY'S! Congrats on the UA-cam 1m subscribers. YOU ROCK!

  • @messybench
    @messybench 2 роки тому +2

    Mayim, we're going DEEP diagnosing her guest without letting the guest finish a sentence. If I had one critique it would be Mayim share the stage. Let your guest also testify. Body Keeps the Score was mind resetting for me. Also Michael Pollan's "How to Change Your Mind" was fascinating and when I asked my GP who is from South Asia about it he was onboard. He had read the book too and had just returned from a seminar with Andrew Weil.

  • @sabina1358
    @sabina1358 3 роки тому +3

    I'm here for the first time and that's because of Hayley, I've been a fan since I was a teenager. This was a fun, entertaining, insightful conversation. Thank you for sharing your stories. I think I'm going to Louise-Hay my back pain now haha

  • @ImSoLament
    @ImSoLament 2 роки тому +3

    Louis Hay encyclopedia is so fascinating, I loved that part of this talk (starts at 37:15)

  • @marisamartinezolivera
    @marisamartinezolivera 3 роки тому +2

    How anyone can still today have any doubt about the strong mind-body connexion? The umbilical cord that tied both of them for life? My quite recent colon CANCER was a deep & loud shout of HELP from my body to my worhalcoholist stressed mind.
    Because I hadn’t pay previously attention to my body alerts as my own voice failure (yes, me too) that sent me to a vocal cords “benign” tumor’s surgery after two months being silent & very handicapted, going everywere with a pen and a notebook (and a voice training afterwards I didn’t do because, again, damned work..) Or my broken knee cup after an stupid accident while driving my big bike. And...how many red flags🚩 I was unable to see?
    We must “LEARN TO LEARN” from other’s experiences. We must not wait till an awful own experience teaches us in the worst way!
    Thank you Mayim & Jonathan for again such good episode. With a great dose of humility & quite openminded, we must watch all #BIALIKBREAKDOWN episodes, THINK, and, above all, LEARN! Even from other’s experiences. It’s HEALING! 💜

  • @claudiaasplanato5444
    @claudiaasplanato5444 3 роки тому +4

    BEST.COLLAB.EVER.
    It’s incredible.
    seeing someone like Hayley (paramore saved my life since I was a teenager,now i’m 28 and still listening to it daily;so Hayley THANK YOU) and MAYIM that I have a HUGE respect to as a scientist,actress And woman to look up to it’s just incredible to see them together and talk so rawly beautiful about things that affect me first so deeply.
    I mean,it’s like listening people that’s just like you.
    THANK YOU.

    • @Thomasfrohwitter
      @Thomasfrohwitter 3 роки тому

      Hello Claudia how are you doing?

    • @Thomasfrohwitter
      @Thomasfrohwitter 3 роки тому

      I'm doing great and thanks for asking.
      How do you spend your spare time?