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Insightful video. We hope alienating parents put the love for their children before their ego and practice #sharedparenting with the targeted parent. I can relate to some of the strategies as an alienated parent myself.
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I really wish you could do a video for fathers who go to this extreme. My ex husband lied through his teeth along with the fact his new wife is a high ranking officer in the military. Yes the courts judge each parent. My ex husband and I are polar opposite’s I have many tattoos and he puts on the show as a model citizen. This man has lied to get the relationships that would benefit him among other things. I can’t help to not take this personal when I did not do this to my daughter and now I’m in a position where I haven’t seen my daughter and or spoken to her in a few years. Yes, this does happen if you do not make as much money as the other parent, don’t think for a second that courts do not do this. I was yelled at by a judge because my ex husband said my daughter would come sleep in my bed. So, you tell me whether or not there’s corruption in the courts. It works both ways.
We all know women do this EXPONENTIALLY more often than men. Sorry that happened to you, but there's a reason the video isn't about men. Women initiate divorces 80% of the time. Women get sole custody of the children almost every time. Women get child support FAR more often than men. Women become the parent and they turn their father into a distant relative. Odds are, there's a good reason you're in the position you are.
After 7 years of alienation, my fiance's daughters escaped their abusive mother. We called CPS once we started hearing their combined and individually corroborated stories of abuse and lies. A Hillsborough/Pasco County CPS officer and one sheriff arrived at our home and instantly treated these teens with abominable disregard. As i listened through a door to our patio where the girls were interviewed, the officers each shared their examples of their own parenting styles, offered advice on how the girls should behave, and questioned their motives for leaving their mother. When told their mother was yelling and screaming at them while driving one afternoon in June 2020, she drove erratically off a road and toward a lake while exclaiming that she just wanted to "end all of this". She was incensed about her daughters reaching out to - and potentially reunifying with their father. The officers had the audacity to ask: "Well, exactly how many tires were actually off the road?" I was shocked. Immediately left the room where I'd been listening in, and told their father this was being completely mishandled. If it weren't for already having our hands full with attorneys, the biased family judge, and making arrangements for psychological counselling (X2), we would have pursued CPS and HSCO. After their mother was interviewed, we obtained the final report which lauded her as a parent who was disrespected and abandoned by her "spoiled" children. The mother stated that the girls just wanted to go live with their dad because he makes more money than her, and the girls "wanted things" that she could not give them. CPS took her bait - hook- line - & sinker, and here we are, 2 years later, still in court with the devil who abused her daughters in more ways than you can imagine. I refer to her as the egg-donor, because that's truly all she's worth.
Sorry, I see a lot of flaws here: 1. Children's age is not mentioned. There is a big difference between 6 years old and 14 years old. 2. How can we properly evaluate a child who is already mentally unstable or lost? 3. Isn't it the other way around that truly abused children don't want to keep contact (that's what people do naturally)? 4. Isn't it much simpler: just investigate both parents (find inconsistencies)? - this is the only way to prove in court.
Thank you for your post. This is a list of alienated behaviors, only. Not a comprehensive detailed explanation of the whole of alienated theory. I strongly recommend you watch the 8 behaviors of alienated children (contrasts with abused children) and see my playlist about parental alienation -- it's a 40 video list. ua-cam.com/play/PLkj28_4yhpqaBKXJVVb3iqHaeuoyX80jB.html
Bad mouthing, interfering with communication, limiting contact, tells him Eric's my favorite, says I'm not "safe" and he can't "trust me to watch his son" I watched by myself for 7 1/2 years because HE choose to be in and MOSTLY OUT, forcing child to choose, forcing child to reject, withdraw of love IN PAST DEFINITELY, confiding in child, asking child to spy, SECRETS OMG, REFERRING TO CHAMIS AS MOM, withhold medical and school information
There are more than 17 ways a parent can alienate a child's affection, this video is misleading. Anything designed to turn the alienating parent or parent's household and family as more important or more safe is significant to consider that alienation may be occurring to some degree. The most important thing to keep in mind, is the alienating parent wants the child to reject the target parent on their own.
Parental Alienation isn't about abuse (depends on "not accidental" effort) but perhaps an instinct to erase the ex, evinced with the many ORDERS in Standard Divorce Decrees to keep BOTH parents involved. Don't make Parental Alienation "child centric," their state of mind whether gleeful with hatred or traumatized does not matter. Support parental rights FIRST! These Parental Alienating ("strategies?" LOL) "behaviors" get ignored in Family Court through NO definition for PA in law nor psychiatry. People who promote the counter-productive "abuse" angle put themselves at the mercy of psych "professionals" who could not handle real science in college. Quacks profit from pseudo-science: "Dr." Amy Baker sells amatuerish pamphlets to lawyers, "Dr." Richard Warchak authors semi-serious books like "Divorce Poison" but then promotes a 3 day "Family Reunification" retreat for $14,000 booked over a year in advance - USELESS!!! REPEAT - Remember, Parental Alienation has NO definition in law nor psychiarty. Simply, Parental Alienation is a form of KIDNAPPING. Enforce possession orders, and STOP the legal profession pimping "therapists" with no professional code nor accountability! Just like Judges! Exagerating "abuse" will only provide an almost non-functional Family Court to stall your parenthood with legal proceedings, pimp psyche "professionals" and "experts," and drain your wallet, all of which clouds your ability to parent with doubt, hearsay, rumor, and character assassination and leaving the Judge to make arbitrary decisions "in the child's best interest." Time to support THE PARENT'S RIGHT TO PARENT, period, by supporting and ENFORCING POSSESSION ORDERS and probably a more equal 50% sharing of parenting. ENFORCE POSSESSION ORDERS FIRST! Illinois law, 3rd denial of visitation, that Court-contemptuous parent GOES TO JAIL. PA is KIDNAPPING in other countries' law... why not EVERYWHERE?
Let me say all my children are grown and their narcissistic father has passed on. I understand this video to some degree, but it is written somewhat bias. I say this because sometimes protecting your relationship with your children can look like parental alienation. There are exes that some have to raise children with who don't always love or want the children. It is about hurting and controlling the custodial. The ex gets other people to say and do negative things about and to the custodial parent and acts like Disneyland parent without the day to day care of the child so naturally the child wants to always playful parent. When the child goes over the noncustodial parent house, some of the stepparents overstep their boundaries and disrespect the custodial parent. The ex and their new partner tell the children you can come live with me, manipulate the children minds and then when the children come home to the custodial parent they get the brunt of the game playing. The child is confused, angry, starts saying I want to live with other parent, says mean things to the custodial parent and all the while crying, loving, running to, playing with the custodial parent. It is meant to confuse the child on purpose and they know what they are doing, but because the custodial parent has to co-parent with the non-custodial and protect their childrens' mind and heart, their stable environment and their own relationship with their children they look like the are a part of the parental alienation game when in fact it is the non-custodial parent who is doing so. This happens all the time. Some custodial parents aren't bitter exes. They could care less about their romantic relationship they once had. They try to have a well-rounded coparenting relationship with their ex, but the ex makes it very difficult to do so and then makes it look like it is the custodial parent.
The Pennsylvania Statute explicitly excludes parental behavior that is meant to protect a child from abuse from being used against that parent. I appreciate the dilemma you describe.
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I always thought it was me and my issues I was dealing with but watching this video makes better sense now lol 😂
I went through this too, which is why I published all these videos. I wouldn't wish this on an enemy!
Insightful video. We hope alienating parents put the love for their children before their ego and practice #sharedparenting with the targeted parent. I can relate to some of the strategies as an alienated parent myself.
Sorry you went through that. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy (or their kids!)
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I really wish you could do a video for fathers who go to this extreme. My ex husband lied through his teeth along with the fact his new wife is a high ranking officer in the military. Yes the courts judge each parent. My ex husband and I are polar opposite’s I have many tattoos and he puts on the show as a model citizen. This man has lied to get the relationships that would benefit him among other things. I can’t help to not take this personal when I did not do this to my daughter and now I’m in a position where I haven’t seen my daughter and or spoken to her in a few years. Yes, this does happen if you do not make as much money as the other parent, don’t think for a second that courts do not do this. I was yelled at by a judge because my ex husband said my daughter would come sleep in my bed. So, you tell me whether or not there’s corruption in the courts. It works both ways.
I have no doubt that it happens on both sides, and people without money are particularly vulnerable.
We all know women do this EXPONENTIALLY more often than men. Sorry that happened to you, but there's a reason the video isn't about men.
Women initiate divorces 80% of the time. Women get sole custody of the children almost every time. Women get child support FAR more often than men. Women become the parent and they turn their father into a distant relative.
Odds are, there's a good reason you're in the position you are.
After 7 years of alienation, my fiance's daughters escaped their abusive mother. We called CPS once we started hearing their combined and individually corroborated stories of abuse and lies. A Hillsborough/Pasco County CPS officer and one sheriff arrived at our home and instantly treated these teens with abominable disregard. As i listened through a door to our patio where the girls were interviewed, the officers each shared their examples of their own parenting styles, offered advice on how the girls should behave, and questioned their motives for leaving their mother. When told their mother was yelling and screaming at them while driving one afternoon in June 2020, she drove erratically off a road and toward a lake while exclaiming that she just wanted to "end all of this". She was incensed about her daughters reaching out to - and potentially reunifying with their father. The officers had the audacity to ask: "Well, exactly how many tires were actually off the road?" I was shocked. Immediately left the room where I'd been listening in, and told their father this was being completely mishandled. If it weren't for already having our hands full with attorneys, the biased family judge, and making arrangements for psychological counselling (X2), we would have pursued CPS and HSCO. After their mother was interviewed, we obtained the final report which lauded her as a parent who was disrespected and abandoned by her "spoiled" children. The mother stated that the girls just wanted to go live with their dad because he makes more money than her, and the girls "wanted things" that she could not give them. CPS took her bait - hook- line - & sinker, and here we are, 2 years later, still in court with the devil who abused her daughters in more ways than you can imagine. I refer to her as the egg-donor, because that's truly all she's worth.
I'm so sorry to hear of that. This story demonstrates the lack of training that workers in the system have.
@@LauraSicolainc It's not a lack of training so much as it is the workers themselves being personally corrupt and morally bankrupt.
Cool video
Thanks Shawn!
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Sorry, I see a lot of flaws here: 1. Children's age is not mentioned. There is a big difference between 6 years old and 14 years old. 2. How can we properly evaluate a child who is already mentally unstable or lost? 3. Isn't it the other way around that truly abused children don't want to keep contact (that's what people do naturally)? 4. Isn't it much simpler: just investigate both parents (find inconsistencies)? - this is the only way to prove in court.
Thank you for your post. This is a list of alienated behaviors, only. Not a comprehensive detailed explanation of the whole of alienated theory. I strongly recommend you watch the 8 behaviors of alienated children (contrasts with abused children) and see my playlist about parental alienation -- it's a 40 video list. ua-cam.com/play/PLkj28_4yhpqaBKXJVVb3iqHaeuoyX80jB.html
the 17 strategies are not assessing the child. They are assessing the alienating parent and their behavior.
100%
Thanks for watching.
My ex has wiped me out of my two daughters lives completely
I'm so sorry to learn that. hang in there.
Bad mouthing, interfering with communication, limiting contact, tells him Eric's my favorite, says I'm not "safe" and he can't "trust me to watch his son" I watched by myself for 7 1/2 years because HE choose to be in and MOSTLY OUT, forcing child to choose, forcing child to reject, withdraw of love IN PAST DEFINITELY, confiding in child, asking child to spy, SECRETS OMG, REFERRING TO CHAMIS AS MOM, withhold medical and school information
That's so unfair.
My ex fits all of them and even more.
This is a good list- Amy Baker created it. These are very common.
There are more than 17 ways a parent can alienate a child's affection, this video is misleading. Anything designed to turn the alienating parent or parent's household and family as more important or more safe is significant to consider that alienation may be occurring to some degree. The most important thing to keep in mind, is the alienating parent wants the child to reject the target parent on their own.
The video says, "17 strategies," but they are really categories of strategies. I appreciate your point.
Parental Alienation isn't about abuse (depends on "not accidental" effort) but perhaps an instinct to erase the ex, evinced with the many ORDERS in Standard Divorce Decrees to keep BOTH parents involved.
Don't make Parental Alienation "child centric," their state of mind whether gleeful with hatred or traumatized does not matter.
Support parental rights FIRST!
These Parental Alienating ("strategies?" LOL) "behaviors" get ignored in Family Court through NO definition for PA in law nor psychiatry. People who promote the counter-productive "abuse" angle put themselves at the mercy of psych "professionals" who could not handle real science in college.
Quacks profit from pseudo-science: "Dr." Amy Baker sells amatuerish pamphlets to lawyers, "Dr." Richard Warchak authors semi-serious books like "Divorce Poison" but then promotes a 3 day "Family Reunification" retreat for $14,000 booked over a year in advance - USELESS!!!
REPEAT - Remember, Parental Alienation has NO definition in law nor psychiarty.
Simply, Parental Alienation is a form of KIDNAPPING.
Enforce possession orders, and STOP the legal profession pimping "therapists" with no professional code nor accountability! Just like Judges! Exagerating "abuse" will only provide an almost non-functional Family Court to stall your parenthood with legal proceedings, pimp psyche "professionals" and "experts," and drain your wallet, all of which clouds your ability to parent with doubt, hearsay, rumor, and character assassination and leaving the Judge to make arbitrary decisions "in the child's best interest." Time to support THE PARENT'S RIGHT TO PARENT, period, by supporting and ENFORCING POSSESSION ORDERS and probably a more equal 50% sharing of parenting. ENFORCE POSSESSION ORDERS FIRST!
Illinois law, 3rd denial of visitation, that Court-contemptuous parent GOES TO JAIL.
PA is KIDNAPPING in other countries' law... why not EVERYWHERE?
Wow - if the laws on the books were enforced, you're right -- things would be much better for parents and children!
PA is addressed in psychology. It is abuse of the child and of the targeted parent.
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Let me say all my children are grown and their narcissistic father has passed on. I understand this video to some degree, but it is written somewhat bias. I say this because sometimes protecting your relationship with your children can look like parental alienation. There are exes that some have to raise children with who don't always love or want the children. It is about hurting and controlling the custodial. The ex gets other people to say and do negative things about and to the custodial parent and acts like Disneyland parent without the day to day care of the child so naturally the child wants to always playful parent. When the child goes over the noncustodial parent house, some of the stepparents overstep their boundaries and disrespect the custodial parent. The ex and their new partner tell the children you can come live with me, manipulate the children minds and then when the children come home to the custodial parent they get the brunt of the game playing. The child is confused, angry, starts saying I want to live with other parent, says mean things to the custodial parent and all the while crying, loving, running to, playing with the custodial parent. It is meant to confuse the child on purpose and they know what they are doing, but because the custodial parent has to co-parent with the non-custodial and protect their childrens' mind and heart, their stable environment and their own relationship with their children they look like the are a part of the parental alienation game when in fact it is the non-custodial parent who is doing so. This happens all the time. Some custodial parents aren't bitter exes. They could care less about their romantic relationship they once had. They try to have a well-rounded coparenting relationship with their ex, but the ex makes it very difficult to do so and then makes it look like it is the custodial parent.
The Pennsylvania Statute explicitly excludes parental behavior that is meant to protect a child from abuse from being used against that parent. I appreciate the dilemma you describe.