12 Sneaky Signs of Gaslighting Most People Miss

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • Here are the sneaky signs of gaslighting most people miss. Today, we delve deep into the profoundly impactful world of psychological manipulation, shedding light on the covert tactics used by manipulative people to undermine and control their victims. Be it in a personal relationship, at work, or within a family dynamic, understanding these sneaky signs of gaslighting is crucial for self-preservation and mental health. From the subtle undermining of your reality to the outright denial of your experiences, we explore how gaslighting warning signs manifest in everyday interactions, often missed by those being targeted by toxic people.
    This video goes beyond the surface, linking manipulative behaviors to deeper psychological patterns associated with the dark triad personality traits (Narcissism, Psychopathy, and Machiavellianism). We discuss how power hungry people employ manipulation tactics not just to dominate but to erode self-esteem and assert control.
    Whether you're dealing with an outright narcissist or someone exhibiting these toxic traits, this list is an essential guide to uncovering gaslighting in relationships and taking back control of your life. By recognizing signs you’re being gaslighted, you're taking a vital step toward protecting yourself from psychological abuse and its damaging effects.
    OTHER VIDEOS TO WATCH:
    12 Gaslighting Phrases Abusive People Say To Control You:
    • 12 Gaslighting Phrases...
    6 Dark Psychology Tricks To Watch Out For:
    • 6 Dark Psychology Tric...
    How To Become Impossible To Manipulate:
    • How to Become Impossib...
    ------------------------------------------------------------------
    Subscribe To Our Channel for More Videos Like This!
    TWITTER:
    / brainydose
    FACEBOOK:
    / brainydose
    INSTAGRAM:
    / brainydose
    Audio & Video Production by Brainy Dose
    ------------------------------------------------------------------

КОМЕНТАРІ • 49

  • @IndigoPhoenix-wc9lh
    @IndigoPhoenix-wc9lh 6 місяців тому +7

    I've lived under these conditions for many years. It took a toll on my health. Whoever needs it, believe me, run! Run like hell!

  • @jasonbean2764
    @jasonbean2764 7 місяців тому +13

    This has been attempted on me, fortunately I have many friends and some pointed out what was being attempted.
    I get by with a little help from my friends.:)

  • @ChocoParfaitFra
    @ChocoParfaitFra 7 місяців тому +25

    Lmaoooo my ex kept saying he didn’t say something but I had the screenshots and he got mad at me 😂 it’s hard tho, when they get mad they start criticizing and say hurtful things, but it’s only because he didn’t want me to find out his lies… these people are so pathetic, unable to be honest and take responsibility for their actions

    • @ifell3
      @ifell3 7 місяців тому +1

      No he didn't 😅

    • @ChocoParfaitFra
      @ChocoParfaitFra 7 місяців тому +1

      @@ifell3 he didn’t what?

    • @ifell3
      @ifell3 7 місяців тому +1

      @@ChocoParfaitFra he didn't say what you said he said 😄

    • @merajsupercluster9015
      @merajsupercluster9015 7 місяців тому

      True relationship can only exst when you actively try to solve the problem and not keep it secret to yourself :(, that's what I realised when I was keep failing but now I do tell them about what the problem is and am truthful and try to solve it with them and at the end of the day.... everythings works out

    • @dianahill5116
      @dianahill5116 7 місяців тому

      On the first day of being at residence, (Of my adopted parents and their children's residence.) a woman slapped me up against my head hard enough to make me cry. She reprimanded me, for not coming when she called. I was four years old.
      Hours later, while entering what would become known as the playroom, there was a small girl. I reached for a toy teacup, she was playing with a tea set.
      The girl screamed something and started to cry.
      The woman beat me up, in front of the girl.
      At dinner that night, (each person sitting in their assigned seats) I was sitting to the right of the woman.
      The woman stood-up and said: " Don't you ever tell anyone what goes on inside this house! Or Else!"
      She was the wife of the adopted parents. She was my adopted mother.
      _____
      I'm preparing my legal case to go before the United States Supreme Court.

  • @Keithfire100
    @Keithfire100 7 місяців тому +38

    Hit a like if you don"t like gaslighters and narcissist

    • @pjt5992
      @pjt5992 5 місяців тому

      POOF just like that everyone is a gaslighting narcissist, expert or victim.

  • @jeffreyreynolds4732
    @jeffreyreynolds4732 7 місяців тому +14

    Aka: Narcissist

    • @pjt5992
      @pjt5992 5 місяців тому

      aka someone wanting to be a victim of one because it's the trend these days. No one is dealing with lying assholes anymore, just gaslighting narcissists. Sad really how much this generation wants to be a victim of such things.

  • @KonekoPurrrfection
    @KonekoPurrrfection 7 місяців тому +6

    My ex always gaslit me... I'm still struggling with second guessing myself 10 years later

  • @diva555sg
    @diva555sg 7 місяців тому +8

    Pls add more gaslighting examples + what to do.

  • @NuclearNoMore
    @NuclearNoMore 7 місяців тому +6

    I very much appreciate this video- THANKS!

  • @NewLife-qj9mx
    @NewLife-qj9mx 7 місяців тому +3

    Perfect timing, thank you 🙏
    Ive been trying to explain this to someone - watching a video seems to sink in better

    • @BrainyDose
      @BrainyDose  7 місяців тому +2

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @diva555sg
    @diva555sg 7 місяців тому +3

    When you are more aware now & can identify what can you do without reacting, play into their game, not act like what they do?

  • @Rebelmusedesign
    @Rebelmusedesign 7 місяців тому +4

    My sister…..EXACTLY.

  • @millertas
    @millertas 3 місяці тому

    One of my older sisters has been gaslighting me all my 65 years. She has had 3 boy friends that I have met (two she married) and I can see that they were bigger victims than I.

  • @karenharris3183
    @karenharris3183 7 місяців тому +6

    why do they even do that? everyone has done it to me and it so like How come? You know that you never did a wrong. You do not understand How come these collage persons do this? It only made me stronger. Because I know myself so well. They do not know me at all.

  • @vadimrium
    @vadimrium 7 місяців тому +2

    Ooooh, I am learning Engslish and I have B1-B2 level I suppouse but it was really difficult for me to understand this topic ))) There are a lot of new confusing words but it really helps me to deep into native talks and specific conversations! Thank you!)

  • @nancychisholm2880
    @nancychisholm2880 7 місяців тому +6

    I have a son who gaslights n a mother periodically ! I don’t know if they are aware of it ..

  • @karenharris3183
    @karenharris3183 7 місяців тому +4

    most everyone I know does this. you want stuff to lower blood sugars they deny you this option. that another kind

  • @relicofgold
    @relicofgold 7 місяців тому +6

    Gawd.......this vid is such a reminder of how people are dirtbags. It's the law apparently.

  • @darioz5894
    @darioz5894 7 місяців тому +6

    This basically sums up every Liberal government in the Western World

  • @sarahhurst701
    @sarahhurst701 7 місяців тому +4

    Great video.🌹💜🌍

  • @migalmolai9981
    @migalmolai9981 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @karenharris3183
    @karenharris3183 7 місяців тому +6

    you know the only thing I find is to know you. Your self. you matter and you can take care of you first. Why? Well that what they do. you do it too. Do not worry about it because they learnt it the same why you are. Make yourself smart.

  • @alexandrapomeroy8050
    @alexandrapomeroy8050 7 місяців тому +7

    I was told that I was too sensitive. My response was I love my sensitivity, and I’m not changing for you, if you don’t like it, don’t let the door hit your ass on the way out! He didn’t know what to say to that! Also didn’t know what to do when I told him to leave…. Forever!

  • @suriyanarayananr9652
    @suriyanarayananr9652 5 місяців тому

    @psycho.. unnaium experimental rat uh use pannuraugala.. 😂 ovvoru move um detailed uh document pannirukanugaley😂

  • @alunjones9153
    @alunjones9153 6 місяців тому

    I agree with that all my life I've only ever had 1 or 2 friends maybe my health is a factor of that but I don't think I really give a shit anymore I luv sas films mercenary films and films like the transporter why cause it peeps Livin on there own I've taken up camping started off car camping moving into camping and follow my masters on U tube peeps by watching there videos I've learnt how to go about it I work most weekends as a crowd safety officer so my weekend is devoted to employment mostly in the old days when an associate was alive it was fun if hang with him at a bar he became ill @ 40 and died now the rest of that group nofink in common I'd move but I'd move to some other lame and lame is polite part of where I live better to wait 3 years and maybe have d opportunity to leave d borough and those wasters for good

  • @mizfrenchtwist
    @mizfrenchtwist 7 місяців тому +3

    hello ...........OHHHHHH HOW TRUE , we all know a person/persons like this ,DON'T TOLERATE IT . GREAT SHARE , THANK YOU FOR SHARING🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😘...............

  • @matthewwozniak9138
    @matthewwozniak9138 2 місяці тому

    Roses are Red, Violets are Purple.

  • @omarlittle-hales8237
    @omarlittle-hales8237 7 місяців тому +2

    SALaM, SHLAMa, SHLOMo, SHALoM, NAMASTe, PEACe.
    Quran [Last Testament]:
    Ismail [Ishmael] And Idrees [Enoch] And Dhul-Kifl [Ezekiel]; All Were Of The Patient.
    Mention in The Scriptures, Idrees [Enoch]. Indeed, He Was A Man Of Truth And A Prophet.

  • @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
    @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 7 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for the light shed on this situation 🎉🎉🎉

  • @learncadadia7832
    @learncadadia7832 6 місяців тому +3

    Document everything. Don’t let time passed make you forget.

  • @janececelia7448
    @janececelia7448 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm sick she's not but she tells other like the ward staff that's it's she who's really ill. She screams at me especially when I'm sick and with no one else around then denies or tells me I'm delusion and having hallucinations. I used to be a psychiatric nurse so she foolish to go there. She's told me on numerous occasions that's she scared of me. I have never screamed at her, belittled her or threatened her, only tried to have a discussion which she either literally runs away from or calls me a f**king b***h before hanging up on me. It turns out that it was our father being rough on our half-brothers, which makes no sense to me, and I said so, to which she went on the defense. Also, our father's been dead for years.
    She always downplays my experience of my childhood, which was one of neglect which led me to having renal failure. Naturally she shared my childhood up to a point, she 4 years older than me. She says that it's normal when boys attacked each other with knifes, one beating up their much younger sister, that'd be me, leaving terrible bruises and a cut on my forehead one time as I ran head-first into an open door trying to escape his wrath. I still have the scar nearly 60 years later. Or the times this much older brother babysat us, and he'd stand at the door flashing a knife. She says all boys behave like this especially in the 1960's and none of it was that bad and why am I worrying about this now.
    Or the time she was going to donate me one of her kidneys and couldn't 9 days before our operations, giving me several different excuses over time, none which made any sense either. Or throwing food out of my fridge while shouting at me that I was 'a grubby bitch' repeatedly as I was going in and out of consciousness with sepsis and not calling an ambulance. I believe in the end I did. And calling me selfish for not thinking of her feelings after I got a deceased donor's kidney when I felt overwhelmed by the medication regime and went into my bedroom to have a quiet weep, and instead of staying with me for the week, she took off after the first night, bearing in mind she took me from my homeland to be with her so she could help care for me.
    I believe she brought me over to Australia to be her punching bag. Now, due to kidney infections and medical negligence I will likely have to go back on dialysis again, my sister setting the groundwork to help me as little as possible by repeatedly telling me and others that's she's really unwell despite evidence to the contrary like OS trips and much internal travel, rennervating her house. She doesn't say she's tired like normal people do, she says there's something wrong with her, the doctors just don't know what with. She now has a heart murmur; mine was diagnosed last year hers wasn't. I needed an echocardiogram; she was pissed off she wasn't eligible for one, I wonder why? .... She is surrounded by friends and family who adore her, me not so much.

  • @mikesmith6594
    @mikesmith6594 7 місяців тому +1

    Been experiencing gaslighting most of my life it has caused me severe depression & anxiety & low self esteem , suicidal thoughts and double guessing myself often .

  • @alunjones9153
    @alunjones9153 6 місяців тому

    I'd sooner just stay in touch with family and even though my smart fone runs my life 4 all my contracts I'd ditch it anyday to vanish like a ghost

  • @anisoaral7954
    @anisoaral7954 5 місяців тому

    😊

  • @luci432
    @luci432 7 місяців тому +1

    Grazie.