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  • Опубліковано 4 лют 2025

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  • @JD-zm4eh
    @JD-zm4eh Місяць тому +2

    After my first go around with marriage failed, mainly because of myself. I went through a period of at least 5 years of growing pains before meeting the true Love of my life and even though we aint got money we are at peace and happy for going on 36 years now. Your message is the absolute truth and I'm a living example.

  • @pablooso1941
    @pablooso1941 Місяць тому +3

    This video is one hundred percent accurate. Spoken in easy to understand wording. I am a nearly 80 year old man and my wife (though we have never had an argument) often asks "why do you suffer in silence"?. I don't know any other way. I am an old Marine, 32 years in the military and that way of thinking was a way of life, I know nothing else. How can I tap into feelings that I don't even know I have or how to access them. It's too late for me but hopefully this channel will help the younger generations.

    • @alimcforever
      @alimcforever  Місяць тому

      @@pablooso1941 thank you for your comment. I appreciate you.

  • @ESTcor
    @ESTcor Місяць тому +2

    Everyone should read ‘The Body Keeps the Score’ if they haven’t already. I have a running theory that most men pushing the narrative you’re describing came from a line of emotional neglect/abuse so difficult to deal with at a young age they’ve been pushed into being people who are turned off emotionally and are constantly “locked in” as a means of self defense that’s become a habit they feel safe in doing.
    Many of these men use the anger you describe (with aid from a male-favoring workforce) to fuel successful careers but that’s all they see themselves as. These people are glorified by other people, too, for sacrificing so much of themselves and keeping quiet. I feel like it’s such an easy rabbit hole to slip into because it contributes to the current late stage capitalist system’s sentiment of “shut up, work, and deal with it after you’ve accumulated x amount of money”

    • @RogueNinja-z5f
      @RogueNinja-z5f Місяць тому

      In related news most custodial single parents r women

    • @alimcforever
      @alimcforever  Місяць тому +1

      @@ESTcor very well said

    • @johnharrison6745
      @johnharrison6745 Місяць тому +1

      "Blah; Jabber; Blather": Socialism is for people who are not only weak, but, also, are JEALOUS, and, want everyone made as WEAK as they, themselves, are. 😏

  • @rooberry-music
    @rooberry-music Місяць тому +2

    This is my new favourite video on the internet💖

  • @RobertMesa-fu9oy
    @RobertMesa-fu9oy Місяць тому

    Im male and attracted to women i can't help it

    • @supratik
      @supratik Місяць тому +3

      "attracted to women"...be specific?!

    • @RobertMesa-fu9oy
      @RobertMesa-fu9oy Місяць тому

      @supratik I love female attracted sexually

  • @anamnesisfelsefe
    @anamnesisfelsefe Місяць тому

    thanks

  • @rogue109
    @rogue109 Місяць тому +2

    How the hell does "capitalism" isolate me? Seriously, it's an economic system, not a social system. Society wanting to create strong capable men is a good thing. Weak men aren't a positive factor in any society.

    • @alimcforever
      @alimcforever  Місяць тому +2

      @@rogue109 did you watch the video or did you just come here to shout angry man stuff in my comments x

    • @ESTcor
      @ESTcor Місяць тому

      @@rogue109 acting as though the economic and social system isn’t seriously intertwined was immediately negated by your comment on “weak men’s” value to a society. Your power isn’t reliant on how well you bottle shit up and how subservient you are to the rules in place. That’s the narrative pushed by people who want to milk you for your labor.

    • @AmmoC9M
      @AmmoC9M Місяць тому

      @@alimcforever "be you, & let your guard down, feel your emotions" . . . just don't un-bottle it in the presence of neo-Marxist idealists. Remember there are two types of people in this world:
      #1 - Ones who want to control others along with those who want or need to be controlled (ie: criminals or mental issues).
      #2 - Ones who prescribe to common sense values & just want to be left on their own to pursue "making their own world a better place" (I'm gonna guess this is where the connection to "capatalism" comes into play?)

    • @johnharrison6745
      @johnharrison6745 Місяць тому +1

      @@ESTcor *PROVE* it. 😏

    • @ESTcor
      @ESTcor Місяць тому

      @@johnharrison6745 bruh

  • @Bleu_sky
    @Bleu_sky Місяць тому

    Women. Am I right?

  • @johnRed-de3bl
    @johnRed-de3bl Місяць тому +2

    We all have our opinion.

    • @ESTcor
      @ESTcor Місяць тому +1

      Don’t be afraid of having feelings and don’t control people in a negative way.
      she says “we’re not your enemy” in the video.
      Even if you disagree, the video came from a good place and at least she has enough courage to elaborate on her takes.
      It’s hilarious how hard people vouche for capitalism like they owe it something. A system can work and be flawed in places that aren’t being addressed in America. People can take advantage of a system to be evil and greedy.

  • @anthonybarton290
    @anthonybarton290 Місяць тому

    Oh just wait a little while. You haven't seen what life can throw at you yet. In time you will see how strong or weak you are.

    • @ESTcor
      @ESTcor Місяць тому

      How’s that overactive amygdala treating you?

  • @alasdyali20
    @alasdyali20 Місяць тому

    Lmao, it's funny how i agree with you a lot on so many things you post about, i've been a men's rights and mental health advocate for years now!
    plus the whole capitalism stuff and Alan Watts! wth!

  • @Nissanalltheway
    @Nissanalltheway Місяць тому

    ❤❤

  • @JesseGuerrero-ip9kw
    @JesseGuerrero-ip9kw Місяць тому

    Doesn't that apply to equal women too? Wtf?

  • @l.a.raustadt518
    @l.a.raustadt518 Місяць тому +1

    Stoned?

  • @joeycrooker1282
    @joeycrooker1282 Місяць тому +1

    Incoherent drivel..........