Its time for women to stop treating good men bad. Stop wanting a man who is no good for you and start appreciating the one who will always love and be there for you.
Marvin mckinley Some are the product of great parents, but may prefer status and drama over the greatness that they were raised to be. Some were a product of a broken home, but may know that the drama life isn't what's up. ((✊😁💰/🎲🎲👋😢....
Marvin mckinley I've been openly against the character my father and most friends are, but have been taken for a joke or a fool by most women that I encounter. It becomes a fucked up thing when you start to believe that your so called father was correct in his actions towards the woman that raised you. Women may look at my dress code, curly hair and huge feet, then think that I'm a player. I'm not about that nonsense because I don't have that kind of heart. I've looked over my shoulder enough when I was in the street, so I don't need that when dealing with someone that I call my woman. I don't mind being a "square" when it comes to specific matters.
I can't believe these words are actually coming from a female, finally a woman sees what so many of us good men go through n actually cares. God bless you n Ur family n thank u for posting this video, I'll have to share this wit every girl I know lol. We need more women like you encouraging other women in the right direction cuz it's hard being a man in this sexist country, we get stepped on everyday. anyway, yup, great video I appreciate it.
I agree 100% with this comment. Sadly, it most likely will not go viral because people don't want to hear this kind of advice. They would rather hear about all of the bad things and nothing supportive of good morals. Such disrespect in this world. Thank god that there are still some women in this world like this one that can restore at least a little faith in humanity for us good men. God bless!
She said the truth and I had a woman like that she was ungrateful and now she regrets it. This young lady understands God bless your husband he blessed.
This is so true. I'm hearing it all over the place. Women are breaking perfectly good unions with wonderful men because of "grass is greener" mentality. And then when that perfectly good man goes and finds himself the next woman, who loves and cherishes and supports him and then suddenly he starts reaching for the stars and living up to his potential she's bitter like "he never did that for ME!!" 😒 You don't even have to say it out loud. If I'm your mind you're thinking he ain't shit or he's not good enough or why isn't he as good as X man over there... that implicit attitude rubs off and then guess what... he lives down to your expectations. GREAT great message! I know this is true in my relationship and coming up on 10 years in March, I can STILL say that this one thing is a HUGE factor in both of our lives as far as who we are, what we feel we can achieve, and how much we have to give to the other.
Thank you all for your comments. I've been getting quite a few lately and for the most part they are encouraging and positive. I will be doing more videos soon. Stay tuned.
People like Steve Harvey is to blame for some of these ungrateful thinking of woman always looking for the best provider not the one that they can work together with
She just made my day. It's very hard to find a woman that appreciates good men like myself. I know you say "good guys finish last" but remember the last finish first.
Xavier Smith That true. But you know why nice guys finish last? in the words of judge Lynn Toler. "people say the nice guy finish last? that's cuz women are foolish".
This young lady is so smart, beautiful and blessed. She could teach women of all ages how to do better. What a blessing. Her husband is a blessing to her and she is one to him.
Sister, First of all, I just want to say THANK YOU. If there is such a thing as a Black Queen, you are it. You are a beautiful and intelligent young LADY. Your husband is a very lucky man. God Bless the both of you. Your video should have WAY more views, likes and comments than this. It is one of the best and realest videos on here concerning this much-debated topic. Everything you said was on point. It is very disheartening to see so many young sisters who are unappreciative of brothers who are trying to do something with themselves and be a positive to our community. Again, Thank you for being the kind of woman that all our sisters should strive to be.
What's funny is that they will see a beamer and automatically think a guy with a regular job is a baller, but he's just driving a used car and isn't making 6 figures. That same woman may see a guy driving a 10 year old Chevy, and think he's broke. The guy with the Chevy may own a few properties, and actually be sitting on millions. His Chevy may also be one of his cars, but he doesn't care to put many miles on his new or collector vehicles that are easy for him to afford.
I wish more women AND men felt like you.Women seem to want money,and men just want armcandy.Everyone seems so superficial nowadays. Like the old saying goes,"it's what's on the inside that counts."
@@mistyblue526 Not just money but also STATUS. I remember about 5 years ago, my friend's sister was refusing to leave an abusive relationship because she was afraid of losing the status of having him.
There are another side, many cheap people drive used cars, live un small apartments.... so they don’t really want/beed anything more, so they don’t spend money on themselves, thus they will never spend money on women or someone else, because they just sit their whole life on money! Know a lot of people like that, the cheapest people!
This video explains exactly why you're a happily married black woman and most are just single mothers. What this woman is explaining is the difference between a woman a man would just sleep with, and the one he sees himself with for the rest of his life. Now to explain further, I must say that most men that come out of single mothers homes mostly get caught up in saving the wrong type of women, but a man that had both parents and we're positive influences tend to look for this kind of woman in this video.
This was a really good message. Hopefully in the future I will a wonferful guy to get married to. I'm definitely going to be his encourager all the way. It's always good to uplift your man.
Madam I'm 3 years late responding just wanted to say thank you even though I live a MGTOW lifestyle it was great to finally see a beautiful positive woman.All the best.
Thank you my sister, about time someone realize what good men go through. Nice guys never finish last. Women who doesn't realize what they have, and take advantage of the nice guy finish last. Now you have most definitely spoken like a true Queen. Thanks
They're lot's of ungrateful women's in the world. That don't appreciate a good man. They'll wait until he decide too stop dealing with her. Too start appreciate him. He had left cause he had enough of her not being ungrateful.
Every little boy begins his journey liking, respecting and loving the women in his life in his innocence. It is only after years of getting played by teenage girls and young adults in college or his early years in corporate of the military that his heart hardens, he says "F*ck it" and goes about the rest of his days trying to do to women what was done to him i e the Playa. American society has created this social and spiritual dynamic. Having "game" = the ability to LIE is what it seems to be all about. Generally, the men and women who "game" well get multiple playmates when they're young. There is a deep price to pay for having game though and most do not see it until they have been played playing the game. The lie is always intriguing and fun, but temporary. The truth is deemed boring because it is stable. In America, we want the excitement and the stability, but can't find both in the same person so we are always hunting for that next (temporal) thrill. The ultimate game is that the Devil will always make sure that you have a great time...ON THE WAY DOWN. Play if you will, but don't complain about all of the good men or women you passed up when you were younger and obsessed with thrill seeking.
C Toomer That's true.What women seem to forget is that men have finite energy and time to continue searching for that golden unicorn.A lot of men burn out,and after spending years dealing with the bullshit,decide it's a zero sum game with very little reward,and decide to transfer their energies elsewhere.That's why even a lot of black men are now identifying as MGTOW
Most powerful in articulate message already in a long time thank you for clarifying this is awesome well said very well said and you're absolutely right the so-called game is not even worth it in the long run because eventually both parties will end up on GAME OVER!!! well.said
The Devil loves destroying love! It has worked perfectly for millennia exactly as you outlined it here! God bless you and protect you for spreading truth! Americans do not seek God so therefore the demonic beings prevail in their lives ESPECIALLY in the area of the male and female relationship. God’s Word is brimming over with all that a person needs to live life abundantly but we choose the snap crackle and pop of the Devil so therefore live lives of pure Hell in every phase of our lives!
I wish more American Woman could think and reason like her! It's materializm that makes good men run for the hills, well anyway Blessings to everyone in the comments and abroad!
Fellas take notes and ladies that are still "looking" pay attention to this video. She hit the nail on the head. All points well said and valid. Peace ans blessings everyone.
Sister I am that man and I'm glad you're a great woman who totally get it,God is doing great things in you're life continue to educate these weman young and old,it's not about you're age but it's about having the know and sister you have the know!and all men old and young that trully been threw this get it,this is Bull Dee Dawlson from the homeside squad VA.much live to you and you're family and continue to live you're husband and all there who have a live one like this live them,live them,love them couse you really only get one shot at this we are not promised tomorrow charrish every min of this day......God bless us all.....❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🙏🐦
I was that type of man but she left and took my son away from me. After everything I did for her, She said she could do better. I'm never going to forget her words.
This is so true. I've been through it. I've been my best to a woman who see a nothing good in me. She would criticise me and judge me with other men and all sorts of things so I salute you 100%
I love the way your mindset works and giving the thought you realize a man's worth and we provide and bring to the table to women. Most women this day and age have a blind ambition for their own vanity,social media status, what they can get out of a man without being committed to him and money above all. We men go through hell and high water and walk on a sharp edged knife just to please most women but things we do is left unappreciated. We're not perfect but we love you women anyway, all we want in return is our love for you to be fortified, receive me the way I receive you. Thank you for this message, it is very inspiring and a fruit for thought for those women who are the ungrateful ones.
This video made me cry. 😭 I fit all your descriptions of a good man; and I just left an ex girlfriend that took me for granted and was cheating on me. I was beginning to take it personally, but now I see that she lost out. Thanks. 😁
i wish my Ex had watched this video years back, i might have at least gotten a 'thank you' for all i did for her >.>; ....still, great video, i hope you two are still going strong, happy, and blessed :)
Great video sis, my wife really appreciates me , but I didn't have that before I met her !!! Thanks for being honest about women too, alot of women are not honest,its refreshing to hear this!!!!
Is this for real !! Hard to believe.i I'm 70 years old and never heard such a powerful word from such a young woman.what a great woman at least 300 million Americans should hear this philosophy. I'm mesmerized for words. Because it's the same way l view a marriage May millions follow your humble advise..
Mine too. Im trying not to make her my ex, but damn when a woman decides "she not satisfied" she gets stubborn AF. She can't see the potential. Cant see that you are trying to save money and work up the ladder. They want you to support then when they are down, but will not do the same for you.
To all men, listen and pay attention! To live a happy life free from drama, anguish, stress, financial loss, courtrooms, false allegations, lies, child protective services and all manner of unnecessary and unwarranted b*******. 1. Never get married, 2. Never have children, 3. Focus on yourself and your dreams, 4. Dedicate yourself to God and becoming the better version of yourself so you can live a happy and fulfilling life. But if you decide not to follow these guidelines then make sure you're prepared by having a prenup (regardless of your income) or a notarized agreement before you get married and or have children. Be wise and learn from the mistakes and experiences of men in the past and present so you can live a happy life. Remember, don't be a simp because the ratios between woman and men in America are 8 to 1 so don't get hung up on your emotions, lust or whatever for a beautiful woman because there are many more to choose. The purpose is to maintain your peace of mind, joy, good mental health, financial freedom and overall happiness.
I appreciate you for making this video... Sooooo many females need to watch it. God bless you and your family and may your holidays be exactly what you all want them to be.
WOW!! Very true and nicely said!! So many women today are so out of touch in many ways, materialistic and yea always comparing. If only more woman had the mindset like you!! Thank You for being you!! It also has to work the other way around with the guy. May there be more like YOU!!
This video almost brought me to tears. I gave my all for this one lady from late 2012 until 2016. I was never good enough for her. I learned from it. I literally gave all I had. She even graduated from a technical college and never acknowledged I was one of the many reasons she succeeded. I was devatated. It took a long time but in 2017 I became a stronger man and am succeeding. God is good!
That's a great point upon many others in your video that even my mom & aunts have told me & that's being a Godly man. A lot of women want Godly men yet are not Godly women. I'm a good man but not the Godly man I should be that'll make me a better man in all things. Can't ask for something I'm not myself. Can't effectively be a leader in my home if I'm not living for, seeking the Lord when I get married. I've never been appreciated in any relationship until now being a good man but being a Godly man will take things higher & bring forth a Godly woman or the lady I have will want to do the same. Great video & hopefully men and women will take heed to great, Godly advice but these days messages as yours are ignored even hated amongst men & unfortunately women too.
Sis, you are so beautiful. I subscribed. Your husband is a lucky guy. I want to meet a woman like you with such a great disposition and voice of reason.
Men are easy lady's.. Keep his belly full and his bed warm and trust me he wont leave. BUT #1 rule is never talk down to him. We need this and we need respect to build us up. Build up that strong man even if he's weak at times. And don't give him a reason to leave.
Spoken truth just love and pray for him. Let him know you are his Queen and be a Queen for him 25/7 and he will feed off you and your ways. Works for me and always keep Christ in your marriage.
Spoken truth I know they cheat but remember women do as well so the most important part is to pray together keep Christ in your life fully and always remember this real Christians don't cheat. If you trust Lee in fully believe in the Lord and accept that Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins fully 100% believe it and live that life as a Christian you will never cheat I believe that
Women don't appreciate good men just like Eve Did Not Appreciate God. God put her in a nice garden where she had no pain, could live forever and gave her an abundance of food and a Husband. Instead she choose to submit to the devil and lost everything. This same story replays today in relatinships. Women generally drift to men who make empty promises
But now they are going tell her and troll her that she is an pick lady but she is just being real but they don't want too hear reality but soon the Ression gonna hit hard
Not sure how this ended up in my feed 5 years after posting, but I’m glad it did. God has a lot of quality men out here getting completely slept on by the masses. One day, you’ll wake up to what people like to call “overnight success”. There’s growth in the struggle. You’ll see with us, or you’ll see without us. Great video. Thank you for sharing.
nick Krystosek These days the Court system is not black men friendly. So why would a man get married these days when the marriage fails half of his hard earned assets is gone , half of his income is gone through child support, alimony ect. He gets dragged through the mud , demonized . It’s cheaper and more easier to stay single. Because to many problems arise, let’s the woman he is married to has lots of single friends they want the woman do single woman things. That causes a next set of problems.
There are women like this out there unfortunately many of us fall for the wolves in sheeps clothing that take advantage. Just got out of a 9yr relationship where I was told I was the most supportive woman he ever dated. I always had his back no matter what. I was that ride or die but found out the hard way that he wasn't. It made me want to give up on relationships altogether because I honestly thought he was a good man. Never looked for a man to take care of me. I have a good job and an online business. I even helped him start a business as well. I thought we could build together unfortunately he was content watching me do all the work. I was literally working myself to death. Fortunately I found someone the complete opposite. Being cautious but hopeful.
This is beautiful and I must share this with my daughter thank you for your encouraging words keep her in prayer because she's not listening or seen the things that she is not seen she is really blown she has a wonderful husband strong Christian hard working man who is always about her side thank you for thatGod bless
As a man whos experienced the Woman you`re talking about and been extremely loyal and then been betrayed very badly I really appreciate this video and your message, Thank you!
Love you for this....but all that you are saying is going through one ear and out the other for most women. Most women will never see it that way because they're going to feel like they are settling. Most women are going to say oh he has the looks the money he's good for me I'm attracted to him I want him. But if they see a decent looking guy and get to know that he is a respectful gentleman they going to feel like they're settling. And I get it because you want to feel like whoever your going to spend your life with can handle financial things if need be you want that sense of security. I honestly think that if a women meets a nice genuine guy really got to know him but end up with some good looking guy with plenty money, she will end up missing the average genuine guy after she has grown in her mind and realize that she was just attracted to the looks and money of the guy and not attracted to his mind and heart an actual deep connection. Think I said that right.
You are very real sista. And your right with anything in life you will struggle but at least as a team you struggle together. Trust me I have been through so much with my childrens mothers but in the end I have little girls to so I have to show them how to be good young ladies to. Thank you for the video a lot of us brothas really appreciate it. Thanks.
In the modern day if you dont have a fuckboy haircut and a shitload of money women won't talk to you. It doesn't matter how much you love them or how much you you pay attention to them. Cause at the end of the day if your not crapping out money and buying them Gucci coats they are probably gonna leave you for some guy in Beverly hills. I know not all women are like this but that is just my experience. I have just given up trying because I can't afford to live in a house i live in a small apartment in new York city and i work a minimum wage job (i can barely afford the apartment cause new york is expensive as fuck) and can t afford to tend to her every need. And we all know most modern day women if you can't get them what they want when they want they will leave you.
She's old school. They don't make them like her no more. Salute.
Cliff Jenkins she's the product of great parents
Marvin mckinley Some are the product of great parents, but may prefer status and drama over the greatness that they were raised to be.
Some were a product of a broken home, but may know that the drama life isn't what's up. ((✊😁💰/🎲🎲👋😢....
rgw1380rw that's right
Marvin mckinley I've been openly against the character my father and most friends are, but have been taken for a joke or a fool by most women that I encounter.
It becomes a fucked up thing when you start to believe that your so called father was correct in his actions towards the woman that raised you.
Women may look at my dress code, curly hair and huge feet, then think that I'm a player.
I'm not about that nonsense because I don't have that kind of heart.
I've looked over my shoulder enough when I was in the street, so I don't need that when dealing with someone that I call my woman.
I don't mind being a "square" when it comes to specific matters.
rgw1380rw I understand brother in a world like this good guys finish last
Your husband is blessed to have you.
She's blessed to have her husband she knows it.
Greatness Awaits I’m jealous.
They're blessed to have each other
@@marik781 was waiting for that.
Aaron Alexander wouldn’t put it past her
you are a real decent woman. wish more woman were like you
Roxroy Williams not decent, absolutely real, great, smart
she's just telling you what you want to hear.....
Notice how she keeps referring to God and how they both grow their marriage WITH God. that is the key. I wish more realized that
@@georgemypuppy you just hating cause you probably unfaithful yo self... shut up!💯
@@stephenwilliams9570 that's a white made up religion to control the world
I can't believe these words are actually coming from a female, finally a woman sees what so many of us good men go through n actually cares. God bless you n Ur family n thank u for posting this video, I'll have to share this wit every girl I know lol. We need more women like you encouraging other women in the right direction cuz it's hard being a man in this sexist country, we get stepped on everyday. anyway, yup, great video I appreciate it.
Thank you for your kind words.
I agree 100% with this comment. Sadly, it most likely will not go viral because people don't want to hear this kind of advice. They would rather hear about all of the bad things and nothing supportive of good morals. Such disrespect in this world. Thank god that there are still some women in this world like this one that can restore at least a little faith in humanity for us good men. God bless!
TENDRIL77 Thank you. God bless you too.
Mr Karma I hear that!!!!!
Amen.
Where are there more real women like this?
Exactly!!
man I'm praying for one like this
CoachGregAdams
their already token
CoachGregAdams There all dark skin something your not big about.
CoachGregAdams they're unicorns
She said the truth and I had a woman like that she was ungrateful and now she regrets it. This young lady understands God bless your husband he blessed.
Prime 76 real talk brother
WOW...how I respect this women 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
if more women were like this, I might try dating again
Most definitely!!! Good men are at a point where they're losing their patience with women of today
This is so true. I'm hearing it all over the place. Women are breaking perfectly good unions with wonderful men because of "grass is greener" mentality.
And then when that perfectly good man goes and finds himself the next woman, who loves and cherishes and supports him and then suddenly he starts reaching for the stars and living up to his potential she's bitter like "he never did that for ME!!" 😒
You don't even have to say it out loud. If I'm your mind you're thinking he ain't shit or he's not good enough or why isn't he as good as X man over there... that implicit attitude rubs off and then guess what... he lives down to your expectations.
GREAT great message! I know this is true in my relationship and coming up on 10 years in March, I can STILL say that this one thing is a HUGE factor in both of our lives as far as who we are, what we feel we can achieve, and how much we have to give to the other.
Thank you all for your comments. I've been getting quite a few lately and for the most part they are encouraging and positive. I will be doing more videos soon. Stay tuned.
Shaquan Shenell Wow! Good video.
Shaquan Shenell thank you so much for this video
Shaquan Shenell thank you sister
Thank you I feel better now
Shaquan Shenell I hope to find a woman like you one day your husband is lucky I wish more woman thought like you
People like Steve Harvey is to blame for some of these ungrateful thinking of woman always looking for the best provider not the one that they can work together with
Truth.
She just made my day. It's very hard to find a woman that appreciates good men like myself. I know you say "good guys finish last" but remember the last finish first.
Xavier Smith That true. But you know why nice guys finish last? in the words of judge Lynn Toler. "people say the nice guy finish last? that's cuz women are foolish".
My wife is one of these rare diamonds. Truly a Proverbs 31 woman
That was very UPLIFTING!!! It's nice to know women like you still exist.
You are a good woman and he is a lucky man! Y'all always get each other's back.
Vann The Roof Man @A Blessed man rather
They're both blessed to have each other!!!!
Your husband is rich beyond his wildest dreams because he has you.
I appreciate your wisdom and taking personal responsibility praise God and may God continue to bless your marriage
This young lady is so smart, beautiful and blessed. She could teach women of all ages how to do better. What a blessing. Her husband is a blessing to her and she is one to him.
I'm literally dealing with a women that is like this right now unappreciative of everything and finds anything to get mad over.
I swear🙌🏾
Why are you putting yourself through that? Just stop it
Sister, First of all, I just want to say THANK YOU. If there is such a thing as a Black Queen, you are it. You are a beautiful and intelligent young LADY. Your husband is a very lucky man. God Bless the both of you. Your video should have WAY more views, likes and comments than this. It is one of the best and realest videos on here concerning this much-debated topic. Everything you said was on point. It is very disheartening to see so many young sisters who are unappreciative of brothers who are trying to do something with themselves and be a positive to our community. Again, Thank you for being the kind of woman that all our sisters should strive to be.
MrAzrealazdeycomeSr perfect example of black woman
MrAzrealazdeycomeSr amazing !!!
Thank U my sister for that message
always heard it from older woman but from a young beautiful sista is priceless
Leave these American women alone . I learned my lesson the hard way.
Def'ly starting to agree at this point...SC, IG, & "reality" tv got these females mentality and culture fucked up
What's funny is that they will see a beamer and automatically think a guy with a regular job is a baller, but he's just driving a used car and isn't making 6 figures.
That same woman may see a guy driving a 10 year old Chevy, and think he's broke.
The guy with the Chevy may own a few properties, and actually be sitting on millions.
His Chevy may also be one of his cars, but he doesn't care to put many miles on his new or collector vehicles that are easy for him to afford.
Truth
I wish more women AND men felt like you.Women seem to want money,and men just want armcandy.Everyone seems so superficial nowadays. Like the old saying goes,"it's what's on the inside that counts."
I read a few years back that the #1 vehicle driven by most millionaires was a Ford Explorer. The ones with real money don't generally flaunt it.
@@mistyblue526 Not just money but also STATUS. I remember about 5 years ago, my friend's sister was refusing to leave an abusive relationship because she was afraid of losing the status of having him.
There are another side, many cheap people drive used cars, live un small apartments.... so they don’t really want/beed anything more, so they don’t spend money on themselves, thus they will never spend money on women or someone else, because they just sit their whole life on money! Know a lot of people like that, the cheapest people!
This video explains exactly why you're a happily married black woman and most are just single mothers. What this woman is explaining is the difference between a woman a man would just sleep with, and the one he sees himself with for the rest of his life. Now to explain further, I must say that most men that come out of single mothers homes mostly get caught up in saving the wrong type of women, but a man that had both parents and we're positive influences tend to look for this kind of woman in this video.
This was a really good message. Hopefully in the future I will a wonferful guy to get married to. I'm definitely going to be his encourager all the way. It's always good to uplift your man.
That guy over there is probably in a lot of debt trying to keep a new car and house just too impress a female
vicdamond jr lol im saying. The fact that she shows appreciation though sorta makes up for it
Madam I'm 3 years late responding just wanted to say thank you even though I live a MGTOW lifestyle it was great to finally see a beautiful positive woman.All the best.
shandy south me too bro. Sadly women like her are few and far between.
Thank you my sister, about time someone realize what good men go through. Nice guys never finish last. Women who doesn't realize what they have, and take advantage of the nice guy finish last. Now you have most definitely spoken like a true Queen. Thanks
Comparison is the thief of joy!
Rare....she is in the minority.....the 5%
Hundred Eyes 1 1/2%
Chistability 0.1%
Awalt, but... you see how much she talks about being involved in the church, that's an indicator but unicorns don't exist.
Extremely rare...Sistas please pay attention to this Queen of a woman
They're lot's of ungrateful women's in the world. That don't appreciate a good man. They'll wait until he decide too stop dealing with her. Too start appreciate him. He had left cause he had enough of her not being ungrateful.
Morris Jordan yep they step out but made when you been gone over dumb gangsta shit or $$$$$$
That's because most of them don't know pain like a man does.
Sorry, too late. Goodman walking.
Blessings to those that got it right. Can't be a baggage man ever again.
They’re a lot of ungrateful women in the world because of social media
@@justice5897 what's up bro LOL
This is true gospel! Why is it not enough? It is because of ungreatfulness. Appreciate a good man because someone else will I promise you.
we need more woman like her
Yes
Every little boy begins his journey liking, respecting and loving the women in his life in his innocence. It is only after years of getting played by teenage girls and young adults in college or his early years in corporate of the military that his heart hardens, he says "F*ck it" and goes about the rest of his days trying to do to women what was done to him i e the Playa. American society has created this social and spiritual dynamic. Having "game" = the ability to LIE is what it seems to be all about. Generally, the men and women who "game" well get multiple playmates when they're young. There is a deep price to pay for having game though and most do not see it until they have been played playing the game. The lie is always intriguing and fun, but temporary. The truth is deemed boring because it is stable. In America, we want the excitement and the stability, but can't find both in the same person so we are always hunting for that next (temporal) thrill. The ultimate game is that the Devil will always make sure that you have a great time...ON THE WAY DOWN. Play if you will, but don't complain about all of the good men or women you passed up when you were younger and obsessed with thrill seeking.
C Toomer
That's true.What women seem to forget is that men have finite energy and time to continue searching for that golden unicorn.A lot of men burn out,and after spending years dealing with the bullshit,decide it's a zero sum game with very little reward,and decide to transfer their energies elsewhere.That's why even a lot of black men are now identifying as MGTOW
Story of my life
darren joness male feminism😂😂😂 that's ghay!
Most powerful in articulate message already in a long time thank you for clarifying this is awesome well said very well said and you're absolutely right the so-called game is not even worth it in the long run because eventually both parties will end up on GAME OVER!!! well.said
The Devil loves destroying love! It has worked perfectly for millennia exactly as you outlined it here! God bless you and protect you for spreading truth! Americans do not seek God so therefore the demonic beings prevail in their lives ESPECIALLY in the area of the male and female relationship. God’s Word is brimming over with all that a person needs to live life abundantly but we choose the snap crackle and pop of the Devil so therefore live lives of pure Hell in every phase of our lives!
I wish more American Woman could think and reason like her! It's materializm that makes good men run for the hills, well anyway Blessings to everyone in the comments and abroad!
Fellas take notes and ladies that are still "looking" pay attention to this video. She hit the nail on the head. All points well said and valid. Peace ans blessings everyone.
Sister I am that man and I'm glad you're a great woman who totally get it,God is doing great things in you're life continue to educate these weman young and old,it's not about you're age but it's about having the know and sister you have the know!and all men old and young that trully been threw this get it,this is Bull Dee Dawlson from the homeside squad VA.much live to you and you're family and continue to live you're husband and all there who have a live one like this live them,live them,love them couse you really only get one shot at this we are not promised tomorrow charrish every min of this day......God bless us all.....❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🙏🐦
I was that type of man but she left and took my son away from me. After everything I did for her, She said she could do better. I'm never going to forget her words.
This is so true. I've been through it. I've been my best to a woman who see a nothing good in me. She would criticise me and judge me with other men and all sorts of things so I salute you 100%
you better say it honey that's what I am talking about
So grateful that God made a women like your, your truly one of a kind
Soulfiti soulfiti You have to blame Hollywood for that .
I just wish I could find a good hearted woman and soulmate. I’m tired of being used cheated on and being broken hearted. Please help me.
We in the same boat bro keep ya head up!!!
I love the way your mindset works and giving the thought you realize a man's worth and we provide and bring to the table to women. Most women this day and age have a blind ambition for their own vanity,social media status, what they can get out of a man without being committed to him and money above all. We men go through hell and high water and walk on a sharp edged knife just to please most women but things we do is left unappreciated. We're not perfect but we love you women anyway, all we want in return is our love for you to be fortified, receive me the way I receive you. Thank you for this message, it is very inspiring and a fruit for thought for those women who are the ungrateful ones.
Go ahead sister teach!!! other sisters and the world!!!!!! Thank you......
This video made me cry. 😭 I fit all your descriptions of a good man; and I just left an ex girlfriend that took me for granted and was cheating on me. I was beginning to take it personally, but now I see that she lost out. Thanks. 😁
i wish my Ex had watched this video years back, i might have at least gotten a 'thank you' for all i did for her >.>; ....still, great video, i hope you two are still going strong, happy, and blessed :)
Great video sis, my wife really appreciates me , but I didn't have that before I met her !!! Thanks for being honest about women too, alot of women are not honest,its refreshing to hear this!!!!
Is this for real !! Hard to believe.i I'm 70 years old and never heard such a powerful word from such a young woman.what a great woman at least 300 million Americans should hear this philosophy. I'm mesmerized for words. Because it's the same way l view a marriage May millions follow your humble advise..
WOW.. a lady who is appreciative... Priceless
Notice ladies no hair weave or love and hip hop playing in the background
Sista.....I don't know you and I'm a black man taking care of business and you speak the truth like God is speaking to u. Amen
This is what we call unicorns...a lot of people ain’t raised right
I wish my ex could’ve seen this video she to prideful.
Mine too. Im trying not to make her my ex, but damn when a woman decides "she not satisfied" she gets stubborn AF. She can't see the potential. Cant see that you are trying to save money and work up the ladder. They want you to support then when they are down, but will not do the same for you.
To all men, listen and pay attention! To live a happy life free from drama, anguish, stress, financial loss, courtrooms, false allegations, lies, child protective services and all manner of unnecessary and unwarranted b*******. 1. Never get married, 2. Never have children, 3. Focus on yourself and your dreams, 4. Dedicate yourself to God and becoming the better version of yourself so you can live a happy and fulfilling life. But if you decide not to follow these guidelines then make sure you're prepared by having a prenup (regardless of your income) or a notarized agreement before you get married and or have children. Be wise and learn from the mistakes and experiences of men in the past and present so you can live a happy life. Remember, don't be a simp because the ratios between woman and men in America are 8 to 1 so don't get hung up on your emotions, lust or whatever for a beautiful woman because there are many more to choose. The purpose is to maintain your peace of mind, joy, good mental health, financial freedom and overall happiness.
I appreciate you for making this video... Sooooo many females need to watch it. God bless you and your family and may your holidays be exactly what you all want them to be.
Well-spoken young lady, like the other, said, it should be more like you, your man is blessed.
WOW!! Very true and nicely said!! So many women today are so out of touch in many ways, materialistic and yea always comparing. If only more woman had the mindset like you!! Thank You for being you!! It also has to work the other way around with the guy. May there be more like YOU!!
I needed to hear this you're a great woman and your husband is blessed to have you Queen! Need more women who see life the way you do.
Black men Africa is full of millions of women hey we got plenty more options to Latin America carribbean
Just don’t bring them to America. America society will damage a lot of these females that relocate to this country.
You said a mouth full. We men really do go through a lot
You are a real woman to say what your saying. Most women don't want family, just money. God is our God. Love is a blessing.
thanks sweetie pie!!
You make me so proud of you you're a very wise young woman very beautiful.
Thank you for and Appreciating a good Man, because there are lot of Us out here!
This video almost brought me to tears. I gave my all for this one lady from late 2012 until 2016. I was never good enough for her. I learned from it. I literally gave all I had. She even graduated from a technical college and never acknowledged I was one of the many reasons she succeeded. I was devatated. It took a long time but in 2017 I became a stronger man and am succeeding. God is good!
preach sister
That's a great point upon many others in your video that even my mom & aunts have told me & that's being a Godly man. A lot of women want Godly men yet are not Godly women. I'm a good man but not the Godly man I should be that'll make me a better man in all things. Can't ask for something I'm not myself. Can't effectively be a leader in my home if I'm not living for, seeking the Lord when I get married. I've never been appreciated in any relationship until now being a good man but being a Godly man will take things higher & bring forth a Godly woman or the lady I have will want to do the same. Great video & hopefully men and women will take heed to great, Godly advice but these days messages as yours are ignored even hated amongst men & unfortunately women too.
Thank you for making this post!!!
Am so pleased to hear such a great message from a woman. Thank you lady
Sis, you are so beautiful. I subscribed. Your husband is a lucky guy. I want to meet a woman like you with such a great disposition and voice of reason.
Men are easy lady's.. Keep his belly full and his bed warm and trust me he wont leave. BUT #1 rule is never talk down to him. We need this and we need respect to build us up. Build up that strong man even if he's weak at times. And don't give him a reason to leave.
Steven Grimm How do you stop them from cheating.
Steven Grimm Why do they cheat so much? Men cheat for no reason just for a thrill.
Spoken truth just love and pray for him. Let him know you are his Queen and be a Queen for him 25/7 and he will feed off you and your ways. Works for me and always keep Christ in your marriage.
Steven Grimm Christian men cheat all the time. Im saying there is no simplicity about men.
Spoken truth I know they cheat but remember women do as well so the most important part is to pray together keep Christ in your life fully and always remember this real Christians don't cheat. If you trust Lee in fully believe in the Lord and accept that Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins fully 100% believe it and live that life as a Christian you will never cheat I believe that
Preach Sister! You spoke the truth. Thank you so much.
God bless your sincerity, lady... You'll continue to be a bright and shinning light to your generation.
Women don't appreciate good men just like Eve Did Not Appreciate God. God put her in a nice garden where she had no pain, could live forever and gave her an abundance of food and a Husband. Instead she choose to submit to the devil and lost everything. This same story replays today in relatinships. Women generally drift to men who make empty promises
Absolutly true!
I love this video. You got my subscription
Wow she hit it right on the head I'm going through right now keep spreading the word God bless you
Amen my sister..Finally a women that speaks with a valid point.
Ungreatfullnes is WORST then WITCHCRAFT .
But now they are going tell her and troll her that she is an pick lady but she is just being real but they don't want too hear reality but soon the Ression gonna hit hard
Awesome video 🙌🙌I'm glad you were able to express this topic very well,thank you.
Not sure how this ended up in my feed 5 years after posting, but I’m glad it did. God has a lot of quality men out here getting completely slept on by the masses. One day, you’ll wake up to what people like to call “overnight success”. There’s growth in the struggle. You’ll see with us, or you’ll see without us. Great video. Thank you for sharing.
This lady gots to be daydreaming where this woman at she talking about i never met any female like that
Smh smh I wish some1 tells my wife to be a wife and appreciate her life partner!
she isnt your life partner if you have to tell her to appreciate what you do, she is just a partner
I needed to hear this. Thank you. God bless you. ♥️
Humble and heart filled words, thank you for this video
The sad thing is women like this one are hard to find because theze days marrige is stacked aginst men .
nick Krystosek These days the Court system is not black men friendly. So why would a man get married these days when the marriage fails half of his hard earned assets is gone , half of his income is gone through child support, alimony ect. He gets dragged through the mud , demonized . It’s cheaper and more easier to stay single. Because to many problems arise, let’s the woman he is married to has lots of single friends they want the woman do single woman things. That causes a next set of problems.
Now this is a good woman
This video definitely gave me hope
I do appreciate your word of wisdom
God bless you and your family. ✊🏾
Hopefully in 2020 i will find someone
Amen sister Preaching to the ones who will listen 🙏🏾☝🏽
Where are these types of sistas at. Somebody please tell me!!!!!
MAN!!!!!!!!!! Speak facts bro!!! You notice how a lot of women on here!!!
Krypton
There are women like this out there unfortunately many of us fall for the wolves in sheeps clothing that take advantage. Just got out of a 9yr relationship where I was told I was the most supportive woman he ever dated. I always had his back no matter what. I was that ride or die but found out the hard way that he wasn't. It made me want to give up on relationships altogether because I honestly thought he was a good man. Never looked for a man to take care of me. I have a good job and an online business. I even helped him start a business as well. I thought we could build together unfortunately he was content watching me do all the work. I was literally working myself to death. Fortunately I found someone the complete opposite. Being cautious but hopeful.
I fully agree, please tell us!
Dam women like her still exist, I'm shocked..
This is beautiful and I must share this with my daughter thank you for your encouraging words keep her in prayer because she's not listening or seen the things that she is not seen she is really blown she has a wonderful husband strong Christian hard working man who is always about her side thank you for thatGod bless
As a man whos experienced the Woman you`re talking about and been extremely loyal and then been betrayed very badly I really appreciate this video and your message, Thank you!
Everytime I date a black girl I go broke. 😂😂😂 done.
John Artis 😂
Most sisters are not builders.
Lmao
I stay paid, but I ended up in therapy trying to impress an ungrateful woman who had nothing when I met her,,my bad
Love you for this....but all that you are saying is going through one ear and out the other for most women. Most women will never see it that way because they're going to feel like they are settling. Most women are going to say oh he has the looks the money he's good for me I'm attracted to him I want him. But if they see a decent looking guy and get to know that he is a respectful gentleman they going to feel like they're settling. And I get it because you want to feel like whoever your going to spend your life with can handle financial things if need be you want that sense of security. I honestly think that if a women meets a nice genuine guy really got to know him but end up with some good looking guy with plenty money, she will end up missing the average genuine guy after she has grown in her mind and realize that she was just attracted to the looks and money of the guy and not attracted to his mind and heart an actual deep connection. Think I said that right.
Yr personality is very very attractive. U r truly a leader among women
You are very real sista. And your right with anything in life you will struggle but at least as a team you struggle together. Trust me I have been through so much with my childrens mothers but in the end I have little girls to so I have to show them how to be good young ladies to. Thank you for the video a lot of us brothas really appreciate it. Thanks.
your husband is a lucky man not too many like you left for the rest of us to choose from
In the modern day if you dont have a fuckboy haircut and a shitload of money women won't talk to you. It doesn't matter how much you love them or how much you you pay attention to them. Cause at the end of the day if your not crapping out money and buying them Gucci coats they are probably gonna leave you for some guy in Beverly hills. I know not all women are like this but that is just my experience. I have just given up trying because I can't afford to live in a house i live in a small apartment in new York city and i work a minimum wage job (i can barely afford the apartment cause new york is expensive as fuck) and can t afford to tend to her every need. And we all know most modern day women if you can't get them what they want when they want they will leave you.
Thank you for that positive word about men. We need to hear more of this
Bravo Shaquan!!!! A small bit of hope!! Peace