An Envious Person Can Accept Your Help & Hate You Even More For Being In A Position To Help Them

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  • @GhettoLivinginVegas
    @GhettoLivinginVegas 11 днів тому +97

    They smile in your face then want to take your place.

    • @KC-ns9do
      @KC-ns9do 11 днів тому

      ua-cam.com/video/RmXRQ3vfzcA/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared

    • @KC-ns9do
      @KC-ns9do 11 днів тому +3

      Perfect for your comment! ❤🙏

    • @laurielbrooks6079
      @laurielbrooks6079 10 днів тому +16

      Backstabbers, Backstabbers from the Ojays 🎵🎵🎵

    • @GalvMermaid50
      @GalvMermaid50 8 днів тому +2

      The accident of birth does not make one family.😢

    • @the_sunshinesunflower
      @the_sunshinesunflower 7 днів тому +2

      Good thing is, nobody can take your place 🌟

  • @beverleyreid563
    @beverleyreid563 11 днів тому +67

    It's mind-blogging but I have experienced this before. They resent you for being able to help them and I can feel the resentment.

  • @AC-ew2xr
    @AC-ew2xr 11 днів тому +43

    Every narcissist I’ve had the misfortune of dealing with to my own detriment…pretty sick and sad!

  • @ebonyeyes7023
    @ebonyeyes7023 11 днів тому +67

    I came to learn this the hard way.

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 10 днів тому +39

    They resent you for your generosity they can never provide. Your accomplishments remind them of what they are not.
    I’ve been burned helping addicts. Over and over.
    Thank you for this TRUTH.
    Always helpful .

    • @imarealvibe888
      @imarealvibe888 9 днів тому +6

      Same here. Never helping another addict. They will throw you under the bus.

    • @CC-pu6qn
      @CC-pu6qn 8 днів тому +3

      Broken people always do this. That’s why I don’t bother even if I want to.

    • @STAR-w5i
      @STAR-w5i 7 днів тому

      NEXT TIME PRAY ABOUT IT. N THAT PERSON...ALOT IF THEM LIKE TO USE, N R JEALOUS N HATEFUL. IT US BETTER TO CK IT OUT WITH GOD. U DO NOT WANT TO BE USED. THEY ARE A BUNCH OF USERS N TAKERS,SNEAKY, N JEALOUS N HATEFUL. COVETOUS,USERS. THEY WANT TO KILL,STEAL, AND DESTROY U. THEY ARE ENVIOUS N SELF-SEEKING. 🛑🚫👺👺👺🛑🚫✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️DO NOT DEAL WITH THESE 2-FACED USERS. PREDATORS.

  • @dennisrobinson8008
    @dennisrobinson8008 11 днів тому +37

    Painful lesson that's mind blowing your first time through.

  • @diginandpitchin
    @diginandpitchin 11 днів тому +34

    Louisiana ⚜️ in the house. 😅 The really crazy thing is that same envious person could be living in your house and still have that spirit. They could leave of their own volition, but they choose to stay because they get a free ride. 🤦🏾‍♀️ At the same time they want to be mean and find fault with you.

    • @tallglasscocoa6105
      @tallglasscocoa6105 11 днів тому +10

      Because you are their personal scapegoat. Without you, they have no one to blame why they didn't get that job, house, get married, or move up the ladder. They never have to be accountable and look in the mirror and face themselves.

    • @StephNichelle
      @StephNichelle 9 днів тому +1

      Yep, same happened with me after letting my mom move into my home.

    • @diginandpitchin
      @diginandpitchin 9 днів тому +2

      @@StephNichelle 😩 Sorry to hear that.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 8 днів тому +2

      You're their personal "jesus" in the situation.

  • @adoraw6820
    @adoraw6820 10 днів тому +30

    Learned this lesson late. Very puzzling especially when coming from family and people who claim to love you. Those who are envious eventually show their "hand" and resentment towards you. One of my cousins did this to me. I helped him while he was incarcerated and kept in touch. He got out of prison and I have never heard from him. Instead, he started communicating with the cousins who didn't write him or put money on his books while he was locked up.

    • @urseeingRED
      @urseeingRED 10 днів тому +7

      Can relate. Had family show their true selves despite all I did. Instead of working together they rather sabotage or try to dismantle. Result of such a competitive society. Disgusting

    • @Getupheonix
      @Getupheonix 10 днів тому +5

      The enemy sets up these situations and makes them very layered so that the end result will result in DEEP heavy rejection, he wants us to feel forsooken and all alone and completely robbed, because high level rejection can annihilate our confidence which affects the soul for us to walk in love and joy and to be bold and courageous! However thank goodness We have the resurrection power living in us to rise above all those darts using Gods word! The rejection hurts bad but the Lord will even out the score and restore us and vindicate us in his time!

    • @heruniquestyle8406
      @heruniquestyle8406 9 днів тому +2

      ​@Getupheonix Excellent observation, very well stated!!! 💯

    • @CC-pu6qn
      @CC-pu6qn 8 днів тому +5

      They say better late than never, me too. I’m not going out of my way to help anyone anymore. Most people are not in their right state of mind and prefer mistreatment.

    • @STAR-w5i
      @STAR-w5i 7 днів тому +2

      THAT IS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE.👺👺 🚫🛑WHEN PEOPLE SHOW U WHO THEY ARE,BELIEVE THEM!!!!✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳THEY ARE INSECURE, N HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, HEARTLESS N SOULESS. NEVER OFFER TO HELP. LET THEIR god HELP THEM INSTEAD. UNLESS GOD SAYS. BE NOT UNEQUALLY YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS. WHAT FELLOWSHIP HATH LIGHT WITH DARKNESS? GOD IS NOT THE AUTHOR OF CONFUSION,BUT PEACE.

  • @jesusfavor1543
    @jesusfavor1543 7 днів тому +1

    U r absolutely correct, I'm still unwinding from this sad reality. I helped dude for an 8yr relationship that produced my 4yo daughter. Turns out the dudes envy & jealousy of me & resentment is off the charts

  • @lovenature2251
    @lovenature2251 7 днів тому +4

    OMG...I just experienced this with a coworker. Thought we were cool. She asked me to help her unpack in new home. A few days later at work asked me to print something. Told her to wait since I was working on something. Days later I get a call from HR. She lied and told them I refuse to help whenever she would ask. If she only knew, I'm about to teach her a lesson on "refusal" she will never forget😁😁

    • @lenebrantley221
      @lenebrantley221 7 днів тому +2

      She took it to HR.... Coworkers are the worse.

  • @lisadunn4730
    @lisadunn4730 11 днів тому +31

    Facts… lesson to be learned, wisdom.

  • @elizabethandiosa4579
    @elizabethandiosa4579 10 днів тому +8

    Yes, backstabbers. All the same. I dont even bother anymore.

  • @sandysan177
    @sandysan177 9 днів тому +5

    I help a relative and her husband by giving my sons hand me downs, toys, books, clothes, new gifts, we even gifted them a brand new cooking range, not to mention money from time to time. I used to host them nicely and keep them in our house and babysit her son so that she could go shopping. Later we found out they have badmouthed about us to the entire extended family so much so that no body talks to us that much. Wen we visit the extended family, they all start getting up and leave on the pretext of some work. Iam deeply hurt at her betrayal. They are snakes. No more hosting, boundaries in place.no more entertaining people. Ive learnt key lessons in human psychology after this incident.

  • @fruitypopwhickle6806
    @fruitypopwhickle6806 8 днів тому +2

    My ex would punish me for helping him, but would throw tantrums if I didn't. He was covert narcissist/demon. 2 years, 9 months free of him!!!!🎉

  • @naturalgirldiy
    @naturalgirldiy 10 днів тому +10

    Thank you. Couldnt agree more. It's very difficult to come to terms with the fact that those who are supposed to be your closest allies can harbour deep-seated envy and resentment towards you.

  • @Vita81-du9jl
    @Vita81-du9jl 10 днів тому +9

    No matter what the envious person has going for themself including what seems like a certain level of confidence, there is insecurity. They might usually feel superior, mentally putting you in your place. Until they are unnerved to need you, while you're glad to help and not judging them. In school, my close friend was an excellent student but just couldn't grasp a subject that I excelled in. She asked me to tutor her, but was looking at me strangely, almost resentful rather than appreciative as I explained things to her. I later found out from our other friends that she would sometimes make remarks about me - comparing herself to me in various areas - as if we were in competition.

  • @kyrahknowz144K
    @kyrahknowz144K 11 днів тому +13

    JEALOUSY +ENVY =HATRED WHICH LEADS TO BETRAYAL 💎JEALOUSY IS AS CRUEL AS THE GRAVE 💎A MAN'S ENEMIES WILL BE OF HIS OWN HOUSEHOLD 💎⚠️!!! AMAN AND AMAN!!!🙌🏾🌠🤍🌠

  • @maudie3684
    @maudie3684 9 днів тому +4

    The sad part is when it's in your own family. Just keep trusting in Jesus he will see you through it all. ❤️🙏

    • @maudie3684
      @maudie3684 9 днів тому +2

      Separate yourself from Blessing Blockers.

  • @jesusfavor1543
    @jesusfavor1543 7 днів тому +1

    Absolutely correct

  • @jenn9640
    @jenn9640 10 днів тому +8

    Oh yes sister Mac, I’ve just been through this. A former friend who is disabled and very envious, asking and accepting the help but cursing me out at the same time. Stood by her through thick & thin when everyone, incl her family walked away - now I know why!
    As you’ve said in previous videos, “can two walk together unless they are agreed”.
    Well in this case she called me every name apart from a child of God - talked about me like I was trash, so I just walked away in silence - she’s keeps calling, but I will never speak to her again despite her disability. We can no longer walk together.
    As the old Jamaica folks would say “sorry fe marga drag, it turn round and bite you” meaning -:
    (The said individual that you help, are the same ones that are ungrateful and hateful)
    Keep up the good work that you’re doing - it is really helping🙏🏾.

  • @adrienneroxanne9833
    @adrienneroxanne9833 11 днів тому +14

    Absolutely

  • @moniqueberrian5880
    @moniqueberrian5880 11 днів тому +12

    Hello Cassandra, I am located in West Philadelphia. Your videos have been a true blessing to me. In 2020 I learned that I was narcissistically abused by my parents. And from that, I had a lot of toxic and or narcissistic people in my life. I was constantly going through one thing or another because I didn’t have boundaries and I was a people pleaser. But, God lead me to your channel and I have grown tremendously from your teachings. Thank you so much for saying yes to the call that God has on your life. Thank you and everyone who works in your ministry with you.❤

  • @adrianassss
    @adrianassss 9 днів тому +2

    I wish my mom could learn from that kind of bad experiences, but she's always seeking for attention and having those kind of bad friends. I say that kind of stuff to her a lot of times but she never hear me. Thank you for your wise advises, I do learn from the mistakes hahaha and actually it's very hard to trust somebody and bring into my personal life nowadays.

  • @kisha100001
    @kisha100001 11 днів тому +6

    Guys its very draining, its affecting my mental and bothering my spirit. I suffered from this in my first year of university and while being on placement in the hospital. The girls bullied me soo bad created a smear campaign even turned the guys against me. I had no support system, now 1 of the bullies is doing the same thing again. One of the toxic nurses has joined my class in 2nd year and now she creating a smear campaign again. I'm not entirely sure why they are soo obsessed with me. Some times I find them gazing at me, I think their admiring my beauty while hating me for it. They keep going around telling people in my class im so slow on placement like a snail, of course im slow, nobody can learn or thrive is a toxic micro managing environment so obviously I would be slow.

    • @urseeingRED
      @urseeingRED 10 днів тому +5

      When you are independent you are a threat to their group. It is competitive, and the idea is for some to sabotage or to discourage. Gives them inspiration. Sadly there will always be an outsider, and once you are put in that rank they will fight tooth and nail to maintain it.

    • @kisha100001
      @kisha100001 10 днів тому +2

      @ it’s very sad, I love to uplifting women. I guess some like to see you struggle, it’s a character flaw and it seems they suffer from serious insecurities.. Hopefully one day things will change. I’ve asked my lecturer to put me in a different hospital, I just don’t have the energy to stood to their level although I know I could.

  • @DestinyPetteway-f3s
    @DestinyPetteway-f3s 11 днів тому +12

    My family

  • @sinceresong9907
    @sinceresong9907 8 днів тому +2

    Envy is evil

  • @johnlamarr2222
    @johnlamarr2222 11 днів тому +8

    As the comment of the day stated, you are like a fly on my wall. I know many people are experiencing the same exact things because of the consistency of the content and comments. You are so on point. Continue to bring this much needed message. Peace and blessings! 🙏🏾✊🏾

    • @ladyjedi3D
      @ladyjedi3D 10 днів тому +1

      Yes! The timing is perfect!

  • @nufaithjournee
    @nufaithjournee 4 дні тому

    Dang what a great point people are envious and jealous of what you can become!!!! WOW I'm just not a fan of people Virgo right here. We'll, put together and pretty with natural hair.... I don't even care about a wig or fake anything but those women hate me!!! This woman is telling the truth.

  • @Virgoperfectionist-ew3pt
    @Virgoperfectionist-ew3pt 7 днів тому +1

    Well Said 🎯
    IT's Bitter Truth That's Why
    I've Stop HELPING TWO FACED 🎭

  • @j.m.8545
    @j.m.8545 10 днів тому +6

    Best. Channel. Ever.

  • @klevi1961
    @klevi1961 10 днів тому +3

    OMG!! This is soooo on point!! I blessed my sibling and family during a tragic circumstance. Then I had to keep following up to make sure they received it. I tried to be there for them. Then i got double talked. I felt some kind of way about it. But pulled back and gave them space. THEN, I was asked to co-sign a loan!! I'm like no can do!! Sent them the Dave Ramsey finance package so they could get their program together. I talk to my sibling, but i look at them through a different lense now.
    Thank you for building us up in the spirit and using bible based principles so we ain't walking around being taken advantage of!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ALOYALLEO2815
    @ALOYALLEO2815 9 днів тому +1

    Confirmation holy Spirit keeps telling me when opportunity arises to help certain individuals to pull back..I'm so grateful I listened I personally would have helped and later been riddled with anger at myself

  • @JackieMontes-qn1wz
    @JackieMontes-qn1wz 11 днів тому +2

    Glory!!! After so much struggles I now own a new house with an influx of $155,000.00 every month God has kept to his words, my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place. God bless America.

  • @jonnardjackson2884
    @jonnardjackson2884 11 днів тому +2

    You’re telling the truth again Minister Cassandra Mack! I try to have compassion for people that may have had a rough situation. They will do something or something to find out their envy of you! When you truly figure it out you step away! You don’t have to be vocal. Just don’t be available! Like I learned in an earlier message! God will show you something is not right! Thanks 🙏🏾 Minister Cassandra Mack ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌹🌹😊💯

  • @walkbyfaithalways7698
    @walkbyfaithalways7698 11 днів тому +5

    This definitely clears up everything. Thanks Cassandra 🎉

    • @sinceresong9907
      @sinceresong9907 8 днів тому +1

      Doesn't it just...Definitely loads here for good reason.

  • @melissasmind2846
    @melissasmind2846 11 днів тому +7

    Shared. Thank you

  • @sameernelson9684
    @sameernelson9684 10 днів тому +2

    Ppl going to be who they going to be😮.

  • @ChevellePierce
    @ChevellePierce 9 днів тому +1

    Thanks!

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  9 днів тому +1

      @@ChevellePierce thabj you very much for the donation. It truly helps this ministry

  • @sandramsimango9526
    @sandramsimango9526 8 днів тому +1

    Thank you Cassandra...listening from South Africa Sandra❤

  • @calico-kat-mom6204
    @calico-kat-mom6204 11 днів тому +2

    I had a roommate over 30 years ago that was jealous of my potential

  • @Spiritoso3791
    @Spiritoso3791 10 днів тому +1

    Thank you for distinguishing between envy and jealousy. I recently started watching and listening to your channel in Cleveland, Ohio. God bless. 💜🙏🏾

  • @nufaithjournee
    @nufaithjournee 4 дні тому

    My cousin was this way to me:) Never again!!!! With no woman they are sickening you will earn my friendship over time!!!

  • @ChevellePierce
    @ChevellePierce 9 днів тому

    Minister Mack
    Your ministry is truly a divine connection. I've learned more from watching your u tube video's than going to a brick and mortar church. God has great things in store 4 u😊

  • @QueenAnaya-x7b
    @QueenAnaya-x7b 8 днів тому +1

    Literally was giving somebody a ride yesterday and I know that they used to hate me and they still do and they’re very jealous of me and tell me why they tried to grab the wheel of my car because I was turning the wrong way so today I just canceled the ass you’re not getting anymore. You can take the bus or you can Uber, you’re not getting back in my car to make no sudden moves against my life. Are you crazy?

    • @lenebrantley221
      @lenebrantley221 7 днів тому +1

      That's insane. Stay away from that person.

  • @tishr9670
    @tishr9670 11 днів тому +2

    That song always uplifts me.

  • @sunflowersoul821
    @sunflowersoul821 10 днів тому +1

    You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! I've experienced this numerous times.

  • @LittleMsLibra8
    @LittleMsLibra8 11 днів тому +5

    Sometimes this person sleeps next to you every night… be careful out here friends ❤. P.S. I’m 37 and we definitely had those writing assignments.. once it was 200x 😢😅

  • @euviva.wellness
    @euviva.wellness 10 днів тому +1

    I studied this message… deeply! The word is ANOTHER on-time word. Blessings to You Sister Cassandra!!
    -Nicki in VA

  • @carlarodriguez431
    @carlarodriguez431 7 днів тому

    A friend of mine got an infinity car that she has to make payments and I brought a old beat up car but it's paid for and now she's treating me terribly for no reason n now I figured out why thanks Cassandra keep up the good work❤

  • @SheylaRamos-kh9xx
    @SheylaRamos-kh9xx 9 днів тому

    I love this channel. I’ve grown so much from you over the last several months. A lot of reflection that happens with your words that help me move forward with discernment.

  • @Honeybadger007-hklrkch
    @Honeybadger007-hklrkch 11 днів тому +2

    Facts 💯💯💯

  • @helentaylor6759
    @helentaylor6759 10 днів тому +1

    One of the best ones you've done yet.
    Cleverly explained in a new and detailed way.

  • @tedrekaadams6216
    @tedrekaadams6216 10 днів тому

    Hello I enjoyed your video I like how you explain different topics with Bible quotes for a better understanding. This channel has really helped me a lot with my spiritual and mental growth. It helped me understand why throughout almost of my life people were jealous and envious of me. I have learned a lot from your Channel. Thank you so much for being a vessel and helping others Learn and Grow. I'm from Rochester New York in the USA.

  • @ChevellePierce
    @ChevellePierce 8 днів тому

    I forgot to leave in the comments, I'm chevelle from New Orleans La😊

  • @lenebrantley221
    @lenebrantley221 7 днів тому

    Minister Mack❤❤❤❤😊

  • @Homesales-l5w
    @Homesales-l5w 9 днів тому +1

    Isaiah 26:10 Let favour be shewed to the wicked, yet will he not learn righteousness: in the land of uprightness will he deal unjustly, and will not behold the majesty of the Lord.

  • @LysaChampione
    @LysaChampione 10 днів тому

    Amazing message! Definitely dropped the mic 🎤!
    Outstanding 👍🏼❤😊✅
    Blessings 🙏🏼

  • @DeeJ0000
    @DeeJ0000 11 днів тому +2

    I went to a Catholic school in the 90s. I definitely had to write those punishment sentences😂

  • @nufaithjournee
    @nufaithjournee 4 дні тому

    People can have look like they have it all but still envy you example having a great personality naturally like you attract people and not only that can communicate. People who are educated can also be envious because like a spouse because if academics isn't your lane yet People, things and opportunities come to you they are jealous because they work harder and some don't have a likeable personality. If you're they prettier mate we go though this.... people love to be around beautiful people, happy and no matter what income bracket.

  • @TruGamer128
    @TruGamer128 10 днів тому

    Very enlightening thanks you it helps ❤

  • @JoanBarrington-e9s
    @JoanBarrington-e9s 6 днів тому

    JEWEL: My life was a s--t show until God woke me up. Thank the Lord
    One man's trash is another man's treasure.😢

  • @greatgirl4492
    @greatgirl4492 11 днів тому +1

    💯. Amen!!

  • @charmaineandrews5435
    @charmaineandrews5435 11 днів тому

    Thank you🎉

  • @BabyDogOfJustice
    @BabyDogOfJustice 10 днів тому +1

    Like DEI quota beneficiaries wanting to change the rules when it works against them...

  • @ArtMiser
    @ArtMiser 10 днів тому

    23:15 Nah i'm 29 and I remember them still giving us these punishments back in the early 2000s lol

  • @latoyathomas9640
    @latoyathomas9640 9 днів тому +1

    It's so sad.

  • @EmpressEmpress-53
    @EmpressEmpress-53 11 днів тому +2

    💯

  • @gayanngodfrey2824
    @gayanngodfrey2824 10 днів тому +2

    They have a heart condition

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 10 днів тому +1

    I find it best to align myself with JESUS CHRIST! He's the only one who is always there for me. I've been there for other ppl who've talked about me like a half dead dog with rabbits. I try to give an ear as well as finances.

  • @HalfBlackSahraoui
    @HalfBlackSahraoui 8 днів тому

    👍🏿

  • @-AnonymousUser
    @-AnonymousUser 6 днів тому +1

    Why help them.

  • @ChristiansEndeavorMinistries
    @ChristiansEndeavorMinistries 11 днів тому +2

    🫣 Boy’ee, them days of writing x100 times; ‘I will NOT talk in class’ … now linked to PTSD???.

  • @GodsChosenMekAmoR
    @GodsChosenMekAmoR 11 днів тому

    Thank you so much

  • @sliverscreen
    @sliverscreen 11 днів тому +1

    💯

  • @janetthomas7492
    @janetthomas7492 10 днів тому

    💯