17:25 - Thank you, I really just got a jolt of realisation and thinked about it for a second. This is the best line I've heard today and it's more than enough for me to log out and do what I need to do in life.
This has to be the best infield 'documentary' ever. It shows how men are so afraid to even talk to people. Love it man, I feel you will fill a gap in the dating sphere
As if women are giving Ted talk in public, we are all humans, women are equally afraid to do, it's just that women don't have to, but men have to do the talking because no one gives a f otherwise.
It was the best documentary I have ever watched. What I learnt is that yes, cold approaches are possible in India. It all depends upon your confidence and intensions 😊
really love this documentry I love honesty the way you teach boys and at the end you told that it might be wrong path or this is not the one you think. I really appreciate you done it in practical way
From 6:10 really great advice amigo. This is how you shoud proceed in the dating marketplace. But remember that men face a lot of rejection in comparison to women in general. So detox yourself for a few months from social media or any such platforms when you need to take break. Because taking a break and maybe just travelling somewhere for a few days is really good for your mental health. Sadly nobody talks about this in our society.
Really impressive and entertaining video Achill. I actually joined a couple of your daygame sessions in Berlin a while back and during that phase I went out to approach girls many times on my own, leading to some amazing encounters. Funny enough, I ended up with a friend I already knew, and now she's my girlfriend! Thanks to guys like you who instilled the confidence in me to speak my truth and avoid the friend-zone trap. Huge thanks, keep it up and wishing you all the best! Cheers, Lourens
In india it works but people should be socially calibrated , the people need to work on pre approach and emotional engaging conversation and learn solid number close and instant date and play with rejection.The place where you went is best place for game in india there are tier 2 or tier 3 city but we still do it there 😅
Very nice documentary. It was interesting from beginning to end. I am glad that you found your mission in life. Thanks for the video. Also, I loved you were wearing the Colombia jersey.
Brother, I am from Nepal and I am living in the capital city of nepal which is Kathmandu but even though i dont have any female friends . I want to improve my social skills but i dont have that courage to go and talk to that attractive girl. Please help nepalese guys as well . Its not just the problem of indian guys but its the problem of everyone here in south asia. Among all other youtube videos , your is the best . Your filmmaking skills is on another level. I really liked it and i really can relate to it. Thank you so much for being there on youtube .
yea, let's make it happen .. join the upcoming online Master Class for Indians abroad (www.indowesterndating.com) or feel free to schedule a free call through offlinedating.com where we can find a way to connect & meet
It wasn't originally intended for UA-cam, but rather as a documentary film to be shown at a film festival... my filmmaker career never happened, though, so I decided to re-publish it here on my channel
As an Indian I would never date a girl who gives her contact to me on my first day first instant of communication. Its not about some thing like a girl who gives her number she is easy or something like that. But there is a common courtesy that you don't invade lives of people you don't know anything about. Until there is a reason or place to build an understanding. I have the guts and the looks to communicate with anybody anywhere (not pull of hot chicks, thats hell of a disgusting idea. but to communicate my point through). and I really don't understand how can you look across the street and just decide, Oh this girl looks interesting thats just tinder IRL without its filter.
If there was a reason and a place to meet people that I am interested in, then you are right, that's the right way to go about it because you take the time to get to know the person and they don't feel creeped out or anything. But what if that person is committed? All the effort you put in is gone to waste. And the sheer probability of being in the right place at the right time, that is, to have a reason to meet the person that I am interested in, how many are actually lucky enough to be in that situation? Very few. So in my opinion cold approach is the best way there is. But there is also the risk that you don't know the person but it's just like anything, you get to know the person and then you decide whether to keep it going or not or are you satisfied with it. You are in the drivers seat. And just because a person dresses a certain way or has insane looks or because they give you their number doesn't necessarily translate to them being a low quality woman, period.
@@fabfest1294 ok. hope you are right. I said that because from 2011 to 2016-17 it was easy for me to connect with people men or women in a variety of contexts. be it simply making new friends or flirting. Flirting, my style is very forward but I try not to be cheap. But post-2017, the same mannerisms and approach which earlier people seemed to find whacky and unique now started to put them off! That's what gave me this impression! People are after all influenced by trends! What was cool earlier is now old! passe! etc! But if you're right then great!
@@kerrybarnes2002 be simple it can fit every wher Try again with new skills U will still find there are more chance in big city I'm from small town but still trying my best it's not about getting girls num but it can improve communication skills improve confidence that's what I wanted in my self my journey is started just few days ago but I will also try whenever I visit big city
All good, but I really hate and am irritated by them using the word chick. It just shows your mindset for what you want in the end, I am not saying you are trying to find your soulmate but...
Everytime some guy is approaching a girl i am getting second hand embarrassement thinking that girl will slap him or wot😂. Directly approaching girls is not a thing in here you have to be in her circle of friends,either colleague, classmate that way is accepted by the girls more
It wasn't originally intended for UA-cam, but rather as a documentary film to be shown at film festivals... my filmmaker career never happened, though, so I decided to re-publish it here on my channel :)
The amount of pauses between words and the editing and music is so slow paced that I scrolled down to see the upload date LOL Decent video but I skipped through most of it
What a wannabe dating coach. These days any guy no matter if he has skills or not is becoming a " Dating coach" as there is no barrier to entry in this field.
"Raj escaped and I never saw him again" died laughing to this one😂😂
More than the concept, i love how the video was recorded.
Raj escaped and I never saw him again😂 that's epic🎉
yeah , I liked that part too. It was funny.
Raj looked like creep when he was finding a girl to approach 😂
I would have done the same not my cup of tea
17:25 - Thank you, I really just got a jolt of realisation and thinked about it for a second. This is the best line I've heard today and it's more than enough for me to log out and do what I need to do in life.
This has to be the best infield 'documentary' ever. It shows how men are so afraid to even talk to people. Love it man, I feel you will fill a gap in the dating sphere
thanks a lot! Much more to come to fill that gap :)
As if women are giving Ted talk in public, we are all humans, women are equally afraid to do, it's just that women don't have to, but men have to do the talking because no one gives a f otherwise.
*This is definitely going to help in navigating those delicate situations and fostering meaningful connections!*
The best documentary I've watched so far.
It was the best documentary I have ever watched. What I learnt is that yes, cold approaches are possible in India. It all depends upon your confidence and intensions 😊
Totally agree
really love this documentry I love honesty the way you teach boys and at the end you told that it might be wrong path or this is not the one you think. I really appreciate you done it in practical way
From 6:10 really great advice amigo. This is how you shoud proceed in the dating marketplace. But remember that men face a lot of rejection in comparison to women in general. So detox yourself for a few months from social media or any such platforms when you need to take break. Because taking a break and maybe just travelling somewhere for a few days is really good for your mental health. Sadly nobody talks about this in our society.
Bro loved the video please carry on n upload more infield with these guys..love from Kolkata
it's a really cool documentary man , loved it
This video is underated man.what a documentary.this video just change my fucking perspective of my life
Really impressive and entertaining video Achill. I actually joined a couple of your daygame sessions in Berlin a while back and during that phase I went out to approach girls many times on my own, leading to some amazing encounters. Funny enough, I ended up with a friend I already knew, and now she's my girlfriend! Thanks to guys like you who instilled the confidence in me to speak my truth and avoid the friend-zone trap. Huge thanks, keep it up and wishing you all the best! Cheers, Lourens
Amazing to hear that man!!!
In india it works but people should be socially calibrated , the people need to work on pre approach and emotional engaging conversation and learn solid number close and instant date and play with rejection.The place where you went is best place for game in india there are tier 2 or tier 3 city but we still do it there 😅
What do I need to do in pre approach? Also what is solid number close?
how do u do in tier 2 tier 3 cities?
@@DeveshSainiTheGreat tf are Tier Citys?
Tier1: Mumbai Delhi Kolkata, etc.
Tier 2: Lucknow, Madhurai, Patna
Tier 3: bilaspur, nasik, ranchi, etc.
Tier 4: all other cities @@opossum1611
Very nice documentary. It was interesting from beginning to end. I am glad that you found your mission in life. Thanks for the video. Also, I loved you were wearing the Colombia jersey.
wow! love this way documented, such rare type of content.
Danke fur dieses video Ich hoffe Dass es in zukunft noch mehr videoed geben wird❤❤
Brother, I am from Nepal and I am living in the capital city of nepal which is Kathmandu but even though i dont have any female friends . I want to improve my social skills but i dont have that courage to go and talk to that attractive girl. Please help nepalese guys as well . Its not just the problem of indian guys but its the problem of everyone here in south asia. Among all other youtube videos , your is the best . Your filmmaking skills is on another level. I really liked it and i really can relate to it. Thank you so much for being there on youtube .
Approach the Europeans who come in Kathmandu. Works
@@achatterjee6531LET HIM COOK 🗣️💥🗣️💥🗣️🗣️💥🗣️💥💥💥🗣️🗣️
Pehle jindagi mein kuch ukharo phir milega sab
It gives vibe of 2016-2017 ngl
Ahh that time😢
Hi Achill, I live in Kreuzberg, Berlin. That was a really nice experiment. I hope we will meet someday.
yea, let's make it happen .. join the upcoming online Master Class for Indians abroad (www.indowesterndating.com) or feel free to schedule a free call through offlinedating.com where we can find a way to connect & meet
Great content bro.
I saw a reel of yours but if this video is 7 years old and u have posted it now why
It wasn't originally intended for UA-cam, but rather as a documentary film to be shown at a film festival... my filmmaker career never happened, though, so I decided to re-publish it here on my channel
@@consciousconfidencebut the video is full of goodness
Amazing bro! Really love this video
I rarely comments on videos....but had to do om this one....great video!!
Thanks !! means a lot to me
Good work bro , when will you come nest time to india , love to meet you irl
12:09 LMFAO 😭the music makes it so much funnier!!
Bro does cold approach still works in india please answer my question
By the way luv from pune❤
It works everywhere and always will .. most people are just too lazy to learn it
Thaks for the reply❤
Do you think it will work in kathmandu,nepal?@@consciousconfidence
@@sumanyadav-ey9oh talking to and attracting humans works wherever there are human beings who procreate :)
Its really helpful its helpful in many ways you are really good coach not just girls I can't thank you enough:)
As an Indian I would never date a girl who gives her contact to me on my first day first instant of communication. Its not about some thing like a girl who gives her number she is easy or something like that. But there is a common courtesy that you don't invade lives of people you don't know anything about. Until there is a reason or place to build an understanding. I have the guts and the looks to communicate with anybody anywhere (not pull of hot chicks, thats hell of a disgusting idea. but to communicate my point through). and I really don't understand how can you look across the street and just decide, Oh this girl looks interesting thats just tinder IRL without its filter.
Simply say you shit your pants approaching a girl.
@@MrBlackjack456lol ture!
If there was a reason and a place to meet people that I am interested in, then you are right, that's the right way to go about it because you take the time to get to know the person and they don't feel creeped out or anything.
But what if that person is committed? All the effort you put in is gone to waste. And the sheer probability of being in the right place at the right time, that is, to have a reason to meet the person that I am interested in, how many are actually lucky enough to be in that situation? Very few. So in my opinion cold approach is the best way there is.
But there is also the risk that you don't know the person but it's just like anything, you get to know the person and then you decide whether to keep it going or not or are you satisfied with it. You are in the drivers seat. And just because a person dresses a certain way or has insane looks or because they give you their number doesn't necessarily translate to them being a low quality woman, period.
do you really think they would give you their number? lol youre delusional
2016-17 it could work! Now not so much! in India at aleast
Wrong if u have that skills u can also get success
@@fabfest1294 ok. hope you are right. I said that because from 2011 to 2016-17 it was easy for me to connect with people men or women in a variety of contexts. be it simply making new friends or flirting. Flirting, my style is very forward but I try not to be cheap. But post-2017, the same mannerisms and approach which earlier people seemed to find whacky and unique now started to put them off! That's what gave me this impression! People are after all influenced by trends! What was cool earlier is now old! passe! etc! But if you're right then great!
@@kerrybarnes2002 be simple it can fit every wher
Try again with new skills
U will still find there are more chance in big city
I'm from small town but still trying my best it's not about getting girls num but it can improve communication skills improve confidence that's what I wanted in my self my journey is started just few days ago but I will also try whenever I visit big city
@@kerrybarnes2002Exactly, it’s quite difficult to pull a Post 2000 born girl. They have different mannerism and skills
Now , its even easier because today's girls are much into westernization .
From the quality from video, this could be a documentary of a populare tv channel or smth
All good, but I really hate and am irritated by them using the word chick. It just shows your mindset for what you want in the end, I am not saying you are trying to find your soulmate but...
Yea, it's an immature use of language .. forgivable I think, considering that these guys were around 18-20 years old
They are 18 19
22:59 Here after that trending reel 😂
Physically speaking, you could pass for a North Indian!
CRAZYYYYY🎉
bro this loved this documetry them please stick to this theam
woo this is Gold
Everytime some guy is approaching a girl i am getting second hand embarrassement thinking that girl will slap him or wot😂. Directly approaching girls is not a thing in here you have to be in her circle of friends,either colleague, classmate that way is accepted by the girls more
Impressive.
Legend ❤
Why are you uploading it now??
It wasn't originally intended for UA-cam, but rather as a documentary film to be shown at film festivals... my filmmaker career never happened, though, so I decided to re-publish it here on my channel :)
U didn't put any approach here
Name of this place shown in video
infiniti mall, Malad
Do one in chennai, south indian is more difficult
no cap, south is difficult
@@theanonymouse05 Can you pls explain why ?
Yep, mumbai is much more open
Try this in West UP,haryana,West Delhi you are getting atleast 1 slap if you are gonna approach that much of girls
@@Darkseid47 in india face card, money and power matters bro. so ya, slap is guarenteed if they feel u dont have those
The amount of pauses between words and the editing and music is so slow paced that I scrolled down to see the upload date LOL
Decent video but I skipped through most of it
That's how I have girls in 30+ countries
Your skin color is light to only Mumbaikars. In North, where I live, there are plenty of light skinned, even more than you.
Awkward silence in last 😂
The only thing is in this video, you should refer to the term girl or woman instead of referring to the term chicks 😌
agreed. i'm sure my clients here have matured in that way by now..
Incredible
Brother 🫡🫡🫡🫡❤❤
Bro does height matters? I am 5ft4.
Even if it matters what you gonna do about it , fuck it and just be yourself
bro this wouldnt work in delhi
W bro
Bro t won't works for every girl..u guys don't have conversation..
where are you rn?
Berlin!
18:34 u approached a girl who had a bf with her. You jus didn't see him. 😂
Tbh, you doesnt look foreigner to me. Yeah your accent is foreign
What a wannabe dating coach. These days any guy no matter if he has skills or not is becoming a " Dating coach" as there is no barrier to entry in this field.
Bro stfu this the best video I've seen the last 6 years
@@JustYumiBanks bro I know him search ag Hayden he is a dating coach too I have read his book too but I am shocked that he commented on this video 😂