Befriending a swan and moving my car

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • This video didn't turn out how I was expecting! It was meant to be all about how I move my car whenever I move my narrowboat, but then I befriended a swan.
    I've only recently discovered how to tell the difference between male and female swans. Males have a black bit at the base of their bill which swells and becomes larger during breeding season, so this was definitely a male swan.
    Anyway, thanks again for watching!

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  • @R1PPA-C
    @R1PPA-C 3 місяці тому +223

    Watching another introvert go about typical things in public makes me feel just that little bit more comfortable being different ❤️

    • @pipk7747
      @pipk7747 3 місяці тому +9

      Nice comment.
      Couldn't have said any better myself.

    • @user-gi5nh6ng7g
      @user-gi5nh6ng7g 3 місяці тому +17

      You’re not different. You’re just introverted and that’s fine. The difference between introverts and extroverts is about how people recharge themselves. One likes their own space, the other needs to be around people. Both types have strengths and both have weaknesses. Despite it being implied otherwise in popular opinion there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert.

    • @2000jago
      @2000jago 3 місяці тому +18

      I don't consider myself to be an introvert, I just don't like people. It's the solitude of boating (of any kind) that draws me to it.

    • @allaboutperspective650
      @allaboutperspective650 3 місяці тому +10

      We are all different however some are jus a bit more differnt then others 😉

    • @TheLotusManFILMs.
      @TheLotusManFILMs. 3 місяці тому +10

      Watch the Ted talk 'The power of introverts' by Susan Cain, there's nothing wrong with being introverted.

  • @Bugs1953
    @Bugs1953 3 місяці тому +142

    Please don’t be intimidated by others just do your own thing your really special and a breath of fresh air😊

  • @christians.8739
    @christians.8739 3 місяці тому +28

    So nice to have a boating channel that down't resort to using dramatic titles in an attempt to catch your attention.

    • @nicklemming2556
      @nicklemming2556 2 місяці тому +1

      Not to mention people who aren't obviously trying to act. It's lovely seeing Betty just be herself.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you both for watching! 🙂

  • @MrJonah53
    @MrJonah53 3 місяці тому +43

    That's it, I've decided, I'm coming back as a swan.

  • @curtis.eflush7879
    @curtis.eflush7879 3 місяці тому +42

    even a little out of a comfort zone, skills and confidence ceiling gets higher.
    ..and you're absolutely nailing it!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +8

      Thanks for your encouragement! 😀

  • @dingnextstop
    @dingnextstop 3 місяці тому +55

    Hi Betty … please try not to feel “exposed” or folk watching you… you’re very brave to be a boat owner and I assume a live aboard, most people that “Gongoozle” are just curious and some even envious so just to say be proud of yourself and what you’re doing. It’s a massive learning curve and I can assure you your confidence will grow to new levels, even after 24 years as a continuous cruiser I still get slightly “self aware” if at busy locks with public watching.. it’s just being human.. good luck and stay safe 😊

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +15

      Thank you! I'm the same at busy locks too. I always worry something will go wrong when people are watching!

    • @ianrtait5721
      @ianrtait5721 3 місяці тому +4

      Another great video. Thanks

    • @neilbaker3395
      @neilbaker3395 3 місяці тому +4

      I probably would be shy to but you come across confident in what your doing just make up your mind and go for it. If you start to worry/panic that's when you make mistakes. I love watching someone do something that's how I learn. Others could look and just be envious of you and a good life. Take care and keep up loading,chin up and head held high

    • @overdriveeagle
      @overdriveeagle 3 місяці тому +2

      You are doing a marvellous job!

    • @overdriveeagle
      @overdriveeagle 3 місяці тому +1

      The swan eating from the side of your boat was super super cool!😊

  • @Englishman999
    @Englishman999 3 місяці тому +39

    You're a breath of fresh air in the boating video world! There's a world of narcissists making videos. Great to see a down to earth, humble person like yourself breaking the mould. Keep doing what you do!
    And never worry about people watching you when you're out - you seem as competent as any out on your boat and far better than so many I see every day.

    • @keepitreal1547
      @keepitreal1547 3 місяці тому +5

      Perfectly well said, my thoughts also 👍

  • @frankieb2784
    @frankieb2784 16 днів тому +2

    As an introvert I do understand feeling uncomfortable around many people.. and I chose to be a city manager here in Colorado in the US.. when you said you were uncomfortable I felt a bond.. still, love your channel and sincerity.. I’d pick that every time. Well done.. Frank

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  День тому

      Thank you, I'm glad you're enjoying the channel!

  • @hansu-nihon
    @hansu-nihon 3 місяці тому +22

    I recognized myself in you Betty when you said "I feel quite uncomfortable even being out on the boat" etc.... And that is totally fine Betty! No accountability is needed.😉✌

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +13

      I almost cut that bit of the video out as I was worried it would come across as negative!

    • @andyy348
      @andyy348 3 місяці тому +8

      @@bettyonaboat Glad you didn't cut it out. It shows that you're a real person and not pretentious and shows to other people who feel the same that they are not alone. That's probably why you're rapidly gaining such a nice and appreciative audience. Long may it continue.

  • @savetommyrobinsonfreespeec7660
    @savetommyrobinsonfreespeec7660 12 днів тому +1

    Swanee! How I love ya! How I love ya!
    My dear old Swanee!
    I’d float a million miles for one of your smiles, My dear old Swanee! 😂 ❤🇬🇧

  • @garywood79
    @garywood79 3 місяці тому +6

    I don’t feel so weird now listening to you. The times I’ve waited until my neighbours go out so we don’t bump into each other and I have to make small talk 🤣🤣

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Ha, that sounds like things I've done in the past! I actually bought a book called How To Talk To People about 10 years ago because I used to be really bad.

    • @PaulStargasm
      @PaulStargasm 2 місяці тому

      Lol I still do this!

  • @veronicashipley9123
    @veronicashipley9123 3 місяці тому +20

    Hello Betty ☺. I could feel your anxiety at the beginner before you even said anything. Don't be intimidated, you go girl. Swans can't get into the air from the water without difficulty! They need a solid runway ... He/she is probably a younger swan or its lost its partner, they mate for life and don't usually mate again, sadly. I lost my beloved husband back in December, afterc54 years together, so I know how that feels 😢. Don't feed them bread, they cant digest it. Rice and oats are ok though. Be careful too, they can be quite aggresive. The geese probably had young near by and was chasing it away. Lots of mythology connected to swans, coud now be your toten animal. Sending love, light and summer blessings 🌻🌺🌼🌾 xx

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about your husband. 54 years is a long time, what a wonderful life you must have had together! I've since managed to get special floating food for the swans and also the ducks and geese. Best wishes xx

    • @veronicashipley9123
      @veronicashipley9123 2 місяці тому

      @@bettyonaboat Thank you for kind words Betty. Enjoy all the nature that's surrounds you, good for the mind, body and spirit. Take care ☺ xx

    • @mambastu
      @mambastu 2 місяці тому

      You can see the goslings in the video so the parents were trying to keep the swan away from them.

  • @BreezyRider66
    @BreezyRider66 3 місяці тому +8

    Well anybody who was watching simply saw you calmly and competently operating your boat. Good stuff...

  • @grilnam9945
    @grilnam9945 3 місяці тому +12

    Just remember Swans mate for life, you may never lose your new companion now.

  • @terryroxburgh3276
    @terryroxburgh3276 3 місяці тому +10

    Of course you drive a mini! Nice to watch someone on UA-cam that's not full of themselves. Go girl!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +3

      I'm amazed people can tell the car from the inside!

    • @terryroxburgh3276
      @terryroxburgh3276 2 місяці тому +3

      @@bettyonaboat The first clue is the mini label tab on your seat! 🤣

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +2

      @@terryroxburgh3276 Oh right, that gives it away! 😂

    • @daverdaceng
      @daverdaceng 2 місяці тому +2

      Minis are cool 😎

    • @terryroxburgh3276
      @terryroxburgh3276 2 місяці тому +2

      @@daverdaceng I concur! I've got a Cooper S myself.

  • @chiganuggoo9929
    @chiganuggoo9929 3 місяці тому +8

    'Diesel Bug'. Every day is a school day. Thank you for another insightful video. Such a peaceful life, in beautiful surroundings.

    • @ximono
      @ximono 3 місяці тому +2

      They're actual bugs (well, microorganisms) that live in diesel. That in itself is pretty amazing.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +2

      In all honesty I'm not entirely sure what they are, but I know they're a bad thing!

  • @mickyfinn7969
    @mickyfinn7969 3 місяці тому +6

    Seemingly genuine , gentle and sensitive. I hope things fall in your favour along the towpath . Pygar is definitely infatuated :)

  • @yorkyswe
    @yorkyswe 3 місяці тому +7

    There are 500 comments already so I doubt you'll read this. I have agoraphobia, and hate going out. I felt everyone is watching me, judging me, secretly laughing at me. But I am feeling more comfortable going out nowadays compared to a few years ago, since I've come to realise that actually no-one cares. They might glance at you, but most people will barely see you and they just want to get on with their day. So I've come to the conclusion most of my worries are internal. I love your videos by the way. You are so honest and real, nothing pretentious, no gimmicks, and you are very engaging. I love boats and it's very interesting to see your way of life and the stuff you have to deal with. I think you're very brave and amazing to give us a glimpse of it on UA-cam.

    • @Theflyingpotato
      @Theflyingpotato 3 місяці тому +2

      great comment, i was often told my gaze was intimidating. but as i timidly looked at people i was usually thinking things like "if i made my sandwiches for work the night before would i have more motivation to go to a very dull job ? or things like; my left shoe lace is tighter that the left. all the while other people would give me a sideways look worrying about me , when i was actually thinking about what brand of dog food to buy tomorrow at the supermarket ? what's French for dog food ? where did the word food originate from ? you are so right, no one cares. evryone is so wrapped up in their own bubble. even the swan,

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +5

      I do read all of the comments eventually but it takes me a while depending on what else I'm doing! I know what you mean about worrying that people are judging you as I worry about this too. I had bad acne as a child and I remember some girls in a shop who were talking about me and laughing at me, and other kids at school would make comments about my skin, so I wonder if that's partly where it comes from. I think all insecurities must come from somewhere?

  • @sizzlebird1
    @sizzlebird1 3 місяці тому +6

    It's a joy to see someone just doing their thing! Happy days!

  • @glacieractivity
    @glacieractivity 3 місяці тому +14

    This swan is probably a "yearling" and has not found a mate yet thus lacking purpose in life, as it really should have been partnered up and nesting while going as mental as those ducks whenever anyone comes half-close to their chicks. They may act a bit weird since lacking a "job", but it is quite normal. Thank you for having restored my inner peace yet again, from a fellow introvert.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +3

      It did seem strange behaviour! Hopefully he'll find a mate soon.

    • @johndean4998
      @johndean4998 3 місяці тому +2

      Geese, not ducks.

    • @chrisburnett263
      @chrisburnett263 3 місяці тому +1

      I live here and I know this swan personally. He is the territorial male of this stretch of water. His partner currently has 5 cygnets and he chases off all other swans or geese.
      During the winter months I feed the pair and any remaining young with special swan food pellets.

  • @indigowolf288
    @indigowolf288 3 місяці тому +8

    Well done Betty, you did it. Showed us a bit of other boats moving past you, great stuff. Those interactions you have with people on their boats and the towpath really add to the vlog and so many people are 'vlogging' these days I'd try not to feel embarrassed talking to the camera with other people about. Although I do relate to how you feel when the crowds disperse - that's the main reason I get out on my bike, getting away from the crowds and exploring country lanes and towpaths are fabulous for that. Keep the vlogs coming, your followers and I love the serenity, stunning views and gentle pace!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, it's interesting to hear which bits you like about the vlogs!

  • @leejackson2969
    @leejackson2969 2 місяці тому +1

    Why am I now looking at narrowboats for sale? 😂. If I ever move back to the UK I’m getting one. I love this level of peace and quiet. Brilliant.

  • @hamradioop5777
    @hamradioop5777 3 місяці тому +16

    Hi Betty, your videos and commentary are simply delightful. Who would have thought I would have a ridiculous smile on my face watching a swan feeding rice of the back of your boat and a tumbling camera's video. Your films cheer my day 🙂

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +6

      Ha, to be honest that swan made me smile too when I was editing the footage! 😂

  • @johnharrison9317
    @johnharrison9317 3 місяці тому +27

    Rockin the bib n braces and heart glasses Betty. Revel in the fact that you a powerful individual bringing happiness to those who watch. Thank you :-)

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for the encouragement!

  • @SaintVacuum
    @SaintVacuum 3 місяці тому +3

    For whatever it's worth.....my wife and I (in North Carolina, USA) love your videos and vlogs. We really hope you will keep going. And don't worry about others seeing you talking to your camera.....there are enough narrowboat vloggers these days that I am sure they will realise that you're just another one making your vids.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thank you, it's really nice to know you both appreciate the videos! 🙂 I will keep going, but it takes me a while to edit the videos so I'm not sure how frequent they will be.

  • @cheechU38K
    @cheechU38K 3 місяці тому +15

    Oh Betty, I feel for your nervousness around the busy banks. Love your shades 😎❤️ lovely scenery too! That swan looked lonely 😢 He is your bodyguard for annoying heckling men 😜

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +5

      Ha, he's my guard swan! 🦢

    • @cheechU38K
      @cheechU38K 3 місяці тому +2

      @@bettyonaboat He was so sweet eating rice 🍚

    • @Englishman999
      @Englishman999 3 місяці тому

      Heckling men?

    • @cheechU38K
      @cheechU38K 3 місяці тому

      @@Englishman999 I heard one shouting hello 🙋🏻‍♂️

    • @Englishman999
      @Englishman999 3 місяці тому +1

      @@cheechU38K Yeah, didn't think you were being sexist or in any way speaking in a derogatory way about men in general. Thought I'd check...

  • @mjjones8216
    @mjjones8216 3 місяці тому +2

    The swan looks young Betty they do get Pushed out by their parents after six months to make their own way in the summer .
    Its kinda sad but they are tuff birds . It says young swans will look for a flock to hang around with . and swans Don’t look for a mate until they four years old this was a sweet and fun episode well Done !! 👍🏻

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, I don't know much about swans so it's interesting to know that!

  • @keepitreal1547
    @keepitreal1547 3 місяці тому +13

    I always watch the full video before commenting & Betty, you're always a breath of fresh air.
    Your personality make it relaxing & enjoyable...you're abviously a caring individual also.
    That Swan knew he was on to a good thing with you.
    Keep safe & be happy...always 😊

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      Ha, he must have somehow been able to tell I was going to feed him!

    • @keepitreal1547
      @keepitreal1547 3 місяці тому

      @@bettyonaboat
      I've always found that animals have a unique sense of who they can trust, that Swan is no exception.
      You would have been there for him, food or otherwise Betty & you know it 😃

    • @keepitreal1547
      @keepitreal1547 3 місяці тому

      ​@@bettyonaboat
      I was wondering if you could do a video on what internet connection you use on your boat? Or do you use your phone data or WiFi elsewhere?
      Thanks Betty.

  • @stephenpyner4156
    @stephenpyner4156 3 місяці тому +18

    Thank you for another wonderful video Betty, alot of people don't realise what is involved when you have a boat and a car with thinking about where you most your boat so you have easy access and short walk to your car, I can understand how you feel about being around people when you are moving your boat when you are an introvert as you feel like people want to judge you. As your loyal followers we will never judge you as we care about you too much and want to support you as much as your family and friends do . If you ever feel like you need someone to talk to I'm sure there is a few of us that are willing to give you the time to chat, I know I would for you

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +5

      I almost edited out that bit of the video but then I thought I'd show it to explain why I looked a bit uncomfortable. I felt better as I carried on filming though!

    • @stephenpyner4156
      @stephenpyner4156 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@bettyonaboat glad you didn't as it shows how vulnerable you can feel especially when you are alone and my heart goes out to you when you feel like that.By the way I meant moor your boat when I said most your boat

  • @Tim091
    @Tim091 3 місяці тому +7

    Gosh, for someone clearly a little uncomfortable around people I have huge respect for you starting this You Tube journey. That must have taken a lot. Well done for pushing your comfort zone a little bit wider. Not to mention making hugely enjoyable videos.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +4

      Yeah I'm not sure what I was thinking when I started this really. 😂 I enjoy the creativity of making the videos rather than being on camera.

    • @Tim091
      @Tim091 3 місяці тому

      @@bettyonaboat Well, we enjoy you being on camera so please don't stop!

  • @Smokeysbandit
    @Smokeysbandit 3 місяці тому +2

    What a special lady you are You don’t have to feel intimidated by people. Most of them will be looking at you in envy.

    • @ximono
      @ximono 3 місяці тому +1

      I agree, except for the word "envy". Envy connotes a feeling of resentfulness, or a desire to take something away from someone. I think these people were happy to see her, and maybe wished they could experience what she was experiencing. We really need a better word to describe that positive feeling. That feeling of seeing someone else having a good time and wanting the same. Not at their expense, but alongside them.

  • @mrmagoo-778
    @mrmagoo-778 2 місяці тому +4

    The waters draw a diverse range of people. Some of the boaters, walkers, and others gravitate to the canals, finding solace in a space when they aren't necessarily at ease in mainstream. The egoless approach to your videos makes them a pleasure and a privilege to watch. Your empathy is compelling, and while you might find it taken advantage of on occasions, it can also lead to encounters with some amazing like minded people and wonderful experiences along the waterways. The stretch bridge 24 to 24a at Willington has rocks in the water alongside the towpath. I hope people feedback encourages you to continue producing videos.

  • @kevinbrown4892
    @kevinbrown4892 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi Betty, I've just discovered your channel and your presentation style is just so natural, please don't change. I spent many happy years on the canals back in the 1970's but sadly due to ill health I'm unable to handle a boat now, so I'll tag along with you if you don't mind doing all the work. I need to have a quick catch up on your earlier videos, then if you have no objection I have a few questions for you. Keep up the good work Kevin.

  • @millinutz
    @millinutz 3 місяці тому +11

    The Swan must be Starstruck, having met the famous Betty on a Boar😅!
    Thanks, another entertaing video, despite all the annoying strollers enjoying a bit of Bank Hol sun. I bet at any given time, there are more people watching you online than from the towpath, and besides, that is a boat worth looking at, so they're not all staring at just you. You're doing fine Betty, stick to your task at hand, and sod the gaffering folk.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +3

      Yes they were probably just interested and I'm usually fine with people saying hello, it was just the sheer numbers of people that day, which I didn't really capture in the video. Thanks for the encouragement anyway. 🙂

  • @michelewestmoreland7701
    @michelewestmoreland7701 Місяць тому

    Just found you . I just love narrow boats and seeing the English countryside. So glad to see a young independent woman ! Keep up the good work on the boat. Here in the US we have the ICW, Intercoastal Waterway that is open to the public to travel in on your boat. It also is used by commercial shipping so you can see gigantic boats or tiny boats. My hubby and I are considering buying a boat and doing the ICW for a year. I look forward to more videos. Hope you find your swan friend !

  • @vinnie42ful
    @vinnie42ful 3 місяці тому +3

    Of course they are looking at you, a beautiful woman driving a narrow boat , awesome, keep them coming enjoy your videos, hi from down under 🙏

  • @PJB2002
    @PJB2002 3 місяці тому +2

    The Swan could feel your sweet energy and knew he would be treated with kindness. Love your vlogs! Stay safe.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thank you, I'm glad you like them!

  • @bobbieboothroyd8531
    @bobbieboothroyd8531 3 місяці тому +4

    I thought the person under the bridge would have been more of a distraction than the swan. I don't like being the centre of attention either. That was a lovely video.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому

      Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it. 🙂

  • @albertschultz7151
    @albertschultz7151 10 днів тому +1

    Thanks for sharing . Just a thought, small folding bicycle would be easy to use when collecting your vehicle. Easy to stow at each end. Fascinating boat culture. Live in the Stockholm archipelago. 🙏🏻

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  День тому +1

      Yes, I've thought about getting a folding bike!

    • @albertschultz7151
      @albertschultz7151 День тому

      @@bettyonaboat saw your feed concerning your dad. Holding thumbs. Thoroughly enjoy your channel. Many thanks and safe travels.

  • @FindThisArtist
    @FindThisArtist 3 місяці тому +4

    Loved the seek and reject swan love story, especially it ending in dinner.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +4

      We're just friends! 🦢

    • @FindThisArtist
      @FindThisArtist 3 місяці тому +2

      @@bettyonaboat tell that to the swan!

  • @mikeyyoyo6464
    @mikeyyoyo6464 3 місяці тому +9

    Ducklings were like “we’re outa here!” 😂, nice wee video 😊

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +2

      Ha, they're no match for a swan!

    • @johndean4998
      @johndean4998 3 місяці тому +2

      Goslings, not ducklings.

    • @mikeyyoyo6464
      @mikeyyoyo6464 3 місяці тому

      @@johndean4998 sorry I was too busy laughing & thinking how amazing nature is that weeks old things can sense danger & run like the clappers! I stand corrected, must try harder tomorrow 😝

  • @humblequest7905
    @humblequest7905 3 місяці тому +2

    Another totally delightful watch 👍🏼 More power to you Betty 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thanks for watching again! 🙂

  • @stanlee5766
    @stanlee5766 3 місяці тому +4

    I just love your videos, you can see you’re a shy lady but you look so confident in driving (if that’s the term!) your boat. Keep up the great videos Betty & don’t be put off by people watching you, you never know they may be envious of a person like you in total control of their boat. Well done girl

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thank you, I think driving the boat does make me feel more confident as I find it easier to talk to the camera when I'm driving!

  • @timothybearne147
    @timothybearne147 3 місяці тому +1

    I agree about keeping the diesel topped up to avoid contamination. I put my engine hours into a spreadsheet then look to fill up when it says I'm below 50%. So far, I've only used marinas that have service moorings on the canal to save all that manoeuvring around the basin. Also I avoid filling up when it's raining so as rainwater doesn't get in the tank.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      That's a good tip about rainwater - I hadn't thought about that!

  • @maribelfarnsworth4565
    @maribelfarnsworth4565 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for another delightful video - especially for the swan and the rabbits!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      I enjoyed the swan and rabbits too! 🙂

  • @sabretruth-936
    @sabretruth-936 2 місяці тому +1

    a fellow 'introvert' showing us how it's done.. respect Betty

  • @SpoojFritter
    @SpoojFritter 3 місяці тому +30

    Yay - Betty on the boat... watch out for those swans. They will befriend you, and before you know it they have moved into your place and started emptying the fridge!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +11

      I was wondering if one might be brave enough to get on the deck but it hasn't happened yet!

  • @lancashire-john
    @lancashire-john 3 місяці тому +2

    Nice to meet your Guardian Swan! I'd like to see how good he is at helping you with locks though... 😁

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Let's hope he doesn't try to get in a lock or he would get squished!

    • @lancashire-john
      @lancashire-john 2 місяці тому

      @@bettyonaboat That definitely won't do! 😱

  • @kevincross9206
    @kevincross9206 3 місяці тому +4

    The swan would definitely make better company than humans 😊

    • @ScratchyBaws
      @ScratchyBaws 2 місяці тому +1

      And drown you at the same time.

  • @crazyd4371
    @crazyd4371 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for another interesting video Betty, which included the antics of your escort "HMS Swan". The background shot at 1:33 reminded me of the Willington Power Station cooling towers that you took some drone footage of in another video. When you approach bridges on bends, I wonder if this would benefit from a simple traffic light system or mounted mirror, so you can see any boaters coming from the other direction. I understand what you mean about feeling watched. When I had my first boating experience back in March, I tried to dock the houseboat I had hired along a bank by myself, which was a fairly complicated operation for me. Unfortunately I made a complete balls up of it and got spooked. I had a speed boat and water skier waiting for me to complete the docking, as well as a crowd of campers on the bank nearby laughing at my antics. Sufficed to say that I high tailed it out of there, but I learned from the experience. Very cool heart shaped sun glasses btw!!!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Oh no, that's mean of the campers to laugh at you! I think people probably don't realise how difficult it can be to handle a boat on your own.

  • @techinfusions
    @techinfusions 3 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for taking the time to film your adventure, the Swan following you made me smile, keep the videos coming they are nice to watch.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, the swan made me smile too! 🦢

  • @rodneylast2651
    @rodneylast2651 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you Betty.

  • @liam_fulton
    @liam_fulton 3 місяці тому +4

    These videos are so calming

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому

      Thanks, I'm glad you find them calming!

  • @morgsta0676
    @morgsta0676 3 місяці тому +1

    Listening to you talk, you sound so much like me. I can imagine having the same thoughts, difference is you got out there and did it, I never did.

  • @BrokenKanuck
    @BrokenKanuck 3 місяці тому +5

    Oh wow she's back! Absolutely adore these videos!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому

      Thank you, it's nice to know you enjoy them so much! 😀

  • @debbielynn6683
    @debbielynn6683 3 місяці тому +2

    That was really fun with the swan. Loved it when it came up and got some food off the boat. I know how you must feel when in a place where seems everyone’s eyes are on you, you feel sorta on display, I really dislike times like that. Was wondering how for do you move before you go back and move your car? I admire you taking on a one woman show… driving the boat, locks, mooring the boat, filming, editing and maintaining the boat. Girl, you’ve got your hands full !!! But love what you are doing, doing what and when you want to do it. Take care and please be careful ❣️

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      The distance depends but I usually go at least two miles. I definitely do have my hands full at the moment but I'm enjoying it! 😀

  • @alastairwilson457
    @alastairwilson457 3 місяці тому +3

    I am flummoxed 😊 by your videos, Betty, I feel so relaxed watching them. Thank you for being you! What an amazing way of life

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, it's nice to know the videos are appreciated! 🙂

  • @andyy348
    @andyy348 3 місяці тому +2

    I have no idea why this video was recommended to me but I'm glad it was. Never thought about living on a boat before but you've shown me how peaceful and calming it can be. You have such a beautiful calm personality and even your awkward moments are something many people can relate to. I wish you all the best in your future endeavours.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your kind words! 🙂

  • @nickvaughan4069
    @nickvaughan4069 3 місяці тому +4

    That was so lovely Betty, that swan was definitely guiding you through that shallow root.And don't worry about what other people think they are looking because they are seeing a beautiful woman on a boat, and your sunglasses look super cool 😎 look forward to the next one stay safe Nick 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿x

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for your reassurance! 🙂

  • @pemman
    @pemman 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks Betty. Wow! That was special with the swan. Glad you fed him. I wonder if he's sussed out that following or leading a boat usually means food. See next time.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      Yes I wonder if that's what he was doing! I need to find an expert in swan behaviour!

    • @pemman
      @pemman 3 місяці тому +2

      @@bettyonaboat Yes! By the way Betty I notice you answer so many of your comments. It's appreciated 😊

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      @@pemman I try to but it takes me a while to go through them!

  • @carpnstuff
    @carpnstuff 3 місяці тому +3

    I can totally relate to being more comfortable in the company of a swan than other people! Also, I think he was trying to impress you by having a fight with those two Canada geese 🙂

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +2

      I do usually like people, there were just too many that day! I do love animals though.

    • @stephenpyner4156
      @stephenpyner4156 3 місяці тому

      @@bettyonaboat I can understand that as I don't like being amongst too many people myself and as a keen angler I love to see nature around me such as all the birds

  • @Cranky301
    @Cranky301 3 місяці тому +1

    3:09 you are a modest person in a modern world full of the self obsessed. It’s what makes your videos so lovely to watch. 👍👍👍

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thank you, that's nice of you to say!

  • @judithharmon2496
    @judithharmon2496 3 місяці тому +3

    As ever, a delightful and uplifting video. Everything's better with swans and rabbits ❤ thank you, Betty

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      Definitely! Especially rabbits! 🐇🐇🐇

  • @170166
    @170166 3 місяці тому +1

    Folks were probably watching you turn the boat, its not an easy thing to do but you made look simple, I always get it wrong and end up feeling a right fool. Thank god for the push rods on top of boats.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Yes I can understand people being interested in hindsight!

  • @TizerHare
    @TizerHare 3 місяці тому +3

    Super episode. Love your style of filming. I find Narrowboat clips so relaxing. Years ago I tripped over a narrowboat rope and fell into a bed of nettles. The old lady inside the boat made me some Nettle tea ironically and bathed my face. I was only 40 years old!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      Oh no, at least you didn't fall in the canal!

  • @kmb6650
    @kmb6650 3 місяці тому +1

    Great Vid Betty and don't worry about what other people think they are looking because they are seeing a beautiful wonderful free woman on a boat enjoying life to the max.. I'm so jealous of you....

  • @darrenguest7284
    @darrenguest7284 3 місяці тому +3

    Well done with the navigating, so many things to see and do!

  • @martyn534200
    @martyn534200 2 місяці тому +1

    Really love watching these videos , Betty is delightful.

  • @MercuryGremlin
    @MercuryGremlin 3 місяці тому +3

    Another wonderful video with you and Little One. You're your own boss and captain. You have a smashing little narrowboat, you are independent and doing your own thing. And now producing fab videos allowing us along to share your travels and adventures. We're enjoying joining you, and you should be proud of how the channel is growing. When the canal gets busy, remember your viewers are with you, wishing you calm waters and peaceful cruising.
    Anybody nearby who disagrees can take it up with your new feathered friend! 😊

  • @Bleech606
    @Bleech606 3 місяці тому +1

    2:22 Damn. As a middle aged man, this is something I try not to take for granted - no one bothers with me at all ever anymore. It's like a superpower. I hate having to respond to nobheads. It's a delicate balance - responding just the right amount to neither encourage nor annoy them. Think you just about nailed it. 😆

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому

      I didn't even realise he was talking to me to begin with, I was too busy looking over at the diesel pump and wondering whether or not I should try to get into a tight space!

  • @kevrymell6636
    @kevrymell6636 3 місяці тому +3

    As someone who prefers to be on my own or just with my family I can fully appreciate that uncomfortable feeling you get in or around crowds of people - you also have to deal with odd folk shouting at you from the canal bank - that can't be much fun either.....

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +2

      I'm usually OK with people waving and saying hello, there were just too many people that day!

  • @paulwhite1040
    @paulwhite1040 2 місяці тому +1

    I have never been on a canal boat.. it looks peaceful and relaxing

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Yes it is a lot of the time, but it depends where you are!

  • @garyphillips7993
    @garyphillips7993 3 місяці тому +5

    It’s refreshing to see someone prepared to talk & demonstrate the lesser known domestic side of canal life 👍 I never imagined having a car & barge would be an exercise regimen with the towpath walks 😳
    Love the sunglasses & bib 😊
    Well done on pushing through the difficult part of your trip 😎

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +3

      I actually really love the walking! Sometimes I take longer and more scenic routes to get back to the car.

    • @ximono
      @ximono 3 місяці тому

      @@bettyonaboat I totally get that. First a nice boat ride, then a nice walk. Two in one.

  • @benfearnhead9851
    @benfearnhead9851 3 місяці тому +1

    I looked at a narrowboat last year but didn’t go ahead. This issue was always at the back of my mind. I came to the conclusion a folding bike was the answer so I could cycle along the towpath, fold the bike and stick it in the car then drive back to the boat. Walking is great exercise though! Good on ya!

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      I really enjoy the walking! I think some boaters don't enjoy it though as they give lifts to each other. I remember telling another boater I was walking six miles back to my car and he thought I was mad.

  • @deviatefishy
    @deviatefishy 3 місяці тому +3

    "Why is this lady following me?" -Mr. Swanson

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +2

      😂 He probably did think that!

  • @howardalexander0621
    @howardalexander0621 3 місяці тому +1

    I loved it when the swan first appeared 🦢 he was fast!

  • @pipk7747
    @pipk7747 3 місяці тому +4

    Another brill 1 Betty.
    The swan was a star.
    The king would be proud of you.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому

      Ha, I forgot they're royal birds!

  • @keithfranklin1225
    @keithfranklin1225 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for another video. This one really made me smile with a "swan love sub plot" 👍.
    After decades in the corporate world doing company / customer tours I never got used to being "in front" of people but just got on with it nerves and all. Having now transitioned to a full time carer I can allow my social anxiety to have a field day and could feel your pain in the marina. Just keep swimming 👍

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      Yes it was an unexpected sub plot even for me! Thanks for your encouragement! 🙂

  • @ScouseMike
    @ScouseMike 3 місяці тому +3

    Another great vid Betty! The swan deffo stole the show. 🦢🦢🦢

  • @stuartlennox66
    @stuartlennox66 3 місяці тому +1

    Another good video, walking backwards and forwards to get to and from your car would really keep you fit, im sure I would want to sit down and have a beer halfway through doing that.🤣🤣

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      Ha, I do sometimes take a cup of tea with me in a travel mug!

  • @duncankilburn7612
    @duncankilburn7612 3 місяці тому +3

    Always wanted to travel on narrow/barge boats, your videos are really useful & informative. One day I'll put the theory into practice! 😀

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you! I'd recommend hiring a boat for a few days to give it a go.

  • @MX5MAN4
    @MX5MAN4 3 місяці тому +2

    loving the video betty you are a breath of fresh air x

  • @tonibeg3494
    @tonibeg3494 3 місяці тому +4

    New video😊
    Keep up the good work

  • @philcudworth8491
    @philcudworth8491 3 місяці тому +1

    Lovely video. Glad you're making a nice life for yourself on the cut. I'm 19 years on board now. I call the the car/boat thing bridge hoping. Keep smiling.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Ah yes, I've heard that phrase actually! 😀

  • @spamhead
    @spamhead 2 місяці тому

    I always thought we were cruising leisurely when on canal boat holidays. But watching you Betty, I think we were racing, must have been the desire to get to the next pub!

  • @truckermal
    @truckermal 3 місяці тому +3

    Beautiful lady❤❤❤❤

  • @hughcrawford1978
    @hughcrawford1978 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for another open and refreshing video. I am facinated how animals try to connect with humans. I feel there is much more about it that we don't understand.
    Happy cruising

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Yes I'm fascinated by it too! I love animals.

  • @robertseaman2254
    @robertseaman2254 3 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou for sharing the video, always enjoyable and the swan was very sweet i think it new you as a kind person and glad it had some food to enjoy .good boating and hope to see some more soon robert.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thank you, it's good to know you enjoyed the video! 🙂

  • @ross6343
    @ross6343 3 місяці тому +1

    Elegant Swan - me thinks the Swan fancied the color of your narrowboat. Oh snap...wait a New York minute...maybe the Swan fancied your beautiful eyes [I just noticed how beautiful your eyes are Betty]. Anyhoo...I had some good giggles following your Swan saga - thank you for that Betty! I used to worry about what other people thought of me...but when I turned 60 I 'discovered' that a BIG SMILE can be very effective at disarming people's perceptions. Enjoyed the video - thanks for sharing. Be well - many blessings! Cheers...

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому

      Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @Justin-ke5qg
    @Justin-ke5qg 3 місяці тому +1

    People will always be looking, just wave it's the boaters way. Also you have to take into account that you are doing something people only dream about. So curiosity is a draw. You are very pretty as well. Enjoy every moment and thanks for sharing

  • @RichardLewis-em2ud
    @RichardLewis-em2ud 3 місяці тому +1

    Another great video Betty. I never even thought about travelling around with both a boat and car, it must restrict you quite a bit on how far you can move at a time. It seems to be a well mannered Swan you have made friends with. The last one I encountered on the canal bank was quite vicious.

    • @sentul5558
      @sentul5558 2 місяці тому +1

      She cannot go any further than sbe can walk between tbe boat and the car

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      It does restrict me a bit but I think having a car is well worth it as it means I can visit friends and family easily. Cars are good for getting to places quickly. The boat doesn't go very fast!

  • @ian1785
    @ian1785 3 місяці тому +1

    Feel so chilled out after watching that video. Love walking the Leeds Liverpool canal & always have a passing natter with the passing boaters, a good bunch of people

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      I started off on the Leeds and Liverpool - it's lovely up there!

    • @ian1785
      @ian1785 2 місяці тому

      @@bettyonaboat you may well have passed me & my brother at some point on your travels up here. Keep posting the videos btw, great content, you are smashing it and hopefully living your best life 😊

  • @davidd3899
    @davidd3899 3 місяці тому +2

    Most of us who live on boats are introverts. That's what we like about the life we spot each other and are aware of our spaces and how long we stay in them. loving the vlogs.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому

      Thanks, I'm glad you like the vlogs! 🙂

  • @padraigmcsharry4054
    @padraigmcsharry4054 3 місяці тому +1

    Best of luck on your journey. Looks like you’re a worthy captain. I think the swan took a shine for you and wants to be part of the crew. Safe travels. 😉

  • @moffatt43
    @moffatt43 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Betty.
    One thing that you might find useful for being a Solo Narrowboater is what I like to call a Lock Pole,we all know that some of the gates can be extremely difficult and heavy to move but if you have yourself a old fashioned Oar ( nice and chunky solid wood with a thick blade ) you can use this to move the lock gate with ease,use the blade on the Many Foot bricks that the CRT has put in place and use the Oar to help lever the Lock gate.
    Originally the Lock gates would have holes in the ground and a saddle attachment on the end of the Lock gate and you would use a Stout pole in the ground hole and the pole in the saddle attachment but because of modernisation most of these were removed and replaced with the Brick Steps !.
    It must be a Good Strong Stout Wooden Oar though because obviously the Newer ones are just not up for the job !.
    Keep your eyes open for one that you feel comfortable with and they also come in handy for other things as well :- In case of breakdown,using to fend other boats away and chasing Vandals away Lol 😂 ( not a laughing matter when you are on your own but when faced with a angry owner armed with a Big Oar the Kids do tend to Leg it 🤷‍♂️ ).
    The Oar is easily stored on top of your Boat in the Boat hook rack and is always close to hand 🤷‍♂️.
    It’s surprising what uses you find for them when you do have one.
    Great Video ❤
    Think you are Lovely 😻

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Ah thank you, I've never heard of these but I'll need to look into them as some of the gates can be quite heavy!

  • @walshpaul4158
    @walshpaul4158 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi, Betty. Thanks for an enjoyable video. Loved the way the swan was your companion for a while and had something to eat. Never heard of diesel bug before but now I know. Look forward to seeing you along your journey's

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      I liked having Mr Swan as a companion too! 🙂

  • @robertngreen6
    @robertngreen6 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi, I really enjoy your videos. It's a glimpse into a different way of life, and I love the idea of boating.
    It was fun to watch you and your new friend, the swan!
    Take care.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks, I'm glad you're enjoying the videos! 🙂

  • @peterashton5941
    @peterashton5941 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your nice gentle adventure with us 🙏🏻. Take care and stay safe.

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  2 місяці тому

      Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed the gentle adventure!

  • @LeonTrotsky6782
    @LeonTrotsky6782 3 місяці тому +1

    Betty, bet most of us are intrigued by your back story. So many questions to ask you. For me, I like the intrigue & mystery, keep us guessing 😊

    • @bettyonaboat
      @bettyonaboat  3 місяці тому +1

      Ha, I'm not trying to be mysterious, I'm just waiting until I'm in a certain location before I start telling the story!

  • @andywiddison5712
    @andywiddison5712 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Betty thank you for that enjoy watching your film. Take care and we’ll catch you on the next one