I'm assuming that you mean does the partner share specific details about their past to make the person they are dating feel retroactive jealousy. Yes, absolutely. Maybe not intentionally (unless they are truly traumatized or psychotic). An avoidant attached person will unconsciously do things to maintain space from the anxious attached person they are dating because they feed off of the attention they will get from pushing their partner's buttons. An anxious person may not have had RJ in the past but have it because they are dating an avoidant partner who's behavior is fueling the jealousy tremendously. I have plans to make a whole video on this scenario in the future.
More specifically what i am saying is. If there is lack of passion in a relationship, RJ artificially creates passion because it evokes emotions. I know for example if I am having a bad RJ day, I am more attracted to my significant other that day. Even more so sexually. I think there is a propensity for relationships that are not the strongest at the beginning to use RJ to stimulate the feeling of true love. If I am not feeling attracted to my significant other on a particular day, nothing like RJ to stoke the feeling of love or what appears to be love. I kind of got what you were saying in your response, but the video would help clarify.
What you need to do is become aware of what is actually fueling the jealousy underneath. Jealousy is a tricky emotion because it is always masquerading as some other feeling. Scarcity beliefs when it comes to love, sex, and relationships can manifest in any number of behaviors or patterns, including the one you are describing. You do not need to feel jealousy to feel love. Though there may be a part of you that believes that to be true. Love can be as simple or as difficult as you want it to be. It could also be the case that you are carrying a state of apathy or lack of feeling, which is the lowest or most painful state of consciousness there is. So subconsciously you are triggering the feeling of jealousy because it feels better than the alternative, even though it is still not the most ideal state.
It's sad we live in a society that has become so promiscuous that retroactive jealousy is a real thing that people have to deal with.
Kinda irrelevant bc a parter could have had 3 relationships and still could suffer form it
Otherwise find a virgin
@@rachaelwitchey8268 as if THREE dudes is not many 😅
Great video as always bro
Thanks brother!
Great video again
Thank you, sir!
Thanks.
You’re welcome! :)
Did you ever think that people use RJ to create attraction?
I'm assuming that you mean does the partner share specific details about their past to make the person they are dating feel retroactive jealousy. Yes, absolutely. Maybe not intentionally (unless they are truly traumatized or psychotic). An avoidant attached person will unconsciously do things to maintain space from the anxious attached person they are dating because they feed off of the attention they will get from pushing their partner's buttons. An anxious person may not have had RJ in the past but have it because they are dating an avoidant partner who's behavior is fueling the jealousy tremendously. I have plans to make a whole video on this scenario in the future.
More specifically what i am saying is. If there is lack of passion in a relationship, RJ artificially creates passion because it evokes emotions. I know for example if I am having a bad RJ day, I am more attracted to my significant other that day. Even more so sexually. I think there is a propensity for relationships that are not the strongest at the beginning to use RJ to stimulate the feeling of true love. If I am not feeling attracted to my significant other on a particular day, nothing like RJ to stoke the feeling of love or what appears to be love. I kind of got what you were saying in your response, but the video would help clarify.
What you need to do is become aware of what is actually fueling the jealousy underneath. Jealousy is a tricky emotion because it is always masquerading as some other feeling. Scarcity beliefs when it comes to love, sex, and relationships can manifest in any number of behaviors or patterns, including the one you are describing. You do not need to feel jealousy to feel love. Though there may be a part of you that believes that to be true. Love can be as simple or as difficult as you want it to be.
It could also be the case that you are carrying a state of apathy or lack of feeling, which is the lowest or most painful state of consciousness there is. So subconsciously you are triggering the feeling of jealousy because it feels better than the alternative, even though it is still not the most ideal state.
You're so smart wow! Never seen a vid make more sense. Good job!