Right! He probably even felt cringey saying it at first since he didn't say it in the court room but said it after he was pissed that he lost, but now we see why his broke ass really didn't wanna give her the money smh.
The judge showed her true genuine love and words of wisdom. The words the judge used as if she was her daughter or sister. It was no hate at all, it was pure love from woman to woman💜💜💜
Facts this might have been the realist talk the judge ever spoke. Women having the wrong priorities when it comes to choosing men. Especially black women unfortunately
@Cherish God yessss!!! It’s ok if they feel some type of way. Sometimes reality and the truth stings! I hope the bad feelings make them reevaluate themselves and their decisions. It sure helped me!!!
You're naive if you think she needed a reality check.... 9/10 shes the real problem.... and it started with the introduction.... th narration said he cheated on her and got another woman pregnant. Come to find out, she knew about the mother because he got the woman pregnant BEFORE he was with her. Lol.... its the little things that tell you about a person
@Cherish God EXACTLY!!! You & OP are both so right. Sometimes you need to feel the sting of an outside perspective when you’ve been doing/handlings things wrong to really learn from it. Ignorance is bliss, ignoring all those red flags & her intuition got her burnt. I genuinely hope she took JM’s words to heart, I don’t think they came from a place of malice in the slightest.
'Girlfriend scorned, trying to be relevant'? Not only does he not know what the word "relevant" mean, he's getting away with being a pathetic grown child because women keep allowing it. Ladies, men don't act like this... unless you let them.
I get what you're trying to say, but this just absolves the offender. It takes responsibility off them and puts it on the person who was taken advantage of. This man was going to behave like that regardless of who "let" him.
courting gifts are fine but dont EVER make long term payments/decisions on a relationship that hasnt proven long term……thehy always say but they treat me so good i think this the one…. babe why would you treat the person youre trying to live with or get you to buy a car, poorly.
If you are not married there should be no lending/cosigning anything for anyone. Real men should be buying their own cars and housing and not depending on a woman men like that deserves no respect.
This is women in the black community all day long. Taking care of grown men. This is why black men are at the bottom of the socio-economic ladder. Always depending on women.
Y'all stay talking about what a real man is and what a real man does but don't say nothing about the foolish women who take care of them. Real women don't rent cars for men who don't pay their car notes and let them move into their homes rent free. Women like that don't deserve respect either.
@@Roy_Dudson , sure they are. They make less & are incarcerated more, than men, of every other race. Their branching out more, with women of other races, has caused an explosion of single parenthood, in those communities.
Woah 🤯 thank you judge Milian for speaking the truth. Most women are always making excuses or downplaying their stupidity when being played by men. Take accountability for the role you played in being played.
Look everyone has trusted someone and paid for things they shouldn’t have. To call her stupid was wrong. When you are in love you tend to try and help sometimes you get burned
@@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 I don’t think the judge was calling her stupid overall as a person, I think that she was saying her being in love with dude is what made her do stupid THINGS. Thats just my perspective, could totally be wrong though.
2:50 Much respect to the Judge! She kept it real and to the point! I hate it when people say the goodness of their heart! There is an alternative to your actions, you want something?
Women can be stupid and or wrong in front of JM she's gonna make away for them regardless of the fact let be the other way around see how the verdict would have been
RIGHTTTT…. i dont want NOTHING to do witfh no man that’s not taking care of his child,, then you might say well it just didnt work with the girl… come on now he was just raw fuckin whoever let him take advantage and if im his NEXT choice, that’s a sign that i needa take a leave from the scene and work on myself
JM, was showing how much compassion she had, and how upset she was at the man. It's clear the dude was taking advantage of her kind weakness, and she allowed it for whatever reason. He's a hot mess, definitely needs to grow up mentally. Hopefully the Plaintiff learned a lesson
To say that "she was put into this situation" is really kind of disempowering isn't it? As of she has no ability to think and discern for her self? She made choices that placed her in this situation. Her empowerment, and every person's empowerment, starts with her understanding that she put herself there and she has the power to take herself out. The idea that we "are put into situations" outside of our control is a very dis-empowering way to look at life. It sort of make us helpless children, or victims of circumstances rather then empowered people. Being a dis-empowered person is not beautiful either... It's childish, and being childish is appropriate for a child, but not for a strong woman. I might respond to your comment with this comment. "The plaintiff is very kind hearted but naive person. It's sad that she did not make better decisions to protect herself a bad situation." That statement shows more respect to the fact that the plaintiff is a strong woman and does not treat her like a helpless child. Food for thought.
She put herself in the situation. It’s sad that she confuses “having a big heart”with letting some man who has already proven that he takes advantage of women, take advantage of HER
Only thing that could have made that situation worse was if he had impregnated the plaintiff! She was embarrassed on a tv show; however, she got her money back…plus dodged a huge (18-year old +) bullet by getting him out of her life for good!
I love this Judge. If he doesn't even care about his own credit, why would this woman think he would pay her? Too many women pressed to say they with someone, no matter who that someone is.
Too many women think they can take a lowdown man and transform him into their ideal King by loving him and showering him with money and luxuries and stability-- It doesn't work if he doesn't have the initial mindset or training to do/be better. If there's no drive there to start, there won't be one magically started because you feed/clothe/shelter/have his babies, etc. That's just not how it works.
Men and Women in her(Plaintiff) position need to realize right away that people like him(Defendant) aren't worth keeping around if his bad finances play a big part in your relationship to the point where it leads up to this similar situation. The "D" isn't worth it if your paying for it's baggage just to keep it in your house. Buy a new one. I have to give the Judge props on saying the things she said though, because a lot of the times when you speak words of truth like that, conservative ears consider it Taboo and believe it shouldn't be spoken of, because they feel like attacks.
I co-signed for a Jeep with my former boyfriend. We had only been dating 9 months at the time....I think it worked out though. Been married to him for 6 years!
@@WesleyLindsey How was I deflecting? Deflecting is when you downplay one problem by pointing out another. I said they're both lousy. You just don't like the fact that I'm not only talking about the defendant like you are.
I'll never understand why young people like this guy have babies before they're mature enough to get their own lives in order. The first step might be to stop lying through one's teeth whenever it's convenient. And the plaintiff might want to reconsider going on national TV to announce to the world that she's a doormat.
because they “cant feel anything with condoms” or “she said she used birth control” thats why you just plain DONT have sex with someone you can afford to make “mistakes” with.
I was team plaintiff all the way but was kind of disappointed that she knew about the baby before he started living with her. In the introduction they made it sound as if she found out later on. Why was she with him if she knew he had something else going on? She especially then should not have become financially involved with him. It sounds like he is a pathological liar. Good that she received her money back. Hopefully she has learned a lesson.
@@DJ-cd6gk He lied about running his own business and that he had money. He was broke. He also lied in court that he had bought his own truck when actually his father bought it for him. He further lied saying that the girl was driving the car for the second month. Finally when he left her he lied and said he was going to an out of town work job. Is that enough examples for you? I guess he also lied saying he would pay her back. I cannot remember if he did. I need to watch it again to check. EDIT: Yes he did say he would pay her back and it came to the point where she has to bring him to court. So that is at least 5 lies. Ergo he is a pathological liar.
@@stephenbanks5952 A pathological liar is someone who tells compulsive lies that do not have a clear motive or benefit. By this definition, it does not fit him
@@DJ-cd6gk OK sorry, I didn't know that was the definition. Well can we just say that he tells a lot of lies then. Can we agree on that? I was more just disputing the fact in your comment earlier where you questioned whether he was a liar or not because he told the girl about the other woman having his baby. Agreed that he didn't lie about that but he did tell at least 5 other lies that we know about. Maybe we can call him a serial liar or something like that. :-)
The kindness of my heart. Noooooo the itch on the middle part..smh...some woman need to stop trying to keep a man by supporting him..if a man can't do for himself what can he do for you..NOTHING..
I wish all cases like this would be IMMEDIATELY dismissed. If women want to be stupid enough to try and buy or help a man, let them suffer the consequences. I wish a man would be bold enough to ask me for anything. He would get his feelings hurt 😔 like never before. No matter how good a man looks or how well he performs in the sack, I will NEVER part with a penny to help him. God gave men strength, power, and brains for a reason.
Right! She said he was making funny jokes about the rental car getting repossessed. In what world is someone getting a rental car that you're responsible for funny? She's very stupid.
ABSOLUTELY. I have never and would never give any man 2 dimes. They took me out on dates. I would pick up a pizza on the way to visit my fiance in college. Later we married and I'm living in the house he bought. Only a desperate woman gives men money.
Y’all are really going in on dude, this is why if you are a women you should let the men in your family pick the guy for you we base it on character, nuthing else, if he had a baby on the way he had no time for a new girl and her kid. This is why she’s in the position she’s in. She should be in the gym anyway to get her self esteem up. Too many lazy don’t need no man ass women out here, serves her and y’all right for choosing to be independent.
Wait, wait, wait... my mans tells the defendant that he's got another woman pregnant; and the defendant still gets with him. And, surprise, he turns out to be a man of dubious character. What does that say about HER?
Black women, we need to stop being so desperate for a " man". This Dusty was unemployed, had no place to live, bad credit , broke and a baby on the way and she expected him to do the right thing ??? I'll bet both of them didn't have a father in the home because this is the majority of people that didn't have a father in the home.
Whoooo Chile’ I don’t know if Judge Milian was talking to the plaintiff or me! I was in mid bite of my barbecue chip and stopped 😂 That hit my soul a little bit 🤣
2:54 - I LOVED the judge setting her straight. It's true. It has nothing to do with a big heart. She wanted to keep him, and she wasn't using her head.
Yeah I’m so sick of these bird brains saying they “have a big heart” NO! You like him and want something in return. There’s a big difference! If you have a big heart go volunteer or donate your time, energy, money to a good cause!
Oh man. Dating a man who has a women pregnant, running a business that clearly doesn't pay your bills, asking/begging for money the before there's a engagement ring to hold hostage. I could see if he looked like something. Smh
I wish more women would watch this! The Judge was spot on giving this young lady some needed advice! Don’t use money to keep a man! It never works out ! He leaves you with all of his debt!
SMH. Some women have absolutely no idea about what manhood looks like. My parents have been married for almost 54 years. NEVER has my mom done anything financially for my dad. MEN are not wired to let women take care of them financially. BOYS are wired that way!!!!
Exactly, my dad bought their home etc, later mom went to work for my dancing lessons and things like that. Even God said to men they will work for their wages, women will suffer in childbirth [due to sin]. whites, asians, hispanic men but blacks dint get the memo.
"Kindness of my heart..." NO! I love how JM came down on her for being stupid. I agree with the other comments, women need to grow a brain and stop doing stupid!
Wisdom was shared today: None so blind as she who will not see. It’s not the kindness of your heart, it’s the stupidity of your brain. Your brain is too small. 😯 Words that will forever change your life, if you choose to live by them.
Why get with a man who has a baby on the way? That’s too much for a new relationship. Not to mention he owned nothing.
Like the judge said, stupidity, all the red flags were there!!
Desperate
Desperate. My friend did that I was so damn disgusted.
She is a single mother .
@@kdh255 too desperate
It makes me cringe when I hear someone verbally itemize what they've done for you while in the relationship.
🎯 that part
This ✨
Right! He probably even felt cringey saying it at first since he didn't say it in the court room but said it after he was pissed that he lost, but now we see why his broke ass really didn't wanna give her the money smh.
Omg ME TOOOOO
“When I helped with the rent over there” umm at the place you were living?? What the hell..
The judge showed her true genuine love and words of wisdom. The words the judge used as if she was her daughter or sister. It was no hate at all, it was pure love from woman to woman💜💜💜
Yes!!!!
Facts this might have been the realist talk the judge ever spoke. Women having the wrong priorities when it comes to choosing men. Especially black women unfortunately
@@YoungHaveNot 💯💯💯Exactly
It hurt to watch, but I would have said the same to my girls.
@@phoenixwoye5537 Yes exactly we need more good examples like this💜💜💜
It's not the kindness of your heart, it's the stupidity of your brain 😭😭😭
I was like PREACH IT JUDGE!
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I Laughed So Hard😂😂😂😂
Wish i heard JM say that in my 20s 🎯💯💯💯💯 the delivery the message everything. Love how she handled this case
Good one!!
The defendant is the poster child of a “Sorry azz man.”
That fat chick picked him. She’s got problems to.
And the plaintiff is the poster child for DESPERATE
He never wanted you he wanted your pockets
Exactly. All the giving and sacrificing went one way.
Plain and simple
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@@Childfree334
Precisely sad
She let her have it and I'm here for it!
Truth hurts haha
JM really gave this young lady some real words of wisdom! And she gave a strong reality check! I love it.
@Cherish God yessss!!! It’s ok if they feel some type of way. Sometimes reality and the truth stings! I hope the bad feelings make them reevaluate themselves and their decisions. It sure helped me!!!
You're naive if you think she needed a reality check.... 9/10 shes the real problem.... and it started with the introduction.... th narration said he cheated on her and got another woman pregnant. Come to find out, she knew about the mother because he got the woman pregnant BEFORE he was with her. Lol.... its the little things that tell you about a person
@Cherish God absolutely 🤗
@Cherish God EXACTLY!!! You & OP are both so right. Sometimes you need to feel the sting of an outside perspective when you’ve been doing/handlings things wrong to really learn from it. Ignorance is bliss, ignoring all those red flags & her intuition got her burnt. I genuinely hope she took JM’s words to heart, I don’t think they came from a place of malice in the slightest.
& well as tough love
"Its not that your heart is too big, it's that your brain is too small". I LOVE IT. More women need to hear this!
Yeah that’ll help 🙄
The brain isn't too small, their self-esteem is.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😢😢 I’m crying for myself
'Girlfriend scorned, trying to be relevant'?
Not only does he not know what the word "relevant" mean, he's getting away with being a pathetic grown child because women keep allowing it. Ladies, men don't act like this... unless you let them.
At the end she was upset about a club, but not her money
Best advise I ever heard was, u only deserve what u allow
She was scorned though lol
This literally the type of guy women love having kids with for whatever reason
I get what you're trying to say, but this just absolves the offender. It takes responsibility off them and puts it on the person who was taken advantage of.
This man was going to behave like that regardless of who "let" him.
Don't give money out to a boyfriend.....EVER!!!!!🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️
courting gifts are fine but dont EVER make long term payments/decisions on a relationship that hasnt proven long term……thehy always say but they treat me so good i think this the one…. babe why would you treat the person youre trying to live with or get you to buy a car, poorly.
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Don't give $ to men period
Don’t give money out to a girlfriend…..ever! You’re completely right. Adults should pay for themselves.
@@wallacesteelersws sorry it’s not the same smh a lot of you men wanted to be treated like women so bad
If you are not married there should be no lending/cosigning anything for anyone. Real men should be buying their own cars and housing and not depending on a woman men like that deserves no respect.
This is women in the black community all day long. Taking care of grown men. This is why black men are at the bottom of the socio-economic ladder. Always depending on women.
Y'all stay talking about what a real man is and what a real man does but don't say nothing about the foolish women who take care of them. Real women don't rent cars for men who don't pay their car notes and let them move into their homes rent free. Women like that don't deserve respect either.
@@Childfree334 Ha! Bull shit! BW are the most in debt and the least married. And the most overweight. BM are doing just fine.
@@Roy_Dudson , sure they are. They make less & are incarcerated more, than men, of every other race. Their branching out more, with women of other races, has caused an explosion of single parenthood, in those communities.
@@Roy_Dudson black men are not doing fine if their women are not you sound ignorant
Knew he was guilty of whatever they said he did when he said “GreenDot card” 🤣🤣🤣
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No real bank debit card? SMH Those red flags were flying all over the place.
🤣 🤣
Yes!!! 😂
Ahahahaha 😂😂😂
He was showing off to his baby mama with what he got from her and most likely talking bad about her to his baby mama . No respect at all
You know it!!!!!
Woah 🤯 thank you judge Milian for speaking the truth. Most women are always making excuses or downplaying their stupidity when being played by men. Take accountability for the role you played in being played.
To whoever needs to hear this, you are worth more than your money. No one you have to shell out money for to keep is worth keeping.
‘You are worth more than your money’ .. love this
Well said Hatokirel
Men need to hear this especially. If u have to spend money on her to keep her, she not for u
Come on sis! This is what we are not doing in the Lord’s year of 2022. 🤦🏾♀️
Well this wasn’t 2022 but I dig your comment
These thirsty and desperate "pick me" women will ALWAYS be doing this. You can't fix stupid.
At all!
🤣🤣🤣
Lol
I just LOVE Judge Milian so much. She’s so sharp and witty and genuine. The love resonates!
And she has a huge ego, and yells too much😮
I’m glad she recognized her mistakes, HOPEFULLY she really learned from them🥴
Look everyone has trusted someone and paid for things they shouldn’t have. To call her stupid was wrong. When you are in love you tend to try and help sometimes you get burned
@@georgiapeach31027 now I agree with that calling her STUPID was unacceptable!
She didn’t recognize anything. She still wants dude. She is mad he dumped her
@@gtsound12 it could possible 🤷🏾♀️
@@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 I don’t think the judge was calling her stupid overall as a person, I think that she was saying her being in love with dude is what made her do stupid THINGS. Thats just my perspective, could totally be wrong though.
No truer words were spoken, "you were yesterday's news". Judge MM sees all!
Judge kept it real with the lady.
2:50 Much respect to the Judge! She kept it real and to the point! I hate it when people say the goodness of their heart! There is an alternative to your actions, you want something?
Yessssss I really appreciated her for that.
Exactly. And a lack of boundaries!
She was basically paying him to be with her.
Judge is a jealous control freak
Ulterior motive...
She wouldn’t have gotten a dime from Judge Judy. Judge Judy says she don’t reward stupidity.
So what about rights then?
Big Facts
That’s Probably Just For Show. Ppl Have Rights
@@The25Sister Exactly
Women can be stupid and or wrong in front of JM she's gonna make away for them regardless of the fact let be the other way around see how the verdict would have been
Why date someone with a child on the way and let him move in
D e s p e r a t e
She had a child of her own from another man so she probably thought it was only fair
Hell naw.
RIGHTTTT…. i dont want NOTHING to do witfh no man that’s not taking care of his child,, then you might say well it just didnt work with the girl… come on now he was just raw fuckin whoever let him take advantage and if im his NEXT choice, that’s a sign that i needa take a leave from the scene and work on myself
she had a child too so probably just wanted a male in the house
JM, was showing how much compassion she had, and how upset she was at the man. It's clear the dude was taking advantage of her kind weakness, and she allowed it for whatever reason. He's a hot mess, definitely needs to grow up mentally. Hopefully the Plaintiff learned a lesson
Lol "clear" huh?
Kindness should stop being viewed as a weakness, being naive is a weakness but Kindness is a superpower!
@@LisetteOlds it wasn't kindness.... it was actually selfishness.... she thought she could buy his love
Low self esteem is a pandemic.
@@globalcaregivertv8994 Facts mama! Such a silent killer these days.
The plaintiff is beautiful. She seems like a genuine and kind person. So sad she was put into this situation.
To say that "she was put into this situation" is really kind of disempowering isn't it? As of she has no ability to think and discern for her self? She made choices that placed her in this situation. Her empowerment, and every person's empowerment, starts with her understanding that she put herself there and she has the power to take herself out. The idea that we "are put into situations" outside of our control is a very dis-empowering way to look at life. It sort of make us helpless children, or victims of circumstances rather then empowered people. Being a dis-empowered person is not beautiful either... It's childish, and being childish is appropriate for a child, but not for a strong woman.
I might respond to your comment with this comment.
"The plaintiff is very kind hearted but naive person. It's sad that she did not make better decisions to protect herself a bad situation."
That statement shows more respect to the fact that the plaintiff is a strong woman and does not treat her like a helpless child.
Food for thought.
@@RobynSaintAmand that’s a thoughtful reply. I like it. It does sound better.
Don't take the onus off of her, she put herself into that situation.
She put herself in the situation. It’s sad that she confuses “having a big heart”with letting some man who has already proven that he takes advantage of women, take advantage of HER
American black women loves this kind of dude
The judge is spot on. A lot of women want to use their "big heart" justify poor decisions.
Wow he just used her as a pump n dump 😢 Please do better girl.. You deserve better!.
Only thing that could have made that situation worse was if he had impregnated the plaintiff! She was embarrassed on a tv show; however, she got her money back…plus dodged a huge (18-year old +) bullet by getting him out of her life for good!
His face at the end was like: wow foreal?… lol 😂
He wasn’t ready..
She is beautiful and well spoken and can do so much better and I hope after this she realizes it!!
I really like Judge M. On the side of being a judge, she should do uplifting videos for women. She gives the best advice and tough love to women.
Dude is a bum! He don’t even realize how foolish he sounds at the end. Whew Chile..
I love this Judge. If he doesn't even care about his own credit, why would this woman think he would pay her? Too many women pressed to say they with someone, no matter who that someone is.
Too many women think they can take a lowdown man and transform him into their ideal King by loving him and showering him with money and luxuries and stability--
It doesn't work if he doesn't have the initial mindset or training to do/be better. If there's no drive there to start, there won't be one magically started because you feed/clothe/shelter/have his babies, etc. That's just not how it works.
Men and Women in her(Plaintiff) position need to realize right away that people like him(Defendant) aren't worth keeping around if his bad finances play a big part in your relationship to the point where it leads up to this similar situation. The "D" isn't worth it if your paying for it's baggage just to keep it in your house. Buy a new one.
I have to give the Judge props on saying the things she said though, because a lot of the times when you speak words of truth like that, conservative ears consider it Taboo and believe it shouldn't be spoken of, because they feel like attacks.
she's a victim 😮?
Smfh she has got to do better. Make better decisions and don't ever do that again. He's a sick individual lying out of his arse.
Him saying I'm a "good guy" in the hallway almost killed me💀⚰
I co-signed for a Jeep with my former boyfriend. We had only been dating 9 months at the time....I think it worked out though. Been married to him for 6 years!
The plantiff is beautiful. I hope she knows she deserves so much better.
What in the world 🤦🏽♀️....epitome of scammer aka bum aka lousy excuse for a so called man..a waste...
What about the plaintiff? They're both lousy.
@@DavidKen878 you must be a dusty too
@@WesleyLindsey I'm dusty for holding women accountable for letting men who aren't shit treat them like shit?
@@DavidKen878 sir, what you did was deflecting. not accountability. go run that with someone else.
@@WesleyLindsey How was I deflecting? Deflecting is when you downplay one problem by pointing out another. I said they're both lousy. You just don't like the fact that I'm not only talking about the defendant like you are.
“None so blind as she who will not see”
Never heard that one before🤯🤯
Is a Spanish saying
@@Babybu_69 Wrong 1713, Thomas Chalkly in America wrote it, a form of what was written in the bible.
"It's not about how big your heart is, it's about how small your brain is"... love it😆 he's over here living ghetto fabulous 🙄
People only get away with what you allow them to do... 🤦🏽♂️
no, most men dont want that for themselves.
I love this chat how she speaks to women and advised him and guide them and sometimes be tough on them
"You don't have a big heart, you have a small brain" JM said what we're all thinking😂
It was the tingle in her cootchie not the kindness of her heart
Judge Milian was awesome in this case…
I don’t like everything she says, but, it’s like a parent, what she says comes from genuine wisdom. 💞👍
but how many parents do bw need? they have their mom usually, grandma, aunties.
I'll never understand why young people like this guy have babies before they're mature enough to get their own lives in order. The first step might be to stop lying through one's teeth whenever it's convenient. And the plaintiff might want to reconsider going on national TV to announce to the world that she's a doormat.
because they “cant feel anything with condoms” or “she said she used birth control”
thats why you just plain DONT have sex with someone you can afford to make “mistakes” with.
Keyword YOUNG
He's a dust bucket! Smh... This is why I'm SINGLE😄
Straight up. Stop sugar coating things and tell it like it is.
Judge Milian school these ladies!💯👏🏽💝
I wouldn't award her the full amount, she's partly responsible. She knew he was irresponsible.
He used the plaintiff for a roof over his head and financial reasons . Then when his child’s mother needed him and had the baby he came running back .
I was team plaintiff all the way but was kind of disappointed that she knew about the baby before he started living with her. In the introduction they made it sound as if she found out later on. Why was she with him if she knew he had something else going on? She especially then should not have become financially involved with him. It sounds like he is a pathological liar. Good that she received her money back. Hopefully she has learned a lesson.
Exactly.
How is he a liar when he told her about the baby situation upfront?
@@DJ-cd6gk He lied about running his own business and that he had money. He was broke. He also lied in court that he had bought his own truck when actually his father bought it for him. He further lied saying that the girl was driving the car for the second month. Finally when he left her he lied and said he was going to an out of town work job. Is that enough examples for you? I guess he also lied saying he would pay her back. I cannot remember if he did. I need to watch it again to check.
EDIT: Yes he did say he would pay her back and it came to the point where she has to bring him to court. So that is at least 5 lies. Ergo he is a pathological liar.
@@stephenbanks5952 A pathological liar is someone who tells compulsive lies that do not have a clear motive or benefit. By this definition, it does not fit him
@@DJ-cd6gk OK sorry, I didn't know that was the definition. Well can we just say that he tells a lot of lies then. Can we agree on that? I was more just disputing the fact in your comment earlier where you questioned whether he was a liar or not because he told the girl about the other woman having his baby. Agreed that he didn't lie about that but he did tell at least 5 other lies that we know about. Maybe we can call him a serial liar or something like that. :-)
The kindness of my heart. Noooooo the itch on the middle part..smh...some woman need to stop trying to keep a man by supporting him..if a man can't do for himself what can he do for you..NOTHING..
I wish all cases like this would be IMMEDIATELY dismissed. If women want to be stupid enough to try and buy or help a man, let them suffer the consequences. I wish a man would be bold enough to ask me for anything. He would get his feelings hurt 😔 like never before. No matter how good a man looks or how well he performs in the sack, I will NEVER part with a penny to help him. God gave men strength, power, and brains for a reason.
Right! She said he was making funny jokes about the rental car getting repossessed. In what world is someone getting a rental car that you're responsible for funny? She's very stupid.
Yes ma'am 👏 🙌 😌
ABSOLUTELY. I have never and would never give any man 2 dimes. They took me out on dates. I would pick up a pizza on the way to visit my fiance in college. Later we married and I'm living in the house he bought. Only a desperate woman gives men money.
Okay!!!
Y’all are really going in on dude, this is why if you are a women you should let the men in your family pick the guy for you we base it on character, nuthing else, if he had a baby on the way he had no time for a new girl and her kid. This is why she’s in the position she’s in. She should be in the gym anyway to get her self esteem up. Too many lazy don’t need no man ass women out here, serves her and y’all right for choosing to be independent.
His face after the verdict 😂
His energy SCREAMS Libra
She got proof of everything but her dignity, respect and self esteem. Stop trying to buy these men attention and affection.
At the end you can hear him say “what?!!” 😂😂😂
Plaintiff wore out the word "however"
2:53 - I ❤ when the judge says this! Some people may find it harsh, but it's true.
I'm so glad she had all those evidence to prove that he just didn't want to pay her.
I've never heard the judge read someone so hard.
Wait, wait, wait... my mans tells the defendant that he's got another woman pregnant; and the defendant still gets with him. And, surprise, he turns out to be a man of dubious character. What does that say about HER?
More than likely she didn't/doesn't care. Now she's complaining and suing
When the defendant walks into court with a smile on their face...it's gonna be interesting. The smiling defendant usually loses.
The judge gave her raw truth!! No filter. Dude was a scrub when she met him! Complete waste of her time. Hope she learned a hard lesson.
The judge speaks gold!
Black women, we need to stop being so desperate for a " man".
This Dusty was unemployed, had no place to live, bad credit , broke and a baby on the way and she expected him to do the right thing ???
I'll bet both of them didn't have a father in the home because this is the majority of people that didn't have a father in the home.
Whoooo Chile’ I don’t know if Judge Milian was talking to the plaintiff or me! I was in mid bite of my barbecue chip and stopped 😂 That hit my soul a little bit 🤣
I hope the message is still marinating … DO BETTER SIS💅🏽
😌 Ladies Don't Even Try And Front Like It Ain't A Generation After Generations Of Women Groomed To Control The Masculine Pocket.
Yay JM! Truth. “It’s not the size of your heart, it’s the stupidity of your brain”. ❤️Nailed it!!!
2:54 - I LOVED the judge setting her straight. It's true. It has nothing to do with a big heart. She wanted to keep him, and she wasn't using her head.
You KNEW he was behind on his first car payment then that gets repossessed (& it was funny remember) THEN you get him a rental?! Ma’am 🙃
Yeah I’m so sick of these bird brains saying they “have a big heart” NO! You like him and want something in return. There’s a big difference! If you have a big heart go volunteer or donate your time, energy, money to a good cause!
Dude's go to breakin it down in the bedroom and these women start losing their mind, SMH 💯
Young and dumb... no shade! Thankfully she will learn and do better
Women need to stop being providers for grown men!!!!!!!
Oh man. Dating a man who has a women pregnant, running a business that clearly doesn't pay your bills, asking/begging for money the before there's a engagement ring to hold hostage. I could see if he looked like something. Smh
I knew judge was going to give her that tough love
He’s a bum, THEY all are. Take that how you wanna 😂
Let’s be honest. You’re a bum too.
I wish more women would watch this! The Judge was spot on giving this young lady some needed advice! Don’t use money to keep a man! It never works out ! He leaves you with all of his debt!
We need to stop this behavior and get some standards as a collective group of women. The bar is definitely in Hell and it's set ablaze. LEVEL 🆙
If this behavior stops- the content stops
Why is there always multiple women in these cases. Girl your better off alone.
Ladies your self esteem is worth more than holding on these losers!!
Lets stop blaming our big hearts ladies😒😒
At 3:26...The judge straight threw her off her shiitt 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂 She sure did Lmao
I'm sure this judge's face is right next to the word condescending. She's perfect she never made any mistakes in her love life. Smh
A month!!! Dam the judge is right
SMH. Some women have absolutely no idea about what manhood looks like. My parents have been married for almost 54 years. NEVER has my mom done anything financially for my dad. MEN are not wired to let women take care of them financially. BOYS are wired that way!!!!
Exactly, my dad bought their home etc, later mom went to work for my dancing lessons and things like that. Even God said to men they will work for their wages, women will suffer in childbirth [due to sin]. whites, asians, hispanic men but blacks dint get the memo.
I love when the Judge tells it like it is!
He seems to have an answer for everything but no proof.
He's fine, though, and he has a beautiful smile. That's too damn bad.
These men disgust me...every time they are on court TV. I am raising my son to not be this way.
BRAVO JUDGE. SMALL BRAINS
It’s not the kindness of your heart ❤️
It’s the STUPIDITY of your BRAIN 😮💨💯
JUDGE COME THRU 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾‼️😍
"Kindness of my heart..." NO! I love how JM came down on her for being stupid. I agree with the other comments, women need to grow a brain and stop doing stupid!
Wisdom was shared today:
None so blind as she who will not see.
It’s not the kindness of your heart, it’s the stupidity of your brain.
Your brain is too small.
😯 Words that will forever change your life, if you choose to live by them.
Classic case... Women want the bad guy, not the good guy with a purpose.
Preach Judge!!!
His behavior is not cute at all. I commend her for having her proof 🙌 everybody plays the fool sometimes. Thank Goodness for living and learning.
I want ladies to listen to him speak. If you choose this, he is not the problem, it’s on y’all! Gosh he is a joke!
As a woman, I 💯 cosign on every word you said.
The bailiff at the end clearing his throat 😂😂😂😂😂
When are women gonna learn to STOP PLAYING HOUSE?
Never. That is why they will continue to get used and be baby mamas.
Some women would rather have a teaspoon of a man “at home”, than no man at all. 🤷🏾♀️
Well, a piece of paper is not going to guarantee he will not cheap
At least she doesn't have a kid with THAT!!!