The Prison of Narcissism - Eckhart Tolle

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  • @AfterSkool
    @AfterSkool  3 роки тому +838

    “The beginning of freedom is the realization that you are not “the thinker.” The moment you start watching the thinker, a higher level of consciousness becomes activated. You then begin to realize that there is a vast realm of intelligence beyond thought, that thought is only a tiny aspect of that intelligence. You also realize that all the things that truly matter - beauty, love, creativity, joy, inner peace - arise from beyond the mind. You begin to awaken.” - Eckhart Tolle. Probably my favorite quote of all time. If you enjoyed this video and want to help create more, please consider supporting After Skool on Patreon. Thank you! www.patreon.com/AfterSkool

    • @timo1573
      @timo1573 3 роки тому +4

      @Robbie Sullivan if you know it to be true, you'll realise he's perfectly right

    • @ScaryStoriesNYC
      @ScaryStoriesNYC 3 роки тому +15

      I'd tell you that this is my favorite of your videos so far, but I don't want to feed your ego and turn you into a Narcissist haha

    • @skynet4496
      @skynet4496 3 роки тому +1

      The mind is not the master, but the servant. (Of the body, the body is the master, which gave consciousness a purpose to exist)

    • @cantonese8085
      @cantonese8085 3 роки тому +5

      @Robbie Sullivan 😂you don’t have a rolls Royce by any chance do you?

    • @thomass3002
      @thomass3002 3 роки тому

      @@JaredG6 Probs to you man, it takes a lot to literally change your identity (for the better) and you seem to be on a good way.

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul 3 роки тому +2578

    “Sometimes when you’re in a dark place you might think you’ve been buried, but you’ve actually been planted. Get ready to bloom.”🌱

  • @elisteele574
    @elisteele574 3 роки тому +1123

    This channel has taught me more practical information in the last year than 12 years of general public education ever did.

    • @lebronjames7041
      @lebronjames7041 3 роки тому +19

      Yup

    • @AfterSkool
      @AfterSkool  3 роки тому +127

      “I searched for God and found only myself. I searched for myself and found only God.” - Rumi

    • @zrevan4262
      @zrevan4262 3 роки тому +8

      The distilled knowledge that is beautifully illustrated here is just a gift to ourselves, gift to the progress of humanity. Thank you!

    • @ordinarynonplayercharacter2142
      @ordinarynonplayercharacter2142 3 роки тому +37

      That’s because public schools goal is to create wage slaves not thinkers.

    • @elisteele574
      @elisteele574 3 роки тому +15

      @@JDirty-w-tha-30 my mom taught me to read. I do see your point, but it doesn't change my stance.

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 роки тому +1034

    *"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
    The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤

    • @LightworkingWanderer
      @LightworkingWanderer 3 роки тому +7

      I hope you have an amazing day,
      I just hit the lottery! Low odds...
      Yet here I am! 🧙‍♂️😁

    • @maxiepattie85
      @maxiepattie85 3 роки тому

      sure
      lazy
      make room make room
      go getter
      fuckn cyco!

    • @brittneybrisbin744
      @brittneybrisbin744 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you! I wish the same to you❤.

    • @robynelam1570
      @robynelam1570 3 роки тому +4

      Have an awesome day too!

    • @habebe1973
      @habebe1973 3 роки тому +2

      @Gabriela Radu You are on point there.

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 роки тому +496

    “When someone is rude, keep a smile on your face. When you keep your joy, you take away their power.” 🙏🏽

  • @Dacademeca
    @Dacademeca 3 роки тому +767

    "The Primary Cause Of Unhappiness Is Never The Situation But Your Thoughts About It."
    - Eckhart Tolle

    • @LightworkingWanderer
      @LightworkingWanderer 3 роки тому +2

      Spot on! Figure that out, it's all downhill from there. 🧙‍♂️😊

    • @minimaxhall
      @minimaxhall 3 роки тому +8

      Descartes; I think therefore I am.
      Confucius; I think therefore I am confused.

    • @LightworkingWanderer
      @LightworkingWanderer 3 роки тому +4

      @@minimaxhall 👳🏼‍♀️😁 Laughed when I read that, thank you, so true!

    • @moenibus
      @moenibus 3 роки тому +6

      Nothing new here. Seneca said it 2,000 years ago.

    • @devjyotbrahma9279
      @devjyotbrahma9279 3 роки тому +1

      Hey.

  • @Dacademeca
    @Dacademeca 3 роки тому +467

    "Realize Deeply That The Present Moment Is All You Ever Have."
    - Eckhart Tolle

    • @moenibus
      @moenibus 3 роки тому +2

      Stop quoting sentences which are NOT originally from this guy. Brown noser

    • @masspsycology2731
      @masspsycology2731 3 роки тому +8

      @@moenibus u could have just stated the original quote. Or just say its not from him.
      But not make him pay bec he difnt knew better.
      Its a hood quote no matter who said it.
      U should listen to e tolle 4 sure more

    • @jogriffiths5766
      @jogriffiths5766 3 роки тому

      Lovely thought!

    • @els4044
      @els4044 3 роки тому +1

      What about memories and having hope?

    • @gvlacic21
      @gvlacic21 2 роки тому

      Yeah the present is this like eastern thought trap, like it's all that exists. It's a trick. The past of course is information coded into our brains , and the future ... Well that's our dreams and intentions. All in the now right. Without an arrow of time. Say like entropy.... Then you do have something other than "it's always now" cheap parlour trick. Who's now is it. Mine or yours? And those dreams who's will come true. Now is about being present, it doesn't mean tmr doesn't exist in our minds.

  • @waltersstreet
    @waltersstreet 3 роки тому +58

    "You are not a drop in the ocean; you are the entire ocean in a drop." - Rumi

  • @realist4537
    @realist4537 3 роки тому +160

    We are the universe, experiencing itself.

    • @moony77
      @moony77 3 роки тому

      💗

    • @onsightitify
      @onsightitify 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly. - God

    • @lukaLondaridze
      @lukaLondaridze 3 роки тому +4

      True... I’m just not 100% sure why. Is it because of boredom? Because if not this experience, there would be nothing?

    • @realist4537
      @realist4537 3 роки тому +2

      @@lukaLondaridze being the creator, you create your own reality.

    • @mikewalker7385
      @mikewalker7385 3 роки тому +1

      @@onsightitify using the Christian analogy the universe is the Christ. The firstborn through which all things are created. We are all part of the body of Christ. That even suggest that there is something outside of the universe which is God.

  • @Plumjuicee
    @Plumjuicee 3 роки тому +181

    Honestly, I want to personally thank you and everyone who participated in the making of this channel. Ever since I began watching your videos my worldview has been flipped upsidedown in the best possible way. I am normally so anxious and frustrated and foggy-minded but when I watch your videos it is like things become a little clearer. Nothing would make me happier than to learn more from you (and about myself). Please continue to make videos.

    • @AfterSkool
      @AfterSkool  3 роки тому +33

      Awwww this comment truly just made my day. I'm so glad the videos help in some way. Thank you for your words of encouragement!

    • @vickiefalcon1
      @vickiefalcon1 2 роки тому

      Welcome to the awakening! ❤

    • @DoveRising-cb5sj
      @DoveRising-cb5sj Рік тому +2

      Yes!! Agreed!! Just in two videos I feel lighter & hopeful of all the possibilities yet to be discovered!! 💗

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul 3 роки тому +204

    “How starved you must have been that my heart became a meal for your ego.” 😬✌🏽

    • @user-ng3bg7qw2d
      @user-ng3bg7qw2d 3 роки тому +10

      I can only apologize for my own imperfections and try again with each new day I am given. Blessings one and all.

    • @CZAR-
      @CZAR- 3 роки тому +1

      Damnnn kat!!!
      Don't stop, keep going!!!

    • @user-ng3bg7qw2d
      @user-ng3bg7qw2d 3 роки тому

      @James Ward Don't you?

    • @1endlesssoul
      @1endlesssoul 3 роки тому +2

      @James Ward lmao I could see that being on one🤣

    • @verenicegarcia9478
      @verenicegarcia9478 3 роки тому

      totally irrelevant, but you're a CUTIE!

  • @DrinkinMars
    @DrinkinMars 3 роки тому +19

    At 3:20 this explains how a mid-life crisis occurs. Most working adults had to try to keep food on the table and a roof over thier families head. Once everyone is taken care of and survival is not an issue, the contemplation about what is life, begins.

  • @pvtbx4198
    @pvtbx4198 3 роки тому +25

    I clicked on this video thinking it was about narcissistic individuals but it actually ended up blowing my mind

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub 3 роки тому +86

    The Buddha sometimes described young people who frequently watched their reflections in ponds and rivers as "intoxicated with youth"

    • @egongefferie9194
      @egongefferie9194 3 роки тому

      Narcissus does it not Buddha ,, watch it again .

    • @TheDhammaHub
      @TheDhammaHub 3 роки тому +5

      @@egongefferie9194 The Buddha did it too, that why I wrote the comment ;D

    • @srso4660
      @srso4660 3 роки тому +1

      @@egongefferie9194 I think you need to read the comment again 😂

    • @onsightitify
      @onsightitify 3 роки тому +1

      "Youth is wasted on the young." - George Bernard Shaw

  • @jesseknox9322
    @jesseknox9322 3 роки тому +53

    Did anyone else feel the utmost sense of peace gush like a fountain within your very soul? Thank you for this video it brought me serenity.

  • @maillardsbearcat
    @maillardsbearcat 3 роки тому +24

    What a cute and accurate caricature of Eckart Tolle

  • @meta.aesthetica
    @meta.aesthetica 3 роки тому +25

    'A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose' literally changed my life, trying to condense it into a 13 minute speech just doesn't do it justice. Even if you didn't enjoy or understand this video, I highly recommend reading or listening to that book. All of the concepts mentioned here and more are explored deeply and at a much more relaxed pace, making it easy to look at your experience of life in a totally different way. after listening to it I ended up buying 5 copies of the book to give to my friends and family lol! I can't even start to explain how impactful Tolle has and will continue to be for our planet.

  • @singularmusing970
    @singularmusing970 3 роки тому +141

    I recently experienced a “ego death” on shrooms. The first two days were brutal but so far it’s been worth it. I died so this version of me can live. It’s been a amazing journey so far.

    • @skynet4496
      @skynet4496 3 роки тому +10

      Keep on remembering to question who you are, it's a process

    • @emilpedersen4425
      @emilpedersen4425 3 роки тому +2

      Did u experienced a death & rebirth??

    • @singularmusing970
      @singularmusing970 3 роки тому +4

      @@emilpedersen4425 it was more of a rebirth.

    • @singularmusing970
      @singularmusing970 3 роки тому +1

      @@skynet4496 thank you for the tip.

    • @emilpedersen4425
      @emilpedersen4425 3 роки тому +3

      ​@@singularmusing970 very nice :) have same experience on 5g schrooms.

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh 3 роки тому +76

    Authenticity is the way to see beyond the duality of the self 🙏

    • @securedparty4303
      @securedparty4303 3 роки тому +2

      How do you determine authenticity from ego?

    • @MultiHeywatsup
      @MultiHeywatsup 3 роки тому +6

      wat is authenticity if not another manifestation of the ego

    • @georgomuller
      @georgomuller 3 роки тому +4

      @@securedparty4303 You don't have to. Authenticity comes spontaneously, you don't have to think about it. What actually usually happens is that the ego represses authenticity by overthinking. A good way around it is to use the 3 second rule. When you want to do something, do it right way, otherwise the mind after about 3 seconds will start questioning it in so many ways that you'll probably give up doing it.
      It's worth noting that both authenticity and subconscious impulses can come spontaneously. The difference is that one comes from your innermost wishes and desires and the other from your compulsions. Watch "how to reprogram your mind", by Dr. Bruce Lipton here on this same channel to learn more about that matter. But anyway I wouldn't recommend trying to figure out if every spontaneity is an authenticity or a compulsion, it's better to use the 3 second rule anyway, especially for shy and reserved people. You'll learn to recognize which is which by practice.
      Peace 🙏

    • @jez5192
      @jez5192 3 роки тому +1

      You should see beyond the triality of the self.

    • @LivingNow678
      @LivingNow678 3 роки тому

      TESTBAND by Freddie mcCoy dit Ahmed Sofi

  • @joshuacoontz4384
    @joshuacoontz4384 3 роки тому +92

    About 20 years ago I dropped like 4-5 hits of acid and shed my ego. It was both beautiful and terrifying at once . I realized that I truly am my own worst enemy . It comes back slowly but that's because you do actually need your ego. But be careful not to feed the ego. Just make sure that you're aware of your own ego.

    • @UlasMT
      @UlasMT 3 роки тому

      Whatyadropwhere? 😅😂

    • @lasse_bortfeldt
      @lasse_bortfeldt 3 роки тому

      Well said

    • @marilynguinnane4663
      @marilynguinnane4663 3 роки тому +2

      joshua coontz -- All psychedelics need to be legal, incl. LSD. We are so far from 'free' it's actually pathetic.

    • @stefrequency
      @stefrequency 3 роки тому +1

      Once you realise that you are not your own worst enemy the next step is the realisation that you are actually your own best friend, acceptance is key, then you are free, you are no longer Ill as ego is no longer the driving force in your life, however, it remains dormant, ready to rare its ugly head once again, its up to the aware self to indentify with the thoughts that make us slip into the void and go nope not this time buddy, your ego is slayed.
      Why is this stuff not legal and thereafter promoted?
      A, I think its because the Ego is in control, well, it thinks its in control but it will never truly be able to claim itself, resistence is always there.
      We are truly witnessing heaven and hell on earth, its not a place you go to, its a place you are already living, its up to you not me 👌

    • @marilynguinnane4663
      @marilynguinnane4663 3 роки тому +1

      @@stefrequency -- Well, I don't know about all the psycho-babble stuff. I've found the answer to everything and it's as simple as Play Dough. I followed the recommendation in A Course in Miracles and turned my entire life over to my superconsciousness. Higher self. Whatever name you want to give it. "I don't know what's good for me; you do," I said to it. "I'm turning all decisions over to you!" And so I have. I'm guided now and am almost always happy.

  • @dalaov5258
    @dalaov5258 3 роки тому +123

    Notice how the world is increasingly narcisstic and mask greed with attractive words like ambition, achievement, success, motivation, etc.? The hedonistic wheel keeps going faster and faster as we're programmed to believe we are not enough.

    • @ghenghiskhan6703
      @ghenghiskhan6703 3 роки тому +6

      Marketing by big corp.

    • @koifish777
      @koifish777 3 роки тому +8

      not necessarily true because ambition and success don’t have to be rooted in narcissism

    • @jackwilson5542
      @jackwilson5542 3 роки тому +5

      If you want to see large scale narcissism, look no further than Instagram.

    • @manny3031
      @manny3031 9 місяців тому

      Samsara

    • @realAnonymous001
      @realAnonymous001 4 місяці тому

      ​​@@koifish777 You know, you might just be a useful mind to have around and keep in possession of. You know…

  • @jamespn
    @jamespn 3 роки тому +76

    I think it’s fruitless to assess your self worth by the material things you’ve acquired. You don’t own things, the things own you.

    • @jez5192
      @jez5192 3 роки тому +1

      This is why I treat my possessions as disposable. I throw them away after a little while and buy new ones.

    • @israellondah5886
      @israellondah5886 3 роки тому +1

      @@jez5192 i would do the same but my bank account says otherwise

    • @chrismeredith3626
      @chrismeredith3626 3 роки тому +2

      And very often; these "things/possessions" are never literally owned (fully paid for) anyhow (a little besides the point, but still)

    • @masspsycology2731
      @masspsycology2731 3 роки тому

      @@jez5192 bec u are silly. Its stupid way of handling objects u will threat same way people
      Appriciation is the way

    • @syncro9946
      @syncro9946 3 роки тому +1

      If who u are is what u have and what u have is gone then who are u?

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 роки тому +18

    Ignore the negativity and the doubts people have on you. *Keep moving forward.*
    *I am cheering for your success.* ✋

    • @jez5192
      @jez5192 3 роки тому

      Please cheer louder, I can't hear you.

  • @lukaLondaridze
    @lukaLondaridze 3 роки тому +32

    We are all one. Ego is just a “subjective” awareness that every person has.

    • @LivingNow678
      @LivingNow678 3 роки тому

      I Have a Right by Freddie mcCoy dit Ahmed Sofi

    • @Redshift666
      @Redshift666 2 роки тому

      We are one and many. Dictated by Mathematics, Zero. 0+0+0+0+0+0=0

  • @bah667
    @bah667 2 роки тому +6

    This is so great.
    A perfect explanation on the human condition, which is getting harder to be authentic in a modern world.
    Narcissism is so destructive on the hosts life.
    So sad so many create their own pain and suffering due to the fact they can not be their true selves.
    I'd rather expose me as who I truly am than live a cowardly sick life

  • @loomonda18
    @loomonda18 3 роки тому +14

    Honestly, one of the best pieces of advice I have ever stumbled upon is to kill your ego. & Growing up truly means to be authentically who you are, down to the core...and you can't do this with an ego. Still very much learning this lesson everyday myself.

  • @Rainbowhippow
    @Rainbowhippow 3 роки тому +3

    Be patient, my friend. The moment is so so very enlightening, peaceful, and complete. Stay, my friend, here with us all.

  • @jessicaflo5126
    @jessicaflo5126 3 роки тому +28

    Literally exactly what I was looking for.... doing the shadow work to fully accept myself

  • @frankieoceansxiv8192
    @frankieoceansxiv8192 3 роки тому +102

    Your ego is how you feel about yourself, you can think that you are worthless and still have a ego.

    • @ericcastillo6011
      @ericcastillo6011 3 роки тому +5

      Ego as stated , is a mind made sense of self . It’s not real

    • @GamingDualities
      @GamingDualities 3 роки тому

      @@ericcastillo6011 but it is. that is like saying you are not real. but you are.e go is not necessarily a bad thing

    • @ericcastillo6011
      @ericcastillo6011 3 роки тому +5

      @@GamingDualities a construct of the mind and a physical person are not the same thing. My ego although real in thought , is a byproduct of the mind and being .

    • @GamingDualities
      @GamingDualities 3 роки тому

      @@ericcastillo6011 physical body, mind and soul

    • @chiung8931
      @chiung8931 3 роки тому

      @@ericcastillo6011 even tho ego is a mind made sense of self, our mind and body are still connected. We project physically what we believe we are (ego or self). It manifest itself in our conduct.

  • @kingwinter2024
    @kingwinter2024 3 роки тому +40

    "The kingdom of heaven is within you." Wow.

    • @Fuetre
      @Fuetre 3 роки тому +2

      I’m not religious but that entire minute thirty had me in awe and hit so hard in the chest.

    • @onsightitify
      @onsightitify 3 роки тому +2

      "The Kingdom of God is Within You", by Leo Tolstoy (a difficult but great read)

    • @monkieassasin
      @monkieassasin 3 роки тому +2

      Logos.
      We are God expressing and experiencing Himself from eternity to eternity. We are all One. Following the divine law, “love your neighbor as yourself” logically flows from that, because by loving another you are loving that which you are.
      John 1:1 “In the beginning was the Logos, and the Logos was with God and was God.”
      Col. 1:15 “Christ is the image of the invisible God.”
      Col. 3:11 “Christ is all and is in all.”

  • @ashleymcclintock8128
    @ashleymcclintock8128 3 роки тому +10

    Love the ripple analogy....(& of course Russell's laughter & breathing techniques throughout ) !!

  • @spiralsun1
    @spiralsun1 8 місяців тому +5

    The ego is FAKE superiority. Thats super important. I think it’s more that you judge others and yourself and fall into false patterns of thinking-I always say that you should not make others into you, nor you into others. That’s ego in a nutshell. Posessions can define you authentically too-it’s the inauthentic that’s harmful because it gets in the way of the real you. Your real worth and soul. Anyway this was stimulating and I loved this so much! We just need to be clear. The definition of “superior” completely changes when you get beyond ego. It doesn’t cease to exist. Some people are better at some things than others, for example. Are you superior for you, or for others? That’s a very important question to figure out. Also, why is a bee hive so amazingly beautiful and intelligent? 🤷‍♀️👍🏻👁️❤️‍🔥

  • @kerrywayne2010
    @kerrywayne2010 3 роки тому +43

    I've been thinking about this a lot lately.

    • @kalebpascoe1939
      @kalebpascoe1939 3 роки тому +2

      Same here

    • @cma3436
      @cma3436 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @Gravvvyyy
      @Gravvvyyy 3 роки тому +2

      Same....been really getting to me. Like there is something about to pop off And I should be aware of it, but I have no idea where to look

    • @LightworkingWanderer
      @LightworkingWanderer 3 роки тому +2

      Keep on searching my friend! 🧙‍♂️💯

    • @jacobevans3821
      @jacobevans3821 3 роки тому

      Who has? 😉

  • @ti2218
    @ti2218 3 роки тому +34

    You know it's a good day when After Skool uploads

    • @LightworkingWanderer
      @LightworkingWanderer 3 роки тому +1

      We are one, sharing thoughts 🙇🏼‍♂️😁🧙‍♂️

    • @ti2218
      @ti2218 3 роки тому

      @@LightworkingWanderer much love friend! Have a nice rest of your day!

  • @maeb100
    @maeb100 3 роки тому +18

    Just watched this in the right time

  • @DaniiBodega
    @DaniiBodega 3 роки тому +1

    People tend to identify with the good aspects of themselves while separating one's self from the shadow side. Excepting and integrating the shadow heals the ego, allowing your authentic self to rise above.

  • @crissycrisss1893
    @crissycrisss1893 3 роки тому +16

    The message of this brought me to tears at the very end 😭 well done ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dirkharvey
    @dirkharvey 3 роки тому +17

    Wow, what a brilliant man. I can attest and relate to all of this so well. I've been recovering from a TBI, & I've really had to practice all of this, to let go of the 'self' so I can heal, and be present to work towards a new life. Trauma is so strange, and much of it is attached to the idea of the self, but some of it gets trapped in the body. They say the brain stores memory, the body stores emotion. While you can disconnect from both in meditation, it is important to make both those parts as healthy and strong as possible because they effect your experience of life in a body no matter how 'mindful' or zen you are. I've done cognitive therapy, vision therapy, mental therapy, etc, and while it's all been important, nothing has helped and taught me like my journey of meditation and yoga has. Enjoy

    • @petite64
      @petite64 3 роки тому +2

      Glad to hear you're improving as TBIs are no joke. Trauma definitely manifests physically and I can attest to that from the PTSD that was hanging around from my time with cancer. Yoga and meditation helped me work through when I couldn't see a psychologist. Good luck and take care with your recovery as you're doing fantastic :)

    • @dirkharvey
      @dirkharvey 3 роки тому

      @@petite64 it's amazed me how much, PTSD/TBI's are above the majority of the medical field's understanding and on the flip side, how quick some claim to have all the answers. It's a mysterious thing that I am learning only I can best understand through bits and pieces I learn from others and through research. It's the most challenging thing I've been faced with. That's amazing to hear, while it's all been helpful, yoga and meditation have helped me in ways too that nothing else can. Finding yoga, & connecting with that community, has been the blessing out of all of this.

    • @jacquelinedonath4605
      @jacquelinedonath4605 3 роки тому +1

      I wish My son could hear your words, he went through a horrible trauma and Stell suffers after 12 years.

  • @broskyification
    @broskyification 3 роки тому +33

    The guy sighing in the back ground is me realizing I’m trapped by my ego in an endless miserable cycle

  • @antoniodominguez3839
    @antoniodominguez3839 3 роки тому +8

    Beautiful!!! The ego is a mechanism that serves a purpose, and that is, a 3 D conciusness that allows you to interact, to engage, to function in the material world. Otherwise , you'd be there standing around, staring at everything like a ghost, which is not bad, but one needs the ego to engage in life.

    • @tinawoodger9076
      @tinawoodger9076 3 роки тому +2

      Just had this realisation myself the other day as I was trying to understand exactly the purpose of the ego and the answer came to me while relaxing and letting my mind flow. You put it very well. :)

  • @clover831
    @clover831 3 роки тому +172

    This is like 98% of the people on social media. "Look at me, I travel the world, look at my expensive material possessions, and glamorous lifestyle that you all don't have, ect."😆 It's the shallow and child like mentality of the kid with the most toys "wins". Although, a lot of them like to put up a facade, and like to portray themselves in such a way that they have it all to just impress people.😉

    • @flowersinmyhair55
      @flowersinmyhair55 3 роки тому +13

      I used to be one of those people. My parents basically gave me everything growing up to make up for all the abuse. So I equated material things with love and happiness. And so as I grew up, I still had that engrained into my mind and lived that type of life. Until it hit me one day and I’ve been on a better path of self healing and reprogramming myself. To me, identifying ones happiness with material objects just shows that there’s a real void that can’t seem to be filled and I can’t help but have empathy for those people.

    • @mga1978able
      @mga1978able 3 роки тому +8

      @@flowersinmyhair55 Same. 43 yrs old and still battling my ego. I have come a long way. Having picked up constructive hobbies has made a big difference. My son will know a better a life.

    • @mga1978able
      @mga1978able 3 роки тому +3

      @Regenal Sir Don't insult animals like that.

    • @morganesalomon7080
      @morganesalomon7080 3 роки тому +6

      Perhaps some of them are only sharing their activities with others, as we are social animals, I find it normal to use social media to express ourselves, say what is on our minds, this can be expressed through photographs... and yes sometimes you want to show a personality, but it's more like a dialogue for me, it's not a way to say "I'm better than the others". Is it bad anyway if you want to create yourself ? It's not necessarily about superiority... I like to see everyone creating themselves. I like to see people creating beauty, expressing beauty. Just my opinion, I would be glad to know your opinion on this ! :)

    • @fungilover9698
      @fungilover9698 3 роки тому +4

      My friend has a "perfect" insta life to all her 25k followers. Her real life is a massive shit show. No one knows. She pushes this illusion. Most of them do. So you're comparing yourself to lies.

  • @ericvutran4140
    @ericvutran4140 3 роки тому +15

    I love Eckhart Tolle, and this person is an amazing artist!

  • @M.O.0
    @M.O.0 3 роки тому +8

    So the saying, "It's all in your head" is quite accurate.

    • @deanmurphy761
      @deanmurphy761 3 роки тому

      Do you believe consciousness is in your head? That's all there is. :)

  • @PandaOnSkis
    @PandaOnSkis 3 роки тому +6

    When I was in 6th grade, I had an english assignment to write the thoughts of a character in a book. I was perplexed because the thoughts in my head weren't words. When I put myself in the characters position, I felt and I planned actions, not a word in my mind. The teacher and my parents gave me a hard time and that is when the negitivive narrative in my head started. Wasn't until I was about 24 that I realized I am not my thoughts and I am not my emotions. I had narcissism but instead of a positive image of myself I saw only flaws. I wish there was a word for that.

  • @djmoocahking
    @djmoocahking 3 роки тому +4

    “Because ultimately, it’s only a mental image you mistake for who you are.”

  • @og_lori
    @og_lori 3 роки тому +1

    i cant believe how powerfull and awakening this video is. just thank u

  • @redpat8832
    @redpat8832 3 роки тому +5

    Read all of his books and sometimes watch his channel. You cannot help but drop into “that state” when you listen to him. 🕉

  • @thedyinglight8041
    @thedyinglight8041 2 роки тому +11

    Maybe I’m just getting softer as I approach my 40s, but these videos always manage to bring a tear or two and touch a bittersweet place in my soul that reminds me of who and what I really am.

  • @Hyumanity
    @Hyumanity 3 роки тому +4

    "The cosmos is within. We are made of starstuff. We are a way for the universe to know itself." Carl Sagan

  • @heidiwholeandwell5914
    @heidiwholeandwell5914 3 роки тому

    That sigh in the middle of the video is the best... "The beginning of a Spiritual Awakening is being able to recognize a thought... It is a stepping back." A bit paraphrased. Wow profound words.

  • @Ozymandias_1818
    @Ozymandias_1818 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this video. I had been depressed and angry for a while. To the point where I was starting fights with people that would even look at me on the street or cut me off driving. So I decided to practice the dissolving of my ego. It’s difficult because I still have those ego thoughts and I have to consciously stop those thoughts. I have found since my happiness and empathy has increased significantly. I have quit nearly all social media and are trying to focus on bettering myself through helping others. I just wanted to say it has really helped me a lot. I feel so much more at peace and connected to the universe now. I still have selfish thoughts but they slowly decreasing each week and I am getting better at understanding them and controlling them. I highly recommend anyone practice it in their daily lives.

    • @AfterSkool
      @AfterSkool  3 роки тому

      This comment is beautiful. Thank you 🙏

    • @LivingNow678
      @LivingNow678 3 роки тому

      Message Service by Freddie mcCoy dit Ahmed Sofi

    • @deadohiosky1701
      @deadohiosky1701 3 роки тому

      I've been doing similar work, but if I could make a suggestion: Don't think in terms of controlling your thoughts. As Eckhart might say, see them, recognize them for what they are, then let go of them. Give no resistance, but accept them and surrender to whatever the present moment has to offer. Trying to stop or control your thoughts is only waging war with your ego, and ironically the ego feeds off that energy. You may later find that you suppressed your ego rather than dissolved it, and it comes back around with a vengeance. When you accept what comes to you, recognize your thoughts but do not allow them to form your identity, then you can be truly free. I strongly recommend Eckhart's book The Power of Now, particularly the audiobook version which is read by him.

  • @montetredway4129
    @montetredway4129 Рік тому +1

    This interview excerpt changed my life. I listen to it a couple of times a year. Just really amazing!

  • @jmsjms296
    @jmsjms296 3 роки тому +10

    "My ego ain't my amigo any more". Terry Allen

  • @xmifi
    @xmifi 3 роки тому +2

    Such an important topic and it's not discused in schol. I would almost argue that this topic is more important than any other.

    • @bobjilesen8450
      @bobjilesen8450 3 роки тому

      Of course this toppic is not discused at school. School is ment to brainwash us all and keep us stupid. Feeding the ego and work like a slave.

  • @RynesTKD
    @RynesTKD 3 роки тому +7

    This is amazing. I stepped out of my ego consciously for the first time after watching this video not too long ago. I keep rewatching it. Thank you for this content. I really appreciate it.

  • @elenaj7178
    @elenaj7178 3 роки тому +2

    This is absolutely beautiful. Brings me peace and freedom. Thank you for spreading this wonderful teaching.

  • @llowe9949
    @llowe9949 3 роки тому +3

    Thinking vs being conscious and aware... this struck me very strongly.

  • @jemaihamza7939
    @jemaihamza7939 2 роки тому +1

    Islam changed my life!
    I now have more clarity, confidence, control over my emotions and actions, and an overall surplus of energy JUST by doing what Allah has told us to do, and by staying away from what He told us to stay away from.
    Alhamdulillah for being Muslim, and Alhamdulillah for Islam. Barakullah dear brothers and sisters. Assalumu alaykum.Read, study, and learn The Noble Quran.

  • @MonikaSwe
    @MonikaSwe 3 роки тому +8

    I am not what happend to me, i am what i choose to become - Carl ljung

  • @RoryZ23
    @RoryZ23 7 місяців тому +1

    Wake up to your own duality and you will remove this duality and discover peace. Love and compassion to all of you ❤

  • @infinow
    @infinow 3 роки тому +3

    It is not about what happens to you but how you interpret and respond to it.

  • @someordinarydude9147
    @someordinarydude9147 2 місяці тому

    In middle school I had a history professor who talked about how people rarely saw a clear image of themselves their whole lives up until a certain point in history. I thought that was a fascinating concept that I couldn’t even wrap my head around.

  • @leeupton6015
    @leeupton6015 3 роки тому +9

    HUGE fan of Eckhart Tolle and his teachings. Another fantastic video with some really lovely drawings to compliment the beautiful words. Keep up the good work (and I assume plenty of time and effort). Peace.

  • @alexmottley8890
    @alexmottley8890 3 роки тому

    Thankyou! Please, everyone who takes something away from this, give back so that we all may continue to learn. Information, real factual information is becoming harder to access in todays world.

  • @ACloudWithoutAir
    @ACloudWithoutAir 3 роки тому +15

    "I am who I am.
    Be still and know that I am God."

  • @mohamedelfatih9826
    @mohamedelfatih9826 Рік тому

    Rumi through his contemplation has brought up a genuine inquiry into spiritual path

  • @vikewave
    @vikewave 3 роки тому +6

    You are not the drop in the ocean;
    You are the entire ocean in a drop!

  • @andresweinman9995
    @andresweinman9995 3 роки тому +1

    Always i hear YOU ECKHARDT i feel sober thanks 😍

  • @JDGTubed
    @JDGTubed 3 роки тому +33

    This should be a subject focussed on in school since it is now a requirement of life to use computers and phones. People are literally losing their minds and we need to get back to basic while still embracing tech.

    • @babygorl9541
      @babygorl9541 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely agree. Our educational systems need A HUGE AWAKENING.

    • @mga1978able
      @mga1978able 3 роки тому

      @@babygorl9541 smaller classes with a focus on science mathematics, literature, and nature.

    • @colorfullyme
      @colorfullyme 3 роки тому

      I agree! I still struggle with internet addiction, but the internet is also where I found so many resources that have helped with my mental health and spiritual journey. I think and hope society will adjust to this new technology soon enough...

    • @karpul8880
      @karpul8880 3 роки тому

      Of course its not taught. That would make us more difficult to control.

  • @willoanz
    @willoanz 2 роки тому +1

    That's a good one ; the beginning of wisdom and the first step to freedom. I love the drawings ; very colourful and telling. Thank you for taking the pain to publish it. Namaste.

  • @lljusttry
    @lljusttry 3 роки тому +4

    We all love Eckhart!

  • @ENOC772
    @ENOC772 3 роки тому +2

    The Ego "seeks" superiority, the "self" authenticity

  • @Menke20
    @Menke20 3 роки тому +3

    I always enjoy listening to Eckhart, love this video

  • @chefluna305
    @chefluna305 3 роки тому +1

    Wow you're Amazing don't ever stop we need more of this in our World 🌎🌱✨.
    You will enlighten many young souls to change the world.

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 роки тому +35

    *“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”*
    ―Dale Carnegie
    Have a Nice Day! 🖤

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat 3 роки тому

      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      "Before I start, I must see my end.
      Destination known, my mind's journey now begins.
      Upon my Chariot, heart & soul's fate revealed;
      In Time, all points converge--hope's strength resteeled.
      But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain,
      We must see all in nothingness...
      ...before we start again."
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      --Diamond Dragons (book 1)

  • @greatestever8169
    @greatestever8169 3 роки тому +1

    This was me before I learned to remember what I once forgotten. Or say it in a different way but I still understand the laws and the power behind them!

  • @barbarasherman4870
    @barbarasherman4870 3 роки тому +9

    This message needs to be in every grade 5 class. Kids are growing up to be self obsessed with the idiotic identity politics they're getting now

  • @tk13edm
    @tk13edm 3 роки тому

    This channel is the best thing I've come across in all my years on UA-cam. Thank you.

  • @Matt-sl9or
    @Matt-sl9or 3 роки тому +14

    You are not the thoughts that go through your mind. That's deep.

    • @esther7142
      @esther7142 3 роки тому

      Try listening to his book... The power of now..

  • @ayman2121
    @ayman2121 2 роки тому

    May God bless you Eckhart Tolle

  • @GamingDualities
    @GamingDualities 3 роки тому +5

    Ego is not necessarily a bad thing. it allows u to stand behind the things u really believe in. it is all about finding the balance. being too egoistical can make u ignorant, but not having ego can let others just drive over you.

    • @larykenobi
      @larykenobi 3 роки тому +1

      Thank dude, I felt lonely here. Your ego somehow affects the "reality" around you. You may try to do positives things out of it.

    • @jasperjuxton8340
      @jasperjuxton8340 3 роки тому

      Everyone has limitless potential. Everyone is priceless. The ego only sees this in himself. To let go, remember everyone has the same value, they just might not have recognised it. Treat everyone as you would like to be treated, however if you are mistreated or taken advantage of, remember your ego. It exists for a reason, and that is to keep you alive. Malevolence lurks, but without it, benevolence would not.

  • @Gautier6
    @Gautier6 3 роки тому +1

    This is marvelous, thank you for everything you do here. May peace and love shine through you for ever 🤍

  • @cummiemusic
    @cummiemusic 3 роки тому +5

    i love the animation of him so much 😭😭😭

  • @laszloiso777
    @laszloiso777 3 роки тому +1

    I picked up 4 big bags of trash yesterday... ... I feel so much better :D The ego can serve us all very well... unless we become the servants of our own ego!

  • @habibi5167
    @habibi5167 2 роки тому +17

    I had an horrible egodeath experience on Acid when I was so dump to smoke weed on the peak. It was shocking but somehow I needed to get it - because I was very depressed at that time and thought a lot about suicide. A lot of really weird shit happenend on it but in the end I‘ve got the message.
    I was with my 3 friends and suddenly it kicked in and I traveled through the universe in light speed. I came to a place where my „real friends“ (some alienlike persons but with the same character as my friends on earth) were talking to me that „I‘ve now finally understood what life really is. Finally! Also him woke up.“ They looked at me as if I‘ve been the only fool that didn’t get it the whole time:
    That everything down here is just a funny little game but „real life“ is somewhere outside of that. And therefore you can create everything here and everything you can imagine is possible here.
    After that I couldn’t control myself anymore and every 5min I was falling unconscious to travel through the space again. And it didn’t feel good.
    Later on when they brought me to bed I felt like I’m now trapped in a time loop because nothing changed anymore for hours that felt like days. I was feeling a lot of pain from all that struggle and the believe that this loop might go for ever on and I‘ve really fucked up. The pain was increasing from loop to loop and finally I got the message that the only way to get rid of *the pain* is to „let it go“. I was fighting with that idea because letting „it“ go meant the rest of life that was still in me. Finally after hours of pain I did it because there was no other way out of it. So i let it go and I felt like „Ok that’s it. I‘m dead. Doesn’t feel that bad, but it’s also sad that I didn’t lived my more on earth. But anyways I‘m already really excited in which body I will be reborn now. I hope it’s not a bad one!“
    Long Story short: I woke up in my own body again. In the real world. First I was shocked because I really believed that it was finally over. After that I felt so happy to be back again in my body and in my life. I appreciate the gifts that I got for living my life now way more than before. In the end that was one lesson of many to cure my depression.

  • @aguacan
    @aguacan 3 роки тому

    I had lots my contact with reality but just right now I've recaptured it again thanks to this video .
    Thanks God.
    Not because im crazy but I'm philosopher too
    And while listening started thinking what had happened to my life
    Why I used to be was so happy and why not anymore....
    Before I was in touch with reality suddenly I don't know where I decided not to keep on Bearing it in mind because it disappointed me and I turned to hated it up not yo need it anymore and didn't realize that had happened to me.
    Until now I didn't think there would be a philosopher like this man he's a gifted .

  • @ShisnoGaming
    @ShisnoGaming 3 роки тому +4

    I feel music taste can also be compared to having an ego. For example you discover this awesome unknown band and you love their music and it is yours to recommend and play to others until it becomes mainstream and everyone plays it now to the extent that you even start disliking the music and you find new music. I mean a lot of people pretend not to like another's music "taste" and this is also due to ego I would say.

    • @larykenobi
      @larykenobi 3 роки тому

      I was thinking the same thing. But what about a commercial that makes you believe that you aren't cool because you don't own the last common phone or shoes? Conformism on some level can be dangerous.

    • @ShisnoGaming
      @ShisnoGaming 3 роки тому

      @@larykenobi Haha I do not watch TV and got addblock on my pc so luckily I do not get manipulated in that way :P

    • @LivingNow678
      @LivingNow678 3 роки тому

      I Have a Right by Freddie mcCoy dit Ahmed Sofi

  • @JCarter3000
    @JCarter3000 3 роки тому +1

    The universe is sensing itself through the sense organ of human consciousness and awareness.

  • @yourmindyourworld1100
    @yourmindyourworld1100 3 роки тому +8

    Great content! I strongly recommend the books of Tolle: Power of Now and A New Earth

  • @tempotempotempo
    @tempotempotempo 3 роки тому

    9:31 this is by far the coolest afterskool artwork i’ve seen yet. *absolutely gorgeous*

  • @seenitpurple
    @seenitpurple 3 роки тому +6

    Ego: loser, whack, nothing, bad guy
    Soul: Learner, gain, growing, transformation

  • @Sky-fw7mk
    @Sky-fw7mk Рік тому +2

    Such wisdom and clarity ...I loved listening ♡

  • @awakenotwoke7949
    @awakenotwoke7949 3 роки тому +4

    We try desperately to know who we are. But we can't know who we are. that unknowing is quite uncomfortable and usually rejected as worthless, and useless.

  • @omni_vocal9877
    @omni_vocal9877 3 роки тому

    thank you to Eckhart Tolle and thank you to After Skool

  • @mrshgr
    @mrshgr 3 роки тому +2

    Dr. Tolle can instruct us very well. In my opinion it would be great if you also upload Sadhguru's talks. They can help us not to get lost in our own made up conclusions and thoughts!

  • @1nfinite3nd
    @1nfinite3nd 2 роки тому +1

    it is so hard to let go...but once i do i'm never looking back.

  • @omkardwivedi513
    @omkardwivedi513 3 роки тому +5

    I REALLY ADMIRE YOUR VIDEO /... LOVE FROM INDIA

  • @gud3742
    @gud3742 2 роки тому

    Love is the realization that there is no difference between hate and love

  • @discovery1844
    @discovery1844 3 роки тому +3

    Absolutely fantastic video. Best one from the channel but I think the title doesn’t do the video justice. Rather than focusing on a negative “narcissist” title, believe it would be better served with “How to end suffering” or the like. Just my ego kicking in there 😃 - but great work guys. Thank you.

  • @kmjansen
    @kmjansen 2 роки тому

    There's something about the illustrations that drives the content into my brain most efficiently. Cheers to this channel -- I'm very excited to have found it!