5 "bad boy" attraction secrets that good boys can use.

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  • @darkest_magnum
    @darkest_magnum 11 місяців тому +78

    Self development is necessary for everyone.

  • @stephenodhiambo7556
    @stephenodhiambo7556 11 місяців тому +15

    This our sister from Ghana inderdtands this subject so deeply. She has mastered her craft. From Kenya, we love you.

  • @Thulz.
    @Thulz. 11 місяців тому +192

    Everything has a market, I don't want be something I don't just to win a woman. If she wants a bad boy, she can carry on.

    • @brianking7757
      @brianking7757 11 місяців тому +12

      Couldn't agree more.

    • @baharelarab5942
      @baharelarab5942 11 місяців тому +5

      So Deep and So Real

    • @princeprempeh1467
      @princeprempeh1467 11 місяців тому +14

      Sometimes you need develop yourself

    • @agamer968
      @agamer968 11 місяців тому

      ​@@princeprempeh1467exactly. Self development is key. The moment you accept your short coming, that's the first step to self development

    • @MultiPrincelove
      @MultiPrincelove 11 місяців тому +1

      Well said, brother...

  • @samuelkamotho4958
    @samuelkamotho4958 11 місяців тому +28

    Confidence is about the inner insight of you knowing you are capable and valuable.
    And when you make mistakes you can go around them and come up with a good way to speak out

  • @abiolaoluwatosin6172
    @abiolaoluwatosin6172 10 місяців тому +7

    This is beyond about woman. This is life in general. Thank you Jessica

  • @marveldayz
    @marveldayz 11 місяців тому +17

    If this is what the so called bad boy is, then i don't see anything bad here but just a responsible person who is not a simp..

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 11 місяців тому +70

    I have all those qualities! The only difference between me and a so-called Bad boy is…
    1. I don’t like to draw attention to myself and
    2. Bad boys tell lies to get women

    • @justody1
      @justody1 11 місяців тому +4

      U sometimes lie to dem tho

    • @3phraimlive183
      @3phraimlive183 11 місяців тому

      Good boys lie the most to try to impress a chick, bad boys tend to tell it as it is they don't give hoots about what a chick feels

    • @Steve24527
      @Steve24527 11 місяців тому +2

      @@justody1 Not to get them I don’t you may do but not me

    • @abubakarrkamara9953
      @abubakarrkamara9953 11 місяців тому +1

      Lying to girls will only makes you treated with a disrespect when they found out that you are not whom you presented to them.
      Sigma males are proud of themselves. Love me for who I'm or you quit my way.

  • @Wilgimedia
    @Wilgimedia 10 місяців тому +2

    I can't thank you enough for this eye opening video. Weldone Jess. Wilson from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @brentonvisagie5485
    @brentonvisagie5485 11 місяців тому +10

    You are a star 🌟 your advice is always clear, straightforward and practical. We need ppl like you. Thank you so much. ❤️ Brenton, South africa 🇿🇦

  • @ChrisW1019
    @ChrisW1019 11 місяців тому +34

    Greetings from Canada, Jessica. I take huge issue with the term "nice guy". What people really mean by it is the guy is passive. He's too passive. I try to be assertive. I try to be nice about it, but I like and believe in being assertive.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому +2

      Gotcha

    • @okoriepraise2276
      @okoriepraise2276 11 місяців тому

      😢

    • @V_ii
      @V_ii 11 місяців тому +7

      Nice guy just means you aren't being your authentic self & are too concerned about how others perceive you.
      Assertiveness is a part of that.

    • @tojusote4896
      @tojusote4896 11 місяців тому +1

      It doesn't mean you aren't being your authentic self, why do some people find it hard to believe some people are naturally nice for God's sake, it's only when it comes to women that being nice is bad

    • @V_ii
      @V_ii 10 місяців тому

      @@tojusote4896 being naturally nice isn't bad. That's not the same thing as being "a nice guy".

  • @OluwabusayoAdepetun
    @OluwabusayoAdepetun 11 місяців тому +4

    I love how you explained “assertiveness”. Thanks

  • @floofygod
    @floofygod 11 місяців тому +3

    I gotta say, your channel is an amazing change of pace. It has all the essentials for improvement without the insecurity and narcissism that comes with a lot of modern dating coaches. Amazing, will reccomend to others.

  • @ocheroronald1628
    @ocheroronald1628 11 місяців тому +25

    First to comment Jessica. Love your videos😊. From Nairobi Kenya🇰🇪

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому +4

      You're the best!

    • @toksthoughts
      @toksthoughts 11 місяців тому +2

      hello I was at the village market and tea farm in Nairobi last year, very lovely

    • @mohamedlayee7935
      @mohamedlayee7935 11 місяців тому +3

      Jessica I really love your message for real. Thanks you very much my beautiful sister God bless you sister.

  • @genehughes7874
    @genehughes7874 8 місяців тому +2

    Jessica, I’ve been following your videos for awhile. They are instructive and easily applied to every day life
    From Milwaukee, Wisconsin, USA

  • @davidscot7767
    @davidscot7767 11 місяців тому +7

    I have discovered that when a lady loves you genuinely, everything about you just turns her on.❤ You don't have to be a bad guy just to please a woman, trust me!
    I have played both sides and I can tell you that for free it's a win-win. To be a bad guy, you need to be very smart to get the result that you want but the only problem with nice guys is that, they lose their senses at the sight of Kpekus and Barca. Being a nice guy doesn't make you weak just make sure you do not lose your brain.

  • @souravdeylog
    @souravdeylog 11 місяців тому +2

    Jessica never fails to offer valuable perspectives. Loud Cheers!

  • @otongjrliah4787
    @otongjrliah4787 11 місяців тому +8

    You're helping a lot of men with your videos. Thanks.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому +2

      Glad to help

    • @Infamous1892
      @Infamous1892 11 місяців тому

      Nah Bruh, speak for yourself on that one.

  • @BDMx9Productions
    @BDMx9Productions 11 місяців тому +1

    I posses all these qualities naturally and not to be considered a “bad boy” I’ve always been self dependent cuz moms taught us early. I’ve never felt lonely a day in my life but I’m most happiest when I’m by myself although I have friends and I have an awesome life but…. I always thought I wasn’t adventurous until you explained it today always thought it was about bungee jumping mountain climbing alligator hunting and such. Thank you for explaining.

  • @richardmartyns7978
    @richardmartyns7978 11 місяців тому +6

    Jessica I really love the way u speak. I've been following u for years. I love u, from Nigeria.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому +4

      Thank you so much!!

  • @gtoexpress8111
    @gtoexpress8111 11 місяців тому +2

    Jessica thanks for sharing myself to the Internet except i was born a bad man and everything else dear I'm what a lot of men dream to be - Have a blessed day my dear You are something special educate them guys -

  • @darlingtonsilva2612
    @darlingtonsilva2612 4 місяці тому

    From Nigeria, resident of Canada 🇨🇦, your video is very informative

  • @siyandashezi2500
    @siyandashezi2500 7 місяців тому

    Jessica 1thing I can share with you is that you are my life coach,I can say a lot...but your videos speaks for itself,so thank you🙏💙

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  7 місяців тому

      You are so welcome!

  • @Jimmy-9033
    @Jimmy-9033 Місяць тому

    Since i discovered this woman i have developed alot thank you Jessica 🎉

  • @FITN100
    @FITN100 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for clearifying all the concepts, your value is worth paying for , you are a RARE GEM 💎

  • @omellemmor4732
    @omellemmor4732 10 місяців тому +2

    For those wondering "bad boy" doesn't literally mean someone with an attitude of a hooligan, savage or a jerk that are up to no good.

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 11 місяців тому +1

    Always good to hear from Jessica for she is always worth listening 🎧 too. Her craft is world class

  • @bonnygaboikanngwe5803
    @bonnygaboikanngwe5803 11 місяців тому +7

    Your content is amazing

  • @Thomasjohn1490
    @Thomasjohn1490 8 місяців тому

    You are very smart, Jessica. I watch your videos and I find them very informative and encouraging in self awareness and development. Keep it up! 💌

  • @Amani-j4k
    @Amani-j4k 3 дні тому +1

    💙 oh yeah, I watch till the very end 😂.

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤the message and the whole explanation is absolutely very vital.💙🇰🇪

  • @IanYoungIanyoung
    @IanYoungIanyoung Місяць тому

    Listing from huruma Kenya ❤

  • @forlatagate1
    @forlatagate1 8 місяців тому +6

    Everyman is a so-called bad boy, all you need to do is make semen retention a lifestyle, everything else will come naturally,love God more than women money and yourself, it's that simple, you'll be surprised at the way women respond to you after about 9 months or retaining

    • @some3sharks
      @some3sharks 6 місяців тому

      Semen retention is not for the weak oo

  • @abledutetteh156
    @abledutetteh156 6 місяців тому +1

    I really love your lessons, I've learnt from it.❤

  • @emmanuelk.dennis5585
    @emmanuelk.dennis5585 5 місяців тому

    This piece is one of my favorite. Thanks for the insights.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  5 місяців тому

      Thanks for listening

  • @geo9665
    @geo9665 11 місяців тому +1

    Got me second thinking if I’ve been a bad boy all my life haha. Great advice none the less.

  • @reubena.b9971
    @reubena.b9971 11 місяців тому

    💙You did this one justice. Liked how each topic was broken down into several practical/actionable points. This was truly in depth. Thanks!💙

  • @arkosphere
    @arkosphere 11 місяців тому

    Thank you Jessica for this awesome Video. Lots of Love from India 🇮🇳

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      You're so welcome!

  • @josephademola8494
    @josephademola8494 9 місяців тому

    Mystery : A blend of being Open & Intrigue!❤

  • @PositiveVibesOnly5774
    @PositiveVibesOnly5774 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi, Jessica. Thank you once again for another great video

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching!

  • @petersontechnicalconcept3082
    @petersontechnicalconcept3082 5 місяців тому +1

    You have exposed us by giving the good guys the way we win 😅
    I know I being a bad guy was not my life style of love in a relationship. Buh same relationship leads me to the act. And I see I win and don't take nonsense around me.
    I don't think this girl's deserve good in a relationship only till they Mary , cuz Nothing dey full there stomach

  • @jp_is_the_boy77jp_is_the_b34
    @jp_is_the_boy77jp_is_the_b34 8 місяців тому

    💙all I can say is thank you so much Jessica your advice always brings out the best

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  8 місяців тому

      You are so welcome

  • @Yan_Guar
    @Yan_Guar 10 місяців тому

    Jessica getting younger everyday..too proper ❤😂

  • @julioramirez4047
    @julioramirez4047 10 місяців тому

    💙 Thank you! Jessica. I love your videos.

  • @josephademola8494
    @josephademola8494 9 місяців тому

    Independence: Building a life where you are primarily your own source of strength! ❤❤❤

  • @Reubenchifana
    @Reubenchifana 10 місяців тому

    On point. Thank you . Really needed this❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  10 місяців тому

      You are so welcome

  • @paulnwogu9374
    @paulnwogu9374 11 місяців тому +1

    Ride on Jess!🎉

  • @ABEiiiKU
    @ABEiiiKU 11 місяців тому +4

    While the angle shot from the left looks very flattering, I especially love the shot from the right angle - its extra contrast, and mood is crispy and beautiful.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      Thanks for the feedback

  • @busimanofficial
    @busimanofficial 11 місяців тому +3

    I had been following religiously from Gh. And now from Rwanda . 😅

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      Come back home

    • @greymaterresources
      @greymaterresources 11 місяців тому

      @@JessicaOSthe whole land I meant continent is home ma’am

  • @faustinemarevesa1404
    @faustinemarevesa1404 10 місяців тому

    Very informative video ❤

  • @samuelkamotho4958
    @samuelkamotho4958 11 місяців тому +1

    This year , I need to work on how I express myself on video, my intelligence and authentic style. Just being the best version of me

  • @usefulraphael
    @usefulraphael 11 місяців тому +2

    Well beyond ezpando sis💙💙💙

  • @itn-nq5tn
    @itn-nq5tn 11 місяців тому

    Jessica you are such a 💎 gem.

  • @nerokoroanicet4573
    @nerokoroanicet4573 11 місяців тому

    You're amazing Jessica os.

  • @azukaabrahamnduka5242
    @azukaabrahamnduka5242 11 днів тому

    Awesome lady

  • @mercyspeaking
    @mercyspeaking 11 місяців тому

    You're always amazing, Jessica.

  • @Frank-ie8of
    @Frank-ie8of 11 місяців тому +2

    Watching from Sierra Leone,
    The only difference between me and bad boy is,
    Bad boys tell lies but I do not🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @sagacitytv9288
    @sagacitytv9288 11 місяців тому +2

    Great job 👏

  • @sanelehailesimelane1386
    @sanelehailesimelane1386 11 місяців тому

    God! I love your eyes

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 11 місяців тому +8

    I’ve never been called a bad boy but people have called me independent and some mysterious etc! I’ve travelled by myself abroad a few times and lived in various places. I enjoy variety. I’ve had my share of beautiful women and luv feminine women although I don’t want to hurt them by lying or giving bs stories to get them. I think the only difference between me and a stereotype bad boy is that Bad Boys = Liars to get what they want

  • @RahmJumma-ju2oe
    @RahmJumma-ju2oe 10 місяців тому

    Dear Jessica thx more

  • @BackwardTravisty
    @BackwardTravisty 11 місяців тому +11

    From my military mind, some women like a man who's perceived as dangerous to other men. Not a criminal type dude, but a proper protector type dude. A guy who's fit, able, and willing to stand between danger and those he cares about.
    Some men can make a lot of money without effort, but if they couldn't fight their way out of a wet paper bag with just 3 sides, their attractiveness to certain women is reduced.

  • @samson.j.august9575
    @samson.j.august9575 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing..

  • @mukundelorland6620
    @mukundelorland6620 11 місяців тому

    That is why I can't miss watching your video 😊

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much 😀

  • @busimanofficial
    @busimanofficial 11 місяців тому +1

    Much love Jessica 😘

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 11 місяців тому

    Awesome tips 💙
    Thank you

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      Glad you like them! Thank you too

  • @bryangideon7461
    @bryangideon7461 11 місяців тому

    Very educative

  • @johnsonfiakuna8722
    @johnsonfiakuna8722 11 місяців тому +1

    Good talk

  • @DonKheru
    @DonKheru 11 місяців тому

    This was great🎉🔥🔥🔥

  • @nlmal4
    @nlmal4 11 місяців тому

    THANK YOU JESS.... I wish 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @deshommeselegant3204
    @deshommeselegant3204 11 місяців тому +1

    You are the best 🎉

  • @fakolejosolanke3639
    @fakolejosolanke3639 11 місяців тому

    That was awesome.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 11 місяців тому

    Great content 👌 👏

  • @tumangululainvestmentscc8570
    @tumangululainvestmentscc8570 11 місяців тому

    Thank Coach.

  • @nixonmacelus4448
    @nixonmacelus4448 11 місяців тому

    Good vibes sis

  • @preciousbassey3071
    @preciousbassey3071 11 місяців тому

    Good day Mr Zander i and my friends would need a video talking about how to make your girlfriend always attached to you and womt want to leave

  • @essounabrahamstephen4785
    @essounabrahamstephen4785 11 місяців тому

    Great info

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @officialsayojohn
    @officialsayojohn 11 місяців тому

    Thank you Jessica

  • @TumeloLebona-j3z
    @TumeloLebona-j3z 11 місяців тому

    That's aweresome❤

  • @abubakarrkamara9953
    @abubakarrkamara9953 11 місяців тому +1

    What a world where nice guys are no more appreciated. 😢

  • @ferdeesalah1523
    @ferdeesalah1523 11 місяців тому +4

    Bad boys ... Nice guys... Bad boys... Nice guys. Fact is there's a woman out there for everyone. Rejections count for nothing. You only need one yes. Just be yourself

  • @michael-raphaelnkwocha4767
    @michael-raphaelnkwocha4767 4 місяці тому

    You made sense

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS 11 місяців тому

    At first it seems interesting that the bad boy doesn't care, the reason it will go sideways is the badboy sincerely doesn't care...

  • @tonydjako
    @tonydjako 11 місяців тому

    Hmmm... my dear JOS ♥️❤❤

  • @AineelAdu
    @AineelAdu 11 місяців тому +1

    💙
    I love ya Jess

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      💙🥰🥰🥰

  • @darkest_magnum
    @darkest_magnum 11 місяців тому

    Beautiful ✨

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      Thank you! 😊

  • @alexkakooza3116
    @alexkakooza3116 8 місяців тому

    Great❤

  • @ashalley
    @ashalley 11 місяців тому

    thank you

  • @KWEKUAnnan
    @KWEKUAnnan 11 місяців тому

    First to be here

  • @DarkokuffourBernard
    @DarkokuffourBernard 11 місяців тому +1

    Cheers
    🥂

  • @FredrickWonnie
    @FredrickWonnie 11 місяців тому +1

    It's all about men who respect themselves, or high value men.
    I'm a high value man, If she does not love me for that, let her go, God will provide. 🤔

  • @obainodpingzy7018
    @obainodpingzy7018 11 місяців тому

    Thanks

  • @impressuuniversity4531
    @impressuuniversity4531 11 місяців тому +2

    Just be a man. Have some convictions and standards and don't vere from them l. Make yourself into the best version of yourself that you enjoy. Dress like , Talk like, Carry yourself like a man. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Treat People the way they want to be treated and not the way you treat yourself

  • @alfredfoster4654
    @alfredfoster4654 11 місяців тому +1

    Hi Jessie,you are a HOTTY you are soooo good girl, can't afford to miss any of your video's

  • @jayval9586
    @jayval9586 11 місяців тому

    great job 😌👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому

      Yes! Thank you!

  • @anayochukwuthankgodchibuzo9655
    @anayochukwuthankgodchibuzo9655 11 місяців тому +1

    Great

  • @johntez25mc-supercop
    @johntez25mc-supercop 11 місяців тому +1

    Hi Jessica,, a quick quiz for you,,, why is it that at the beginning while having sex women seems to enjoy but after sex they don't want to talk about it,,,, guys suffering silently😢😢😢😢

  • @owenjustin-ym7rr
    @owenjustin-ym7rr 11 місяців тому

    Copy that 👍, so it's first of all knowing who you are in terms of hobbies, likes and dislikes before rounding to the real gear. 😊😊😊
    😊

  • @mdprospect5149
    @mdprospect5149 11 місяців тому +1

    When did women starting knowing the ways of stoic males...the world is changing so fast

  • @RichieKtrends
    @RichieKtrends 11 місяців тому +4

    I'm a bad boy. Good boys should learn from me😄😄😄

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 5 місяців тому

    I'm both a good and a bad boy. Depending on how you want it😂