My daddy used to say "you're only bored because you're boring, interesting people don't get bored, they get creative. If you're bored, find something to do. If you can't find something to do, MAKE SOMETHING." ... I miss him.
If the relationship became boring. Don’t worry , that’s normal in every relationship. It means that you and your partner. Have learned more about each other and you are both are getting use to the married life. This is not a bad thing , it’s actually good. You both can come up with more and / or new activities for you to do together . And you can also do something’s being apart from each other being in the day time. You can still go out on dates. To have some time away from the kids. And both the women and the men could once in a while spend some time with family and friends. You can also do Hobbies together. Spending to much time together hurts the relationship but spending no time is also not good.
As a healed brotha myself, I can 2nd this. Not even lying, within the last 48 hours a girl I was talking to, who I've been on dates with, just said "my feelings shifted". Out of the blue, at a time when she should've known I was just about to get off work and it could've waited. So then I had to drive home knowing she was texting me saying "she just wants to be friends." 3 or 4 years ago I would've went off or found something to say that would've made her just ghost me completely. I can admit that, and I've grown past that nonsense. It truly feels amazing knowing that I can step back and know how I would've reacted before, and I feel none of those emotions today. It is what it is, and my time is coming for everything I am looking for.
So true! I love a boring relationship. We have our own hobbies and interests and get to tell each other about them and learn new things. Life’s got too many surprises of its own, you don’t need that in your relationship too.
I'm scared to say this on the internet. But I played Madden alot. So my lady actually went to GameStop and bought that Lego avengers game just to get on the PlayStation wit me and we use to play for hours. So in return she was a plant freak. So I helped her start a garden. Everything ain't always about a trip outta town or how much money you can spend.
@@imofficiallygif4617 no maybe their perspective is actually on point unlike y’all 😂 if boring = peace that’s your trauma and overstimulation speaking not everyone perspective is this way it’s sad that a lot of y’all saw it this way in the first
Amen to this we are on the same page some years ago I was friends with a guy I really liked he told me what he was into like 3sums and doing drugs and strippers and just in the fast lane, I didn't judge him but made it clear that wasn't for me at all he started to bully me and say I was boring to peer pressured me into doing that stuff. I had to cut it off because some people want to force their will onto you.
Thx you. I remember telling this guy that. He always was saying he was bored. I got to the point everytime he ask to come see me I was like I'm busy. Im doing what I wasn't to do. Nothing. Relaxing. Cause I worked the week. I'm not entertaining nobody. Just like he said. They make you feel like you have to put on a show for them. And sometimes you do not even realizing you are. Even drinking when you don't want to.
This panel is so wise to be so young. I am 59, and still learning a lot of things regarding relationships from these men/women. Keep up the good work!!
Summarised my life. Im in my early 40’s and happy to say that I appreciate my peaceful life as I don’t do drama, nor do I entertain it!💅🏾 #SoftLifeofPeace&Tranquility
He ain't never lied .. we've been married 16 years, we got the house ,the cars , one daughter lives in south Korea the other will be a junior this year. Our son is 8 .. we boring AF . Our 8 year old is the only one keeping some excitement in the house 😂😂😂. We had to start dating again, joined our local YMCA and started working out. On weekends our excitement is yardwork , family outings and a lil something to sip on. And I'm loving every minute of it!! ❤❤😂😂
There is _no_ legal entitlement to paid holidays in the United States. There are 11 Federal holidays in the US, but only Federal employees are entitled to them. Many employers in the US don't offer any paid holidays or paid vacation time off, and only the very best offer any more than 14 days of paid vacation.
That man is dropping gems. I love the part where he said if you want something new or you want to add new layers to your relationship you have to start being a new/different person so your partner has something different to respond to. #hearmeeout #speakwell 🎙️
That’s so true…unhealed trauma will have people thinking that peace is abnormal when actually fussing, drama, rollercoaster, on ten all the time is what’s abnormal
True- normal looks crazy when you see crazy all the time. I grew up in a house where arguing, fussing and yelling was the norm. I rarely saw my parents spend quality time together or show affection like regular hugs and kisses. I knew it wasnt right but that's all I saw. It wasnt until I went to college spent some time at my friend's parents house of how families were supposed to relate to each other. They gave hugs, said they loved each other, hung out as a family. I realized it was up to me not to bring the crazy into my own relationships. Now 22 years of marriage I learned peace is vitally important. Work on your issues but not live in craziness
Facts. When you constantly have to perform to keep your mate's attention, the goal post is moved each time. It becomes boring for one and draining for the other and best to believe one of the two will tap out when they see no win in site.
He’s not lying lmao. I’m married and our life is what most considers “boring asf” but at least I know true peace and appreciation now. I’m blessed for my Black King.
Yooo SAME!!! BORING MEANS NO PROBLEMS!! I like boring. I thrive in routine! However, self growth for me is a must -same for my husband. It’s a Ladder up in here. We consistently climb; get to know each other again. Keeps shit fresh. Climb; get to know each other. On and on and on. It’s NICE! But it’s “boring” cause we don’t have shit to fix in “eachother” or fixate on outside of ourselves; only room to grow in ourselves. We talk of updates.. and more so those “updates” look like - I know honey, I saw that coming. Your trajectory pointed to that. Not “you need to fix this, I need blah blah blah”. It’s mirroring of self up in here.
To me there is no such thing as boring. Boring is being somewhere or with someone you don't want to be with. I'm always where I want to be and who I want to be with. Never Bored.
Healthy relationships are not boring and that mindset gets y’all in a lot of trouble. I’m married to the most honest, reserved, peaceful man I have ever met in my life and this is way more fun that any of the toxic relationships I’ve been in. This man has never raised his voice at me once, maybe get a lil stern but he has got to be the most emotionally stable person I have ever met. And honey I am SAFE with him. This shit is so much fun. Peace is FUN. Laughing and spending time with your bestfriend is FUN. Y’all tripping
I think he means 'boring' as in the sense of the comfortability of the daily mundane routines. Doesn't mean you don't have FUN times enjoying each other, doing things together. ..... Not feeling the need to be Constantly entertained.
Over 11 years deep in my relationship and this is too real for some people. Just appreciating each other without the gimmicks. Date nights, vacations a few times a year, and being there for each other
You’re lying to you’re friends . No guy wants to come home to the woman he’s proving for , just to hear an earful of bullshit that she could really handle on her own , being it’s an issue that only pertains to how she’s feeling and isn’t his problem until she makes it so
No they are not lying, a guy definitely told me just a few months ago that he like drama and being petty is fun for him where as quite cool calm is boring to him, definitely let that go as they heal and mature. Stay safe and protect that peace always.
Healthy Relationships have QUIET and BORING times when you are immature and impatient. Then you MATURE and welcome the QUIET and BORING times as short MUTUAL RE-ENERGIZING periods. Every 3mos, my wife and I plan a week for NOTHING but RE-ENERGIZING & PLANNING. Find what works for you......
He’s speaking all facts right now!!! my wife have been married for 18 years together for 21 and we have three children. Y’all must continue to add layers to ourselves to grow with each other And continues to learn each other! 🙏🏾💙Be blessed
Biggg badda booooom,.. Well said we need to keep it real and grounded. That's it, we ain't here to tear each other apart, instead of ( being the best version human being we can possibly be) alot are humans but not human beings! Let's learn and grow! Jah bless ❤
Shiiit I've been left because I was boring and all those same people are still struggling and seeking happiness. The more older and boring I get the more peace I find in my boring, smart, and constantly learning partner. We seek excitement outside the house but while we are in it we both require peace and quiet so that we can think and excel ourselves individually, as well as with each other.
People who are bored in life are not at peace within.✨️ Healthy relationships are never really boring.😘🌠 (they just look like that from the outside & you worrying about what others think. Heal your insecurities & be true to your soul).♡
😂😎 Got damn. I hope ppl are listening. I’m 40 and I’ve been appreciating boring when I was in the military. Peace and happiness. Not to say I don’t do a lot of recreational activities. But I like sitting my caramel $&@ in the house sometimes.
Remember the time, mike jackson video,full version.the court jester trying to entertain the queen.eddie murphy kept killing them cause they were boring the queen. That's men.ill tell a wm in a heart beat I'm boring.
Gang I'm going for 27 and I feel it. I thought I was stuck or hit a plateau because I wasn't feeling the same or getting the same excitement day to day like just on living LOL. I'm single but damn I understand now why I was feeling the way I was. Used to be homeless so I guess it took a while for the boringness to catch up to me now that I'm doing aight for myself 😂😂😂😂
Hes dropping gems on them and a lot of people need to pick it up. When you become an interesting person the relationship becomes more interesting. That toxic shit is dead.
Boring= safety and security. You don’t have to watch your back and be in survival mode. When you are safe and secure that environment alone allows you to grow personally and do some inner work.
Young ladies, use the boring time to think through your actions and the outcome, that's when you should be less emotional and more realistic towards your intentions. In most cases, boring times most likely are the "Peace times" for the human family. Use it wisely. You can never be satisfied with excitement because it's a temporary feeling, just like the wind, so, if most your actions were thought through when you were mostly excited or influenced by your friends and social media, then it's time to learn accountability and being sober (stable minded). Think about it, you'd understand why you don't have to always nodge to every feelings or need of excitement, or every trend on the media, or even pay attention to everything your friends do and put on the media. Shalom! 🙏🏿
He said a mouthful. My hubby and I started our relationship at 14 so we've had our "not boring" times, but 25 years later let me tell you, I have 0 complaints with just dinner with the kids then me and him catching up on Netflix 😂❤
Say it! Boring= Peace
Do you have an IG?
Amen 🙏❤️
cap
HELLO!!!!
@@Rashaadthegr8 The last time I got on it was 8 years ago lol. I barely posted photos of me. Just life quotes.
Introverts been knew this 😂 it’s not boring if you’re not addicted to stress and drama. It’s just chillin and vibin to me
FR kkkkkk
Facts 😂😂😂
What most people don't understand is they confuse peace of mind for boring.
Facts. I can’t be everything for you. You just boring
Facts!!
My daddy used to say "you're only bored because you're boring, interesting people don't get bored, they get creative. If you're bored, find something to do. If you can't find something to do, MAKE SOMETHING." ... I miss him.
Your daddy was right. Don't marry anyone who doesn't have creative hobbies and enriching interests.
Alot of ppl don't have hobbies.
❤❤
@@xLeo-ee4gcSex and getting high is overrated.
Snaps on this. Find something to do. That's why I love Skillshare(not a plug). I could be that forever student trying to learn new stuff. Lol!
Man dude drops gems,ain’t shit in the club or streets just issues and people with deeper issues
It's not boring, it's being on the path to effortlessness. The right mindset knows.
If you know, you know ;)
They say peace is boring 😢that's that trauma speaking 🗣️
True
100%
If the relationship became boring. Don’t worry , that’s normal in every relationship. It means that you and your partner. Have learned more about each other and you are both are getting use to the married life. This is not a bad thing , it’s actually good. You both can come up with more and / or new activities for you to do together . And you can also do something’s being apart from each other being in the day time. You can still go out on dates. To have some time away from the kids. And both the women and the men could once in a while spend some time with family and friends. You can also do Hobbies together. Spending to much time together hurts the relationship but spending no time is also not good.
I came here to say it's NEVER BORING TO ME!
@@SoulSearch11110 Amen 🙏🏼
I can feel how healed he is it's amazing 🤩.
I ❤ that ✅🙏💯
Facts!!!
As a healed brotha myself, I can 2nd this. Not even lying, within the last 48 hours a girl I was talking to, who I've been on dates with, just said "my feelings shifted". Out of the blue, at a time when she should've known I was just about to get off work and it could've waited. So then I had to drive home knowing she was texting me saying "she just wants to be friends."
3 or 4 years ago I would've went off or found something to say that would've made her just ghost me completely. I can admit that, and I've grown past that nonsense.
It truly feels amazing knowing that I can step back and know how I would've reacted before, and I feel none of those emotions today. It is what it is, and my time is coming for everything I am looking for.
@@phreyzeva6509 Say that!
❤ his spoken words.
When you mature , you crave peace, not attention. Peace is not boring: it's necessary for your mental and emotional health and devoid of drama.
Facts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Peace is boring .. but here’s the kicker : it’s healthy. But you find new ways to make your life exciting and maintaining the peace at the same time ❤
Be honest... When do most women mature, to where they deserve peace and accept being bored at times with their partner??
@@d.kj.n1392Same time men do, when they're done and want peace.
@@tatianadaniel3569 So around 37yo, 1-2 kids from a random, tired of being independent and doing everything alone, then it finally clicks..
So true! I love a boring relationship. We have our own hobbies and interests and get to tell each other about them and learn new things. Life’s got too many surprises of its own, you don’t need that in your relationship too.
Are you serious in relationship
I'm very single
Ooppssss ....how could I cope with that
Hello 👋 🌹how are you doing hope you're doing great?
@@pilotpatrick8488 hello
Bro is heavy! He need his own show fr.
I'm scared to say this on the internet. But I played Madden alot. So my lady actually went to GameStop and bought that Lego avengers game just to get on the PlayStation wit me and we use to play for hours. So in return she was a plant freak. So I helped her start a garden. Everything ain't always about a trip outta town or how much money you can spend.
Facts. Boring = Healthy. People like "excitement " which really is jealousy,drama and bs.
Women*
✅ that part
Wait a minute. I'm not sure I follow you 😐
@@vivianbraxton4941you’re probably still living in it then Ma’am , it’s pretty straightforward.
@@imofficiallygif4617 no maybe their perspective is actually on point unlike y’all 😂 if boring = peace that’s your trauma and overstimulation speaking not everyone perspective is this way it’s sad that a lot of y’all saw it this way in the first
Amen, Boring feels like loyalty, security, no std’s, praising Christ together. Traveling together, no time for toxicity together boring. Sign me up!!
💯 renee8007
Amen to this we are on the same page some years ago I was friends with a guy I really liked he told me what he was into like 3sums and doing drugs and strippers and just in the fast lane, I didn't judge him but made it clear that wasn't for me at all he started to bully me and say I was boring to peer pressured me into doing that stuff. I had to cut it off because some people want to force their will onto you.
Amen. God bless you
@@Popularloner86 you made a wise choice.
We need to normalize peace over chaos in relationships
Hello how are you doing
Yes!!!!
@@ninaj.4885 how are you doing
It is normalized. For men that is. Only women seem to like those chaotic pookie and ray ray types. They crave drama for some odd reason
Hello
Thx you. I remember telling this guy that. He always was saying he was bored. I got to the point everytime he ask to come see me I was like I'm busy. Im doing what I wasn't to do. Nothing. Relaxing. Cause I worked the week. I'm not entertaining nobody. Just like he said. They make you feel like you have to put on a show for them. And sometimes you do not even realizing you are. Even drinking when you don't want to.
Wow that a great world am Mosley and you
I love this! So true! I sometimes look at my man like I’m bored what we gone do, cuddle and watch a movie until we knock out! The best thing EVER!!!!
been married 32 years...brutha speaking facts 💯💯💯 No drama!!! When we get bored, we go on vacation.
Yasssss peaceful excitement VACATION!!! 🎉they must be broke to want drama for excitement I’ll go for that 😂😂😂
As you get older, you appreciate structure. Ain't nothing wrong with a lil bit of routine. ❤❤❤
Nothing wrong with routine, consistent at all❤️🤗🤗👏💯
✅💯
Facts!
That's part of the problem. ⏰️🤦🏿♂️
I still hate routine im 30
Boring is good😂😂
But bro still get cheated on listen to what he said at the end at look at the woman face
😆👏👏👏👏👏💣 Fabulous !!!
For sone Men in relationship but Boring is a Nightmare for Females because the love Drama
@@redscorpion9325 wrong🙄
@@redscorpion9325 It’s a nightmare for those that are immature and/or have unrealistic expectations on long term relationships
This panel is so wise to be so young. I am 59, and still learning a lot of things regarding relationships from these men/women. Keep up the good work!!
Lol
Wow that great am Mosley and you pretty
Summarised my life. Im in my early 40’s and happy to say that I appreciate my peaceful life as I don’t do drama, nor do I entertain it!💅🏾 #SoftLifeofPeace&Tranquility
He ain't never lied .. we've been married 16 years, we got the house ,the cars , one daughter lives in south Korea the other will be a junior this year. Our son is 8 .. we boring AF . Our 8 year old is the only one keeping some excitement in the house 😂😂😂. We had to start dating again, joined our local YMCA and started working out. On weekends our excitement is yardwork , family outings and a lil something to sip on. And I'm loving every minute of it!! ❤❤😂😂
With what's going on the community, it needs boring.when ever there is excitement somebody dies.
Bruh😂😂😂😂😂
@@xLeo-ee4gc Exactly, that's why we stay to ourselves.
@@RocketMan-jc1lb I'm talking about boring 😂😂
Yes that right there Enjoy it
He always coming with a good word!
Yes! I'm glad he is a part of the panel. Kudos to whomever vetted him!✊🏿💪🏿
So intelligent. I love you hear him speak. He is the best of all
@@SFGDCORP Agree. He is an awesome speaker. Honest. Intelligent.
Yessss
He is a simp. He right on this one but he say silly stuff just to pander to women
Boring with a couple trips 2 or 3 times a year, I’m ok with that
What do u do that u have a month and a half off of vacation time
@@jimmymorris9278 save your money bookie
3 trips a yr ain't boring..shid that's basically a trip every season
@@jimmymorris9278 is this not normal? You're entitled to 5.6 weeks paid holiday a year. Wait, what country are you in?
There is _no_ legal entitlement to paid holidays in the United States.
There are 11 Federal holidays in the US, but only Federal employees are entitled to them.
Many employers in the US don't offer any paid holidays or paid vacation time off, and only the very best offer any more than 14 days of paid vacation.
That man is dropping gems. I love the part where he said if you want something new or you want to add new layers to your relationship you have to start being a new/different person so your partner has something different to respond to. #hearmeeout #speakwell 🎙️
I absolutely love hearing this dude talk. He sounds very wise and he really is not even that old. Very impressive!
That’s so true…unhealed trauma will have people thinking that peace is abnormal when actually fussing, drama, rollercoaster, on ten all the time is what’s abnormal
True- normal looks crazy when you see crazy all the time. I grew up in a house where arguing, fussing and yelling was the norm. I rarely saw my parents spend quality time together or show affection like regular hugs and kisses. I knew it wasnt right but that's all I saw. It wasnt until I went to college spent some time at my friend's parents house of how families were supposed to relate to each other. They gave hugs, said they loved each other, hung out as a family. I realized it was up to me not to bring the crazy into my own relationships. Now 22 years of marriage I learned peace is vitally important. Work on your issues but not live in craziness
U very beautiful
We're are you from
How old are you
Are you serious in relationship
Facts. When you constantly have to perform to keep your mate's attention, the goal post is moved each time. It becomes boring for one and draining for the other and best to believe one of the two will tap out when they see no win in site.
True
I felt this. I really hope I don't miss anyone good due to seeking that cheese. I guess I'm watching in case.
Hello how are you doing
Hey baby
Can we chat on google chat because I need a serious relationship if you don’t mind
Hello
THE WISDOM! Idk his name but I love hearing him speak! So wise and understanding..
✅
@@vivianbraxton4941 I was hoping your comment was his name. Lol
Very wise Man.
Yes
I agree. I keep looking in comments for his name. He gets it
@@Saki_Mari His name is Tripp
Dude needs his own podcast. His ability to walk you into the truth is astounding 🔥🔥💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Man this man truly dont miss shiiii
This man is setting the bar high out here in these nontoxic streets 💪🏾 Men with these mindsets do exist. I will NEVER settle for less.
He sounds like most men that’s all we want the going out is mainly and only for the woman unless something beak in house or car I’m chilling
nah not really, like he said its the women that want a man to tap dance because lowkey they boring individuals
@@barbergurub6830no, that’s what most of you SAY you want, all the while bringing chaos. Those men who truly want peace behave in a peaceful manner.
Being able to say “I’m good” where you’re at is such a blessing. Definitely under rated.
Hello how are you doing
He’s the ONLY person on this show that speaks truth.
The rest of them just make body and facial expressions the whole time! 😂
I've seen a few episodes, u may be right about that. The others make good points her and there, but ts coincidence LoL
That’s why they use his clips to attract viewers
I only listen to him to be honest
Real shit he the only one i listen to....
He’s not lying lmao. I’m married and our life is what most considers “boring asf” but at least I know true peace and appreciation now. I’m blessed for my Black King.
I needed to hear this. It's not their job to entertain.
I'll take BORING ALL DAY LONG over drama!!! BORING=PEACE
Hello sunshine
Am Mosley and you
He’s speaking big facts! Structure and routine can boring but it’s way better than drama.
Facts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have no tolerance for drama.
This is absolutely true and I'm not tap dancing for no one🤷🏾💯
Thanks KS for opening the door for conversation like this
Yooo SAME!!! BORING MEANS NO PROBLEMS!! I like boring. I thrive in routine! However, self growth for me is a must -same for my husband. It’s a Ladder up in here. We consistently climb; get to know each other again. Keeps shit fresh.
Climb; get to know each other.
On and on and on.
It’s NICE!
But it’s “boring” cause we don’t have shit to fix in “eachother” or fixate on outside of ourselves; only room to grow in ourselves. We talk of updates.. and more so those “updates” look like - I know honey, I saw that coming. Your trajectory pointed to that.
Not “you need to fix this, I need blah blah blah”. It’s mirroring of self up in here.
😉👏🏾😉👏🏾😉
I feel like he just saved my relationship in a real way thank you especially to the young lady who asked🙏🏾💯
The only weeee we should have is an amusement park ride.
Really 😮
@@xLeo-ee4gc 😂
Mine to
This is maturity and peace.
Yes. All this!!!! I’m okay with the boring feeling. As long as there is still effort,love, quality time spent together and our needs are met
Stability and peace are everything 💯
I never really like these relationship podcasts but this advice is actually fire
To me there is no such thing as boring. Boring is being somewhere or with someone you don't want to be with. I'm always where I want to be and who I want to be with. Never Bored.
I hate when people say facts 💯 but this was facts 💯. Boring is a good thing as you get older. Excitement usually comes with drama.
I totally agree with him on this convo right here. 😊
Hello 👋,
How are you doing, hope you're doing great?
That's a real spill bro 💯
Boring is actually PEACE! Sit in your PEACE.❤
I don't think so...
I felt his words in my soul! #IBeenBoringAndLovingIt
Healthy relationships are not boring and that mindset gets y’all in a lot of trouble. I’m married to the most honest, reserved, peaceful man I have ever met in my life and this is way more fun that any of the toxic relationships I’ve been in. This man has never raised his voice at me once, maybe get a lil stern but he has got to be the most emotionally stable person I have ever met. And honey I am SAFE with him. This shit is so much fun. Peace is FUN. Laughing and spending time with your bestfriend is FUN. Y’all tripping
Same 🙏🏾🤍🙏🏾🌿🔆
I think he means 'boring' as in the sense of the comfortability of the daily mundane routines. Doesn't mean you don't have FUN times enjoying each other, doing things together. ..... Not feeling the need to be Constantly entertained.
I love this for you! This is what I’m praying for…a safe, peaceful relationship 🥰
You need to speak my king. Thank you for educating and helping us generations how to stop being birds and be the Queens that we are
Yes.. Easy like Sunday morning! A wonerdful place to be in your relationship/marriage! A quiet , speechless loving conversation.! Beautifully Borning!
His woman is so blessed. He a real one
Yea he went off on that 💯
Real talk
Nothing beats sitting in the house chilling,eating snacks,thinking & letting your body heal.When you work hard & workout all you want to do is chill
And watching tv.
Bruh! YOU ON IT!!! Straight facts!
Whew he said a word! Whoever gets this man will have a gift of a man. He is so refreshing to listen to.
I agree
Over 11 years deep in my relationship and this is too real for some people. Just appreciating each other without the gimmicks. Date nights, vacations a few times a year, and being there for each other
😆✨💯 I tell chicks some guys like drama 🎭 because healthy Is boring... this guy stay on point
You’re lying to you’re friends . No guy wants to come home to the woman he’s proving for , just to hear an earful of bullshit that she could really handle on her own , being it’s an issue that only pertains to how she’s feeling and isn’t his problem until she makes it so
No they are not lying, a guy definitely told me just a few months ago that he like drama and being petty is fun for him where as quite cool calm is boring to him, definitely let that go as they heal and mature. Stay safe and protect that peace always.
I would say we as men like to troll and talk shit, women be bringing a whole new level of drama though
@@t4t806 that’s bc he was trying to sleep with you and more likely then not you are drama. So he has to. Your are so gullible lol.
@@imofficiallygif4617 It'll surprise you how many men the dramatic girls attract.
Absolutely I have been told I’m boring. Peace of mind is priceless drama free with me.
Wisdom at its finest .... No lies told
Facts ! Preach on
This man is prolific! Always bringing a great perspective! 💯
Absolutely ✅
I feel you! At this age I live for boring.
Just being able to sit down and listen to this brother spit facts!
I've been feeling this for years but could never put it into words like this, thanks
Big Facts!
1000%! There will be excitement along the way, but be comforted in those times you can just relax together
Healthy Relationships have QUIET and BORING times when you are immature and impatient. Then you MATURE and welcome the QUIET and BORING times as short MUTUAL RE-ENERGIZING periods.
Every 3mos, my wife and I plan a week for NOTHING but RE-ENERGIZING & PLANNING. Find what works for you......
This makes sense! I didn't agree with the original discussion.
Man do I love when men speak some facts and truth and be great with it! What an articulate brother ❤
He’s always on top of the situation!!☝🏽
Real talk…some don’t understand what it takes and just want to be happy at all times.
I love being boring ❤
When someone says their bored...I run. Entertain urself. Love urself
Facts that's why any person who labels someone boring is a red flag to me
Man yall be hitting the nail on the head.
He’s speaking all facts right now!!! my wife have been married for 18 years together for 21 and we have three children. Y’all must continue to add layers to ourselves to grow with each other And continues to learn each other! 🙏🏾💙Be blessed
Facts 👌 Peace of mind is priceless !!!! ❤️🔥
Yesssssssss......friendships too!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
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This dude is a chef because he's legit always cooking!
Beautifully said 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Biggg badda booooom,.. Well said we need to keep it real and grounded. That's it, we ain't here to tear each other apart, instead of ( being the best version human being we can possibly be) alot are humans but not human beings!
Let's learn and grow!
Jah bless ❤
Shiiit I've been left because I was boring and all those same people are still struggling and seeking happiness. The more older and boring I get the more peace I find in my boring, smart, and constantly learning partner. We seek excitement outside the house but while we are in it we both require peace and quiet so that we can think and excel ourselves individually, as well as with each other.
People who are bored in life are not at peace within.✨️ Healthy relationships are never really boring.😘🌠 (they just look like that from the outside & you worrying about what others think. Heal your insecurities & be true to your soul).♡
Sure dear well my name is sly and will like to know more about you
Can we be friends
U very beautiful
How old are you
@@OkrekeChimezie 1988 😘
😂😎 Got damn. I hope ppl are listening.
I’m 40 and I’ve been appreciating boring when I was in the military. Peace and happiness. Not to say I don’t do a lot of recreational activities. But I like sitting my caramel $&@ in the house sometimes.
Remember the time, mike jackson video,full version.the court jester trying to entertain the queen.eddie murphy kept killing them cause they were boring the queen. That's men.ill tell a wm in a heart beat I'm boring.
Gang I'm going for 27 and I feel it. I thought I was stuck or hit a plateau because I wasn't feeling the same or getting the same excitement day to day like just on living LOL. I'm single but damn I understand now why I was feeling the way I was. Used to be homeless so I guess it took a while for the boringness to catch up to me now that I'm doing aight for myself 😂😂😂😂
Everything he says 💯❤ Truth 👍🏾🙏🏾 In love 😘
This is so very true! Teach King teach!
Thank you💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿 boring is peace
Absolutely
Hes dropping gems on them and a lot of people need to pick it up. When you become an interesting person the relationship becomes more interesting. That toxic shit is dead.
Boring= safety and security. You don’t have to watch your back and be in survival mode. When you are safe and secure that environment alone allows you to grow personally and do some inner work.
Amen, brother. You are healed
Young ladies, use the boring time to think through your actions and the outcome, that's when you should be less emotional and more realistic towards your intentions. In most cases, boring times most likely are the "Peace times" for the human family. Use it wisely. You can never be satisfied with excitement because it's a temporary feeling, just like the wind, so, if most your actions were thought through when you were mostly excited or influenced by your friends and social media, then it's time to learn accountability and being sober (stable minded). Think about it, you'd understand why you don't have to always nodge to every feelings or need of excitement, or every trend on the media, or even pay attention to everything your friends do and put on the media. Shalom! 🙏🏿
THAT'S THE BEST RELATIONSHIPS TO HAVE, PEACE OF MIND,PLACE OF PEACE WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER 🙏
That's right bro true words
He said a mouthful. My hubby and I started our relationship at 14 so we've had our "not boring" times, but 25 years later let me tell you, I have 0 complaints with just dinner with the kids then me and him catching up on Netflix 😂❤
Man this guy needs his own podcast. By himself. He always coming with the great advice 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
This man way wise beyond his age! Blessings to him for not holding back on the knowledge