Only to disrespect you- only to humiliate you and truly harm you. That’s literally all that they want. They are so ego driven- and if you’re not, you’ll think it’s GOD telling you to “ stay “ with this man. When it’s really God letting you know to move on and don’t fall for the mess.
Applies to everything in life , your gut instinct is TMH warning you about something or someone, listen to it and don’t second guess it. I have an ex who I truly wanted to be with, but I kept my prayers and always asked TMH to protect me in all my ways and I’ll do my best to listen. Welp lol , that ex bf it’s a blessing it didn’t work out. It was weird to both of us because even he said that it’s always something that prevented us from being together. Like literally ALWAYS something would happen when we both were single and thinking of trying it out again.
I PRAYED FOR GOD 2 SEND ME A CLEAR SIGN. IF THAT PERSON WAS FOR ME. BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP EVEN BEGAN...I GOT MY SIGN Y'ALL. ONLY I DIDN'T REALIZE IT UNTIL AFTER THE DAMAGE WITH THAT DEMON WAS DONE. I KNOW BETTER NOW!!! 🙏🏽 & PAY ATTENTION!
Man!! I was in a situationship for 2.5 yrs and my pH would stay off! I was a constant battle with my self to get her back in check. And he was only the 2nd partner I’ve ever been with. I just could not let him go! 😩 I won’t ignore that sign again
Yup!!! Since I've been abstinent, not even my period has any odor. It used to, which I thought was natural, when I was having s*x. And it's funny how the running joke on social media is about women having odors. It's from THEM! @@sickofit5547
The reason she was having all those periods was because of stress! MEN will stress you out! That's why you gain weight when you are in a toxic marriage or relationship. MEN STRESS WOMEN OUT!
Caught a cold before our first date, had to postpone. The following week I fell on the stairs and had to postpone again. 2 years later I am reflecting on the relationship in therapy.
I had a toxic ex whom I went back and forth with for about 3 years. On our maybe third try, we decided we were going to go to NY for the weekend. We are from Canada. One day, while he was driving and I was talking to him on the phone, he drove over a metal trolley that was left in the middle of the road. Needless to say, it tore up the underside of his car. Right then, my grandma called my phone. I got off the phone with him and took her call. The first thing out of her mouth was, that man you are talking to is no good. Leave him alone. My grandma NEVER talked to me about men in my life. That was the first and only time. I listened to grandma and didn't pursue anything with that man again.
Listen when God shows you signs of not to get into a relationship with that man to begin with. God shows signs from beginning to end. Take heed and save yourself the trouble. Focus on building your relationship with God so that when he’s talking to you you can discernment the voice of the Holy Spirit. Amen 🙏🏾
Absolutely, I was forced to listen. Once I WOKE UP, my mother’s truth was revealed. My entire world has been rocked. Having my own mother do black magic over my life, life purpose and destiny-heartbreaking. Everything that has ever happened to me was because of my mother. God allowed it so I can finally wake up to the fact that my purpose was bigger than the vessel that he allowed to birth me into this world. All my life I was trying to please my mother and others (being too nice) when I should’ve been focused on why God sent me here. The devil knows who we are when we’re born so he has his agents on us from birth. When you’re chosen…there will be a lifetime of pain. ❤️🙏❤️
I’m 2 weeks into an apartment with my 21 month old daughter after leaving the home that I helped purchased with her father. I couldn’t take it anymore. The verbal abuse, the gaslighting, using me to get the home, having the baby via IVF because he was infertile bc his swimmers wasn’t swimming. He would post the very things I helped him get to social media, hiding me from the equation and saying he achieved it alone. I tried staying and did not want to leave my home, but I kept on getting signs that I needed to leave. UA-cam videos about moving, moving on etc kept on showing up on my TL. What did it for me was he went to Jamaica for his birthday last month for an alleged “solo trip” and he came back home bragging to the neighbors about having orgys out there with complete random women. I left and won’t be turning back!
I might've missed it by reading too fast, but what were the signs that God sent you (if any) before ignoring the signs and agreeing to be with that man?
@@sensimania I tried staying and many things about him was revealed. I can write a paper on it but more recently I was wresting with myself/ God about should I stay? Should I go and each time it would be something that came to the light about him. Finding out about the orgies in Jamaican then prior it was told to me that he was looking for a real estate attorney bc he was trying to screw me over on the home we purchased together. All this stuff came to the light. Prior to even getting back with him I was told 3 yrs ago that he would do everything he’s doing now. I was a big goofy for getting back with him!
@@sensimania A lot was revealed within my last few weeks in the home. I was at war with myself wresting myself and God trying to find every which reason to stay, but after finding out about the group smex in Jamaica after he was bragging about it to the neighbors, then I was told he was inquiring about about a real estate attorney, trying to somehow finesse me out of the home we both purchased. 3 years ago I was told not to get back with him bc he only wanted to rekindle to use me for my money and low behold. I used to always have dreams of him cheating as well and would wake up totally confused. Makes sense now.
The truth is you don’t know until you know. Please stop blaming yourself for “ignoring” red flags 🚩 that you truly did not know would end the way it did. Because if you knew for sure the pain it would cause you, you wouldn’t have done it in the first place.
@ashleymandigo4406 Agreed. You don't know what you don't know. So you shouldn't beat yourself up for it. BUT, it is your responsibility to learn or pay attention and apply it.
I'm of the belief that some of the most obvious signs are how the person treats you: if they are unkind, disrespectful, dismiss your emotions, don't have empathy when you are having a hard time - that is enough of a sign to leave! You don't always need something supernatural to know. BUT I will add that once, I went on a date with this guy, he seemed ok but I wasn't fully sure about him. So I asked God to show me if he's good for me or not. A few days later he called my phone, I answered and I could hear his voice in the background shouting. "You little SH*T!!! You little motherf***er!!!". This man had 2 small children - I knew this. One of the children had grabbed the phone and called me accidentally, just in time for me to hear him swearing and shouting at his small children. Literally cursing at them. One of my dealbreakers is that I need to observe what kind of father he is to his kids. I realised this is how he would talk to me if we got into an argument, and this is how he would treat our future children. I decided there and then that it was over.
God told me to stay away from 2 different men at 2 different instances. I didn't listen, and the consequences were life-threatening each time. God sees what you can't. God sees the motives, desires, intent, hurt, soul... you can't know what is going to happen. So trust the only one who does know. Because it will never be worth the consequence of ignoring the warnings.
My dreams are always telling me something. I was dating this guy and i dreamed that he turned into a demon. I think God was sending me other subtle hints but i wasn't picking up them but the dream totally woke me up. After we broke up, I felt this intense relieved and I was happy.
My dreams very rarely have specific men in them (aside from the general arbitrary figure in my nightmares). Messenger dreams feel so different from normal dreams or nightmares. The last man I wasn't supposed to be with was represented in a message dream as a lie. "The third lie will kill you." I had given this man two attempts at the time of this dream.
DISCERNMENT! People, especially women, are in desperate need of this gift, especially in these times where people are getting increasingly selfish and diabolical.
Not only do we need it, we need to also train ourselves to actually listen to it. I hear so many horror stories of women who ignored red flags or unsettling feelings. Ignoring those signs could be a de@th sentence…
God literally dragged me out of toxic relationships by allowing the guys reject me, cuss me out, cheat on me and even abuse and abandon me. It really hurt at the time... But rembering the pain of what they put me through, stopped me from ever going back to them. They are now broke, busted and disgusted losers. Now I finally see what God was trying to show me, at the time, when I was trying to get with these bums. What was I thinking??.. Thank God for God.
I went on a date with this dude. We went sightseeing. I took a pic of him and he looked like a demon on this pic. Completely distorted and only recognizable by the clothes. I thought my phone was acting up, but the nexts pics I took were fine. He cheated on me and I dropped him. Come to find out this dude is a warlock and devil worshipper, whose been placing black magic and spells on me. I make sure to stay prayed up. Everything backfired on him. He's broke, unemployed and homeless and still tries to come for me, but my divine ancestors are gangsters....he just didn't know.
I can relate to the last lady the most. A man chasing you for years only to be abusive towards you once he has you. And the lady whose lips were on fire. God makes the crown of my head burn when I'm making a poor decision and I'm in danger. I've only disobeyed this sign once, never again lol.
My intuition always Knew! Always felt off! He was absolutely gorgeous but my body never responded to him! Our first outing he got passed out drunk.. 2 years of intense love bombing to literally him telling me he was an energy vampire, cheated, lied, disrespected me.. & said he was only using me for my energy! Still in the process of healing from this NARCISSISTIC Man! Had sooo many signs! Thank you God for strength
Before my healing and radical self acceptance, this one guy I was dating claimed to be religious and involved in church. He pretended to be this virtuous, mild mannered & loving person. Turned out He love bomb tf outta me and was a disrespectful abusive asshole. The religious stuff is like a bait and switch for so many unsavory people. The first red flag was that he couldn’t remember what his two bible verses tattoos on his arm say yet kept eagerly texting corny love poems to me each day. The second red flag was that his body scent gradually grew aggravating in the very short time we dated. He smelled like wonderful on our first date but it eventually changed. He started to stink badly to me despite not having an obvious hygiene issues. It was a weird indescribable musty old ppl odor. I believe his energy was affecting my body and senses bc I started to develop an unpleasant odor which is rare.
Scent is a great intuitive tool. Thats why we say "something dont smell right" metaphorically. I used to love my ex's natural body scent. Then once he crossed a line & I was done for good, his scent just stank to me lol
Listen these days I don't play with God's signs. Because y'all I got signs about my ex and ignored them and have lived a miserable decade with this man (we have a child together) The signs: - the day we met for a date a voice SO LOUD in my head, heart and spirit said "walk away, don't do this date!". I ignored the voice - after the date as we got out of the restaurant a bird pooed 💩 on this head. This is in city centre were there a many people who have never been pooed on - weeks into the relationship I cooked for him. We both ate the meal, got so sick from the food. Literally both ends 💩 and 🤮 yet I was ok. I am a decent cook btw. - we were in my car and had gone to pick up my brother to meet him. As soon as my brother got in the car he said "what's that dead smell?". My ex caused my hell and still does cause me hell. I wish I had listened to these signs. The first two were strong.
I literally prayed for God to show me if the man I was with for 4-5 years was for me. Months later toward the end of the year, I find out that he was in a whole other relationship with another woman who was living with him. It wasn't really crazy but I had a feeling one day that he was living with someone & I found that out.
The 1st lady's story - that's how Reesa Teesa(?) started her story (Who TF Did I Marry?) . I'm sure she mentioned that there was a thunderstorm the first time she attempted to meet up with her husband to be. Did she also say she was in a car accident too? I can't remember, but.... yeah... she ignored those signs 😬
I recently reconnected with an ex. I noticed that things in my life had these roadblocks, and suddenly one day as i was riding to work, i heard a voice that said "leave them alone!". I did, and those roadblocks were lifted like clockwork.
The first story freaked me out bc I was literally in that exact incident. Cleared all lanes from the far left in the rain. Idk how but only by the grace of God no one hit me as my car slid across the lanes to get to the grass. One of the scariest moments of my life. And yes. My dumb self STILL went to his house. Smh.
I had a very vivid dream about this new guy I wasn't sure about He was moving way too fast with me In the dream I was at a new home and he was trying to break in any and evey kind of way trying to unalive me I was so scared in the dream and when I woke up Cut him off after that
Wasn’t a relationship but the talking stage. I used to go to his workplace (a bar) just to talk to him. One night, I was waiting for him to finish up with customers and “Boy’s a Liar” started to play. The only lyrics that was clear as day to me were “the boy’s a liar.” I got a feeling in my soul that the universe was talking to me. Long story short, I cut him off after he tried to play games with me. Tried to make me “fight” for his affection. I suspected he was a red piller after that night. Now, when I see him out in public (we live in a small city) he won’t leave me alone. He doesn’t talk to me but he’s constantly lingering around where I am or staring at me. Creepy.
God gave me many signs. Many i ignored and payed a high price. I listen now for sure and life is great. Jesus please take the wheel of my life, i dont mind being a passenger now 😅
Please tell me Im not the only one who GOT MY PERIODS minutes or hours before I arrived at the date, and still went on to open my heart to... a lying piece of a poopbag. My body itself is rebuking these men from the beginning. I feel SLEEPY next to them and they feel energised next to me.
I've been getting irregular periods out of no where too! Funny you say that, when he would stay the night he would say he slept like a baby, meanwhile, I always slept bad, kept tossing and turning and waking up. Once I stopped dealing with him I've been able to catch up on THE BEST sleep of my life!
My Grandma had a dream about the man I was dating and told me he was no good and would miss treat me.Of course I didn’t listen and ended up having his baby. Once I got pregnant I knew my grandma was the right. I should have listened..
The thing is I was married to him and he used religion against me so many times. In my mind those signs to leave him couldn't have been from God. I'm glad I woke up.
I see things in dreams. In college I was dating a total shithead from high school. I was constantly having dreams in which I would look up into the sky as a big red airplane would explode right in front of me. I still have weird dreams about planes but NOTHING quite like that since we said adios.
God is soo good! He is for you and he sees what you don’t, also , pray that you use wisdom from God over your emotions and desires cause the flesh is weak, it wasn’t what’s satisfying despite the consequences
This was great confirmation that the times things just didnt come to fruition w somebody for no apparent reason was actually a blessing in disguise 😌🙏🏾
Within a week of meeting my narc ex, God showed us driving together in a dream and a truck crashed into us and decapitated him. The dreams didn’t end until I left him
My longest relationship turned into a domestic violence situation after his pregnancy entrapment failed. He was a narcissist, volatile and extremely violent. I had an outer body experience and saw a vision of my death caused by him beating me. I seen my father and friends that had passed. I woke up with bruises all over me. This pushed me to leave. This dream came after he had tried feeding me excuses after strangling me and leaving punched holes in the wall. I was in denial, and I wanted to disregard it. I was so in love, and I didn't want to experience the heartbreak. I strongly believe I'd be dead if I had stayed.
It starts with prayer. That’s how I got my answer recently y’all. I promise the sooner you realize God is speaking, you save yourself from enormous heartbreak, and have your self worth INTACT
I honestly think the stillbirth of my first child was my way out of a situation with the Narc that is his father. I had no problems and while I was with him, was happy most of my first pregnancy. We conceived another but I’d left before I knew I was with child. I had a problem-free pregnancy but my life was a mess. It was at this time that I left him and returned to my home state. This baby made it and 16 years later, he’s in his room eating chips while I type this. But I raise him alone and with the hell-on-wheels their father is, the stress of single parenting is way better. He is no different and is seriously sadistic and evil. The Lord showed up while I’d be getting ready to sleep with him! I’d “shake it off”. That manchild put me THROUGH IT, then smeared my name. ALWAYS listen to the Lord!
we like to over spiritualize everything, sometimes, we are just hard headed to leave these men!!! We think we can change them!!! lol, first red flag, LEAVE!! The are always signs even on the first date and encounter.. I had the same experience with the first lady but for me it was when my cousin and niece passed away, I was supposed to go see him over the weekend, after telling that what happened, he said "So I will not see you this weekend"? I still dated him for 3 months after that, until I found female shoes in his car.!! I was a bum!!! and when I think back, I should have left on our first date because he said some despicable things hahahaha!!
I feel you! I think back sometimes on all the scrap I put up with from men and say to myself, "damn girl, where was your self esteem?!"😂😆 But we all live and learn from these experiences.
I hear run ,and i did not and i am paying for it now we had son together he ruined all of my credit my God, my sisters that man will look after someone else children but not is own child he tell me to find somebody to take care of this son, i ask him at one time to support his son because i wanted to do a course. i tell him if he does that for two years when i am finish i will take care of my son by myself girls it is like i was talking to my enemy his look on his face alone tell me it all
They are like that, unfortunately. If you have a Bible, read (2 Timothy 3:1-5). It talks about the attitudes of people, and it’s exactly what I’ve witnessed to be true, again, unfortunately. It helps to keep things in perspective and the reality that some people are just truly evil and selfish in their heart. I pray you are able to find a way to provide for you and your child 🙏🏾💗
My daughter's father was the exact same way. He wouldn't help me with her AT ALL. I put him on child support, and he worked under the table as a barber so they could not track his money. He also got into a relationship with a woman with 4 children, and none was his. He was engaged to be married to her. I was in a relationship with him for 5 years, and he never proposed to me ( thank God) . Long story short, he was killed in a horrific drive by shooting that had nothing to do with him. He left behind 3 children that he had no relationship with. Our daughter is 17 yrs old and graduates high school this year .
👀 oh gosh my dude venus in Aquarius chileee. She's correct friends 1st. But yeah if your body rejects rejects man you'll be allergic to them. I'm not allergic to this man but I did mention this to them. I don't like kissing and I like to know u blood type and kissing can show ur allergic to a man.
God told me not to give a cheater another chance, even my family disliked him, and I did it anyway. only to be dumped later, with him marrying someone else 😂 It took years to recover from that relationship.
I don't believe in small interventions like this. BUT do whatever helps you to get out of toxic relationships, we all see signs mainly because deep inside we are all suspicious , so it's basically you yourself give yourself the sign
I absolutely know that this is the truth... The one with the cycle, I had a similar experience, and the lady that prayed about it happened as well... Also the ph balance... Wheyou are God's child he will always do what he can to warn you before destruction... ❤❤❤
Me,me,me all the way. God should me the truth. OMG😢❤🙏🙏. Thanks god he did. Narcissistic is a dangerous person.. 1year and half i let him go. Thanks you god .😭😭🥰😘🙏
This video is supposed to be about how The Most High GOD warned people to not pursue a relationship. And you include a lady talking about worldly stuff; "her body's wisdom, Aquarius, etc." Why did you include her stitch? It doesn't belong. Satan always tries to steal GODs glory and praise by inserting itself. Or imitate GODs power. True believers know the deal. Don't get tricked by the ignorance of this videos creator and the deception of the evil one.
She was speeding on a rainy day and she skidded and that’s the ‘lord’ telling her not to go to her boyfriend?! She could’ve killed somebody on the road !
Funny. I've been trying to bounce, and crap keeps getting put in my way. Not little stuff, either. Here, have a major shoulder injury in your dominant arm so you can do nothing for yourself!
I am very much a spiritual woman and believe in God. But what we aren't going to do is blame the consequences of our dumb decisions on God. God is a God who will not force us to choose. You were with a self admitted narc. Chose to go out in a storm and drive 75MPH and God spared you. Instead of you realizing it was a sign to draw closer to Him and change your ways you want to attribute your consequences to God showing you something you already know 🤔 nah.
Yeah, not in the way simple religions say. But synchronicity exists in the Universe. We are connected to everything, past, present, and future. Instincts are a part of that equation.
Men will beg to be in your life only to disrespect you
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This this this!
Only to disrespect you- only to humiliate you and truly harm you. That’s literally all that they want. They are so ego driven- and if you’re not, you’ll think it’s GOD telling you to “ stay “ with this man. When it’s really God letting you know to move on and don’t fall for the mess.
It’s scary how true that is
Applies to everything in life , your gut instinct is TMH warning you about something or someone, listen to it and don’t second guess it.
I have an ex who I truly wanted to be with, but I kept my prayers and always asked TMH to protect me in all my ways and I’ll do my best to listen.
Welp lol , that ex bf it’s a blessing it didn’t work out. It was weird to both of us because even he said that it’s always something that prevented us from being together. Like literally ALWAYS something would happen when we both were single and thinking of trying it out again.
I PRAYED FOR GOD 2 SEND ME A CLEAR SIGN. IF THAT PERSON WAS FOR ME. BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP EVEN BEGAN...I GOT MY SIGN Y'ALL. ONLY I DIDN'T REALIZE IT UNTIL AFTER THE DAMAGE WITH THAT DEMON WAS DONE. I KNOW BETTER NOW!!! 🙏🏽 & PAY ATTENTION!
God pushed me away from one of my exs so many times. Flat tires, it would storm every time we were trying to meet.
Ladies, never underestimate the power of your PH balance. It will definitely tell u when a man aint right 😂
Man!! I was in a situationship for 2.5 yrs and my pH would stay off! I was a constant battle with my self to get her back in check. And he was only the 2nd partner I’ve ever been with. I just could not let him go! 😩 I won’t ignore that sign again
@LasBlackUnicrn good u got out. Years of that kinda stuff is connected to fibroids and cervical cancer. Nasty men do more to us than we know.
@@LasBlackUnicrnsame. Never had a smell till I met this guy. Took forever to get the smell to go away. Didn’t want to leave him alone
Very true!!! Or keep getting illnesses, overall! But that pH will tell on them for sure!
Yup!!! Since I've been abstinent, not even my period has any odor. It used to, which I thought was natural, when I was having s*x. And it's funny how the running joke on social media is about women having odors. It's from THEM! @@sickofit5547
The reason she was having all those periods was because of stress! MEN will stress you out! That's why you gain weight when you are in a toxic marriage or relationship. MEN STRESS WOMEN OUT!
Exactly!! Like I’m not Christian so biases and all that but nah that wasn’t God that was her body telling her she is *stressed*
I've been through so much stress that these days, if a guy gives me stress, I stress him back till he leaves me TF alone.
This is why I pray over every relationship. Even friendships. I don't have time honey.
I pray ,God answers I still go and cry after😢
Caught a cold before our first date, had to postpone. The following week I fell on the stairs and had to postpone again. 2 years later I am reflecting on the relationship in therapy.
Wow! Sorry you experienced this 😔
I had a toxic ex whom I went back and forth with for about 3 years. On our maybe third try, we decided we were going to go to NY for the weekend. We are from Canada. One day, while he was driving and I was talking to him on the phone, he drove over a metal trolley that was left in the middle of the road. Needless to say, it tore up the underside of his car. Right then, my grandma called my phone. I got off the phone with him and took her call. The first thing out of her mouth was, that man you are talking to is no good. Leave him alone. My grandma NEVER talked to me about men in my life. That was the first and only time. I listened to grandma and didn't pursue anything with that man again.
Listen when God shows you signs of not to get into a relationship with that man to begin with. God shows signs from beginning to end. Take heed and save yourself the trouble. Focus on building your relationship with God so that when he’s talking to you you can discernment the voice of the Holy Spirit. Amen 🙏🏾
Absolutely, I was forced to listen. Once I WOKE UP, my mother’s truth was revealed.
My entire world has been rocked. Having my own mother do black magic over my life, life purpose and destiny-heartbreaking.
Everything that has ever happened to me was because of my mother.
God allowed it so I can finally wake up to the fact that my purpose was bigger than the vessel that he allowed to birth me into this world.
All my life I was trying to please my mother and others (being too nice) when I should’ve been focused on why God sent me here.
The devil knows who we are when we’re born so he has his agents on us from birth. When you’re chosen…there will be a lifetime of pain.
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I’m 2 weeks into an apartment with my 21 month old daughter after leaving the home that I helped purchased with her father. I couldn’t take it anymore. The verbal abuse, the gaslighting, using me to get the home, having the baby via IVF because he was infertile bc his swimmers wasn’t swimming. He would post the very things I helped him get to social media, hiding me from the equation and saying he achieved it alone. I tried staying and did not want to leave my home, but I kept on getting signs that I needed to leave. UA-cam videos about moving, moving on etc kept on showing up on my TL. What did it for me was he went to Jamaica for his birthday last month for an alleged “solo trip” and he came back home bragging to the neighbors about having orgys out there with complete random women. I left and won’t be turning back!
I might've missed it by reading too fast, but what were the signs that God sent you (if any) before ignoring the signs and agreeing to be with that man?
@@sensimania I tried staying and many things about him was revealed. I can write a paper on it but more recently I was wresting with myself/ God about should I stay? Should I go and each time it would be something that came to the light about him. Finding out about the orgies in Jamaican then prior it was told to me that he was looking for a real estate attorney bc he was trying to screw me over on the home we purchased together. All this stuff came to the light. Prior to even getting back with him I was told 3 yrs ago that he would do everything he’s doing now. I was a big goofy for getting back with him!
@@sensimania A lot was revealed within my last few weeks in the home. I was at war with myself wresting myself and God trying to find every which reason to stay, but after finding out about the group smex in Jamaica after he was bragging about it to the neighbors, then I was told he was inquiring about about a real estate attorney, trying to somehow finesse me out of the home we both purchased. 3 years ago I was told not to get back with him bc he only wanted to rekindle to use me for my money and low behold. I used to always have dreams of him cheating as well and would wake up totally confused. Makes sense now.
@@sensimania I believe it was the UA-cam videos about moving that kept showing up on her page.
I wish you all the best, you do not deserve to be abused in your own home, which should be a place of peace.
The truth is you don’t know until you know. Please stop blaming yourself for “ignoring” red flags 🚩 that you truly did not know would end the way it did. Because if you knew for sure the pain it would cause you, you wouldn’t have done it in the first place.
Mm.... yes and no 🤔
You shouldn't blame yourself but you should learn to recognize these things
@ashleymandigo4406
Agreed. You don't know what you don't know. So you shouldn't beat yourself up for it. BUT, it is your responsibility to learn or pay attention and apply it.
@@ashleymandigo4406Ofc you *should* but moreso people should not be abusive to their partners ❤
I'm of the belief that some of the most obvious signs are how the person treats you: if they are unkind, disrespectful, dismiss your emotions, don't have empathy when you are having a hard time - that is enough of a sign to leave! You don't always need something supernatural to know.
BUT I will add that once, I went on a date with this guy, he seemed ok but I wasn't fully sure about him. So I asked God to show me if he's good for me or not.
A few days later he called my phone, I answered and I could hear his voice in the background shouting. "You little SH*T!!! You little motherf***er!!!".
This man had 2 small children - I knew this. One of the children had grabbed the phone and called me accidentally, just in time for me to hear him swearing and shouting at his small children. Literally cursing at them.
One of my dealbreakers is that I need to observe what kind of father he is to his kids. I realised this is how he would talk to me if we got into an argument, and this is how he would treat our future children. I decided there and then that it was over.
God told me to stay away from 2 different men at 2 different instances. I didn't listen, and the consequences were life-threatening each time.
God sees what you can't. God sees the motives, desires, intent, hurt, soul... you can't know what is going to happen. So trust the only one who does know. Because it will never be worth the consequence of ignoring the warnings.
My dreams are always telling me something. I was dating this guy and i dreamed that he turned into a demon. I think God was sending me other subtle hints but i wasn't picking up them but the dream totally woke me up. After we broke up, I felt this intense relieved and I was happy.
This happened to me too! I had a dream I was driving up this hill with him & I look over & he looked like this evil demon figure but it was still him.
Yes! He sends me dreams too. It's the primary way He warns me when I'm being hard headed or naive.
My dreams very rarely have specific men in them (aside from the general arbitrary figure in my nightmares).
Messenger dreams feel so different from normal dreams or nightmares.
The last man I wasn't supposed to be with was represented in a message dream as a lie. "The third lie will kill you." I had given this man two attempts at the time of this dream.
I had the same thing happen to me with my ex in college.
DISCERNMENT!
People, especially women, are in desperate need of this gift, especially in these times where people are getting increasingly selfish and diabolical.
Not only do we need it, we need to also train ourselves to actually listen to it. I hear so many horror stories of women who ignored red flags or unsettling feelings. Ignoring those signs could be a de@th sentence…
You always have to be on your guard with nen. There is slways, always some sort of agenda that they want to play out and need you to complete it.
Agreed.
Women have it. It’s a divine gift. Many ignore it. Rather listen to their flesh or outside forces
"Discernment" should be the word of the year for 2024
I always listen to my gut and my expertise. Never second guess yourself.
Amen
God literally dragged me out of toxic relationships by allowing the guys reject me, cuss me out, cheat on me and even abuse and abandon me. It really hurt at the time... But rembering the pain of what they put me through, stopped me from ever going back to them. They are now broke, busted and disgusted losers. Now I finally see what God was trying to show me, at the time, when I was trying to get with these bums. What was I thinking??.. Thank God for God.
Girl i felt this comment in my core!!!🙌🏾
OBSERVE OBSERVE OBSERVE!!!
I went on a date with this dude. We went sightseeing. I took a pic of him and he looked like a demon on this pic. Completely distorted and only recognizable by the clothes. I thought my phone was acting up, but the nexts pics I took were fine. He cheated on me and I dropped him. Come to find out this dude is a warlock and devil worshipper, whose been placing black magic and spells on me. I make sure to stay prayed up. Everything backfired on him. He's broke, unemployed and homeless and still tries to come for me, but my divine ancestors are gangsters....he just didn't know.
Gyal when I read tbisssss 🥵😳😳😳 the man was a warlock what a demon! TMH always protects his people trust and believe!
A warlock?? 😂 no offense just… 😅
I can relate to the last lady the most. A man chasing you for years only to be abusive towards you once he has you. And the lady whose lips were on fire. God makes the crown of my head burn when I'm making a poor decision and I'm in danger. I've only disobeyed this sign once, never again lol.
The crown of your head? That might be high blood pressure cuz bad men give women high blood pressure or messed up blood pressure.
@@Cateyes767Yeah I think quite a few of these are just stress responses! Like the lady with the 8 month period! Ma’am that was the stress!!
My intuition always Knew! Always felt off! He was absolutely gorgeous but my body never responded to him! Our first outing he got passed out drunk.. 2 years of intense love bombing to literally him telling me he was an energy vampire, cheated, lied, disrespected me.. & said he was only using me for my energy! Still in the process of healing from this NARCISSISTIC Man! Had sooo many signs! Thank you God for strength
Before my healing and radical self acceptance, this one guy I was dating claimed to be religious and involved in church. He pretended to be this virtuous, mild mannered & loving person. Turned out He love bomb tf outta me and was a disrespectful abusive asshole. The religious stuff is like a bait and switch for so many unsavory people.
The first red flag was that he couldn’t remember what his two bible verses tattoos on his arm say yet kept eagerly texting corny love poems to me each day. The second red flag was that his body scent gradually grew aggravating in the very short time we dated. He smelled like wonderful on our first date but it eventually changed. He started to stink badly to me despite not having an obvious hygiene issues. It was a weird indescribable musty old ppl odor. I believe his energy was affecting my body and senses bc I started to develop an unpleasant odor which is rare.
Scent is a great intuitive tool. Thats why we say "something dont smell right" metaphorically. I used to love my ex's natural body scent. Then once he crossed a line & I was done for good, his scent just stank to me lol
Girl I had to shampoo and steam clean everything when he was finally out the picture😩
Pray. Always pray.
Listen these days I don't play with God's signs. Because y'all I got signs about my ex and ignored them and have lived a miserable decade with this man (we have a child together)
The signs:
- the day we met for a date a voice SO LOUD in my head, heart and spirit said "walk away, don't do this date!". I ignored the voice
- after the date as we got out of the restaurant a bird pooed 💩 on this head. This is in city centre were there a many people who have never been pooed on
- weeks into the relationship I cooked for him. We both ate the meal, got so sick from the food. Literally both ends 💩 and 🤮 yet I was ok. I am a decent cook btw.
- we were in my car and had gone to pick up my brother to meet him. As soon as my brother got in the car he said "what's that dead smell?".
My ex caused my hell and still does cause me hell. I wish I had listened to these signs. The first two were strong.
I literally prayed for God to show me if the man I was with for 4-5 years was for me. Months later toward the end of the year, I find out that he was in a whole other relationship with another woman who was living with him. It wasn't really crazy but I had a feeling one day that he was living with someone & I found that out.
The 1st lady's story - that's how Reesa Teesa(?) started her story (Who TF Did I Marry?) . I'm sure she mentioned that there was a thunderstorm the first time she attempted to meet up with her husband to be. Did she also say she was in a car accident too? I can't remember, but.... yeah... she ignored those signs 😬
Her tyre blew on his way to their first date
@@TinfoilHatGirl Oh yes, that's right 👍
Wasn't reesa teesa in Georgia as well?
@@chrismixxsoundscreations827 Oh wow, was she? Quite a few coincidences, lol
I recently reconnected with an ex. I noticed that things in my life had these roadblocks, and suddenly one day as i was riding to work, i heard a voice that said "leave them alone!". I did, and those roadblocks were lifted like clockwork.
The first story freaked me out bc I was literally in that exact incident. Cleared all lanes from the far left in the rain. Idk how but only by the grace of God no one hit me as my car slid across the lanes to get to the grass. One of the scariest moments of my life. And yes. My dumb self STILL went to his house. Smh.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I had a very vivid dream about this new guy I wasn't sure about
He was moving way too fast with me
In the dream I was at a new home and he was trying to break in any and evey kind of way trying to unalive me
I was so scared in the dream and when I woke up
Cut him off after that
Wasn’t a relationship but the talking stage. I used to go to his workplace (a bar) just to talk to him. One night, I was waiting for him to finish up with customers and “Boy’s a Liar” started to play. The only lyrics that was clear as day to me were “the boy’s a liar.” I got a feeling in my soul that the universe was talking to me. Long story short, I cut him off after he tried to play games with me. Tried to make me “fight” for his affection. I suspected he was a red piller after that night. Now, when I see him out in public (we live in a small city) he won’t leave me alone. He doesn’t talk to me but he’s constantly lingering around where I am or staring at me. Creepy.
A lot of us miss that even though it’s nice to be desired, it’s a blessing in disguise to not be the one all men are seeking.
Absolutely! Always and in every single circumstance: Obey God!
God gave me many signs. Many i ignored and payed a high price. I listen now for sure and life is great. Jesus please take the wheel of my life, i dont mind being a passenger now 😅
Went to see a guy and missed my flight.. tried to go still and went on 5 planes with a bunch of turbulence. I felt God saying, leave him alone.
Women’s channels need more conversations about intuition and all the ways it manifests 💜 Intuition is #1 !
Yes. Got out of it & felt so much peace. Intuition was screaming for me to leave
Please tell me Im not the only one who GOT MY PERIODS minutes or hours before I arrived at the date, and still went on to open my heart to... a lying piece of a poopbag.
My body itself is rebuking these men from the beginning. I feel SLEEPY next to them and they feel energised next to me.
I've been getting irregular periods out of no where too!
Funny you say that, when he would stay the night he would say he slept like a baby, meanwhile, I always slept bad, kept tossing and turning and waking up.
Once I stopped dealing with him I've been able to catch up on THE BEST sleep of my life!
Ma’am 😦it’s been about 6 months
I’m going through this now with a”nice guy” he gives me off vibes
My Grandma had a dream about the man I was dating and told me he was no good and would miss treat me.Of course I didn’t listen and ended up having his baby. Once I got pregnant I knew my grandma was the right. I should have listened..
The thing is I was married to him and he used religion against me so many times. In my mind those signs to leave him couldn't have been from God. I'm glad I woke up.
I’m thinking about that Reesa T and Legion - she got a blown out tyre on her way to their first date 🤔🤔
I see things in dreams. In college I was dating a total shithead from high school. I was constantly having dreams in which I would look up into the sky as a big red airplane would explode right in front of me. I still have weird dreams about planes but NOTHING quite like that since we said adios.
Faint red flag 🚩 signalling that it would have gone up in flames
God is soo good! He is for you and he sees what you don’t, also , pray that you use wisdom from God over your emotions and desires cause the flesh is weak, it wasn’t what’s satisfying despite the consequences
This was great confirmation that the times things just didnt come to fruition w somebody for no apparent reason was actually a blessing in disguise 😌🙏🏾
Within a week of meeting my narc ex, God showed us driving together in a dream and a truck crashed into us and decapitated him. The dreams didn’t end until I left him
My longest relationship turned into a domestic violence situation after his pregnancy entrapment failed.
He was a narcissist,
volatile and extremely violent.
I had an outer body experience and saw a vision of my death caused by him beating me. I seen my father and friends that had passed. I woke up with bruises all over me.
This pushed me to leave.
This dream came after he had tried feeding me excuses after strangling me and leaving punched holes in the wall. I was in denial, and I wanted to disregard it. I was so in love, and I didn't want to experience the heartbreak.
I strongly believe I'd be dead if I had stayed.
Did you wake up with actual bruises ?
@@LolLol-jd2mx I did
It starts with prayer. That’s how I got my answer recently y’all. I promise the sooner you realize God is speaking, you save yourself from enormous heartbreak, and have your self worth INTACT
I honestly think the stillbirth of my first child was my way out of a situation with the Narc that is his father. I had no problems and while I was with him, was happy most of my first pregnancy. We conceived another but I’d left before I knew I was with child. I had a problem-free pregnancy but my life was a mess. It was at this time that I left him and returned to my home state. This baby made it and 16 years later, he’s in his room eating chips while I type this. But I raise him alone and with the hell-on-wheels their father is, the stress of single parenting is way better. He is no different and is seriously sadistic and evil. The Lord showed up while I’d be getting ready to sleep with him! I’d “shake it off”. That manchild put me THROUGH IT, then smeared my name.
ALWAYS listen to the Lord!
😂 man God gave me dreams and what happened in the dreams happened in real life which is one reason God is the true GOAT 😂
we like to over spiritualize everything, sometimes, we are just hard headed to leave these men!!! We think we can change them!!! lol, first red flag, LEAVE!! The are always signs even on the first date and encounter.. I had the same experience with the first lady but for me it was when my cousin and niece passed away, I was supposed to go see him over the weekend, after telling that what happened, he said "So I will not see you this weekend"? I still dated him for 3 months after that, until I found female shoes in his car.!! I was a bum!!! and when I think back, I should have left on our first date because he said some despicable things hahahaha!!
I feel you! I think back sometimes on all the scrap I put up with from men and say to myself, "damn girl, where was your self esteem?!"😂😆 But we all live and learn from these experiences.
TRUTH! ✊🏾❤️ GOD IS ALIVE AND WATCHING EVERYTHING…
I hear run ,and i did not and i am paying for it now we had son together he ruined all of my credit my God, my sisters that man will look after someone else children but not is own child he tell me to find somebody to take care of this son, i ask him at one time to support his son because i wanted to do a course. i tell him if he does that for two years when i am finish i will take care of my son by myself girls it is like i was talking to my enemy his look on his face alone tell me it all
Sorry it's this way 😓
They are like that, unfortunately. If you have a Bible, read (2 Timothy 3:1-5). It talks about the attitudes of people, and it’s exactly what I’ve witnessed to be true, again, unfortunately. It helps to keep things in perspective and the reality that some people are just truly evil and selfish in their heart. I pray you are able to find a way to provide for you and your child 🙏🏾💗
My daughter's father was the exact same way. He wouldn't help me with her AT ALL. I put him on child support, and he worked under the table as a barber so they could not track his money. He also got into a relationship with a woman with 4 children, and none was his. He was engaged to be married to her. I was in a relationship with him for 5 years, and he never proposed to me ( thank God) . Long story short, he was killed in a horrific drive by shooting that had nothing to do with him. He left behind 3 children that he had no relationship with.
Our daughter is 17 yrs old and graduates high school this year .
I wish I listened!!! But I didn't know then! I was so young but Source was SCREAMING at me to run! And I did eventually it just took 8 years! 😔😔
All i gotta say is SubhanAllah 🙌🏿
And When your inner saboteur is telling you you won’t find better,
Counter by visualizing better !!
👀 oh gosh my dude venus in Aquarius chileee. She's correct friends 1st.
But yeah if your body rejects rejects man you'll be allergic to them. I'm not allergic to this man but I did mention this to them. I don't like kissing and I like to know u blood type and kissing can show ur allergic to a man.
I'm an atheist, but there still are behaviors that folks should never put up with when they're in a relationship.
God told me not to give a cheater another chance, even my family disliked him, and I did it anyway. only to be dumped later, with him marrying someone else 😂 It took years to recover from that relationship.
The last lady was dating the devil. GOD had to speak to her from a different form.
I don't believe in small interventions like this. BUT do whatever helps you to get out of toxic relationships, we all see signs mainly because deep inside we are all suspicious , so it's basically you yourself give yourself the sign
I absolutely know that this is the truth... The one with the cycle, I had a similar experience, and the lady that prayed about it happened as well... Also the ph balance... Wheyou are God's child he will always do what he can to warn you before destruction... ❤❤❤
I’ve had my share of such experiences, and now when God tells me, I do(n’t do) it.
Me,me,me all the way. God should me the truth. OMG😢❤🙏🙏. Thanks god he did. Narcissistic is a dangerous person.. 1year and half i let him go. Thanks you god .😭😭🥰😘🙏
This video is supposed to be about how The Most High GOD warned people to not pursue a relationship. And you include a lady talking about worldly stuff; "her body's wisdom, Aquarius, etc." Why did you include her stitch? It doesn't belong. Satan always tries to steal GODs glory and praise by inserting itself. Or imitate GODs power. True believers know the deal. Don't get tricked by the ignorance of this videos creator and the deception of the evil one.
The first story, EHHHH? BUTTT THAT SECOND STORY?!! Yaaaah!
I know the rain in the Southeast. I was born in Alabama.
Now I'm in the Puget Sound, in Washington State. And people here complain about the rain. 😂
She was speeding on a rainy day and she skidded and that’s the ‘lord’ telling her not to go to her boyfriend?! She could’ve killed somebody on the road !
Funny. I've been trying to bounce, and crap keeps getting put in my way. Not little stuff, either. Here, have a major shoulder injury in your dominant arm so you can do nothing for yourself!
Someone put reesa teesa on the line😂
I tell my story on my channel under Miranda Sosa Patterson. I talk about how I really believe that I saved myself from being sacrificed in a ritual.
That one dude with the lady with the broken out mouth was doing stuff with dead people… 🙃
Whaat 😮
make part 2!
This is a sign 🙏🏾
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Oh damn, the 2nd girl, this happened to me. During this time of course he was dogging me out.
Nice video. 💕 (Small suggestion: leave out videos where people are eating).
12:01 I know thats right
Yeap!
God lol
I dreamt of his late dad telling me not to do it with a stern voice, to just stay away from him and his mother. Never saw his father a day in my life.
I am very much a spiritual woman and believe in God. But what we aren't going to do is blame the consequences of our dumb decisions on God. God is a God who will not force us to choose. You were with a self admitted narc. Chose to go out in a storm and drive 75MPH and God spared you. Instead of you realizing it was a sign to draw closer to Him and change your ways you want to attribute your consequences to God showing you something you already know 🤔 nah.
Its not god isn't real and if he'd want you to be with tha abusive man just read the bible
English please
Ok but god doesn’t exist so…….
Yeah, not in the way simple religions say. But synchronicity exists in the Universe. We are connected to everything, past, present, and future. Instincts are a part of that equation.
Oh, but He does!
You came to this conclusion, how?
Not true.