In Indonesia, most women lost their virginity after marriage, so basically it tooks by their husband only. Even at 30 there are a lot of them who dont know the feeling of having sex. Its not such a bad thing, because here still virgin is a cultural thing in most every ethnics or religion. Edit: Many of you guys have argue whether this info wrong or not, well I am Indonesian and have lived here for 26 yo. I have visited so many regions in Indonesia and have found a lot of girl especially in conservative or rural places still manage their virginity. Perhaps you will find modern young people in big cities are not virgin anymore, ok i agree. but compare to the whole population of teenagers, still, the virgin ones will be numerous. It is easier to find them. In case you ask the random person near the street about their sex life regardless their gender, you will find zero answer, they do not have it or even avoid to discuss it with you about it coz it taboo. Then this taboo thing makes people aware how sex before marriage is uncommon, and not their cultural rules. Anyway, I am also married to my husband as a virgin. although i have a boyfriend when i was in senior high school, but we didnot have a sex or even kiss. Me and my ex just sat down each other and shared everything, sometimes touched hand each other but thats all. No further heavy petting or even rent a room for having sex. This happened also to my sister, and many of my girl friends.
@@dewmee9133point is in many countries virginity more important than beaty or else thing ,me to living in that country im never gonna marry prostitution worker. i think do you get it the point my dear friend. this girls in video they are ruined their life at the beginning
It's one of the Japanese cultuew. Most of the smiles are a mask they put on for the society. In Japan, it's considered very rude, if you communicate with others emotionless or without a smile.
I guess the times have changed. As a male, I was FAR older than these girls were. It would have just been unthinkable to be sexually active at such young ages.
No the times didn't change. You just didn't find a woman who'd have it with you and you didn't put any effort to woo women to have it earlier. Women on the other hand get wooed by guys and don't woo guys to have it if they want to have it.
u sound miserable. u dont even know how old this guy was nor do you know who he was. if you think that you just have to woo a girl to get to sleep together then you might be not the best person out there. mind your words and be kinder. @@DiamondsRexpensive
At first I thought they would not open up since it's kind of a private talk...but not only did they talk about it but the whole conversation was so decent and cute to the core....All the young women were so adorable....loved it..❤
Cuteness can fool sometimes ! We could talk about incest in a romantic way like in a fairy tale ! Extra-Marital intimate relashionship are since the existence of Mankind wrong 🙂
Wow first experience is in junior high school to high school. Here in Korea, it is usually senior years in high school to college. Average age is 19-20.
I feel very confused about Japanese mentality about shyness. I find cute and funny a little bit of shame, but... I feel that the extreme shyness is a little bit fake and annoying. I don't want to offend anyone and I understand the big cultural differences among nations. But I can't imagine any person from any nation which are legitimately shy to the point that really can't take his/her hand from the face. I mean if you are indeed this shy then you don't even talk to camera. I don't. I'm very shy. But when sometimes happens to talk and decide to talk... I talk 🤷🏻
@white_tulip2189 I don't disagree. I just pointed that they look overacting to me. Also I can't speak to them, I can speak to you 🤷🏻 So... do youhave instagram? 😇
In Bangladesh both male and female wait until marriage. But some people don’t wait. Teenagers start dating from 14/15 but they don’t have sex. They usually hold hands or kiss But still some people have sex before marriage but it’s considered bad for both gender.
I am from Indonesia married to Japanese man. My friend from Philippines said my husband is lucky marrying me because I am still virgin when get married as many Japanese women lost virginity before getting married. I was very shocked hearing that, but then I wathced this video and shocked even more, how these girls are not shy telling the world that they lost their most precious things that they should give only to future husbands? Very weird world.
Not uncommon in western countries either. What's more surprising is Japanese culture being as conservative as they are, but their girls still having sex at such a young age.
one-third of Japan's unmarried adults under 50 have never dated. More than one-third of unmarried adults in their 20s to 40s have never been in a relationship and one-fourth have no intention of ever getting married, a recent survey found (jan 2024)
They are so cute and shy, still have an air of innocence about them. Is that christmas music I hear in background? I didn't know they celebrated or acknowledged Christmas in Japan.
I was 17, too. It's usually around that age when you start taking your first big steps into adulthood, whether you're a boy or a girl. You don't need to overthink it, just take the leap. But, make sure it's your choice and not because of pressure or desperation.
@Quasar900 how? sex is a natural thing. if both people are consenting and take the necessary precautions, there should be nothing wrong. not everyone has to adhere to your subjective view of sex and morality
I do not know if you are A young Mademoiselle or a young man , or if Tomita-chan and Kogamita -kun are Real or fictious , or if You are Japanese , but as an Adult and Middle aged man who do know 4 languages + some Japanese (unless you're western , I know more about west than you) ; I'd say to you : Depending on which language you do use for terms like '' Love '' , Your Understanding , evaluation and Moral view of such notion will differ in your mind ! Do you talk about '' Love '' according to today's western view of it ; ? Or it's about " 恋 って 愛 って なんだ？ " ? If you're Japanese and you know your history and importance of family , Men and women's humbleness and Modesty , then " 恋 ' will refer to that feeling of mutual love , care and faithfulness that a Man & Woman engage in a Marital union that tries to last for decades until death ! If you are referring to " Love" with 2010's western view , then any Affair would be considered a beautiful love story , and any ephemera passion between a man & woman without thinking about consequence to either of them would also be considered as a love story ! Morals make a lot of what we are as Humans ! Reservation & Modesty, if lost , life would become tasteless in many many aspects including love feelings (hence sex) ! Please try to reconsider your views ! どうもありがとう 🙂
@@Quasar900 Love knows no boundaries. In its embrace, all is permitted. This story is genuine, recounting the lives of two real individuals. My gender, age, and home country are irrelevant, as we all dwell within the vast realm of the internet. Thank you for reading the story of Tomita chan and Kogamita kun.
I love how all of these girls were so open and seemingly honest about their personal sexual experiences. After all, most were so young and giggly. IMO, the Asian culture typically doesn't lend itself to such openness regarding discussions of sex. For example, the girl who was so adamant about not kissing in public.
@michaelrutledge7048 Many Asian countries do not generally promote long deep kissing out in public places. There are exceptions, but as a general rule you may see couples kissing but it won't be in open view in a mall. A hug and quick kiss yes, but nothing that would be considered too promiscuous.
Here in Central Asia (Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan and also Uyghurs) if u aren’t virgin, many men won’t like to marry with you, they will be disappointed. And in Uzbekistan, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan it’s even more terrible because men kill women because they didn’t have blood. They do not understand that blood isn’t a sign of purity and virginity… so probably sex education is important. because many were virgins but were kicked out or killed. This is so unfair. Same story in Caucasus (Azerbaijan, Armenia, Dagestan, Chechnya, Ingushetia) ….
As an uzbek woman i say you are a lier. First of all no woman has been killed because of not being virgin. Secondly why on earth the marriage should begin with a lie??? if a girl doesn't tell she is not a virgin before the marriage while she knows her groom-to-be wants a virgin wife and assumes she is a virgin then she deserves the most atrocious things of this life. Because you dont know how much men spend to marry a virgin and how much they work to earn this money. When it comes to the blood in the wedding night, for my 30 year life i have never heard an uzbek woman got kicked out because of the absence of blood in the wedding night although they had been a virgin. Even though such kind of thing happeened somewhere in uzbekistan, it doesn't give you a right to tarnish the name of the whole country. Because it is an extremely extremely rare case.
@@lolopepe6982 I am not about Russified Central Asians. I am about real Central Asians. It’s not about u, shut up. But Russians laugh at Uzbek, Tajik builders 👷♂️ and humilate ur people. And u stupid really wanna be like Russians😂 I know many Uzbeks and they are very traditional and conservative. They are good daughter in laws, good wives. I am not about u.
That's true, Uzbeks are concerned with having a virgin woman as wives. Not kill of course, but a great shame on the name of a girl who turned out opposite.
Most Nice guy do still virgin Until I think about sex when I 26 year old virgin that I will have sex that year no matter what because I haven't found anyone, after that thinking I was bad , eventually got sex at 26 years of age Now 27 I would like to tell guys that dating market in conservative society is harsh Girls can have long hairs, why not men means Women seek freedom and they are passive in nature So it better to have casual sex, bro just try to give geniune honest interest, talk touch , remeber there no is always TRY more, give them some effort Don't forget DONT WAIT FOR THE 1 WAITING WILL GIVE YOUR AGE PAAS BY IDEAL WOMEN IS JUST COPE REAL LIFE ISNT FAIRYTALE JUST GIVE GENIUNE INTEREST THEY WILL FEEL FOR FOR YOU
having multiple relationships in past i think makes the current relationships fragile like how many girls would gladly go to their first one without a doubt
When Philippines not westernized, they lost only virginity after marriage(because of culture) but now depend on place... Visayas region maybe 13-17yrs old but in northern luzon(not Manila), during college school coz no parent guided them, its 17-24yrs old..
Virginity is a dignity for single women in Indonesia and in the Islamic religion, not being a virgin means you are a widow if you are married, if you are not, it means you are committing adultery, and adultery is a sinful and shameful act.
Mmmm. So tell me why are there so many Muslim prostitutes at the border between West and Central Java to cater for truck drivers? Also, adultery is when you are married and have sex with someone not your spouse. Try again.
@@Intro-r7j Of course, this video is shown to the general public, conveying a culture, of course those who don't agree with this culture will convey their rejection. for those who agree it is different, and those who disagree should not be forced to agree either, because they have strong reasons both socially and logically, we as human beings have a rational mind.
@@Bedtime024 My culture as a buddhist is also the same in my country we value virginity we save ourselves for our partner only generally,Adultery is considered a sin but not an offense in the legal framework of the country because not only buddhists live in my country But personally I do not want to tell it the world. Polygamy is not accepted in my culture also. But I do not want to say it to the other Wagging your religious believes not appropriate in this
For me, because there are two types of topics that are referred to, they are human affairs, sex education is natural for people who are virgins or not because they study it and plan to start a family if you are going to start a family and that of religion you have to keep and hold back at all times and only one woman or wife should be if you are a Christian and she is the only one you will serve, it is not bad if she is a virgin or not, as long as the command is that if she is of the right age or old, mature, she can marry or do family...❤❤❤
For most females they do not "lose" their virginity. Rather they choose to "give it" to someone. There is a big difference between involuntarily losing something and voluntarily giving something.
@@aaronkerrigan241 perhaps the title the video escaped your attention. It clearly stated Japanese *girls losing* their virginity. So your gender bias argument is null and void. It is not simping to say that in most cases females choose to _give_ their virginity. If it is not given willingly then it is called rape. If you cannot understand this distinction then I pity you. I suppose the same thing can be said for males to, but the incident of forcible rape is lower for males. Although I believe it still can happen. And please grow up and find another word for simp.
@@aaronkerrigan241 thank you for proving my point. I think perhaps you did not watch the video because no males were interviewed. Only females were interviewed. Case closed.
It’s a turn of phrase commonly spoken in English, one would not say ‘I gave my virginity’ but would say ‘I lost my virginity’. It’s simply the way it is referred to amongst native English speakers.
Here in the Philippines, 18 years old is legal. In old ways we follow a tradition Married first before sex, but in this new Generation Lot of young women had been already lost their Virginity and its very normal here both partners Prepared to live-in. It's avery rare but it's the truth and it's very sad when their relationship is not healthy any more its easily to Separate with out no divorce, no Annulment in short no legally process.
@@rosea1021many will follow. I’m in a country that I don’t hear girls losing their virginity daily or monthly. I didnt know many girls lose their virginity at that age. I think sex is illegal in my country for minors under 18. I think it’s higher than that
@@Japanesegirlsinterview your welcome as a guy who never dated or sadly gave up on the idea it's great others can experience the joy of falling in love with another person.
Thank you for the video content! Something to consider It’s a little hard to hear the interviewer and the background noise is a little loud. Keep working hard!
@@JapanesegirlsinterviewYou did great. I was impressed by your confidence in approaching such a sensitive topic with strangers. And we know that you can't control the crowd around you. Well, maybe not everyone gets that, but you really shouldn't worry about them.
Don't let them fool you keep your virginity for your lifelong soulmate in marriage or you'll regret it love is never the same if your husband take your virginity you'll have a special place in his heart
sick idea, need learn and make sex many boyfriends before marry lot better life,sex life, marry hysband and make him happy better have good skill first how make itself and husband happy, idiot keep virginity after marry then not know anythin how make sex and make husband good and how make itself happy too.
What the girls introduced in this video say is not surprising, but I don't think it applies to the average Japanese woman. There are differences depending on the family environment, whether the school was co-educational or an all-girls school, whether it was a public school or a private school, and whether it was in the city or in the countryside. The average age for Japanese girls to lose their virginity is between 18 and 19, which means that most girls lose their virginity after entering university, and only one or two girls in their class finish their sexual experience in junior high school.
virginity is not important.. but once we grow older and mature.. this is also not important.. why? because I love.. I don't care about the past.. I just wanna be the last..
Why you focus only on the women the guys did too. You are sick if you only judge women. Rotten brain if that’s only you care about. Grow up! Humans, relationships and life is more than that.
I was 7 years old when I lost my virginity. My parents would go to work. and my aunti who lived with us and did not work and got drunk all the time. Would baby sit me. She use to wake me up in the middle of the night and be like "wake up it time to play a game".
The girl that said that she lost her virginity at 14 got me shocked because I’m 17 years old and I haven’t even lost my virginity I feel proud of that too lol 😂 I guess everyone is different 🥹
I lost my virginity with a' working lady' at 20 in Amsterdam, The Netherlands. The lady was a good 10 years older than me and after explaining it was my first time and I was nervous she looked after me, I relaxed and I performed to completion. The experience was ok, not great but I got much better and have really enjoyed it over the years. I still do. I am glad to say I have fathered two sons but fantasize about having more offspring.
I am from India and I lost my virginity when I was in my teens. Actually 17 to 18 since the day I had my "first sex" was just the day after my birthday. Culture is definitely conservative here, but, you don't have to worry much since all that people do is to bad mouth you from behind. In the metro cities they don't really care.
And you are wrong some boys do this with a lot of girls you can't justify it with both genders and if you are a so-called open minded person please consider talking about this with your parents because in our country parents have an important place in our life and we are not like the west hope your parents feel proud
Even urban city people are also doing it before marriage. It's becoming a common thing in India too. Yeah they keep it secret from families and society but yeah it happens and is common.
@FreeBird_07 Rural people actually do it more than urban people. Anyone who finds my info shocking can do their own research on Google. I received a recent news from a rural area (from a maid working at one of my neighbour's home) where a woman of somewhat 15 years old was caught having sex with her boyfriend. Well, speaking of the boy, I will spare you the soul-cracking details.
I think 16/17 years old is still too early... I'm from Brazil and I am 20 years old. Most of my friends didnt have it yet. But the three girls that I know who had sex, they were 18 or more (and were brides ou turned brides short time after having it)
I am Muslim and it is haram to lose virginity before marriage. For me this is so beautiful to keep yourself for your lifelong Suppose. I got married at the age of 23 and my husband was my first boyfriend before our marriage we had dated 3 years but sexual life started after our marriage now we have a daughter and a son. We love each other❤❤❤
Making out with another man is crazy Why dont they save it for marriage , they are so young with they loose uh this generation is messed up 💔 they all look so innocent
Everyone marry at different age. Everyone has different life goals. If u r a carrier person, you may get married late because u will need time to build ur carrier. So there are people who want to enjoy life but don't want to take responsibility until they're sure. So it's OK if they choose it to let it have before marriage rather than waiting years to do so and miss all the opportunities and pleasures they can have. And it's definitely not CRAZY.
It's fine even at 13. 13 may or may not be the start of puberty. Anyway, they need the kids since their birth rate is really low. 18 is just ludicrous.
@@Disgracefool so your solution to Japan low birth rate is girls having sex at 13 to be mothers before 14? Kids this age are not emotionally ready for sex nor to be parents.
@@alisuyuti1760 Bro, if you write such things then everyone will be offended. Women are revered as goddesses in our religion. If a girl loses her virginity, is she a second hand product? Then what about boys. According to this, this should apply to boys also. We should respect women.
The best thing about this video is that how you ask such question and at the same time making them feel comfortable.......
Oh thank you so much!!
I’m glad to hear that!!!
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@@Japanesegirlsinterview I want a Japanese woman that perfer blackman. And not Chinese or Mexican
@@Japanesegirlsinterview I live in Massachusetts I'm yours 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
@real_experience01 Hah is that uniqueness she lost their husbands gift
In Indonesia, most women lost their virginity after marriage, so basically it tooks by their husband only. Even at 30 there are a lot of them who dont know the feeling of having sex. Its not such a bad thing, because here still virgin is a cultural thing in most every ethnics or religion.
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Many of you guys have argue whether this info wrong or not, well I am Indonesian and have lived here for 26 yo. I have visited so many regions in Indonesia and have found a lot of girl especially in conservative or rural places still manage their virginity. Perhaps you will find modern young people in big cities are not virgin anymore, ok i agree. but compare to the whole population of teenagers, still, the virgin ones will be numerous. It is easier to find them. In case you ask the random person near the street about their sex life regardless their gender, you will find zero answer, they do not have it or even avoid to discuss it with you about it coz it taboo. Then this taboo thing makes people aware how sex before marriage is uncommon, and not their cultural rules. Anyway, I am also married to my husband as a virgin. although i have a boyfriend when i was in senior high school, but we didnot have a sex or even kiss. Me and my ex just sat down each other and shared everything, sometimes touched hand each other but thats all. No further heavy petting or even rent a room for having sex. This happened also to my sister, and many of my girl friends.
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it's better that now, you know,,,that's why marriage after 20, is appreciated
@@Lilylily-y5t whats your point then
what you understood
@@dewmee9133point is in many countries virginity more important than beaty or else thing ,me to living in that country im never gonna marry prostitution worker. i think do you get it the point my dear friend. this girls in video they are ruined their life at the beginning
Quick and to the point 👍
They are honest and shy while in interview
they are not shy LMAO. they only pretend to be shy so they look innocent 😂.
I was completely surprised by how young most of them were. Japanese women are so beautiful, it’s so cute how they hide their mouth when they laugh.
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because they were sucking a lot of
young, but mature...
because of ugly teeth
It's one of the Japanese cultuew. Most of the smiles are a mask they put on for the society. In Japan, it's considered very rude, if you communicate with others emotionless or without a smile.
I’m 19 and still a virgin, I’m from South America (Guyana 🇬🇾). I haven’t had my first kiss and neither have I had a boyfriend.
Really really good 😊 don't do anything before marriage
@@muslimanoor7718 I will wait until marriage. 😊
Gurl me too...And I am from India...I've had 2 bfs but...long distance
@@jwl7293 My ethnicity is East Indian, my ancestors were indentured labourers brought to South America from India by the British.
@@Princess-g5s Nice!! I have wanted to trace my ancestry from so long...
Glad they looked and felt comfortable with the interviews.
😂😂😂
First 2 girls were such sweethearts! They still want their first man how cute of them!
Bro they literally lost it at age of 14 and 15. 😅
That age is super common here in the EU (Bulgaria)
I guess the times have changed. As a male, I was FAR older than these girls were. It would have just been unthinkable to be sexually active at such young ages.
No the times didn't change. You just didn't find a woman who'd have it with you and you didn't put any effort to woo women to have it earlier. Women on the other hand get wooed by guys and don't woo guys to have it if they want to have it.
@@DiamondsRexpensive Actually the times have changed. Are you really old enough to remember how things were back then?
@@DiamondsRexpensive 💯
u sound miserable. u dont even know how old this guy was nor do you know who he was. if you think that you just have to woo a girl to get to sleep together then you might be not the best person out there. mind your words and be kinder. @@DiamondsRexpensive
@@DiamondsRexpensive becasue a lot of ppl dont follow sick culture 🤢
Hey disregard the other comments, this was wonderful journalism! They felt at peace answering. Good video!
Ohhh thank you so much !!!
I’ll keep trying my best !
@@Japanesegirlsinterview I loooove Japanese women alot I want a Japanese woman that perfer blackman and doesn't date Chinese or Mexican
@@JuniorCrute-ht7sswtf 😂😂😂
@@JuniorCrute-ht7ss wtf bro. Delete this😂😂
At first I thought they would not open up since it's kind of a private talk...but not only did they talk about it but the whole conversation was so decent and cute to the core....All the young women were so adorable....loved it..❤
Cuteness can fool sometimes !
We could talk about incest in a romantic way like in a fairy tale !
Extra-Marital intimate relashionship are since the existence of Mankind wrong 🙂
I like your profile pic 😊
@@ForEternia Thank you 🙂
@@ForEternia انا اخاف من المراة و قبلاتها و احضانها !
Wow first experience is in junior high school to high school. Here in Korea, it is usually senior years in high school to college. Average age is 19-20.
The situation in Korea is very interesting.
I will do an interview in Korea someday.
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that's for better actually if you know
Definitely not true…usually high school for everyone everywhere
@@openranks4519 There are Koreans who lost it during high schools. It just that in Korea, college years are the most common times to lose the V card.
Korea is Christian, Japan is not.
Korea, like America, stigmatize the habit.
I feel very confused about Japanese mentality about shyness. I find cute and funny a little bit of shame, but... I feel that the extreme shyness is a little bit fake and annoying. I don't want to offend anyone and I understand the big cultural differences among nations. But I can't imagine any person from any nation which are legitimately shy to the point that really can't take his/her hand from the face. I mean if you are indeed this shy then you don't even talk to camera. I don't. I'm very shy. But when sometimes happens to talk and decide to talk... I talk 🤷🏻
It's not shyness, it's privacy.
They dont realise they are this shy. I constantly get asked why I am acting so shy when to me I just feel a little awkward.
@white_tulip2189 you are cute though 🙄
@@Giogiopapadopoulos yes i am, but so are they
@white_tulip2189 I don't disagree. I just pointed that they look overacting to me. Also I can't speak to them, I can speak to you 🤷🏻 So... do youhave instagram? 😇
In Bangladesh both male and female wait until marriage.
But some people don’t wait.
Teenagers start dating from 14/15 but they don’t have sex. They usually hold hands or kiss
But still some people have sex before marriage but it’s considered bad for both gender.
I am from Indonesia married to Japanese man. My friend from Philippines said my husband is lucky marrying me because I am still virgin when get married as many Japanese women lost virginity before getting married. I was very shocked hearing that, but then I wathced this video and shocked even more, how these girls are not shy telling the world that they lost their most precious things that they should give only to future husbands? Very weird world.
Thank You I enjoyed the video! ❤
That girl at 0:20 lost her virginity at 14? Wtf! Can't believe that even some minor women in japan wanted to lost their virginity at that young age
In my country, most women lose their virginity at 15. (CANADA)
At least she lost it to a minor.
Not uncommon in western countries either. What's more surprising is Japanese culture being as conservative as they are, but their girls still having sex at such a young age.
Me at 12...
14-16 rather typical
@0:48 secs that girl who said she was 30 yrs old woo hoo she looked so much younger! Beautiful girl❤
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she is amazing
we had a great time
Yes, they look young, my Thai GF/Fiancée is 54, she looks 35, but I do too, 53, no grey hair, thin and fit, and not balding....I wanted an equal :)
one-third of Japan's unmarried adults under 50 have never dated. More than one-third of unmarried adults in their 20s to 40s have never been in a relationship and one-fourth have no intention of ever getting married, a recent survey found (jan 2024)
I havent seen that survey... but let me guess the majority from the survey were "men"?
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Based on Mainstream Media😂😂😂
What survey is this ?? What's the source ? Any citations ?
Are they still virgin? 😅
They are so cute and shy, still have an air of innocence about them. Is that christmas music I hear in background? I didn't know they celebrated or acknowledged Christmas in Japan.
I was 17, too. It's usually around that age when you start taking your first big steps into adulthood, whether you're a boy or a girl. You don't need to overthink it, just take the leap. But, make sure it's your choice and not because of pressure or desperation.
That's Immoral !
@Quasar900 how? sex is a natural thing. if both people are consenting and take the necessary precautions, there should be nothing wrong. not everyone has to adhere to your subjective view of sex and morality
@@愛子-t8n Are you Japanese or from Europe ?
Cause depending on your answer , my reply will differ too (cultural aspects) 🙂
I do not know if you are A young Mademoiselle or a young man , or if Tomita-chan and Kogamita -kun are Real or fictious , or if You are Japanese , but as an Adult and Middle aged man who do know 4 languages + some Japanese (unless you're western , I know more about west than you) ; I'd say to you :
Depending on which language you do use for terms like '' Love '' , Your Understanding , evaluation and Moral view of such notion will differ in your mind !
Do you talk about '' Love '' according to today's western view of it ; ? Or it's about " 恋 って 愛 って なんだ？ " ?
If you're Japanese and you know your history and importance of family , Men and women's humbleness and Modesty , then " 恋 ' will refer to that feeling of mutual love , care and faithfulness that a Man & Woman engage in a Marital union that tries to last for decades until death !
If you are referring to " Love" with 2010's western view , then any Affair would be considered a beautiful love story , and any ephemera passion between a man & woman without thinking about consequence to either of them would also be considered as a love story !
Morals make a lot of what we are as Humans !
Reservation & Modesty, if lost , life would become tasteless in many many aspects including love feelings (hence sex) !
Please try to reconsider your views !
どうもありがとう
🙂
@@Quasar900 Love knows no boundaries. In its embrace, all is permitted. This story is genuine, recounting the lives of two real individuals. My gender, age, and home country are irrelevant, as we all dwell within the vast realm of the internet.
Thank you for reading the story of Tomita chan and Kogamita kun.
I love how all of these girls were so open and seemingly honest about their personal sexual experiences. After all, most were so young and giggly. IMO, the Asian culture typically doesn't lend itself to such openness regarding discussions of sex. For example, the girl who was so adamant about not kissing in public.
@michaelrutledge7048
Many Asian countries do not generally promote long deep kissing out in public places. There are exceptions, but as a general rule you may see couples kissing but it won't be in open view in a mall. A hug and quick kiss yes, but nothing that would be considered too promiscuous.
Here in Central Asia (Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan and also Uyghurs) if u aren’t virgin, many men won’t like to marry with you, they will be disappointed. And in Uzbekistan, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan it’s even more terrible because men kill women because they didn’t have blood. They do not understand that blood isn’t a sign of purity and virginity… so probably sex education is important. because many were virgins but were kicked out or killed. This is so unfair. Same story in Caucasus (Azerbaijan, Armenia, Dagestan, Chechnya, Ingushetia) ….
As an uzbek woman i say you are a lier. First of all no woman has been killed because of not being virgin. Secondly why on earth the marriage should begin with a lie??? if a girl doesn't tell she is not a virgin before the marriage while she knows her groom-to-be wants a virgin wife and assumes she is a virgin then she deserves the most atrocious things of this life. Because you dont know how much men spend to marry a virgin and how much they work to earn this money. When it comes to the blood in the wedding night, for my 30 year life i have never heard an uzbek woman got kicked out because of the absence of blood in the wedding night although they had been a virgin. Even though such kind of thing happeened somewhere in uzbekistan, it doesn't give you a right to tarnish the name of the whole country. Because it is an extremely extremely rare case.
@@lolopepe6982 I am not about Russified Central Asians. I am about real Central Asians. It’s not about u, shut up. But Russians laugh at Uzbek, Tajik builders 👷♂️ and humilate ur people. And u stupid really wanna be like Russians😂 I know many Uzbeks and they are very traditional and conservative. They are good daughter in laws, good wives. I am not about u.
That's true, Uzbeks are concerned with having a virgin woman as wives. Not kill of course, but a great shame on the name of a girl who turned out opposite.
Dyammm!! I am 27 and still virgin 🫣🥲😶🌫️
Same bro
Me too, 24 now going to 25 next month👀
that's normal
Most Nice guy do still virgin
Until I think about sex when I 26 year old virgin that I will have sex that year no matter what because I haven't found anyone, after that thinking
I was bad , eventually got sex at 26 years of age
Now 27
I would like to tell guys that dating market in conservative society is harsh
Girls can have long hairs, why not men means
Women seek freedom and they are passive in nature
So it better to have casual sex, bro just try to give geniune honest interest, talk touch , remeber there no is always TRY more, give them some effort
Don't forget DONT WAIT FOR THE 1 WAITING WILL GIVE YOUR AGE PAAS BY
IDEAL WOMEN IS JUST COPE
REAL LIFE ISNT FAIRYTALE
JUST GIVE GENIUNE INTEREST
THEY WILL FEEL FOR FOR YOU
i'll fix it for you. most losers are virgin. there@@agabsnl3607
Why are they covering there mouths in the interview starting at 5:28?
I think they are ashamed of their smile
How japanese girls use the smile and the giggle and the cute antics as a mask of sorts?
They use smiles, giggles, and cute antics to appear more attractive.
My neck would be broken looking at all the beautiful women in Japan.
lmao
Nowadays staying virgin or not before getting married both have a pros and cons so no one can say that one is better than the other.
What do you think these pros and cons are?
@@sajaahmed5024 no STD,
no one can accuse you of r*pe, pregancy, fathering a child, (prove it with a pregancy test)...
Какие конкретно?
@@IntrovertEnd pro- no pregnancy, no disease, no regrets;
con- never getting that feeling of (____) (don't know yet- im still a virgin).
having multiple relationships in past i think makes the current relationships fragile like how many girls would gladly go to their first one without a doubt
N'importe quoi ça na rien a voir . c'est quoi c'est discours ridicule
@@nekosan7366 he is actually right
When Philippines not westernized, they lost only virginity after marriage(because of culture) but now depend on place... Visayas region maybe 13-17yrs old but in northern luzon(not Manila), during college school coz no parent guided them, its 17-24yrs old..
Filipinas are known for promiscuous behaviours
28 yrs old .and still virgin.Manila, philippines
Virginity is a dignity for single women in Indonesia and in the Islamic religion, not being a virgin means you are a widow if you are married, if you are not, it means you are committing adultery, and adultery is a sinful and shameful act.
sso much religion has to answer for!!!
Mmmm. So tell me why are there so many Muslim prostitutes at the border between West and Central Java to cater for truck drivers?
Also, adultery is when you are married and have sex with someone not your spouse.
Try again.
It is your religion , keep your religious believes to yourself
Others do not need to follow your standards
@@Intro-r7j Of course, this video is shown to the general public, conveying a culture, of course those who don't agree with this culture will convey their rejection. for those who agree it is different, and those who disagree should not be forced to agree either, because they have strong reasons both socially and logically, we as human beings have a rational mind.
@@Bedtime024 My culture as a buddhist is also the same in my country we value virginity we save ourselves for our partner only generally,Adultery is considered a sin but not an offense in the legal framework of the country because not only buddhists live in my country
But personally I do not want to tell it the world.
Polygamy is not accepted in my culture also.
But I do not want to say it to the other
Wagging your religious believes not appropriate in this
is this something wrong with my monitor or most of the girls in your videos have some issues with the teeth? they look yellow
yes they're yellowish
Absolutely Outstanding Interview
Thank you so much!!!!!
Stage managed.. after prior briefing .
I wonder, did the interviewer only upload people who had done this, or did everyone he interviewed have done it?
After watching this video, many questions arose in my head. Does it only happen in big cities like Tokyo or does it happen to most Japanese people?
Thank you for uploading videos like this, I became aware of various cultures in the world.
As someone who doesn't like to lose...
☆*:.｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆
thank you for your comment!
For me, because there are two types of topics that are referred to, they are human affairs, sex education is natural for people who are virgins or not because they study it and plan to start a family if you are going to start a family and that of religion you have to keep and hold back at all times and only one woman or wife should be if you are a Christian and she is the only one you will serve, it is not bad if she is a virgin or not, as long as the command is that if she is of the right age or old, mature, she can marry or do family...❤❤❤
from Nagaland watching ur channel
I must say japan is advanced in everything including virginity too 😁
Yeah, they do push it forward a bit, but not That much. They are just a few years later than us up in West Europe.
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😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
For most females they do not "lose" their virginity. Rather they choose to "give it" to someone. There is a big difference between involuntarily losing something and voluntarily giving something.
Thank you for your comment. @absurdnerd7624
@@aaronkerrigan241 perhaps the title the video escaped your attention. It clearly stated Japanese *girls losing* their virginity. So your gender bias argument is null and void.
It is not simping to say that in most cases females choose to _give_ their virginity. If it is not given willingly then it is called rape. If you cannot understand this distinction then I pity you.
I suppose the same thing can be said for males to, but the incident of forcible rape is lower for males. Although I believe it still can happen.
And please grow up and find another word for simp.
@@aaronkerrigan241 thank you for proving my point. I think perhaps you did not watch the video because no males were interviewed. Only females were interviewed. Case closed.
It's the same s&>t, no matter how you look at it bro
It’s a turn of phrase commonly spoken in English, one would not say ‘I gave my virginity’ but would say ‘I lost my virginity’. It’s simply the way it is referred to amongst native English speakers.
Here in the Philippines, 18 years old is legal. In old ways we follow a tradition Married first before sex, but in this new Generation Lot of young women had been already lost their Virginity and its very normal here both partners Prepared to live-in. It's avery rare but it's the truth and it's very sad when their relationship is not healthy any more its easily to Separate with out no divorce, no Annulment in short no legally process.
Bro , is this allowed by lord jesus?is bible give permission?
@@narutokun5765 they lost their morals, I don't know if we can still teach a child self respect and preserve their virginity, maybe a few will follow
@@rosea1021many will follow. I’m in a country that I don’t hear girls losing their virginity daily or monthly. I didnt know many girls lose their virginity at that age. I think sex is illegal in my country for minors under 18. I think it’s higher than that
🎉 happy for them to experience a emotion I never had a history of.
Thank you for your comment!
@@Japanesegirlsinterview your welcome as a guy who never dated or sadly gave up on the idea it's great others can experience the joy of falling in love with another person.
@@unisangalaxystudio That's the g4yest shi I've ever heard :0
nice interview
I am 43 India unmarried still virgin
God sent messengers to worship Him and not to worship trees, animals or idols. Allah . The true god .
So am I but I don't care. Because it's my choice and desire to remain single for life. Singlehood is freedom.
That's sad.
@@Dynamatrix2000 not,, really...
(you didn't discover a new feeling- i never did it, i don't know, either), and you are still pure..)
@@Hbss9our god himself came to earth. Okay so don't lecture us. Keep your allah.
Thank you for the video content! Something to consider It’s a little hard to hear the interviewer and the background noise is a little loud. Keep working hard!
Thank you for your comment!
I'll keep trying my best!
@@JapanesegirlsinterviewYou did great. I was impressed by your confidence in approaching such a sensitive topic with strangers. And we know that you can't control the crowd around you. Well, maybe not everyone gets that, but you really shouldn't worry about them.
Don't let them fool you keep your virginity for your lifelong soulmate in marriage or you'll regret it love is never the same if your husband take your virginity you'll have a special place in his heart
sick idea, need learn and make sex many boyfriends before marry lot better life,sex life, marry hysband and make him happy better have good skill first how make itself and husband happy, idiot keep virginity after marry then not know anythin how make sex and make husband good and how make itself happy too.
What the girls introduced in this video say is not surprising, but I don't think it applies to the average Japanese woman. There are differences depending on the family environment, whether the school was co-educational or an all-girls school, whether it was a public school or a private school, and whether it was in the city or in the countryside. The average age for Japanese girls to lose their virginity is between 18 and 19, which means that most girls lose their virginity after entering university, and only one or two girls in their class finish their sexual experience in junior high school.
Why do they cover their mouths, someone please explain it to me?
Insecure of their teeth I guess
@@stilloj3070 got it but they look cute 😊
口をあけたり歯を見せて笑うのが少し下品に見られる傾向があるから癖でやる女性が多いと思う🙏
@@ましゅみかんVulgar? Why? Lol.
Very good question 😂😂😂😂😂 we are pleased to know about that.😅😅😅😅
Japanese girls are very straight forward...i loves it
Depends on the person. Everyone is different.
Will you marry japanese girls who lost V in 14 years.....???????
Straightforward? 😂😂 Japanese people in general are far from being straightforward.
The age of consent in Japan until very recently was 13. It was changed to 16 this year.
The First woman with the big Scarf is very very beautiful! The beauty mark on her left eye extenuates her hair. I cannot believe she's 30 years old!
They're so pretty and sweet. Good interview and reactions 👍
I really like some girls are taking their parents about this Matter also some don't but i respect those girls for being honest.
와. 질문의 강도가 정말. 쎈데요😊😊
What respect, they already lost their self respect.
@@rosea1021 🤡🤡🤡
are they really that shy
You have no idea😅
virginity is not important.. but once we grow older and mature.. this is also not important.. why? because I love.. I don't care about the past.. I just wanna be the last..
Yes actually l think like that too being first is not important being last is important
Is one night stands also common in Japan? Casuals?
for liberated only
Wooow
Amazing
Ohhh thank you so much!!!
Do all couples in Japan do this?
Most it seems
Are the Japanese this open talking about such private matters?
Of course not everyone!
Depends on the person. Everyone is different.
Super cute, super respectful 🌹🌹
Here in Brazil everyone loses their v card very young. Execept for me, i'm 19 and still virgin,lol.
When they loose their v ,?
0:55 *Are your senior kind?
*Is your senior kind?*
0:57 *Yes, she is a very kind.
*Yes, she is very kind.*
That means 90% women lost virginity in highschool life
welcome to 21st century
@@jakub-or2vk😂😂😂holy shittttt😑😑😑😑
Why you focus only on the women the guys did too. You are sick if you only judge women. Rotten brain if that’s only you care about. Grow up! Humans, relationships and life is more than that.
No, around me every girl is typically a virgin before marriage, it's in Japan too.
@@lincoqiewhich Prefecture?
I like Japanese women. They are happy. That's a good thing. If she's happy, I'm happy . ❤🎉
Ohh thank you so much!
As a Japanese woman, I'm glad to hear that.
Shut your mouth you simp lol
I am 73 and I still have mine 😊
Are you hoping to gain super powers in your next life?
Troll
@@avrgrando😂😂😂.
Good one.
WOW! that's cool if you are not lying
@@avrgrando 🤣🤣🤣
I want that first girls scarf. Its so cozy
In the states religious conservative woman, still wait till marriage.
Nice Channel subbed..
I lose my virginity at 27 only after marriage with my wife
I WAS 21 TO MY FIRST GIRLFRIEND THAT I MET IN 1965 MARRIED IN 1066 TILL SHE DIED IN JULY 2013
My Filipina wife lost her virginity at 20 and I am the one who took it 😂
I thought Japan was conservative but... Nah
What about your virginity???
I was 7 years old when I lost my virginity. My parents would go to work. and my aunti who lived with us and did not work and got drunk all the time. Would baby sit me. She use to wake me up in the middle of the night and be like "wake up it time to play a game".
The girl that said that she lost her virginity at 14 got me shocked because I’m 17 years old and I haven’t even lost my virginity
I feel proud of that too lol 😂 I guess everyone is different 🥹
I salute you for your self respect and self control in preserving your virginity. Hope many people still have this virtue.
Lol I'm 33 male .. still a virgin.
I'm 30🤣
Not only nepali peoples work in india. Many Indian's also works in nepal ...this must be noted mrs dhurv rathaee..
Lost virginity at young age so after marriage both are not attracted each other ? It seems USED ?
funny to think the random women would be honest about this topic🤣
I like japanese girl they are beautiful and fun girl so nice video too
Lust Your Virginity?
Is as the Topic Say's 👍🏼🤣👍🏼
They are lying.
No doubt that the age was about 11, 12, and 13.
Creepy AF
This could very well be the case. Western women lie about similar things all the time.
And enjo kosai is very real.
You sound like a creep to even care about this
@@defrank1870 Western women enjoy bbc at the age of 13 thanks to liberalism and US :)
@@defrank1870in short, girls menstruate, feel the urge to open their legs and can do so, without any difficulty
Bro 14 is insane
I lost my virginity with a' working lady' at 20 in Amsterdam, The Netherlands. The lady was a good 10 years older than me and after explaining it was my first time and I was nervous she looked after me, I relaxed and I performed to completion. The experience was ok, not great but I got much better and have really enjoyed it over the years. I still do. I am glad to say I have fathered two sons but fantasize about having more offspring.
I am from India and I lost my virginity when I was in my teens. Actually 17 to 18 since the day I had my "first sex" was just the day after my birthday. Culture is definitely conservative here, but, you don't have to worry much since all that people do is to bad mouth you from behind. In the metro cities they don't really care.
I am also a 19 year old boy from India and lossing virginity in this age with a chapri or any sex hungry boy is not cool .
And you are wrong some boys do this with a lot of girls you can't justify it with both genders and if you are a so-called open minded person please consider talking about this with your parents because in our country parents have an important place in our life and we are not like the west hope your parents feel proud
@Ashoka_The_Hero That's how YOU define your life. Not my problem as "cultural" stuff don't bind me. I am beyond that.
Even urban city people are also doing it before marriage. It's becoming a common thing in India too. Yeah they keep it secret from families and society but yeah it happens and is common.
@FreeBird_07 Rural people actually do it more than urban people. Anyone who finds my info shocking can do their own research on Google. I received a recent news from a rural area (from a maid working at one of my neighbour's home) where a woman of somewhat 15 years old was caught having sex with her boyfriend. Well, speaking of the boy, I will spare you the soul-cracking details.
Lose their things so early 🙀
Yeah, it was disappointing. They don't really have a sense of romance in the western sense. I speak from bitter s'experience
they didn't "lose" anything. virginity is a construct. your life doesn't change after you have sex
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Actually it is normal in this generation and century
@@Nnnn77-e1h actually, it depends upon an individual too though fashion and trend greatly get influenced....
I think 16/17 years old is still too early... I'm from Brazil and I am 20 years old. Most of my friends didnt have it yet. But the three girls that I know who had sex, they were 18 or more (and were brides ou turned brides short time after having it)
I am 33 still virgin what i do
I am Muslim and it is haram to lose virginity before marriage. For me this is so beautiful to keep yourself for your lifelong Suppose. I got married at the age of 23 and my husband was my first boyfriend before our marriage we had dated 3 years but sexual life started after our marriage now we have a daughter and a son. We love each other❤❤❤
The girl in the right place try hard to cover her bunny tooth ...
Lol Losing virginity in the age of 14,16,17 and still decreasing in birth rate in Japan... Wtf is going on 😂
they don't want the responsibility of raising children
Losing virginity and having children aren't two different things?
Like does having sex has to do anything with having kids?
I really wanna visit Japan.
No looser...36 and still haven't flirted back with a guy yet😊 Singling is good😊
USA and Japan are no different in terms of this topic.
Is that so?
yep both topples in degeneracy
Making out with another man is crazy Why dont they save it for marriage , they are so young with they loose uh this generation is messed up 💔 they all look so innocent
Everyone marry at different age. Everyone has different life goals. If u r a carrier person, you may get married late because u will need time to build ur carrier. So there are people who want to enjoy life but don't want to take responsibility until they're sure.
So it's OK if they choose it to let it have before marriage rather than waiting years to do so and miss all the opportunities and pleasures they can have.
And it's definitely not CRAZY.
Japan only raised the age of consent from 13!!! to 16 in 2023.
Thank you for your comment!
It's fine even at 13. 13 may or may not be the start of puberty. Anyway, they need the kids since their birth rate is really low. 18 is just ludicrous.
@@Disgracefool where’s 18 from?,its16.
@@apopisso6302 as in 18 is a common age of consent in the west which I deemed absurd as it was so many years after puberty.
@@Disgracefool so your solution to Japan low birth rate is girls having sex at 13 to be mothers before 14? Kids this age are not emotionally ready for sex nor to be parents.
I like the first girl,the 30 year old. She's very cute! 🥰🥰🥰🥰😘
First boyfriend: lucky to get prime product
Future husband: so pity to get waste product/second hand product
Woman it's not a product
Product?? Bro it means your mother also third hand product.
@@WnAdry it just figurative word to describe girl..or i have to write virgin/bitch to describe a girl that not polite
@@harshrawat962 are you offended with the word i say...
@@alisuyuti1760 Bro, if you write such things then everyone will be offended. Women are revered as goddesses in our religion. If a girl loses her virginity, is she a second hand product? Then what about boys. According to this, this should apply to boys also. We should respect women.
Iyem 29 and still virgin. What should I do.. almost 30s , still don't have BF
Relax, its okay
Life is not competition
[min 4:00] This girl looks like a doll..... kirei kirei.... honto desio' Domo arigatou !!
Thank you for your comment!!!!!!
I can't answer that yet.
In India, virginity lost in majority cases after marriage✌️💍
Stop living in fantasy
@@thelastknight9367 I said Majority and that's REALITY bro
@@gauravchaturvedi6080 yeah maybe in the rural areas.
Same here in Japan❤
@@lincoqie not same liar
As a male I lost it at 21 , it sucked a lot, because i did it with the wrong person