The Inner Game of Enjoyment - How to Develop an Autotelic Personality

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024

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  • @PewPewFig
    @PewPewFig 4 роки тому +3

    "Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world" - Miyamoto Musashi

  • @Sherryxx
    @Sherryxx Рік тому

    Brilliant video, thank you! This isn't talked about enough!

  • @ThePhiliposophy
    @ThePhiliposophy 4 роки тому +4

    I hope you will upload again. You are really good at this. Please keep at it! Your content is gold. Eventually more people will notice!

  • @lakaumbucha
    @lakaumbucha Рік тому

    He entered a state of flow
    It made hime fly away
    Been years and years since then
    Still waiting for a new upload I know will never happen

  • @movewithsean
    @movewithsean Рік тому

    Brilliant, thank you for this

  • @AntonMatthews
    @AntonMatthews 4 роки тому +1

    You have 0 dislikes and I hope you never do. Very useful and grounding video. Thank you

  • @bigm317
    @bigm317 2 роки тому

    This is actually gold glad I found this 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @TheShneek
    @TheShneek 6 років тому +2

    Great Job consolidating information on flow into a small video.
    I'm halfway way through "flow" and the book has blown my mind and filling in large gaps of my understanding of flow. I believe the book is going to leave out a few important details and I will likely make a video as well to add a few pieces of information to the subject.

    • @WarriorHabits
      @WarriorHabits  6 років тому +1

      Thanks MZ, Will be interested to watch that video once you've created it - let me know when it's up!
      As for the book - one of the best I've read in the past few years. Clarified a few misconceptions I had about happiness, enjoyment and so called "work".

  • @hoanggiang9424
    @hoanggiang9424 6 років тому +2

    Love you, man. I always think what you do is possible. Really really want everybody can do like you. Follow you. Goodluck

  • @Wingedmagician
    @Wingedmagician 5 років тому +2

    Thank you for making this. I felt a little left wanting after reading Flow (it’s my favorite book! But still)

  • @PewPewFig
    @PewPewFig 4 роки тому

    I don't want eternal bliss or happiness, I want eternal focus, laser like focus.

  • @cirquemedia
    @cirquemedia 4 роки тому

    Beautifully said. Well done kind sir.

  • @BartMamzer
    @BartMamzer 6 років тому +1

    Very interesting topic.
    I think people need to be good at sth, before they can enjoy doing them. It would be great to be able to have fun during an activity even before being good at it, it would make acquiring new skills a lot easier.
    The recap was really useful.
    I've been trying to do some meditation, but I'm struggling to make it a habit for some reason, probably due to lack of visible gains.

    • @WarriorHabits
      @WarriorHabits  6 років тому +1

      Regarding your first point about being good at something before you can enjoy it...
      I know what you mean.
      The immediate thing that springs to mind is salsa dancing. When I tried to dance salsa for the first time, I was stepping on people's toes, it was embarrassing, and I found the whole experience pretty awkward. But, when I think about it, that's probably because I was focusing my attention worrying about what other people might think of my body coordination.
      A better approach would have been to enter that first lesson with the goal of picking the basic steps up as fast as possible. To focus wholeheartedly on the movements that I'm trying to learn rather than giving mental bandwidth to what others are thinking about me.
      Csikszentmihalyi is trying to tell us that we can usually find ways of changing the way we think, even when we are participating in things that we are not good at, to garner more satisfaction and enjoyment out of it.
      Of course, everyone can enjoy being the best salsa dancer in the room at a Friday night party packed with people. But autotelics can also find a way of enjoying those first few lessons, too.
      Regarding meditation - it's one of the hardest things. Great point about visible gains. Do a set of curls, your biceps grow = positive reinforcement. Meditate for 10 minutes per day.... the gains aren't so noticeable, especially not straight away.

    • @BartMamzer
      @BartMamzer 6 років тому

      Yeah, it's all about the mindset. It's the hardest thing to change though:D

  • @carlosangel3647
    @carlosangel3647 6 років тому +1

    Great video. So much value, easy to understand, great examples and amazing overall production! Thanks! 😃

  • @baseeeem
    @baseeeem 5 років тому +1

    Epic video and epic editing, I recommend you to use the boom mic, it will give a much more realistic sound.

  • @sumitbhosale1807
    @sumitbhosale1807 4 роки тому

    awesome video....thanks a lot...it helped me a lot.
    I hope your channel grows......

  • @baseeeem
    @baseeeem 5 років тому +4

    Read the book Flow twice, excellent!

    • @WarriorHabits
      @WarriorHabits  5 років тому

      Agreed, it's one of the best I've read

  • @ajmarr5671
    @ajmarr5671 3 роки тому

    A novel procedure for developing an autotelic personality
    The ideal for any scientist with a great idea is to be able to explain it in a minute, and to confirm or falsify it as quickly. The world record for this arguably goes to the English philosopher Samuel Johnson, who rejected Archbishop Berkeley’s argument that material things only exist in one’s mind by striking his foot against a large stone while proclaiming, “I refute it thusly!”
    Here is a similarly novel and useful idea that can be confirmed or refuted with a proverbial swift kick, and can also be easily explained through affective neuroscience (links below).
    Basic Facts:
    Endogenous opioids are induced when we eat, drink, have sex, and relax. Their affective correlate, or how it ‘feels’, is a sense of pleasure.
    Fun Fact:
    When we are concurrently perceiving some activity that has a variable and unexpected rate of reward while consuming something pleasurable, opioid activity increases and with it a higher sense of pleasure. In other words, popcorn tastes better when we are watching an exciting movie than when we are watching paint dry. The same effect occurs when we are performing highly variable or meaningful activity (creating art, doing good deeds, doing productive work) while in a pleasurable relaxed state. (Meaning would be defined as behavior that has branching novel positive implications). This is commonly referred to as ‘flow’ or ‘peak’ experience.
    So why does this occur?
    Dopamine-Opioid interactions: or the fact that dopamine activity (elicited by positive novel events, and responsible for a state of arousal, but not pleasure) interacts with our pleasures (as reflected by mid brain opioid systems), and can actually stimulate opioid release, which is reflected in self-reports of greater pleasure.
    Proof (or kicking the stone):
    Just get relaxed using a relaxation protocol such as progressive muscle relaxation, eyes closed rest, or mindfulness, and then follow it by exclusively attending to or performing meaningful activity, and avoiding all meaningless activity or ‘distraction’. Keep it up and you will not only stay relaxed, but continue so with a greater sense of wellbeing or pleasure. In other words, this is a procedure to increase motivation to do meaningful work by increasing associated positive affect or pleasure, or making useful activity ‘autotelic’ or pleasurable in itself.
    A Likely Explanation, as if you need one!
    A more formal explanation from a neurologically based learning theory of this technique is provided on pp. 44-51 in a little open-source book on the psychology of rest linked below. (The flow experience discussed on pp. 81-86.) The book is based on the work of the distinguished affective neuroscientist Kent Berridge, who was kind to review for accuracy and endorse the work.
    Implications for ‘self-help’ from the neuroscience of incentives
    Affect in rest is labile, or changeable, and rest is not an inert and non-affective state. In addition, the modulation of pleasurable affect induced by rest is not dependent upon a species of attention (focal meditation, mindfulness meditation), but is ‘schedule dependent’, or correlates with the variability of schedules or contingencies of reward and the discriminative aspects of incentives (i.e. their cognitive implications). In other words, sustained meaningful activity or the anticipation of acting meaningfully during resting states increases the affective ‘tone’ or value of that behavior, thus making productive work ‘autotelic’, or rewarding in itself.
    References:
    Rauwolf, P., et al. (2021) Reward uncertainty - as a 'psychological salt'- can alter the sensory experience and consumption of high-value rewards in young healthy adults. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General (prepub)
    doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fxge0001029
    The Psychology of Rest
    www.scribd.com/doc/284056765/The-Book-of-Rest-The-Odd-Psychology-of-Doing-Nothing
    The Psychology of Incentive Motivation and Affect
    www.scribd.com/document/495438436/A-Mouse-s-Tale-a-practical-explanation-and-handbook-of-motivation-from-the-perspective-of-a-humble-creature
    Meditation and Rest, from International Journal of Stress Management, by this author
    www.scribd.com/doc/121345732/Relaxation-and-Muscular-Tension-A-bio-behavioristic-explanation
    Berridge Lab, University of Michigan sites.lsa.umich.edu/berridge-lab/

  • @damienbourgeois6929
    @damienbourgeois6929 5 років тому

    Great content ! Thank you for the good work ! 👌🔥

    • @WarriorHabits
      @WarriorHabits  5 років тому

      thanks Damien, appreciate the comment!

  • @BartMamzer
    @BartMamzer 6 років тому

    Great videos man, good presentation, awesome topic choice, maybe a bit lengthy for some people, but I don't have anything against that.

    • @WarriorHabits
      @WarriorHabits  6 років тому +1

      Cheers Bart, I appreciate the validation :)

  • @synyster_gaitas
    @synyster_gaitas 4 роки тому

    Where is the link in the description about the previous video that we should watch first?

  • @Userr18362
    @Userr18362 5 років тому +1

    Why did you stop making vids? haven’t seen a new one in so long

  • @nikolinauvjek6722
    @nikolinauvjek6722 6 років тому +1

    New to your channel
    💙

  • @lastcliff
    @lastcliff 4 роки тому +1

    where r u dude

  • @danashannon8234
    @danashannon8234 4 роки тому

    Don't know how to do this with ptsd

  • @ilovehelldivers5317
    @ilovehelldivers5317 4 роки тому +4

    15:10 ah yes the holy american solution

  • @angrybird26999
    @angrybird26999 5 років тому +1

    come from 10fastfingers.com